A queen looking for a King his finances. Shouldn’t matter if you not looking

@@SINNRORTY money matters, you can’t pay the bills on love. Let’s not act like it doesn’t matter at all. Money is cited in over 50% of divorce filings. If a man wants to have multiple households he should be financially responsible. You can’t pick and choose what parts of a mana natural instinct he can act on. If it’s a natural instinct to be polygamous, it’s also a natural instinct for men to be providers.

@@SPEAKSB But that's the thing about actually being with that man.If you wicked that man you should be financially stable on his term too

@@SPEAKSB But it creates a redundant pattern for a woman to always transmute the discussion of a man halting himself or becoming a provider that is dumb to even think a man won't have finances if he wants a family

Yup perfectly said 💯.

Its the man that benefits in this transaction. The women are fighting to please papa so that they become the favorite. So women woek for this man

Your thinking about it from a western lustful capitalism terminology

​@@sausage9806but it's women who need protection and to be cared for so it's on her to earn it 💯

@@bongoikno4994 ask king Solomon. The lust brought destruction everything he built. What happened with Absalom? Slept with his father’s wives/ concubines. Or the “illegitimate”son of Gideon, Abimelech who slayed his 70 brother’s. Polygamy has consequences for the godless and the people of God. I have experienced this spiritual cultural lifestyle willingly and the destruction to the children is not worth it. The women were also damaged when they were abused and used as trophies. Eventually the men were demoralized too because the women ended up providing as single mothers and had nothing to teach the children, because the father was gone. I revisited this doctrine with one of my brothers in the culture and he remarked that polygamy still produced women headed households. Thats a tragedy. Please brothers and sisters once its called poly its basically worship to idolatrous way of life. Historically some say it was making political alliances but the strife still breeds internal tribalism and family members sell each other out. Loyalty and honor does not thrive in poly mindset. People claim they have black consciousness and only read the juicy parts of the story. There is human trafficking in the world today under the excuse that a “man” is entitled to promiscuity. The “western” laws are obstacles to this though? Cmon man Western culture literally makes money from prisons social workers daycares and the like when the black family is poly

I dont think marriage is about sex , its a spiritual union to cultivate the next coming generations. We live in a hyper sexualized world.

Mammal are poly it is nature's plan but humans have become selfish and controlling

😂 You wish

@@fj2201 thank you. A double minded man is unstable in his ways.

Look at all animal species that live in groups they are all polygamous the natural way.

@@fredbantu3694 I'm going to emphasize, again, that EVERYTHING is off; there are very few things functioning completely in nature as they should. Even if polygamy was the 'natural' order, based on the unnatural societies in which we currently live, what percentage of HUMAN males could adequately support all the needs of multiple households and the people in them --- emotionally, financially, spiritually, 'spousally,' 'parentally,' sexually, etc.???? You see, most women know that the only thing males who condone polygamy are concerned with is sexual conquest in context of male privilege; they don't give a damned about the needs and concerns of the women involved. That will be their undoing because a neglected woman will seek solace and attention elsewhere. Trust. The best thing for men who don't want to be with one woman is to just don't get married; be open about that fact and keep it moving. If you get a group of women who are openly willing to go along with the polygamy program, be prepared to go above and beyond the normal call of duty to take care of the increased responsibilities that will go with it.

That’s how prostitution ends up being rampant in western culture

From a population perspective male vs female. Males make up a majority of the prison population. That alone chages 1m to 1w ratio. Its not a sigular specific reason for polygamy but,It is a point to be noted.

Why have you given up

Who got time for this mess though... The average man in the US and I said average and we can even say the average black man cannot properly care for and take care of one woman not to mention many other women that he would have to be responsible for and children. The guys that I meet who speak of polygamy literally have barely anything and they're delusional and they want these women or many women to come together and take care of them and create a situation of triangulation to feed their egos. Guys do this all the time by cheating on women too who got time for that mess whether if the woman is single or in a polygamous relationship or regular relationship I don't have time for that. If a guy wants a polygamist situation he needs to be responsible financially emotionally and mentally for all of these women that he wants. If he wants sex with no issues from various women and even in those situations issues. I refuse to be in polygamy to help a man to take care of himself and his various women who the f*** got time for that. Men are greedy the more women you let them have the more they are going to want whether if they can take responsibility for them or not. He is one man how can he properly divide himself between how many ever families he's going to eventually have. That's crazy as a single woman I am not willing to mule or work for no man's attention and then help him raise his various kids by the other women who got time for that? I can live by myself I can take care of myself and I cannot be in stress by myself I can do better by myself before I decide to be in a situation like that. And if you're telling me to do this because of the shortage your man of the protection factor. Not every man knows how to shoot a gun not every man is taking self-defense classes. I can go to the gun range purchase me a gun and get my FOID card should I need that much protection. I am not going to be scared or feared mongered into polygamy just because there's not enough man. What it is is that a lot of men are hedonistic lustful and they want their desires and I'm just not the b**** that's going to give it to you. It ain't working here find somebody else to do it I ain't going to be able to do it😂

I met this one guy and in the first conversation he harp on polygamy being the creative way and how he believed in the Creator way and how he wanted to have this whole polygamous lifestyle. He literally sat on my phone and spoke about it for an hour and I just listen. This man didn't even have one woman couldn't even get it together to have one woman but yet he's glorifying a lifestyle and looking forward to how many women he's going to have and how many women he wants. Then he uses the Bible and tells me things are getting crucial women going to need that women going to need the protection for men and so on and so on with the fear mongering. Honey child I hung up that phone so quick and never called back honey. I can provide for myself and should something happen I can call the goddamn police. Who got time for that mess

Polygamy is the natural way but so is monogamy. Both are centuries old. Poly was banned because the people in power gave the lower males access to women so that all men can get a wife. Now since we are in a Patriarchal system poly is more carnal and abusive to women. In the Matriarchy, poly was controlled by the women and it was balanced

@@tietearoddy that’s an interesting historical fact and worthy of further discussion. Thanks for sharing. 👍

@@clr2991 why do you believe that we are displeased?? It is because it is not natural to have multiple spouses. Genesis 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.

@@LovelyVibrations I did not state that I agreed with Mutabaruka’s point; just that it would stir the pot for your particular demographic (westernized Christianity-based women), which was proven in your response.

Exodus 21:10. If a Man takes a second wife, keep treating the first wife, the same ... food/clothing/sexual rights

@@michaelh3010 have you red the New Testament? I Corinthians 7, Timothy 3:2, even in Genesis “the two shall become 1”. More than one spouse was not ordained.

Genesis2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.

Respectfully I’m not seeing the sin after reading all of this. It doesn’t specifically mention why having more than one woman is a sin.

@@marquencrawford7749 I Corinthians 7:1 spells it out loud and clear, you just don’t want to accept it. Carry on in sin.

Wah yuh mean

U both do. Caribbean men are worse

Hmm..didnt know it came from arabs??

Was there no polygamous marriages in africa before the invention of Islam ? dont be emotional read history who are the oldest civilizations ?

God also created one male and one female lion, explain to me why in nature one male lion always mate with at least 4 female lioness?

In all due respect, that’s a myth. Other observers of that myth note that there were two creations, one in Genesis 1, and one in Genesis 2. It’s been explained that the first was the creation of Adam’s wife Lilly or Lilith. So that would mean Adam had two wives. But plenty of biblical figures had more than one wife. And the biology of it all says one man can procreate with many, while one woman cannot procreate with more than one man at a time. For these reasons there are societies where women have more than one husband because they need to keep the population growth to a minimum for lack of resources, available space, etc. There are a lot of inventions by men/women that wasn’t created by “God”, because “God” gave us the tool of the mind for problem solving and evolution. One could argue God put us in a garden - why do we house ourselves in man made constructs made of wood, metal, and stone? For the record I only desire, and will only have one wife until I die. I’m just offering counter perspective

@herumemcorporation125 How can you compare animals to human beings?

@Aaron_Davis You don't have an argument..the Bible is corrupted..it's been changed, rewritten. We deal with the Glorious Quran..find an error in the Glorious Quran?

@Aaron_Davis you choose to do things your way e.g, like the apostle paul in the Bible... God always sends prophets to deliver the message.. it's God world 🌎.. He have every right to make His laws.And for us to abide by it..

Spot on! 💯

Emperor Selassie the First, power of the Trinity had 1 wife! He is our role model

@@angeloelimelech6346 thank you.

For real,why do they make it so one sided? So selfish

Math does not work both ways... Females are terrible at math...

Exactly. I like variety of men too. 🤣

@@KaiPhD Hoes ain't new

@@KaiPhD.

It was also his downfall.

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Yes he may have generalized a little too much. Many women in the Western hemisphere are of polygamous nature and then some. But I would argue definitely not most as many modern Western women have been christianized, catholocized, and colonized under the banner of monogamy & indoctrination for an extremely very long time. For various reason such as a few he mentioned, there's probably more men that are of polygamous nature than women and maybe he was leaning more into that. Especially as it concerns the West. I could be wrong though.

Correction women are promiscuous by nature like barsheba who slept with king david, a woman was made to be with one man, women are inserted by a man, showing dominance, even genesis says a man will rule over the woman.

@@ElRecoRamonwomen can’t be polyamory because they’ll always be looking for a man to teach

⁠@@ElRecoRamon🤣 It is 50/50 if not more women acting out. Men just don’t know it. 😂 And the prime suspects are indeed the “religious” women. Trust me on that! 🤣 Be careful about getting DNA tests on your kids.

I don’t think so but i will wait with you for an answer

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No, it is not legal in Jamaica.