MY POLICE ACADEMY EXPERIENCE | FEMALE POLICE OFFICER ACADEMY EXPERIENCE

MY POLICE ACADEMY EXPERIENCE | FEMALE POLICE OFFICER ACADEMY EXPERIENCE | POLICE ACADEMY EXPERIENCE

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Hi guys and thanks for stopping by! My name is Melissa and I have been a police officer for 13 years. I am currently a lieutenant in a large metropolitan police department, but I remember my police academy experience like it was yesterday! It was filled with ups and downs, positives and negatives, but it was all worth the suffering to achieve my ultimate end goal! In this video, I share with you what to expect in the police academy process. From the physical requirements and training to being pepper sprayed, tased, and passing the physical agility course. I also discuss the firing range, EVOC, and SWAT week!
Thank you so much for your love and support! Can’t wait to see you in my next video!
Always,
Melissa
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@LinaHassan 2 жыл бұрын

Finally a female version I love it! Love your content. I love that your a mom with kids and giving this advice I really needed it being a mom of kids as well. I got Accepted to a police academy this June and I am excited to learn from what you’ve done. Much support from a supporter in Illinois.

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! That’s so exciting! Thank you so much for watching and your support. Keep me updated with how the academy goes. 💙

@biancab5224 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! I will be sent to the academy at the end of Jan! Super nervous but excited because it took so long to get this opportunity. God bless you always and I look forward to your future content.

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

The process is so long! Congrats to you! I’m sure you will do awesome!

@alysia3961 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Bianca!! How was it? ☺️

@loganstokesberry5044 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you LT! Amazing video. Thank you for covering these topics it helps tremendously!! Hope you and your family had an amazing holiday.

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You as well!

@tiagoo.7456 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome channel!!! Keep it up! TKS a lot for ur services!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much fir watching! 💙

@theone-gk4cm 3 жыл бұрын

Yo, love the videos keep it up 😁, and happy new year 🥳

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Happy new year to you as well!

@TheGrayChronicles 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome video!! Super insightful and quite well-said! Congrats on getting monetized (I noticed the ad lol 😆😃). I was wondering if you could do a video about finances as a police officer? So, how much you should be saving, salaries in relation to location, affording different items, middle-class?, rent, bills, etc? It would be really helpful to me!! Thanks, love the content 😊.

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Hello and thanks! There are so many people who are experts on finances on KZfaq! I surely am not but a few channels I have really found useful advice on are Marissa Lyda and Budget Girl. Both discuss moving out of debt and saving for retirement. I could briefly discuss benefits I have taken advantage as a police officer financially in my next Q & A. I would also highly suggest consulting with a financial advisor.

@TheGrayChronicles 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 Thank you so much for the reply!

@Reyaa03 2 жыл бұрын

I love how informative this video is. Thank you. Here in my town we don’t do the tase anymore thank goodness. Just the OC spray

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Really? How do you manage not being tased?

@Reyaa03 2 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 I talked to one of our local cops and he just said they don’t do it anymore at the academy 🤷🏽‍♀️

@huaethan05 Жыл бұрын

@@Reyaa03 weird normally if you use it you need to know what if feels like. So you know when it’s necessary to use.

@jy4356 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you girl! I am going to a different academy in the state, so I will have to stay! I am nervous but so ready!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome! I’m so excited for you! Yes, get it over with and learn as much as possible! ❤️

@sherazkhan1000 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 what do u have a degree in

@sherazkhan1000 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 how many years of service do u have and what age did u join the pd

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

My degree is in criminal justice. I have been a police officer for 13 1/2 years, I began with my agency when I was 21

@tacticverse3552 3 жыл бұрын

This is really interesting, In a good way. I'm medic school to become a volunteer medic, so yeah. GREAT VIDEO!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

That is so wonderful! Best of luck to you!

@AstridMinjarez Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this! It has been very helpful.

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

That’s great! Thank you so much for watching! 💙

@patrickpelle776 3 жыл бұрын

Love your videos Happy New Year

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Happy new year to you as well!

@sarahirodriguez1646 2 жыл бұрын

New subscriber here! I love your content.. I’ve been in corrections, I’m in Parole now and my goal is to be a cop this year :)

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome! I was a probation/parole agent before I became a police officer! It was a great opportunity and you bring a different insight to law enforcement! Best of luck to you!

@dcamnc1 Жыл бұрын

I went through 17 years ago. I was shocked how easy it was. I actually lost fitness in the academy. I remember only studying for the final state test, the rest was cake. EMT school was much harder imo.

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Really?!? What academy was that? And I believe you. EMT is difficult. My friend is working on paramedic now and I do not envy him! 💙

@zay4397 2 жыл бұрын

I start academy on the 17th supper excited. Love your videos, super informative. Thank you and stay safe.

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhh!!! So excited for you!!! Keep me updated!

@MySweetheart1998 Жыл бұрын

Going into academy in a few weeks. This was very helpful especially from the female perspective. Thank you!

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

That’s wonderful! Best of luck to you! 💙

@RustBruv 5 ай бұрын

Hey how did you do? Have any tips for me? I’m looking into the police academy right now.

@chabelyvillalona7837 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video! Could you recommend flats/loafers to wear with your suit when you first start? I’m having trouble finding a pair that’s comfortable

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

What do you mean when you first start? Like on first day orientation? Some agencies do that in dress attire, mine did not. We just wore our recruit uniforms…

@Cameroon110 3 жыл бұрын

Good video as always sister please stay safe out there I got your six 💙💙💙

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@ivanpetkov6706 3 жыл бұрын

I know I am writing it for 2nd time but can you make a handcuff demo and explain precisely how you put them - in what position the hands should be and how tight the cuffs should be? I have found some videos, but would like to know your opinion, cause you look really well experienced. Your videos are otherwise great!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

I am not a defensive tactics instructor, but I will see what I can do

@johnathanjohnson4174 2 жыл бұрын

I start the academy the academy this month on November 29th i know it’s a little late to study but anything to recommend to look over before I start the end of this month

@freshmanyuan1120 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the content.

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@jonathanguzman4893 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! New subscriber! ☝🏼 Anything you recommend studying? Like laws or anything you think will help me? I’m going to the police academy in Massachusetts in February. I wasn’t a good student in school but I am determined to be the best I can be to pass. Keep up these awesome videos !!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Your local state law would be good! There are so many great court cases to research that I should probably do a video on them all...(nerd alert- I love history! And find case law very interesting!) But some very good ones are: Tennessee v Garner Graham v Ohio Scott v Harris Tolan v Cotton Mullenix v Luna

@toast1200 2 ай бұрын

Not sure if you’re still checking these comments, but I’m loving your videos. I will be going to academy soon and tbh my biggest worry is being on my period - if I need to run to the bathroom for an emergency or cramps are affecting me. It’s usually only the first 2 days it’s really debilitating for me and I can mostly manage with ibuprofen but just wondering if it ever was an issue for females you know going through academy. Thanks for any advice or reassurance ✌️🙏

@copmom911 2 ай бұрын

Make sure you bring your medication of choice and super tampons. You’ll have to push through the cramps or if you are really concerned (I know some peoples can be horrible) I would talk to your doctor before you begin. See what they suggest to help with symptoms…you will do great!

@jenlisasweetner9840 4 ай бұрын

I have question I’m really bad at comprehended I’m more like show what to do type of learn cuz when it’s written I’m lost😢 I’m trying study but big words or words I never seen before throws me off

@ShawnA3104 2 жыл бұрын

I start the Police Academy in 4 more weeks; I'm Self Sponsoring myself through a Community College Academy here in Tennessee; It's only a 12 week Academy.... I'm nervous about Evoc.... I'm very book smart and have a great memory....

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Ugh, EVOC. I hated EVOC. We never drive like they told us to in that. Ever. But…listen carefully to the instructors and knock it out. You will do great!

@jasminmarie7521 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. I start Academy Feburary 🥳 is there anything you reccomend I study in the mean time ??

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I will work on a video on it! But your state law and case law related to law enforcement is a good place to start! So excited for you!

@longviewstud26 3 жыл бұрын

Great video

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@happygirl2667 10 ай бұрын

Do they keep on pepper spraying u or it’s just once

@simi8812 3 жыл бұрын

Happy New Year 😄🍾

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@triaxcoalition2349 3 жыл бұрын

I'm personally a Firefighter on Tower 10 with the Boston fire department. Not going to lie I almost was a cop, 6 years later I still love the fire service. And would never change it for the world but I still wonder what it would be like to sit in a patrol car all day. I just love the brotherhood of firefighting and that's why I would never change it for the world, I respect all the cops out there thing is people don't get is were all the same only I carry a set of irons and you carry a gun And I hope all you anti cops get were all human we all have families. #thinredline #thinblueline

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Much respect to you! My husband just retired from firefighting to be a full time dad to our boys...he still teaches and keeps in close touch with his firefighter friends. I am close with some my fellow officers but they share a very strong bond. I’ve thought more than once about fire, but my heart is in policing...I may take a few fun digs at firefighting in some of my videos. Please never be offended...just a fun rivalry 😃🚒. Stay safe out there!

@platinumhandymansolutions 2 жыл бұрын

Great videos. What did you do before the academy to prepare for PT?

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Thanks! Lot of running, push ups, and sit ups. But I would be doing more pull ups and cross fit type body weight exercises if I could do it again. The cardio really helped but a lot of upper body strength is needed for the obstacle course.

@Princenoahhh 3 ай бұрын

What steps should I take in becoming a police officer?

@alicjakowalska348 3 жыл бұрын

Even though I'm not affiliated with law enforcement, I'm very interested in your videos. You're a great storyteller 🥰

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you! I know just talking and sharing my experience is kind of boring. I wish I had some academy footage to make it more exciting but that’s not possible right now 😩 maybe one day, thank you for watching! ❤️

@alicjakowalska348 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 It absolutely wasn't boring! Even without photos, it's a great story ❤️

@paullybaby6391 2 жыл бұрын

I just got accepted have the written test next week and the PAT the week after but I’m not fit attt all can the give you extra time to get fit for the pat or would I have to reapply?

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

What is the PAT? A physical assessment? I would find out exactly what they require and start practicing what is needed as much as possible. Be as ready as possible!

@Ccand0 3 жыл бұрын

How did you get ready for push-ups? That’s the only thing I’m still struggling on

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

I did multiple sets of 20 throughout the day both before and on weekends during the academy. I started with multiple sets of 10, then multiple of however many more I could do up until 20. The more you do them, the easier they will get! I actually set a timer so I wouldn’t forget. I know it’s challenging though.

@RustBruv 5 ай бұрын

Hey just a couple questions!! I wear contacts too, how long after the OC were you able to put your contacts back in. My eyes are pretty bad lol, my contacts are -4.75 and -5. I have glasses too. What do you recommend? I’m interested in applying to the academy.

@copmom911 5 ай бұрын

They’ll make you remove your contacts…it sucked but I was just blind but brought glasses with for the drive home. My eyes were also bad at the time, not quite like yours. They will most likely make you remove your glasses to be sprayed as well.

@RustBruv 5 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for the info@@copmom911 Stay safe out there

@nevergiveup25godwithyou44 3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE 🚓👮🚨MISS DO YOU GET TO TAKE YOUR POLICE PATROL CRUISER TO YOUR HOUSE AND ARE YOU ALLOWED TO TAKE THE POLICE CRUISER ON VACATION OR RUNS ERRANDS WITH IT

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

I do not currently have a take home vehicle. It would be nice so maybe one day

@nitewing3271 3 жыл бұрын

(as you probably know now) Yelling and screaming is an attempt at stress inoculation...but if they are bringing that into the classroom, then that's sad bc it does affect concentration & information retention. A lesson the Marines already know, which is why Drill Instructors are not the primary teachers. People just need to remember, "Nothing lasts forever." Of all the pre-academy vids I've watched, this is the first to mention sore muscles after being tased. Great vid!

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, I understand the reasoning behind it. It was like that most of the time for us which for me personally did not enhance learning. I didn’t know that about marines but that makes a lot of sense! 👍 thanks for watching! 😃

@stevedodson7876 3 жыл бұрын

Was smoking allowed in the academy? I don't know if you smoke, but would it be better to quit prior?

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

It was not allowed. And I do not smoke. I would highly suggest quitting before doing an academy. The physical training is hard enough. I had a classmate who had just quit smoking and she had a very difficult time breathing during PT to begin with...

@ambershepherd2969 2 жыл бұрын

I can only imagine having to go through the academy or training in Quantico as a woman dealing with periods.

@jai_gaming565 3 жыл бұрын

Do u recon when I’m older I should be a police cause I’m not to sure if I should cause the main thing I’m worried about is cross fire

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Cross fire is a valid concern but I can’t say I hear it come up too too often...mostly in training so you learn to avoid it

@loganevans498 3 жыл бұрын

You look soooooo good! I can't believe that you're a lieutenant at a police station! If you dont mind me asking, what is your height? Not to sound wierd or anything. I was just curious, you look bigger than most women I've seen.

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Hello, yes I am bigger! I’m 5’8” but sometimes am measured at 5’9” 🤷🏼‍♀️

@farzanaemma Жыл бұрын

I start academy in November. This is helpful.

@farzanaemma Жыл бұрын

Why didn’t the females pass? Did they quit or were released?

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Best of luck to you in the academy! It is a challenging but rewarding time! 💙

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Both, some are unable to pass various aspects, especially firearms in my class and so many straight up quit

@gayleedwards318 Жыл бұрын

Does anyone have any thoughts about becoming a police officer as an older adult? I'm 42, and I have just started the process. However, thinking about if I may be too old at this point. The department I applied to does not have an age restriction.

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

No, 42 is not too old! It does not leave you with as many working years since public safety can be hard on your body over time and as we age, but if you strategize with what you want to do and how you are planning retirement, it is def doable!

@jtromans8307 Ай бұрын

I’m 37 and just filled out my application. Very early in the proccess. Stay strong!

@abigailmaris8071 2 жыл бұрын

What are you allowed to bring to the academy? Like what to pack

@copmom911 9 ай бұрын

Everyone's academy is different. They usually provide you with a list. If not, I would ask for one.

@emyywolf 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t know about the pepper spaying thing. I had Lasik done on my eyes

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

That’s a great point. I had lasik a few years ago and have not been exposed to OC since…I would ask your doctor who did the lasik. I’m not sure how long the full healing takes 😬

@Wolf-sb8jw 2 жыл бұрын

You'll be fine. I had PRK done. Went through military police training about a year later, got OC sprayed, didn't damage my eyes. Getting sprayed sucks terribly. But there won't be any long term damage to your eyes, promise.

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

@@Wolf-sb8jw thanks! I have no experience with the after with lasik!

@kaydentate 3 жыл бұрын

do u have a panic button in ur car or is it just on ur radio?

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Our cars also have emergency buttons. I’m uploading a Q&A soon and address this in more detail. 😃

@sherazkhan1000 3 жыл бұрын

ms i am currently a grade 10 student can i be an engineer and then become a cop

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Anyone can apply!

@jamesdelk8926 3 жыл бұрын

And I'm keeping my typing nice yes I want todo this so to help this world

@brittanylong4669 Жыл бұрын

Hey, sorry I know this is an older video, but I wanted to know a couple things. How should I dress for a federal LEO interview? What hairstyle is appropriate but not over-the-top? What should I pack for an academy, and what do you wish you would’ve had? How should I securely do my hair for an academy?

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Federal or local, I would wear business attire. Either a pant suit or nice dress pants and blazer. I would have my hair up in a bun. It doesn't have to be slicked back or extreme, just out of your face and professional. For the academy they will give you a list of what to bring. And as far as hair, braids feel most secure to me but my academy didn't allow them so you'd have to check the rules. I need to just do a whole video on hair styles for police work 😃💙

@Alex_74196 3 жыл бұрын

Why my county doesnt use tasers? Is that like something weird or kind of normal?

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

They are expensive for one, some agencies may not have the money. They’re also require training, record keeping and maintenance 😕

@Alex_74196 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 oh well I mean like maybe with the money like seriously they only have old cars and a new explorer thats it

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, it does depend on the jurisdiction and what resources are available

@Ganstergrom 2 жыл бұрын

Is it more physically? Then academic?

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Do you mean is the job more physical than the academy? If that is the question, then no.

@johnathanjohnson4174 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks I start the academy this month

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome! Congratulations! I’m teaching at our academy today…I love the new officer recruits and their great attitudes! Best of luck to you! 💙

@tryellgray7744 2 жыл бұрын

I started last week! It’s challenging but I know it will be worth it at the end

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome!!! Keep charging forward! Keep me updated with your progress! 💙

@johnathanjohnson4174 2 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 I ended up not getting accepted right before orientation started

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Why? What happened?

@jamesdelk8926 3 жыл бұрын

And fire fighting cars military and others

@yeseniag355 2 жыл бұрын

What happens if you get pregnant during academy training?

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Every agency is different but with ours the recruit would be placed on light duty status and training would be postponed. Our academy is extremely physically demanding and there is real potential for injury.

@molierresignoga Жыл бұрын

Sounds like my military training experience

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Then I don’t envy that! 😂😂😂

@hongkong6316 3 жыл бұрын

Have you ever used knee on neck? Or serious force against someone, like pinning them down or or beating them or hurting them in general?

@KoolAidDinkyTV Жыл бұрын

Umm bro …

@jamesdelk8926 3 жыл бұрын

Melinius what ever you said we're like born in 350s and early sixties

@myanicole2023 Жыл бұрын

How did you know you wanted to be a police officer? I was just sent an email by the police department to come in for the fitness test.

@copmom911 9 ай бұрын

I always had an interest in law enforcement but that interest really increased working in different criminal justice areas that were less hands on. It made me appreciate the hands on and excitement of law enforcement more! 💙 Best of luck on your test and process! Do you feel ready for it?

@RustBruv 5 ай бұрын

Hey how did it go? Did you get into the academy? Any tips for me? I’m interested in going through the academy.

@kevinj4517 2 ай бұрын

The logic of being sprayed escapes me…do you also have to be shot with a 12 gauge shotgun to know what to expect??

@copmom911 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I thought the same thing with being shot…it doesn’t always kill everyone. I will admit exposure is helpful because you have an idea of how it will affect you but I don’t think a full face spraying is necessary and that’s what they did to us 💙

@theprophetier7756 6 ай бұрын

I'm guessing she's an LT in Chicago or New York pd

@copmom911 3 ай бұрын

No on both of those actually

@anthonyp8466 3 жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm Anthony

@jamesdelk8926 3 жыл бұрын

People born in middle sixties are generation ex and seventies and eighties and 90s are also

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

Also what?

@jamesdelk8926 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 alot lazier guns all these 3d printers watch this video here I'll show you maybe you can do this too

@cyberlight22 3 жыл бұрын

are there any other officers in your family

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

No, just me!

@cyberlight22 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 Duse your department use the 10 codes Round Rock PD Duse not

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

We do not use 10-codes. We use a large variety of signals and codes combined with plain talk...I did an internship for over 2 years with an agency that did use 10 codes so I’m still somewhat familiar with them

@sherazkhan1000 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 do high ranks cops get security and other vip treatment

@sherazkhan1000 3 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 wy did u chose to be a cop my mom say dont be cause of salary but i wana right now i am in 10 th grade so what should i do miss.

@huaethan05 Жыл бұрын

OC is like a billion needles poking you in the eyes.

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Accurate! 💙

@momosesunohara6702 2 жыл бұрын

😃 hmm I think it’s time to change my mind on what I wanna be when I grow up- 😭 but it’s all the same-

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

Oh no, I hope I didn't steer you away from law enforcement. It's a very rewarding profession

@lollerz 3 жыл бұрын

if i was in a deaprtment or something i would wanna be a state trooper

@copmom911 3 жыл бұрын

State troopers are great! 💙

@TheOutCrowd143 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like Army basic training

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

I have never been in the military but my friend who have done both compare it similarly💙

@Rockcity829 Жыл бұрын

So they want to be like Military basic training. Easy!!!!!!

@copmom911 Жыл бұрын

😩😩😩

@leannamaguire6502 2 ай бұрын

I know I’m three years late, but I thought about a police officer, but I’m a female isn’t it dangerous

@copmom911 Ай бұрын

You’ll get training to teach you how to be safe!

@acrcco-owner4770 3 жыл бұрын

Do police woman have to keep their hair up so criminals don't pole it or if your cuffing someone on the ground you don't have to move your hair or so the people you pull over or arrest won't get lovey with you lol?

@Wolf-sb8jw 2 жыл бұрын

There is a grooming standard while you are in uniform. You cannot keep your hair down.

@shubhumyadav3856 2 жыл бұрын

You are so beauty with brain

@Wolf-sb8jw 2 жыл бұрын

Go away weirdo

@theone-gk4cm 3 жыл бұрын

Just spreading the word that God and Jesus are lord and savior

@shubhumyadav3856 2 жыл бұрын

Are you meerid

@TheTom41149 2 жыл бұрын

I'll bet most of the classmates that got injured were females.

@copmom911 2 жыл бұрын

Actually most were men! And we had a large amount of females in the beginning!

@TheTom41149 2 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 I can't expect someone that i'm stronger than to protect me unless the other person has a weapon and i don't and that's where a female cop can come in.

@TheTom41149 2 жыл бұрын

@@copmom911 I'm sorry but i wasn't trying to be disrespectful