Lost my baby boy, 7months pre-term on 26th June 2023. Was due in Aug 4th 2023.He was alive for 10hrs 3 mins but i didnt get to hold him alive. Had to go through a CS, Medical observation, Laying our son to rest within a week. Nothing and absolutely nothing or no one can prepare you for this. Still on my medical break and I am allowing myself to grieve until i get back to healing both physically and mentally. Im glad that we have normalized this conversation Margie and Soila.

7mnths post a miscarriage and am so glad you chose to normalize this conversation, phew alot of tissues Have been used , but listening to this conversation has brought me peace that am not alone. We live to see another day with a smile , babydust to all those in the waiting.

This was so enlightening. Thank you for sharing with us your experiences. God bless.

Wholesome conversations... Hugs to both of you ❤️🤗 Thanks for sharing your experiences..

This is so accurate to me, now that I had a miscarriage last week, I totally relate with everything you have said and I feel encouraged just hearing you guys talk about it.

Hearing your stories brings back so many memories. Jan 6, 2023 will forever be etched in my memory. Also had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. Atleast on my report it doesn't say abortion. Bear hugs to all who've lived through this.

Thank you for these vital conversations. This is soo precious. What you are doing Margie is soo vital..it is soo needed. Thank you for your candor. Your vulnerability.

Thanks for sharing your experiences, this will help lots of women who have gone through this and wondering if they will ever heal. We thank God for blessing your wombs again and having earthly babies.

I remember i thought of the different things i did that i could have done differently, like maybe i shouldn't have carried that bucket of clothes. when the doc confirmed, i rem i was just there.. no thoughts, they cleaned me, i was emotionless, and when i was done, my husband and i went home, and i cried upon getting home and i told him "I want another baby" and he said ok. we never spoke about it again, and i didn't cry again. we were newly married, literally a honeymoon baby didn't have anyone to talk to, and i couldn't tell my b.couple. One month later, started feeling nauseous, i was pregnant again. This time i waited for the 6weeks where i lost the other one and nothing happened and i breathed easy. I couldn't tell anyone though. and for the longest time, i carried a pad with me everywhere i went, in anticipation of it happening again. this is something i never wish on anyone. Anyway, I carried to term and God blessed me with a very beautiful baby girl,,and currently expecting my second born.

Hi Margie, congratulations on keeping the consistency with this podcast.

Such a heavy and touching conversation 🥺🥺 Hugs to both of you 🫂🫂and thank you for being soo vulnerable with us 💛💛

WIT fan here , liked it before I watched it. I love and admire the consistency.

This is amazing.

Am so glad you guys are talking about this...am about 3 months post a miscarriage and I have been struggling with that word 'abortion' on my report...I was still gathering the courage to ask anyone

This topic is in the scriptures. Elshadai is great!

My heart goes out to the both of you. Having gone through a missed 'abortion' as well, I think medics need to be trained in empathy. How they handled me with a lack of emergency and brazen comments just compounded the pain.

I remember my mother in law telling me “umelala lala na wanamme wamekuharibu hata huwezi zalia kijana yangu” That was my biggest hurt after I had my miscarriage. What people say to you after a loss sometimes hurts more than the loss itself. 46:30

27th March 2023 had missed mis_ carriage .Still in the healing process. Thanks for sharing this

Am still on recovery after i lost my pregnancy at 4 months on 23 Nov 2022, the feeling of being induced and labour to expell the foetus was sad. But i thank God i had 3 elder healthy babies hoping to get another one still having baby fever.

Kindly share the doc / gynae details

The triggers🤦...mine is women who complain of how they just get pregnant and discover it 7 months in cz they had no symptoms😂.