Codependency or Narcissism: Which One Are You?

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Codependency or Narcissism: Which One Are You?

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Relationships That Work with Michelle Farris

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@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

Here is the link to get my free Relationship Checklists & video that I talk about in the video counselingrecovery.lpages.co/relationship-checklist/

@SimplyL 2 жыл бұрын

I was codependent with a vulnerable narcissist for 16 years... I lived in a small fake and incredible world. She discarded me and I was in limbo... Now I see the world for the first time and I'm working on myself. But I feed my codependency with my son and I'm working on that too.

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

This works takes a lot of courage so pack yourself on the back for being willing to do it! I have lots of videos and resources on my website on codependency - feel free to check them out :) and thank you for watching!

@jjrc7777 2 жыл бұрын

It was incredible, out for 2 weeks

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

@@jjrc7777 sorry - can you clarify that? I don’t understand.

@diannewelsh6475 2 жыл бұрын

That was great. I think I am more codependant and sometimes have narcissistic tendencies. I notice not many admit their narc tendencies, but from what I can see, most people seem to have them.

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

Yep, that is a GREAT observation. Thanks so much for watching Dianne!

@specygirl85 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a codependent person but after watching your videos I am changing myself a lot, my behavior towards others are changing.the change have hurted me so much. I'm trying to put myself first but I sometimes find it hard and I m trying to balance but I get confused so I speak what I feel. If I m hurting I just say that to people on face. I don't want to become narcissist but maybe I will have a little bit narcissism behavior but I was only hurting myself in any friendship and relationship before recovery..i know I always put blame on myself for every person who feels hurt by me..it is hard I have broken my all friendship and find it difficult to trust anyone..i know over time it will be better..everything happens for a reason..Thanks for your help.

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

YAY! This makes me so happy! Baby steps count - and I have some free journal prompts on my website if you're interested in getting on my list :) I have LOTS on codependency :)

@mj02 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the great insight! I'll definitely watch this again.

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Melissa, I was hoping this topic would resonate!

@TracyAMalone 2 жыл бұрын

I watched this this morning and already sent three clients to watch! Great video Michelle ♥

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tracy! I've sent a few clients to your channel as well! LOVE the mutual support!

@Passionhearted1 2 жыл бұрын

This was really helpful to me & at the right time. I was really overwhelmed with so much info out there & wondering if it may be me. Thank you

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad - I try to condense the information so it's easier to understand and less overwhelming. Thank you for watching!

@mayatbee4223 2 жыл бұрын

please talk about narcissism recovery

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

My knowledge is more around the relationship aspect. I'd recommend Dr. Ramona's channel kzfaq.info - she has TONS of videos on this topic.

@ANU-pz5bx Жыл бұрын

Most of the time I feel very small myself so I think I've codependency issue

@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын

I understand- feeling small is a part of codependency. Be sure to check out my playlist on Codependency 😀

@ANU-pz5bx Жыл бұрын

@@MichelleFarrismft but sometimes when I always try to be selfish Then I think that I'm a narcissistic person,so confusing

@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын

Yeah this can be confusing. It helps to have a counselor or support group to help you along the way.

@ANU-pz5bx Жыл бұрын

@@MichelleFarrismft Yeah

@sondrareams8014 Жыл бұрын

Don’t we need to take care of ourselves ? When I wake up I think about self regulation and survival. I then reach out to others.

@MichelleFarrismft Жыл бұрын

Yes! Taking care of yourself first is key but in codependency that’s a challenge.

@richardeliasjames5190 2 жыл бұрын

I had the one question from you. Can you please tell me if you love someone and someone wants to control your life and spying on you all the times..and seeking the old things so that's a narcissistic person....or very disturbing scenario..?

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

That's definitely controlling behavior and might indicate trust issues in the relationship. That can be a part of narcissistic behavior but those traits alone point more to control issues. Hope that helps!

@richardeliasjames5190 2 жыл бұрын

@@MichelleFarrismft actually it happened with me very brutally and someone broken my feeling deep down and when someone controlling me and also spying on me. I did felt so weird and also adding my Facebook friend too. As she done with me wrong things..and she was controlling me badly way...I was being honest with her.. because I am an preacher on my Facebook page. And she was abusing me and also torching me from my past life... and I did felt so weak and the anxious now I did believed this narcissistic person don't break your body actually they break your soul forever..

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

@@richardeliasjames5190 I know that must have been incredibly painful but I’m hoping you have a good therapist to help you heal. If you need resources, let me know. I’m happy to help if I can.

@richardeliasjames5190 2 жыл бұрын

@@MichelleFarrismft You can dear sister help me

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

@@richardeliasjames5190 feel free to look at my website.

@mayatbee4223 2 жыл бұрын

I am both pretty sevrely and I am so confused. can you explain that?

@MichelleFarrismft 2 жыл бұрын

I would suggest checking out Ross Rosenberg’s KZfaq channel. His book The Human Magnet Syndrome is an amazing resource.

@mathews0618 Ай бұрын

Theres a real lack of understanding with npd. This lady read a book. Thats not gonna tell you much about npd

@MichelleFarrismft Ай бұрын

@@mathews0618 thanks anyway for watching!

@mathews0618 Ай бұрын

@MichelleFarrismft no offense intended. Theres a community of people that have experienced npd, bpd and all the mixes from birth to current form. The ones that escaped and have awareness have a better understanding of the disorder than therapists in my opinion. Therapists watch the movie while victims (lack of a better term) were part of the production. I would gladly be interviewed on my experiences and why i continued to pick them as partners. Because thats the real tough thing to discover. I have a very strong sense of self. I have no identity issues. I dont suffer from any mental health disorders and yet there is a reason i pick them. So if you are ever interested, i'd do a phone call or zoom with you.

@MichelleFarrismft Ай бұрын

@@mathews0618 thanks, I’ve had personal experiences with these folks but I understand what you’re saying. Good luck to you!