Reach out if you are going through a rough time. Thumos brotherhood / elishalong
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@goredoh2 ай бұрын
Funny how everyone is suddenly your best friend after you're gone
@user-uh5vf5ty4u2 ай бұрын
People are brutally abusive towards each other these days. Only do people care after the fact. I don't say that on Eiisha, but it's a general occurrence.
@SgtNateHigers-BPD2 ай бұрын
funny how that works huh
@Everysingletimeowitz2 ай бұрын
@@user-uh5vf5ty4uElisha probably felt like he “out alpha’d” his neighbor during his interactions with him. Now he wants to seem like the good person lmao.
@sibusiso28412 ай бұрын
@Everysingletimeowitz how'd you get to this conclusion. God forbid a dude get mixed thoughts finding out they're young neighbor just killed himself and been rotting alone in his house
@blaze_dynamo2 ай бұрын
They're just trying to get a free ticket to my VIP afterlife club.
@Consolous2 ай бұрын
Most men suffer in silence. You never know who is secretly suffering, and many times it's the people you least expect. May he rest in peace
@Mr.CreamCheese692 ай бұрын
And when we ask for help it's annoying, or whiny, or "dude get a grip, I'm trying to live my life, how about you try and live yours" bro no one truly actualy deep down cares. Everyone wants to just live their own lives, at arms length from even their closest loved one. "God damn, uncle Tim is really acting up. Dude has fucking issues lol, leave me out of it" and then uncle Tim is dead.
@bradpnw18972 ай бұрын
So true.
@NuttyCookie3332 ай бұрын
Women too
@Mr.CreamCheese692 ай бұрын
@@NuttyCookie333 when women suffer they become narcissists
@user-qt1rr5tk9i2 ай бұрын
They still exist
@wtfsamusidk75742 ай бұрын
No one with a clean spirit likes this world
@tiffanygafner97802 ай бұрын
Please explain this to me?
@leoburst62 ай бұрын
@@tiffanygafner9780 this world is too brute and horrible. The extremes at how horrible life can be and how humans can be to each other makes sensitive kind spirited people hate the world. They feel and think of that person suffering as if it were them and it eats at them so much that they don't want to know anything about this world
@wtfsamusidk7574Ай бұрын
@@leoburst6 well put
@dustygatrell-ru7tgАй бұрын
Noone has a clean spirit. We all fall short of Gods glory.
@idnintelАй бұрын
@@dustygatrell-ru7tg You don't get it. some people, because of their sensitive kind hearted parents, genetics and the general culture they were influenced by are much more sympathetic, emotional and deep feeling people than some airhead materialistic dingbat who was probably sadly abused as a child. This has nothing to do with god or his glory, nothing at all.
@RyanLee1986Ай бұрын
In 1998, I was 12, my brother 15. January 19th, he committed suicide with a gunshot to the head. I came home from school, and was the first responder to the aftermath at the foot of our dining room table. We had the best childhood, best parents, he was well respected, tons of friends and an impressive athlete in school. To say the entire city was in shock would be an understatement. I was so young, I didnt even fathom the idea that you could end your own life, so I thought he was cleaning the gun and it had a misfire. His shotgun was laying beside him, but he used a revolver. When I learned that he had left a note, my entire world changed that day. He was my only sibling, and we loved each other hard. I have been a recluse for 15 years, living alone, barely going out, but holding my own with a full time job and making solid income. I have been single since 2005, not even dated. I did all that in middle/high school. Never turned to drugs, drink maybe twice a year. Life is crazy man, and I dont allow many people into mine these days.
@ElishaLongАй бұрын
Why do you willingly isolate yourself? Why not go on a date?
@RyanLee1986Ай бұрын
@@ElishaLong Work is high energy, and very loud in a casino. It drains me. I kayak 1-2 times a week, explore new rivers and lakes, and lots of fishing. I have been slowly getting a sweet girl at work into the hobby as well. She bought one a couple months ago and we have been getting out on the water here and there. Only because I vibe with her. She's the first woman I have wanted to bring into my life and hobbies in 15+ years.
@geddon436Ай бұрын
What is your job at the casino?
@animal79thecat21 күн бұрын
@@RyanLee1986 you just said you were single and havent dated...wtf
@bagzhansadvakassov10933 күн бұрын
why bro commited suicide?
@_Arugula_Salad_2 ай бұрын
I’m on the brink myself. Dealing with homelessness alone, working a job that isn’t paying out, looking at a world that’s left me behind and forgotten me, which never wanted me in the first place. There’s no one to talk to, nowhere to go.
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
You're a handsome dude. What job are you working?
@arsenelupiniii80402 ай бұрын
I feel ya bro. But the last thing I am gonna do is end it, I made it this far and came close a whole bunch of times. I have to see it through now! In 98 i lost the love o my life to car accident, and I tongue fucked my shotgun for a week, before i sold it. Not gonna lie a huge part of me died when Danielle LaFond was killed.
@briandorsey64372 ай бұрын
@@arsenelupiniii8040love yourself deeply and kindly bud..She wants you to be happy and enjoy life.
@AberrantVision2 ай бұрын
Keep pushing brother, I was suicidal a few years back. Keep at it man and don’t give in to the hate within that you hold to yourself. I’ve been there too.
@cboy-ou2hr2 ай бұрын
Find your why find the thing that will get you excited to wake up in the morning and always put yourself first
@latedoomer452 ай бұрын
The way society became I'm afraid suicide rates will only go higher
@neoreign2 ай бұрын
FK society, do the opposite of society. If society says take a left turn here, you say no we're going straight or turning right. Stop listening to society.
@anthonyjones98682 ай бұрын
I'm not selling my soul out. I'm not going out cheap way
@Jericho3962 ай бұрын
Higher self deletion rates go hand in hand with civilizational decline. It's to be expected.
@virtual2402 ай бұрын
Women need to stop treating us men poorly
@dusanstojsin49382 ай бұрын
And will society care? No!
@BlacklaboratoryАй бұрын
I’m alone. I’m struggling. I don’t like it here anymore. My heart is broken.
@pinky-ud1rtАй бұрын
Awwww hunnie im so sorry your feeling this way..please speak to someone ok.PLEASE DON'T SUFFER IN SILENCE BIGG HUGGS
@fl7210Ай бұрын
Hello. I’m sorry you’re struggling. Please reach out to a community you can connect with.
@LokiWolfrunnerАй бұрын
I see you. I understand
@Karl0144Ай бұрын
Gotta keep your head up. Quit sugar, start working out, take ice baths every morning. Drink more water. Stop alcohol and fast food. Stay off social media and put the phone down. Get a proper sleeping schedule. Join a community or church. Do that for even 3 months and see if your are still suicidal. Guaranteed you'll be thankful you hung on to life. Oh yea and kick the people out of your life that don't value you and your time. God bless you man
@BostonHorticultureАй бұрын
Me too.
@KELLYKH2 ай бұрын
Everyone that I've known in my life that committed suicide were men, including my grandfather. Thank you for this video. I need to pay attention more. My parents have a neighbor that is always alone, no one comes over, and he's very quiet. Next time i see him outside, i think i'll go say hi.
@KoalaBeer.2 ай бұрын
Offer a coffee cake? 🍰
@pauljordan4452Ай бұрын
Condolences for your grandpa.
@philj959429 күн бұрын
Yep, suicide statistics skew heavily towards men and a lot of women love to say that it's because testosterone makes them more likely to use more lethal methods like a gun. No. Life is harder for men on average. There is way more responsibility on our shoulders and we have to earn our social capital whereas women get cared for and protected by default.
@beckee628221 күн бұрын
@@philj9594as a woman who has suicidal ideations, I would agree that yes, on average it’s harder for men. But I hate how people always have to compare the two. Anyone who thinks about committing suicide deserves to be heard. Anyone, man or woman, who has these thoughts or takes action deserves to be heard. It’s not a competition of pain
@alienzordfalcon516220 күн бұрын
Yeee! Just make sure it’s somewhat genuine so that he doesn’t feel like he’s being patronized. This could end up being just as bad. Their hyper-receptivity due to limited contact could process the social engagement as being bullied or patronized. I used to think they all need to toughen up but the reality is that after working in social services for 20 years, I have learned that a huge amount of our social communication and feeling is a reflexive endeavor that can sometimes defy the obvious.
@redpilldredd99072 ай бұрын
RIP. Ive seen 5 suicides in the 5 years as a firefighter. All young men. Two of my friends took their lives. Sad af. Still think about them to this day. Dont do it boys. Never give up.
@Shushannp2 ай бұрын
It has become impossible to be sensitive emotional man in this world.
@_Arugula_Salad_2 ай бұрын
What else is there to do when your life isn’t worth living, a daily humiliation with no end in sight?
@sadhu71912 ай бұрын
Man's search for meaning. Victor frankle
@nadineskye70502 ай бұрын
Honestly I can’t blame anyone who chooses to do it. There’s not much to look forward to, and it’s becoming much more of a struggle just to survive let alone live. How about we make it a world worth staying around for?
@Alex-on8yu2 ай бұрын
At this time, if you tell someone that you are depressed, they will tell you to "go to therapy" as if telling your life story would improve something. Society pretending to care about "mental health" is another reason for rope.
@bingflosby2 ай бұрын
It’s my birthday today Every day is the same I have multiple sclerosis My family abandoned me I don’t have any friends All I have is god I am ok with that /hug love you brothers turn 45 today
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
Happy birthday man. Stay strong. I hope you have a blessed year.
@bingflosby2 ай бұрын
@@ElishaLong I only pray for gods discernment to be a vessel for his will I appreciate your words and prayers
@Mattj14442 ай бұрын
Happy birthday brother.
@czr50142 ай бұрын
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@michaelthomas51402 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday! Sorry to hear, but there are people who care, just keep grinding towards a goal!
@robertshrewsbury5067Ай бұрын
My oldest son decided to commit suicide. He planned it, for as much as a year ahead. He tried to be no nuisance, gave away his few belongings to others. He had health problems, illegal immigration had made it impossible to have hope of survivable finances. It turns out that a lot of young men, teens to around 27, commit suicide when they feel there is no way to have a decent life...a workable job, a chance to marry and have a family, etc.
@matiaslipovecАй бұрын
Im really for you and your son :(
@Chuncy5666 күн бұрын
@robertshrewbury5067 that why we spend so much time tryingto te them about Jesus being able to help them,hes the only one that can.
@IsaiahMiguel5 күн бұрын
I feel you with the illegal immigrants thing I would love to work as a carpenter for a company but the fact is that these companies hire illegals for a lot less money because it’s cheaper than hiring an American Now I’m kind of forced to go into a career I don’t really like and feel as though I’m going to struggle through school because I have no interest in it, but there is simply no other option for me
@jolemire2546Ай бұрын
There is a misconception that people who take their lives appear sad....nope, a lot of people appear happy. Men and women.
@RodneyBost-gw6eoАй бұрын
Whats the old saying fake it until you make it until you cant make it any more.😢
@Theminnieminx822 күн бұрын
Especially when they decided on a date to commit suicide….so sad
@rudestbeast490710 күн бұрын
yea our friend offed himself and we were all shocked because he was the life of the party, he was a total chad with amazing skateboarding skills and massive charisma and we always scratched our heads with the women he was with who were very ratchet, he was dating very way down for his level. he offed himself over a very low value woman.
@jolemire25469 күн бұрын
@rudestbeast4907 so sorry for your loss.
@user-dz4ye5ln6q2 ай бұрын
"You dont need love of a woman bro" "You need to be around other ppl bro" "Just be a servant in 33 trillion dollar monopoly money economy bro" A lot of men are never heard, loved, or valued. The last thing ppl need is the gaslighting
@realityghost-nv7fz2 ай бұрын
exactly realize how the first thing he mentions is his girlfriend waking him up. many men cant find a girlfriend and dont have any real friends. of course they want to give up, working 9-5 at a crippling job just to come home to nothing. reproducing is the sole reason we are here. its the only way to feel satisfied and accomplished in this life. were here to have a family and reproduce. if women aren’t important elisha should just break up and follow his own advice my ass we dont need women to be satisfied. his ego is too big to look into the mirror hes the same „weak man“ he talks about.
@recklessnotion18992 ай бұрын
Become aware that having a girl will not solve your problems man. Having sex won't solve them either. Women are just a cope too. There are other highs to be achieved other than the dopamine of a woman, you just have to find out what that thing is that makes you tick
@user-dz4ye5ln6q2 ай бұрын
@@realityghost-nv7fz Literally
@Journey_to_who_knows2 ай бұрын
“Chad here, remember to never complain because I didn’t need to. Chad signing out” that’s the video summarised. There’s always someone worse off than you and there’s always someone better, your own perception is therefore the only relevant one.
@sergiug28372 ай бұрын
@@realityghost-nv7fz accurate take here
@kevinbond89662 ай бұрын
"Its not always gonna be like this." 25 years of being miserable, this is my life.
@One-way2 ай бұрын
You need to move and start fresh.
@erneste-3williams2 ай бұрын
I agree, go take a risk. Not a deadly risk but a chance to change something up
@kevinbond89662 ай бұрын
@@One-way I did, trust me fellas I've tried everything and continue to try anything I can. Nothing will ever really change though.
@One-way2 ай бұрын
@@kevinbond8966 don’t give up on YOURSELF brother… there are ways to make a change. SMALL goals can move mountains.
@joebudden19152 ай бұрын
When you hit 25yrs of misery I think that says it all sounds like my life once it’s that consistent for that long sorry to say it but it’s like hopeless this is it, at this point it’s like this is what it is an it won’t get better an it hurts me to be brutally honest
@PotatoPCFishingBoomerDude2 ай бұрын
My dad killed himself off a 200 ft bridge. He was a Marine vet. I am now a Marine veteran. I go fishing alot but I feel you on the loneliness. I also play video games and walk. Life is weird as a civilian for me.
@Devistech2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your service I appreciate your time to make sure that our country is safe! 🙏🏿🇺🇸
@afridgetoofar18182 ай бұрын
@@DevistechThank you for protecting us from invisible Weapons of Mass Destruction. I feel so much safer 😊
@QWERTY-gp8fd2 ай бұрын
@@afridgetoofar1818 people like u are not helping.
@JustOneMoreTaskMomАй бұрын
Where civilian life is going, you might just feel right at home soon. Veterans are becoming an asset to civilians more and more but only the government seems to know that.
@keifer7813Ай бұрын
@@afridgetoofar1818 Lmao right. Like going to Vietnam or Iraq to fight a bunch of people that did nothing to you is protecting us 🤦♂️
@svenstefansson4022Ай бұрын
I'm not living either, just coping with existance for over 7 years now. Basicly an undead.
@svenstefansson4022Ай бұрын
But its a lie, its not going to get better. We aren't going in circles either, we going down the spiral.
@streamrsm1009Ай бұрын
@@svenstefansson4022 I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Believe me I understand. I have been saying this for a while now I merely exist I am not living any more. I recently got a cancer diagnosis and hopefully I will now qualify for MAID otherwise I will have to choose another way to exit stage left.
@seankingwell3692Ай бұрын
@@svenstefansson4022 squarely down the spiral.....
@Italiangirlnj74724 күн бұрын
Me2
@terywetherlow797023 күн бұрын
@@svenstefansson4022 Help other people. Shelters are full of people who can use a clap on the back, a handshake or a hug. Gets your focus off you. I highly recommend it for low moods.🕊️❤️Tee
@motta_x2 ай бұрын
My friends neighbor did the other day as well. We need to lift eachother up as much as possible, bless up bro 🙏🏼
@sevens33832 ай бұрын
same here
@friedboot422 ай бұрын
that’s coincidence, not irony. still very sad
@sadhu71912 ай бұрын
I mean if they are old and want to die it's not that sad. Probably life after death so they just dipped out
@motta_x2 ай бұрын
@@friedboot42 I corrected it 🙏🏼
@landonprice56562 ай бұрын
You spoke more than most and asked how you doing.... We mean it when ask dont be hard on self.
@maxwillson2 ай бұрын
Our nation is going through some dark times right now. Our economy is horrible with inflation and people are just getting nasty. Thankfully I have a few friends. It's rough out there right now.
@nick82432 ай бұрын
The economy is actually great right now. 16 million jobs added since Biden took office. Unemployment and inflation way down to 4% or less. Record number of startup businesses. Wages are out pacing inflation. The stock market is at record highs. No recession. No housing market crash. Manufacturing sector is booming. You are delusional.
@sana-cm7oc2 ай бұрын
I have no friends. Wife ran them off.
@banzaaiiiii2 ай бұрын
Not only USA similar in many other nations
@anonfourtyfive2 ай бұрын
Lel. I rather be alone. At least I have nothing to lose and you can't have leverage on me.
@neilmerlino647523 күн бұрын
@@banzaaiiiii- Western nations mostly... Although the Asian countries are going to Sh!t as well... All thanks to modernity.
@mattyp3860Ай бұрын
Im a trucker. I mostly live in my truck. Im pretty much alone. I meet people from all over at times. I enjoy loneliness.
@missbcritiques920926 күн бұрын
I love to isolate to
@benwherlock986922 күн бұрын
If you enjoy loneliness then it's actually being alone not being lonely. Enjoying being alone is a gift.
@rudestbeast490710 күн бұрын
i also enjoy solitude but i have occasional bouts of seeking social interactions which i quickly bury, i cannot fully deny that i am a social creature
@SuperReznative8 күн бұрын
@@missbcritiques9209sanctuary with God where we can hear His still, small voice.
@joeundercoffer2567Ай бұрын
I always hate how the “survivors” always blame the victim who was begging for help and felt no other way out yet those same “survivors “ didn’t have the time of day for the victim
@PURDY_POISONАй бұрын
🙏🙏 yes I know😢
@streamrsm1009Ай бұрын
Not until after they are gone. Then they are like if I only had known. EVERY suicide I investigated I found DOZENS of warning signs that nobody cared about. I never was cruel and pointed all them out to the people but they are there most people just don't care enough to see or hear or follow through. And they just want to make themselves feel better for not helping the person and leaving them on their own to suffer alone.
@terywetherlow797021 күн бұрын
@@streamrsm1009 Most people have their hands full handling their own basket of snakes,sadly.
@rudestbeast490710 күн бұрын
@@streamrsm1009 yea they send an obligation text occasionally asking how the guy is doing after making excuses that they cant hang out soon but of course its not polite to respond with a bunch of issues so they just respond -im doing good and thats the end of the conversation
@k20lifestyle2 ай бұрын
June is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month. Brothers never be afraid to speak up if you or someone you know is struggling.
@achmed2pac2 ай бұрын
ever since our Birth The Living God Jesus is Soo GOOD to us since he Created this Earth🌍! He healed me From my Incurable Sickness 💯 and he can heal you too!Seeking the Living God Wholeheartedly ❤🙏 and Diligently is soo Powerful! Jesus saved me from Death i could have died many times because of the Devils traps! he is a Good Loving God who came to give his life on the Cross in exchange for our sinful life!!!We MUST Separate ourself from sin to meet God!:100 he is a Holy God!But he LOVES US SOO MUCH he Gave HIS OWN LIFE for us!!Thats Gods Love for you (: Jesus Christ your God and Creator TOOK a BULLET For your life EVEN your BESTFRIEND did not take a Bullet for your life!Don't believe the Devil who is the Ruler over This World Believe the Words of Jesus who is The Creator of this whole UNIVERSE and Who is the KING of The Glorious Kingdom of God Heaven JESUS😍🙏💯
@spoopyidk2 ай бұрын
It's also pride month. That's all that anybody cares about.
@Bobby_T_2 ай бұрын
We don’t need a men’s mental health awareness month, especially not during the same month as pride month. We need equal mental health treatment on all months
@RideLight7772 ай бұрын
this why we need jesus christ!
@Alex-on8yu2 ай бұрын
Others will not be able to help you, committing quit in game is a solution. Mental health is a problem for those who have it, not for others since they do not experience it nor will they ever know how difficult it is to spend day after day in the shoes of another, there is no scammer or coach who with a few nice words can solve everything.
@MichalLSK2 ай бұрын
I was going home yesterday by train and someone jumped in front of the train. I was sad I was thinking what was in mind of that person how cruel life must be for him.
@neilmcdougall49272 ай бұрын
It all disappears at that point. Utter bliss
@gintonicx62 ай бұрын
@@neilmcdougall4927Yes, but the question where do we go? Probably to nothing
@thewildcardASMR2 ай бұрын
Is there a news article on it..what city?
@Stormwolf1O1x2 ай бұрын
@@thewildcardASMR these things unfortunately happen far too often to be written about in news articles every time.
@VictorianMaid992 ай бұрын
I am sorry about the one that self terminated. I am more concerned about you. Do speak with someone if it is really getting to you. We were driving on the freeway the other day and an 18 wheeler went off the road 10 seconds in front of us. The wreck has just happened because people were pulling over right and left to see if they could get the driver out. All I could do the rest of that day was think about that life. What happened? Did the guy fall asleep? Did the guy dodge a car? It could have even been suicide.
@manunited11322 ай бұрын
I was in Foster homes growing up and I remember in one of my homes I went outside to kick a football about with another lad from the home and I saw another guy was watching us from his window. Something inside me wanted to shout out "come and play mate" the football came in my direction and my thought process had gone I was just concentrating on kicking this football about. Anyway the next morning early ours that poor lad hanged himself. I was 15 years old then. And to this day it not only haunts me but its mentally disturbed my mind. I'm 44 now and I have a family of my own and a great job and I'm a happy bloke with a massive heart and tons of Empathy for the world. Peace and love to everyone out there including people who are going through difficulties in life 🙏 ✨*BELIEVE *✨
@juliebella12212 ай бұрын
I saved peeps from suicide. Their lives never got better and I apologize to them for saving them. They were right. They knew it would never get better and wanted out. It is us that makes them stay. It's selfish. People who live in pain every day have every right to want to be no more. It is selfish of us to demand they continue to suffer so we won't miss them. Most only want peeps to keep living because they're of use to them, not because they love them. Sorry to anyone I saved. You were right, it never got better only waaaaaaay worse. 😞
@ThePrepperRealtor12 күн бұрын
Your comment is true in my case. I'm now 54 years old and my life never got better either. I've lost everything_ my children, my husband, my home and worst of all, I've lost the belief that I'll be happy one day.
@Chuncy5666 күн бұрын
@@ThePrepperRealtor your answer is in Jesus, he can turn your life around like he did mine, then things will change drastically for the better. But you have to invite him in he wont push his way in . Except christ as your savior you wont regret it.
@Timbzz-dq8vn2 ай бұрын
I'm 33 living in a city, just got out of prison. My family basically deserted me. I can't afford to live here. Only advice they give me is just hang in there!!! I been hanging in there, I'm T I R E D. Some people don't want help, just rest.
@Krash9542 ай бұрын
Tomorrow is a brand new day, brother.
@johnnyboy24112 ай бұрын
There is no rest in this world brother. Push through! You got this!
@Timbzz-dq8vn2 ай бұрын
@@johnnyboy2411 not in this world I agree. That's why I embrace death a lot more now a days. Parole is so hard to appease. I got a job and actually try to better my life, but one slip up and back to prison I go and lose everything yet again. It's all a catch 22 and fucking gets me thoroughly depressed most days.
@jimdandy89962 ай бұрын
I'd check Craig's List for people needing roommates.
@benice37592 ай бұрын
Go to a bible believeing church and get Jesus Christ in your life.
@GoonerBoiz2 ай бұрын
A close family friend took his own life last week, leaving behind a 3-year-old son and wife. Hundreds of people attended the funeral. No matter how meaningless you may feel your life is, remember that many people count on you and care about you.
@tarichar82 ай бұрын
Well, when my father died, no one attended his funeral. I was the only one there and gave a eulogy to myself looking out over the empty chairs.
@GoonerBoiz2 ай бұрын
@@tarichar8 You still cared.
@carnovector63962 ай бұрын
@@tarichar8no matter how many people show up to your party or how many facebook likes you have doesnt make them your friends dont worry about it, me and my mom both agreed that whoever goes out first there wont be a funeral for vultures to try and profit off your vulnerable loved ones, those who care will mourn at their own pace in their own time like you have
@ghostphoto17892 ай бұрын
@@carnovector6396A funeral is not a party or Facebook likes… it is deeply depressing to have a funeral where nobody shows up except one person.
@letsbefreeletsbefree71832 ай бұрын
@@ghostphoto1789trust me when money is involved money people are coming like hawks to the funeral. I rather have 3 people at my funeral that really care about me than 50 people who kinda lived me.
@TFQ161Ай бұрын
Loneliness is the worst kind of torture for a woman as well. At least it is for me. My burden of life feels unbearable right now. Take care
@BlacklaboratoryАй бұрын
I am sorry. I wish we could take a walk in the park.
@Timmer-qp8syАй бұрын
I’m here.
@marcK599.Ай бұрын
There are plenty of people out there to hang out with or men to date. Put yourself out there, join clubs with common interests and ask men out. You can find someone.
@FindoutBingo12329 күн бұрын
@@marcK599. dating is not a priority as it seems like it is for men. We value deep bonding in general and to be understood. In relationships as women we don’t necessarily feel understood emotionally nor fulfilled since men are taught not to suppress their emotions. There isn’t a mutual understanding which leaves us feeling very alone in a relationship. What’s the point of it after you go through it many times. We eventually give up on it since no human wants to keep potentially opening their self up to more pain. It’s like taking a chance and entering a room with 1000 snakes but some of them are not poisonous. Also getting cheated on, betrayal is the worst kind of pain to us as well. Then we called emotional and over dramatic just for having these emotions. Making it feel unsafe to be open anymore. Also as a women we go through a lot of manipulation from men just so they can get in our pants. That’s very exhausting, feeling that preying energy all of the time to be used as a object. So the grass isn’t really greener on the other side as you may think. The endless shaming and manipulation has done too much damage to being able to trust now. That a simple get a boyfriend is not the solution when you consider the reality of it.
@azloii97819 күн бұрын
@@marcK599. I love how people make it sound so easy to make friends. It's not elementary school anymore, people are vicious and judgemental
@BloodandSoil9907 күн бұрын
I'm 37. Lonely. No wife. No kids and sometimes i just wanna go to sleep and never wake up.
@chuckyu84284 күн бұрын
Please do not give up. You keep on the journey and you will see better and even amazing things on the journey.
@jaeramorreu21 сағат бұрын
You life is the best you could have, no people for share your food.
@thedude85262 ай бұрын
It's the loneliest time to be alive right now. I've been in dark times like that before so I feel for that man. Sucks it turned out the way it did.
@aerodynamicbullshark2 ай бұрын
Facts.
@thedude85262 ай бұрын
@claudiocerezo1644 I didn't say it was the hardest time to be alive. We are surrounded by technology that can connect us to anyone in a split second, yet we still lack connection, acceptance, friendship and intamacy. That was my point.
@HammsterMusic2 ай бұрын
@@thedude8526He didnt say it was the hardest time to be alive either
@CoachDaGrahamz2 ай бұрын
@@claudiocerezo1644you lie
@Jericho3962 ай бұрын
Well, we live under a system that views men as being disposable. Male self-deletion is basically seen the same way as roadkill by the majority. A minor inconvenience that is unpleasant to look at, but quickly forgotten or dismissed.
@LevMyshkin19702 ай бұрын
Shouldn't stigmatize people who comitt suicide, sometimes life is too much
@redgrengrumbholdt26712 ай бұрын
Yes we should. It's not fair to those around you.
@Jesamisus2 ай бұрын
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671Those who took their lives owe no one anything. Different case if they got kids though.
@redgrengrumbholdt26712 ай бұрын
@@Jesamisus That's just selfish to think that way. A decent man would not cause emotional and financial harm to his family and friends by commiting suicide. If you're alone in your life, go ahead.
@Jesamisus2 ай бұрын
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671 more selfish to bring said person into the world for ones own pleasure. To continue their legacy or cuz they couldn't care enough to put on a condom.
@DemetriosLevi2 ай бұрын
Don't you dare make excuses for them. As someone who's attempted twice, it is a disgustingly selfish act. Two things stopped me in those moments; the fear of hell and the horror that I would put my family through, especially my little niece who is closest to me. By saying life is sometimes too much you're telling them to go ahead. Shame on you.
@user-uh6ed6ck6g2 ай бұрын
We need at least 3000 people to show compassion to one another. Not just 1 people doing everything.
@iontalkmuchh2 ай бұрын
Bro I really needed this video man, I’m 23 been out of work for damn near 2 years now and been a heroin addict since I was 16, I’m so fkn lonely n tired idek why I clicked on this video but I needed to hear this. God bless u man
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
What's your next move brother
@dolphinbear6612 ай бұрын
Keep going, man. I was in a really bad spot once, it CAN get better. Ask God for help, he saved me. I will pray for you, brother.
@superelephant3602 ай бұрын
Hang in there bro I’ve been there with the H, i know everyone says this and it’s cliche as hell and i, myself, didn’t believe it at all whenever i’d hear it but it seriously really really does get so much better on the others side of withdrawal, like it ofc sucks for a bit and then it’s kinda meh for a while but eventually it seriously really gets great - like sobriety i mean. if i can give any advice i would say try doing whatever exercise you can, even if it’s just like no more than 2 pushups at first just whatever you can, get in the habit of doing that every day then eventually up it to more pushups then eventually add sit-ups and then eventually other stuff too - more important than the quantity of exercise is the regularity and building it up into a daily habit - that helped me a ton bc eventually if u have an addictive personality like i do then you’ll get addicted to the endorphins from exercise which straight up feels like a natural high except it’s good for you obv and also i don’t wanna really heavily push a drug as the solution when the problem is already drugs but i think weed definitely helped me get off the opiates, i never really smoked before but just using that to get thru the withdrawals until my brain started to normalize from the lack of opiates did help. eventually i realized i had started overdoing the weed too and had to cut back on that but i didn’t worry about that until well after the opiate withdrawals were over. as a temporary bridge to go from opiates to no opiates it absolutely helped me, like from bad drug -> not as bad drug -> eventually no drugs, maybe it can help u too Anyway, hang in there friend u can do it!! I believe in you! 🙏😇💯🙏🫡🫶 Just keep it going one day at a time a tiny bit of improvement every day and after a while you’ll look back and go wow i’ve come a long way !
@PunkDogCreations22 күн бұрын
Hi bud. Remember the Bible states that Jesus is always there for you, and He never sleeps. Philippians 4:13. You can do it, brother!❤ i know it is tough. When things get tough, i quote Nemo and say "just keep swimming ".❤ you can do it!!
@udarpavarota39619 күн бұрын
@@dolphinbear661I ask God for help. You know what he replied? Nothing 😑
@PawsnPlanet2 ай бұрын
I lost my best friend of over 20 years to suicide last year. When people say it is because of mental illness, I disagree. I think that's just an easy way for people to justify it. He was the best person I've ever known, incredibly smart with a great job. Would have done anything for anyone. Was ALWAYS nice never not once saw a mean bone in his body. Society's judgment and disrespect can push someone to give up. It's hard to understand why people can't just be kind and respectful instead of being so judgmental and mean. Then laugh and make fun of people for no valid reason. Some people assume they know everything about someone they've barely spent any time with. To me, this constant need to put others down and people gossiping about others is what’s really mental. If someone has harmed others and should be in prison, that's different. But there's no excuse for treating innocent people badly just because of how they look, what they wear, or because someone is different than you. I've seen many suicides in recent years, and society keeps making excuses for it. Just be nice to people-is it really that damn hard!? Stop acting like people have done something terrible to you when they haven't. Imagine how the world probably would have been if everyone was kind to eachother and there wasn't evil, judgemental, and greedy people in the world. Majority of people don't care about anyone or anything but literally theirselves and thats it. I'm really sorry about your neighbor. No one deserves to feel that way in life. My heart goes out to their family. ❤
@Italian69Boi2 ай бұрын
i call it "Trickle down evil" from the rich squeezing everyone so they can be greedy and still unhappy as rich people are the most unhappy believe it or not so they victimize more
@Nuhbuddys2 ай бұрын
"An easy way to justify it." I put it this way, "simple answers, for simple people."
@bradvp43392 ай бұрын
People are afraid to admit, that life isn’t as good as they think it is
@JFoxx36992 ай бұрын
So they didn't leave a note? Sounds like he was bullied or something? That kinda thing can cause mental health problems or issues. Yeah I wish people could be nicer especially when you work for a lame as courperations who believe "the customers always right" when there screaming at you for no damn reason and if you don't kiss there ass you get fired.. 🙄 It's none there damn business
@yamiscape2 ай бұрын
@@Nuhbuddysconfirmation bias
@Hiker_Mike2 ай бұрын
I'm 63. When younger, I had many days that I questioned "what is the purpose of going on?". Fortunately, I had a job that allowed me to work as much as I wanted so I became a workaholic, until I got sick of it at 50. I then turned to God and placed my faith in Jesus, that saved my life. I'm glad I avoided turning to drugs/alcohol, that is a sure path to death for many millions.
@gtsonev19882 ай бұрын
Amen brother!
@sitka492 ай бұрын
I went through struggles in my relationship ( marriage) _ started down the road self medicating ( crawled into the bottle) - Before it got too out of hand I recognized it thought to myself. Nope! So I started working-out - mainly running - pretty soon I was running sometimes 8 to 10 miles a day- found it to be my drug of choice, and got me through a tough period in my life.
@Hiker_Mike2 ай бұрын
@@sitka49 Yes, exercise is a great way to maintain our mental/physical health. I exercise for 2 to 5 hours every day, it's great medicine. Glad you were able to escape the clutches of alcohol. Take care.
@oldworldwildona5502 ай бұрын
@@sitka49 That is wisdom. Respect.
@oldworldwildona5502 ай бұрын
Very smart. Deep.
@CUMBICA19702 ай бұрын
"Death is a friend. It will never fail you." I remember this quote from a famous female writer in my country when she was 83 (she died at 93.) For me that's a comforting phrase that keeps me going. When things get unbearable you've got a friend that will be there.
@R37ARD3DАй бұрын
Yea but people ‘fail’ at forcing their own deaths all the time. Often times leading to worse quality of life than beforehand but usually robbed of their ability to make choices like that for themselves again. Worse things in life than death. Also be careful not to romanticize dying. This leads to self sabotage more so than self discipline or discovery which actually improve our circumstances
@terywetherlow797021 күн бұрын
@@R37ARD3D Yep. Nursing homes are full of 1/2 done unalives. Don't do it!!!
@MrNootropick4 күн бұрын
@@R37ARD3D You can't wage war against death, it always wins. It is precisely because most people fight so hard for their personal lives, ignoring everyone else, that death only becomes bigger
@oldmangranny5oldmangranny562 ай бұрын
"It's selfish to decide to end yourself for yourself. But it's not selfish to fight our wars."-Society
@someguyontheinternet.537Ай бұрын
Boo hoo @@supercalifragilistaphobic2146
@keifer7813Ай бұрын
@@supercalifragilistaphobic2146 Deleting yourself is no more selfish than treating yourself to a nice vacation or a new car
@featherlessbiped288Ай бұрын
@@keifer7813youd be disturbing everyone around you who loves you severely for your own wants. If you are all alone you are missing opportunities to turn yourself around. You havent tried everything yet.
@featherlessbiped288Ай бұрын
Its as simple as not killing yourself or fighting their wars. We dont have to live like this
@keifer7813Ай бұрын
@@featherlessbiped288 So it's selfish to end your suffering because it upsets others but it's not selfish of them to continue your suffering by staying alive to make them feel better?
@Scrubbbbz2 ай бұрын
It’s always terrifying when reality strikes you after a dream. Damn near metaphorical.
@Scrubbbbz2 ай бұрын
@@user-mq1od7fx5l with claws and fangs?!?
@Andrew666322 ай бұрын
My neighbor in my previous residence hung him self. The guy was a retired firemen who suffered an injury to the head in his younger years.
@dschafar6679Ай бұрын
When the life battery is empty and you have no charger...
@yourenough3Ай бұрын
I left my family six years ago , went no contact and my dad committed suicide a couple of days ago. My dad was always angry .
@ElishaLongАй бұрын
I'm sorry about your loss.
@streamrsm1009Ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. But there obviously was a reason for you leaving and you do have a right to keep yourself safe, happy and healthy.
@banzaaiiiiiАй бұрын
Dad always angry= broke family and loser dad. This why majority of men are not meant to have kids.
@maxwillson2 ай бұрын
Not a suicide but 3 years ago I had a friend who drowned in a river accident. My friend group pretty much broke apart after his death. It was like a double whammy loss. Not only did we lose a good friend, no one wanted to hang out again or float the river or play disk golf, it just destroyed the whole vibe. Things can radically change over night. You can't take anything for granted. People change after tragedies. I'm assuming my other friend doesn't want to do those activities anymore because they probably remind him of his brother, that's gotta be really painful.
@svenvanderzwaag10122 ай бұрын
I would try to form the connection again. Sometimes people just need some time for themselves to process the loss, but hopefully you can come together again and honour his memory!
@Stormwolf1O1x2 ай бұрын
@@svenvanderzwaag1012 well said. yes maybe they can become closer friends through this tragedy.
@jefferytokarsky19302 ай бұрын
Had the accident taken your life, would you want your friends to be crippled in their mourning? I doubt it. Friends want the best for friends. I feel like the only way to get past the pain of losing a loved one is to be grateful for the time you had with them and continue to make more memories. Rationalization? Probably a bit. Difficult? Sure. What other choice do you have?
@erneste-3williams2 ай бұрын
Man ... 🕊
@erneste-3williams2 ай бұрын
@@jefferytokarsky1930yeah I just lost my Dad end of April.. I HAVE to keep going.. I have to.. it was actually unbearable.. but somehow here I am.. You basically time capsule and keep going but if you stay in that pain and depression too long too deep, it could take you too.. very tough to push through that. I would never disagree
@almightyvibes25672 ай бұрын
No matter what you’re going through, just keep the dice rolling man. You don’t have to be strong, weak, rich, poor, smart, or dumb. Just have Gratitude
@officialthomasjames2 ай бұрын
Exactly. There is someone in your exact shoes who got through the darkness and is living/lived a great life. Stay strong.
@otodidact99232 ай бұрын
Great message. Start the day with gratitude
@nathanielcallen39652 ай бұрын
That and presence for sure
@techzRR2 ай бұрын
Respect this bro
@_Arugula_Salad_2 ай бұрын
Try being homeless and telling yourself that
@Swisspastel80Ай бұрын
My best friend committed suicide in 2021. RIP Nick Punch You will not be forgotton homie
@DukesUp12 ай бұрын
people dont actually care. it really hits home in situations like this and thinking "coulda, woulda, shoulda." but going to people with mental health issues is literally one of the most off putting things for that person, and can instantly can destroy a relationship. people are not as accepting or caring as you would think. i know because i've tried it many times through hard days or hard times. always hurts the relationship negatively and alot of people end up using it against you if things ever go sideways.
@killerratchet1973Ай бұрын
Those people only learn when it's too late to help the person. Some need to be taught the hard way on what happens when someone is treated that way.
@_Jay_Singh2 ай бұрын
It’s so sad how many men have considered doing the same at multiple points in their lives. Stay strong, stay hopeful brothers.
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
Every guy friend that I have gotten to know deeply has💁
@sana-cm7oc2 ай бұрын
Why? so that each day gets a little worse than the last?
@Zara-pt5xqАй бұрын
It's usually through his lack of a supposed good and kind woman he desires. Outside is not inside. Start inside boys/men then you won't feel so lonely and needy. "It is not good for man to be alone" GOD SAID I SUGGEST YOU SERIOUSLY THINK ABOUT THAT
@matiaslipovecАй бұрын
I did
@JR-pf7kk2 ай бұрын
R.I.P brother, stranger but brother none the less
@blitzd212 ай бұрын
nah.. stranger
@sitka492 ай бұрын
That's the problem neighbors never use to be strangers. Were becoming more and more of a isolated society.
@meorme66032 ай бұрын
I always greet my neighbors hello, and a little chit chat. Some don't answer that is fine, but I an there for people who need some one to talk to. Spread live light, and most importantly spread wisdom. A minute of your time can save, and change some ones life for the better. If your reading this and in a struggle. I recommend volunteering at a hospital or at a dog or animal shelter. Helping other will help you see peoples struggle to survive and people that have it worse than you do. Break away from the shyness , and don't be afraid to start comversations with people. Some people may not show interest bevause they have too much on their minds but some people will love to share what is on their mind with you to get your opinion. The person struggling may also help people who seem like they are happy on the out side but do have some struggle going on in their life. 🫶
@thebestcat96012 ай бұрын
@@sitka49Probably contributing to more depression to begin with.
@sitka492 ай бұрын
@@thebestcat9601 hard to trust now days.
@jayclarke95462 ай бұрын
Most people don't seem to care unless it somehow affects their lives, unfortunate but true
@JMS103Ай бұрын
This reminds me of when I lived in my apartment by myself and the next door neighbor killed himself. My landlord never knew anything about it until the mailman said something to her and asked why he was never checking his mail. He laid over there for about two weeks. It was a lot of flies and something stunk. The maintenance guys found him.
@josebro352Ай бұрын
That's eerie and it also sounds like something out of a Stephen King story. I can't remember which one but it was the mailman who found the body of the man who shot himself in the head. It happened in the kitchen and there were flies buzzing everywhere.
@neasahayes6044Ай бұрын
That must be traumatic for the person who finds the body. A sight you could never forget.
@jessewright37902 ай бұрын
It's only in retrospect we think about people suffering.
@Sin_Edulcorante2 ай бұрын
Truest comment Ive ever read.
@demillef68452 ай бұрын
People are rather self centered so most (generalisation) don't think about others until something bad happens that actually highlights that person.
@aveliese2 ай бұрын
true empathy is rare.
@taliwave19462 ай бұрын
@@demillef6845in general yes, we all have our own issues and problems to solve first. But must people hid their issues and but on a brave face and crack, we never really know what’s up because nobody talks about. Yeah we are fucking surprised, upset and concerned after the fact because we don’t expect it.
@taraquoАй бұрын
My cousin seemed like the happiest dude. Made everyone feel like family. Had a wife and two girls. My neighbor was excited about a job interview that he never made it to. Some hide it well.
@commandingsteel2 ай бұрын
my cousin Brandon took his own life about 3 years ago....for the first year every time i would get drunk and think about it i would just cry , sometimes yell...i was so sad, and angry and pissed off...i would just say to myself over an over " why bro, fucking why?"
@yudi82042 ай бұрын
I assume getting drunk and crying brings him back to life?
@commandingsteel2 ай бұрын
@@yudi8204 no, but it made me feel better, and back then i was gonna get drunk whether grieving or not
@yudi82042 ай бұрын
@@commandingsteel Good for you, maybe. Don't cry over something you can't change, especially death.
@VolleKwark2 ай бұрын
@@yudi8204Maybe, just shut your mouth. It is not your concern whether someone cries over the loss of a loved one.
@yudi82042 ай бұрын
@@VolleKwark But is it your concern wether I concerned about the guy cries over their loss of loved one?
@loriflynn78Ай бұрын
My husband died from Covid in 2020. I want to hide from everyone now. I don't know who I am without him. . Every year the pain gets worse.
@Knight1118-gk7okАй бұрын
Today is the 10 month anniversary of losing my wife to cancer. It hasn't been a year yet but I sympathize and empathize. Life is very empty now. Best wishes to you, Lori.
@winecrimesfoodandtime7119Ай бұрын
My condolences
@terrysolis6406Ай бұрын
I feel for you, I know how you feel. I had a great loss and some of what you share is how I feel. I hope u have support from friends and family. Hope u get better!
@seankingwell3692Ай бұрын
If its any consolation, I bet you gave him a really good death because he had someone so loving as you by his side. He did not die alone and despaired he died knowing he was loved and loving you. None of us get to choose which one goes first that is just up to God.
@JaydenBiskner22 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that 😔 I’m praying for you Lori
@bc_usa2 ай бұрын
I found out who my real friends were when I was diagnosed with cancer. Some embraced my situation and gave me support and some ran away as far as they could. Thanks to God I'm still here.
@teddy.yellowbuckets24 күн бұрын
I pray God will completely remove that cancer from your life in Jesus Name. Have faith and stay strong bc God is real and He heals
@stephenwilliams96282 ай бұрын
I always envy those with the balls to actually call it quits.
@Flavor1902 ай бұрын
nah don't envy the powerless. Quitting the game is the ultimate sign of weakness whether its by dipping out or choosing not to play.
@stephenwilliams96282 ай бұрын
@@Flavor190 idk man, I think it takes a remarkable amount of strength and courage to dip out.
@zekeyeager14582 ай бұрын
@@stephenwilliams9628 it does. You are right.
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
It doesn't take balls to take the quick easy way out. It takes balls to suffer through. Nothing would be easier than to end it now, lile right now then there would be no more suffering. I've been there. But then I discovered that I have work to do still.
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
If your killing yourself there's probably a reason that your running from. How exiting hard? Takes a tiny bit of courage which I guess if you don't have the courage to live then maybe that is tough.
@stevo68912 ай бұрын
When you constantly get rejected and feel unwanted it definitely stings.. Times I wish I’d go to sleep and not wake up.. Doesn’t matter how strong or tough you are.. My favorite NHL Enforcer Rick Rypien passed away due to suicide.. Kid was a beast on the ice pound for pound but his depression got him..
@marcusleja71332 ай бұрын
There is a large community of former NHL players who have committed suicide over the past 20 years. I find it disgusting how the league and its media sweep it under the rug.
@stevo68912 ай бұрын
@@marcusleja7133 Definitely, Rypien had personal issues off the ice..
@DMAC13012 ай бұрын
What you need is to stop expecting what you need from outside of yourself. If it doesn’t come from inside of you then anything can take it from you.
@stevo68912 ай бұрын
@@DMAC1301 Very True
@stevo68912 ай бұрын
@@DMAC1301 You are like my mom because one time she said the same thing as you..
@deficator7503 күн бұрын
i used to be so afraid of hearing and seeing anything relating to suicide. But its not until my life flipped upside down i realised it was just a blessing in disguise. We all know you would never had helped, or cares, or said something why? Because no ones wants to hear about others problem, no one cares untik your dead.
@atticusjohnofficial2 ай бұрын
My condolences to his family may he rest in peace
@rs660alec32 ай бұрын
Let’s be honest, you just feel bad. No one will or does anything. Currently homeless, no family, no job. Hi I am here in Denver Colorado. Help.
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
Homeless with Internet access and enough energy to try to start shit online. Go get a job
@Brian-sh4sm2 ай бұрын
Hi I’m in Boulder 😊
@USS_LibertyАй бұрын
@@ElishaLong He could be using the internet at the library.
@macaronifanatic7287Ай бұрын
@@ElishaLongIt's people like you that say this kind of shit that makes people kill themselves you should be ashamed of yourself. You don't know everything like you think you do you're ignorant.
@seankingwell3692Ай бұрын
@@ElishaLong wtf is your problem B****? You have no idea how many people starve in apartments to avoid freezing in winter but you still can't afford food. Internet for basic sanity can be afforded easier then food throughout the month. Jobs expect everyone to call or email or to apply online. IF you had experience understanding what is going on you would know this instead of acting like a troll.
@josebro352Ай бұрын
"Life IS pain, Highness! Anyone who says differently is selling something." - The Dread Pirate Roberts (The Princess Bride)
@danielcleary10722 ай бұрын
10 police showed up for a suicide? Must have been a slow night.
@SkeletKasket2 ай бұрын
I went to the hospital this Saturday with my suicidal thoughts/depression which I've struggled with for over a decade. It's something that I should have done this a long time ago. To anyone who can relate to these thoughts, I hope you find the strength to reach out for the help needed.
@officialthomasjames2 ай бұрын
Seek what is above. Aim high. Don’t dwell on your past or regrets. Focus on doing for others instead of yourself. God bless and stay strong. You are here for a reason.
@NYJets942 ай бұрын
That takes a lot of strength and accountability to do what you did. Be very proud in the fact that you made a decision to keep fighting.
What was that experience like? If you're willing to share
@brianlewis13722 ай бұрын
Loneliness is worse for your health than smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.
@arsenelupiniii80402 ай бұрын
As a pack of smokes a day smoker for over 30 years, I disagree, I love being alone, but then, I write the songs that make whole world sing! And an expert boat builder who teaches for free, I do miss my ex sometimes, but we ran our course.
@IIIISai2 ай бұрын
@@arsenelupiniii8040 if u smoke ofc u will be numb to the worsening effects of sober lonliness, also u dont seem to have standards for yourself
@arsenelupiniii80402 ай бұрын
@@IIIISai I never said I was sober.
@stephenhughes51562 ай бұрын
@@arsenelupiniii8040Being alone isn't neccesarily synonymous with loneliness. One can have many 'friends' and yet feel completely alone. One can have no friends and yet be completely content in their Solitude. I think we all need at least one or two people in our life that we can turn to though.
@DummyDanzDummyAdultFun20242 ай бұрын
Loneliness is a symptom of a Lack Of Self Worth. When one is truly okay with themselves and who they are, loneliness doesn't exist. It's a mindset that I wish everyone who has ever battled depression and/or demons would adopt.
@natesnautical9 күн бұрын
I've been at home nearly the last 3 years, lost my car, lost my job. Looking for work, and well, it's going slowly, but I reach out, call out, talk to people. I used to go to the gym to exercise but also just to see faces. There is so much craziness around, it's almost better to just stay home. Some people get things easy, some of us have to suffer through it. I'm not depressed, but I am tired.
@user-ke9bo6qe8k4 күн бұрын
My brother committed suicide alone at home last year.. I love this message, as it makes it clear that people care, even if they don't know you that well.. If he had known how loved he was, and how many lives he had touched without realizing it, he wouldn't have felt that emptiness, he wouldn't have left us..
@JoseFlores-kl6jm2 ай бұрын
RIP to that gentlemen ! I used to think that I needed a woman in my life to be complete. However, I finally learned to enjoy my own company because I know that I'm complete on my own ! The only thing that I'm struggling with is dealing with past trauma, but I know that God will do his part in my healing process.
@monk4ever2 ай бұрын
🙏
@Porkypies6m2 ай бұрын
eat steak and eggs exercise..focus on your own goals or create some if u dont have them already
@Jaysqeek2 ай бұрын
They in a better place because this is hell
@lovethyneibor227362 ай бұрын
omg it seems like u have a bit bigger brain than 95% of ppl
@louiemorales64592 ай бұрын
Hell is much much worse. This is literally nothing compared to hell.
@DevoidVoid2 ай бұрын
@@louiemorales6459 hell doesn't exist bro. This is about as worse as you could imagine. A social species of animal not socializing is like ironic if that's how all of us go out 😂
@Italian69Boi2 ай бұрын
they are where they were before birth: nowhere. I remember it it didnt seem that bad lmao. eternal peace lol. Only big ego people feel the need to make up shit to live forever in afterlives
@PineappaPres142 ай бұрын
@@DevoidVoidRespect people’s beliefs
@RebelivoidАй бұрын
When you said "You're not here to exist, you're here to live" I literally almost cried. Thank you so much.
@rioghbhardainmАй бұрын
This ended up being more toxic than I could've anticipated.
@Bobby_1012 ай бұрын
People usually want to help only after the thing happened. But they ignore all the signs and suffering that came before that and don't offer help or friendship or something in the moment when it actually matters.
@stevenbennett53272 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@IIIISai2 ай бұрын
Yup
@jlnapoleon2 ай бұрын
Yes it seems like couples, no one cares about single people without families in their neighborhood. Like it sounds like he unintentionally didn’t care. If you are single you are always going to them putting yourself out there to befriend them, but at the end of the day, would that even matter. It shouldn’t we have to keep at it for ourselves.
@larryphelps66072 ай бұрын
been dancing with clinical depression for seventeen years, can't see how waking up in hell would help.
@OldHats2 ай бұрын
😂 I like 420 to much to go to the upper room
@HammsterMusic2 ай бұрын
@@OldHats432 is higher
@tobyseals67332 ай бұрын
U dumb
@neoreign2 ай бұрын
shroomsies saved my life.
@1stTnetix2 ай бұрын
@@OldHatsif you thought that mattered to Jesus you weren’t gonna go as a monk Jesus’s Blood and repentance that’s it
@virtual2402 ай бұрын
Ive attempted suicide 3 times in life because employers and women are rotten.
@FirstAgentCJ7 күн бұрын
" its not going to be like this forever " - im 27 and its been like this since middle school
@cjeverydaydays24922 ай бұрын
Sometimes it’s not just loneliness, it’s feeling like you can never live up to the standards of yourself or other people as a man. It truly seems like it’s not okay to be average when by the rule of averages the overwhelming majority of people that have and will exist are average. I think a revolutionary idea is finding beauty in the average bc that’s our stories.
@nyegye16062 ай бұрын
He's in a better place now. Unfortunately, there is not always something you can do to fix a problem. It's okay, we all will die someday.
@S88S552 ай бұрын
Can i just say that maybe this earth is too cruel that we can just believe that he is in a better place somewhere else. He deserved better than being here
@nyegye16062 ай бұрын
@@S88S55I agree. It was wrong for me to have made the statement as fact. However, I am hopeful it is true
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
@@nyegye1606as long as you don't view the after life as some kind of snackbar paradise then your only being positive.. we really don't know what happens after, there are some possibilities.
@josephl67272 ай бұрын
If we are going with the Bible, the guy is in eternal hell.
@nyegye16062 ай бұрын
@@josephl6727 we're not going with the Bible
@ermelinda2223Ай бұрын
It’s not just bad for men but for women too.. loneliness isn’t just hard for men.. it’s for both men and women. I know because I as a woman face loneliness so much.. it’s all I ever have.. loneliness is my friend ... sad to say that. Yet here I am at 1 am.. feeling tired of life.
@RodneyBost-gw6eoАй бұрын
One day at a time.
@ermelinda2223Ай бұрын
@@RodneyBost-gw6eo yup isn’t that right. Hope you well!
@dyates63802 күн бұрын
My neighbor two doors down committed suicide about six years ago. He lived alone, was a few years older, give or take, than me, and I remember seeing his truck in the back driveway area in the same position and slightly askew spot for a couple of days and that struck me as odd, as he always was out and about and since his parents died he NEVER went on trips for extended times. He also had a motorcycle that he rode a LOT, and you'd always hear him coming and going on that Harley. Anyhow, I was talking to my next door neighbor right next to me on the opposite side from where his house was and commented on how I haven't seen Mark out and his truck is still in that same position. The very next day I got home from work and the same neighbor told me what happened, which is his brother came over because he hadn't heard from him in a few days and found him in the house. I guess it was pretty messy. Makes you think it can happen anywhere and to anyone. I've had my own struggles, as most of us have with those thoughts.
@beartrapaesthetic12102 ай бұрын
Amazing message Elisha. To anyone reading this, he’s right about every word. I’ve been to the depths! Bad mental health, hard times, you name it. If you’re reading this, I promise you, suicide is not the answer! Your life has meaning and the hard times can end. There’s always a way my friend. HIGH THUMOS
@SimonTrageser2 ай бұрын
Well said brother
@jessepinkman8762 ай бұрын
In a community connected more than ever people are more lonely and struggling more than ever. People used to be close with their neighbors and knew everyone that lived around them. They Looked out for each other, now people go years living next to someone and never even say a word to them. As people we need to make it to how it used to be again, get to know your neighbors spend time with them. Invite them over for a cookout or to watch a movie, play games or just hangout.
@IIIISai2 ай бұрын
People are shallow now, cant even made a bold joke or they look at u funny
@AverageJoe100629 күн бұрын
3 years in my new house appartment and i know only 2 people now, out of like 50 neighbours😂
@Butt-mk4wx2 ай бұрын
I realized recently that for men ... intimacy is a NEED. It's not a want. It's a need just like food, water, and shelter. It's in our DNA and we die inside without it. Unlike women, however, it's up to us to pursue. Love doesn't just fall in our laps. It's something we have to earn. The problem is that ... men are expected to pursue but we're also demonized for doing so. We get told we're creeps, so it's a lose-lose, shitty deal. Admitting that we need intimacy goes against what we were taught as boys, that we are weak for expressing our needs. It's all one big confusing contradiction which is why we choose to bottle it up, isolate and cope with drugs or porn, And then eventually, we kill ourselves. I'm so damn sick of feeling like shit, feeling worthless. We need to fight this is shit, reach out, believe that we matter.
@NB-yu4lj2 ай бұрын
That’s a courageous truth.💪🏾
@tiffanygafner97802 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this and putting this out there, if you need intimacy I got you❤people are individuals not to be generalized not all people believe you are weak
@jlnapoleon2 ай бұрын
I feel you. We have to stop trying to pursue and try to connect. We have to see each other as equal beings to do that. Women are tired of having to be grateful for a compliment based on appearance. They want to be seen as a person said hello my name is to. It’s not always going to work but it probably will with a good person that sees you as well and be ready to accept a woman doing the same to you I’m sending that wish your way.
@Beencouraged777Ай бұрын
Get out of that mindset of “needing” intimacy. Just carry on.
@Butt-mk4wxАй бұрын
@@Beencouraged777 Would you tell a starving man he doesn't need food? Or a dying man he doesn't need medicine? I could just 'carry on', but what kind of quality of life would that be.
@KEJx922 ай бұрын
The problem is life itself period anyone trying to justify this reality being good is extremely delusional
@winecrimesfoodandtime7119Ай бұрын
💯
@GUITARTIME20242 ай бұрын
53, marriage breaking down, zero friends. My main achieved goal was losing 20 pounds of fat over the last half year, thankfully. Looking for a local mens group to help others, tired of being self absorbed.
@user-wb2yv7ll9d2 ай бұрын
Rescuing a dog can help, not only does a dog provide amazing companionship but going to dog parks regularly is a great way to meet people.
@Kevin-eh9nd2 ай бұрын
Elisha, I’m gonna be honest I suffer from loneliness since middle school, I’m 25 now I live near nyc but work there. seeing people living life socializing hurts me, specially me that I work in the restaurant industry in the city while getting a career, I get to see people and friends socializing from a much closer perspective, it seems having friends, people to hang out with makes life a little better, don’t know if that’s ever gonna change from me but I keep trying hanging in life and looking in getting in shape.
@yellow_airman2 ай бұрын
I hear you man, I’m 30 I experienced a lot of the same. If you want more socialization you can get it with initiative, start talking to every person as if they’re your friend and see what happens. That’s my advice
@JohnnyWalkerBlack1422 ай бұрын
Brother just put yourself out there and make friends. Join a martial arts gym and get involved with clubs and activities. Join a church.
@loope94212 ай бұрын
Being lonely sucks man I can relate.try you’re best to reach out to others, sometimes others suffer just like us but taking that initiative can help you and others.
@OoLiiMiiT3D2 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you, no matter what. Having friends is good and great, but I had so many friends in my life and they all come and go. Jesus stays forever brother. There is a saying that a human can only find about 2 real friends in his life, and I absolutely agree with that. Many people call themselves friends, but how many would risk their health to save you? So a personal relationship with Jesus is the best thing you can do, because he got put on the cross for us and because of us. Thats a friend that stays forever 😊
@vinilzord12 ай бұрын
Hey man, I'm kind of in the same boat. Turns out I have ADHD and it makes adulting so much harder than it needs to be. Still figuring this thing out, trying to take care of my body, mind and spirit. Stay strong, and take one step at a time. I currently have zero friends, but this is temporary. Take care of yourself first, and things will slowly but surely fall in place. High Thumos.
@21stCenturySpaceOdysseyАй бұрын
AI, automation, job outsourcing. And it will only get worse. I'm an old guy...the idea of calling it quits becomes more inviting.
@ziggy33399Ай бұрын
Suicide isn’t like ANY OTHER KIND OF DEATH. It’s always a wake up call, man. To stay aware. STAY AWARE. Be the one who reaches out and involves someone else who brings another in… this is for you because you’re the one who’s left behind. Gotta DO things …bring them in your group. Be kind to each other, share & talk. Do it.
@paulwhite5332 ай бұрын
This hit really hard, there's already not many of us, shouldn't be diminished even further...
@universalredguard2 ай бұрын
That's a brave, courageous person. That person is in a great place now by doing something most people are too weak to do.
@xFlamingTacos2 ай бұрын
You are crying out for help, it’s ok man
@alexandrabellerose35502 ай бұрын
@@xFlamingTacos They aren't delusional, just speaking facts - most people don't kill themselves because it's scary and if it fails you will be vegetable for the rest of your life. Fate worse than death, they will force you to stay alive in that state. Most people are too privileged to understand for some life DOES NOT get better.
@xFlamingTacos2 ай бұрын
@@alexandrabellerose3550 or most people are too weak to understand that they have more power than they think to change their situation for the better. For example, if you look at the person’s channel that you’re agreeing with, the dude has silicon fuck dolls that are his companions, these are the type of people who spread the black pill and are lost in the sauce for a long time. Good luck
@universalredguard2 ай бұрын
@@alexandrabellerose3550yup
@yathercantillano38742 ай бұрын
These videos are cute and all, but for some of us. Literally. Nobody. Cares. You're probably dealing with trauma that came about or developed into mental disorders, and if you're also dealing with having to be markedly neurodivergent, it's literal nightmare mode. You try to seek help, and you're left disappointed and probably crushed by how much of a catch-22 everything is when you've fallen through every "safety net." You try to connect with other people, but you're brutally rejected because your social skills are rarely given the opportunity to develop(being neurodivergent also complicates matters), and this happens over and over.... where it's like you get shoved two steps backs for every foot forward. You get labeled a loser or whiner with a victim complex when you just tell it straight how life just seems to want you gone, despite your actual best and optimistic/practical efforts. Just world & survivorship bias aside, it's no wonder we suffer some of the highest self-disappear rates. I myself am thoroughly exhausted and it's unfortunate because I know this world needs people who strive to be virtuous out of genuine concern of not wanting others to go through the same pain some of us go through, but I'm losing this battle.
@Big_Tough_Guy2 ай бұрын
If you have a mother or grandmother, that's pretty much it for people who care. 100% bro. People might love you and mourn you though. I understand mental shit. I've survived an insanity that was too astonishing to describe. honestly though, I feel pretty content lately. I'm 35, I've had svlcldle ideation most of my adult life, and occasionally some very close calls. My life is retarded right now lol, but honestly... It's not bad. Might get better with age. (Might get worse too lol) I respect the hell out of what you said last.
@MolloyDadda247Luke27 күн бұрын
Just curious. What supports are available for people that are neurodivergent? Are there any community groups for you guys to join? Is there any medication you can take to support any triggers or low mood?
@karinab5784Ай бұрын
I was suicidal in 2021. Went into treatment for three weeks. Found a 12 step program Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families. Been participating for over 2 years. I’m also very close to God now. Slowly changing for the better Hope this helps.
@chs7522 күн бұрын
Congrats on making positive changes!
@user-oy1uw9yz4o2 ай бұрын
I love how you've made a lovely video helping others , changing a negative to a positive , you're the kind of friend I need
@AnabolicAsylum892 ай бұрын
The scarcest thing in the universe is self-love
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
Maybe for you🤷♂️ speak for yourself (what I did was improve myself until I found true happiness)
@AnabolicAsylum892 ай бұрын
@@iiyyxxnn That’s exactly what the fuck I meant, guess it went over your head.
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
@@AnabolicAsylum89 your insane
@Gabriel-ci8ex2 ай бұрын
@@iiyyxxnn*you’re Improve your vocabulary
@iiyyxxnn2 ай бұрын
@@Gabriel-ci8ex you don't deserve that
@PURDY_POISONАй бұрын
Im tired and have been crying out. Nobody gives a shit.
@GhostMonkey77227 күн бұрын
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real, it's impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me; it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES! "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest" Someone does, a lot more than you think kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e76Berd607bUiok.html
@m.g.83812 ай бұрын
Eli, most all of us older men have been around suicide. There is no good answer to it. I can tell you this, sometimes the person who is suicidal isn't aware of WHY they are that way. I found that common sweets, cokes, candy, junk food made me feel really depressed after I ate them. Some over-the-counter meds can cause some of the worst depression I have ever had. When I hit 55 I slumped into depression and considered killing myself. I found out about low "T" on the internet. I started taking a herb for body building called tribulus, within 8 hours I was my old self again. I take it to this day, it works every time. Years ago a friend killed himself, I still go to his grave and talk to him, he was addicted to sodas, 2 or 3 everyday. Didn't think about it then, didn't know they could cause depression. Every person should examine himself/herself, their might be a simple solution right in plane sight. Hope this helps.
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
You know man I truly believe that T is a huge factor. It is like the God molecule. I swear when you have High T it makes it easier to be optimistic.
@malikwillett50712 ай бұрын
I’ve been fighting this fight since I was 13. Somehow, I keep swinging. Just turned 30, still lost and still lonely, but somehow refreshed. I never thought I would see 30. More motivated now than ever to make something of myself.
@adriano57012 ай бұрын
Thank you Elisha for constantly reminding me to be more open to people and to not be shy, I'm 17 and back in my country people stare at me and they stay away. Probably because i'm 90 kg and i look like 25 and a full beard, i usually don't care about it, but sometimes it's sad because approaching people is harder also because i'm shy. Now that I'm leaving my country to pursue a career in robotics i feel more lonely in this foreign place, sometimes i miss my parents, sisters and dog but i came here to achieve my dream and to hopefully retire and pay my family back for their struggles, that's what keeps my going the vision that i had for myself since i was 10. I hope that being more open and smiling more will fix the loneliness problem. Thank you Elisha for your great advice, never stop.
@srjwari2 күн бұрын
Ive lost a friend from suicide and failed to end my life getting hospitilised in the process. I'm a bit better now. The sad fact is being a guy can really get hard, we are held to such a high standard and beaten constantly by everyone. Sad fact is.. most people are selfish & don't care about anything but themselves. There are good people and help groups out there for people but when you're at you're lowest that's the least likely you're gonna ask for help.
@pinky-ud1rtАй бұрын
My brother took his own life. My cousin and my second cousin did the same. LONLEYNESS IS HARD!!!!
@Nebulous12252 ай бұрын
I lost my childhood friend this way, 2 years ago this month. He had just turned 22. Still a difficult thing to make sense of. We grew up same town, same hobbies, similar size family. If there were some way to put my own life experiences that gave way to optimism into words, maybe it could've been different. I certainly tried but toward the end he had made up his mind, weirdly he was leaving the house more and opening up often in the last few months.
@alexandrabellerose35502 ай бұрын
lot of people before death get relief getting things out of their mind. It still depends on their personality, some isolate all their life and have equally isolating death.
@masonreed15192 ай бұрын
Elisha, you have been a voice of reason and positivity when I’ve been down. You are a man who has studied life through books and still formed your own voice. Your funny and a source of strength. When we listen we feel that we are living and learning with you. Thank you brother!
@ElishaLong2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the positivity Mason. Have a blessed week
@dont.ripfuller65872 ай бұрын
The hardest isn't the emotional swings, which is how it gets portrayed in art and music etc. It's when you survive that and reach a place where it makes the most sense from an objective, rational and calm state of mind.
@tiffanygafner97802 ай бұрын
Suicide is never logical.
@astraghost7742 ай бұрын
I survived three suicide attempts when I was younger. One technically succeeded but the rope snapped after I passed out. The primary reason (there were many) was loneliness/social isolation. It is pure torture.
@ultimateb13302 ай бұрын
I appreciate your videos man Time is passing is the biggest motivator for me. Hope you’re doing good bro