A guy asked me what I like to watch on KZfaq . I mentioned you Tony . He told me you don’t know what you are talking about and stopped talking to me . I glad you saved me from that one
@nikitatbain3 жыл бұрын
He's looking for a fool and Tony's daughters are not it lol.
@lasheikatucker45983 жыл бұрын
@@nikitatbain amen. He knew our sis was not about play with him or his games. Uncle Tony look out for us
@lauramapani36273 жыл бұрын
@@nikitatbain I like that... Tony's daughters 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@foreverolly88643 жыл бұрын
He watches Tony too lol
@Yna-u3g3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Dr.Elaine13 жыл бұрын
“Don’t be afraid to get the male opinion...One thing a man is always going to do, a man is going to tell you the truth about what he sees in another man.” TG
@asiaz2483 жыл бұрын
I always go to a male for an opinion about me lol
@annettesolomon13473 жыл бұрын
This right here Tuesday night bible study .. You spoke the whole truth in this video ,y'all ladies better listen I dodged a bullet,I ignored the signs and wanted to stay ,God saved me from a disaster that would have happened if I stayed. I was listening to you Tony the turning point was when I read A Wonan's Influence , I read that book twice because I needed it to get all the way in my spirit. I was doing the work, working on the 3 B's working on my brain first ,then my body and started my business and that's the best feeling ever you have truly changed my life personal and love life dating correct and all. You are truly a God send and inspiration to me. God bless you Tony and your beautiful family.❤
@Tatianarain3 жыл бұрын
As long as he has nothing to gain from you
@livinginpeace02053 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!!
@steph_steph8763 жыл бұрын
Facts....
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
Intuition is everything. I went out with a man a couple of years ago. He excused himself to use the bathroom. I had my back turned to the hallway. I turned around when I heard him coming and I kid you not, I saw nothing but evil and everything in me said run. I told him goodnight and blocked him immediately. Listen to your body ladies. Stay well and be blessed 💕
@AllThingsTiffanyTV3 жыл бұрын
Wowww Glad you followed your spirit
@paulinamagana75293 жыл бұрын
What if he was your husband and you were too hurt to notice the good in him. ?? Lol you didn’t say if he ever had done or you know of something he has done in the past for you to see that in him!?? Lol
@lisel.1333 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 40s now and looking back on all the tense body responses I got when dealing with certain men, I should've ran & blocked many times. Inexperienced ppl will always ignore the feelings because they don't TRUST their own judgment yet. They think they are the ones with the issue.
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
@@paulinamagana7529 I'm not sure if you were joking since you used lol but this was not a laughing matter. I wasn't too hurt, I wasn't hurting. It was a first date and it was only the second time I'd ever received such a strong warning in my life. I'm glad I listened to myself. Instincts...
@corlettecarter92053 жыл бұрын
@@reinaquisha9418 I was wondering the same thing. Let's be clear if that man was your "husband" then your spirit would not have sensed danger! Spiritual discernment is vital to any relationship! Continue to be blessed and encouraged always and thanks for sharing.
@Leaveit2_Vee3 жыл бұрын
Tony is right. There is always warning before destruction
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
AND GOD ALWAYS PROVIDES A WAY OF ESCAPE. 🙏💕🎶💯
@livinginpeace02053 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@tisha8123 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@c.ggraygray43893 жыл бұрын
That's right Valencia. We have to listen to our instincts God blessed us with, and pray , and we all need to ask the Lord to help us use discernment the best we can to make the right decisions. Amen. God bless you Valencia, and your family. Amen. I like your name. It's very unique, and pretty. 🤗
@siennamillerbroadcast3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@cardiac7113 жыл бұрын
It's better to be lonely than to be dead. 🙃 My sentiments exactly. Don't play with him. Recognize it as early as possible. 👀 Bad credit or funeral👏👏👏👏
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen you better believe because i been in couples abusive relationship I thank God gave me strength to leave
@mirandasmith85013 жыл бұрын
Intuition will never fail you. God gave us that for protection. I love love when Tony imitate females just hilarious😂😂😂😂
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
This is so true. My intuition has never failed me.
@Yna-u3g3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhh...😅
@luevondataylor62863 жыл бұрын
It is funny and it is true
@Godsonechild3 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@siennamillerbroadcast3 жыл бұрын
LOL IKR!?!?
@TheCrisNAnissa3 жыл бұрын
If you are lonely get a dog! They make the best companions for real. My dog comforts me just by cuddling with her. Better to have a loyal pet than a disrespectful man who dogs you out!
@celiazed74943 жыл бұрын
Well said! Thank you, I'll consider this option girl, for real! Better alone than dead, trust me!
@nikitatbain3 жыл бұрын
Amen I was choked, punch had food thrown at me and so much other stuff and had people telling me to stay and "pray for him to change" LEAVE LADIES LEAVE no matter what just leave!
@AllThingsTiffanyTV3 жыл бұрын
PERIODD
@xxkissmeketutxx3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I believe many scriptures like the whole concept of "turn the other cheek" and serving others with love is INCREDIBLY dangerous and create perfect victims. I'm glad you're safe now x
@MichElle-py8lk3 жыл бұрын
Why would anyone say stay with a guy like that 😭😱
@shegotstandards3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! LEAVE!
@ritaclement85293 жыл бұрын
Pray from a distance
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad3 жыл бұрын
Grown boys act first & think later
@tiarachiffon81313 жыл бұрын
yes, for sure.
@Themoneymindsetqueen3 жыл бұрын
After watching this it’s best to stay single lol 😂
@tuneaparks95293 жыл бұрын
Especially since he said they don't care about the Black Woman and we see signs of that on u-tube. Let go and let GOD. When the time is right he will bring you the right one
@remainhumble66543 жыл бұрын
I agree
@phinolanurse80593 жыл бұрын
You ain't lying 🤥
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
You ain’t never lied!!!!!
@SittingPRETTY7273 жыл бұрын
You better lol
@SimplyFitwithJay3 жыл бұрын
This video is going to save someone’s life.
@siennamillerbroadcast3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@winner.7773 жыл бұрын
For sure.
@zubieM3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@jshavon89243 жыл бұрын
Man listen someone screaming at me a little too hard and I'm out. ✌🏾 I've been through this before first it starts with the screaming and disrespect next thing you know you'll be getting hit upside your head. I almost died. Run at the first sign. Choose self respect over a relationship.
@AllThingsTiffanyTV3 жыл бұрын
Okayyyyy. Same here. Never again have i experienced it after i learned my lesson
@BreeziDeezi3 жыл бұрын
Amen sis. My ex was so distant i felt like this type of outburst could’ve happened any moment. GOT TA GO!
@user-pn6qh7nk5q3 жыл бұрын
Left after the shouting screaming swearing and disrespect. Got te go!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Wow that's good got out because so many don't make it no one not worth you staying putting up with that craziness don't care if he was a billionaire
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen men's or should say men's act like boy's are not mature mentally ,and spiritually and.emotionally either if God don't. delivery them its wont happen but it's frist start with them admitting that they need help that's pride when can't
@denisedean85033 жыл бұрын
Intuition is real.
@keisharianderson60973 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾😇
@missybella90463 жыл бұрын
My ex came off as a high value man. Educated, handsome, well dressed, responsible, decorous and upheld by his family, friends and community. Months in during discussions if I'd question his credibility he'd get infuriated. He began with poking in between the collar bone. Then looking down at me literally during arguments. This stopped eventually. My dumbass stayed for I loved him and thought I was at fault thinking i "provoked him". In our last argument he threatened my life, my home and job. Asking me how I'd like to die in a calm tone. He went as far to threaten my son's life. I just stayed quiet with God's strength and he left my home calmly. You never know with people. The one's that appear to be too good to be true is because they are.
@go_off_Sis3 жыл бұрын
Disney movies and fairy tales led us to these trauma bonds with these sociopaths
@shan41453 жыл бұрын
My ex would say” do you want me to blow up your house ? So answer your phone “
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
@@shan4145 😳
@ritaholder76733 жыл бұрын
Yes, my ex was the same. I had to have that phone at all times. Even in the bathroom.
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you made it out of that situation alive.
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
Ladies, heed what Tony is saying about the "law" because it's 100% true. The law does not care about women. I had to go to court because my ex kept stalking and harassing me, so I filed a restraining order and the judge asked me in court "ma'am are you doing this out of bitterness?" When I tell you, it took everything I had inside of me to hold my composure. I wanted to scream. This man had harassed me at my job, harassed my family members, harassed my close friend, and threatened to harm me and yet the question was: Oh, are you bitter? That was a lesson I will never forget. If you are in a toxic relationship, leave while you still can.
@lizzylewis57933 жыл бұрын
Please listen to Tony before its too late. If you are in an abusive relationship never let them know when you are leaving because thats the most dangerous time. Leave when they are at work, have a secret getaway bag packed with your essentials, and never look back. I been through this and it was no joke. I changed jobs, changed where I lived, even changed the car I drove so that I could be safe. I have never been more at peace and you can too, God Bless🙏
@kindacuter3 жыл бұрын
I better NOT have to change my whole life just to get away from a guy! But I don't and won't act like I know it all when I have never been though it. I feel you though girl. Move if necessary though. Get to your place of solitude.
@patriciawilliams55193 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna say what I know 100% to do and don't over think it!! Run, leave, quickly plan and execute your exit we without any except your purse and the clothes on your back!!!! Things, stuff can be replenished, restored, purchased again but not your life!! Breathe!! God gives it and he takes it not a grown boy!!!! I have a family member who was the worst date you could've picked. He's aged now. But the point is when we recognize something wrong; mental illness; control! Run, don't argue! The enemy is plotting your demise, don't assist him!! If arguing make it the last argument before a swift exit. I too realize, recognize these present day demons are on assignment to close the curtain on our stage of life! Be wise, praying always, watch spiritually! God has your back. Trust Him. Listen to his voice only at the end of the day 😇👑😇⚓
@elizabethschilling71783 жыл бұрын
It's better to be lonely than to be dead. Amen!! 👏🙏❤
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen because your life is precious
@AL-yg3kv3 жыл бұрын
That's true it's better be lonely than have someone who doesn't respect you.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen because that's not love these types men's don't even love themselves
@blacksongbird1003 жыл бұрын
I just dated a guy a few months ago who "felt" like a ticking bomb. AND this man ALWAYS carried a gun. I didn't know what was going on with him but my intuition told me to RUN!! This man came up with an excuse to attempt to move in but it didn't work. I listened to the Holy Spirit and my intuition and broke it off!! So glad I did.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Thank God he always give a way to escape but its up to us take it
@intentionalgreatness3 жыл бұрын
Part of the issue is that women think they need to FIX..so they stay trying to fix! The benefit of the doubt you give him is not the same benefit of the doubt he will give you!
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. We don't get that same benefit from men.
@jnt69283 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@hotmama31723 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I use to do this and I know so much better now
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
Recognize crazy early-TG
@Empressshorts3 жыл бұрын
Yass and that’s facts!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
One thing noticed these types men's cant hide it for long ots show up sooner or later and you going have make get way
@lsmith67183 жыл бұрын
It’s not like Tony hasn’t told us before - “Recognize Crazy Early”-TG. Thank you for all that you do. Some of us would be clueless without you 🙏.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Yes thats true but some of us including my self at time wanted weigh out see if might change but thank God also made it out safe
@jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын
I had people tell me, I was too cautious about letting people into my life. With so much dysfunction & mistreatment going on, I'm going to continue to be extra leary of who I choose to deal with.🧐
@trueabby11623 жыл бұрын
You have to be that way. I'm the same way, especially having a four year old daughter (single mom)
@jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын
@@trueabby1162 You're doing right. Respect & kindness are in short supply these days. No, we cannot allow ourselves to be anyone's target practice. Peace & blessings to you & your daughter.🙏🏽
@Ms.Haleyy3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@user-pn6qh7nk5q3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Put yourself first... always!
@tanikawashington82463 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tiffanyanderson81713 жыл бұрын
I wish I would have seen a video like this 20 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of pain.
@Iamcherese3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
DON'T LOOK BACK AND WISH U WOULD'VE SISTA QUEEN. WOULD U HAVE BEEN READY TO RECEIVE THIS MESSAGE 20 YEARS AGO? I BELIEVE GOD MEANT FOR U TO HEAR IT EXACTLY WHEN U DID. 🙂UR EXPERIENCES HAVE MADE U RECEPTIVE TO IT AND NOW U CAN HELP SOMEBODY ELSE. GOD BLESS! 🙏💕🎶💯
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen sister you better preach I said same thing i was young and stupid but better learn now than never wouldn't dare settle just have a man
@gabbyquigley3 жыл бұрын
I pray that whoever needed to hear this gets out safely! You hearing Tony's message is not a coincidence. God's warning you.🙏🏾
@babigreene34383 жыл бұрын
This is a sign from God to me. It’s a long story but thank you Mr.Gaskins!
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
Girl, Do what you got to do?
@linnette50563 жыл бұрын
Move safe
@lunamoon75393 жыл бұрын
"It's better to be lonely than to be dead." Yes, thank you Tony.
@Yna-u3g3 жыл бұрын
Due to my resentment towards bullying, an aggressive man would not last with me. An aggressive or domestically violent dude brings out the beast that lies dormant in me as a self-defense mechanism and it gets so ugly that once an aggressive dude filed a restraining order against ME after a he threat against ME and found he couldn't bully me. Now, I don't know if that was to have the reverse effect in case he wanted to retaliate against how I responded to his threat, but either way, I get far away from them with or without the law involved. I always treat people with respect, but, for some reason aggressive dudes bring out the worst in me and that's not a good match!! Good talk, Tony!
@user-ue5xi5jw7q3 жыл бұрын
How did u react that made him get a restraining order. I need to learn your ways! Lol
@nikkyshamz26963 жыл бұрын
Ditto sis, ditto!!!! I dont suffer fools gladly.
@Synquette3 жыл бұрын
“ The man in him don’t bring the woman out of you” whew a word! Had to replay that twice. Now I have to transfer it to my “Tony quotes” memo pad in my phone 😂 extra I know but gotta reflect on this wisdom
@Wealthybaby3 жыл бұрын
“Gone bout your business” is a movement/message. my mom use to say this when I was doing something stupid and it always meant, “you doing some stupid now, but here’s your warning to get back on track before destruction (or whooping lol)
@roxannecrowder20073 жыл бұрын
Tony you said a mouthful. I have seen this first hand. These type of men are not to be played with. Please ladies don't stay in these types of relationships. You deserve so much better treatment. Whatever you got to do to leave do it quickly and go.
@veelove22263 жыл бұрын
Tony kept it so 💯 when he said a man will not be afraid to tell you what he see, my brother in law kept everything 💯 everytime I asked him anything about a man! he even told me walk away! Thank God! That’s real Tony is right! Whew wee Tony speaking on it! TG been on a roll! Recognize the signs! Yes these men out here not playing wit us!
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
Yep my stepfather is the same way!
@yolamayo26893 жыл бұрын
This is a powerful message ladies.... and it’s very true the longer you stay the worst it gets.... I left my estranged husband about three times before I finally got away although he never hit me he did choke me unconscious that was the first year of marriage he has pushed me he has dragged me down the steps he has threw a broom pass my head and told me he had me trained....and I finally left after nine horrible years.... ladies get out now!👍🏽😊
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
That's a powerful testimony that you should share with other victims! Glad you made it out safe!
@yolamayo26893 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- thank you 😊
@a_w36993 жыл бұрын
😢
@nikkyshamz26963 жыл бұрын
Whoa, after that first year of choking unconscious 💨💨💨💨
@GODZKRE8TION3 жыл бұрын
When he said you got to sleep like dis! -_ 0
@ericajanellelifecoaching3 жыл бұрын
Such a true message. I’ve been through it. He is telling the truth. Ladies please pay attention to the signs! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Anen me to vaule my life that's why won't settle again
@cardiac7113 жыл бұрын
16:59 broke my whole being. To hear that made me just sad sad. I remember when I was 19 my co-manager was in an abusive relationship. She would come to work bruised. She called in a lot. The head manager was so insensitive. I didn't really understand the situation and couldn't process it. But listening to Tony brought that memory back. Her BF was kind when he dropped by the store. 😔
@elicore.biz813 жыл бұрын
A person with emotional intelligence is able to effectively communicate when upset. Silent treatments, lashing out, yelling, cursing, speaking and acting in such a way that is combative, are just some of the many clues that a person is unstable and dangerous. As Tony said a long time ago about giving people chances....when they mess up, 1st offsense is a mistake, 2nd time is a habit, third time is disrespect. We must think about consequences before they happen in order to avoid them.
@conniegunner54403 жыл бұрын
I’ve come to realize that I like a man who can be open with his feelings and his thoughts. I feel super impressed and attracted to someone who can express themself in a nice direct and patient manner. The older I get the more I want companionship over anything.
@michelleluciusblackbeautytv3 жыл бұрын
I met him in January he put hands on me in May!!! I was done with him!! He is right about leave the 1st time. He called my phone 📱 30x I new I had to walk away.
@RoseMon3yy2 жыл бұрын
Same
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏...good....it happen to me....I had that bastard locked up....now he doing 45yrs for murder....glad I left 😱
@mzlove41213 жыл бұрын
WHAT is there to "dislike" about this video?!? 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ I just don't know... 🤔 Maybe somebody was "triggered". I'm befuddled and bewildered! Lol
@steph_steph8763 жыл бұрын
Maybe....
@nikkyshamz26963 жыл бұрын
Pay them no mind.
@IceyIcey20233 жыл бұрын
Mine was the “Super Fake” type an Online date yall and a gun owner he kept it in his pocket! I am still shell shocked after a YEAR I caught him rummaging for his gun in the middle of the night. He was definitely plotting because my gut told me. I finally had paid for him to leave almost a month later. Background check people please. Turned out he was a squatter and had court cases of not leaving peoples homes. 😳 What had happened is I invited him over for Thanksgiving and he wouldn't leave...said he was in luv etc lawdy😥
@Wavy-Waves3 жыл бұрын
😳 Glad you made it out safely.❤️
@melodieshekia3 жыл бұрын
😬
@keisharianderson60973 жыл бұрын
What Is A Squatter? Just Asking, Not Familiar With That Term🤔????
@IceyIcey20233 жыл бұрын
@@keisharianderson6097 Great question! It's a person that comes to your home and won't leave...then you have to literally go to court and evict them as if they are a tennant. It's crazy and the law varies by state. Squatting is an old times term for a person sitting and not moving also trashing your house and not bathing/cleaning. After he was gone I did a court record search and found he did it 3times to others. I couldn't believe it. He kept saying he was trying to find a place to stay.
@keisharianderson60973 жыл бұрын
@@IceyIcey2023 WoW😳😲😳, It's A Blessing You Got Out Of That Situation 🙏🏾👍🏾😇, I Will Avoid Men Like That and Sometimes It Doesn't Hurt To Do A Back Ground Check👍🏾,Thanks😇
@Empressshorts3 жыл бұрын
The lord made me click on this video before I even read the title. I know this for me✨💕
@queenb52143 жыл бұрын
I am a former counselor to battered women, I agree 100% with EVERYTHING Tony said. Ladies pay attention and Save your own life!!
@lightslim20743 жыл бұрын
This man is giving so much knowledge! Listen! Stop having selective hearing! You know what happens when you don’t hear, you feel!
@helenlovell85873 жыл бұрын
Women choose you're LIFE over LOVE🙏🙏
@catherinesowers46153 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the truth... It is so much mess out here..
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Yes but we as woman's must make better choices that's waiting on God not give into flesh
@Berryashxo3 жыл бұрын
Tony, this is the truth. Intuition truly is real and it protected me recently. Everything in my body and heart said to go!! I had just met this man too! Tried to love bomb to conceal the crazy 😳Blessings to you and your messages 🙏🏼
@chickwitthagoodies3 жыл бұрын
Same here I only knew him for 4 days I blocked him on everything he's still trying to contact me
@lasheikatucker45983 жыл бұрын
@@chickwitthagoodies omg in 4 days he already showed his crazy behavior. These men are something else
@RoseBud-ss1xp3 жыл бұрын
I have alot of respect for u Tony cause I know females come to u with life threatening circumstances and that has to be hard on u cause with the heart u have I know some nights u probably go to sleep worrying if they're gonna be alive the next day and if u said all the right things to get them to leave the situation etc...U are truly heaven sent and a BLESSING TO MANY WOMEN out there that need these words of wisdom you so elequantly speak in order for them to heal, grow and leave abusive relationships! I appreciate you Tony! Keep up the good work!!
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
Amen. God bless you sis. Stay well 💕
@RoseBud-ss1xp3 жыл бұрын
@@reinaquisha9418 You too sis! God Bless You and Yours!!
@leibysferrera65043 жыл бұрын
So true! We got keep Tony in our Prayers ladies 🙏🏾
@csimms77663 жыл бұрын
Enough of “For my man” and “Fatal Attraction” will keep a woman single for a Long time.
@lasheikatucker45983 жыл бұрын
Exactly but you have to pray and ask God reveal his true intentions and if he not right please remove him and watch God work
@csimms77663 жыл бұрын
@@lasheikatucker4598 I definitely Agree
@MichElle-py8lk3 жыл бұрын
c simms agree with your statement completely!!!
@csimms77663 жыл бұрын
@@MichElle-py8lk I think I’ll be content where I’m at. Single and a Peace
@MichElle-py8lk3 жыл бұрын
@@csimms7766 Amen!
@mskimlouise3 жыл бұрын
So true. I was starting to get involved with a man and another man, whom I respected, told me not to get involved with that guy. Did I listen? No. I got used. It took me a while to wake up. But, I finally did.
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned...Silver lining is that you now know a man that is honest enough to help you discern the grown boys from the grown men....
@mskimlouise3 жыл бұрын
@@chrissy1448 Amen.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ewomick3 жыл бұрын
"If you talk to this man like he is cinderella.. Gone about yo business." This had me gone. LOL
@shan41453 жыл бұрын
Tony is right! There were warnings signs but I brushed it away. Swearing on text because I didn’t answer his calls. Grab and squeeze the back of my neck kind of hard when I was talking to a guy I knew and my ex felt I disrespected him. Later on call me names and back hand me and punch my stomach. Choke me on the bed and I thought I was going to die cause I couldn’t breath . I’m glad I had the strength to leave.
@khocolateable3 жыл бұрын
So many women have been killed by the hands of a man ..😰
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
That's true but we ad woman's must regonize craziness
@prettybrowz18163 жыл бұрын
I wish and pray that more men would get counseling and listen to self help videos. We as women are always the ones trying to better ourselves...I love Tony G and his advice...it hit hard sometimes but it helps me..I just want our men to want to do and be better 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lerandabrewer39233 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Tony. Praying for all the women and men out there in toxic situations 🙏 Heavenly Father please show them the way to freedom and give them the strengthen and peace to make the right decision.
@TINAVTATUM3 жыл бұрын
AMEN in JESUS name!
@starznmyeyez89063 жыл бұрын
In the name of Jesus. Amen.
@tiareahjakes38303 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins you’re a legend man. You’re helping so many people beyond what you realize break generational curses. I’m grateful to witness what God is doing through you.
@takeauthority303 жыл бұрын
So grateful God kept me....so much truth ladies, praying these Words pierce your soul and you get out safety. Please listen and don't play with your life. God loves you enough to speak so clearly to you. He will provide and make your way . He did it for me ....Trust Him to do it for you. 🕊
@starznmyeyez89063 жыл бұрын
Definitely true wisdom. I know about the hairs on the back of my neck rising up. The guy's very first blow up was punching holes in my wall and backing me into a corner trying to choke me. That's all it took. I knew if I stayed in that situation I would be dead or he would be. I just could not take a beating when I had only been good to him. I simply said "No" to his latest business scheme. I told him to show me he could be a provider without my money, car or credit. He blew all the way up. God knows I don't ever want to take anyone's life nor die before my time. But for God, one of us would not be here today. It doesn't matter the age either. I am over 45 years old. I halfway thought he was my last chance. I settled for way less than I deserved. Fear of loneliness can make you do that. He was an angry, dysfunctional, weak and insecure male inside but on the surface super over the top nice, romantic and calm for almost a year. Red flag...almost to good to be true type. He was one of the types Tony spoke on. Listen to Tony both young and mature ladies and recognize when it's time to go...then no matter what, you GOTTA GO!!!
@tonyalbert69403 жыл бұрын
“Fragile masculinity.” Excellent terminology, Mr. Gaskins. Just excellent.
@AshleyAnessa3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this whole video was an expanded version of our phone call. Lol. I fluctuate between lonely and empowered. My brain feels free. I can't wait until the lonely turns into happy to be alone.
@tinathomas15253 жыл бұрын
I'm new to your channel I subscribe immediately. I wish I would have ran across your page a LONG time ago.. Now I think I'm addicted to hearing the knowledge and wisdom about men coming from another man.
@nataliaorsag12113 жыл бұрын
I remember when my relationships with an abusive grown boy was in the kinda last phase, after 5 years, I always felt death when I was next to him. I dont understand how to explain it more clear, but I felt like I’m dead already when he was around. It was very strange and I never felt this way before or after that period and next to that grownboy. So, the longer it lasted, the worse it became just like Tony described, and then that feeling of death. That feeling was pushing me away from him. Then just occasionally found a video of Tony... God sent. Healing now. God bless you, Tony.
@missmarya7473 жыл бұрын
Only by the Grace of God , he has kept me. Has provided a way of escape. Thank God i left and moved to another state in Feb 2020.
@Ms.Haleyy3 жыл бұрын
A lot, if not most, of us need to watch this ten times over. Powerful message TG, thank you 🙏🏾
@Ms.Haleyy3 жыл бұрын
At 8:43 all women need to rehearse that if we’re in a toxic situation. WITHOUT attitude & in a respectful and nonchalant manner. Draw the line ladies. I wish I would have heard this YEARS agO... js
@mariahjackson86073 жыл бұрын
Definitely my big brother. Wish I found you sooner, glad I have you now 🙏🏾
@amiralove3423 жыл бұрын
I was just telling myself “Tony need to drop a new video” then boom!😂 God bless you❤️
@amiragreen25773 жыл бұрын
This subject was much needed
@aquarislov793 жыл бұрын
You the only man I watch these videos onnnnn.. cause all these ego driven men videos mannnnnn🙏🏾💜🌞appreciating authenticy!!!
@kalhencoaching3 жыл бұрын
Love this message Tony. Never be afraid to leave and start again. Starting over is often much better.
@bridgethampton39323 жыл бұрын
Great on time message once again, with This month of October being the month of Domestic Violence awareness💯
@taga80063 жыл бұрын
Going to codependents anonymous and doing good! Ladies, don't be afraid to get help you need! Tony, thank you, once I started listening to you, I knew my thinking is going to change! God bless you and all your family! 🙏🙏🙏
@ladyb37963 жыл бұрын
Didn’t know there was such a thing. Thanks.
@Loyaltyisalifestyle3 жыл бұрын
“Play Uno because the next card will be reverse” 🎯
@Sarah-tk1py3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for teaching us how to deal with some of these guys
@crystalmarcia26143 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your consistent words of wisdom ✊🏽🙌🏾‼️ God Bless You Tony 🙏🏾
@josie29193 жыл бұрын
I had to become a member and get my badge cause babyyyyyy this man right here, is the truth!
@GenZutuber3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for being honest as possible with as women. Been a year since I left my ex-husband with my son and haven’t looked back. I had my family and the cops as my support who kept telling me to leave because they can see through him. I remember one cop drove me back to our house as a standby to help me move some of my stuff just and just in case he causes another issue. Sometimes God sends people to intervene but it’s up to us if we choose to listen. Experiences in life are supposed to make us grow and not turn us into dummies. One hit causes one wonder and one chain reaction.
@hymnodyhands3 жыл бұрын
This is the REALEST message on this topic EVER... be blessed for putting out this life-saving truth!
@tamikamcdaniel41613 жыл бұрын
Yes, My ex would always cater to his male friends and once they left the house he would talk bad about them and also become angry with me for no reason. I was like why invite these guys over if you can't stand them? He would say I use them for connections. SMH
@alexabee25623 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony, sometimes we don't have the male perspective from lack of men in our lives. Thank you for giving us that
@ladyt96183 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much! Your advice means EVERYTHING to me. Us women need to be aware of this message. This topic needs to be talked about so much more. This is why I’m okay with being single and allowing God to bring the right man into my life. Thank you Tony!
@jideofor263 жыл бұрын
TG is ON POINT with this one!! Trust your gut instinct ladies. It will never let you down. The problem is lots of women ignore it thinking it will all be fine until it isn't. Intuition is your guidance system so never ignore it 💛 A fan listening from England, UK. TG bless you and your wonderful family. Amazing advice and insight!!
@gio34343 жыл бұрын
Tony is the brother i always wanted. Cos my brother don't even care. Thank you Tony. God give you more wisdom&knowledge!
@missunderstood37213 жыл бұрын
This bro has truly helped me along with God n my kids walk out this situation. I petition for divorce soon nov 12 pls keep us in prayer! I followed these videos they have and are still the only thing keeping me grounded. I laugh n cry so much Bro my kids and I thank you.
@lindarose35473 жыл бұрын
Bless you and your babies ❤
@tiffanyjohnson42713 жыл бұрын
You are so right Tony! When we see the signs we have to listen..Thanks for you advice..People are crazy!
@cokeef73093 жыл бұрын
This is very powerful and I pray all women watch this
@arealcutie4143 жыл бұрын
Don’t be afraid to get the male opinion...One thing a man is always going to do, a man is going to tell you the truth about what he sees in another man.” When seeking a male opinion, we still must be careful as women. We have to make sure the person we are confiding in isn't trying to sleep with us himself or telling us what we want to hear for his own benefit. A man maybe telling you truths about another man but is it genuine? Is there a motive behind his actions? One thing about a woman, we see the signs - we just ignore those red flags. It's always better to seek counseling from someone who doesn't know you or your partner. Some of the same men who are trying to counsel women are the main ones they need to pay attention to. I have found by research that many of them have histories of domestic violence against women themselves. People are capable of anything, it doesn't matter who they are, who they say they are or who you think they are, HUMAN BEINGS ARE CAPABLE OF ANYTHING.
@agnespoku49933 жыл бұрын
Reporting for class!
@ClaraCouturexo3 жыл бұрын
This is very accurate! The grown boy I was with did all these things, and his MOM! His own mom told me that it’ll fade away, it was a phase and he won’t do anything and if he did he would have already! Wild to ever think about now
@fonda77603 жыл бұрын
If anyone has a family member or knows women who are deaf or hard of hearing, please get this message to them via an interpreter. As a former volunteer with a justice agency advocating for domestic / sexual violence whose clients were members of the Deaf Culture, the stories of lives lost is heart wrenching. Thank you Tony for this message. It needs to be repeated in the hearing and Deaf communities.
@kayhawkins59253 жыл бұрын
Never let a man move in with you even if he becomes homeless. Once in your home almost impossible to get rid of him. Never let him know where you live or go to his place especially early on. Meet his family and friends before you visit his home or be alone with him. This way you know he is not married if you meet his family and friends. Take it slow.
@shaybear97143 жыл бұрын
Even with all those precautions, they can still be crazy.. in my case, I knew a guy for a year. We met at a mutual friends get together. I met his mom and sisters. He would be what people would consider a high value man. Very good job( VP of IT at a prestigious bank) own house, good looking, ambitious, very smart( valedictorian in college). On our third “date” he ended up strangling me because he said I lied to him smh, which I didn’t. I never saw any indication of this behavior before. After that day, I never spoke to him again. Some of these guys are good at hiding that crazy gene.
@cherryelisa3 жыл бұрын
My friend has it ten times worse than me, but she appears blind to it all. Wake up women! Do not tolerate aggression.
@innerchildcrafty34Ай бұрын
That’s right, the body never lies. If you have anxiety around that person, RUN!!!
@Godsonechild3 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate... As women we need to stop thinking that these men won't seriously harm. One time is enough...keep it moving
@jalisaspeaks95113 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂!!!!! 14:42-15:03 that was so cringe worthy but it was funny as all get out!!!!! Thank you Tony for being a big brother in Christ and being authentic. Preciate it!!!!! Alllllllrigh 😀🤣
@radhikaraj73943 жыл бұрын
LMAO I was cracking up !!!
@jalisaspeaks95113 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂
@radhikaraj73943 жыл бұрын
@@jalisaspeaks9511 how about when he imitates a woman "OOOOOOOOH"
@jalisaspeaks95113 жыл бұрын
@@radhikaraj7394 lol girl don’t even get me started on that part , he is just too funny 😂 every time he starts doing those imitations I have to look,
@blacksongbird1003 жыл бұрын
I just got to that part. Hollered!!! 😂😂😂
@cr6253 жыл бұрын
Tony is the brother I wish I would of had to give me the truth and to have reduced my heartache. I adopt Tony as my bro now, way later in life!😁Thank You, Tony for opening my eyes 👍🙏👀
@talicialee3 жыл бұрын
Ladies please listen if you know that you know you felt something in your stomach, your spirit, don't worry about the details, God will give you the rest later. Just leave 💜💜💜
@naturallyfree01krj503 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony for whatever time you can give, I'm sure we all appreciate it 🙏🏾.
@BreeziDeezi3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. My ex was so distant i felt like this or any outburst could’ve happened at any moment. He never yelled but realistically, one can keep their mask on for a year. GREAT video and reminder to keep doin the dash in the opposite direction 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
@raquel82983 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony Gaskins just Thank you!
@erikalondon57203 жыл бұрын
My ex would get frustrated about small things and it wouldn't take much for him to change the tone in his voice to an aggressive manner. I tried to ignore it but I started thinking about his reaction before I spoke...To be honest I moved so quickly because in my mind I was ready for marriage and children and I was thought he was a descent guy. I ignored the red flags, I have learnt my lesson- take your time and don't play with your life or heart its way too precious! Thank you Tony for sharing the male perspective, stay blessed brother, sending warm wishes to you and your family.
@KimKim-lg1cx3 жыл бұрын
“He would send you to meet the lord “ I really laughed but its not funny 😭