The most toxic lol

Because it puts a mirror infront of her.

because cheating is more so an action and can happen for many different reasons. it speaks about your character but theres many ways around cheating, whether she thought it was justified, not an issue, etc. but when you're called selfish, it's blunt. being called selfish gets sent right to who you are and a trait about you instead of an action you do.

@@Sam-du7cmyou actions define you…so cheating says a lot about you as a person or character. Ofc someone who cheats is selfish so yeah, he basically said it twice

@@ashura355 you can like revenge cheat for instance after beiing cheated on or having been falely told your partner is cheating or cheat because they hurt you in an unforgivable way like Skylar from Breaking Bad lol.

Sav cheated too...

non-sexually. not non-romantically; they said it was romantic.

@@zoeg4213 Wow imagine constantly making out with somebody, but not romantically. Would seriously ANYONE believe into that? I repeat, key words are make out, and constantly. It's not a one-time thingie. Ginger girl still in feels for the cheater, and cheater knows she' hot af so of course she will laugh at her cheating history, she's been getting what she wants her whole life and it's not like she ever matured regarding loyalty and stuff like that. Doom relationship, they should move away from each other, especially the ginger gal.

@@ToniLekic96 it's strange how outsiders very often can see what is obvious while the participants need to act out the scenario, sometimes over & over before they learn. Brain patterns formed in childhood are usually the culprit For years some of my coworkers said things to me about relationships & I listened but I just didn't get it..... until later. & w/therapy. I agree the lovely spirited Ginger girl should get away. But I don't judge, she's gotta work out that self esteem & self worth stuff on her & the creators time-line 👍🏻

So damn unhealthy imo lol. One of them needs to move out so they can both get over it.

Right?! And “I still love you so much….but only as friends!”

I am going to start doing that too. Seems to be some sort of a trend now.

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The red head was just straight up bullying her ex... jeez.. calm down.. its like she had a vendetta. Relax

Haha so funny 😐

Facts. Disrespectful af. The other girl's friend were right all along

Plus she’s a single mother

Sounds like she laughs when in pain which is VERY common. It’s like a reflex but for your emotions

@@atarakay9900 no those are not the same at all, she just has no remorse

I mean both of them cheated on each other so I don't have any sympathy for either of them. Just seems like an overall shtty relationship (imo)

Thank you, I appreciate it. Though I’m very much fine now, since all that was a decade ago and we’ve both learned and grown and are better at relationships. None of it affects me in a negative way, and no part of me regrets dating Kay at all.

@@MatthewBofenkamp You seem like such a goodhearted and thoughtful person in every video I've seen you in!

@@MatthewBofenkamp we love you keep being you 💃🏽💃🏽❤️😁

We love you! 🫶🏽🫶🏽

@@MatthewBofenkamp You seem like a really sweet person, I'm glad you're doing better and wish you all the best for the future ✨

In that case I will be the one to ask. How are you doing since your last breakup?

I kept waiting for her to say "I'm very sorry it went down like that" or "I'm sad to hear that, sorry you went through it alone" ...... S o m e t h i n g !

@@Elhastezy888 they did, it just got edited out. The vast majority of our time on set was us talking about wholesome things and joking and laughing because it’s been ten years since we dated and we’re well recovered (even the director said that we seemed like a good couple, showing we’re definitely okay with each other now), but Cut only really put in the big oof moments

@@MatthewBofenkamp 🤩 oh thank you for sharing info💓 I've read it's edited within an inch if it's life (these vids) but it does help to know that was for dramatic effect & not how it actually went down. You both seem like very kind people so it was a bit baffling lol You guys we're a joy to watch💗 edit:typos

@@Elhastezy888 this also pissed me off that she said NOTHING

His girlfriend, Tweedle Dee, didn't seem to help things.

​@@BabyJesus66yeah she was like whatever didn't seem to care

​@@user-ui6ll7wv8twhy put this under this comment....

He should come out of the closet too tho

​@@juliang-c4882IF he is queer then he'll come out whenever he wants, he doesn't owe anybody an explanation on his identity or anything like that 😂

This economy’s rough. We’re in a housing crisis.

if you end it and there's no abuse, yes there is so much pain, and it will make it harder to move on, but what if there's still love there in a deep way and you want to be there for each other and are still comforted by their presence? Plus it's not easy to find other living situations lol. In my situation it's really hard sometimes but there's still love there and we go to couple's therapy anyway and that helps mediate tension so much. anyway I still wouldn't recommend it lol, there is almost no way the heart break is even, even if it is a mutual break up, and you need to be okay with lots of communication and heavy conversations. Really only works with forgiveness, understanding and communication

Co dependency

Lesbians 🤭

@@oats2949 Let's go Brandon!!!

I think none of these couples should ever get back together. I can’t imagine living with someone and “still loving” them after they cheated on you…

@@dapo3538 that's how love is bro, you can't just rip it out of your chest. Unless they were especially dumb and vile about it, then it's easy, but it doesn't look like that's the case. It shows they got a connection and if they can joke about it, they obvioualy over that ish

Same

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People generalize too much. You literally have no idea about the person and their tendencies. Some people literally laugh in uncomfortable situations. Maybe the laughing is more of a coping mechanism rather than an avoidance mechanism. Remember, this is real life person and people’s personalities are super complex. Not to mention that people grow. Chill out

@@OLyonnais28 people don't grow out of cheating -ever--

@@DeepThinkingGPU that’s definitely not true, especially if it only happened once and it was in highschool.. believe it or not people can actually change and have regret for their actions😱

@@ariabird925 yes, in high school.... i agree... but older than 21, it's in their skin then.... but whatever, you date a cheater...lol

@@DeepThinkingGPU people make mistakes and can learn from them. If it was a one time thing and it never happened again, especially if you're under the age of 25, i dont see an issue.. its a different story if it was multiple times lol.. and wdym by "you date a cheater"😂

Hes a "nice guy" who will never get what he wants because he has no self respect and is a people-pleaser. Decent women are not attracted to men like him, because they want a man who can protect them - not be a pushover who takes all disrespect lying down. The only people he will attract with this mindset are narccisists who want someone to toy with.

@@justindavis2711 agreed and its crazy how this guy has to be abused by people even besides dating.

@@justindavis2711 you know why he is like that though right? I’ve never been sexually assaulted but I’m pretty sure that fucks ur brain up

@@justindavis2711 bruh shut up 💀guy has already been through enough in his life and I assure you you don't know what women want bffr 😭

@@ItzVintagePastel He has most definitely NOT been through enough in his life, and neither have you. No mature man should be willing to sabotage his own wellbeing for female validation. That's a sign of immaturity. He looks like he is still in his early to mid 20's, and still has a lot of time to grow and improve. I'm guessing since you disagreed with me so much, you might be in the same boat as him? Give it time, and you'll come to realize through experience that what im saying rings true through the ages. There are literal fables about this subject written thousands of years ago. Its well documented in sociological studies that women want men who can protect and provide - especially high value women. Female hypergamy is a brute fact of life, proven by science. If a man has no boundaries towards the woman he loves, its a sign that he is incapable of fulfilling their core needs, and will resort to dishonesty and manipulation to ensure that they get their constant supply of validation. It isnt a great foundation for a successful relationship. Its called co-dependancy, and it can be cured through cognitive behavioral therapy and self-education.

I ship those two to get back together.

@@justsomeguy6133 lol, what? the girl was dating multiple people when he thought their relationship was exclusive. she now has a kid with a dad that is no longer around and wants to get back with this guy. RUN, boy, RUN!

yeah and then she laughs about it like cmon'

Or C they just straight up had every intention to hide to and never tell you hoping to get away with it.

She did let dude smash though. For a guy, kissing hurts but when you let another dude smash your girl, it’s like ripping out hearts out and sh*tying in it

True!! Found out through my ex's roommate that he was hooking up with someone in the living room 🙃

It is also that she doesn't find someone she wants to marry

I meant if we both don’t end up with someone, might as well get married for the benefits and live our best lives as married best friends✌🏼

She said we tho

I made marriage pacts with people for sure “If we’re both single by this age let’s just get hitched” type beat

u misrepresenting 😂 it's not what she said, she was messy af no need to add on top of it

She’s the best person I know!! Very chill, funny and loyal! She’s a great friend to everyone. I definitely screwed her over when I was young and dumb, but we’ve obviously made amends 😌 love ya sav

@@erikam444 glad to hear!

@@TheCrazedEB thanks for being open minded!! :)

@@erikam444 “thanks for being openminded” = thank you for not holding myself accountable for being a major douchebag to someone because i was “young and dumb”

Yeah man I was once in love with a BFF lady friend but she didn't want anything to do with me the more I had tried to push my feelings away back then the more I just made myself miserable so I ended up walking away it's been about a year and some now since

YES ^^ he didn't do anything to deserve what he went thru, and he deserves good friendship & loving intimacy

Ouch! 😂

ikr at least he said it later in the vid😂

I thought he said "she's always been pretty" from back then to her now but idk

Right? Hahahaha

He said I’ll always love her right before he said that lmao

all of them

@@avocado184nhs82 Matthew gets an exception

Honestly all of them seem toxic as hell..... Some just more than others.

"There's people who thought you were with them when you were with me"

@@LawltheJester Right like why would he go back to that??

she's 100% not in love with him, just in love with the support he provides and she knows she can string him along

She cheated on him and now wants him back.

She’s not mean imo, but awkward

@@maloumasereel966 if a man said that sh!t to you would you call it mean?

What's Kay's instagram cause I wanna see her husband

because shes a narcissistic monster. end of story lol

@@savagetv6460 I agree she tends to be dismissive to his trauma and doesn't hold herself accountable for her actions. He truly deserves much better

I didn’t mean it like that I swear 😂 totally wrong choice of words. I just meant it’s very platonic

My "friends" liked the guy more than me

Girl same, how can this people still be "friends"

@@SieMiezekatze your guess is good as mine 😂 I guess I’m not made for the dating scene

Where are you from? I wanna go there lol

Thank you!!! We literally were in our first relationship together and we were both toxic, but have learned from our behaviors. we treat eachother very differently now and have moved past and worked through our issues as KIDS! This was over 5 years ago that our relationship ENDED. we are in a much better place in our lives/friendship. Thanks for trying to bring some much needed perspective to this- I appreciate it.

bump !!!!!!

I think they both cheating

those giggles were villainous lmao

Totally agree. It's so interesting

Yeah I made that mistake and he cheated lmao lesson learned 😂

Huh

Usually they have a low self worth and think they don't deserve better.

BAHHAHAHAHA ABA AND PREACH

waldo 😂😂

yes im glad im not the only one that thought she resembled waldo.

Waldo but with an extra 200 lbs

Instead of looking where Waldo is, you instantly find him/her with this kind of body.. Smh 😤😩

We’ve also been just friends for 5 years, we’ve moved on from that time in our lives

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That was not a nervous or uncomfortable laughter

@UCwryNcXXGS-AKffmD-e7Yxg not all queer people are the same

@@erikam444 Crazy the way people are making assertions based on what they see in the video. People don't know shit lol

Nah, the fatty and matthew had a toxic relationship

Nice to see that women are fine with other women cheating but f men who cheat am I right?