Yep, it was just the case of them simply needing an expert to help them with a problem they'd no idea how to deal with.

And his face when she is rejecting him, it breaks his heart

Refreshing and wholesome!

its doing not dooing

@@coolesttasha Yeah, sorry notsorry my english its pretty bad. (my spelling in my natal language isn't much better either) :)

You've got a great point!🤔👍

i used to have a female dog like that , it was terrified of people . The only i could pet it was to call my other dog , the alpha of the pack ( also female) , and she'd "convince" her to sit still( i was only 11 at the time don't judge me ).

+aswanson42-He actually is one of the absolute sweetest male owners I've seen from the show so far. A male owner that is not overly controlling and dominating, and being absolutely combatant. Just a doggy "dad" that is absolutely heartbroken his paw child is so afraid of him and he doesn't have a relationship with her because of it. It is hard to get through that repeated rejection, because you do believe that this is somehow your fault. That maybe you're just "not good enough." It's frustrating when your paw child is that afraid of you, even if it's not your fault. And with him, it clearly wasn't. And Victoria was more gentle with him than she usually is with owners that get in her face because she realized he wasn't a bad person. And he really listened to what she had to say. I think she appreciated that. When she went back to help, she wasn't angry, just a little upset that he had gotten so upset that the trust was a slow build and it would take some time. But she understood why he was so hurt about it and just gently told him it will take some time. You just have to be patient. And he clearly understood it would take a lot of time, love, and care to get Junie B to trust him. It may hurt but he truly wanted a relationship with Junie B. And hopefully over time, Junie B grew more and more comfortable with him to where their love for each other grew. And for the rest of her life, Junie B always wanted to be near Daddy.

Yeah thats why i dont want a dog at the moment cause i know if it acts like that i cant handle it

My husband is making things worst with my dog 😭😭😭. It so frustrating. Once we got married, me moved in together. Everything was going perfect between my dog and my husband until one day. He started being afraid of him. I want him to try and recover the relationship but, my husband gets frustrated and sometimes even thinks is funny.

I was thinking exactly that! He seemed more defeated than frustrated.

@hamsterpotato very that indeed

@hamsterpotato hellz yeah! We stan men who express their feelings in non-toxic ways on this channel!!!

KissMyAspergers Do you speak any English?

I disagree. There’s anger there.

😊💗

No, he doesn’t.

@@christar9527 Oh did you ask him? :]

@@christar9527 He literally asks if he would be able to pick her up during the training as he makes some progress lol

Sharky Naomi I kinda see Junie B Jones XD

Lol I know right!? 😂🤭

Mendes Army Technically she did though. Right?

I think the producers purposefully pick ignorant owners who will get into a fight w Victoria for the views. I wish I could see her with relatively normal owners and dogs that have typical issues. But its entertainment, not education.

IKR 😂 😇

@@rosedragonblade2847 She taught him a couple of techniques, but it was mostly exposure therapy for a traumatized rescue dog.

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Ikr

if he was feeling it and i'm sure he was he did a great job internalizing it. good emotional competence.

When I worked at my local shelter this was actually pretty common too, some dogs just don’t like men, whatever their experience was

They don’t pass the mans best friend check 🥲 sadly

And also the boy slinging rubber bands at Junie B.

People just need animals to have been abused, its sick. You can post literally anything and fifty adopt don't shop types will come running to get off to the dog having a tiny scar means it was clearly abused and beaten and starved

@@nickywal adopt don't shop!

Valeria Marquez 😂

U sure about that

Ugh childhood memories

Childhood yes

I LOVED those books so much as a kid my God

Yeah seems odd they didn't try that

@@MirandorlHow do you know they didn't? This isn't the full episode

They pointed out that she also had the same reaction with their son.

ok cheers

Did you not watch when they had the whole family and how she was uncomfortable around their son but not the daughter?

Alexis Pye Thats what I was hoping to!🥺

Same here 😍

That’s what I said, Junie B Jones was my childhood🥺❤️

Me too!

that series was my entire childhood lmao

K Bennett I have a rescue dog that was badly abused by young men with dark hair. I’ve had her about 4 years now and though she’s much much better, she can still be very skittish around men, especially young men. It’s so sad that someone somewhere in her past traumatised her so badly that she’s scared after all these years. She’s an absolute sweetie with the kindest nature in the world. I wish I could get my hands on whoever broke her.

We had a boxer named Bella. My mom got her in Las Vegas from some shady dude in a ball cap. Bella Hayes when my dad came around cause he always had on a hat. My mom figured she was abused by him. My sister also has a dog that is stand off-ish with men that wear hats and also small children, she said she knows she came from a bad home because after she got the dog, the dog wouldn’t come out from under her kitchen table for 2 whole days

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Bless him for taking it off for the dog!

My sister's dog is so sweet but barks and gets scared when he sees a man in a hat, or if anyone hugs he barks and gets scared. He was a rescue 😔 idk what happened to him but you can imagine

Sara's Shenanigans my friends mini poodle is that way with her mother too lol

I'm pretty sure it's just a poodle thing! I have a standard and he's pretty much like having a toddler.

So true! My mini poodle Lucky is SUPER attached to my mom. However, he still greets me and my dad equally. He loves everyone! Lol

my toy poodle is the same. i still remember the time when he was puppy, he would cry because i taking a bath and he couldnt go in the shower with me. whenever he was eating downstairs, and i was just in my room, he'd knock on my door because he wants to be in my room asap. he also refuses to sleep on the floor because he wants to sleep on the bed with me

@@levim7184 I always tell people having a Standard Poodle is like having a child! My boy is 14 months and is my baby lol

Ash Ketchum' ❤️

Yeah, he’s a nice person

U dont know him. Dont ever trust anyone. Even people you know for years could be a murderer or abuser etc etc.

Gewoon Iemand Well you don’t know him either so it’s strange to be so paranoid about everyone possibly being a murderer, abuser etc.

Gewoon Iemand Yeahhh except it's you watched the full episode, she is a rescue and is scared of him AND her son. But she's okay with her and her daughter. So no. :|

When people tell you who they are, believe them

I think in general life he has bad patience, but he was genuinely trying for this to work.

My dog hugs on me like that (dachshund). But I'm a solo owner & it mainly happens in 1.5-2+ feet of snow 😂. It looks like a "Mommy help me!" scenario. Yes I carry her when that happens.

My poodle’s never been abused but does that too! Either just clinging on to my leg or asking to be picked up. They really are like little toddlers 😂

Could just be an issue of not being properly socialised? If the mum and daughter were both more involved at the start it could've started a natural bias. Then when the son is shooting her, who comforts her? A woman. So its understandable, without necessarily being abused

That's what I feared reading this video title, thankfully that's not the case here!

Dogs like in this case can sense things that people can't.

There was an episode where the kids and dad sometimes got very heavy handed with the dog.. Victoria was not having it

There've been a few cases, sadly :/

there have been several episodes where the owners were unintentionally abusing the dogs because they didn't know better, like the one where the dog has scars from the shock collar they used, or the one where the dog literally passed out from being choked by the choke collar :( Victoria set them all straight of course!

Poodle

Wee dog?

DogsAreMyArmy when people say “wee ______” they mean “little ______”. It’s more commonly used in Scotland.

@@winglingdawn small dog

Considering, that other family dogs don't have that issue - I doubt it. And considering, that Junnie feels equally uncomfortable with their son too - it's probably just her poodle issues. She could make a wrong connection towards the man anytime in her lifespan and not just regarding the leash, since she was also trying to avoid man's hands etc.

@@BeastRedAsh No she has a problem with men and /or boys, the shelter were they got her from confirmed it before they took her in. Some men (and women for that matter) really enjoy it when they can hurt smaller and weaker beings.

My heart breaks for him. He's got loads of love to give her.

That was probably part of the problem, yes. Another problem was that Junie B was picking up on Joe's hesitation and uncertainty and that made her even more nervous. Because she didn't know why he was hesitating and looked so uncertain. And she knows she can't see that big hand behind her, she doesn't know what that big hand is going to do to her. And that makes her shut down. It was a better way to leash her up front or on the side. She didn't seem violent or mean, so leashing her on front wouldn't have been much of an issue. Victoria only probably encouraged going behind the back because she believed Junie B would freak out more if she saw the big hand coming for her and the less Junie B was aware that she was being leashed, the less she would freak out about it. But it was a better approach to show his hands. What he had in those hands and that he didn't mean anything other than that he was trying to leash her. This is what I'm only trying to do, I'm not trying to do anything else. And once she got more comfortable with Joe was when Joe got begin to try clipping the leash behind her back. That clicking noise when he went behind her back and when he clipped the leash probably freaked her out too. What is that noise? What did you do to me? Even if she is familiar to the sound of the leash being clipped on, with that intense fear, she is just not functioning the way she normally would and understanding, oh yeah, it's just the leash, it's okay. Big hand going above her, loud clipping noise. Maybe it would've good had Joe put his hand above her to show his other hand with a treat while he was doing it. At least Junie B then sees that one hand is not dangerous and that one hand she does see has something delicious in it. It's probably something Victoria later realized and encouraged later owners to do. Victoria is a rare dog behaviorist that will actually keep up with research and newest techniques and try to do better than she already has. With very timid dogs like Junie B, you have to go very careful and gentle and with a lot of love and patience. Treats help too.

He should also practice reaching just a little over her and immediately giving her a treat, when he doesn't need to put a leash on. Then he can practice smaller steps and not have to worry about whether he gets the leash on that time. Just focus on getting her to enjoy him reaching even slightly towards her

@@junbh2 yep. Go slowly and let Junie B get used to the hand first, leash comes later. I understand victoria doing it now as she doesn't have much time there and needed to solve the issue, but the owners got plenty of time so maybe they could try that ^^ even just opening his hand staying still and letting her sniff might help teach her it's not dangerous

I was dog sitting and socializing a dog (because the owner wouldn't put in the work), and had him meet another poodle (mind you with owner supervision and permission), but the poodle snapped at the poor puppy. Next day, the puppy would not go the same route as before--whimpered and cried. Just froze there, even though I was calm and confident, even with a treat, he sat down and was like, nope. I ended up going around the block the other way and then tried a few days later to go the same direction as before and nope. Calm, confident me, v. dog remembering a one-off event. Dog won for the remainder of the dog sitting even if we passed the same house going in the other direction. I did learn, though, that dogs have a fairly good memory for trauma. And the puppy did learn lots of confidence under me.

@@yoonmikim5663 Oh that's.. That's a sad turn of events. Do you still dogsit him? If there are any dogs he trusts/plays with a lot, perhaps you could try walking there together? There are two dogs in our block that are very nice to mine, one time I ran into them and as I was chatting with their owner our dogs walked along nicely. When we got to the part where they usually want to take the short route home they were so busy playing that they just went along for the long route! So if that's not too difficult to arrange perhaps you could try it? At any rate you already helped the pup a lot by putting in work where the owner couldn't be bothered (wow, shame on them) so you already did great work!

@@yoonmikim5663 any trauma within the first 16 weeks can be catastrophic. My friend had to wash (discontinue training) his service dog prospect because he developed a fear of other dogs and people after two separate incidences before the 16 week mark. I feel so bad because my service dog came from the same litter and is doing fantastic and his didn't work out.

@@undefinederror40404 The owner was crap to begin with, unfortunately, but I did my best for that dog before he went back. Luckily he went to a better owner after that. I was going to socialize the dog better given more time since my Aunt and Uncle at the time had a dog that was pretty good with other dogs and I was pretty determined to make sure that dog was properly socialized, but I had to return the dog before then. It might sound like hubris, but I was really, really hoping that what I did for the dog, such as do basic training, potty training, etc helped it with his new owner and to adjust quickly. He retained the habits I instilled into him. But yeah... sometimes your own confidence doesn't always transfer to the dog. I thought that was a shame. If I had him for like 2 more weeks I'd have gotten him used to all sorts of places and environments. I spent a ton of money and time on that dog too. He was really smart. I haven't had enough income to get my own dog, but when I do it's on my list and I'd do my very best to not repeat my mistakes so that the socialization is more positive. I've dreamed of having a dog as long as I can remember.

@@levim7184 I wanted to fix my mistake... but the owner took him back before then and the owner was pretty terrible. (He'd pawned him off on someone else, who was the one that bought food and toys for the dog, but then had to get me to dog sit the dog temporarily, so I ended up taking pity on the dog and teaching it various tricks, etc.). I was the one that trained the dog, taught it to walk on leash, tried to socialize him, etc. Sounds sad for your friend. It's too bad it couldn't be a situation that could be fixed.

Possible!

@Skylynxify Reborn she is they say it in the episode i think

Skylynxify Reborn you don’t rly need to be a rescue to be Afraid of males. The breeder could have been a male and did not treat the dog properly... idk

Skylynxify Reborn someone who watched the whole show said she was indeed a rescue.

Or in the present.....hmmm.🤔

Spooky The vast majority of men love to be dominant and violent these days so it stands to reason that they’re all scared of males. It’s so sick the way they get off on hurting weaker or any other individuals. I am now a misandrist because of this. Can’t help it.😡🤬

@@christar9527 Your more of an extreme sexist to us. Pathetic.

Hopefully your aunt is getting some good training in! Any dog can be trained out of fearful/reactive behaviors no matter the past❤️

Nintendoken k ick if you see a women afraid of men and blame the women instead of wondering what could have caused it that sounds more of a you problem than a them problem. Maybe learn some compassion and understand that while you might (doesn't sound like it) be a nice guy, lots of women are abused by men. Lots of whom think they're nice guys. I'd try learning some compassion before blaming women for their feelings.

@@christar9527 I am not sure what kind of men you hand around with. My stepfather, my brother, my uncles and most of my coworkers are fine men. Not aggressive, dominant or violent.

Yeah and I'm wondering why Victoria didn't tell them that

@@youreinvalid8493 well, we dont know what she ie telling them off camera.

I was thinking the same and I bet Victoria saw that, too. I think she did not want to break that happiness and good vibes at that moment by telling them hey look the dog is anxious cause the owners would get anxious and that would worsen the dog, what worked better was to be nice to Junie, keep the good vibe and encourage her that way.... I just hope she addressed that off screen.

@@BooksLucyKing You are propably right. Victoria had a certain loon on her face at that time :)

Breaking the fourth wall doesn't work like that. It doesn't mean just "looking into the camera like you're on The Office".

Breaking the fourth wall is if youre playing a character , not a person in a reality show where you do updates to camera.

KissMyAspergers so what does it mean

Sarah holland she’s playing herself, she’s the main protagonist

Bear 7453 This isn't a fictional show, these are real events that are happening. Most of the time we don't refer to the host as a preotagonist; and that goes with breaking the forth wall too. Breaking the forth wall if for fictional shows/videos; not reality shows.

God please help her

My heart would bleed. I couldn’t let it go back.😭

Jeah creepy right?

So true! He did seem familiar but I couldn't place it 🤣

Zijn dekking is opgeblazen, afbreken! afbreken! afbreken! NIET BINNENVALLEN, ZE ZIJN OP ONZE PLANNEN!

Hahaha raap me op XD

HAHAHHAHA je hebt gelijk ik ga echt stuk😂😂😭

They're the best 🐩🐩🐩

That's probably her last name😂😂😂😂

Jayden Jackson Maybe. I just think about the kids book I used to love in elementary school

@@charlleedodson I know I love that book

I love it😋

Love Victoria with her skills n patient on her work she is an inspiration to all god bless her

Mine too ! We have a toy poodle, and he does that to all of us.

What did he do ?

Is this true! Where did you read this? Please tell me the article

Google “dogs afraid of woman’s fiancé” and it’s the top result

Dream this is not the same fiancé

Thats not this man though don’t put him in a bad light.

it's so much better for their neck to use a harness

Same

Its also easier since my dog pulls a lot

Working with dogs that have behavior problems always seems to end up being more of a "train the owners" thing rather than a "train the dog" thing xD it kills me when people say they have a bad dog, because the dog is always doing that thing for a reason, even if we don't understand or like the reason :( gotta work with them in a way they understand--they don't speak people languages :'D

Cesar millan can

@@santana805montana9 Cesar Milan has been disproven for a while. Search on Google "dominance theory in dogs"

@@sodonniawolfrom231 bro you dont know nothing about cesar millan work, cesar use dominance but he also use others methods it depends on the dog weak people don't understand this beta guy.

@@santana805montana9 Bro, his methods have been disproven for a very long time by the very person who originally started the theory. Hurting dogs is not training them. Pinning them is not training them. I can provide links that explain exactly why what he does is wrong.