Thanks everyone for watching this I didn’t expect this many views so now I’ve added the names of the shows to the description

The guy wasn't even sorry when he got the girl pregnant. In fact he was proud that he ruined her. I have words for him I can not use

i like that it shows guy and girl victims

guys, when a girl is being nice to you and then you force yourself on her, and she says no, she wasn't leading you on

Rape is the worst possible crime because there is absolutely nothing that could ever justify it. It's worse than killing somebody because it wrecks them for life, and with that everyone around them. Most victims don't even try to report it, because they know it will be fruitless, that nobody will believe them. Police treat victims like criminals, courts hardly ever convict and the sentences are laughable. And what you see in fiction, the rapists apologizing and "feeling bad" is exactly that - fiction. These people know better, and they have much more control than we give them credit for. It's a terrible crime, commited by heideous people that go unpunished. It's disgusting.

The part where they told that women that there was no physical evidence of anyone in her apartment that night hit me hard because when I was raped and when I went to get a rape kit they refused to do it and said the blood was from my period but now four years later when I got pregnant with a man I loved after having three losses when they did the ultrasound they asked me if I had been sexually assaulted before because I had scarring consistent with rape and when I told them about what happened they were horrified about it and they told me that scarring is the reason I've lost so many pregnancies and the only way I could maintain this pregnancy was through bed and pelvic rest and I blamed myself for everyloss because I thought I had bad genetics or I did something wrong but what that man did to me left me nearly infertile and it could've been prevented if they had done the rape kit and treated the lacerations that night and it's hard to not be angry about this I never even told my boyfriend that this is why this keeps happening because I don't know if I have the strength to tell him that until our baby is born at a safe time we could loose the baby because of what a stranger did to me and no one believed me so I couldn't get proper treatment to attempt to prevent it

*”Your right, the rape DIDN’T kill me, it just broke me down to so bad, into someone so small and little, that I killed myself over and over again every day, suffocating the feeling of it being my fault, I could never do it my self, so I did it mentally, so NO the rape never killed me, it just made me wish I was dead”* *A conversation in front of my entire math class after people found out about me and my father and people made comments about it not being that bad*

I hate that this is all true and yet the authority's still don't believe them.

Not all men, but enough to not know who the good men are.

I’m soooo glad that they included men in this. edit - just in case. I didn't mean that men can't be victims as well, I was saying that male victims are usually overlooked or ignored, so I was glad that they were being represented

i cried throughout this entire video and i can't even imagine anything like this happening to me so for the people who have gone through this, i am so fucking sorry.

I was sexualy assaulted in a party. No one believed me. My friends next day told me it's my fault cause I was drinking and it gave the impression that I was interested. It broke me. I was depressed for a year. That incident and those so called friends not believing me broke my heart. Now, with therapy and finding peace in meditation, I have overcome that difficult time but sometimes it still pinches.

not all men but i was 10 years old when it happened. i was wearing shorts and a t-shirt that evening. i was at a fifth grade graduation party in a bounce house. not all men but it happened in the one place where it should be safe for a child, school. my friends took me to the principal to say I'd been groped, but the principal said it was an accident. not all men but i was a child.

I feel so bad for laughing but at 0:46 the subtitles “ you’re a cheese nobody likes a cheese”

i’m not crying just because this is sad, i’m crying because i’m one of them.

I emphasized so much with this. What happened to me as a child broke me inside. The fact that I had to meet my abuser every single day as a child, that I still have to see his photos on the wall of my house, that my mother and my father still talk to him and are proud of him and hug him and love him, it breaks me. My brother didn’t just hurt me, to me it was murder. Because I spent two decades feeling dead inside and I don’t think I’ll ever stop, I don’t think I’ll ever feel good, I don’t even remember what feeling good feels like. And I so wished my mother and father could have helped me fight this pain, but they chose otherwise. They chose that “everybody makes mistakes”, they chose that I was fine, they chose he was a good person. And it breaks my heart how they completely ignored the situation and left me alone when all I needed was their support. I feel so empty. How do you keep on fighting when you feel so lost and overwhelmed? I tried my best fighting to survive, fighting to live a normal life, fighting to get help and nobody can help me. Why is that? Why can't a judge see how hard it must have been for a 22-year-old girl to go to a lawyer and fight against her own family? I was all alone for the entire time. But they don't care how long it can take to be able to do that, they only care that I didn't do that before and now I should accept my case is expired? Why did they make me go through so much pain again to not give me any justice? I deserve justice. I am broken, dealing with flashbacks, ED, self-harm, severe mood swings and today I had great news: I probably have PTSD too. I was 5 when it started and 12 when it ended and the laws expected me to say something back then? I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT WAS HAPPENING. It took me so long to admit to myself and my unsupported family actually let ME be ashamed of what happened to me. I asked my mother to see a lawyer when I was 15. Yet she is not blamed, cause all she was trying to do was protect her son, but I am blamed for not suing him sooner? WHO WAS PROTECTING ME? WHO IS PROTECTING ME? NOBODY. some days I don't even know if I can take this any longer. WILL I EVER HAVE JUSTICE? PS: I've seen how many people emphasized with me and wanted to share their stories. I know it's hard to live like this, especially when it seems like nobody understands, it becomes very lonely. So I will leave my ig here and you can contact me if you need someone to talk to. I know it might seem weird, but it also seems the right thing to do on my side My Instagram is: martina_asta_99 the profile photo is a couple and there's a blue sky behind us and the green of a tree. Thank you all for sharing ❤

“you were a child, a little girl” I started crying uncontrollably when I heard this. Because I too was a little girl when my own cousin started to sexually assault me. He did it for years and I didn’t say anything bc I was manipulated to think that I was not raped, that “it was just a joke”. I grew up feeling ashamed and guilty until I realised what really happened to me. thank you for this video, I think it’s really powerful!

That rapped man actor is a very good actor BTW.

What makes me sick is the fact that people always blame victims because they don't tell someone the day it happened it's sad

and When it happens the first questions you get asked are " what were you wearing?" " Did you lead him on?" " Did you say no?" " Did you tease him?" Its not fair! to blame the victim!

the worst part of being rape is when they're too young, too innocent to know they're being raped💔

Not all men , but she’s still going to put her keys between her knuckles if you get to close to her not all men , but she’s still going to call someone when she walks home alone , not all men but every woman , not all men but enough men , and if it’s not all men then why is it still going on?!!

Survivors come in all shapes, sizes, colors, genders, non-genders, sexual orientations, ages, etc. I'm glad that there are various representations of survivors in this video. The rapists saying sorry means nothing unless they are put in jail for their crimes. Odds are, they will rape again. It's not always only about sexual gratification, it can also be about power over another person, any person.

This is heartwrenching

This hit me hard. I was raped, sodomized, and almost murdered. The police interrogated me for over six hours in a hospital room. I was afraid to give names and numbers because he was a gang member. That was over 19 years ago and I still have PTSD from it.

All I did was take a shower without closing the bathroom door. He never asked.

It's never really over though, we still live with it everyday.

even murder can be justifiable at times. i can see myself feeling sympathy for a murderer but never a rapist. rape is the lowest of the low. it’s pure fucking evil.

The fear when you know that person is coming who hurt you sexually .. The fear goes to feet to the spine and bones .. But lips are still sealed .. And all of this stuck in my body .. It's so heartbreaking .. I wish nobody had to go through this as I did

This is so emotional and heart-wrenchingly relatable. Thank you for making such a painfully, beautiful video raising awareness about such an important topic.

if they say "no", THEY SAY NO

Why am i still watching this even though i know it is hurting me inside and will bring back the memory at that fucking night

You might aswell ads kdramas where every guy kisses the girl with 0 consent even when she's tries to push back

Video brought tears to my eyes, it's crazy how people have the guts to victim blame after what rape victims pass through.

Rape is the worst thing you could ever do to someone. Add the fact that most rapist never get the jail time the deserve and the fact that some people always find a way to blame the victim it sucks! Also the fact that unlike murder it doesn’t leave behind much evidence. I’m sorry to anyone who’s been sexually assaulted. Don’t ever stop fighting because one day you and the person who did that to you will get what you both deserve.

The fact that this story hit rock bottom for me and again made me realize that what a shit this world is and what me and people like me have gone through. We all need a group hug and praying that no one ever has to go through something like this.

This video just shows that this really happens and not just to girls but guys too and society needs to grow up and realize that it isn't a joke and that it needs to be talked about more because it's not talked about enough and the more that people ignore it the people think they can get away with it. I am 15 and I know how messed up life is because I have seen so many people coming out with their story Just know that if you know someone or you yourself has gone through this that it is not your fault and that you are strong and to never give up.

This comment section full of men supporting the victims, speaking out for the silenced victims, trying to make a change is the most heartwarming thing I have seen today and made me feel protected. Thanks 👍🏿

It is amazing how it shows male and female victims without trying to counsel out the females as people do

The fact that this world can be so cruel and unpredictable that it makes people petrified to wear clothes that they feel confident in, just to be torn down and broken by others is absolutely disgusting.

Why do I do this to myself????????????

“It’s not something you see on the news… It’s been happening in THIS house… It’s been happening right NOW, and it’s been happening to YOU!”

It's different for everyone, but for me I never felt like I lost something. Like something was taken from me, and I think that's because I was so young. It completely changed me, the way I think and behave and I know I should hate that I'm different because of it but I don't because I know that I wouldn't have lasted as long in life as I used to be. But for me it was such a long time ago, and the man is dead now so maybe that makes a difference. Don't get me wrong I'm not glad it happened but I can't look back and only feel pain and anger anymore. It's different for everyone.

The justice system for people that are raped, men or women, is just totally fucked.

No means no, but silence doesn’t mean yes either Tee Noir has a video talking about the characters of Grand Army and wen she talked about Joey she talks about that. People act as if is always a yes until the girl says no, but it’s the opposite. Until the person kisses you back, says it’s okay, it’s a no. Until she says yes, it’s a no. If you keep doing it despite of that, it’s rape

Getting raped.. traumatizes people. And I was one of them. I was so young and it continued for many years, now I'm scared around men, so yes, I want to fuck him up just like the video said. Some people have no idea how scary it is to deal with this problem because you can't get the moments out of your head, you will never forget but it takes time to recover. For those of you out there dealing with this shit, just know that you are not alone, we're all dealing with this the same way you are. Even if you can't forget, you can make new memories and tell yourself "I'm better than that asshole". You all are amazing people and it's sad to see what society has turned into at some points, but sometimes you just need to look on the bright side.

i was raped two years ago, he was my first boyfriend. When i told him to stop because i did’t like and also because of the pysichal pain, he told me that i was a slut and that in reality i was enjoying it. He really broke my heart and my faith in men

People/police officers/judges always blame the raped victim for not saying anything but for all they know, the reason they didn’t say anything was because they were being forced not to. It is 100% possible that the rapist was threatening to hurt the victim if they told anyone. Ever think of that judge?

It’s a simple phrase “no means no” Yet some people fail to understand it, why do they not understand that what they are going to do to us will haunt and taunt us for the rest of our lives emotionally, mentally and physically bringing us down day by day, letting us crash and burn....and yet they still do it....

If this horrible thing is happened to you, I am truly deeply madly sorry my whole soul is supporting you, I wish you the best, I wish you to live your life and DON'T LET YOU RUIN BY STUPID, HORRIBLE, INHUMAN PEOPLE You're strong, beautiful and nobody has the permission to let you think otherwise I love you again and again ❤️💖💟✨

I love how you also included men in this video because it does happen to both men and women

Just like the video, I wish every survivor's story ended with them getting justice. Sadly, that doesn't happen for many of us. You live through it each day, suffering alone, while your abuser is out there somewhere living a free life.

🥺I swear I'm not crying

"No MEANS NO"

“You’re a tease. Nobody likes a tease” I knew this video would trigger me before I clicked it but this is almost exactly what a guy I used to see would tell me. We did have a sexual relationship for a while but I started to put up more boundaries and it irritated him. He would say I was teasing him but really, I just refused to engage in any sexual activity with him. I had to push him off me a few times before he finally realized I wasn’t going to have sex with him anymore and now he’s blocked.

It's just abuse and traumatizing. I'm glad I got help , late but still help. I was 14 it last to 15. Now I'm 18

If this has happened to you I am so sorry. TRUST ME IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. IT WAS THE FAULT OF WHOEVER DID THAT TO YOU

I was sexually assaulted by a man in my family multiple times when i was only 12 years old. I’m 15 now and still haven’t told a single soul. It has destroyed my insides, not being able to tell anyone. Keeping it inside for years is killing me. I can’t tell anyone. I don’t think I ever will be able to either.

They always told me it was my fault because I was wearing a dress. My innocence was taken from me. I remember the day the jury and judge said it wasn’t fair for him to face punishment for one little mistake, I mean after all I was just so beautiful he couldn’t hold back.

I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim. i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this

This edit is so beautiful. I was crying through it because I could resonate with it. I was raped by someone I thought I could trust and was my friend when I was very young. It went on for four years and he manipulated me into thinking it was normal. So even though it hurt I convinced myself it was normal. When I realized that it wasn't alright, I started hating myself. Almost every speech I've heard since then asks people to be certain ways to avoid getting sexually assaulted and in my case, I couldn't even say no. The guilt and the shame were overbearing, and I fell into depression and had suicidal tendencies. I couldn't tell anyone and so for nearly a decade I had no therapy, and they blamed all my mental health issues as me being irresponsible or not having control over myself. After 2 years of therapy, even though I am not suicidal right now I still have a lot of issues but people expect you to get over it. My family thinks that I have let it affect me too much already and I should take control of my life. It doesn't work like that. The self-hatred has often led me to put myself in vulnerable situations where I could get hurt further because it felt like I deserved it even though I know I didn't do anything wrong. I can't even go to court because it would his word against mine. And the statements from memories when I was 3 to 7 years old would easily be thrown aside as "false memory" or not strong enough evidence. The system is messed up and society will continue to victim blame.

As a SA Victim, I was broken and so lost for so long. I reached out, I got a therapist, I'm on meds life is getting a little bit better everyday.

The fact that judges say they’re is no evidence of the victim being raped even while the victim -has bruised -signs of struggle at the crime scene -has complaints of neighbors of screaming -etc And they STILL say Kids just being kids She was leading him on Her clothes were so revealing, she should of expected it Men can’t be victims Why would a parent do that to they’re kid? The kids making up stories *Is utterly disgusting and disappointing*

"the fact that you thought it was sex for one second is disgusting" yes...

The worst thing to do, is to give in after saying no repeatedly. After telling them stop. They are still in the wrong, even after you give up saying no because they won't stop. But the sad thing is you will only blame yourself. When they promise not to do anything, but then they "can't help themselves" and they are "Sorry for breaking their promise." That's when you leave. Leave when their promise becomes a sorry. Leave when they refuse to stop after you tell them no. SA and R are life changing, and people don't see how traumatic it really is. If someone you know is near if this happens to you, tell them that night. Make sure you stop it before it's too late. His friends and my brother were downstairs. But I thought I loved him, so after countless times, I gave up and gave in. Please don't do what I did.

why is it so comforting to know im not the only one am i wrong to feel comforted by these videos

This need more viewers, its amazing and heartbreaking edit

This is just outrageous! How could a human do this to anyone. It's truly heartbreaking that women and even men are getting treated like this, and the way they say you were naughty or a "tease". This video made me cry because no matter what we say or what we do no one listens. No matter how many songs, or how many movies, or how many protests, we still have to be hurt and for what! We go to the police, we go to our teachers, but they do absolutely nothing to fucking help us. It is disgusting how anyone can do something like this, it truly breaks my heart. And we say that boys will be boys and act like every single thing is completely normal, that this is just something people do! It makes me sick and it's disgusting.

this hit hard

“Guess who’s not too afraid to fight back now.” This. I can’t be the only one willing to catch charges to put people like this below ground.

I was sexually abused by my own brother for 7 years. From when I was 4 till I was 11. And I cannot recover from it no matter how hard I try.

I love how it shows female and male man can get raped too and I feel like that should be a more common conversation then people saying “that would never happen because their man they can’t get raped” yes they can

Thank you so much for showing that men can also be harassed, can also be raped, can also be forced into sex without their consent, it’s time people acknowledge this & I wish victims strength coz I know how it feels when your dignity is taken away from you piece by piece and your body and soul doesn’t feel like it belongs to you, that’s the worst feeling anyone can ever feel

What is wrong with the People who disliked this is a good video AND I CAN'T BELIVE THAT THERE ARE STILL SOME PEOPLE THAT STILL NOT CARE ABOUT RAPING!

3:16 that scene RIPPED my soul apart. the AUDACITY he has to say it to her eyes without any remorse. such a monster.

i cried at the end when the man finally got justice, i could see the pain in his eyes and like something had been lifted of his shoulders.

" i didnt know what was happening just that it hurt and it was wrong" oh dear GODS I've never related more

Praying for everyone who had to go through this ❤

What really hurts is when your “best friends” ex puts his hands on your thighs and you say no. and he is hestitant to stop until you have to say no louder. but then he slams you to a wall and kissed you. and when you have to push them off with all of your power. and when you tell your “best friend” about it all she cares to ask you is “did you kiss back?” and it makes you cry everytime you think about it. And everytime you see your “best friend” you feel like crying because she doesn’t really care. She doesn’t care that her “best friend” was just sexually assaulted by her ex. She doesn’t even care to protect me. (*disclamer* i’m okay now. It happens a awhile ago but it still hurts knowing my best friend would say that and hurt me like she did). I wish that no one would have to go through this. Getting raped or assulated happens no matter what you wear. People need to know that no means no. Women and Men when we say no it means no. I’m so sorry for anyone if that has happened to you. You are amazing, you are so powerful, and you are so strong. 1 like = 1 more ounce of power that goes to someone that has been hurt.

The things that men face is not talked about a lot, like how they are painted as the monsters, or how they are treated unfairly, or how they are not taken seriously when it comes to abusive relationships, they’re told to just suck it up and hide their emotions and be a man. It’s really not talked about a lot, and as a feminist I really would like the topic to be spread out more because I want equality for everyone. Thank you for including men in this.

This is gutwrenching but also so important to talk about! Thank you for creating this

2:36 is badass

I agree that it is good you put male and female victims as well. I remember watching a show and a teen male was getting SA at work by a much older women, he pointed it out and she responded with 'it doesn't count when it's a dude'

I LOVE how you showed girls and guys both victims, cause sexual assault is considered mostly to be happened to women only, but men go through that too. And it's absolutely heartbreaking and infuriating how many times the victims don't get justice.

thank you for making this i feel not alone now. i was a child when it's happened, 5yo or something. the boy was about 4-5 years older, my mom was working all the time so that boy was the one who babysit me. he was my only friend and he made little me believe that it is just how friendship works. he sexually abused me every day. i then moved to another city and find friends my age (around 10-12). half of them used me. i was never saying yes or no. i was just thinking that this is how friendship works. i still feel so fake to call everything that happened to me a sexual abuse cause they were all kids too and i never really said no. it feels so stupid and not important.

I got rap3d by one of my classmates when I was just 13 (he was 17 that time), he did it in the bathroom of the last floor of the school when nobody was there. I told my mother about it and instead of helping me she just pushed me further aside, I told the director about what he did to me and he didn't believe me either and told me he I was just saying it because of "jealousy" and he even threatened me that if I said that kind of thing again he would expel me from school for "liar", I was alone, no one belived me and it really hurted me.. I had to stay with that pain for a long time.

i cried so many times during this..

Okay I cried for like 1 hour after watching this

My bestfriend was the most prettiest, kindest and bubbly girl I ever knew. She was nothing but a happy virus with a always smiling face but only till one day we got a call from hospital. And the girl lying on that bed was completelydifferent from who I knew. She was just staring at the ceiling like no life was there.. I don't even wanna remember the picture I saw that day...she lost herself.. From then on she was no longer that bubbly and smiley girl but literally begging us to let her go. She used to be a daddy's girl but now she even flinched every time their hand would touched. That dad is too no longer the positive man we knew.. the whole perfect family was broken in to pieces bcs of xxxxxx....It rly fvcking hurt to see her like that..

I- I never thought.. I didn’t realise how hard this was for people... I’m so sorry for everyone who had to go through this

It's so sad that the society questions the victim not the criminal

2:30 was strong this video hit me so hard that this is the world we live in is so sad

I have never had this happen to me but to anyone who has had it happen. You are strong, it wasn’t your fault, you are loved, and you deserve a lot better, no matter your gender, sexuality, race, or religion.

I too was raped. I didnt even know it affected me so bad until i actually left. It got so bad to the point that rather than blaming him, i was blaming myself for letting it happen. He manipulated me for so many years that i got used to saying it was my fault.

aw they really put the shows in the description :') tysm!

The fact that this can happen anywhere at anytime to anyone is genuinely devastating. If you have ever been through this, I am so so so sorry.

3:30 hit hard I got asked sexual questions and touched inappropriately by my cousin when I was 13 and he was 18, he never got in trouble what so ever cause there was no actual hard evidence cause it was on Snapchat and snap deletes everything it’s such a crushing feeling to be told that cause it already takes so so much courage to speak up about it. It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy 💔

Troian Bellisario was so amazing in that mini series “Lauren” the rape scenes and aftermath is so unbelievably hard to watch but it’s important.

Thats really painful and it stays with you for lifetime please be helpful to people going through this its really hard to live after this :(

The trauma you have from rape is one of the worst parts, at least in my experience, I cant even kiss anyone without wanting to cry my eyes out and push them away