Hi, good video, I´m from Argentina, I`m twenty eight, I´m a bisexualy. my english is bad, do you speak español? well good luck

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Aww Calvin your video touched my heart, you are strong, you know the ones who love you the most may need more time grow. So it's nothing wrong with you, I know how you feel I came out to my dad and he wasn't supportive at all. But you are loved, so don't feel bad. :)

Tryst T Sorry you are such a troll

Tryst T What do you mean by "chill out"? That you are joking, or that chilling out can make a guy less gay? I don't get it!

When you're ready and its the right time it will come out easily. One day hopefully in our life time I hope that its as easy as saying you're straight. Good Luck! :)

***** Ethan C i think that its a lot easier to tell a friend first (a girl) thats what i did. girls are usulay a lot more accepting

zack boos I actually have since come out to my sister! I'm just waiting for a decent time to tell my mom. Things have been a bit chaotic for the last few months, and when things calm down we'll tell her together. I feel so much better about telling her after telling my sister. I think it was just that first hurdle of admitting it to someone else for the first time. She was awesome. I swear she already knew and had a speech planned out for when I told her. haha... Any way I completely agree with you. I think a lot of it just has to do with the fact that girls understand how we could like penis, to put it bluntly. Just how I don't see the appeal to vagina or boobs, straight guys don't understand how or why we like guys. And I think guys are more accepting of lesbians because they do understand why they like women. In the words of Macklemore, "America the brave still fears what we don't know." It's just human nature to fear what we don't understand, unfortunately.

ya... its really hard to do it... i would have never done it if i hadn't seen this one youtuber a year ago... i think it was like exiledleopard1?

My mom does the same thing lol

+Bruce Wayne what are u laughing at ur parents are dead

Hey MoM Turn that Hollier than Now Cross UPSIDE DOWN AND RIDE IT God makes no mistakes Bible beater

Don D, though I had a better experience than Calvin, I also enlisted in the Air Force at 17 & graduated HS at 17. After Basic/Tech Training, I started f/t @ IL State University (since I was serving 6 yrs in Air Nat'l Guard + TDY active duty tours every summer semester: 1 in The Pentagon, 1 on Andrew's, 2 in Knoxville & a KC-135 air-refueling mission over Cuba to Grand Cayman for 4 days. Plus college tuition was free). I feel terrible 4 Calvin & others who have their ostrich head stuck in the ground & dont hear anything but their preachers biblical B.S. Hope u enjoyed USAF.

Just come across your video. I don't know how to word this but well done on telling your story because it has already, and will continue to, help so many people :)

Wow, it takes a lot to share this kind of story, Calvin. Thank you for your courage and advice. I can relate a lot since I'm in a similar situation but I hope things by now have improved with your family. Even if there's little progress, it's something. Thinking more about it,... more than normal, I think everyone of us is unique (with faults and virtues, nobody is perfect) so we should live our lives in the way that makes most sense to us, being true to ourselves and others. It's important though, like you say, to do it when it's safe.

Calvin, thanks for posting this video. Like you I'm not close to my family (not because of anything specific, it's just how it is). My friends are the number 1 most important thing in my life. Many people find that hard to believe but unfortunately all families aren't emotionally close.

I had those same fears, had a BF, but could not say, raised Christian and had family try to change me. It's comforting to know I'm not alone and someone had a similar journey as I've struggle with!

+Calvin Bremer Thanks for posting the video Calvin, it's a very good video, and you give very good advice ... Have a great day! :-)

=( I'm so, so sorry. I will never understand a 'parent' who could do something like that. My dad wasn't happy about it but we just don't talk about it and we act normal. I'll have to confront him again eventually but anyway. It sucks, and your situation is even worse. Just make sure to lean on their friends for support. Hopefully she'll come around in time but unless she does, don't let her get to you. You may have to distance yourself from her if you can. Don't let it 'destroy you'.

I live with just my mom, and she hates it too. I know how much it hurts your heart... It hurts me too

Mimit, so sorry. Her job as mother is to love you no matter what though. You're still the same person she loved before, but now she has a more intimate awareness of who you are. Would she be willing to listen to how hard it was to come out and how much trust you had in her that has been betrayed somewhat. I hope it can get better. Even If she does not become more ok with it, it will still get better as you get older and more independent and know yourself better and build a supportive community of friends. Use online and real world groups. Maybe see if she would go with you to an LGBT-positive therapist (not a gay-hating/conversion therapy suggesting religious one? If so find one yourself.). Just some ideas... find out what exactly it is about you being gay that makes them unhappy. And if they can only come out with "the bible" then there are plenty of cases to make point that god loves everyone no matter what, and some anti-gay interpretations are down to modern religion and their choice about what to believe/follow - plenty of other crazy things in bible we don't do now. If worried about you having a family or being hurt by others cos of it then those can all be mitigated by friends and loved ones and her job to protect you while young enough. Surrogacy/adoption/... options if you even want a family when older.

Many other YT-ers have said that friends and family can take a while - noting that you've probably had a while thinking about it and working it out and deciding when and how and whether to come out; if & when you do, this might be the first they knew of it, and it can take a while for them to process and build into their understanding of you. Doesn't mean it always will fix itself, but its good to give people time to see if they become easier with it if they're not initially embracing of the news (and if they see you be much happier and less stressed now you're out and growing in new ways, that may sway their view too).

Haha, found this. Funny, I subscribed after seeing your coming out video... This isn't spam. Why is this marked as spam...

***** haha! It's cool finding these old comments and seeing how I've grown :)