My Coming Out Story- From a Gay Wrestler

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10 жыл бұрын

Don't be afraid to be yourself.
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@LUckybones25 3 жыл бұрын

Being gay today is easy compared to how it was in the 80s & 90s. You’re gorgeous, and I wish you the best.

@q2breath 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nikes62 Seriously!? Nothing changed!??

@globalfunrun9306 3 жыл бұрын

The 60'S were far worse than the 80s and 90s. It was totally unacceptable then and almost no one came out. It was in the 70s a lot of people started coming out and acceptance was starting to take place.

@oakpkdude 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nikes62 No. YOU'RE wrong. Being gay is so much easier today than it was in the 70's and 80's. Of course homophobia still exists but back then it was MUCH worse. Today many more people are accepting of gay people but back in the 80's most gay people were closeted. My mother commented to me how there are so many more gay people these days. I laughed and said, "No mom, you just know about more of them. You used to think Rock Hudson, Raymond Burr and J. Edgar Hoover were straight".

@oakpkdude 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nikes62 Not legally. www.cnn.com/2020/06/15/politics/supreme-court-lgbtq-employment-case/index.html?form=MY01SV&OCID=MY01SV Back in the day they could outright tell you that you're fired because you're gay. I realize that there are ways to skirt the law just as many companies do with age discrimination but if caught they can be sued. That did not used to be the case.

@markgrange7786 2 жыл бұрын

Tell that to the gays and trans being legally refused live saving operstion in alabama and those still being assulted or killed on the streets in hate crimes

@henrykole7943 7 жыл бұрын

I literally told my mom I was gay right after this video I just wanted to say thank you so much for inspiring me to tell my mom 😊😊😃😃

@lucaspackel1196 4 жыл бұрын

This is many years later, I appreciate so much your story. We are who we are. Your shared your story so so well. Thank you

@michaelstrahan2.0 9 жыл бұрын

You seem very sincere and honest and I hope you never lose those qualities. They are very difficult to find in our culture today.

@riccardo50001 3 жыл бұрын

Such a handsome (cute) young man!!! It's touching to hear these tales of young poeple facing their families and society with the truth about their identitieds and so revealing of society and the church's resistence to sexual variety. Thanks for doing this!!!

@curanderotango 3 жыл бұрын

You are the type of Gay person that make us all feel proud of being who we are!!... I wish you a very happy and successful life!!... God bless you!!...

@indysigns 4 жыл бұрын

Great story. You were so brave to come out at your age. A lot of time has past since this video. Hope all is well. Can you make a updated video to let us know how you are doing?

@marka7888 3 жыл бұрын

I remember watching this 3 years ago, and it sure did help me

@warrenpaine 3 жыл бұрын

Since your sexual orientation is not a choice and doesn't change, you made the only rational choice of accepting yourself as you are. Hope you have a happy and wonderful life. Thanks for making this video to help others like us.

@JayArgentBooks 5 жыл бұрын

Great story. Thanks for sharing it! So proud of you.

@jeroengortworst9994 9 жыл бұрын

Great video man! I enjoyed hearing your story and I subscribed. Think you did a great job! I realized when I made my own coming out video, I should be so lucky to have so many supportive people around me. I wish you all the best!

@ParkerUnlimited2 9 жыл бұрын

Coming out gay as a high school wrestler is very brave. Take it from me, wrestling is/can be a very homophobic sport. I find wrestling interesting cus you have wrestlers and coaches doing and saying gay things, but then will turn around and call someone a fag who's doing the same thing. I'm willing to bet that there are a lot of gays on high school and college wrestling teams and too afraid to come out. Same goes for football players. Overall, you're very brave and you have more balls than anyone on your team. Cheers mate! :D

@genesisledezmine5694 4 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you Chris Parker.

@LenHealsU 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Justice on your courage and fortitude with your coming out story. I'm sure it has inspired many Gays in similar situations, including me! I'm quite a bit older than you, when coming out prior to 1980, when I was in my teens and 20s, it was much more dangerous to do so back then, for a variety of reasons. And yes, it is NOT a choice, no more than being right handed or left handed is a choice. I was (uncomfortably) living a double life. To this day, I still have 1 foot jammed in the closet, but your video, as well as some other similar coming out videos, have given me the courage to come out to two long time close Straight friends last week, and another one I plan to do very soon. Justice, you're a beacon of Light and an angel sent from up above. :)

@breybrey2dajizzay 10 жыл бұрын

You seem hella cool man and hella chill. I'm looking forward to seeing more videos from you! ;)

@KoldFiyure 9 жыл бұрын

I AM SO DELIGHTED TO SEE THIS STORY BEING TOLD. SOUNDS PRETTY COOL AND COLLECTED AS FAR AS YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH TELLING THOSE CLOSE TO YOU. YOU ARE SO HANDSOME. I HOPE YOU CONTINUE TO VIDEO BLOG.

@herbprice7286 4 ай бұрын

Well done. Thank you so so much for sharing. You did an excellent job telling your story and you are an inspiration stay true to yourself.❤

@mezmerized4lifejay654 4 жыл бұрын

I love your personality. You're beautiful bro, no worries

@xtremegaming8045 3 жыл бұрын

He is so innocent omg 😭

@Tripper111 9 жыл бұрын

Cool video Dude, you're a positive influence for all. keep up on the videos Bro.

@DanielPena13 9 жыл бұрын

Keep being you. So proud of you for sharing :)

@jspotdot 4 жыл бұрын

I hope you honesty and candor have brought you respect and great experiences.

@trisshandy 9 жыл бұрын

Great story. Thanks for sharing. Hope you make more vids.

@affiliate56 5 жыл бұрын

Looking for more video from you You were so brave for coming out I liked the video

@MyTimeOutt 3 жыл бұрын

Your unvarnished honesty will serve as an inspiration for men who have been married for many years & are being forced to finally reveal who they are to their wives...all of whom have been hiding in plain sight the entire time of their marriage.

@dittellforthewin 8 жыл бұрын

I completely understand where you're coming from. I was a state medalist in wrestling in high school. People were extremely homophobic. People gave me hell once for wrestling someone in a match from another school who was gay. What they didn't know was that some of our team mates were gay and bi until they came out in college. I remember losing to one of them my sophmore year too. Hey, keep doing you and enjoy wrestling. It's one of the oldest sports around!

@gi0achino 9 жыл бұрын

Loved your story!

@MyMichaelMartin 9 жыл бұрын

Nice "coming out story" man, thank's for sharing!

@marcwyant1217 8 жыл бұрын

Awwwww your story is sooo sweet :)

@tombrooks5933 9 жыл бұрын

i know your mom is cool because she raised a very cool kid. thumbs up.

@genesisledezmine5694 4 жыл бұрын

I am very proud of you for being so brave, especially as a gay athlete. I know and understand the pressure that comes with being a gay athlete. I’m a high school football coach and I am also a dad. I had to deal with being a gay athlete in high school, football as well as track and field were my sports. I was raised by my grandmother and I was also raised in the Baptist Church where I was a faithful member and very active in my church. I spent most days of my life as a kid feeling like I had no purpose, I also felt as though I could never be accepted or loved because of my lifestyle considering all of the hateful comments that I use to hear from others about the gay community. I struggled with coming out in high school and nobody knew that I was in a discreet relationship with a popular basketball player for the last two years of high school. He went on to play college basketball and I went on to college running track and achieving a degree in music education. I often thought of him and wished that I could still have him in my life but we separated in order to focus on college and to work on our personal growth. I came out to my family while in college after coming out to my friends and fellow athletes. I can honestly say it was not as bad as I thought it would be. lol Though I am single at this point in my life I have an amazing son who is very supportive of me and a family who has finally learned to accept me. I actually had the opportunity to reunite with my ex boyfriend from high school when he surprised me by showing up to my graduation when I received my masters degree. He is in a relationship with a guy and he plays pro basketball in Europe. Justice, thank you so much for sharing your story. I pray that life will treat you kind and I wish you the most success in life. I am very happy that I found your story. I have subscribed to your channel. ♥️

@willwowxdrice642 3 жыл бұрын

Omg I love this story

@paulmiller6647 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks very much for the upload.

@kevvinrashad8695 9 жыл бұрын

Well I'm a wrestler and I'm bisexual (more into guys) and it's hard for me. But I'm there to win matches no matter who I like

@chipwickham4176 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing. Those people that turned on you were never truly your friends in the first place.

@edwardfranks5215 3 жыл бұрын

Good luck to you. Natural reaction to start hating yourself. Worst reaction. You got thru it!! No need to add 'that kind of stuff' and 'and everything.' Have a lovely life.

@DWLanez 8 жыл бұрын

This is so nice love your story 😊

@JAC_2007 8 жыл бұрын

awesome. ... you are very brave person. ..keep your head up and move forward. .

@qgreenteak1 9 жыл бұрын

You're so cute! Nice story you should be proud of yourself!

@charleskesner1302 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story.

@marquiezjennings3538 8 жыл бұрын

Amazing video I will be making youtube video this coming Christmas and most likely a coming out story Bless u

@marquiezjennings3538 8 жыл бұрын

+Marquiez Jennings and I would be really happy if I could start getting subs now

@charlylocke 9 жыл бұрын

Omg!! You're listening to OneRepublic!!

@1939moreno 3 жыл бұрын

YOU ARE BRAVE AND A GOOD EXAMPLE OF LOVE

@1ramises 3 жыл бұрын

Well done in coming out it's a tough thing xXx

@explorelife2322 9 жыл бұрын

happy for you.

@lenardmcclean2234 3 жыл бұрын

2021 be u always 💯🥂

@carlossermeno8700 7 жыл бұрын

Your really cute Justice ! A handsome fellow u are

@mikelee428 3 жыл бұрын

As usual, someone’s a perv

@gchromesucks7991 5 жыл бұрын

damn I wish I had your courage at that age I never told my Mom or my Nana and they are no longer here. Biggest regret in my life. You are what should've been

@greathornedowl3644 3 жыл бұрын

You are a hottie 🔥 Thanks for your coming-out story. Hopefully, this helps others. Live your life, follow your dreams. Wishing you nothing but peace, prosperity, and happiness. Big hugs and kisses 🤗💋

@ZolileEddie 9 жыл бұрын

ahh man, this story is so cute...lol i still have gain the strength to do what you did.. and funny enough i also have a step dad

@jiobrooks703 3 жыл бұрын

justice is beautiful.....

@SeanPlaysDaGames 9 жыл бұрын

I'm that friend sean, holla boyy

@itsonlyjulian 9 жыл бұрын

omg you so beautiful, your eyes dammmmmm.......

@sharjjahnaziz4122 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh!!!! I went to school with this dude.

@robbieanson1218 4 жыл бұрын

I like the tank shirt that you have on

@josephmendoza8956 9 жыл бұрын

I went through some of the stuff as you man

@derekstynes9631 5 жыл бұрын

I Bet Your Mom is so Proud of You , This is five years later ! I hope You are doing good with Your Life Justice?

@beeman4338 3 жыл бұрын

Well done.

@imjonnyquest 9 жыл бұрын

be strong kid. i got your back.

@kiere55 8 жыл бұрын

ohmygooooshh he is BOMB

@sd90mac61 3 жыл бұрын

Boy I never knew wrestlers could be Gay and HOT😚😉🤠✌️👍 NICE.

@LincolnDouglass 9 жыл бұрын

Glad you shared your story. It will help many people understand they are not alone. Now that that's out of the way let me just say you are PHYNE!!! I hope you like Black guys. LOL

@LincolnDouglass 9 жыл бұрын

I too was a wrestler in high school, by the way.

@robertbrolo486 5 жыл бұрын

@@LincolnDouglass Bro wazzz up like ur comment 15015632829 Lol.😂😂.

@markrandolph4655 5 жыл бұрын

Great 🎥

@williamstovall6064 3 жыл бұрын

Dude I think they knew already or they suspected, parents know their kids, and by the way you are dam cute, wow.

@ErisRivera5 10 жыл бұрын

niceeeee

@TyStephens 4 жыл бұрын

GREAT KID!

@billyb37 5 жыл бұрын

Your a real handsome guy , you wont have a problem meeting a nice partner and having a nice life. !! Well done!!

@alfredritcher 4 жыл бұрын

Cool kid you are a great young man

@Zencba 9 жыл бұрын

Justice?? That's really you're name............ Cool :)

@mikelee428 3 жыл бұрын

Is your name really Zincstaba?

@charleyyoung262 4 жыл бұрын

I have always wondered if there are issues with erections while wrestling???

@roncaron8939 4 ай бұрын

UPDATE UP DATE UPDATE it's 10 years later, i trust all is well.............. let us know............

@ghfmcr00 4 жыл бұрын

Why did you stopping making videos?

@ashtonderoy6816 9 жыл бұрын

Haha it is good to hear from another gay wrestler. :) You know Darren Young is also gay and he is a professional wrestler!

@BrownsBacker 3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing today in 2021??? Give us an update on your life! ❤️❤️❤️

@KoldingDenmark 4 жыл бұрын

How have you been doing today?

@javis3059 9 жыл бұрын

Them liipsss :)))

@randallenoch9239 8 жыл бұрын

What weight class you wrestled in man

@truerthanyouknow9456 3 жыл бұрын

What a good kid. You did everything right. Your mom must be so proud to have a son who respects her and trusts her help him handle the big important stuff... together.

@randallenoch9239 8 жыл бұрын

What weight class man. you wrestled in.

@randallenoch9239 8 жыл бұрын

What weight class man you wrestled in.

@dyev7096 4 жыл бұрын

Damn. A guy even hotter than Nick Jonas :P

@matthewdean4100 10 жыл бұрын

Can we talk

@1ramises 4 жыл бұрын

Well done for you and you are very cute xXx

@randallenoch9239 8 жыл бұрын

What weight class man you wrestled in

@kingdracodeville 9 жыл бұрын

Hey you have a Kik or something I need /want to talk to you about something

@Pharaoh_01 8 жыл бұрын

Sit down lmao.

@leonelcervantes8278 5 жыл бұрын

Justin love UR lips.

@1ramises 3 жыл бұрын

You are so darn cute xXx

@kidd_drator4126 9 ай бұрын

I am 19 and still in the closet 😔yep life sucks

@daisymaisy255 16 күн бұрын

hilarious joke lol

@777Skeptic 9 жыл бұрын

I was never impressed when athletes come out. Nothing special about tossing a ball around. Real men do combat sports!

@PlayboyofWrestling 9 жыл бұрын

You're an idiot

@777Skeptic 9 жыл бұрын

***** Maybe I should clarify, I was never impressed by athletes who came out, unless they are in combat sports. Not counting WWE of course, those are body builders, not fighters.