Miriam's Serious Shopping Addictions Leaves Her With £36,000 DEBT

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4 жыл бұрын

Season 4 Episode 5:
Psychological coach Benjamin Fry and lifestyle expert Jay Hunt help 27-year-old Miriam Isherwood with the serious shopping addiction that's landed her in debt to the tune of 36,000 pounds. While Jay takes her entire clothing collection and sets up a shop, Benjamin gets to the bottom of Miriam's constant thrill-seeking.
Can Jay Hunt and Benjamin Fry cure this shopaholic?
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Jay Hunt and Benjamin Fry use shock tactics to confront .... with ... overspending, but can ... commit to going cold turkey for 7 days?
Spendaholics is a British TV series where the Spendaholics team tame out-of-control spenders!

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@mrclean4400 2 жыл бұрын

‘In contrast to her family of high achievers she has a low income job and has been single for 7 years’ - ouch!

@myyt3824 Жыл бұрын

The shade is insane 😂😂😂

@turtleanton6539 6 ай бұрын

Woof

@sharonpunt253 Жыл бұрын

She should be a fashion buyer for other people - so she can get the thrill of shopping but spend other peoples money.

@dragonlover2085 11 ай бұрын

The cold turkey budget makes no sence, when friends are paying for lunch and drinks.

@CraftyWitch1990 8 ай бұрын

I've always thought that too. They aren't getting the full experience of living on a strict budget if friends/family are just paying for what they would normally have anyway

@tatan4939 4 жыл бұрын

She seem like a sweet lady. Hope she finds balance in her life soon 🙂

@mythicalj891 2 жыл бұрын

Bank balance

@sophiegolden 4 жыл бұрын

I hope she had a nice job and life after this, they helped her a lot!

@Estonian4life 4 жыл бұрын

it's been 14 years since almost... i sure hope so as well

@Sandy83 3 жыл бұрын

@@Estonian4life she seems to be doing well! a quick google search shows that she a store manager and really overcome the shopping/ debt situation.

@sunset33533 3 жыл бұрын

The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is helpful.

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

I’m slightly similar to where Miriam is here, depression does a number on you. Still on my healing journey, and there were days when I’ve had a taste of what I’m capable of when depression goes away. To many people like me and Miriam, we’re capable of so much. Always seek help and healing.

@dawnjackson6299 3 жыл бұрын

You should be very proud of yourself depression is like being trapped under a mountain so days that you can do only one thing definitely do one thing I don't care if it's dishes or even taking a shower I'm hoping that your journey turns out well I'm sure that it will you have great tenacity

@buzzweebee8685 4 жыл бұрын

When all her stuff was put in the shop she should have opened the doors and started selling!

@donnahill214 Жыл бұрын

❤

@user-kn4ge3gn8j 2 жыл бұрын

I like this girl. She's down to earth, learned to be savvy super fast

@fleurgi 4 жыл бұрын

I am thinking her sisters and father being high achievers might make her have a complex. Maybe she feels like the black sheep of the family and just spends to feel like she is something.

@janicewolk357 4 жыл бұрын

If her IQ isn't as high as the rest of her family, she should move to a less competitive area of Britain. Her parents gave her access to education: it is up to her to make something out of it.She is not a good singer. And she was not creative.

@fleurgi 4 жыл бұрын

@Willem Chastity The term 'black sheep' does not mean a literal black person. It means you are the outcast of your family or the odd one out.

@fleurgi 4 жыл бұрын

@@janicewolk357 Oh I definitely agree she should have been realistic about her limitations and made the best of what abilities she has.

@susangreen1986 4 жыл бұрын

A good point. Spending to fill a void with making things look good for her on the outside .

@miroslavahanusova8236 3 жыл бұрын

@@fleurgi omg, cant believe u have to explain what "black sheep" means, lol

@Sacheen81 3 жыл бұрын

The "SHOCK" of where she'd be at 55 if she didn't rein in her spending habits was, I think, the best example the show has come up with for an example of excessive spending. I can tell you that if someone had done that to me in my twenties or thirties, or even my forties, I would have saved a TON of money! Luckily I always managed to repay my massive debts in full without declaring bankruptcy, and without borrowing from friends and family. As dumb as it was, I was able to take a loan from my 401k, repaying myself at a much lower interest rate than those awful cards were charging. Hope she was able to break free!

@elizzy8754 3 жыл бұрын

A good comment. I also feel that the Jay/Ben team could call in a doctor from time to time. Many of the spendaholics on this show have dreadful diets and alcohol addiction. The shock of being confronted with how your health will be in 10 years if you fritter away your money on fashion instead of buying fresh fruit and veg, would be sobering - no pun intended. (Was she really going to drink a whole bottle of wine in one evening all by herself?).

@gemmahadley7555 10 ай бұрын

@elizzy8754 I know his comment is 2 years old but I could quite easily drink a whole bottle of wine to myself 😂

@CraftyWitch1990 8 ай бұрын

@elizzy8754 1 bottle of wine in an evening is a light night for a Brit 😂 when I used to go out, a bottle of wine was just pregame while doing my hair and makeup and then I'd drink at least triple that over the course of the night too! British drinking culture is wayy different to most of the world. A lot of my friends across the pond were super shocked to realise that teenagers here start drinking around the age of 12 or 13 with their mates whilst a lot of Americans don't touch alcohol until they're like 17/18. Some even older than that. With parental consent, it's legal to drink from the age of 5 in the home here so I had my first drink when I was about 10 (a glass of wine with Christmas dinner). It's just not that big a deal here

@Sacheen81 7 ай бұрын

@@CraftyWitch1990 I started drinking socially (pretty much partying with friends every weekend) at 16. That held true until I got pregnant with my daughter at 25, at which point I gave it up and became a responsible adult for my daughter. I didn't think I should continue on with my drunken ways when I had such a precious new life to take care of. I just wish that it hadn't taken me sooooo many years to get my shopping habits under control, what a waste of money!!! 😪 It really was an addiction. I adore watching these shows that portray life across the pond, it just reinforces how much I'd LOVE to visit💕

@RyanBlockb5 4 жыл бұрын

I want a where are they now episode.

@susangreen1986 4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Would like to know if she has followed through with what she wanted to do from the initial interview.

@UsernamesForDummies 3 жыл бұрын

An update would be great, I agree.

@asheraidan1392 3 жыл бұрын

i know I am quite randomly asking but does anyone know of a good site to stream new tv shows online ?

@rogerjesus9096 3 жыл бұрын

@Asher Aidan Lately I have been using Flixzone. Just search on google for it =)

@tommygerald7323 3 жыл бұрын

@Roger Jesus Definitely, I've been using FlixZone for years myself :D

@WhiteRapunzel 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy for her. She needed that job change so badly

@julieross1984 3 жыл бұрын

Her laugh on the rollercoaster is beautiful :)

@HiamChelsea 3 жыл бұрын

She is currently a manager at a store. She could do so much with her degree. I just think she needs the confidence to do it

@michaelm5741 3 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ Ben! Surely that jacket was never in fashion! Surely the travel card to get to work should be classed as essential.

@Raylzway 4 жыл бұрын

Benjamin does my head in. If he can't find a cause he will create one and put it in their heads. And his monotone voice OMG.. Shoot me

@pigeon51 3 жыл бұрын

I think he's rather nice.

@chrismassey9892 3 жыл бұрын

Raylz- Ben is only doing his job chill out

@CraftyWitch1990 8 ай бұрын

Not a fan of him either. He has no actual therapy qualifications either which is worrying. He just draws on his own experiences of going through therapy and the fact he wrote a self help book once. I wouldn't wanna take advice or therapy from someone who wasn't qualified anyway, that can do far more harm than good

@carriedudley8593 7 ай бұрын

Totally agree!

@victoriaollier2345 5 ай бұрын

He’s also incredibly condescending and when people on the show have pets he always suggests they get rid!!! Plus he tries to blame everything on childhood trauma 🙄

@absolutelyridiculous6743 4 жыл бұрын

"Bargains" add up. You're still spending money even though you've found great deals. It is very difficult for some of us to realize this :( Man. I used to be so good with money when I was single. I HAD to be because I lived paycheck to paycheck even with two jobs because I HAD to save for the Sumner months when I was down to up to four part-time jobs. $25 was my weekly food and toiletries budget lol.

@happydayz7857 3 жыл бұрын

15 ad breaks, 2 ads a piece. That’s 30 ads in a 1 hour show. A bit much don’t you think?

@froufroume 3 жыл бұрын

Forward to the end, press replay and no more ads

@solarlola5953 3 жыл бұрын

@@froufroume doesn’t work on iPad

@wesleyw7908 3 жыл бұрын

It's 2021, you have absolutely no excuse not have an adblocker installed on your device

@pinkyblinders7352 4 жыл бұрын

She has a lovely personality and SO MUCH POTENTIAL.

@samswoman2009 3 жыл бұрын

My 'mother' is a little like Miriam with the living on the edge thing. She inherited almost $100,000 between 1985 and 1990. Bought a house with a $20,000 mortgage. When we sold it, the mortgage was $97,000 because she was constantly borrowing off it. She only had $45,000 for retirement - she worked full time until she was 75 but spent everything on her unemployed boyfriends. She admitted she isn't comfortable having money. She prefers the excitement of trying to scrape together money for her mortgage and property taxes, rather than setting money aside and just paying it. Paying her property taxes was all drama - borrow off the life insurance, borrow from her aunt, pull money off the home equity and panic herself with the thought that she wouldn't get the money on time (she looooves to panic). Obviously she is far more troubled than Miriam. Her search for excitement extended (until she had to stop driving) to picking up drunk, homeless hitchhikers thinking she had fallen in love and moving them into her house. Disastrous results every time, of course.

@hislittlemrs.9235 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness. I have a family of sisters who also live this way. Full blast. Panic stations, drama relationships, forever chasing money and dodging debts with their hair on fire. If they have 10 dollars, they spend 35. Its exhausting

@dianethompson2458 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. Im so sorry that you and your family had to go through those experiences. I hope that your Mum is doing better now. She is lucky to have you. I wish you and your family love and happiness in the future.

@railwaychristina3192 Жыл бұрын

Was she diagnosed with a personality disorder?

@turtleanton6539 6 ай бұрын

Ouch

@miaomiaou_ 6 ай бұрын

@@railwaychristina3192my thoughts too. I hope she’s at rest now

@Tuskenknits 4 жыл бұрын

Parents should never loan money to their kids. They can gift it to to them, but as soon as you say it needs to be paid back it creates a completely different relationship that should not exist between parents and children.

@alcioned1 4 жыл бұрын

Maria Tusken I agree.

@florence1395 4 жыл бұрын

Maria Tusken I agree! We personally have made this mistake with our grown child. Extremely exhausting.

@angelsspirit154 4 жыл бұрын

It depends. I’m very responsible with my money, but I’d hope that my parents would lend to me if I ever needed it, and I’d want to pay them back, because I am self-sufficient

@johannas.l.brushane2518 4 жыл бұрын

I beg to differ, I think legally adult children can make up for various ways parents stretch out to help out. Similarly if you're between housing an temporarly move in with parents for a couple of weeks, you should pay rent to your parents.

@shan5193 3 жыл бұрын

I loan my mum money 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@Iworkwithnitwits 4 жыл бұрын

She should put some of those jeans in the a consignment shop so she can bring some money in.....

@greenkitty82 4 жыл бұрын

Iworkwithnitwits it's worrying that none of these spendaholics have no savings, what would they do in an emergency? Racking up that much debt would stress me out beyond belief.

@seven594 Жыл бұрын

I’m here so shocked at how cheap designer items were and now they are stupidly expensive lol

@universaltruth2025 4 жыл бұрын

Her behaviour patterns could also suggest ADHD. Living on the edge, shopping addiction, high alcohol use, & leaving things til the last minute, can be a sign of low dopamine.

@christaniana 3 жыл бұрын

i believe it is ocd..

@christaniana 3 жыл бұрын

combined with other..

@anjakeller6254 3 жыл бұрын

that’s the clue where they maybe should have taken a professional on board and not a hobby psychologist.. not being diagnosed properly is such an unnecessary burden

@jaanajaana5771 3 жыл бұрын

Thought of it too

@kiki29073 Жыл бұрын

Too many labels. She's immature, selfish and not very intelligent.

@yanboc7986 4 жыл бұрын

It's great how they did several experiments and gave her small lessons to improve her life. It seems so much more helpful and insightful compared to just interviews or analyzing her spending

@emmaphilo4049 4 жыл бұрын

This show is so vintage :) the Fendi is now back in style :)

@vanevond8622 3 жыл бұрын

I love this girls personality and she smiles the whole time ! I laughed too when she was singing in public and someone gave her a tip hahahah .. please do a follow up on her ! She has the best personality ever !!😜🤪🥳

@jip230 4 жыл бұрын

It would be interesting to see what became of Miriam. She is obviously intelligent but has the habit of silly rebellion. Hopefully she left the job as a window dresser and had a chance to pursue a more rewarding and better paying career

@1588chrissy 4 жыл бұрын

rlp230 her Linked in profile says she is a vintage store manager but she is also singing and in a band so hopefully she is happy

@ashotofmercury 4 жыл бұрын

@@1588chrissy that's great! She seems really nice. 😎

@ChavvyBrenda 4 жыл бұрын

Funny how all these clothes just become dated tat after a few years.

@thegreenmanofnorwich 3 жыл бұрын

I think that if it's something that's sort of timeless and can be reused for years, like a suit or a formal dress or whatever, then it's okay to spend a fair bit more. If it's fast fashion, spending a lot on following trends is rather unwise unless already wealthy.

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

You mean: after a few months.

@kiki29073 Жыл бұрын

@@thegreenmanofnorwich Her items aren't that type of clothes.

@thegreenmanofnorwich Жыл бұрын

@@kiki29073 no shit

@michaelpegasiou4531 4 жыл бұрын

Every time she was going to buy something she should have thought of her parents loan and put it back.

@Kitaeli 4 жыл бұрын

Girl I’ve got 5 pairs of jeans I wear on rotation 😂 who are you wearing 20 pairs of jeans for!??

@kek23k 4 жыл бұрын

She's absolutely bonkers, love it! Hope she managed to get finances in order and is living a good life.

@fiveelms2011 4 жыл бұрын

Can’t people just resell stuff?? I buy clothes and only wear them a couple of times but sell them on vinted and depop. I know it was set a while ago but there was still the internet.

@angelsspirit154 4 жыл бұрын

fiveelms2011 Why don’t you just buy shit and keep it? And wear it? And then you don’t need to buy more

@fiveelms2011 4 жыл бұрын

Lemon Vermillion so you don’t buy clothes? Weird but to each their own x

@angelsspirit154 4 жыл бұрын

I keep my clothes for years so I don’t need to keep buying more

@fiveelms2011 4 жыл бұрын

Lemon Vermillion I like switching it up 🤷🏾‍♀️

@samswoman2009 3 жыл бұрын

@@angelsspirit154 I still buy occasionally from thrift stores and poshmark, but I also keep my clothes for years. I still have nice dresses I bought in consignment shops 15 years ago.

@willbemer230 4 жыл бұрын

Bullying can really mess people up

@ishabrown 3 жыл бұрын

Miriam seems really nice and so stylish, wish her all the best

@SpoonieSensei 3 жыл бұрын

i think "lazy" in a very intelligent person often means they are just bored and do not know "boredom" because there is always more to do so it feels very much like "not meeting your potential" (because you're not) and like you're being "lazy" (likely you are just so good in so many things you have no idea where to start). coming from such an intelligent family i am very sure she is even more intelligent than she comes across in this video and i would bet that is the problem she's up against. i hope she has resolved these issues at this time in her life! she is a beautiful woman, inside and out! it is also very difficult both to be extremely intelligent (in areas especially like law and the hard sciences) and simultaneously very creative. there is always kind of a "war of what i want" going on inside your head! i do hope she is doing better now!

@whyme7996 3 жыл бұрын

she's average dealing with an exceptional family. That can be rough but it doesn't have to be. It's her choice.

@elizzy8754 3 жыл бұрын

An excellent and sympathetic analysis.

@ultraboombean 4 жыл бұрын

If you have enough time to shop you have enough time for your passion.

@whyme7996 3 жыл бұрын

she doesn't have a passion. she has a fantasy.

@nuchzara97 3 жыл бұрын

She is doing good. And the host did help her out. So generous!

@sarahobyrne6638 4 жыл бұрын

Lovely girl, to all the negative comments about her voice, she had beautiful elements to her voice, maybe nervous. I hope she is doing well in life now

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe that’s her voice, she seems confident enough ... I don’t think she’s nervous, her voice could just simply be deep.

@troyhyatt7568 3 жыл бұрын

Idk why but she looks best in her graduation gown

@ravenblack2262 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t understand parents loaning money to fund or bail her out ,and she still owes over £30.000.

@bkzgreatone88 4 жыл бұрын

It's shameful. I have borrowed money and paid it all back to my parents. I never want to borrow any money again. The last people I want to take advantage of are my parents.

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

I think her white father feels guilty for the discrimination she must’ve experienced as a child in Britain. He knows she looks so different from him and his people, even though she’s his blood. But imagine the heartbreak he must’ve felt seeing his flesh and blood being discriminated against.

@ANDJELINA 2 жыл бұрын

she could have have her own place and house to live in for 30.000. Rent her own house and have a car etc...

@akilshohen 3 жыл бұрын

Dang, London used to be cheap AF.

@likestarsonearth8 3 жыл бұрын

Nothings wrong with this lifestyle if you can afford it without debt. Also, everythings wrong when you just bought them and never use it

@kria9119 4 жыл бұрын

I honeslty never understood buying clothes and literally never wearing any of it. When I buy something, I cannot wait to wear it and end up wearing it all the time for the first couple of weeks. I guess that is the difference between normaln shopping habits and a sort od a addiction

@AnaRodrigues-kv3in 4 жыл бұрын

I feel guilty if I dont wear stuff

@Ndstars1 3 жыл бұрын

It's bc they're addicted to the feeling of shopping for stuff and not the stuff itself.

@talithat423 3 ай бұрын

I haven’t heard anyone say 9p noodles in years! 🤣

@Sacheen81 3 жыл бұрын

I wish they'd update us on how these people are doing, some "where are they now?" episodes.

@maverickbull1909 2 жыл бұрын

An investment banker sister and doctor sister is really heavy. Either way, she's really really underemployed. Those jobs are brain dead. She has a degree. She can do much more.

@UsernamesForDummies 3 жыл бұрын

£15000 as a deposit on a flat. Those were the days! We had to pay close that amount as a security deposit for the flat we are renting! Granted, we live in Switzerland, which is a country of renters, not buyers. Down payment here is minimum 20% of the price to get a mortgage.

@CraftyWitch1990 8 ай бұрын

That's a crazy amount! Here we just pay the first months rent in advance and usually the equivalent of a months rent as a security deposit. The flat I'm in now (i moved in 5 years ago) cost me £750 to move in and i get £375 back if/when i move out providing the property is in good condition and i didn't break anything or leave a mess etc

@wynterdumaurier5059 3 жыл бұрын

Girl, stop buying cheap clothes from Primark. Go for quality not quantity and find a nicer place to live,

@amytoedtli8194 3 жыл бұрын

There is more to it but I think a big part of her problem is she not living up to what she could be

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

Found Miriam on Instagram, she looks good and is still friends with Orion.

@dawnjackson6299 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I hope that she is doing well with her new career

@wolfdog1492 2 жыл бұрын

She’s so pretty and her laugh is delightful. Hope she got sorted out and is doing well.

@ilove6kies 3 жыл бұрын

F me I can’t get over how much cheaper things were back then....a Fendi bag for £500? Get out of here!!!

@belindaferreira7445 2 жыл бұрын

She is so beautiful regardless of what she dress. They keep filming her lovely face and it's so pleasent to see. Hope she can control the shopping addiction because Miriam no need any special clouths...she is already special. Beautiful face, beatiful smile. ❤

@kiki29073 Жыл бұрын

That face and smile doesn't count for much. It's what's inside herself and what her emotional intelligence is.

@belindaferreira7445 Жыл бұрын

@@kiki29073 I know compulsive shopping is a mental problem but she has everything she need to help herself.

@jasha7579 3 жыл бұрын

Jeeez Benjamin has upped his jacket game

@ruslanfedoran5826 4 жыл бұрын

Shopping for cloth or stuff should not make you happy. Being yourself should make you happy. She has a law degree wow

@ajawarnock4009 2 жыл бұрын

That was very manipulative of him to convince her that she doesn't like to sing because she didn't want to sing a song she doesn't like. He should have let her choose whatever she wanted.to sing. Its like he deliberately set her up to feel awkward so he could say...see you don't really want to sing. Very crappy and gaslighty

@annamiller4114 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching all the tacky things these people buy

@AMP2486 11 ай бұрын

We’re people really paying off mortgages in their early 50s before the housing market crash?? Ugh. At this rate my 5 year old will have to take over our mortgage when we die of old age lol

@sunflower7766 4 жыл бұрын

I really hoped she cleared her debt and got her dream job in buying earning that £100,000. Would love an update.

@jenjones90 3 жыл бұрын

There's no way anyone would ever pay her 100k

@5kgxistiouvockzit7r94 3 жыл бұрын

@@jenjones90 with a law degree? I think she would be able to get more than that even if she really tried...

@catesmyth4293 3 жыл бұрын

Lot's of fools earn 100k. Not that I am saying she is a fool.

@dangsood4945 3 жыл бұрын

According to her linkedin she works as a store manager for a vintage chain. She's done a lot of store management jobs since this show :) Others have found her insta and say she is doing well

@ivanafityoga9641 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in love with Benjamin ! He has such beautiful voice / personality / he really does help people to over come so many struggles. From now on I have my favourite therapist❤

@jo131169 2 жыл бұрын

What a gorgeous girl with a beautiful personality. Good luck and God bless xxxx

@Kayla-kd8ov 3 жыл бұрын

Wigs and weaves have really come a long way!

@savagedpepe6930 4 жыл бұрын

she rather starve than not being able to buy useless clothing

@greenkitty82 4 жыл бұрын

Savaged Pepe yes I agree. Miriam seems a really nice intelligent person but this is a classic example of people prioritising wants over needs. She doesn't need the £4 top but chooses to spend money on that instead of spending the £4 on having some nourishing meals for the week. I'd much rather buy the food to feel better than waste it on a top you don't need and probably won't wear a long time. You can't put a price on health.

@kiki29073 Жыл бұрын

@@greenkitty82 where do you see intelligence at?

@tracywheeler1227 3 жыл бұрын

I Love Benjamin Fry, his disposition & real human & subtle approach is Excellent in drawing out people's deepest fears & buried emotions

@florence1395 4 жыл бұрын

Having been brought up with nothing had set me on a path to earn money, a little bit at a time. I saved. As I got to a stage In my life where I could spend & save I did. I still save but I can spent more now if I wish. No one other than my husband gave me anything, we were a great team. Unfortunately what can happen if you have a child that grows into a adult & you end up giving & spoiling & being there always always financially is a disaster. Though it’s appreciated (you hope) it can be taken for granted. We both felt that we often did it wrong. Helping your child is encouraging then to go out & earn & become independent, being there to bailout is the worst thing ever, tough love should be mandatory!

@blossomsstarr2368 4 жыл бұрын

Aww..I wanna be her friend!

@ManyMannyMan 4 жыл бұрын

The body language of everyone in the family photo speaks volumes

@brendashenda4249 4 жыл бұрын

I can't believe how cheap things are there! Less than 2 pounds for wine? Cheapest I could find in Canada might be $13.

@madhatter909 4 жыл бұрын

this was over 15 years ago

@DoraWinifred 3 жыл бұрын

Lambrini isn’t wine but it’s a pretty cheap drink

@reelgoodstory 3 жыл бұрын

hope she is doing well now

@sisglends 3 жыл бұрын

Funny that the deeper issues connected to racism that she experienced in her childhood, identity issues, etc. have not been identified. But how can they when the therapist and the other person are accustomed to dealing with certain types of clients. This woman has been uprooted and planted somewhere at a crucial age. Look at how life and the people she associates with. She literally has no Black friends, no sense of identity and roots. Poor thing. Hope she's managed to find her way back.

@catscats4427 3 жыл бұрын

This. 👌🏾

@carriedudley8593 7 ай бұрын

Why does she have to have black friends? We don't choose our friends based on the colour of their skin. She doesn't actually say she suffered from racism, she just says she felt out of place. Her parents wanted the best education for her and her siblings. It doesn't seem to have affected them. Why does it have to be about race?

@anniemac4637 3 жыл бұрын

She seems a bubbly person,I hope she is doing well I life...

@bluzshadez 3 жыл бұрын

What comes out of this woman's mouth sends shivers down my spine. Her spending habits is out of control. What a relief that I don't care about designer brands. I buy cheap.

@carriedudley8593 7 ай бұрын

There's nothing wrong with Designer brands if you save up the money.

@joycelam3298 4 жыл бұрын

Wow shopping addiction. Hope she can recover soon. Should save money to buy mortgage .

@nellcannon8890 3 жыл бұрын

I really could use their help!

@AS-yo2uy 18 күн бұрын

I have watched 10 episodes of spendaholics, one major characteristic is a lot of these women are single.

@desertlove3350 4 жыл бұрын

I feel great! I feel terrified!

@mysticluvbug1797 3 жыл бұрын

I wonder if she still says I have nothing to wear!??

@2Up2DownLiving 11 ай бұрын

I so get how she sales through being almost broke...... i've actually said to my own son 'we eat better when we're skint'....survival mode kicks in.

@CardsbyMaaike 4 жыл бұрын

i wuuld like to see all these people after 5 years

@1588chrissy 4 жыл бұрын

Cards by Maaike Or 15yrs as in now! A few of the videos have the person commenting below that they are doing well

@hannahcollins456 8 ай бұрын

can't get over how much food she was able to get for 1.89

@CraftyWitch1990 8 ай бұрын

Right? Things are so different now. Crazy to think that this was only like 10-15 years ago.

@tiffanyhughes7510 2 жыл бұрын

These shows are soooooo 2005 and I love it!!! I was 14 then omg

@Doomedcreatures 2 ай бұрын

these prices make no sense to me. bottle of wine for £1.40? crazy

@sunset33533 3 жыл бұрын

The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is helpful.

@katieKS 6 ай бұрын

I know she got the t~shirt in Penneys but they still all add up. I spend around €150 each time I go into Penneys

@dayanaquevedo9078 3 жыл бұрын

Just how the bank can give that much money how they let it go more and more

@Maya-ln1os 2 жыл бұрын

Wait...all this & she is renting a ROOM?!!

@I_Am_NiiTA Жыл бұрын

Things go out of style. It’s important to not hoard when fashion changes so often 🤷🏾‍♀️

@DLPMouse8 3 жыл бұрын

She appears in the Nikkietutorials Video „using strangers make-up“ from 2018 😁pretty sure that‘s her ☺️Nikkie uses her make-up on the streets of London.

@marci3659 4 жыл бұрын

She is afraid of being exposed emotionally ,especially with her singing which is pure fantasy and not her real passion.The therapist missed the issue of the relationship with her father ,who she feels entitled to get him to bail her out financially and enable her not to develop as an independent adult ,unlike her siblings who have successful careers.I think she has abandonment issues from her childhood ,with her father who obviously adopted her ,after leaving Nigeria age 5 .The issues of her feeling left out at a predominantly white school ,I am sure this included racial exclusion and other experiences which she does not want to explore ..instead she presents this facade of a giddy immature girl with a rich daddy to save her.I hope she finds herself and stop hiding behind her clothes and spending. The therapist was very superficial in this episode .

@onyx1654 4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant theory!

@sarahobyrne6638 4 жыл бұрын

Marci you should have been her therapist, yes he wasn't really getting to her real issues.

@madhatter909 4 жыл бұрын

Her father had her with her black Nigerian mother. Where do you get she was adopted?

@godschildyes 4 жыл бұрын

SHE IS NOT ADOPTED! Her father is her REAL FATHER and she does not have "Daddy Issues". Her father just enables her because she's the baby and is very immature. She has confident issues from the guilt she's felt from under achieving and living irresponsibly.

@godschildyes 4 жыл бұрын

@@madhatter909 Exactly right! She's not adopted!