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The Shumake Way

The Shumake Way

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@virginmarry7179
@virginmarry7179 4 ай бұрын
Anton said "women are having the majority of the children..." 😂 Women are having them all, aren't they?
@antwangordon6918
@antwangordon6918 4 ай бұрын
He saying that statistically, black women have more children than men. Which is true. Most straight men are INCELS. We don’t have children.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 4 ай бұрын
I was wondering who was going to point this out; men don't have children periodt.
@kamivenus753
@kamivenus753 4 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@adrianroberson903
@adrianroberson903 4 ай бұрын
They having them with a small group of men this 18-60 63% of the black women . 57% of black men are single and childless
@L4A1D1Y
@L4A1D1Y 4 ай бұрын
Right!😂😂😂
@natashatate3070
@natashatate3070 4 ай бұрын
I'm tired of people thinking cheating is no big deal.....when you are risking someone's life. 😫
@sexygabby30
@sexygabby30 4 ай бұрын
Oh you are telling what they don’t want to hear… because in order for them to do it, that part has to stay compartmentalized.
@Alexa-uk8lj
@Alexa-uk8lj 4 ай бұрын
Cheating is basically a euphemism for betrayal. The only people who don't think betrayal is a big deal are narcissists.
@rachelphillips5576
@rachelphillips5576 4 ай бұрын
Some Black men haven't been raised right. They feel like they are a gift to women. They haven't been given God-given morals and values. They're sad. Lord help the women to see the toxicity before they lay down with these men!
@get_aclue4218
@get_aclue4218 4 ай бұрын
And if it’s really “no big deal “ why is there a double standard on the topic? 🤔
@MoeSoNatural
@MoeSoNatural 4 ай бұрын
I was just commenting on something about this on social media
@shhhperry9852
@shhhperry9852 4 ай бұрын
They are constantly blaming the “single mothers”, but what about their single fathers? Single fathers, make single mothers… Married fathers make married mothers… If a man doesn’t find enough value in the women he impregnated to propose marriage to her, then should he have impregnated her? What makes a woman who is unworthy of marriage suddenly worthy of raising YOUR offspring? These men are looking to everyone else to blame except themselves. Marry your women before making children, and then there won’t be single mothers. Not very many women are turning down marriage proposals from truly good, sane, emotionally regulated, hard working, family oriented men who love God. PERIOD. Be better and you’ll have better.
@Only1QueenOfEverything
@Only1QueenOfEverything 4 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯 For every single mother there is a single father….these clowns act as if the woman impregnated herself, by herself!
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 4 ай бұрын
No. The issue is these guys are too cowardly to hold OTHER MEN accountable for how they've treated women. According to them, they're not the ones impregnating women and bailing out on them.
@Quinn_M97
@Quinn_M97 4 ай бұрын
Yess! My thing is how can they soley place the blame on the women??? The men who have unprotected sex out of wedlock are just as much at fault.
@falecialogan1717
@falecialogan1717 4 ай бұрын
@@deemu7606nice try. I know single no child women who are messing around with MARRIED MEN with children. Giving these married men behavior, I wonder how they raise their sons. Is it with this street behavior that they exercise within the marriage 🤔 This is absolutely NOT just on a woman. I mean these mothers in these circumstances did marry their child/children father so they did the right thing and the fathers still moved recklessly. It takes two and if the relationship ends, it still takes two for the child or children..period
@Quinn_M97
@Quinn_M97 4 ай бұрын
@@deemu7606 men should do the same. It doesn’t matter that we carry the baby, men are just as responsible for impregnating the woman. Why is it only okay for men to have unprotected sex out of wedlock? The Bible doesn’t say that only women should not have sex before marriage.
@shauntikayvette
@shauntikayvette 4 ай бұрын
Men should raise their sons then. Simple resolution that only a man can control because no woman can force a man to be present if he’s chosen to be absent.
@janice2240
@janice2240 4 ай бұрын
Correct but most don't want the responsibility
@FUEGOSTARR
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
@@janice2240 these men cannot do for a child that wasn’t done for them. They will resent their child for being loved in the ways they hadn’t been loved by their father if he doesn’t heal his father wounds as a man. A lot these fatherless men are bitter and confused.
@yellej3314
@yellej3314 4 ай бұрын
Notice how there’s no comments on this. Ppl only wanna dispute what they have b.s excuses for.
@FUEGOSTARR
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
@@yellej3314 Yup. It’s funny. The outrage is very very selective.
@Opinions-galore24
@Opinions-galore24 4 ай бұрын
While I agree, WOMEN neeed to be far more selective when choosing a partner to have a child with. MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!! ALSO, make sure you're attaching yourself to a QUALITY man. In the black community, there are TOO many women (like Ciara) having sex with Pookie's & Ray Ray's that already have kids by 4 baby mama's they are NOT taking are of. And then you have the nerve to be baby mama #5/#6 and act shocked that he's not do right by you and your child!!!!! MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!
@BossLadyFrances
@BossLadyFrances 4 ай бұрын
If the father is not in the child’s life and refuse to take care of their CHILD! It’s the MANS FAULT! Men never take accountability for creating broken homes.
@iloveyougumi
@iloveyougumi 4 ай бұрын
Deuteronomy 28:54 ...and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave One of the many curses on our people
@AmberColeman-gq1wn
@AmberColeman-gq1wn 4 ай бұрын
But black men always preach about bitter black women keeping them from kids. How can we keep these men away from children that they claim to never have wanted , and don’t care about in the first place???
@christophermayberry1298
@christophermayberry1298 4 ай бұрын
Men aren't just up & leaving homes, their being forced out. Then are held accountable by things such as Child Support or jail time.
@joyell821
@joyell821 4 ай бұрын
​@@christophermayberry1298 no one is forcing good men out of their home.
@roses4me451
@roses4me451 4 ай бұрын
@@joyell821 "Got more lies & excuses than somebody ready to go to jail." (Ike Turner) I don't care what the subject matter is, BM always deflect, negate, lie, deny, and REFUSE to take responsibility or accountability for anything. If it's not some stupid "statistic", it's some bible verse quoted to condone their behavior. Enough of the B.S.! Develop a plan, then choose a START & END date, then execute the plan into ACTION! If not, go somewhere and sit down & shut up. Brad is getting to the BAG while BM are doing NOTHING!
@Cierra00x
@Cierra00x 4 ай бұрын
I’m waiting on the 2nd coming of God…I’m tired of this place
@blackolantern5666
@blackolantern5666 4 ай бұрын
@Cierra00x. You're gonna be waiting forever. Grow up...nobody is coming down from them clouds.
@Chyna65
@Chyna65 4 ай бұрын
Amennn 😑🤲🏾
@Chyna65
@Chyna65 4 ай бұрын
@@blackolantern5666every knee will bow down and EVERY TONGUE CONFESS..YESHUA JESUS IS LORDDD🎉🎉🎉🎉REPENT & BELIEVE THE GOSPEL TRUTH!!!!!
@mrneotech
@mrneotech 4 ай бұрын
@@blackolantern5666 Christ is coming. You need to sit down somewhere. You're the one that needs to grow up.
@kevinlewis6927
@kevinlewis6927 4 ай бұрын
It's funny how nonbelievers think all this just authenticated out of nothing
@muchgoodisgiven1517
@muchgoodisgiven1517 4 ай бұрын
“ He (Antone) is married, but talks like he is single.” That is the part about this make that gets me the most.
@LataureanEzell
@LataureanEzell 4 ай бұрын
He may not be, this is the internet. Home of the frauds and land of the scammers, ppl who talk like they know everything, while knowing nothing.
@annagrace1159
@annagrace1159 4 ай бұрын
​@@LataureanEzellWhat we do know is that he is definitely a loud mouth slob with very bad clothing choice, all over the internet 🙄
@Alexa-uk8lj
@Alexa-uk8lj 4 ай бұрын
I wonder what his wife's life is like.
@postagirl26
@postagirl26 4 ай бұрын
It’s because he’s groomed his wife to take it because he has the money. The way he used to talk about other women right in front of her and to watch her act like it was ok, was cringey.
@RichChic416
@RichChic416 4 ай бұрын
This!
@ColaBaby888
@ColaBaby888 4 ай бұрын
Leaders take accountability they dont try to pass the blame. Thats how you know these men will lead you straight to hell.
@maam-yj8ph
@maam-yj8ph 4 ай бұрын
Exactly. Here's a Bible verse you won't hear in the manosphere. "[W]hosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant." Matthew 20:27
@Yahuahisking
@Yahuahisking 4 ай бұрын
HalleluYAH... SPEAK 🗣️ ON IT ❤
@ms.evegene
@ms.evegene 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@ashleygipson6925
@ashleygipson6925 3 ай бұрын
Those men are going to hell. 1 Tim 5:8 8 But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
@FLEXNAZ
@FLEXNAZ 4 ай бұрын
There are way too many men out here giving out terrible advice to other men. If you promote being an honest, respectful man, you get shouted down by dishonest brokers
@4rtivist
@4rtivist 4 ай бұрын
This channel also been hypocritical cause where is his community work? Very performative if a channel is the answer. If it’s not grassroots… or macro and pipelines to the grassroots. It’s not THE WORK. Simple. This isn’t not an opinionated space it’s a data driven space…
@melstarr1864
@melstarr1864 4 ай бұрын
@@4rtivistKZfaq may be a lot of things, but a data driven space is not one of them. It s all about opinions, f it is a channel where opinions are given.
@4rtivist
@4rtivist 4 ай бұрын
@@melstarr1864 not talking about KZfaq I’m talking about the space where the real work is done in real life 😂
@4rtivist
@4rtivist 4 ай бұрын
You’d get applauded irl.. many of the rooms are filled with women who are just too passive to speak and more focused on being positive we don’t have enough smart crash dummies who will fall on the sword for the right ideals🤌🏽… not anymore we don’t
@lane89
@lane89 4 ай бұрын
@@4rtivistcreating content to offset the negative energy of this space is WORK, just because you can’t see what this man does behind the scenes even just with his family alone, that is grassroots, nobody have to go around damn near going broke to prove to black people we mean well. You sound crazy saying this is not work, just go where the work look more like destruction than repair.
@CookieC23
@CookieC23 4 ай бұрын
Let their Black Fathers raise the children then…Oh that’s right the Black Fathers are no where to be found, in prison, dead or somewhere complaining about child support. The Black Fathers that actually raise their children don’t come on line complaining all day about the Mothers raising the children because guess what?? These Fathers actually are responsible who provide for, love, care for and raise their children.
@Shlbizzy_21
@Shlbizzy_21 4 ай бұрын
Right there are still good black men and women out here, that are handing their business
@MomoAfterDark
@MomoAfterDark 4 ай бұрын
The black fathers that raise their kids don't come online complaining, and neither do the black women that actually chose good men. Only the women that got pregnant by criminals and bums are complaining online.
@MsCruzan
@MsCruzan 4 ай бұрын
BM in that video, one wearing the baseball cap, basically saying we, BM, can’t lead because BW won’t let us. I’m with the brother with locs. If a man being about his family, being committed to his wife, being s_x@lly responsible, if all of this equals simping, sign BW up for that. The community needs more Russels and less Futures. Our community is holding up the wrong thing to emulate.
@cocopuff2852
@cocopuff2852 4 ай бұрын
🫶🏾
@coreythomas3633
@coreythomas3633 4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@khrisi9410
@khrisi9410 4 ай бұрын
They have no problem leading blkwomen into the bedroom. They been telling the lead lie for decades. They could care less about leading anyone.
@taylorspastpresent1014
@taylorspastpresent1014 4 ай бұрын
The man with the locs is a gay man and resonates with believing children can be taught sexuality outside the home. Watch the whole interview. Both men are extremes of both sides.
@Schooling2BETTER
@Schooling2BETTER 4 ай бұрын
BW will NOT submit! It's been said and proven. BW have selective obedience. IN the church and out.
@TrishaBurris
@TrishaBurris 4 ай бұрын
Anton Daniels always mocking GOD, he's very hypocritical. He claims he's a man of GOD, but cusses, operates in Lust and does all this for money to push himself in the algorithm for views, He will reap what he sow
@sweet_heart2094
@sweet_heart2094 4 ай бұрын
Reap*
@TrishaBurris
@TrishaBurris 4 ай бұрын
@@sweet_heart2094 Thanks typo
@Quinn_M97
@Quinn_M97 4 ай бұрын
I think people confuse believing in God with actually serving Him
@sherriew36
@sherriew36 4 ай бұрын
He knows he can make money off of burnt men so he exploits them😂
@mariamarahim4242
@mariamarahim4242 4 ай бұрын
You right he always talk about black women in the wrong way
@almondkissed3794
@almondkissed3794 4 ай бұрын
imagine blaming the parent who actually stayed to raise them and not the man who walked out and abandoned them them😂😂😂
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 ай бұрын
Make it make sense.
@FUEGOSTARR
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
They always do that because they can’t complain about someone they don’t know.
@AprilBTV
@AprilBTV 4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@ms.evegene
@ms.evegene 4 ай бұрын
😮THATS WHAT IM GOING THROUGH. ...but I had your back. Told me dad get a pass for NOT being here😮😮😮😮😮😵‍💫 Twilight zone? Or Twilight zone?
@killagriz
@killagriz 3 ай бұрын
What happened to "My body my choice"? If women hold the decision to not only have sex, but determine if she will proceed with pregnancy, then she will hold the bulk of the responsibility. The man will hold some responsibility too, but not nearly as much as the woman. This is why mothers get custody of the kids 80-90% of the time. Women don't require marriage before carriage. Consider the amount of women that were married before getting pregnant. Then consider how many were in a committed relationship. Then imagine how many dudes was like, "I don't want to be a father right now" and the woman still goes through with it. Men could become celibate or firmly stand on condoms, but then the degenerates would still procreate and men in general would still be blamed. Consider these pookies have 4 or 5 BMs and the women have 3 or 4 different BDs. These particular groups are painted as the majority and they're not. 54% of Black men are single and childless 28 % are married. The last 18% are BDs. Women have choosen the same reckless men to procreate with. (Black demographics. Com)
@AddisonHaileLegobuilds
@AddisonHaileLegobuilds 4 ай бұрын
It's so weird to blame one parent. Both parents are responsible.
@FUEGOSTARR
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
There needs to be an open discussion about black men & their father wounds. So many of these black men were once little boys who had their hopes crushed or simply had no father to align them and lead them into their self-identity. There are many soul-less and bitter men who are hurting from wounds as old as they are.
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
And while we discuss the father wounds, let's hit up those mother wounds as well. I be feeling like BM hate us because of their relationship with their mothers. And since it's uncouth to mistreat them they abuse and disrespect other BW that aren't her. You don't have to be in a romantic relationship with them either. I've witnessed and experienced it in the work place, out & about, and especially online. Just this Venom they have towards us because they can't get at the person who REALLY hurt them.
@truthhurtsohwell05
@truthhurtsohwell05 4 ай бұрын
They can heal without harassing black Women online. It’s disgusting
@Seeingisntbelieving
@Seeingisntbelieving 4 ай бұрын
@@lovebug6388honestly, they hate you because of their fathers. It has very little to do with mothers. A man is most connected to his father and learns from him more than his mother. His lack of guidance from his father causes him to be mentally unstable. A man who doesn’t have an active stable father is a walking time bomb-tread lightly with these men and beware of the men who have fathers who did not have an active stable father because he is a trying to resolve generations of problems for the first time-can it happen-yes-but beware.
@vashtikelly6837
@vashtikelly6837 4 ай бұрын
@@lovebug6388 this applies to 50 cent......he lost his mom early and you see the hate in him..
@vashtikelly6837
@vashtikelly6837 4 ай бұрын
@@Seeingisntbelieving a lot of men hate thier moms and become pimps which in turn makes them hate women........pimpin ken loved his dad but hated his mom.....his dad also hated the mom, so he taught ken to hate his mom as well..
@HolisticManifesting
@HolisticManifesting 4 ай бұрын
So happy I'm free. No desire for a relationship is freedom. These men are exhausting and I would never want to listen to them talk, especially not in my house. ❤
@DJ-iz3mx
@DJ-iz3mx 4 ай бұрын
Be a tree that's planted by the water. This comment lets me sleep at night knowing that Black women are protecting themselves.
@HolisticManifesting
@HolisticManifesting 4 ай бұрын
​@@DJ-iz3mx yes, protect your peace ✌🏽 ❤
@Stillunbothered37
@Stillunbothered37 4 ай бұрын
Whewwwww girl this right here is a word! Im nownseeing that singleness is safety. No abusive man to walk on egg shells around no two faced dude sitting up in my face acting likenwe in love but deep down he hates black women, Ima go head on and rest in my singleness! Be blessed!
@brielax4441
@brielax4441 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Sunshine26762
@Sunshine26762 4 ай бұрын
This isn’t anything BUT the truth. I used to desire a relationship so much, but with the way the world of going, I’m embracing my singleness nowadays.
@babydoll6280
@babydoll6280 4 ай бұрын
A dead beat dad/man is ALWAYS going to have a excuse and a scapegoat.
@khem127
@khem127 4 ай бұрын
babydoll6280 💯%
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
exactly!!!!!! Even those sad caricatures of men, that we can notice in this comment section, clearly reflect their sociopath tendencies and level of degeneracy!
@laughattack1204
@laughattack1204 3 ай бұрын
See here is how you are really supposed to look at men for poor behavior, not these other women avoiding responsibility 👏
@SoulieNovaOfficial
@SoulieNovaOfficial 2 ай бұрын
My father is a deadbeat and makes excuses
@RayanaMalika
@RayanaMalika 4 ай бұрын
As soon as Anton started speaking, my spirit was unsettled. Somethings, like KS, made sense but still my spirit was unsettled.
@Jovialjay86
@Jovialjay86 4 ай бұрын
This. It's unsettling because of the hate and fraudulence hiding behind it.
@arlusterpenn6019
@arlusterpenn6019 4 ай бұрын
​@@Jovialjay86exactly
@mariakayy22
@mariakayy22 4 ай бұрын
Same!
@proph2008
@proph2008 4 ай бұрын
Him and kevin were friends!...
@Ms9mmBeretta
@Ms9mmBeretta 4 ай бұрын
It's because their messages aren't coming from the right place.
@layla_and_micahfollowonins2174
@layla_and_micahfollowonins2174 4 ай бұрын
Men are being raised by women, because their dads aren’t around. Their “dads” are out here doing their own thing, not caring to be a dad. Women don’t abandon their children like men do, we protect and provide and still try to nurture and all our time and attention goes to our children. We have the LOGIC to understand that they’re only little ONCE and it’s not time to play around and be selfish.
@bellbranda
@bellbranda 4 ай бұрын
Thank you sis
@IndigoSeeress_Yaa7
@IndigoSeeress_Yaa7 4 ай бұрын
🌹
@mrs.chizzyaz8503
@mrs.chizzyaz8503 4 ай бұрын
🎯❤🧠💯
@rattgod
@rattgod 4 ай бұрын
Women are the primary single parents, yet they get the most scrutiny, shame and contempt for simply being the parent that took responsibility. It makes no sense, cause women will also be shamed if they choose to abort or give their kids up for adoption. It’s absolutely insane how men are absolved and not even considered to be part of this issue of creating broken homes.
@mih-entertainment
@mih-entertainment 4 ай бұрын
@@rattgod both parties have a choice to make when having unprotected sex and kids out of wedlock. Some women just need to vet and not crease their discernment before being so promiscuous and that would alleviate single moms issues
@B.Essentials
@B.Essentials 4 ай бұрын
Stop having their children plain and simple 🙅🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
@desiraewillis1702
@desiraewillis1702 4 ай бұрын
🎯
@ReallyLane
@ReallyLane 4 ай бұрын
Facts these gremlins😢!! Thank you see you next life time!
@tboss8243
@tboss8243 4 ай бұрын
Bingo
@Camillyahreal
@Camillyahreal 4 ай бұрын
In order for that to stop women, gotta stop romanticizing about men because it’s a illusion about them, but just telling them to not give them babies that’s not enough it’s too much brainwashing going on with women being in relationships with men for that to just be the end all, be all.
@sunnyhunn9315
@sunnyhunn9315 4 ай бұрын
Yup! And they’ll be FORCED to grow up!!!
@josiahbutler2254
@josiahbutler2254 4 ай бұрын
Ole dude with the dreads is spot on & real…. he said lets take accountability all across the board 👏🏾
@ladietee2824
@ladietee2824 3 ай бұрын
His name is @professorodi wonderful man
@L4A1D1Y
@L4A1D1Y 4 ай бұрын
Men, please DO NOT listen to this foolishness! Thank you Shumake for calling out the hypocrisy and lies! Respect 💯
@Remy-ry7eg
@Remy-ry7eg 4 ай бұрын
Well you're a woman so of course you're gonna agree with Simps
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
exactly....men can only learn from him!! But sadly, most prefer to learn from degenerates
@kimberlydill8059
@kimberlydill8059 4 ай бұрын
If men get in their children lives, they wouldn't have that problem.
@AmberColeman-gq1wn
@AmberColeman-gq1wn 4 ай бұрын
But they can’t do that because they have to worry about creating safe spaces for “main chicks” and “side chicks” and picking and choosing between which kids to show love to and when, etc
@louveniawilliast9178
@louveniawilliast9178 3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@carmeld45
@carmeld45 4 ай бұрын
Cant be more accountable than growing a child in your body, giving birth and raising child to adulthood. THAT ACCOUNTABILITY.
@IWearACrown
@IWearACrown 4 ай бұрын
Some of us raise these young men the best of our ability. They become grown and go out and continue to do dumb things and end up dead or in jail. It’s like they couldn’t wait to be on their own so they can do what they want. 😢All the wrong shit with the wrong people
@antwangordon6918
@antwangordon6918 4 ай бұрын
Most of you are not “raising” children. Y’all are just legal guardians. The children literally raised themselves. Just because a child is in your custody, doesn’t mean you “raised” them.
@FUEGOSTARR
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
@@antwangordon6918& what are their fathers doing? There’s way too much hostility for the parent who cares. Mothers don’t have to be moms, btw. She can dump the child off at a fire station and never look back. Women are better connected to their babies vs the men.. so the odds are slim. But we do have the option to not give a fuck like the father often does. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@nataliej261
@nataliej261 4 ай бұрын
​@@antwangordon6918 sooooo you're just gonna if ore the fact that there's men out here that make families left and right and don't take responsibility. But it's always the mom fault right. Yall get mad when boys are raised by men when the man doesn't do his job. Gtfohwtbs. Yall create single moms, but don't blame the father.
@antwangordon6918
@antwangordon6918 4 ай бұрын
@@FUEGOSTARR Cry me a river. The cat is out the bag. Most of yall have children for government assistance.
@KevonnieElaine
@KevonnieElaine 4 ай бұрын
That episode was wild on H.I. smh. Nothing but chaos towards the end. They don’t want solutions, they just want to point the fingers at women.
@JeanG645
@JeanG645 4 ай бұрын
Smh, that's how Adam did Eve. They have been doing it since the beginning. Blaming women is the most natural reaction for them...
@sade_8637
@sade_8637 4 ай бұрын
@@JeanG645​​⁠ Exactly! That’s what keeps coming to my mind whenever I watch Anton. He putting all the blame on women like Adam putting the blame on Eve. God called unto Adam first not Eve. 🤦🏽‍♀️
@cynthiadickerson5403
@cynthiadickerson5403 4 ай бұрын
The solution is to protect your fertility and your womb from a man who is not marriage material. There are damaged men out there who will marry you, but you have to do the work to make sure the one you date isn't. Women control the quality of the man who you allow in your life. The same way a man dates you is the same way he will be married to you.
@KAMROXX2K11
@KAMROXX2K11 4 ай бұрын
Period.
@AmberColeman-gq1wn
@AmberColeman-gq1wn 4 ай бұрын
They just want to publicly beat black women down every chance they get. And the more we give them our views- the more incentive they have to continue. Like you said, it’s not about solutions. It’s never been about solutions.
@asiaz248
@asiaz248 4 ай бұрын
Shout out to the ONE man that had common sense.
@shauntikayvette
@shauntikayvette 4 ай бұрын
These dudes are not governed by the father and are intentionally unrighteous and wicked and promote lawlessness. A righteous man should offer rebuke and correction to both men and women. If men were following the father they would not promote corruption then blame women for becoming corrupted. These dudes don’t care about their lineage, throw around their seeds and take no accountability.
@briajewel121
@briajewel121 4 ай бұрын
You are right! They have rejected God. They serve another Kingdom. Deceitful, lawlessness, confusion, and amongst other things is what they purposely choose to promote. They are intentional about it.
@Shlbizzy_21
@Shlbizzy_21 4 ай бұрын
​@briajewel121 god ain't got shit to do with it, go on somewhere with that, keep your faith private
@SweetLily007
@SweetLily007 4 ай бұрын
@@Shlbizzy_21You’re rude and weird for saying that. Completely uncalled for. Keep your blasphemy private.
@gigigonzalez2804
@gigigonzalez2804 4 ай бұрын
It’s crazy that he doesn’t want kids but won’t get a vasectomy
@Barnyard-sunlight
@Barnyard-sunlight 4 ай бұрын
A vasectomy won't prevent herpes or AIDS.
@doll.ov.poetrii4682
@doll.ov.poetrii4682 4 ай бұрын
​@@Barnyard-sunlight It doesn't prevent soul ties either.
@oneandonly3139
@oneandonly3139 4 ай бұрын
These men dem to think it’s women’s responsibility alone to control the birth rate
@NikkiDreadlocks
@NikkiDreadlocks 4 ай бұрын
@@Barnyard-sunlightabstinence does
@secureboundaries
@secureboundaries 4 ай бұрын
@@Barnyard-sunlight it's not the same thing. one is disease and the other is LIFE. Get vasectomy if you don't want kids
@epiphanyperry1877
@epiphanyperry1877 4 ай бұрын
I totally agree. My grandfather was very traditional, stern, God fearing, made the decisions. He raised 8 daughters, had a stay at home wife in the 50s, and was feared yet loved by the neighborhood. He however had humility, warmth, decent character and not a speck of arrogance. Loved him so much never met another man like him Anton's methods may very well be respected by many, but as a wife I could never lie down with a man who speaks or behaves like him. He demonstrates absolutely nothing endearing.
@ladietee2824
@ladietee2824 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. I always wonder what in the world his wife is REALLY like
@christinaterhune550
@christinaterhune550 4 ай бұрын
It’s crazy that he said it’s black women out here producing fatherless homes and black men are not the ones having babies out of wedlock; make it make sense. He claims the statistics on black men creating babies out of wedlock is incorrect, but black women are the ones to blame for single motherhood; so all these single black women are having children with men outside of their race??!?! Please explain sir. This whole narrative makes me so angry, it’s a freakin’ money grab and it’s shameful; people will do and say anything for shock value and to make a quick buck. Lord help us all
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
What he also failed to mention with the statistics is that Bmales have the highest divorce within every ethnic group and the highest occurrence of out of wedlock children within every ethnic group. They don't just leave BW, they leave ALL women destitute. And since most follow the one drop rule that's how the numbers are skewed against the BC as a whole. If biracial children were put in a category of their own, Bmales would still lead this category world wide.
@laustin2832
@laustin2832 4 ай бұрын
Exactly! As if women can have children out of wedlock without the other half of the equation. The way these males dodge accountability is astounding.
@MomoAfterDark
@MomoAfterDark 4 ай бұрын
@@laustin2832 There are far more single mothers than single fathers. Women are having babies with a small group of men.
@dalagamble3164
@dalagamble3164 4 ай бұрын
What I like about shumake is the fact he isn’t one sided. He hold women all the time accountable but also he hold men accountable. He understands what I been saying it’s going to have to be a balance of effort to fix the community.
@TaylorM
@TaylorM 4 ай бұрын
If women can’t raise boys right, then why don’t their loving father’s stay around to raise them? Problem solved, right?🙄
@mizzmolly7649
@mizzmolly7649 4 ай бұрын
That's why the blk community is in the state it's in. It all starts with failed BM leadership.
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
exactly...interesting how these ''alpha'' men never ever call out absent fathers and uncles, older brothers, etc to help raising the little boys, who need a guidance from healthy masculine......i wonder why......../not/ smh
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
For those who don't know, Anton Daniels is Sevin Kamuel's former protege. He's regurgitating his talking points. Notice how the other MEN were actually about taking accountability and providing solutions. AD, go be with the boys cause we know your wife is your beard.
@brielax4441
@brielax4441 4 ай бұрын
Do you notice how Anton entertains down low conversations on his channel? He interviewed Fleece Johnson and recently uploaded a video on down low men in jail. His platform is unbalanced.
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
@@brielax4441 I researched FJ. He's definitely AD's cup of tea. AD was really intrigued with his stories and the freeness to express himself. There was no revulsion but more of an admiration in his tone and body language. He's a walking contradiction just like his mentor.
@bertha8893
@bertha8893 4 ай бұрын
Anton Daniel content was always about finances and how to invest. He gave good advice to his audience, but I guess the redpill rhetoric gains more notoriety.
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
@@bertha8893 oh yes, bashing BW and promoting promoting male promiscuity ALWAYS sends the analytics and dollars through the roof. There's so many black he-man woman haters out there that he'll never have to make another investment video again. As I said, following the steps of his mentor. KS used to do cologne and image reviews. How the hell you start talking about relationships without a therapy background🤯 Not even a certificate in marriage and family relationship counseling. He may come to a similar end as his mentor following his path...
@laughattack1204
@laughattack1204 3 ай бұрын
Kevin Samuels provided nothing but good advice. But you keep gay shaming and using ludicrous arguments.
@wandak1889
@wandak1889 4 ай бұрын
I’m grateful for my daddy! I’m grateful he is 76 in good health. The most important thing I’m grateful for is he showed me how a man is supposed to treat a woman through marriage with my mother. My friends are grateful for my daddy for not leaving them out when it was time to do certain activities. I’m now 42 and truly understanding the importance for a daddy to be present for their daughters and sons!!! I eventually let them called him daddy once he explained to me that’s it’s important for kids to feel love❤. They even call and check on him and visit him as well. If the men lead the way to the kingdom the women have no choice but to follow the leader! We need to leave money off the table and see thru the character.
@KayBeOnline
@KayBeOnline 4 ай бұрын
I love this so much. I'm 31 and have the same relationship with my dad. Mom and Dad still together and raised us right. God-fearing, present men/dads/dad-figures are so important (and that's an understatement).
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 4 ай бұрын
@@KayBeOnline right you are. mothers are not enough.
@KayBeOnline
@KayBeOnline 4 ай бұрын
@@nzingahoney for sure. You need *both* for different reasons and for what they uniquely bring to the table in a healthy family.
@keyahninaylor4974
@keyahninaylor4974 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@Seeingisntbelieving
@Seeingisntbelieving 4 ай бұрын
My dad is the same he will be 77 in September❤.
@shenquejames7598
@shenquejames7598 4 ай бұрын
He is so embarrassing 😳 I do not blame his wife for hiding her face.
@shalondad.3235
@shalondad.3235 4 ай бұрын
I’m sure he abuses her in more ways than one.
@franceslott2134
@franceslott2134 4 ай бұрын
It’s so refreshing to know men like you still exist. God bless you and your family. Keep doing what you do.. it’s making a difference!!
@smoothdeedee
@smoothdeedee 4 ай бұрын
There are so many married women who complain about being single parents.
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 4 ай бұрын
I was a child of that dynamic until they divorced 😞
@user-kx1sl8wd1s
@user-kx1sl8wd1s 4 ай бұрын
This
@angelaroberts7041
@angelaroberts7041 3 ай бұрын
I I assume the dad is a married man that got a woman on the side pregnant this making her a single mom
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 3 ай бұрын
@@angelaroberts7041 no. There's this term called "married single mom" where although the woman is married to the father of her children she's doing everything as if she is not married. The husband essentially is an extra child and burden. Women are starting to divorce that dynamic.
@theadventureseries6739
@theadventureseries6739 3 ай бұрын
I’m very familiar with this. My ex would go do anything he wanted while I’d be home doing everything. Wouldn’t even watch our baby so I could go grocery shopping. I got no help at all. I’m glad I divorced him.
@teishahowlett6342
@teishahowlett6342 4 ай бұрын
I heard a few people say. they wish god would just come back,and that’s how you know the world is DISGUSTING, filled up with Hatred and all kinds of EVILNESS and Wicked behavior…
@devilsadvocateda3rd130
@devilsadvocateda3rd130 4 ай бұрын
Right because they don’t realize God is coming back with fire and judgement for all that’s the part they don’t understand
@teishahowlett6342
@teishahowlett6342 4 ай бұрын
@@devilsadvocateda3rd130 Exactly,very well Said..
@onaedo.s.thoughts
@onaedo.s.thoughts 4 ай бұрын
WOW, so it's DISGUSTING for God to come back?? You must not know God. If you're one of the people scared for God's return, then it means you know He's not coming for you. ONLY EVIL people don't want God's return. Everybody else??....man, WE are sooo ready!
@teishahowlett6342
@teishahowlett6342 4 ай бұрын
@@onaedo.s.thoughts I am glad your ready for god’s Return..Good..Because a lot of people are lost and think he’s not going to return for the Second Coming..
@highlovevibration
@highlovevibration 4 ай бұрын
​@@onaedo.s.thoughts yes sis! So ready
@Babygirl2986
@Babygirl2986 4 ай бұрын
I feel like listening to some of these men talk about how single mothers supposedly ruined the community is like listening to someone who clearly stepped in dog 💩 talk about how it stinks in here. They literally can't see their part in all this.
@khem127
@khem127 4 ай бұрын
babygirl12986🎯🎯 They are amazingly stupid!!!
@Bluebatberry23
@Bluebatberry23 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, it’s so disheartening. These types of men forget who God is. Just like how God punished Eve for eating the fruit, he also punished Adam for participating. So, I don’t understand why these men want to put all the blame on these single mothers without realizing that they are participating with them. Just as how God may give consequences to women, he will also give consequences to men.
@vashtikelly6837
@vashtikelly6837 4 ай бұрын
this is why women have to make men "see' themselves...
@iloveyougumi
@iloveyougumi 4 ай бұрын
Deuteronomy 28:54 and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave One of the many curses of our people.
@khem127
@khem127 4 ай бұрын
@@Bluebatberry23 They are delusional to the point of insanity(sigh)
@a.n.watson8797
@a.n.watson8797 4 ай бұрын
Anton’s a corn ball. His talking points are all over the place. He says he’s a man of God but Hollars at other female KZfaqrs on the low. He is extremely cocky and I don’t believe he is really living like he claims to be.
@RichChic416
@RichChic416 4 ай бұрын
TRUE
@cupcakepatrice8418
@cupcakepatrice8418 4 ай бұрын
God said to test the spirit. God said you’ll know my ppl by their fruits
@terrihenderson6483
@terrihenderson6483 4 ай бұрын
Cause if he was, he wouldn't have time to be spewing the garbage out of his mouth.. some of these men are crazy for listening to him.he is making his money off of the men who think likewise ..I am so sick of them spewing so much hate towards black women..
@Schooling2BETTER
@Schooling2BETTER 4 ай бұрын
I don't believe corny and cocky can exist together. Me personally I do not think it's cocky, I feel like it's arrogance.
@sg5720
@sg5720 4 ай бұрын
He ain’t. When cameras off, his wife checks him. He don’t want to be married, but he has to keep on pretending. I’m a married women and hubby and I use to like him, until we saw how fraud he was. Acting like him and his wife have no disagreements etc, BS. Hubby and I did it “right” just like Anton. We BOTH got our education got married, had our kids mix bough our home, working hard in an our careers, but we are Not perfect, like Anton go on about marriage. We believe in God, but we learned that we are eachother priority and we set our foundation and do what we do best for eacjother. 21 yrs married to An amazing BM. Anton is a damn liar when it comes to how he living off camera. I can spot these types a mile away, cause hubby and I have been there. We decided to live for us, and we lost friends but the freedom is amazing. Anton is venting, projecting, and making money being fake. No way you good in your marriage and THIS is how you feel and what you saying and how you moving. I will be checking out Odi, glad I ran into this channel. 🙏🏽😌
@MysticGoddessNubie
@MysticGoddessNubie 3 ай бұрын
It’s no way Anton is at home being a loving husband and father. He spends all day online talking to other men and being disgusting to women. There is no way he gets offline to be a pillar in the community. People need to really take heed to who they are listening to. How are these men keeping women accountable by the way? What does that even look like?
@analikab5631
@analikab5631 4 ай бұрын
It's so shameful how these guys disrespect All blk women even to the point of lies! After you DIDN'T help raise your Sons, this is what you teach younger men?! Wow very sad. So glad for you Shumake and your holy views.
@coreythomas3633
@coreythomas3633 4 ай бұрын
They are loser's
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын
Any man who has these views a black woman should stay FAR away from them..: pay them dust.. walk right away from them.
@soundsaboutright---
@soundsaboutright--- 4 ай бұрын
Men tend to only parent to the extent they have access to the woman. Women tend to raise their kids regardless of their relationships status. I'm not sure how much more accountable you can get.
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 4 ай бұрын
Thank freaking you! Men have never explicitly said but some rely on the woman's treatment of them to determine how good of a father they will be. That is the real reason they blame women for fatherless homes. Some of these baby daddies expect the women to keep sleeping with them in order to make child support payments. That's one way of racking up multiple kids by one man.
@soundsaboutright---
@soundsaboutright--- 3 ай бұрын
@miyangtangwan7046 those last few sentences are a sad reality. It's a harsh reality
@ASmith-jn7kf
@ASmith-jn7kf Ай бұрын
Naw not true. More neglectful women and mothers than not. If there weren't, men would be better. These men are being raised by horrible people.
@melsutubeification
@melsutubeification 3 ай бұрын
Why is so difficult for men to understand, take accountability and action towards their roles or lack of responsibility when it comes to raising children?! It’s beyond infuriating!! This is the society that ABSENT FATHER’s CREATED. Not the accountable MOTHERS that stayed and did their best to raise, care for, pay for and nurture the children into adulthood.
@trenmeadows9275
@trenmeadows9275 4 ай бұрын
To truly love someone is to be kind, hence tender hearted towards them, and valuing them above our own selfish desires. The act of cheating is to betray, to harm, abuse, use and deceive someone whom you claim you love. It is unloving. It is unkind. It is inconsiderate, entitling, self centered, and grossly narcissistic. Because at the end of the day, these men who have no problem cheating, truly don’t want the same to be done to them. And why not? Because it is betrayal at its core. It is again, unloving. No one can be unloving and kind at the same time. God is love and love is kind. Amen.
@876Tiffany
@876Tiffany 4 ай бұрын
I can respect that you are going back to trucking in order to not compromise your morals and belief system. Respect.
@Key-Key444
@Key-Key444 4 ай бұрын
Shumake’s voice is so soothing. I almost fell asleep😅
@sweet_heart2094
@sweet_heart2094 4 ай бұрын
Ironically my daughter love listening to his voice and lovelyti
@Key-Key444
@Key-Key444 4 ай бұрын
@@sweet_heart2094 I said I was about to fall asleep and actually did😂
@luciferfire1575
@luciferfire1575 4 ай бұрын
Because he’s a boring pander bear. He’s trying to take Derrick Jackson’s fan base 😂.
@kamivenus753
@kamivenus753 4 ай бұрын
Right? It's calm n non aggressive.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 4 ай бұрын
@theshumakeway bring the anger to the mic. Be like Jesus flipping those tables.
@MochaRoyale
@MochaRoyale 4 ай бұрын
And the fact that some men are still surprised that this is happening to them and failing to take precaution is bewildering to me.
@highlovevibration
@highlovevibration 4 ай бұрын
I'm bewildered as well..no logic whatsoever
@AmberColeman-gq1wn
@AmberColeman-gq1wn 4 ай бұрын
Because nothing is happening to them. Child support isn’t being paid and they aren’t going to prison for that anyway/ especially not in today’s climate. Even if these kids are biologically theirs , it doesn’t matter, they’re not raising them regardless. Or spending money
@PhotoJeticPoet
@PhotoJeticPoet 3 ай бұрын
​@@AmberColeman-gq1wn that coupled with the fact that they only value the opinion of other men and most aren't holding them accountable for being bad fathers and living the way they do. They hang with men who do the same so none of them care.
@Trailblazers323
@Trailblazers323 4 ай бұрын
Wait for his karm to happen. It's coming. You just can't mislead people like that.
@Lightreign888
@Lightreign888 4 ай бұрын
In due time and it will be this year.
@iloveyougumi
@iloveyougumi 4 ай бұрын
@@Lightreign888 How you know? The year of truth?
@analikab5631
@analikab5631 4 ай бұрын
It's so uneven because they say what they want but they want other people to restrict what they say about the Lord! Single and celibate for 12 years and I'm not mad! 😊
@SerenityTheAltruist
@SerenityTheAltruist 4 ай бұрын
I hope your podcast reaches more listeners. You hold both genders accountable in a godly manner. In today's society, which is riddled with sin, you are not afraid to speak the necessary truths and confront hypocrisy. Stay blessed and continue to walk in faith, brother.
@MysticGoddessNubie
@MysticGoddessNubie 3 ай бұрын
Some men get women pregnant and blame them for being single mothers because they took accountability and stayed to raise their kids. Being a single mother In itself is accountability. Leaving women and blaming women for being single mothers simply because they have the option of aborting when a man doesn’t want the child and she didn’t is not taking accountability of anything. It’s actually running away and being childish.
@MeMe1107
@MeMe1107 4 ай бұрын
Antone and men like him are just thinking the way of the world. He can’t help anyone.
@ladylenise807
@ladylenise807 4 ай бұрын
I believe Anton does not like women and appears to not be happy in his marriage and blames his wife.
@johnwhatsittoya6374
@johnwhatsittoya6374 4 ай бұрын
He is a misogynist, you’re right. He also claims a strong Christian belief, yet nothing he shares online has ever once had anything to do with Biblical or scripturally sound content at all. He is liar and a fraud and that’s immediately clear to see, it’s the only way of life he knows. Last but not least, and I’m not trying to appeal to the LCD here or preach on any hate, but I can speak with 100% certainty that Antwon dude or whatever his name is- He likes men. I know it because I an a man who likes men myself; and I know probably most people here don’t want to hear my opinion on things, or I offend them or make em uncomfortable or whatever else by saying it. But real thruth is that we can tell, and I can see it in him for certain. He likes men and he hates himself for it, it’s sad to see it but it it’s the honest to God truth. One look at the way he dress, speaks, carries himsel and you just know it, I’ve met lots of “DL” types that talk and act just the exact same way! I’m not a hater on the guy or a hater on “queer culture” or nothing like that, I’m just stating the truth. People just need to understand they’re being lied to is all. ONE LAST THING- as a gay dude on KZfaq (me) - what does it tell you that his content wound up on my feed?? I’m not trying to be a troll but again it is just the truth and something to think about. Peace y’all.
@j.staxxx3890
@j.staxxx3890 4 ай бұрын
Yeah I don’t like him saying “statistics show” but never show statistics. I understand woman needs to take accountability but so do mean it takes wayyyyyyyy more the one group of people.
@cheriecovington
@cheriecovington 3 ай бұрын
Maybe Anton's momma didn't hold him long enough when he was a baby...
@laughattack1204
@laughattack1204 3 ай бұрын
You didn't watch the video
@JasmineSwann
@JasmineSwann 4 ай бұрын
Wow, that's so admirable of you to choose integrity over KZfaq. Good for you. Very few humble men out here.
@KayBeOnline
@KayBeOnline 4 ай бұрын
That you for speaking God's truth to foolishness, Shumake. Thank you for being a faithful, uncompromised man of God, husband, and father. And, thank you, Mrs. Shumake, for allowing him to do so with your amazing support (it's evident). Y'all are family, PERIOD. As far as needing to cut back some from this platform in this season... take care of y'all's household first 🙏🏾... We'll be here whenever you pop in 👌🏾
@ThaaaOneXoxo
@ThaaaOneXoxo 4 ай бұрын
All you men are preaching to have a good time and pass women along… this is all men now not just fathers because men are listening to y’all with a platform & god will hold everyone who has a platform responsible for what they preach to others
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 ай бұрын
The fact older men push other men to:run through women, put her on rotation, be polygamous, tells me they are irresponsible.
@laughattack1204
@laughattack1204 3 ай бұрын
😮‍💨 Well .... f*ck it, I'm not even gonna try to explain it. Good luck, just stay away from bad people and be with good people. It's a reaction to the initial negative female behavior for a certain demographic of men who have been used. Some men, are being out of line though. Just lustful with no love. For the average man though, no! You're just wrong.
@OrchidTingz
@OrchidTingz 4 ай бұрын
Shumake I'm so so thankful you highlight over and over again that if young girls and women had healthy active and present fathers teaching them and loving them There wouldn't be so much of the toxic behavior chaos and brokenness we are seeing today honestly the ONLY reason why so many men get women pregnant and in abusive relationships is because the young woman/woman does not know her worth power and purpose! The only way so many men get the women they get is because the woman is broken, naive, and unaware of the potential loss danger and abuse that's lurking if women knew the truth prior to so many children wouldn't have been conceived nor relationships started God help us 🙏🏾🕊
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 ай бұрын
Family members like Aunties or female cousins should be stepping in as Mentors if her parents are not morally guiding her.These red pill men are creepy to only want to date young,vulnerable girls.
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 4 ай бұрын
This is exactly why ppl need to leave child free women alone. First they bash single mothers and then they want to bash women who don’t want kids… Also ladies if you have a boy mom this is not a healthy relationship. This is how y’all end up with sons agreeing with this type of content about blaming single moms.
@utamu777
@utamu777 4 ай бұрын
So true, they despise single mothers yet despise childless women that don't have to be tethered to them. They need women to orbit them and run after their approval, otherwise they're perpetually insecure.
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 4 ай бұрын
They will bash every single woman who is not living in submission of at least one man. Men do this across continents, cultures, religions, etc.
@ladietee2824
@ladietee2824 3 ай бұрын
Yes, leave us alone unless you're READY and treat us well. Your handle is wild 😂
@royalpriestess3467
@royalpriestess3467 4 ай бұрын
“The problem with men” sums up my entire life 🙌🏾 wow you’re honestly the first guy that has ever explained my story! I have one child and definitely a blessing and a lesson for me! I was with her dad 7 years I thought we were going to spend our life together oddly. Once she came he treated me poorly! No body understands I don’t have that mentality let’s have sex and create a baby! My whole life changed for a selfish individual who was self unaware. Someone who thought oh because we were together for all these years you’ll stay with me forever! I thank god I didn’t have a lack of mentality. I’m just hoping for the best for me and daughter! She deserves everything and more!!!
@KevonnieElaine
@KevonnieElaine 4 ай бұрын
Anton probably doesn’t believe half the stuff he’s saying 😭, but he does believe in get a bag lol.
@annagrace1159
@annagrace1159 4 ай бұрын
The guy is disgusting why do people exhalt him?
@candacewalton9456
@candacewalton9456 4 ай бұрын
He believes it. He’s blinded by his pride and ego. His tactic is to double and triple speak, throw 5 points out in different directions, cut people off when they attempt to respond point by point. Hes an arrogant clown and the only reason he thinks he seems intelligent is because he’s articulate in speech… yet saying absolutely nothing of importance. Simple word games which is why those that think a little slower than his fast talk, subscribe to his spewed hate for Gods people. This man is simply judging himself by the world. He’s not of Gods Kingdom.
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
like most of these wannabe celeb degenerates
@Franklyspeaking872
@Franklyspeaking872 4 ай бұрын
I feel like this video was meant for me to hear because I’m that person that gets in my feelings when I see ppl spreading toxicity and destroying our community and it makes me angry and makes me comment when I’m in a place of frustration and the curse words comes out, this is why I always tell ppl I’m new when it comes to my walk with God because I have my struggles that I’m working on. I always ask ppl to pray for me because my words when I’m angry doesn’t represent my heart and who I truly am as a child of God. You just helped me realize that it’s best for me not to always speak my mind when I’m in my feelings.
@analikab5631
@analikab5631 4 ай бұрын
I'm not new to Christ and it disturbs my spirit too!
@keepingupwkaykay
@keepingupwkaykay 4 ай бұрын
Same here! Thank you for your honesty and for sharing. I’m the same way! Keeping you in my prayers
@missp498
@missp498 4 ай бұрын
The sad thing is the so called Bad Women are often acting a role of a baddie because they have been in contact with these abusive, disrespectful, predatory and weak men. They decide to expoilt them, if you are going to be treated poorly you might as well get paid, so they turn the tables, they become hardened and they take money were they can. Quite a souless life and the men making the podcasts about these women are doing the exact same thing. Not good for your mental health, destroys your humanity.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 ай бұрын
💯
@PhotoJeticPoet
@PhotoJeticPoet 3 ай бұрын
That's how my sister is 😢 it's scary seeing how she moves and while most of them deserve it objectively even just based on their interactions with each other she sometimes runs into a seemingly good man who is really trying to take her seriously and it hurts my feelings seeing her dog them out. She often reminds me that there are more women who want a life and to build with a man than there are women like her who are just about money and monetary gain is what they want, so if the men were actually well meaning they wouldn't even go for her in the first place. She is very clear about the fact that coming for her is paying her way and you'll never be the only man for her she goes as far as to regularly publicly humiliate men so if they want a good girl why are they asking her?
@sjames5777
@sjames5777 4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad to hear this perspective from a male. ALL these podcasters should be more focused on solution oriented conversations versus tearing down others. I wish people would quit listening to them.
@SerenityTheAltruist
@SerenityTheAltruist 4 ай бұрын
It is such a shame that this is nothing but the true. Tearing each other down is never the answer and just creates room for more sin and fear to divide us. If we were solution oriented America would be thriving rn.
@veganbutterfly3652
@veganbutterfly3652 4 ай бұрын
I have to say I am not a Christian but I truly appreciate your integrity and honesty.
@sharonprice05
@sharonprice05 4 ай бұрын
Shumaker youre the type of man that women would love to have god bless you and your family. You're one of a kind.....❤❤❤
@PrettieGirlGangTV
@PrettieGirlGangTV 4 ай бұрын
This video deserves more views, this channel deserves more reach than any of these other channels.
@lovelym6565
@lovelym6565 4 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@ariannahawkins5945
@ariannahawkins5945 4 ай бұрын
I totally agree! Gives you hope that there may possibly be guys out there who have sense.🤗
@lashellc0517
@lashellc0517 4 ай бұрын
Agreed 💯💯
@jennbati6277
@jennbati6277 4 ай бұрын
Let’s share it I know I am!❤
@dayahdiva78
@dayahdiva78 4 ай бұрын
I agree, but unfortunately, people don’t want to hear the truth. They wanna be fed lies by the other podcast that he’s referring to. They have to find a way to validate their own BS.
@2s3s4s5s9s
@2s3s4s5s9s 4 ай бұрын
This is one of your best lectures that I've ever heard. These men seem to be a growing segment in our community that is causing further deterioration and division. They think they are laying heavy knowledge but everyone else can see that they have no knowledge about healthy community at all. Complete toxicity. They have no plans to better themselves because they actually think that they're already the best that they can be. Smh.
@nik-at-nite
@nik-at-nite 4 ай бұрын
Yea I’ve heard “the stats say most BM don’t have kids out of wedlock” and “most BM don’t have kids”. I really wonder where they get their stats from and how they come to their conclusions cuz everything I’ve looked up debunks that within a 5-10 min search from credible sources…
@analikab5631
@analikab5631 4 ай бұрын
Padded numbers
@arlusterpenn6019
@arlusterpenn6019 4 ай бұрын
Sooo... If most BM not making babies out of wedlock. How are the single BW getting pregnant 🤔🤯 Anton doesn't make sense.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 4 ай бұрын
I didn't even bother fact checking that, those were too blatantly patently false.
@sherriew36
@sherriew36 4 ай бұрын
They pull it out their azz
@deesavage3777
@deesavage3777 4 ай бұрын
I swear I choked when he sat there and told that bald headed lie!!!!😂😂😂😂
@mitzivalentin8410
@mitzivalentin8410 4 ай бұрын
Just letting you know that you are helping me in my healing journey so much. Thank you.
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏿🫂
@Imaginationvibezz
@Imaginationvibezz 4 ай бұрын
A man raised in a two-parent household, and still toxic and doing reckless things towards women is wild! like who raises these men. I'm starting to think the parents just gave up or just never cared to teach them to respect women, chivalry, honesty, manners they are given 0 home training.
@aprilwashington3150
@aprilwashington3150 4 ай бұрын
At 48:50, what data is Cross Eyed Rick Ross talking about???? If most men are not having babies out of wedlock, then how did they end up on child support??? Look at rappers and Athletes alone. All dem jokers have 2, 3, 4+ baby mamas. This ninja like gaslighting himself 😂
@janice2240
@janice2240 4 ай бұрын
You made my night
@quilabill
@quilabill 4 ай бұрын
And those same type of men have babies by non black women yet it’s our fault???
@sade_8637
@sade_8637 4 ай бұрын
Not the cross eyed Rick Ross!!!!!😂🤣
@Daft_Sage
@Daft_Sage 4 ай бұрын
I don't know if this is true, but there is a study called "Fertility of Men and Women Aged 15-49 in the United States: National Survey of Family Growth, 2015-2019." The study says 61% of black women have had kids by age 49, while 46% of black men have had kids by age 49. My understanding is that there is slightly more black women than men from mid 20s up. Put those two data points together and the story suggests some men have multiple baby mothers while a large minority (maybe even a majority) of black men do not have kids.
@aprilwashington3150
@aprilwashington3150 4 ай бұрын
​@@Daft_SageI hear ya. But this deduction is flawed. To factor in the population of men who aren't getting any s3xual opportunities to begin with will always skew the results in that direction.
@JustBeYouTy
@JustBeYouTy 4 ай бұрын
Women making babies by themselves 😩
@c.g.8724
@c.g.8724 4 ай бұрын
So he's saying it's the women who are having babies out of wedlock, not the men. But, in order for a woman to have a baby out of wedlock, doesn't she have to be impregnated by a man? Just asking🤔🤔🤔
@laustin2832
@laustin2832 4 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!! He exposed his own lies every other talking point.
@MomoAfterDark
@MomoAfterDark 4 ай бұрын
Look at the statistics. There are far more single mothers than single fathers because women are having kids with a smaller group of men.
@louveniawilliast9178
@louveniawilliast9178 3 ай бұрын
These dudes are dumb 😂
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 22 күн бұрын
He works for the circus
@VentureOut___
@VentureOut___ 4 ай бұрын
Theyre operating like who?? Like MEN. EXACTLY. .... 💯
@Key-Key444
@Key-Key444 4 ай бұрын
🎯
@deedeemeredith5081
@deedeemeredith5081 4 ай бұрын
In the words of my grandma ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 4 ай бұрын
@@deedeemeredith5081 OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Love this one your grandma was GOOOOODDDDD with words💯💯💯
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
@@deedeemeredith5081 love this saying!!!! Oh my, would love to hear what she got to say on this new type of men, who are men only in their bodies, but immature toddlers mentally, who take pleasure in abusing women and sowing immorality!
@rachelphillips5576
@rachelphillips5576 4 ай бұрын
As always youre dropping Facts💯. Miss you when youre not on but i understand you need to reset and gain back some sanity
@LLOriginal
@LLOriginal 3 ай бұрын
I clicked on this. Never seen this channel before and it's such a refreshing thing to hear... I have a son and struggle so hard with him sometimes, it's why I clicked on it hoping I can get some advice on how to help him.... AND his father is in his life and it reminds me of something I said a few months ago... There's just nothing I can do anymore. He needs his Dad to step up and there's nothing I can do that will help. It breaks my heart so deeply. I grew up in a single mother house with a stepdad who did nothing. And yes I'm divorced 50/50 custody and his Dad may as well not even be there. My 8yr old has already seen inappropriate things in his care... It's just so sad. The world needs good men. Good men to help boys. Good men to volunteer and help. Good men in congress changing things. Good men standing up to all these predators. It's so hard because there's just nothing I can do. And I want to help. I get so scared for my son.
@deemu7606
@deemu7606 4 ай бұрын
This is why you live your life the Godly way. Dont lay with a man unless you are married. Come on ladies.....trust me, if you give men an ultimatum.....no ring, no sex....youll see all the players run....quickest way to get rid of the players and not waste your yrs on timewasters who only looking for a quick hook up.
@utamu777
@utamu777 4 ай бұрын
You're right, but a lot of us stay single for a long time living the abstinent life. We have peace for sure, but there's sacrifice involved since many men are not marriage minded. There's way more men claiming to be marriage minded online then there is in real life. However, when I ask them if they've ever proposed to a woman there's crickets.
@MomoAfterDark
@MomoAfterDark 4 ай бұрын
@@utamu777 Sounds like excuses.
@utamu777
@utamu777 4 ай бұрын
@@MomoAfterDark excuses for what
@PhotoJeticPoet
@PhotoJeticPoet 3 ай бұрын
​@@utamu777 I agree with you. I was with a man for 6 years and when we broke up I was single for 4 years before I even dated again just working on myself and my emotions thinking I'll be running into like minded men eventually....... Nope. In the last 4 years (started getting out again during the pandemic my 1st mistake) I have ran into 2 men who were serious about marriage and 1 broke up with me because I didn't want to have a baby before getting married (I was not pregnant just on birth control and he hated that.) And the other one side we just weren't compatible then married a white girl he met around the same time as me 6 months later. Every other man I've dated has been very clear that marriage and kids is completely out of the picture for them and I've dated and got to know men between the ages of 20-55 so these aren't just small pockets of men in the Gex X and Millennial generation it's the majority of them.
@Genesisonetwentyseven
@Genesisonetwentyseven Ай бұрын
It's the married husbands who act more single than anybody
@elyse443
@elyse443 4 ай бұрын
I got married at 38. I never had one single good dating experience with BM. My husband is not Bl@ck nor are any ex bf’s who are good guys that just weren’t right for me. Our sons have a super committed, loving, powerful father who loves them so much. I honestly just literally cannot say even one single experience I had in all those years with BM was respectful, loving, or even normal tbh. I was pretty shocked at the contrast. It was extreme. The best BM I know is hard to be with because he has really intense PTSD from trauma in the military/war. But overall it was extremely unfortunate.
@laughattack1204
@laughattack1204 3 ай бұрын
That's unfortunate, as a WM there are a lot of good BM out there. Just not in some areas, same with all cultures. Always good to find someone you get along with. I just feel bad because I don't think that's what a lot of BW what deep down. It's disappointing. Same with women too. Weird too, I get in these periods where I only attract 1 type of race. I'm on Haitians right now.
@saraivivii
@saraivivii 3 ай бұрын
This topic is elementary. If black men don’t know this stuff by now, they’re doomed. The mentality is garbage. But I do like this channel.
@wisdomspeakslife
@wisdomspeakslife 4 ай бұрын
I had to comment🙏🏽 I watched this from beginning to end. Your message of compassion, love and truth is heart piercing. So many need these healing words in a time when hearts are growing increasingly cold. I pray God increase you and multiply you over and over again, and that this platform will reward you greatly, so that you and your wife will laugh in disbelief at what God has done overnight! Surely God smiles on you❤️
@PhotoJeticPoet
@PhotoJeticPoet 3 ай бұрын
I was driving around doordashing yesterday around 3:30 and I stopped at a red light by a bus stop. A group of extremely young boys started yelling at me about how they would steal my car and walkimg up on my vehicle i took off but they literally had their uniform on and were down the street from their school....... What is the world coming to? I saw a middle schooler with a hoodie on that said "Money over friends." Like he's ever made a $1 in his life......
@ladietee2824
@ladietee2824 3 ай бұрын
As a middle school educator, I believe you. Happy you're safe.
@Destiny13Taylor
@Destiny13Taylor 4 ай бұрын
I’m in the beginning of this video. Anton Daniels is so cringey to me and i feel like every single top he speaks on has nothing to do with him or his life. I can’t take him seriously. Provide solutions and stop bashing people.
@kkalayaan
@kkalayaan 4 ай бұрын
I feel that most if not all of these guys are former PUAs who just never stopped negging. Thats what this all is.
@angelawilliams9088
@angelawilliams9088 4 ай бұрын
WHY ARE ONLY BM TALKING HEAVILY TALKING ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT?! WHAT'S WRONG WITH THEM?!
@louveniawilliast9178
@louveniawilliast9178 3 ай бұрын
Because they bums
@bMack270
@bMack270 3 ай бұрын
Males: men are being raised wrong by these women. Women: ok so tell the men to come help raise their children. Males: HELL NO, she should have required marriage first so the man should just continue with life with no worries and the women and children should just suffer A woman who was married: well i married my childs father and he still abandoned use when we divorced. Males: You should have known who you were marrying beforehand. One day yall gone realize that the men are right, WE SHOULD NOT BE SLEEPING WITH THEM. thats quite literally the only solution. Why take such a huge risk with a group of people who are adamant that they refuse to take responsibility? THEY NEVER HAVE SOLUTIONS, THEY JUST WANT TO ASSIGN BLAME.
@paigelillian91
@paigelillian91 4 ай бұрын
“That ain’t Jesus giggling” took me out lmaoooo
@coolasice7560
@coolasice7560 4 ай бұрын
Shumake I appreciate you as a positive black male bloggers' opinion.
@lane89
@lane89 4 ай бұрын
I was gonna say something negative about Anton but he’s already him that should be punishment enough. Sir why is this such a hot topic in the black community the Hispanic community and white communities blending families and men like Anton trying to make sure black mothers who’ve already had children don’t have partners. Instead of encouraging blending families men like Anton cause more problems and division. It’s really sick 🤒.
@truthserum1271
@truthserum1271 4 ай бұрын
Again… Why ostracize and punish the parent that stayed #FatherAbandonedHomes
@iloveyougumi
@iloveyougumi 4 ай бұрын
Deuteronomy 28:54 ...and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave One of the many curses on our people
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
i guess, coz those ''men'' aka poor excuses of men, just desire totally broken society, obv it is their agenda, so they hate guts the parents who stayed , ..they never seem to have an issue with men leaving their kids...they have issues with woman raising the kid....so that tells us that these ''men'' are anti-life, anti-human and on agenda.
@bombyo3634
@bombyo3634 4 ай бұрын
Like i said. Stop having kids out of wedlock. Stop messing around people! Men stop having kids Women stop having kids. Stop letting your emotions and lust get the better of you. Pray and have discernment before you lay down especially if your childless. Put Jesus Christ First. You, We are all accountable for our actions. We will all be judged for our actions.
@aprilwashington3150
@aprilwashington3150 4 ай бұрын
I know plenty of men have 50/50 (one week on, one week off) custody. Court works both ways. Documentation works both ways. But yall don't show up, or if you do, you come unprepared.
@christom8605
@christom8605 4 ай бұрын
That's a lie you don't know plenty of men with 50 50 custody that's statically impossible
@laustin2832
@laustin2832 4 ай бұрын
@@christom8605I know men with 50/50 and even 100% custody. I even know a man who had a judge help him lie in court to steal a child from a good mom. There are a lot of men who get fair treatment, we’re just used to hearing the horror stories.
@MBJean
@MBJean 4 ай бұрын
It’s astounding when men say choose better, it’s a tell they themselves are victim blaming predators while trying to tell everyone they’re the exception. The same ones will also complain that his wife left him and put him on child support while refusing to use his own logic on himself
@MrVictorjackson
@MrVictorjackson 4 ай бұрын
The Manoshere is about as hypocritical as modern feminism. Thanks for bringing this to the light. May God continue to Bless you bro!
@cocoblessings
@cocoblessings 4 ай бұрын
I agree! Both movements are wicked and ungodly.
@SerenityTheAltruist
@SerenityTheAltruist 4 ай бұрын
Agreed both are pushing a dangerous agenda that is rooted in sinful greed.
@abbiereynolds8016
@abbiereynolds8016 4 ай бұрын
Opposite ends of the horseshoe.
@Genesisonetwentyseven
@Genesisonetwentyseven Ай бұрын
Modern feminism is as necessary as the black pride movement
@lynnmaxwell8032
@lynnmaxwell8032 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for putting some common sense out here.
@perrykeshahwalker5321
@perrykeshahwalker5321 4 ай бұрын
man you are cooking.
@Jujubean9795
@Jujubean9795 4 ай бұрын
The first thing Anton said was, it’s not a man’s problem… Sir what? Then he follows it up with lies, after lies, after lies. He’s gross. You can’t have a single mom without a father that chose to walk away. The blame is 50/50. Failing to hold BOTH parties accountable is insane. Anton clearly hates BW and the fact that he has a wife and a daughter is disheartening.
@mrneotech
@mrneotech 4 ай бұрын
It'a crazy, because Shumake is clearly "That guy". He's the guy that Anton and Fresh and Myron are trying to be. But Christ found Shumake. Fresh, Anton, and Myron show they're are not that Guy because they all try to claim some religious affiliation. When you're that guy you're either in or you're out. Just leave God out of your mess. SMH.
@Miakia41
@Miakia41 4 ай бұрын
How do men take no accountability for knocking a woman up and leaving ??? Both parties have to be accountable, but most men, not all, place all the blame on the women. That's why you have women that would rather be single than deal with narcissistic males that won't step up because their Daddies left.....Like KS said , "You can't make this shit up." Respectfully
@iloveyougumi
@iloveyougumi 4 ай бұрын
Deuteronomy 28:54 ...and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave One of the many curses on our people
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 4 ай бұрын
very well said! Exactly! No true masculinity = NO ACCOUNTABILITY. And a man, who takes no accountability for his decisions and consequences of those said decisions, is not worthy to be a called a ''man''!
@ShanniSlayTV
@ShanniSlayTV 4 ай бұрын
Why is anton even talking like that and marrried
@aprilwashington3150
@aprilwashington3150 4 ай бұрын
Cuz that's his cover up wife
@kayjeffs3741
@kayjeffs3741 4 ай бұрын
He's at minimum...going to cheat in his wife if he hasn't already...he might even leave her one day...plus he seems sus
@kaylabean3693
@kaylabean3693 4 ай бұрын
@@kayjeffs3741my cousin talks like him, tryimg to make his voice sound higher pitched, and he’s gay, men that are always so ready to have so much sex, remind me of gay men. When I was close friends with gay guys they literally would meet a man and immediately have sex, which is why I think for guys like them, women aren’t fulfilling, because we’re not the ones or holes that they want in the first place
@rachelphillips5576
@rachelphillips5576 4 ай бұрын
The devil is the prince of the earth he has so much dominion until Jesus comes back to destry him and his followers. He hasnt won. Jesus won the war on the cross. We got the victory in Jesus ‼️
@stepfaniehawkins205
@stepfaniehawkins205 3 ай бұрын
Let's pray he remembers his way back....... 2024 years and counting! The Jews have been waiting nearly 6000 years for their messiah lol according to their calendar. Smh, these dieties, never actually around when you need them huh? Oh well, let's pray I guess......
@MsBrown-ey2sc
@MsBrown-ey2sc Ай бұрын
Amen, amen, and say amen again church.
@meangreen6044
@meangreen6044 Ай бұрын
He the prince but who the King? The king is running the show. 🙏
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