Honestly biggest character development in the whole series, watching Snowflake become comfortable on the screen

The fact that Amber made Becky pay bills as soon as they broke up really pisses me off. Amber owes a large part of her channel's success 2018-2020 to Becky's chauffeuring, caretaking, and acting as a supporting cast along with her friends.

When Becky said she has never experienced someone being in love with her it hurt my heart.

What kills me about the "wrong sandwich" situation is that turkey, bacon and cheese are literally her favorite things to put on sandwiches, and she was acting like it was the most disgusting thing they could've given her. No way she actually ordered a veggie option.

I’m so glad Becky got out - you could see IMMEDIATELY her mood and demeanor change when she lost those 500+ LBS.

She treated Becky like an indentured servant. She’s such an awful person.

Amberlynn acting like she didn't know the audience could hear her crying off camera is the definition of CRINGE. She literally sat there and obnoxiously sniffled the whole time. 😡

Amber purposely sniffling offscreen so that someone would pay attention to her crying was the most aggravating thing ever. She is so desperate for validation and it was satisfying that Becky refused to give it to her.

The way Amber treated Becky post break up was just awful. She treated Becky the worst.

"Who's the one who's been wiping your ass" gets me every gotdamn time lmao

She ONLY ate the one large fry and she ONLY ate the outsides of 20 mcNuggets. Skinny legend.

She was with Becky for 5 years and was even engaged. Yet, she jumped right into a new relationship that only lasted 2 years, and has been morning it's loss for months...she is insufferable.

Amber worked very hard to earn all the hate and she should be proud.

Its absolutely wild to see the whiplash of going from crying about cancer to just acting like it never happened

53:05 never have I ever, witnessed someone blame a fart on a gunshot and be 200% serious about it, she's beyond a pathological liar.

It literally feels like a documentary on a psychopath

Absolutely golden edit when you zoomed in on Becky’s face while Amber says “I feel like I’m in an abusive relationship”

Prior to your videos, my boyfriend used to get so annoyed when I'd bring up Amber. "She's so boring! Who cares? Why does everyone think she's so interesting?" Somewhere near the halfway point in the first video, he started utterly losing his mind in baffled fascination, and we binged the rest of the series at his (urgent) request. He gets so stoked every time you post these. You do a really good job at letting Amber speak for herself while providing context and guidance, because her vlogs are an utter chore to get through. Thank you for the quality content!

She says she's stuck in a "vicious circle" but... She IS a vicious circle. 😅

“Finally, Amber had ALLOWED Becky to break up with her”.

The way Amber treated Becky while she was grieving the death of her mother who she was extremely close with is so sinister.

Amber told Beck to quit her job because she wanted a full time caretaker who couldnt get snatched up at work (like Destiny), and then forced her to livestream with her because Amber cant create decent content alone. She said Beck would be paid, she wasnt. She was abusive in so many ways. But the financial aspect is *glaringly* obvious.

After now going through a divorce myself, I can’t imagine what Becky went through with wifey moving in while she was there. The loss of a partner is absolutely devastating and to see her ex with a new girl right in her own home is absolute abuse.

I'm honestly appalled when she PURPOSEFULLY hit Becky in the face with her bag for clout ON VIDEO. You can only imagine what she did behind the scenes.

You can tell by the awkward way Amber does the simplest things that Amber never actually does those things.

She is so easy to hate … she’s delusional to the max. It’s mind blowing.

The fart followed by “did anyone hear that gunshot?” Will get me every single time

She asked “did it hurt” but when Becky said it did I didn’t hear ALR apologise. Not once. I hope at least Becky is happier now.

The way Amber mocked Becky in the bathroom when she was trying to tell the viewers about her memorial tattoo was absolutely disgusting. Like Becky or not, there was no excuse for Amber to act like that, especially at that moment.

The fact that Amber can watch something like this and not Get It proves that she’s a narcissist, at the very least.

Her pretending they gave her the wrong sandwich made me cackle like yasssss queen get that Emmy

Amber’s nerve to act like the victim in her relationship with Becky and after the fact JUST because Becky ended it has me fuming every time I think about it. Breaks my heart to hear Becky say that she wasn’t being abused but then saying she needs to grieve her mom properly and learn how to care for herself before anyone else. And then Amber has the gall to sit there and call Becky a manipulative selfish liar 🙄

Amber didn't choose her audience; she cultivated it. Over years of consistent behavior, consistent lies, and consistently failing to learn from her mistakes. She built a living breathing thousand-headed monument to how horrible she is, brick by brick.

Amber: I'm always telling you lets lose weight togetheeerrrr Amber 3 hours later: *unleashes the binge monster if Becky refuses to get her food*

Becky saying she never had that, to have someone be in love with her…but she said it so clear minded and rational, so stoic. That touched me…

The audacity for her to say becky was manipulative

Glad Gracie is remembered and not forgotten. Thanks for the top notch videos!!

The break-up celebration is my favorite thing today! 🤣 BECKY, BECKY, BECKY!!! 🎆

Watching Jimmy evolve his style and branch out artistically while maturing his storytelling ability with each new video has truly been a gift .

Oh my goodness. I knew Amber treated Becky bad…. But this video took it to a whole new level. Good job on this. Amber should be ashamed.

God it enrages me hearing her explain how she forced Becky to propose to her just to act like Becky wanted to marry her and she wanted nothing to do with it. The live stream era showed her true colors so loudly.

I love this format! You “watching with us” and talking about it feels like we’re sitting together chatting :D

Ohh I really like the personal touch of you being on screen and talking to us while doing the commentary! This channel is just getting better and better!

Love how amber would say “yeah well who paid for the bed? Who paid for the blah blah…?” She made Becky quit working to be there to wipe her ass and be her driver? She’s a horrible person.

She didn't even apologize when hitting Becky in the face with her purse? Color me shocked

Amber is so needy, draining, selfish and overall tiresome that instead of turning to her for comfort and support, Becky had to break up with her to grieve her mother properly. Amber is the opposite of a partner--she's a parasite, physically and emotionally. She depends heavily on everyone, but no one can ever depend on her.

amberlynn talking over becky and not letting her speak for herself and "correcting" her is very toxic and controlling. paying for everything and telling becky to quit her job, only to hold it over her head at every moment.... sad

I think if anyone needed a reminder of why ALR is an awful person, it's this video right here. What a lovely flash back to a time that irritated me to no end. I was so happy when Becky ended things, and then Amber did what Amber always does: she made it about herself and continued to do her absolute best to make Becky feel as small as possible. She's genuinely such a horrible person. Can Netflix please put together a 'Surviving Amberlynn' documentary and get all the exes to their all. I'd watch the hell out of that lol.

Oh Snowflake, that ending broke me “Congratulations, I’ve never had that” and the music you chose was perfection. Amber is and was a cruel, cruel monster. Someone will fall head over heels for you Becky, I know it ❤️🇨🇦

Long time viewer (Since Ep 1), first time commenter. Your style has evolved for the better with these. To think you were just a guy in a sheet in the beginning - to the full shots of you calmly narrating this disaster of a life that you've been keeping tabs on for awhile now. Very suave, very amusing. Please consider doing this with future documentaries. Even if you don't show your amazing self, your voice narrating the video keeps me updated when I'm working at home. Either way, I'll look forward to seeing more of what you create!

I hope people realize that the reason why Becky was standing up for Amber & ignoring the "abuse" comments during all the livestreams was because she would have gotten punished if she did anything to make Amber mad. Worse than what appeared on-screen. Becky was so chill because she was fawning. This is normal behavior for an abusive relationship. My aunt acts exactly like Amber and she will spit acid at you in private if you do anything she doesn't approve of while you're in public. This is why Becky didn't bring up being traumatized & broken by Amber UNTIL after she was very far away. The arguments like at 48:06 are real but played off as friendly banter. I'm very glad Becky got out because this is the definition of an abusive relationship

"I love home decor" says amber, as she now lives in a house that lacks decor because she has no one to hang paintings on the wall and construct stuff for her. just wait how the situation changes one she starts seeing someone else.

The livestream era with Becky really showed who she truly is. If any ambabies had any doubt who she was this sealed the deal

This series belongs on Netflix, you have great talent.

She is awful. Predatory and cruel. I hope she is alone forever.

Weight Watchers could probably have grounds for a defamation lawsuit against Amber at this point

woah as expected mr snowflake isn’t only always well spoken he’s also handsome ✨

With her move to Oklahoma and seeing her food addiction and her mom's influence on her, I feel like this documentary will have a tragic ending. She has no self control whatsoever, so she will gain a lot of weight plus all the gambling and drinking that she is doing will make her food addiction worse.

"i deleted uber eats" "i ordered chick fil a, but DONT be mad, its OK to get delivery food" "so i ordered baskin robins 3 scoops of ice cream"..... why? why does anyone NEED ice cream?

I love this new format when you’re on screen whilst providing commentary. It truly feels like you’re leading us to through this grim tale.

I have been waiting for you to have that "Congratulations I've never had that" clip! I just love seeing Amber's smug grin get OBLITERATED. She can say all she wants that she never loves Becky but as soon as Becky agreed Amber could not take it.

Not many creators left that I immediately hit the thumbnail on when seeing a new video. Top notch as always!

im literally devastated all over again hearing becky say she wasnt surprised hearing amber was never in love with her bc she'd never been with anyone who was in love with her before. i hope shes doing better and someday will experience a peaceful, easy love.

0:28 She looked DEVASTATED and so angry😂. Btw, I could never figure out what Becky said in that clip, so thank you for finally clearing that up for me😁. Your documentaries are top notch!

the fact that i've lost 70 lbs since i fell down the ALR rabbit hole is crazy... it's definitely not entirely because of her (obviously) but watching her continued to help me dismantle my inner denial and self-justification that i had already been working on beforehand.

The way she talks about herself in the third person 😂😂😂 “if she doesn’t want to be with Amberlynn Reid, she won’t be with Amberlynn Reid” 😅😅😅

Why is no one talking about how she farted and then said she heard a gun shot 😂😂😂

I think Livestream era post-Becky was the absolute worst era we’ve suffered through up to this point. I could barely get through recaps on reaction channels.

As someone who struggles with weightloss all I want to say is that you're gonna over eat from time to time but that's not the end of the world! Just pick it back up and keep going with your plan.

The scene from 7:02 onwards is actually a pretty interesting example of Becky's and Amberlynn's relationship dynamic. Imitating someone to the point of their annoyance might seem rather insignificant, but it actually is a method of undermining the victim's autonomy. A lot of people might remember doing this as children when having a fight with their sibling or similar situations. It's a "fun" way of getting under someone's skin and slowly chipping away their boundaries. As children of course, it carries much less malicious intent, but adult abusers generally know what they're doing. "It's just for fun, and if you lash out at me because you're annoyed, it means you're unreasonable and you're the aggressor" is what it's meant to signify. You can tell that Becky was genuinely uncomfortable and annoyed, and they were 100% serious when asking Amberlynn to stop, but since Amberlynn was filming, they had to play along. You can also tell by Amberlynn's expressions that she a) enjoyed making Becky uncomfortable, b) recognized Becky's discomfort was amplified by the camera-hostage situation, but also c) genuinely believed this situation looks fun and endearing to the audience. She absolutely had (and still has) no concept of how functional, healthy relationships work. Of course, this doesn't appear to be "that serious", but given the context of their general relationship dynamic, it is rather interesting to observe.

It’s so crazy that she was being intimate with someone else while Becky was there. That’s so disrespectful despite how “detached” she claims she was.

Ah yes, my favorite rabbit hole to dive into. Thank you Mr Snowflake!

Love, Love, Love the new studio look and filming!!! Bravo to you, Mr. Snowflake!!!!👏👏

ALR never ceases to amaze me, the emotionless way she said that her a Becky were engaged was crazy. Like she didn’t care. She literally showed more emotion talking about her makeup. I just have no words for it Edit: saw the whole video and it’s no wonder she acted that way because she didn’t love Becky

Hearing ALR "stutter" without fully saying manipulator infuriates me to the point of violence. She would not want to be in the room with me doing that juvenile bs.

Snowflake, I consider you as a kind of master weaver. As in, you take all the ropes these gorls hang themselves with, and weave them into a beautiful tapestry. Well done.

The “I paid for it” car thing really triggered Becky an I totally get why. Becky had a car an had a job and independence until alr came along so to throw it in her face is low. She acts like Becky didn’t do anything when Becky was majority the reason she had content. Like someone else mentioned was Becky taking her places. Becky’s friends not to mention doing everything for her. She earned that damn car. An why does she feel the need to buy a car for every gf. To me seems like a means to manipulate an control rather than kindness. And out of all of her ex’s wifey definitly road off into the sunset having benefits the most from alrs need to buy love. She by far had the most spent on her. I totally believe that. But I don’t think she was using alr I think alr just loved her more but also because she wasn’t online or part of the channel and had a life seperate from alr an was Polly ,felt she needed to buy her even more.

I wonder who is wiping for Big Al now that she's living "alone"

Also love seeing you in these, very cool to see your editing style mature over these episodes

Man, the intro is actually full-on spectacular now! The effects in general seem to have improved quite a bit as well. Your soundtrack choices are also spot on every single time. You are really treating us with this ever-increasing production quality hahahaha. Not to mention, the commentary is getting better in better in my opinion - I respected the restrained, objective, level-headed view but I absolutely LOVE you letting loose for a bit and saying what needs to be said. Incredible job as per usual! The only thing I would suggest is making the light-hearted Mr Snowflake sketches throughout the videos. Like the one where psychologist version of Snowflake was analyzing her. You used to make these relatively often and they were super funny and memorable! I understand that the topics getting covered are getting heavier and darker, but I feel like that should be a good incentive to put something light-hearted and positive within these vids. That aside, yeah, another masterpiece as per usual! Keep up the great work, keep rocking, and have a wonderful day :D

When she tries pretending to tell the audience Becky is the manipulative one, lol omg how can someone be this embarrassing! I have so much cringe and second hand embarrassment

52:56 girl we are not dumb those were farts like what kinda gun would that be?? AKFarty7?? 😭😭😭😭

My most preferred style of documentation from you, amazing work. I could watch anything made this way.

Amber deserves every foul thing. Not everyone deserves mercy or saving.

Idk why but AL pretending to cry off screen during the livestream era, then pretending that she didn’t know the viewers heard her sniffling, honestly pisses me off 🙄

I have loved this series. I don’t know if I would hate or love you covering the “wifey” era. Never encountered a more boring thing in my life than Amber and Wifey, but you’ve made Amber’s most boring moments hilarious 😂

I just realized that’s the turkey bacon cheese sandwich doesn’t have any sauce… she always eats her stuff dry. She totally ordered that.

The zoom in on Becky in Amber's abuse talk takes me OUT 😭 How delusional can one person be

The way she farted and blamed it on a shot gun im dead

53:06 Amber farting and saying she heard a gunshot is giving Rasputia sitting in that bathtub, making it overflow, and saying it sounded like it was raining outside

I find it really hard to watch how ALR treated Becky. ☹️

The video after the breakup was awful. Absolutely shocking. Anyone who saw this would be 100% on beckys side. Being upset or heartbroken is NO excuse for being so awful she was 30 not 13!

"I'm so happy and engaged," she says in the most robotic voice possible.

“I only ate the outside of the nugget” is WILD

why am I fascinated with this series, *also sorry you have to keep making these for us but here we are.

My absolute favorite thing from the Livestream era was this one time Becky had the camera and kept running away from amberlynn. Becky was giggling the entire time and amber was like "no come back!" And Becky would run back down the hallway. 😂It was the most fun I've ever had with Amber Lynn content.

It makes my blood boil that this woman gets everything she ever wanted that money can buy when Becky is in so much struggle

Hope Jamie French sees this. And maybe she would gain more understanding of why people don't like Abuserlynn.

Mr Snowflake, you are the only youtuber I've ever bought a channel subscription for - your videos are next level! 🙏🏻

I love how this series has grown over the years. Your editing was never bad, but I love all the fun things you're doing now - the old timey videos, fun music selection (even though your music has always been on point), the cuts to show your disappointed expressions, compiling the clips of her talking about her hauls, and condensing the sheer dryness of Vlogmas 2020 into a hilarious edit. It feels like you're telling us a cozy, horrifying story 😊💙 can't wait to see how you transform the incoming utterly boring Wifey/Hand Era!