Yep! That's the sum of the majority of the ones I ran across. Like talking to guys from middle school.

Yup that's it.

Phew. You said it all 🤣

You mean you don't like getting "hello beautiful" and "wyd" messages all day?

@@LostlikeNemo82 ... I know right. That is the favorites saying. Lol

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Amen!!

exactly

@Nelson Gil..I totally agree with you. I don't belong to any dating sites but when you live in a small town like myself, the pickings are slim to none.

So true. You also have to get to know them in various environments as well. The traditional way works.

I did!!

🙋🏽‍♀ I sure did girl never again...so so done with those, I will wait on God

I left them all alone about 5 yrs ago. I'm good. Most are married or full of bs. I was like this isn't for me Lord.

I’m making my way right now to my POF....let go and let GOD is all I can do.

I sure did 😂

Indeed.not everyone knows how to converse.... so it is good that you picked that up right away ...because at the end of the day how will we ever get to learn about the person if not through conversation ...be vigilant and pay attention .. be safe 💞

Omg yess I know what you mean.

@@tammerry9496 yes exhausting once I match with that person it’s like they don’t initiate the conversation I always have too

@GoldLoveee 😂🤣😅 so true

CONVERSE is the correct word to use. Conversate is Ebonics, NOT a real word!

I believe he has a dating over 50 video.

@@SoultanicalsTube Yes, I've watched it. 😀

Over 50. So true.

TG will tell you what applies to the youngins, applies to us more "mature" women..get out the house, do things you enjoy, network, talk to people and it will happen naturally and organically! Peace & Blessings✌

Wow sorry to hear this and congrats on being a badass and remaining positive and still believing in LOVE! Wishing you all the best ❤️

Thank you soooo much!!

@@gailpdesigns G Er dd

@@gailpdesigns Hi, your work is FIRST CLASS-way to go with the stitching details!

I’m going to follow “ rat now” in my Tony accent😂!

And whatever this man says is not gospel. Where did the men on the dating sites come from? Not from space but from the population of men.

Agree Serene👏👏 Online, grocery store, family friend, church it doesn't matter. You never know a person "fully." There's crazy people everywhere.

That's 100% right!!

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Background check is important.

The WHOLE video!! 🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely!

Yaaaasssssss he had me dying!!!😭😭😭

He really is a comedian

NASA😂😂😂

I agree with you

Well said Chris. 🙌🏾✨

Truth

So true, men have admitted to me that they use social media for dating... watch those inboxes ladies, there are sharks there too!

@@TlangiBaloyi 🙏👑💞

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Me too! 😂😂

Yup me too I just did right away, I'm so done with dating apps never again

Same about to do mine 👌

Best thing you can do, boo

@Euphora eup lol so tell me how you going to meet your soon to be husband? Where ya meeting people?

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Wowww. You really can’t make this stuff up. 😂

Wow 😳 lol just wow

This comment made my day 😩😂😂😂

Wow... your story will make any woman cancel all memberships. Haha

I am learning as well. Better late than never.

Majority of these men online have massive insecurities they seek validation from women, when you text them they will purposely take days if not week's to respond. There are actually good decent men online who are actually looking for something serious and it could work etc busy life which doesn't give them time to talk to people. So not all are bad , but majority on there are weird

@@LA-wv7gf Yes, that happens, a lot, both ways. I met someone who was an "engineer" trying to move into my place... what kind of craziness is that? They are also the ones that tend to try and pressure people into relationships... no sir, no ma'am! When we are out enjoying life and doing the things we love and meet someone, we can at least know we have something in common.

Glad you have enough self love and strength to know what you deserve and dont L and L. Wish you the best this year lovely lady 👍

Not everyone does online dating. Many people are still very adverse to the concept and meet people in their schools, workplaces, etc a lot more commonly than the latter.

I agree. A lot of men have profiles but they might not be active everyday. But most have them.

Indeed!

Still doesn't change the fact that online dating is trash

This is true, but meeting someone in person, I can tell right off bat a lot quicker that they’re going to be a waste of time. I’m less invested. It’s easier to sell someone a dream that you meet online. It sounds weird, but there is a difference IMO. I also think online dating gives people access to us who never should have stood a chance. I know they say the wider the net, the better, but not always.

Same, for TEN years

Sorry

Chica Rene I try match online for 30 days it nothing but attention and no friendly response. It burn me out in 2 weeks so that waste of time never again.

​@@jamesroberts7115 I got a lot of older white men there and that's not what I'm interested in at all.

Absolutely ME TOO!!!!

Hmmm, did they say why they felt you should get off? I don’t like online dating either. I’m curious to hear the views of men who aren’t into it.

@@msjreneful One of them told me if I was looking for a husband that I wasn't going to find him on a dating site. Looking back that was God using those men to let me know it wasn't for me.

*lip smack* "oh!"

HeyyMonie 😂😂😂😂😂 right?!

Exactly

Right although I've heard it from him many times however it still so funny 😂😂

Juanitacapri C everytime i hear it, it catches me off guard 😂

Yeah these men on the sites are full of games. How about in April a guy canceled a virtual date with me because I didn't send him nudes. Only talked to him a few days before he asked me that. I will never get online again I was bored in the pandemic

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He's too cowardly to approach a woman in real life.

They approach women in dating sites and in other places. It's a strategy to reach as many people as possible. Like a job advertisement, a company can put it online, on a local newspaper, can distribute some flyers, you can hear about it from a friend. SAME.

Some gals don't have much conversation as before (always on phone) it was better on dial-up. Lol

I stopped in my early 20s 😅

God bless you!!

Awww bless you hun, so sorry about that.

wow I am so sorry to hear this. Ladies please listen to this. Leave these sites alone. The potential for heartache is high meeting people on these sites.

I'm so sorry K Williams. Prayers of strength and comfort for you Lady!! 🙏🏾

Pray!

You are not lost my dear ... just lessons to be learned .... I was fortunate that as a young woman I listened to mom and my grandmom......I figured no need to go through what they went through...but everyone is different ... Tony sharing from a man's perspective is very important .... We have to hear it ..even when it is hard to hear ..and adjust accordingly.... stay the course and safe travels..💞

Sweetheart, you are not lost. Believe in yourself and continue listening to your HolySpirit. Wishing you many blessings 🙏

Honey you are a long way from being lost. You're thinking is on point! Keep your cookie in the jar. Many blessings to you.🙏🏾

Same here girl! Also almost 26.

Be careful what you speak into your life 😫 trust me.

😊

Thanks for the encouragement. It’s frustrating when I’m a good woman but there’s guys out there playing games. I will keep hope alive!!

Thanks but in this hard dating world it’s very sad to trust men and even in person they will play lie fake real love to damage your heart

Definitely

Crazies and perverts.

And closeted gay men

Wow😲

😂😂😂😂😂

😮

Most are looking for casual sexual encounters or a woman desperate enough to fund them. I stopped going on those sites years ago. They all come across the same way and want the same things which is sex.

Exactly! And with limited social ability trying to meet men in the grocery store is not working lol

@@mspinkdiva3 exactly it’s must harder

The pandemic isn’t forever. Patience is a virtue and I’ll wait for God’s timing!

@@SoultanicalsTube gotcha I beleive

I definitely feel this!!

Girl!😂😂

💯💯💯 or he's creepy

Married!!

Hilarious 😂😂😂

Right

I so needed to read your message

online OR OFF -- exactly. same rules apply. initial meeting takes place (online OR OFF) then talk on phone 1 hour daily until the 1st date in person, where you can meet up on a park bench & talk for a few hours and get to learn each other. either you'll both enjoy it & want to do it again & continue talking an hour a day in between dates, or not. the ONLY difference SHOULD be the initial WAY you met (online or in person). Otherwise, the rules shouldn't change one bit. the only purpose online dating sites Should serve is bringing that "match" to the person's attention. he should still approach you first. you need just as much discernment & live conversation in real time after meeting online as you do after meeting in person. With that, you can weed 'em out just as quickly if they're not the one. he can be just as slap-crazy & ready to hide your body in a box if he met you in person in the mall as he can if he met you online. be careful EITHER way. Discernment is just as CRUCIAL in-person as it is online. sadly, nowadays, most folks' sense of discernment, social skills & ability to carry on a decent, mature conversation is pretty horrific & the dating sites get blamed for it. ~ b.

Big Betty etc ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@prettypenne662 Yes lady, Big enough not to sell myself short out here. Not today, not tomorrow, not any longer If I had.

Hello don't do it I just met a 54 yr old dusty ass dude that still stay at home with his parents & is a habitual liar. Hard Pass

@@sophisticatedmm3632 🤣🤣thanks for sharing!

@@sophisticatedmm3632 😂

That part

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I criedddd🤣

@@Imani.. IKR!! I’m a Nurse I know for SURE there are catheterized players still trying to ply

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Oooookurrrt🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴

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I died laughing at that part🤣🤣🤣

I HOLLEREDDD❗😂😫😭🤣😭😂

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Great message Kris...

Some people can’t take the truth, they will argue with Jesus🤷‍♀️

U live in the bong shop

Swear lol

Yes, I've been saying it a lot lately as well😩🤣

Lol he has me saying broke busted and disgusted 😩🤣

Welcome to the blessed tribe family 🙂

@@CaramelKissez Thanks

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Man said he was a "RB" 🤣🤣😩

I’m dead he said defensive linemen.... I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣

😭😭😭same ☠️

And when Tony said he got cat-fished 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

Yezzzz

That would be great.

Play matchmaker? Hey why not?

Too many liars out here. I wouldn't want his name associated with these fools

He has a coaching web site affiliated with his name and it's an ndividuals responsibility to vet. Person can always change to another coach if they dont like them. It would be same with a meet and greet site It would be interesting to see how a dating website with the Tony Gaskins influence would be differant. It would be so unique in its approach and include his proven dating tips and relationship information If The Fathers will, it will happen, and Ill be first in line to sign up.

Ikr..😂

@Euphora eup if it Turkey probably yes. May be Italy. Otherwise only Arabs, Africans and Turks approach women here.

Dating app gives you the chance of having a pre-evaluation of the guy, 90% of them will show their crazy or true intentions in at least 2 days, many in the first line, you just don't entertain and unmatch. If a guy can hold a normal conversation and seems interesting and tries to move on for a meeting IRL in a public,safe place, that's all right, if he invites you to his place or any location of his special preference (usually next to him) then you don't go. Easy. Better meet a man in a safe and public environment where you can leave at any moment (choose an area you know well and have available transportation) than just entertain a potential creep. A woman met this guy on the train back home, they talked back and forth and he invited her for a dinner at some nearby restaurant, after building rapport he invited her to his place for drinks, but then he threatened her with a knife, beat her up and raped her. I guess she wouldn't think a guy commuting by train was a predator, well he was.

And you think that men you meet face to face in real life won’t just be interested in sex?

@@marzo-san Hello, what are your thoughts on Tony's advice in this video?

Facts

I know right lol

Unfortunately, some of them are being raised by single women who have watched how their mom dated.

@@Dr.Elaine1 that's true

Lmaooooo

Ted Bundy's nephew 😆😆😁😂😂