Surfshark moment

Please do more ghost and bigfoot videos. I can't stand all these politically correct etc. Videos... It's driving me crazy.......

Surfshark VPN is shit compared to the other VPNs that are out there. please do some research before taking up a VPN, because youre basically giving them all your data.

Isaac, what the fuck is this? , I thought I was fucked up ,

That's the thing, why don't you hear these issues in the middle east, the Africas and most Asian countries about the obsession of trans families and pronouns. But if its mostly in the US then let them have it as long as they don't bring their whacky balony outside

"You are called crazy when the World Jumps of a cliff and you turn around."

@snoop Lachlan is Milak 2.0

This is why im happy with living in my "problematic backwards" 3rd world/developing country than a 1st world one where people make new issues for themselves for no reason

Who wants to do things the easy way?!?

Hard times crate hard people, hard people create easy times, easy times create soft people, soft people create hard times.

They only care about Image.

Right the hypocrisy is mind boggling. Lol

And way more labels. Used to be just 2.

that argument works both ways

@@cilstr Only if both directions are trying to avoid labels. Im not sure they are...

I'm actually kind of glad I don't have grandkids growing up around this kind of crap!

Hormone treatments are very scary 😳 I really don't understand why those people just don't accept themselves the way they are born. They are born either a male or a female. That's it and we cannot change that. That is wired up to our chromosomes. Everybody have a father and a mother. This is how biology works. For me is just as absurd as if someone would say they want to take a certain hormone that can remove the ability to see with their eyes, that will make them go blind, just because "I know inside me that I was not supposed to have those eyes" 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🙄😳

@@floverdevel There are people out there with "Body Integrity Identity Disorder" (BIID) who want to amputate their limbs because they don't feel "Complete" with extra limbs. As far as male / female / 96 genders, think about this: An archaeologist or a crime scene investigator finds a skeleton. How many gender choices do they have to identify it?

@@Jimmy-sb3fc I fear one day identifying the sex of a newborn will be considered transphobic

@@ocurimi It probably is already in places like California.

IT WON'T CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOREVER. No one is 'pumping chemicals' into trans/non binary children. You have to be 18 to get any kind of permanent surgery or to go on Testosterone or Estrogen. That is the age people are legally considered adults and are capable of making important decisions such as where/what to do for their future. No one is forcing children to go through with life altering surgeries and treatments just because they were born female and said to their parents "I am a boy"

@@thejintymyster6396 yes they are, what are you talking about? They are changing the law so any kid who "identifies" as a freaking dog can transition to one even without the consent of the parents. Wake up.

@@ardordeleonno medical professional would allow major medical care to happen to a child without some form of parental consent or input. You can't change how someone else identifies, you just learn to accept them and be proud that they can be who they truly are

@@thejintymyster6396 Tell that to the state of California. I'm pretty sure they're the state who allows children to transition without the parent's permission.

I agree

Yet there is no braincells going in to there science...

@@marcgentner1322 their*

Isn't that the essence of parenting? It's all about improvising

@@Tablixa No need for a autocorrect. We all understand what they were saying

@@esval3054 yeah yeah improving

this did crack me up

I live for these hilarious sarcastic comments 😆

Took 5 minutes to type a reply; you win the interwebs Kane

This is the best comment in this video, I don't even need to see the rest

Hahahhahahhhahahahahahahaha bro i cant stop laughing even my fingures are laughing

One hundred percent

It's not cruelty though, it's just raising them in a new way. The real cruelty towards children was corporal punishment being an acceptable parenting method and used by teachers in schools. That is more psychologically damaging

Yes it's outright child abuse

@@thejintymyster6396 How is it not cruel to steal a semi-normal life from your children? They have shoved their own personal agenda on top of their children. They have ostracized their children as well. It’s incredibly sad.

@@Corinabs agree

You weren't wrong for saying she was a girl.

That's going to be the world in a few more years, just wait.

Hay mum and dad great news I'm gay but bad news I'm a gay Conservative 😎😎🙏👊👊🤣🤣

When I told my mum that I was straight she was a bit disappointed because being lesbian is cheaper and less hassle.

@@GlasPthalocyanine dude... no sexuality is better than the other.

@@amethishi well maybe not "better" but I think my mum was making a sarcastic point about affordability. This was back in the day when being gay meant never having to plan a big wedding or the cost of having kids.

Bwahaha

I have a hairless cat

Lol good joke mate

Treu, but still this doesn't harm the kids, having a vegan cat is harmfull🤔but still it's pretty extreme...

@@livewithmanon6443 Yeah true it doesn't hurt you physically but mentally which is much worse.

As an American, it doesn’t make sense to me either lol. It doesn’t to a lot of us 😆

Dude they really don't. It has come to the point where they need to be their own problems to have a meaning in their lives. Funny Western world, but more sad than funny.

I agree this is first world problems.

Aye. Strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times, hard times create strong men. We're on the weak men creating hard times. The west is falling right now. We did too good of a job.

@@smithsmith1956 Maybe well recover? We've gone through some hard times. Like two once in a lifetime crisis in less than a decade. Also do you think the western countries will collapse or just go through a change?

Yep

A family of tiktok users is worse

It truly shows doesn’t it? Smh

A family of tumbler/Reddit users are worse

@@thotspecialforces1341 No that's the rank below it, remember twitter is cancelling republicans and not democrats for being homophobic🦍

So TRUE!

Yuuuup. Another Over woke sjw contradicting Thier own words and political standards while abusing Thier children's mental stability.

Hit the nail on the head

Pretty sure the kid chose non-binary for themselves. An identity that has existed in traditional cultures forever but has been wiped out by religious doctrine, forgetting that the bible even says that the non-binary gender is the closest to "god's image" than even man or woman.

@@jaegrant6441 Pretty sure your thinking of angels.

That’s why they’re homeschooling themselves! 🤪 - crazy right?

So according to you what is the best way to raise these kids? If we enforce gender roles it's bad because it can make the child feel bad and if we dont it will make them confused ...so what is it?

@@goriantheboi8044 you can acknowledge a child's gender without imposing strict gender roles on them? Telling your daughter she is a girl doesn't mean you also have to tell her she has to cook and clean and wait on a man hand and foot. You can tell your son he is a boy without also telling him he can't cry and he has to be this pillar of physical strength.

@@justanothername9055 hmm I guess you're right. Honestly I'm just tired of these two sides fighting. I'm personally gay and seeing all these comments about trans and nb is just heartbreaking, I thought we were more accepting than this, I guess not.

@@goriantheboi8044The world is a much more accepting place than it was 50 years ago.. Hell, even 20 years ago.. People can support those within the LGBTQ community but also disagree with things like this. It's the extreme end of the spectrum that people get worked up about. Raising kids in a world where even there own gender isn't stable isn't good. I was raised in a very chaotic, unstable environment and it was hard enough to figure out who I was. If someone had told me "hey, did you know you might not be a girl?" It probably would have been very detrimental because i was extremely subjective. I fully support adults making decisions about their bodies and their life. I cannot condone an adult projecting their own insecurities about their identity onto their child when it probably was never even a thought in that child's mind to question something like that. Just my two cents. I wish you the best and encourage you to take a step back from social media, or at least the comments. It's good to unplug and do things you enjoy and forget about the culture wars for a few days. Best wishes to you. ❤

@@goriantheboi8044 I should say *the majority of people*. I know there are just assholes out there who love to troll online.

Lmfao so sad

Yo. Underrated.

So true! 😬

Shit...

i have a friend thatb gave up their baby for adoption...yeah shes being raised by two men.

And they'll most likely do the exact same thing as their " parents "

Want to bet? I'll see you in 15 to 20 years to collect my winnings!

I feel like you was sarcastic

@@yamatokurusaki5790 he was

Assuming they even make it to adulthood..

😂😂

@Francesco Il Coglione well that would suit for the first reply

@Francesco Il Coglione "it's not a phase, _MOM"_

😁😁😁

what has the world come to when Ben Shapiro is the rebellion. lol

Yeah, I don't think they have the brain capacity to realize that tomboy doesn't equal lesbian or transgender

Yep I see it with my own kids, my 13 year old daughter grew up loving superheroes, boys clothes and boys toys now suddenly she’s the girliest girl who loves dresses, make up, dance/ballet and has crushes on a few male actors meanwhile my 11 year old daughter who grew up as the girliest girl who would were nothing but frilly dresses has gone in the complete opposite direction, prefers boy clothes, skating and hates anything girly, one thing is for sure and never changed though, they both have always been obsessed with dinosaurs and marvel

This is exactly what they aren't understanding. Liking traditionally boy or girl things doesn't mean that u are having a gender/orientationwhatever crisis. Iy just means you're human and have your own history and interests

Great comment. I have a daughter like you. She changed from being a tomboy... kinda sad for her dad, but she'll grow and change as she wants regardless.

single loser here, but i approve of what you are doing. the happiness of your children should always come before political bullshit like this. they will experiment with things and learn who they are over time, so the best thing you can do is have their back every step of the way

Studies have been done. Boys will be boys, girls will be girls... unless brainwashed by this new culture. I'm sad thinking about it.

@@theoneandonlyowl3764 well there is some who are genuinely trans and non binary, but it’s rare, actually only 20% of the world is ACTUALLY lgbtq, now a lot of the kids on tiktok are supposedly lgbtq so the numbers rose up close to 50

@@kayleemoon._6045 Genuinely Trans! Genuinely Non-Binary! .... Hell No!.. it's called gender dysphoria.. in case you haven't heard of it..

@@heavymetal116 you got what I meant, there’s people who are born with the mindset that they are in the wrong body, or like the wrong people, but these days kids are being brainwashed and shit

Parents like these don't care if they mentally and emotionally mess up children if it's their own kids or other people's kids they just want to fill their woke genda and I know kid is spitting this out naturally they're only saying this it's because there's adults who believe in this woke propaganda that's feeding it to them they don't want to disappoint those adults it's wrong it's abuse

It is child abuse, plain and simple.

@@EvolvedParasite Just a bunch of sicko that should not have children and be brainwashing them.

I mean at least they love their kids instead of beating the crap out of their and starving them.

@@peepqueen4079 Really ? It's ok for you that the parents force those kids into a cult like lifestyle as long as they don't beat them ? Dude wtf is wrong with you ?

@@peepqueen4079 Aim higher.

It was actually G. K. Chesterton, but Sagan was a great man too

@@corzahazard444 The quote in its general modern context has been attributed to a slew of mental giants. It's earliest quote I could find in roughly this format may be "If you're too open-minded; your brains will fall out.“ - Lawrence Ferlinghetti American artist, writer and activist 1919. Other quotes being Prof. Walter Kotschnig who told Holyoke College students to keep their minds open-”but not so open that your brains fall out.” in 1940 and from Max Radin "[Practical gentlemen] have a number of bitterly sarcastical comments on persons whose minds are so open that their brains fall out."(1937). G. K. Chesterton was quoted with "I opened my intellect as I opened my mouth, in order to shut it again on something solid." 1909. "A mind so open that you can drive a four-mule team in and never touch the sides, as it were." in 1922. And "Whereas I am incurably convinced that the object of opening the mind, as of opening the mouth, is to shut it again on something solid." in 1936. I found many articles addressing the authorship of the quote but just as I ran out of interest and coffee I searched Richard Dawkins as he was the first person I can remember using it and found this list including more people. quotepark.com/quotes/1857657-richard-dawkins-pits-been-suggested-that-if-the-super-naturalis/

@@spasmmcspasm appreciate those mate

glad I am pursuing an academic route in psychology

@@sobek 😂😂😂💀

That expensive college will brainwash them to be woke and dumb, and thus the cycle of Idiocy roles on.

more like make sure their therapists go to therapy jesus

I am literial only bgoing to collegae asto only get my degree in science that the only reason am going and not because of the woke culture or the thousands debt you will get.

Here's the best part. Those peopel do not care about children. They want FAME. And they got it with those kids throwed under the train of this modern bullshit.

They only care about Image.

Imagine 10 years from today

no it's because you're old lol. as a 17 yr old, this makes absolute sense

@@claude2571 alright explain it than. You can't decide what gender you are, you're born either male or female.

Daughter: " I wanna be a Pony! " Parent: " Better. "

Daughter: Mother I identify as a bell AH-1Z Viper attack helicopter respect my pronouns or be struck down by my military might

@@noisy2555 Check mate, birthing person!

Girl : I identify as a Soviet Tupolev Tu-160 Disagree with me and suck my bombs

Exactly....

I thought so

This lockdown has certainly shown without a doubt the majority of society have mental problems BIG mental problems

@@tucker2074 yep

I agree brother👍👍

@@tucker2074 The mother of Hazel and Sparrow, already did a few TV/media stints - prior to the pandemic; when Sparrow was first born.

This guy gets it

Rejects ??? I think you're being kind

I don't think it's actually gender they are obsessed with. That's just the modern manifestation.

@Timothy Bellette Yep

BAM!🌈

They’re too stupid, too appreciate the irony of this. 🤣

Exactly right. Was it Shakespeare who said.. Methinks the lady do protesteth too much..... Or something like that.

I remember my mum saying as a baby I had no hair so she pierced my ears so people knew I was a girl lol People would want her jailed these days 😳

No in almost all cases people will get very angry still

@@bronminett4042 reminds me of the episode of Friends where Rachel and Ross were angry that Rachel’s sister pierced Ema’s ears so people would know she’s a girl

@@FruityHachi it’s crazy hey. Like I didn’t mind at all. I am a girl ,was and always will be. She said the doctor said I wouldn’t remember the pain either so she thought it was a great idea to do it early and I could take them out if I didn’t like them. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Meanwhile pictures of me in bright pink dresses as a baby did have me wondering how anyone could have thought I was a boy like maybe these days but 37 years ago... um not so much 😂🤣😂🤦🏼‍♀️

Well said!!!

Umm... Gender and sex are the same thing. Male/female... A male wearing a dress has not changed their gender... He is still a male

Exactly

EXACTLY! Call them what they were born as, UNTIL, (if at all) they tell you otherwise!

@@andyandy2498 No they're not! Living things do not have 'gender'! Inanimate objects do.

Thank you for the reminder! That Python skit was hysterical 🤣 Have to rewatch it!

See if the parents truly are like that then that’s where my problem lies, I’m fine with letting your kids discover who they are but don’t try and force them to be non-binary or transgender if they turn out cisgender.

@@NastyNas1608 don’t say cis just say normal gender

@@ovider6625 every gender is normal one is just more present in the overall population. Whether you like it or not cisgender is the term.

@@NastyNas1608 let me guess they made up the term didn’t they

@@ovider6625 pretty sure cis means a man born as a man or a woman born as a woman. It's just a shortcut from the other mouthful.

@NolanEP That's going to upset a lot of people, but I totally agree with you! Gender is an abstract concept, and the term was never used in reference to humans until about a hundred years ago, until then it was all about biological sex, which is real.

@NolanEP 99% of what they came up with is all fake. Pretty Simple.

i would bet money that this kid is saying that to please their parents without really understanding it.

@@icannotbeseen most certainly

I wouldn’t send my kid to a school where they learn the word “fuckin” from a mural before learning it from friends. Just saying 🙂

Hell the church denies womens spirit is women.

Haha yeah true, it’s easy to forget how different the world they grow up in is. I didn’t know the F-word before primary/elementary school.

I work at a school. I am going to start saying this to the kids every chance I get. Minus the fuckin part.

@@damson140 if your kids haven’t learned the F word before they go to elementary school, you dun fucked up. I’m not saying they should be using it, but they should have heard it by then. And you should have explained that some words, are not good words to use.

No they must be taught critical race theory at 10

@@mattbolz340 while they are still in the womb

I can imagine why.

I saw clips from that Transgender biography thing. The 4 year old boy told his mom that he's a boy in girl clothes and the mother angrily and as quietly as she could told him he's not

@@sufianramli8017 Jesus, that happened on tv?! And they got away with that?! The world is full of fools.

@@ethatsgoodwine5888 It was a documentary. All of it was recorded.....and yet the CPS won't move. Hell, i heard of several fathers getting JAILED because they wouldn't acknowledge the 'gender identities' of their kids

@@sufianramli8017 That Sad, well at least the whole thing hasn’t completely gone to shit and there are still some decent folk left in the world.

@@ethatsgoodwine5888 They know that they don't even make up 5% of the world. That's why they want your kids. The crazy thing is....even if they SOMEHOW get the society they want. It would die out in a generation or less. Why are they too blind to see it?

Transfobic probably, not racist

@@SeeNyuOG all cisgender heteronormative people are racist, right? SMH

Pretty sure the idea of withholding gender from a preschool aged child is so that they can have an open choice. There are also 2 women and one man there, so you'd think if one of the kids eventually chose woman, then 2 of the guardians will be supportive because they feel the same way.

@@jaegrant6441 I doubt they will be supportive if the little girl "chooses" to be a girl.

@@SeeNyuOG with liberals everything they don’t like is “racist.” The latest thing is the BMI scale is “racist.”

Soon, normal people will become the new Enclave, hunting mutants or vice versa. Scary bullshit.

@@berserker3108 where we hunt these people for fun 🙄

@@AussieVeteran71 And any other debatable reason yes.

It's an excuse HaliboX. I've had them too. Everything these days is an excuse for not living life and being happy... by a certain sector of society.

Yep I just did yesterday. And it literally meant nothing.

That amount of time down the line most of them will ether have killed themselves or gone back to being normal

This makes me want to cry and be angry. Everything you said is true.

Nah they won't, they have most rights these days, and most kids are growing up with this nonsense so are used to it..

@@smurfylee was going to say, by the time they get to high school, it'll be as normal as being straight male or female

Ok guy with a motorcycle helmet in their profile pic. If a kid is bullied at school thats not a failing of the parents or the kid. Its a failing of the kids bullying them, the parents of the bullies and the teachers for allowing that to go on. I don't agree with raising kids without pronouns either, but I do agree with supporting them and encouraging them to identify however they like. Butterfield seems to be under the impression that any trans person wants to make it legal to assist a child in transition at a young age. I can assure you most so not, and I don't think these parents would either.

I hate long and boring posts being chosen as the top comments but I like this comment a lot.. good work, you deserve to be one of the top comments

It is a sad fact that some may not have access to good psychiatrists. I used to have a psychiatrist that put me on antidepressants in the first 5 minutes of chatting with him. When it was obvious that my parents were making me depressed. The system for children is messed up. Damn. KZfaq deleted my previous comment.

Same for me!! My dad even sent me to dance classes to try and make me more 'feminine'. These young girls are seeing the fact that they don't want to get their nails done or wear makeup as they must be masculine. The ironic thing is they're actually saying in order to be a women or 'feel' like a women you must be extremely feminine, which is sexist!

@@jiminycricket6428 And extremely hypocritical, it's basically let's get rid of gender by hardcore defining gender, but gender doesn't exist, but it exists for us to fight against

I had the same problem. Totally relatable. 😞

I was the same exact way. I’m so glad I did not have parents like this. I would’ve been beyond fucking confused and fucked up. I feel so bad for them. It’s totally normally for some boys to be feminine and some girls masculine.. and it’s normal for it to change over time. According to them, that’s not ok or normal. Huh, it’s almost like they believe in strictly forcing gender stereotypes lol.

It usually only falls one way though with these feminazi women. Trans-girl/woman. They want a girl when they don't, the force their gender on the maile.

good one😉 I literally hear that feminist acting like a daddy in the video saying this😂🤣😂

I did see a Facebook video of a young boy who's mom thinks he's really a girl and treats him as such, but when he goes to dad's for visitation he says he is a boy. The mom is a pediatrician, even the kids older sister says he is a boy and wants to be a boy, he just doesn't want to make his mom sad

@@suzannekirkwood6392 oh wow that's insane, wonder why dad doesn't intervene?

@Timothy Bellette lol really? When and where?

@Timothy Bellette 😂😂🤡

Its actually worrying how psyches in the USA are departing science and falling into these political traps. My parter is a psychologist and was in a Facebook group for psychologists and she couldn't believe the questions they were asking their peers. The political pull is strong over there.

@@Scholzey Exactly right. Psychology is part of the system. The system is the problem.

I see a women with short hair. 2 little girls and two men dressed in drag.

The problem with "raising" children like that is that they will not be prepared for real life.

gender thing.. serious.. 😂😂😂

The real problem is that it shouldn't be serious, it should be a fact of life, him and her, boy or girl, man or women. WHAT YOU THINK YOU IDENTIFY AS IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR YOUR BIOLOGICAL SEX.

Very true. I feel so bad for those kids. A rough path in front of them until they know left from right.

That's why the girl is homeschooled, her parents don't want her to be in the real world. One day she will be wether her parents like it or not

Because it’s woke and woke is fashionable. Despicable.

Leftism.

It’s mental child abuse :(

The same way that the leftists get away with stealing, cheating and murder. The "justice" department is always on their side because they own/are/threaten them.

Because people are too scared to go against it for fear of being "transphobic" etc.

If you have to ask…

That’s so true! As someone who is transgender I agree with this.. I mean most kids are not even thinking about identifying as the opposite sex or as being neither male or female. I mean when I was 10 years old I didn’t know I was trans, I was literally just a kid and I only found out later on in my life as I matured.

Thank you! I'm also a woman (simply because I am), but that doesn't mean that I "identify" or feel like a woman 24/7. Most people feel like different things all the time, doesn't mean you have to create some complicated identity around that.

Seriously! The people who are against "gender norms" are the first to call someone trans or non binary if they don't fit into the stereotypical gender norms ... mind boggling ...

I completely agree. I feel like a human and not like a woman because I don’t know how a woman is supposed to feel. But I know that I’m a woman because I have a female body. But my body doesn’t define my mind.

Exactly! Remember when you could be a "Tom boy" and still live as a girl?

Genuine question, but what about the males? I always felt like women can be tomboy as they wanted, wear what they wanted and look however they wanted, but as the days goes by, men definitely couldn't wear dresses like they were in the past for example. Can't even play with dolls and even having a cooking/kitchen sets as a child because of, well idk the english, the standard about gender the society put them in, they can't express these and while just being a boy unlike girls. That's why I felt non-binary things is happening.

Same

Same here

Yep.

Me to it's so slack

The 2 years old is a boy, dressed and raised like a girl. The mother (that pretends to be the father) misspoke in a tv interview and addressed the newborn as "him"! If you watch more videos of this family, they made sure he's never ever dressed like a boy. The older child (girl) is pushed in the direction of the non-binary nonsense. You can be anything, sure, just don't be a male. Especially if you're white. Sickening!

@@SuperPeppi thats so disgusting. reminds me of that john/joan case... ended up in su1cide. ugh

@@SuperPeppi why can't you be a white Male, I'm a white Male, I'm not trying to start an argument just curious

@@mandyko Yeah... And thinking that THAT experiment is the basis of all this gender fluid movement... Who's gonna tell them what a spectacular failure it was?! And that it was, indeed, the proof that we aren't blank slates when it comes to gender?

@@celticlad5866 in today’s society straight white cis males are considered the utmost evil

It's sick and as a bi person yeah cool but treat your kids like a kid and not like some labor experiment I get it if a girl wants to play with a Dino figure why even give toys a gender but... Pushing that hard bs on kids wich don't really developed proper toughts is sick :/

@@Tsumeta Exactly. I don't understand giving toys gender either but even then so what if your girl wants to play with boy toys or your son likes this barbie doll. I loved cars as a child 20 years later and now I love girly clothes and cute fluffy things Just let kids play and be kids instead of pawns in their ideological games

Well said👏👍

@@Tsumeta Hearing ya well said 👍👏

@@kuroyuki6254 well said 👍 👏.luv ya work .

Respect

Straight up. gays, lesbians and bisexuals should have never been clumped into the same box as transgenders and "non binary" people. Being gay etc.. is your sexuality not your identity.

Yeah I’m bi and this is wild

I like you guys cuz you're not the ones who shove this agenda in our face, "we don't bother you if you don't bother us" - random internet user

Gay, lesbian, bi, thats it.

Yeah, i mean how the fuck did a 2 year old know that is non-binary or wtf

​@@jimmyhwang9687 a 2yr old doesnt even understand wtf that means. hell, grown adults dont understand what that means because its imaginary garbage. this is why the alphabet soup should not be allowed to raise kids.

@@iris657 that kid will have a really hard time growing, those " parent" really mess up at parenting

It's almost like some cult shit, with the brain Washing and all. Kinda like the Mormon church.

@Damian Barnard That's pretty savage dude!

Just introduce the concept of lgbtq+ to your kid in their teens and giude them to their decision on their opinion on whether or not their gay non binary although im a teenager so i have no idea whether thats good advice

lgbtq+ is starting to look like a religion man, they're forcing everyone else to follow their "rules"

@@cringe5393 im bi and i see your point and its a shame what some of the lgbt+ community on social media is making themselves and others in it look bad

Just don't give them a phone until they are in high school. Raise them like your parents did (if they did a good job) teach them that there are consequences for their actions. But most importantly, don't give them access to a phone until they're like 14 or something

I won't have kids because the kids of the future will be able to sue their parents for having conceived her/him.