My Girlfriend Is Now My Husband

My Girlfriend Is Now My Husband | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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WHEN Blessings and Leeah first met, they identified as females in a lesbian relationship, but since then, things have changed. Speaking to Love Don't Judge, Blessings said: "Today, I stand before you as a transgender male and Leeah is pansexual." Blessings first realised he was transgender in high school, but it took him years to finally say it out loud. He explained: "I revealed to Leeah I wanted to transition in 2017. I was nervous, I was petrified. I thought I was going to lose the person I loved." Leeah added: "I had no idea Blessings wanted to transition prior to him telling me." Speaking about the judgement that they receive as a couple, Blessings said: "A lot of people think our relationship is lies. They think transgender people should not exist or don't deserve to live." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Blessings' mom will be coming over to reveal what she thinks about the relationship. Reflecting on their love, Leeah said: "Blessings has changed my life for the better. Just allowing me to work on myself as an individual so that way also our relationship can grow. Our marriage can flourish."
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@dasuperstar1111 2 ай бұрын

I am over 40 and still haven't had love yet because I was looking for it in a certain package. I now realize that love has no image, age or boundaries and may come in a way we least expect. Just imagine how many times we fail to experience unconditional love due the prejudices and conditions we put on love? Congratulations to them both and I wish them all of the best!

@nicolemichele1343 2 ай бұрын

I thought this was Jacob latimore no lie my eyes glance too quickly 😂😂😂😮

@colourcoco 17 күн бұрын

Hahaha 😂😂😂

@seansean8698 3 күн бұрын

I thought that too

@donttryimprotected3246 2 ай бұрын

He literally looks just like a Male no judgement, he looks great🤩

@AkonFenty1992 4 күн бұрын

That is a she

@TermekaWeekes 2 ай бұрын

Kinda look like the dude from the Chi🤣🔥

@kaistencarter6548 2 ай бұрын

That’s what I thought too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@daniellecampbell8615 27 күн бұрын

Jacob latimore was thinking the same Thing. He fine 😂😂

@mombeach 2 ай бұрын

I was fooled into thinking the wife was the trans not the husband. I thought she was a real biological male. What a blessing to pass and not be constantly misgendered.

@Naturefan354 2 ай бұрын

Once I heard one of them was trans, I knew it was him.

@crazygrl689 2 ай бұрын

🙄

@desihay22 2 ай бұрын

This is NOT a blessing!

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

@@desihay22bc your God? God knows all. So God made transpeople 2. Duh

@sugarzblossom8168 Ай бұрын

Honestly I did too but mostly because it is always about trans women that are getting attention. I read the tittle like 3 times and it didn't properly register.

@NikkiSouthard 2 ай бұрын

If you love someone the outside doesn't matter. Lovely to see their relationship is strong enough to withstand all the external judgement & that he has such a supportive wife to be there for him during his transition.

@pokemonanddarkpokemo 2 ай бұрын

He is handsome, i wouldnt have known if there wasnt a video

@YourGrannysThong 2 ай бұрын

I admittedly say I don’t know much about trans or pansexuals. I accept people as people. The choices that others make don't effect my life in any negative way. I say do you. Do what makes you happy and makes you comfortable. I'll support any person if they are caring, loving, and are just overall good people. With that being said, I do have a question. Why does a gay woman not want a relationship with a man, but wants a partner that looks, acts, dresses, etc like a man? Then, a gay man doesn't a woman but wants a man who acts, dresses, looks, etc like a woman? Why do they not want the opposite sex but wants their partner to take on every aspect of the same sex? Please understand I'm asking this as respectfully as possible.

@bulletproof4986 2 ай бұрын

You're NOT alone. I've asked that question too myself.? Hey I noticed they, especially her, even wondered that too. She said, that she learned that she's actually pansexual. I'm NOT educated in what is Pan sexual.

@YourGrannysThong 2 ай бұрын

@bulletproof4986 This is the first time I've heard of pansexual. I've noticed, throughout my life, that so many people don't understand the difference between sex and gender. Idk how, in 2024, there's so many people who don't know the difference.

@LeekLeek39 2 ай бұрын

It’s fucking mind boggling

@babyrheas 2 ай бұрын

That's a question I've always wondered about myself! Your answer would be that they are confused all around( vision, thoughts, and actions).

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

Pansexual is looking the soul and brain of a person. So the flesh sack doesn't matter. Love them for who they r not the body they r in

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

All humans deserve love, acceptance, and safety. PERIOD🥳🥳 🌈 🏳️‍🌈

@fxlding-5284 2 ай бұрын

The transition actually fits him tho unlike many others so ppl can’t really be mad

@Xxsorafan 2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately not all trans people are born with a look that matches their true gender but that doesn’t make them any less trans or less deserving of respect either

@heatherbop2946 2 ай бұрын

Yes I thought I was the only one to see that

@vsmith6109 2 ай бұрын

I think it's an easier transition to trans-man than a trans-woman. Just because females are the default and a flood of masculine hormones changes tone of voice, facial features, facial hair, and muscle tone. Just need to flatten or remove the breast to pass as a man at that point. Male- female is harder to "pass" unless already testosterone deficient with feminine features. The feminine hormones might help in reducing facial hair but it's more surgery to get a more feminine face, breasts, and even genitals.

@JeannetteTetrault 2 ай бұрын

I've never met a person who identifies as trans & looked at them & thought "ya know, it's sad cuz trans really doesn't FIT you.." wtf is that even supposed to mean bro

@heatherbop2946 2 ай бұрын

@@JeannetteTetrault it means that you wouldn't even suspect Trans unless they tell you they are. Some others you can clearly tell they are trans

@daniellek3458 2 ай бұрын

U cant help who u fall in love with.Just as long as your happy.

@windybrown7593 2 ай бұрын

This makes my heart happy. I have a 19 year old trans son and I pray he finds true love one day..

@Puchicano 2 ай бұрын

When she's reborn and walks away from this confusion, she'll finally realize what love is. Satan is the author of confusion, father of lies.

@kawaiiSweden 2 ай бұрын

@@Puchicano Hail Satan 🙏🏻

@kaistencarter6548 2 ай бұрын

I hope he finds true love too :)

@MrDev1718 26 күн бұрын

@@Puchicanofr, this false narrative that you can change genders needs to stop. I hold no hate towards them at all but reality needs to be recognized

@AlissaPaige91 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple. 😊

@kaistencarter6548 2 ай бұрын

Yes they are 😊

@PorshiaVonne 2 ай бұрын

The lesbian pics are 🥵 looked GREAT as a girl I’m so happy you’re happy 💜🌈 y’all make a cute couple 🥰 🙏🏾🏳️‍⚧️

@PorshiaVonne 2 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how hormone therapy changes your voice and appearance that’s so crazy! She’s so supportive of him what an amazing partner 💜 🌹

@Xxsorafan 2 ай бұрын

@@PorshiaVonnehormone therapy is essentially a second puberty it does change a lot especially over the years I been on hormones for almost a decade now

@PorshiaVonne 2 ай бұрын

@@Xxsorafan that’s actually insane 🤯

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

Where is your father?

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

You need help

@Jahnink 2 ай бұрын

"Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness..." It is in our US Declaration of Independence for all of US. Pursue your happiness and continue to spread love. This country is in dire need of it. Best of luck for a great life together. ❤❤❤

@stephaniebaird6937 2 ай бұрын

I love this story. I have a very similar experience, my fiance (girlfriend at the time) and I were in a lesbian relationship and then he transitioned. We're still happily together. I'm sending so much love to this beautiful couple 💖

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

Lmao

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

Lmaoso does that mean you're st8?

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

So that means you like guys?

@stephaniebaird6937 2 ай бұрын

@@TheWarrior-hj8vv definitely not straight but i guess it makes me bi or maybe pan

@TheWarrior-hj8vv 2 ай бұрын

@@stephaniebaird6937 🤦

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

🌈A person can only take so much pain, trauma, and terror. Words save lives 🥰

@thatochakane5084 2 ай бұрын

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 [9]Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men [10]nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

@shannoncatron2103 2 ай бұрын

He is a forgiving God and even tho he trans into male, but if he asked for forgiveness and gave himself as Jesus personal savior he would be 100% forgiven as Jesus died on the cross for those sins. Yes he has to except Christ as his personal savior but it’s not for us to judge that will come on judgment by day by our lord and savior. All we can do is pray for them and love them as God does.

@mightyone1651 2 ай бұрын

He forgive those who only repent 1 corinthians 6:9-10 talk about practice these thing will not inherent his kingdom

@DevanteMcDaniel 2 ай бұрын

Take that fake ass B.S. somewhere else! 🤣🤣🤣

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

GOD KNOWS ALL. GOD MADE ALL. GOD MADE TRANS PEOPLE 2. TRANS HAD EXSITED LONGER THEN THEN BIBLE. TRUST IN GOD THEY KNOW WHAT THEY R DOING

@thatochakane5084 2 ай бұрын

@@JinxedAF They don't know what they are doing. The Holy Bible forbids sex before marriage and marriage or intimacy of the same sex. You are right when you say God knows all and everything. So if God is omniscient and he made them male and female from birth, are you saying God made a mistake by making them what they are from birth because they want to change to opposite sex respectively?

@noturavgMeg 2 ай бұрын

He looks just like Jacob Latimore me 😍🥰

@Fresh2Death84 2 ай бұрын

He sure does!!! 😊

@jamiejackson6870 2 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly

@Miiiingtheebaddie 2 ай бұрын

He does

@TamNguyen-kk7ke 2 ай бұрын

sooo happy for u two. I can see the love u two hv for one another!

@rocaanonima2041 2 ай бұрын

In this world that tries to tell us that people like you shouldn't exist, it makes me so happy to see the both of you living happy lives and loving each other deeply and openly. Keep being strong and keep doing what makes you happy and being your authentic selves ❤

@Dorothyredshz 2 ай бұрын

Love each other, stay happy 😊

@TunishaPhillips 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple ❤

@joesmith-em2cd 2 ай бұрын

They are a beautiful couple. 😍

@pilarsires663 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple, I hope they have a very long and happy life together ❤

@yaltatzion9302 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple as long as they are happy❤

@random-luck 8 күн бұрын

If you love each other than it doesn’t matter what people think. Good luck to a happy life to you both.

@cindycruzquinn666 Ай бұрын

You both are inspiring you make me believe in love ❤

@donnamaxwell9153 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple❤❤❤

@nonsensetalk8953 2 ай бұрын

They're happy.Good for them.❤❤❤❤

@Karie671 2 ай бұрын

Looking at him, he looks like a man. It really doesn't matter what people think about who you are or how you are with each other. It only matters what you think and how you feel. True love is all about the heart.

@Fueled.by.freshness 2 ай бұрын

We should all be lucky enough to be loved that unconditionally one day. 🤞🏻🥲🫶🏻

@shannoncatron2103 2 ай бұрын

Try that my friend. That’s an understatement

@marshallsimpson9973 2 ай бұрын

It takes courage to be yourself, especially when people judge. Sexual identity and gender identity get lost in translation a lot, and honestly, sexuality is more convoluted than we want to admit. However, the saying goes, I'd rather you hate me for everything I am than love me for something. I'm not.

@teeniequeenie8369 2 ай бұрын

YOURSELF?!….SHE LITERALLY CHANGED WHO SHE IS.

@marshallsimpson9973 2 ай бұрын

@@teeniequeenie8369 if you want someone to go back and forth with start a podcast

@yangreipamzingyo-zd7on 2 ай бұрын

Doesn’t make any sense to me! I’m still learning about this crap

@Puchicano 2 ай бұрын

@@yangreipamzingyo-zd7on It’s clown world

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@ebonyphoenixrising6094 2 ай бұрын

Gorgeous couple. All the best.

@user-kt8gr5ob6s 2 ай бұрын

Let ppl live whatever makes them happy….go for it

@anonymousalias8111 2 ай бұрын

Nobody has any issue with that aspect,at all, like,ever. The issue is bringing sexuality into kindergarten classrooms -expising them to perverse adult issues. Case in point- see anyone arguing your point?

@melissamorgan8034 2 ай бұрын

So happy for them beautiful couple ❤❤❤

@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Ай бұрын

Aww they look cute together. He looks like the main character on the Chi tv show ❤

@laurae2489 2 ай бұрын

Love is Love ❤️

@kimfargo1 2 ай бұрын

Don't listen to the negative. It means nothing in your lives. The judgement belongs to the one who skews it. Love is love and we only get one shot at life. Live your lives for each other. The ones who love you will stay. All others don't matter.

@angelagray736 2 ай бұрын

He, she whatever, was beautiful as a female

@brendadickson9583 2 ай бұрын

I agree

@kaistencarter6548 2 ай бұрын

A he not whatever and kap

@1TrueMan5395 2 ай бұрын

How TF is she able to grow a full beard and I can’t and I’m a male?? Wtf is going on?

@faeriemph 2 ай бұрын

he. respect the pronouns.

@angelagray736 2 ай бұрын

😂

@Xxsorafan 2 ай бұрын

@@faeriemphhe’s just mad the dude is more man than he is 😂

@mombeach 2 ай бұрын

She takes testosterone, probably more than you have naturally. It’s horrible for the female body and will have lifelong health risks.

@joesmith-em2cd 2 ай бұрын

Testosterone

@cristyluv1205 2 ай бұрын

She had to change her “identifier”. She “found out” she’s a pan because her girlfriend started identifying as a man. These people don’t know up from down

@leeloo9402 2 ай бұрын

Man! 😂

@desihay22 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@desihay22 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Trust_No_One_0316 2 ай бұрын

Exactly and so are the people agreeing with this

@teeniequeenie8369 2 ай бұрын

Makes my head spin.

@ren-chama3180 2 ай бұрын

Ok. I finally understood three times. Even if he becomes transgender, she loves her. It was confused first by putting out a word called pan sexual.

@cristyluv1205 2 ай бұрын

She’s a lesbian. But because her girlfriend thinks of herself and identifies as male, she had to find something that “made sense”

@MarieLCote 2 ай бұрын

The wife is so beautifullll wow ! 🎉 great couple

@aryaunstevens7375 Ай бұрын

lol as soon as I saw him, i'm like, he looks lie jacob latimore

@ppl2luv 2 ай бұрын

oh he’s fiiine 😮‍💨

@M.thepoet 2 ай бұрын

Nice looking couple

@kbforme 2 ай бұрын

If you guys are happy then more power to you. I'm happy for both of you that you found somebody you love to spend your life with. Maybe stop with all the labels, you seem to constantly change them and in the end it's utterly pointless. You are two people who love each other and everything else is just bullshit.

@Walker-ky9vy 2 ай бұрын

2:03 bro taught we didn’t notice🌚

@JinxedAF 2 ай бұрын

🥰🥰 Address someone by their pronouns takes no extra effort on your part but can save a life🥰🥰

@heyheyhey40 2 ай бұрын

Who cares if you’re not a real man? As long as you love yourself, the labels everyone else places on you are irrelevant.

@ashlijones5493 2 ай бұрын

Wow u guys r amazing looking for a third

@OhenewaaGrace-bu1ej 2 ай бұрын

do you guys ❤

@literarylady1125 2 ай бұрын

Blessings looks like Jacob Latimore.

@laedifox 2 ай бұрын

Trans or not, Blessings is a beautiful man.

@christiraya1484 2 ай бұрын

She is so pretty

@jazzyj6640 2 ай бұрын

They are sweet. ❤ I don’t understand why people are triggered by other people’s decisions for THEIR life? Do you pay their bills? No so calm down.

@sirensongbeauty6231 2 ай бұрын

He looks like Jacob Lattimore

@Scifi4life 19 күн бұрын

There is really no such thing as pansexual

@lordallenbookworm4811 2 ай бұрын

They look like they are related. Damn.

@TyronePruitt-jy2pz 2 ай бұрын

Love don't judge

@shanellescott6777 2 ай бұрын

Leave him alone

@etherealE777 Күн бұрын

He looks just like Jacob Lattimore.

@Joy_esprida 2 ай бұрын

why does the guy's mom look like she has two black eyes???

@LipstickOCD 2 ай бұрын

It's called dark circles

@favouraudu7835 2 ай бұрын

Thought that was Jacob latimore

@datgurlky1 15 күн бұрын

Looks like Jacob Lattimore.

@Scifi4life 19 күн бұрын

Why not just get a real man then?

@beonmoore743 10 күн бұрын

Whats a real man

@Scifi4life 10 күн бұрын

@@beonmoore743 not a trans man

@yvettemurphy8978 Ай бұрын

My question is were Leeah a man first?

@mechelerawls 2 ай бұрын

and i am confused 😮

@gorillaprutt Ай бұрын

i suggest watching the video again

@shannoncatron2103 2 ай бұрын

I have to admit his transformation is amazing. U look incredible. I’m Christian all the way but it’s not my duty to. Judge, that gods place but u look great and I would have never know u r trans by looking at you. I hope u find peace in your future. To you both look like an amazing couple. Love is hard to find especially with these circumstances, I say live ur lives of prosperity and maybe even a family one day. U r the first trans I’ve seen that actually looks, talks and presents himself as a caring man willing to cherish and provide for his queen. I Was inspired by ur story and as devout Christian who is all o out bible teaching I’m proud of you too. Keep up the good work and my prayers r with u..

@guardiansanimalrescuestate7289 2 ай бұрын

Being trans is telling God he made a mistake. I wouldn’t ever go down that road.

@gorillaprutt Ай бұрын

being trans means god made them that way, and not a mistake.

@MrChuks84 2 ай бұрын

I'm confused. Are they both female or is it male and female? Cos if he's a dude and she's a chick they're a straight couple. If not then they're a lesbian couple. Simple

@dawm12711 Ай бұрын

To try to help you dump your confusion, unless he's had 'sex change surgery' which would mean now having a fully functioning penis then they still remain a lesbian couple although outwardly they appear not to be. There's been no indication from them in the vid to suggest he's had this surgical procedure so I'd presume his vagina still remains unless otherwise. I hope that helps.

@MrChuks84 Ай бұрын

@@dawm12711 OK so they're a lesbian couple. Cheers for clearing that up

@thatochakane5084 2 ай бұрын

Hebrews 13:4 [4]Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

@WizardsPath-if5oq Ай бұрын

How df can she grow facial hair and me being a actual man cant? What do these testosterone shots do? Do they make you grow facial hair and muscles or something?

@beonmoore743 10 күн бұрын

@XxMercuriiXx 9 күн бұрын

Yes, that’s the point of testosterone and hormone therapy

@nomaam9915 13 күн бұрын

If i am a lesbian I want some TNA

@gillowens24 2 ай бұрын

I support ever they gay a beautiful couple not gay anymore.

@aquariusny6125 2 ай бұрын

What is pansexual no shade just asking

@g.o.a.t9804 2 ай бұрын

Another word for bisexual Basically, she's into any human regardless of their gender identity or sex.

@africamcfadden6346 2 ай бұрын

Pansexuality is defined as an attraction to people of any gender or to people regardless of their gender.

@aquariusny6125 2 ай бұрын

@@africamcfadden6346 you defined it perfectly I understand now thank you for the info👍

@ItsRissaBaabbyy 9 күн бұрын

Jesus is Lord! Nobody comes to except through him! God is real! Confess, believe, and accept Christ as your Lord and savior! Invite him into your hearts, into your lives and watch him change you! No matter what you've done, you're never too far from God! He wants a relationship with you, just welcome him with open arms and build your relationship with him. Repent and ask for forgiveness. Jesus loves you! Time is running out, Jesus is coming! Spread the good news ❤🙏🏾

@LikkleYardieNia 4 күн бұрын

They cute tho 🥳

@mizzhllywd 2 ай бұрын

Why does she not think she's not a lesbian?

@Smellywafflegobbler 2 ай бұрын

It's still a boy tho????

@tyreesetjjoyner1995 2 ай бұрын

❤️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@clairejasper1864 2 ай бұрын

He’s hot asfffffff

@gloriagorley8519 2 ай бұрын

WEIRD!

@kastro1821 2 ай бұрын

America is next level 😂

@gorillaprutt Ай бұрын

what does this has to do with america lol

@jean-pierrelamothe8216 2 ай бұрын

I guess Leah is not really gay, if she was, she would have left Him, the day he told her he wants to transition she should have left

@cristyluv1205 2 ай бұрын

Attracted to everything. Which ever way the wind blows

@OddityK 2 ай бұрын

All of yall hating just know the views are putting money in their pockets lol. Don’t agree just could’ve kept scrolling

@africansister 2 ай бұрын

Lost but will be found one day

@cortezrange5950 2 ай бұрын

I never wish death on you or your girlfriend but it is a lie that you're trying to portray towards other people when both of y'all are natural born females Just be in a relationship with each other

@gorillaprutt Ай бұрын

ok this comment is wacky haha

@TamNguyen-kk7ke 2 ай бұрын

cute hot wife u got too hihihi

@Trust_No_One_0316 2 ай бұрын

I'm confused because this is still a lesbian couple though......🤷🏻‍♀️

@florianepelletier3342 2 ай бұрын

🤦‍♀️

@winxclubstellamusa 2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY!!! A mutilated masculine lesbian is not a man!!

@thatochakane5084 2 ай бұрын

Leviticus 18:22 [22]“ ‘Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.

@user-qb4ly8px8f 2 ай бұрын

Many videos on this channel look like scenes from GTA. Absurdity and idiocy.

@FIREENGINE3 Ай бұрын

Scary I would never know that’s a trans man

@SinitChemlaq-uz4jh 2 ай бұрын

America😂😂

@Pops74675 2 ай бұрын

Repent, Jesus is coming soon. Do not let the devil confuse your identity. Your identity will always be clear when it lies with Christ Jesus. He died on the cross for you and me❤