Your mum is amazing.

I wish all people of trans experience had such a loving parent.

this was beautiful, i started crying halfway. This is so real and beautiful and i wish my parents were the same way. You are so lucky to have such a fantastic mom, thank you for sharing.

Your mom is such a pure hearted person, bless her soul!

You have such an amazing mother. So kind and so beautiful. This made me tear up.

:,) just cried out the sheer beauty of this video but i mean i think we all did

I talked to my parents about how unfair I think it is that we aren't taught about gender identity and expression in school at dinner today, and explained the differences between sexuality and gender to them (because so many people simply don't know that there is a difference at all), and then we watched this video and we all teared up together. You're so beautiful Chella, thank you for sharing ♥️

I was sobbing by the end. So pure

She’s so well spoken

oh man that was really nicely done, and wow. you really did win the family lottery

The amount of unconditional love she has for her child is so pure :')

Wow Chella, that was really beautiful.

As a closet non binary person knowing that there are mothers like yours that actually exist gives me so much hope. Thank you, to both you and her for sharing such powerful stories. I can't even put into words how powerful this video was for me. For the few minutes I was watching this, everything felt possible.

Your mum is an angel!!!!!!!!!!

this is such a great video why is it not going viral

Honestly, I don't even know you, I've only watched like two videos on this channel, but I feel really, really happy to know that you have a nice family to support you. You seem to be such a nice person. You really deserve it. 🌸

I love this! I love your mum!

Wow, what a blessing to have her as a mother.

Her expression of everything really made me cry. Her expressing how she loves you in any way that you would come hit me like a ton of bricks and I started crying. By the end of this video I was in tears. I truly wish my mom would accept this from me. When I came out in 2014 she shrugged it off and didn’t take it seriously and ever since then I not once brought it up because I found it to be no use. I’m still trying to accept that myself, or at least be the person my mom wants me to be but also have the real side of myself as somewhere safe to be, even if she won’t accept it. I wish she would, and I wish she would have taken me seriously, because I haven’t changed from knowing that I’m indeed trans male. Videos like these give me some form of hope and emotional support that I don’t necessarily have. It’s sweet and touching.

people like this make me happy to be alive. with hearts and minds so open. thank you for reminding me that the world is in fact not a cesspool of ignorance and evil.

this is literally flawless from start to finish...especially the ending haha fabulous touch. your mother seems wonderful

she seems so nice

i wish my mom could accept and understand me just like how your mom accepted and understood you completely with open arms.

That's one hell of an amazing mother

the fact that your mom speaks on this subject so openly and kindly feels so rare and mindblowing. extremely touching video

Your mom is absolutely amazing, you’re so lucky.

I'm, like, two years late but what an amazing mum. She seems to be so hard on herself at times during this video. I hope she realises how great of a parent she is

I MIGHT SHOW THIS TO MY PARENTS TO COME OUT. Your mum is amazing.

What a beautiful video. What an amazing mother. What a wonderful blessing both of you are to this world. So many people can learn from the two of you! It is unfortunate that, as humans, we have allowed so much judgement and criticism to destroy our integrity and impede our ability to respect each other's individuality.

What beautiful human beings. My gosh. Amazing.

I am in awe as I was of my own Mum in her expression of the purest unconditional love for her child. If our world had more Mothers such as yourself & mine(of course when she was alive) this world would be so different in terms of understanding, compassion & respect for our singular differences if that is what they really are. I admire your courage to share such a soul baring moment of truth not only for "your clip on bear Chella" but for the world to view & possibly judge without understanding "you are what hero's, role models & mentors are made of!" Thank you Mrs. Mama Bear I need to go dry my teary eyes now...Eden

You can actually feel the love throughout this whole video. I'm not ashamed to say I'm crying out of love I feel for the both of you

I've been sobbing through all this. This is so beautiful and so important

Wow your mom is amazing. I wish I had such a loving parent

best mom award

Oh my god. I love this. I wanna cry.

Such a lovely lovely mom XOXO you are so loving and so empathetic you are truly a gift from God XOXO

The fact that she beats her self up and wants to apologize for her “mistakes” makes me so sad. She went above and beyond to help and was a better parents than so many people dealing with this issue ❤️

This made me so happy and so sad at the same time. I love my mom but she will never be like this.

This is so raw and beautiful. You two are so lucky to have each other.

Wow, this is amazing...wish my parents were like your mother, she is so good and have a really pure soul, you are really so lucky.

I just want to cry. I'm 17 now and only just being able to figure out who I am. My mom doesn't understand why I'm bi/pan. She got mad when I told her I had a girlfriend because she didn't expect me to like girls. I was 13. And for a long time after that I hid my sexuality from her because I thought she'd get mad again. Years later, she understands my sexuality better. Does she like it? No. she's even said she isn't happy with it, but she isn't against it. And I'm honestly more scared to figure myself out more as gender. She believes my friends in my old town who were able to figure out their identities changed me. She believes the LGBT community changed me and made me not what she used to know. And I thought so too. I thought, my friends, my trans friends made me question my entire life. And I blamed them, I was mean to them. I got mad at them....I told my mom I wanted to shop in the boys section and she got mad and asked "so you're trans now!?" I cried. When we go clothes shopping, I hate it. The clothes don't fit right. It's all crop tops and lots of holes that expose my skin. She finally let me buy one thing from the boys section and I cried because I bought a tee shirt and it felt so right. I wish my mom was more understanding and open to learn about the things I am part of. I want her to see a side of me, that I've hid away from her. But she doesn't want to. And it....it frustrates me. I want her to come to pride with me. She refuses. So I went with my best friend and his bf.

WOW this was soo amazing and real. Very honest, loving it made me cry but i am glad you shared this about your wonderful caring mother. Thank you Love Nick

I'm actually crying it's so beautiful and refreshing to hear this honest love from a parent

I just tried searching up how to swear in sign language to my mum and now some how I got here and now all I wanna do is hug her. THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IVE EVER SEEN 😭😭😭😭

I had the chills and cried and respect your mother so much and I love and thank you so much for this.

I got choked up, your mom is an amazing and inspiring person. I only wish my own could be this accepting. I love this

Chella man im not kidding i literally teared up at the end😢😢😭😭😭

this made me cry, your mum is an amazing human x

i feel this mothers pain and happiness at the same time. Chella, you are forever in everyone’s hearts

The most moving video I have ever watched. Thank you, mumma Chella, for opening your heart for us to see. This is so, so beautiful. Thank you.

Wow this is so touching. I tear up a bit. Your mum is so precious.

This struct something deep within my being. A wad of emotion came barreling through the moment your mother expressed the missed oppression to open up to a dialogue about your identity to facilitate your sense of self and place in this world. I’m doing that now, for my own self, my mom recently passed and I can’t help but to feel her own regret for not being educated enough to assist my own sense of self to a degree that I felt comfortable in this world. This is incredibly healing for me to watch, to feel the resonance of your mother’s loving heart. All I can say is, thank you..for being you. 🌹

I am at a loss of words because this is just so beautiful. Your mother is amazing, truly amazing.

i wish my mom cared enough. this is beautiful, bless her

Your life, your progress, your mom, your dad, your family, MaryV🌹 = art

i dont usually watch emotional videos like this but i couldnt help it...your mother is beautiful inside and out and she is a gem and im so happy that she was there for you since not everyone has parents so accepting so thanks for this video chella. its opened my eyes more than imaginable.

I can't stop watching your videos. Your mother is such a sweet soul ❤

I didn't expect that I'd cry watching this. But it is gut wrenching for me. Thanks to you, I know it's ok to feel lost..

I see why you are the soft spoken young adult today. You and your siblings are so fortunate to be raised by this mother.

This was perfect. Thank you (and your mom) so so much ❤️✨

You are blessed with your mom and your mom is blessed for the beautiful baby that she had

I cried so hard. That was really beautiful and raw. Thank you for sharing something so personal.

i can't stop crying now.. this is so beautiful, i wish every mom was like yours! this is so important. thank you. love from Brazil!

ok crying i love this i hope your mom and you stay happy forever

My mom never forgave herself for the things she said to me when I was outed as gay by my sister.. and she was literally the perfect mom up until 3 weeks ago when she died. I never thought about what she said, I only loved her for the love and support she gave me throughout my life. You're mom is awesome, hopefully she will forgive herself.

Your mom is a beautiful person! I can not describe in words how precious this video is. Thank you for sharing.

I cried, I wish my mom is more like your mom.

Beautiful and now I am crying

your mother is so supportive and kind and im so happy you have sweet people like her in your life :') 💖

The end made me cry😭 This is so beautiful and amazing I wish more parents were like this💗

This was very touching. I follow your stuff on instagram and on youtube. You are so great! This touched me so much. I always watch this and I start the video from 5:52 until the end and I close my eyes and pretend it is my mother telling me these words. She doesn't accept me. She pretends she does. I like girls. I always liked girls since I knew what love meant. She can't accept it. She pretends it, only just because she thinks I might do something to my health. This makes me hope that one day my mother can accept and love me for me. Thank you for this Chella. Much love to you and your beautiful family. Keep doing what you do. I look up to you. xx

All I did was cry. It was beautiful and intimate just like a mother's love for her child. Thank you for sharing with us.

I was ugly crying halfway through this. I felt this. She is amazing. She is so open to everything and willing to accept and love. Did not expect to feel this much over this video I stumbled online. Sending incredible amount of love.

This was tooo cute!!! ❤️ I wish I could give your mom a hug! You’re lucky to have such an amazing mother! 😊

This is absolutely beautiful. You are so lucky to have a mom who loves you that much. I am that lucky too.

You are so blessed to have such a loving and understanding mother. She is great and so are you Chella

thank you so much for sharing this heartfelt and personal video I am in awe at the relationship you share with your mother and how genuine she is in her support of you and your journey to be the truest you, you can be. I too am in a puddle right now!!

i watched this years ago when i discovered your channel, when i realize that i have been struggling with my sexuality. but chella, your mom and you, make me believe somehow that the world would be a better place for me. you are amazing. thankyou for sharing the most vulnerable version of you, thankyou for being you.

This is beautiful!! You are so lucky to have an understanding and selfless, loving mum~ you and her inspire me to become a good mommy to my future children one day, as I have decided since childhood to be a mom that loves their kid no matter who they want to be. Thank you both ♡♡

your mom is a true angel ✨🖤

From the bottom of my heart,thank you so very much for sharing.. A mom's thoughts..

I plan to become a teacher someday, and this is something I want to teach to my future students. This is something the new kids of or generation need to understand and accept. We need to live in a society where when these conversations come up, it’ll be like talking about the weather. Where it’s comfortable and understandable for everyone. We need not only a smarter generation, but one that is kind and open-minded. Bless this mom, she rules!

So beautiful

I have no words... This was si beautiful. I've allready cried today, so I honestly didn't have any tears to shed. It was just so captivating

I cried SO HARD OMG !!!

I was sobbing the whole time.. this is absolutely beautiful.

Man, this is awesome to listen to such a raw and personal moment between the two of you. It is sweet how much she loves you unconditionally, I have never considered becoming a man or really anything other than myself, but I have had the talk of whether my family would support me if I ever wanted to go that route just to get a read on who my parents are, my parents do not understand the desire to be someone other than what one is born as, but it is beautiful the way your mother has responded to your transition. I think the people in your life are lucky to have you and likewise, you are one extraordinary dude, Chella Man.

i'm not crying, you are. this was beautiful. i'm so glad i discovered you, chella.

This was so beautiful

Bless you for all the courage you’ve had. Thank you for sharing this. What a beautiful and informative video. I have mad respect for you. Love from London. Best wishes Hana xx

This was so raw. You are very lucky. Life has been great to you even through hardships. You always had the support and understanding that for someone with gender identity crisis would need. A lovely story. 💖

I wish there were more parents that open minded, accepting and supportive.

This video is so genuinely truthful that it made me cry omg like such an open parent willing to comprehend and really learn to accept their child for who they are, so many parents can be really ignorant about what they say to their kid when they dress in another’s gender clothing that they don’t know that their hurting their own kids feelings that could potentially make their kids close themselves off in the future. This video is so sweet and just so beautiful it’s an art it’s aesthetically pleasing to watch and to anyone that’s feeling lost and alone just know that it’s ok you don’t have to know who you are at the moment because the only thing that matter now is the present and the loving friends and family you have around you. Have a nice day if you read this all the way to the end (my bird also says hi)

this is still one of the most inspiring and important videos out there to me.. everyone needs to see this

The future is so hazy for me and my relationships with others, myself and my family. I am so damn scared but this video gave me great amounts of hope in only 7 minutes and a few words from your generous mom. Bless her and you for sharing this. I don't know how my future will go, yet I wish for it to be as filled with love as yours, Chella. Thanks

i’m super happy that u have such an understanding mum. she’s amazing (-‘;

this made me cry, your mom is amazing. i'm so glad she accepted you. i wish i'd found this video sooner

You have such a wonderful and understanding mom. I'm so happy for you, I wish every trans ppl parents were as understanding and empathetic and loving to their child as yours. Thank you for sharing your experience, it teaches us all that it is possible to have parents like yours 💗

Wow, this made me tear up. Truly beautiful.