My Husband Died and I've Forgotten How to Do This

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From Jenn

From Jenn

Күн бұрын

It's been three months since I was last here on KZfaq. I didn't mean for it to be that long, but caregiving and grief are unpredictable and I've been doing my best to care for myself. I hope that you'll care for yourself, too, in choosing whether or not to watch this video. It shows Kevin and me living through an emergency, shows Kev in his hospital bed, and I talk about cancer and dying. I suspect it's not an easy watch, but I felt I had to post this in order to move forward.
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Intro music:
Plain Loafer by Kevin MacLeod
Link: filmmusic.io/song/4223-plain-...
License: filmmusic.io/standard-license
Outro music:
Benjamin Carey / We Go On
Other music:
Eric Feinberg / Birds and Trees
Eric Feinberg / I'll Wait
Eric Feinberg / Searching for Solace
Unless otherwise specified, all music is courtesy of Epidemic Sound.
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@wendybenton9762
@wendybenton9762 2 ай бұрын
A stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet....hello 👋 from Australia...im sorry for your loss..😥 sending hugs 💕🇦🇺🦘🦘🦘
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Nice to meet you Wendy. Thank you for your word and welcome from LA. 🏄🌴🎬
@hegemeretheandalhofsten9134
@hegemeretheandalhofsten9134 2 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. sending you love . Thank you for sharing❤
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much.
@somersetflower
@somersetflower 15 күн бұрын
Jenn .... so very sorry.... Sending much love and comfort to you at this horrific time. Please be kind to yourself and give yourself grace you need to take your time to breathe adjust and face each day quietly and selfishly and don't apologise for being sad . Always here for you. Janice 🇬🇧 xx
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 14 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words, Janice. "Horrific" very much describes the last few years, but "face each ay quietly and selfishly" is some of the best advice anyone has given me. What a revelation to think of being selfish and something necessary and good!
@somersetflower
@somersetflower 14 күн бұрын
@fromjenn This is the best advice I can give you because there will be people who : a) Don't know what to say to you, so don't talk to you .. b) people who expect you to "be over it" ... c) people who overdo the sympathy and make you feel worse.... So it's so important that you grieve in your own way. And that includes choosing who to be around and when to have alone time. Obviously, you do need people you love to support you and be there if you need to talk, but it's important that you have some control over this. Selfish is fine at times like this, because as long as you are careful to support anyone else who loved him and are grieving too, you must allow yourself the space and peace to come to terms with a new way of living and finding the best way to do that while honouring his memory by continuing to live ,enjoying reminiscing of the wonderful times you had together . Don't be afraid - you will be healing a little each day, and while you may always be sad, you will find a way to live again . In friendship Janice 🇬🇧 xx
@PoetSkyMSA0227
@PoetSkyMSA0227 2 ай бұрын
My partner passed on Feb 27 .. he was 71 and I was his caregiver 24/7 . I understand what you’re feeling . Go one second at a time .. ❤
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Sending lots of love and compassion to you. We are strong and will go on.
@Paula-xp7ve
@Paula-xp7ve Ай бұрын
Just stumbled on your video. Bless you! One hour at a time ❤️
@fromjenn
@fromjenn Ай бұрын
Thank you, Paula.
@emilymccarthy2292
@emilymccarthy2292 Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenn.
@fromjenn
@fromjenn Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@rdgf_kl
@rdgf_kl 2 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss.
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Philca1
@Philca1 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this intimate heart touching moment... It will mean alot to many.... Take care...🙏💔
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. I really appreciate it.
@MichelleJNorton
@MichelleJNorton Ай бұрын
Hugs, Jenn. Hugs.
@fromjenn
@fromjenn Ай бұрын
Thanks, Michelle
@beadingbelle3486
@beadingbelle3486 2 ай бұрын
Jenn it's so good to see you here again. I have no words to express how sorry i am for your loss. Thank you for sharing your journey. Be of good courage & stout heart. Sending you vibes of Peace & Strength across the ether & over the oceans to anable you to move forward, at least a little at a time. Belle x
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Thanks, Belle. I am glad to be back.
@rebeccapapapetrou3615
@rebeccapapapetrou3615 2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad to see you here again. Thank you for sharing this ❤️ I think about you and ask the universe to make your path manageable often.
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Rebecca. There’s a phrase used in a lot of meditations: may you live with ease. I’ve loved that ever since I first heard it and your words remind me of it. I wish the same for you and your family.
@yvettedail9045
@yvettedail9045 2 ай бұрын
I am sorry for your loss Jenn I will be praying for you ❤
@fromjenn
@fromjenn 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. That is kind.
@yvettedail9045
@yvettedail9045 2 ай бұрын
You're so welcome ❤️
@vedrakuca
@vedrakuca Ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss,i lost my husband 1year ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison..I am left alone with 2sons 13 and 17years old..he was my everything..i am 48...how this can be thrue?
@fromjenn
@fromjenn Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for everything you've gone through and am sending you strength and ease to continue forward. I absolutely understand the "how can this be true?" feeling. I have it too. Like I somehow ended up in the wrong universe with this thing that absolutely wasn't supposed to happen in my lifetime.
@vedrakuca
@vedrakuca Ай бұрын
@@fromjenn ♡
@BUTTERFLY-dv9ht
@BUTTERFLY-dv9ht 2 ай бұрын
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