She didn't. She simply gave an option and opinion.

Jessica Thompson she did actually, she refused to like any other dresses her daughter tried on because it was all about “my dress my dress my dress”. 🙄 Until they jacked her daughter up, which is what happens in every video. 🤣

@@shannonbutton7616, She's not required to love the dress, as long as she loves her daughter, that's what matters.

I notice the mom didn’t wear her mother’s dress.

that dress her mom wear is better then the dresses she picked

You copied someone’s comment but ok

@@k13997 who’s.

@@k13997 whose

@@firstnamelastname6016 knightess squallina's

Welcome to another episode of.......... this is not your comment!!!!

At this point it’s almost 4 decades! And I absolutely agree, it’s stunning

I would wear it to but more fluffy

If she grew up with her mom insisting on that dress, it may feel more like playing dress up. She wants to feel like a grownup on her wedding day, not like a little girl or her mom’s doll.

like that one better than most of the skanky cocktail, evening looks I have seen on these clips. the front piece that extends over the belly button area is VERY flattering to a woman. LOSE THE BELTS. most of the bling belts take away from the length of the body and dont usually help the waist line.

I agree, her mom's dress really surprised me when she tried it on. For free, I'd see if mom was okay with a couple of alterations, and I'd definitely wear it.

So funny, but true!

SYTTD exposing all the Karens and selfish mothers of the world.

Yes correct ✔️✔️✔️✔️😂😂😂😂

idd that mom is not getting married but she is, it's so rude. I wish she could just be more supportive of her daughter

Hahhahahahha 🤣

KINGGGGGG 🥰

The consultants face when he said that was the icing on the cake.

Brooke LaNasa 😂😂😂💀

Strong Monty!

I heard gun shots when he said it 😂 RATATATATAT - PPPRRRRRR

Yep

True

I agree

Yeah

Yea

Oh yeah! You got it right 😄.

Ya

Monte is damn savage queen

Me too

Monte is my jam

Of course she can! As long as it’s the same dress 😂

The style is pretty, but the fabric is super synthetic looking. I liked it until they did a close up of it. It looks very plastic.

Flo was like, oh hell no he didn't 😂

And I love it

But he didn’t lie lol they both were old and boring

It was great😂😂😂

Pffttt

I know, my mom was married in the early 90s but i think the dress came from the 80s. The mom's dress was actually pretty tame

It reminds me of the ghost woman's wedding dress in Beetlejuice.

That's right! But who want's to marry in a dress that looks "not too bad" ...

I was thinking the same. It suited her, but it was nice to see her choose her own dress 😍

Too bad we can’t say the same about Mom’s hair.

EXACTLY

I feel like thats really smart have a dress that’s been passed down just for reception so u can choose your own for your big day great idea

I actually really like this idea

Naw girl. Leave that dusty shit in the box where it belongs

Mom's dress is beautiful. Definitely classy and timeless, like she said. But the bride has to feel beautiful, and she has to feel like herself. Her fiance didn't propose to Mom, he doesn't want to see his mother in law walking down the aisle toward him. He wants HER, and she shouldn't try to be anyone but herself.

@MORGAN RIGGIE beautifully dusty

and Flo was like, oh hell no he didn't 😂

But like if the mom wants a dress that looks exactly like hers then she should give it to her daughter

I died

"THAT'S RIGHT! I SAID IT!" 🤣🤣🤣

Could of blown the sale

And after he said that, the mom is had a kill intense to him 😂🤣😂🤣

I bout choked in a laugh over that. That was great

I WAS DYING LMFAOOOOOO

The “wooo” and hair flick had me dying 😭😭😭

“I think I got myself out of that one” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I'M DEAD!!! I played that part three times 😂😂

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Yeah but that was rude😅

It's Flo face😂😂

That was hilarious 🤣

Because it doesn't matter of the bride doesn't like it.

@@LoreMartinelly yeah I agree I just noticed that

YES. It’s probably one of the most tolerable 80’s dresses I’ve seen (and I went to a _lot_ of weddings in the 80’s)!

Period

well her mom's hair is still in the 80's too!

I wore my mom's 80s dress, I loved it and it looked beautiful! But my mom never pushed me, was my choice

@@shevahauser1780 I wish I could wear my mom's dress. I'm to tall for it now for one. It was also my grandmother's dress before my mom's and they let it out all the way for my mom. My plan is to use the vail since I can't wear the dress.

It reminds me of the ghost woman's wedding dress in Beetlejuice.

Totally agree

Exactly this. I rather like her mom's dress, all things considered, but its not my wedding. Get this girl some cap sleeves!

Say yes to the veil*

Feel the magic in the hair oleoleole dhidkdvdhsusjsndbdh oleleoelelee If you got me

😂😂😂

Just wanna say that I saw kazuha, I loke

This is exactly what i am saying!!! 😂

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Its exactly the same as it was on her wedding day😂

😂😂😂

On point!! 😂😂😂

But the dress does look better than her hair.

😅

Monte be savage sometimes, but I'm living for it

I almost choked on my drink! 😂😂😂

@@NymphWitchVamp I LITERALLY CHOCKED ON MY WATER

😂😂😂

His job is to sell dresses but he wants it to be the RIGHT dress.

well i mean what would your mom do, my mom would pick the one that suits me well and i may try something that may not look good on me. i sometimes agree with half of the moms in this show.....

@@fairytale8681 For me, it's all about the bride. This is her one special day. The mom can give advice, but shouldn't constantly be pushing for something the bride has already stated she doesn't want to wear.

Agreed lol

I've seen a way pushier mom than that, I actually think that the mom in this clip wasn't that bad, I'd say that most of our moms would have done the same. In the video, I'm glad hat she somewhat compromise. I know that its all about the bride for her wedding day but the guests are ur family and family is very important so its important to get the approval of your mom or dad.

What? Just No.

Amber Rigetti I think you nailed it. It sounded like the Mom wanted a repeat of her own wedding, with her daughter as stand-in. Now, her dress wasn’t as fugly as some 80s dresses are - fairly classic if dated - and could maybe have been altered. But her behaviour was outright toxic and that in itself is a reason to refuse.

Katarina Wikholm exactly!

Precisely!

@LOLLA BROWN I see it! 😂😂😂

AMEN!!!

Key words: her mom’s dress! Any bride wd want HER own dress

I agree, I like the mom's dress on her, but the fact of the matter is, this isn't her mom's wedding anymore, let the daughter have her own wedding. If the daughter is the bride, she should get what fits her.

Any idea why do they insist on pleasing their mothers? It’s THEIR own weddings

A little louder for the momzillas in the back!

@@Truly_Sithari guilt is the emotion that parents love to weaponize. You know the argument, “I gave you a roof and fed you, I’m paying for your dress, etc”

Same🤣, I just cant😂🤣

😂😂😂

Righttt😂😂😂

luv his honesty

LMAO IK hes like: I SAID WHAT I SAID HONEY ✋😌🤚

I don't know why, but 80s hair seems to still be trendy in parts of the south

I found it quite beautiful actually

@@candicehoneycutt4318 That's not all parts of the south has been hanging on to. (Jus' sayin!)

elise Where did I even remotely imply that it was all parts of the south?

Kinda, she's stucked in the '80s.

Right? Who wants to get married in the dress they were possibly conceived in?😂😂😂🤮

Yeah it's worth pointing out that the mom pushing it on her didn't wear *her* mom's dress, she got something new like her daughter wants to!

i would like this but it has 666 likes

Liv Fallon so?

@@thevampirefrog06 Right! She talks about how when she saw the dress she knew it was the one, but isn't letting her daughter have the same experience finding her own??

Monte with an e, geez.

@@NintenGamer 😆😀😄😝🤣

Period.

Exclamation Point.

@@MagicBites08 question mark

@@mtb1015 M

I think that she's living vicariously through her daughter.

Yeah buddy, soon as he said that my mouth dropped open then I fell out laughing. "Monte your mouth just wrote a check your ass is about to cash!" 😂🤣😂🤣

Deborrah Cooper Did you see their faces?! 😂😂😂

I full on clasp my face in that scene 😂

Savage

I was just like yassss go off Monte!!!

Right? It sounded so hypocritical. The mom said "I had my wow moment" well, don't you want your daughter to have the same?

There's the height of rudeness and arrogance - not only to her own daughter but to all the staff of the bridal salon business - right there.

@@breezyfeer exactly

Same thought

LOL SO TRUE

I’m glad I quit medical school to live my own life and create my reality not mom’s lol

If my daughter (if I have a daughter) wants my dress, absolutely! But I know how important the dress is and would never force it on her! Mine was a full custom and if anything I'd just want to make sure she didn't change the look of it too much like ripping off the sleeves, add a removable ball gown skirt? Go for it. If she doesn't even want to consider my dress then that's fine! Just looking at the difference between my sisters and I... That's a huge difference.

Thank you!!

I so agree

@@fidanibrahimova1173 ljhg-+

She does I went back to check it after reading your comment 🤣

So?

I was gonna say it!!

@@elizabethleyden892 it's 2020 and her hair hasn't changed even a little after 20 years..

@@lemonjuice6715 28 years!

😂😂😂😂😂😂

And quite honestly, not everybody realizes that wedding dresses can become dated just like any other style of dress. Even Princess Diana, when in her 30's, said she wasn't all that thrilled with the dress when looking back.

It is the wedding dress of the woman that birthed and raised her for 18 years. *cough cough*

@@user-xe1nr6er5q Yeah. Not her dress, It’s somebody else’s dream dress.

She can like and appreciate it. Even love it on her mom. But that doesn’t mean she wants to wear it too.

she’s wearing a wig. She is a cancer patient but she still could have choose a better wig

@@mrskaren7063 It was the friend that was bald

@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 oh my bad, sorry.

Same, she looks great in it but her mom needs to chill

Yeah but it's Her wedding not her mothers

I made the likes: 666

You are so right. But instead, she ruined it mostly for her. Selfish to an extreme level.

@@gardenjoy5223 the mom didn’t even insist she use her dress that much idk what you mean by “ruining” it. After having her dress rejected she dropped it and let her daughter choose what she wanted

My thoughts exactly! Mom said “she looks better than I did,” but does she feel better than you did? No? End of story.

This isn't your wedding Mom!

Exactly!

Loved this

Same. I'd like to accept that dress if she gave it to me for free

It would looks really awosem with some extra volume.

SAME ! It’s beautiful 😍

I agree. It's beautiful and classic. Dresses like that are hard to find too. I would have added a belt of some sort, the right veil, some classic jewelry, some simple shoes, and either some mixed wildflowers or some red roses with some fern. It really doesn't need much. I hope one of the moms daughters wear it. It will mean alot to the mom, to have such a tradition carried on.

@@jessicathompson236 yah.

It goes well with the pearl necklace

i think thats amazing. but you should at least have kept it for the memories but i think thats really sweet

@@charlotteevans7868 I kept the crystal sash and hair piece just in case she wants to incorporate them into her dress. I felt the dress looked sad all boxed up so I donated to brides against breast cancer. I like to think of the woman who purchased it and imagine how she felt in her/our dream dress. haha I know thats insane but it makes me happy to think it brought someone else joy.

@@keepingupwithkelsey2980 ohh i get it. its so sweet tho bc imagine how happy this woman will be putting on that dress and knowing it is hers. and for women with breast cancer? thats amazing. hopefully ur daughter will use those pieces in her wedding dress!

@@keepingupwithkelsey2980 that's really sweet of you!!

My mom used her dress and made my christening outfit when I was a baby.

Exactly

Lots of brides wear their mothers dress but I don’t like either one moms dress or daughters to revealing

I want to see her in a monte dress. His dresses are unique!

@@kellymcfalls1458 to revealing?

@@kellymcfalls1458 to revealing🤣🤣🤣 , what do you want HER to wear , a non's habit ???

frfr

Mhm

Yeah ikr

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

TRUH MAHN

Her Hair is awful, and so is her personality

Hair 100%

@-Eret She's a cancer patient. She's wearing a wig don't be rude

@Jordon Stevens she is a cancer patient. She's wearing a wig don't be rude

You beat me to it, that's exactly what I was thinking.

I would take engagement photos or just random photos in it. They could even photoshop her next to her mom with them both wearing it. It would be super sweet but she she should wear what she wants for the wedding.

I wore my mom's 80s dress, I loved it and it looked beautiful! But my mom never pushed me, was my choice. Looked similar to the mom's here, but satin on the bottom, more structured

If she tools the sleeves would looks modern and better.

Exactly! My moms never mentioned me wearing her dress (it’s gorgeous and I love the style) but she wants me to have my moment. Let your kids fly.

Holly Shane Exactly like it’s not the moms day it’s the brides day

fr

that's so smart

*Exactly!!!*

THIS

Well, she did allow it

Yeah, but also it is a reality tv show, I doubt the mom is this pushy in real life. They just wanted some drama

@@greenapples9293 actually they've had brides comes out and say that in earlier seasons they didn't even get to pick their entourage, they had to basically fill out a profile on everyone in their lives and then the show picked. That's why there's so many episodes where the MIL who is against the marriage, the narcissistic friend/sister, generally that person that makes you go "why did you invite her" is there. Like I'm pretty sure they would've picked my mom and we are basically no contact and would probably spend the whole time playing the perfect always there for her child mother... Like she's the mother who steals pics of us off of other people's FBs so she can talk about how proud she is to be our mother.

@@dreamsscream wtf

Yeah. I’ve been forced out of my comfort zone many times and every single time, it ended negatively.

That's me. My mom forces me to do things so often. Then there's that time that I do that thing, for example cleaning without her saying because I feel good and all but when she says, or more likely demands it and is pushy, I just lose my complete motivation. Like, I can stay home for hours and I am bored but motivated so I clean the entire flat and all but then when she comes and practically demands I do a simple chore while I have 3 other sibling that do jackshit. And only because either I am the oldest and I have to be an idol for my siblings, or because I am the only one between 4 kids who doesn't have as much of a problem with helping out. I don't know, maybe it's cuz I am tired of her putting me down for making the simplest mistake when she asks me to do something and it's just taking away my self confidence, making me feel that anything I do is always wrong. I wanna do things from myself without you being so nasty about it, woman-

Because we share DNA, my mom, my sister and I are all roughly the same size and body shape at the same age, so I could theoretically fit into my mom's wedding dress. But, my mom was buff and had to rip the seams out of her lace sleeves to fit into her dress.

My mom at my age, and me, are identical too ❤️

@@kiwin7119 man i dont even know what my moms wedding dress looks like. She left it at my grandparents house on the other side of the world and i never remembered to ask her to take it out so i can look at it. Although 1 i would never wear it and 2 my mom and my sister both have a totally different body shape from me. Their bone structure is in itself is different im more like my grandma so it wouldnt fit anyways

There is no way I could fit in my moms dress even if I was skeletal. I have my fathers frame, but I do love it.

It was awful

Lol true🤣

She wasn't pushy at all

Exactly. It annoys me.

Sooo true!!!

Amen!!!

xine91468 some people are so selfish. It’s hard to imagine from a mother, but it’s real.

You’ll find that a lot of parents are selfish and really shouldn’t have reproduced in the first place

And she said it was traditional to wear a mothers dress, but she didnt wear her own mums dress so...

Narcissist mom

JaayArt Omg i m hugeee fannnn

Monte caaaaammmeeeee for her weave!!

From fosters ? If yes TRUE she looks like monte

That awkward moment😆lmao....

Oh my god what the hell i'm sorry if this confused anyone. It has confused me.....I never commented on this vid. I don't know how the hell this happened....

This made me love Monte even more

Me,too. Got to have Monty!

i mean he's not wrong lol

Monty. You are so on point.

Laveena Rattii LMAOO and the coworker JUDGING HIM LIKE “ monty if you don’t stfu,, what are you DOIING” 😂