കേട്ടിട്ട് തന്നെ കരച്ചിൽ വരുന്നു...എത്രത്തോളം പെയിൻ അനുഭവിച്ചു എന്നത്..അത്രേം പെയിൻ അനുഭവിച്ചവർക്കേ അതിന്റെ വേദന അറിയൂ 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Im unmarried.. But ended up crying after watching this😭 lots of love❤

I had the same condition in my pregnancy.. My stitch got worsenup and feeding became most painful thing... 🙁.. This video is too helpful and informative 💕❤️

When she was narrating her pain...I was literally crying😕!

When we see people on social media, it looks like you don't have any problems in life and it is so easy. But this was so real!❤️

I was really teary - eyed watching this video. We could actually see that pain, when you spoke about it. You are blessed to have a supportive husband. Can't actually thank mothers enough for the pain they actually go through for their babies. Thank God for them. ❤️ God bless you guys.

നിങ്ങൾ ഒരു ഭാഗ്യമുള്ള വൈഫ്‌ ഉം കൂടിയാണ്.... വിഷ്ണു ചേട്ടൻ big salute to you 😍

ഈ അവസ്ഥയിലൂടെ കടന്ന് പോയിട്ടുള്ള ആരും support ഇല്ലാതെ പോയ ഇപ്പോഴും ഇല്ലാത്ത അമ്മമാർ🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

The delayed healing may be because of infection.. My sister had same problem.. So i was so concerned about this during my post partum period and happened to know that some others got the same problem.. Im sharing this as it may helpful to some.. 1. Dont ever clean the area with cold water.. Always clean with saline hot water even at the middle of night(i used to store hot water in flask for this) 2. Do wash with v-wash.. Its good to maintain the ph 3. After washing dry it completely.. I used to dry using cotton cloth first, after that tissue paper to remove the residue water and made sure that the area is completely dry( even after evering peeing) 4. After every wash apply betadine ointment.. I used to made the caretaker to apply it properly twice a day.. After every cleansing i, myself applied it.. (3-4 times) 5. During my bath session i used sitz bath with saline hot water for about 20 minutes.. Add hot water if temperature of the water reduced.. I did all these with atmost care.. It should be done from the delivery day itslef.. If the pain is not reducing even after 2 weeks make a doctor consultation. May be you will get antibiotics to get rid of infection. Dont ever wait for one month..

I don't know why I cried at end of the video..u r great mommy be happy always...not only u every mommies are great and every kid are blessed

Thank you so much for sharing this!! I had similar experience when I delivered my baby boy last may amidst this pandemic. I had a very smooth pregnancy and delivered my baby through C section and physically everything went smoothly. But this pandemic severely affected my mental health. To add to my dilemma, my breast didn't produce enough milk and my baby was always hungry and looked thin. People commenting on his weight added to my woes. I hated breastfeeding and always felt bad about the fact that my breast couldn't satisfy my baby's hunger. The pandemic and lockdown made it worse since my husband could not meet me during my delivery. I had anxiety attacks and couldn't sleep at all due to nightmares. Thankfully speaking to a counsellor, husband and family helped me sail through it. Love to all mothers who go through so much physical and mental pain to bring a life❤️ Yesterday on mother's day,was my baby's first birthday. Unfortunately, we have been detected with covid. But this year, I am stronger and hoping that this too shall pass❤️

I can't stop crying 😭... Silpa chechy u r an awesome mother❤️...

My daughter is 1nd hlf yrs old now ...I'm still going through the depression...no one is supporting me...my family is not aware of this situation...I literally told them and my husband about this...I jzt cried and said I'm in depression..but no one cares...so I am keeping my self bold and says my self 'this too shall pass'...waiting for a good and better beautiful tmrw

As you mentioned, your greatest support is your husband. Even doctors sometimes don't understand their spouse's post partum depression. You are blessed. May god bless you more

I couldn’t watch this without crying... May god bless you❤️ An 8 month’s old babies mom can easily understand and relate what you said❤️

First time seeing the 2 part of video without skipping and listening to each n every wrd with utmost attention...Very genuine one..both of u...pregnancy and post partum feelings ennu parayunnath no one can describe it..bcz its a feeling dat which is unique for everyone. I also have undergone almost the stitch issue after my c section for 6 mnths...waiting for more videos...

ആ ഭർത്താവിനെ ചേര്‍ത്ത് പിടിച്ചോ ♥️♥️♥️

I gone through postpartum haemorrhage after my delivery. The stitches were so heavy and really painful, I can’t walk, sit, feeding my baby. I took around 4 months to come out from postpartum depression. Even you know like you said I didn’t thought I can’t be never normal and happy the way I was before. I overcome with my family support and my mental stability especially my MOTHER👩‍👧now my baby is 6 month old happy and safe. So all mom out there happy Mother’s Day

Can’t even imagine how someone goes through all of this. The saddest part would be when none of the family members accept the situation but also require the new mom to be active and helping others instead of crying for help and faking pain for attention as some would call it. Being empathetic and kind will be of great help I guess.

Woow .. I feel more and more people should come forward and share such experiences!!! New moms should know that it is quite normal to experience such post partum issues and should know wen to reach out for help... I had experienced the same issue including hugging my hubby late night out of my helplessness☹️☹️☹️ could relate to this 100% 🤘🏻🤘🏻u have done a great job by opening up 👌👌

Aa naalukal orkumbol thanne pediyavunnu....sleepless nights....inni oru jeevidham illa sandhosham illa ennu thonni thudangiya sthalathu ninnu njan thirichu pidichadhu ente life aanu...postpartum depression overcome cheydha oru penkuttiye jeevidhathil mattonninum tholpikan aavila....ennum aval strong aayitu nilkum....

ഞാനും രണ്ടു വാവകളുടെ അമ്മയാകാൻ തയ്യാറായിരിക്കുവാ. Waiting for that moment...❤❤❤❤

Thanks for doing this video. Everything you said about your wound not healing. I went through the same thing. I live in the US, and over here they won't give any medications topically to heal. So for my 6 week postpartum check I told my doctor the wound is not healing well, but she took lightly and I dealt with this issue until 5 months. I never got a chance to look down there with a mirror because of taking care of newborn and I had no help due to covid rising. When I finally checked it was terrifying. So I had to go back and get it refixed and yes, the anesthesia pain was more painful than labor. They call it vaginal polyps and not alot of people talk about this. You explained if wonderfully and this will definitely prepare some of the unfortunate people who will need to go through this 😔

Thank you for bringing the other side of postpartum..I myself like many others didn't knew that there are mothers who have went through hell after delivery because of the breastfeeding, mental torture by relatives..In movies we have only seen the happy part after delivery, so postpartum changes came as a shock to me and was crying for every small thing..It is so necessary to educate the young mothers and their family about postpartum changes as well... Much love to you for coming out strong after going through so much of pain...

I am 7 months pregnant. My eyes also filled with tears when i see this video .Thanks for sharing your experience.❤❤

💓 it’s the Time to talk about And speak out what we go during those tough time. Perinatal depression awareness is way more important during these days. The way you explaining your journey is so deep and heart touching 💓 Much love. Stay healthy n be safe 💐

Hearts of all mothers all women, hatts off❤️ Amma😘❤️

Hii shilpa. ഈ വീഡിയോ കാണുമ്പോ കണ്ണ് നിറഞ്ഞു . ബോഡി ഒരു വിറയൽ ഒക്കെ വന്നു . കാരണം ആ experians പറയുമ്പോ നമുക്ക് ആ pain feel ആകുന്നു . ഡെലിവറിpain 1or 2days കൊണ്ട് മാറും . ബട്ട് സ്റ്റിച്ച് 😡ഓർക്കാൻ കൂടേ വയ്യ . എല്ലാം മനസ്സിലാക്കി സപ്പോർട്ട് ചയ്യുന്ന ഫാമിലി husband അതാണ് ഏറ്റവും important . depression ഒരു സംഭവം തന്നെയാ . അത് serious ആയിട്ട് എടുത്തില്ലേൽ prblm തന്നെയാ . നീ മാത്രേ പ്രസവിക്കുള്ളു . ഞങ്ങളും കുറെ പ്രസവിച്ചതാ . എന്നൊക്കെ പറയാതെ awark സപ്പോർട്ട്ആയിട്ട്‌ നിൽക്ക . അവര്ക് അതാണ് ഏറ്റവും വലിയ ഹെല്പ് .

Very well said 🙏 appreciate u and ur husband sharing ur experience..this will help a lot of parents , and other family members to know more about pp depression. Like u said life partner plays a major role during pp depression. Would appreciate if others can also bring awareness of pp depression within ur friends circle and family members.this will help a human being to come out of their situation 🙏

Kudos to you!! You are such a brave mom and a very powerful woman!! I could totally relate to this. I had similar experience; it took one month for me to sit properly and walk without shooting pains and my endless secret emotional scenes. It took more than 3 months to accept what I had to go through. All these preparations and readings didn't help me much. Talk about your pain, cry out and let it out👍🏼 There will be people who ignore your pain and give damn advices on feeding and what not and torture you in all possible ways....just ignore. Take care of your physical and mental health, just focus on your baby.....Love yourself ❤️

ചേച്ചി അനുഭവിച്ച വേദന എന്താണെന്നു ചേച്ചിക്ക് മാത്രമേ അറിയുള്ളു... പക്ഷെ ഇത്രേം ചെറിയ വീഡിയോയിലൂടെ പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കിത്തന്നതിന് ❤️❤️.... Thnx a lot chechi.... Really heart touching.... Secnd partil control vittupoyi😌😍

Its wonderful to see how you both took time to express these things with utmost sincerity❣️

Ithu kanuna ororutharum shilpede kude karayunundavum.. Like me😊

For my first pregnancy I had post partum depression and I was not aware of it.. I suffered in silence blaming myself. For my second pregnancy, I prepared to face it. This time no depression but I suffered from post partum anxiety.. Anxiety too is something to be taken seriously

Really heart touching chechiii... All respect for ur vishnu chettan and amma🥰🥰🥰

ഇതൊക്കെ കേൾക്കുമ്പോൾ ഞാൻ എന്റെ അമ്മയെ 🙏🙏🙏🙏 നമിക്കുവാ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I also face the same situation...my stitches healed after 35 days...I can imagine your situations...proud of you shilpa..💓

Njn same situation anubhavichatha. Aarkum manasilayila.Last my mom aanu depression aanenu identify cheythe... Ipom therapy eduthu.All good now. video adipoli ayirunu. Stay safe and happy❤️❤️

U guys are so supportive to each other Touch wood My chettan is also supportive and bcz of which am still able to move on 👍🏻 in my 36 week need all your prayers

ഇത് കണ്ടപ്പോൾ scissarian ആയിരുന്നു എങ്കിലും മറ്റു പ്രശ്നങ്ങൾ ഒന്നുമില്ലാതെ 2 ഡെലിവറി കഴിഞ്ഞതിൽ ദൈവത്തെ സ്തുതിക്കുന്നു.😊🙏

You poor thing , especially regarding the stitches 😞 it’s wonderful your hubby as a doctor was also helpful, take care

Chechy thank you so much..l wasn't able to control myself 😭.Now l understood the worth of my mom .l can't thank you enough even when I am typing tears are falling down

Same situation... Restiching ohh God it's terrific... Depression indayii... Suicide cheyan vare thonni... But my hubby and parents support and safe me from that.... Arkum varathe irikatte... 45 days eduthu complete recovery.. Sleeping is very important.....

My stitches got healed after 2 months due to stitch allergy as you told. I suffered postpartum anxiety followed by depression for around 5 months. The corona situation made it worse.. Thankfully, my whole family supported me during this and I joined back to work to get my mind diverted.. It helped me a lot. Now, I'm a happy and proud mother with my 1 year old angel.

Great awareness and msg dear Shilpa...For all the pain you have endured,I feel so sorry..Big salute to hubby for supporting Shilpa at her painful times,beauty of your relationship is that he was the first person you ran and held when you were in pain.

I feel sooo sad for all the pain you have been living with... And so proud about being able to withstand it... Even if there is no pain and difficulties after your childbirth, its very difficult to maintain our mental stability.

Ohh god, I can c myself thr talking to me. Same things were happened to me. My postpartum depression was too bad. I just come out from that. Now I’m really excited about everything in my life. Thank you Shilpa

Never thought that u r such a strong person....could feel ur pain in each n every word u said....respect u my dear fr ur courage...n u r truly lucky to have such a caring family😍

Ente chechii ❤️u r an amazing mom ....❤️nothing more to say...I am not even married yet..but this made me cry😭❤️

I'm single. But after watching this video I was crying😢😢. Nammade okke ammamaru enthu mathram pain eduthu aayirikkum namukku janmam thannirikkunnathu.... Luv you chechi❤️❤️luv you a lot ❤️❤️Mothers daykku thanne ee video kanan patttiyappo entho vallatha oru feel❤️❤️ HappY MotherS DaY❤️❤️

Hats off to you and ur husband.Lots of prayees😊

Recently I gave birth to baby boy....ur words r so inspiring...I think most imp thing is the ability to handle post partum depression is more adventures than labour pain

Literally i was crying throughout the video... bcoz, i had already gone through the same...assame as your situation, my husband stood by me.... 💛💛💛

Chechi de story kettappo exact ente pole thonni...21 years il njan ithu face cheythappo ithonnum paranju tharan arum illarunnu...lots of love chechi♥️♥️♥️

it was really heart touching while you present each terrible situation that you cone over...😭 may god bless every mother's in the world

U are an amazing woman..Yamika will be so proud to have u as her mother..

Woww..supperbbb..love u

Usually i am not that much fond of actors or familiar KZfaqr's videos, because of the pseudo version of themselves they present, fake lifestyle they portray and their constant concentration on brand promotions... But from the very first video itself, u are different, u are just being urself and already loved ur videos for that♥️ And today, this is so intense chikku...thank u for this beautiful episode , love and hugs♥️♥️

I'm literally in tears😭 Hatsoff to all mothers out there❤

Mine was ceasarian but i am proud to say that i started walking 30 minutes after reaching my room. I couldnt get up from my bed due to pain but i conquered it. My husband and mother was trying to help me but i couldnt get out of my bed. I did it on my own

Respect you dear.. For me, waiting to be pregnant for the first time. This video is really inspiring.

chechy 🥰 words are not enough.. God bless you abundantly 🥰

Ohh dear, i'm in my 3rd month of pregnancy ... I cried after hearing your story... You still have tears on your eyes when talking about the days you suffered, which means you suffered that much pain... May god bless all the mothers & may give them the strength to face everything...

Hi Shilpa. Appreciate your sharing your story. Im sure a lot of mums out there would be able to relate to your experiences. I just wanted to raise a small point about your observation that the only way to establish successful breast feeding is to just work through the pain. In fact, breast feeding is NOT supposed to be painful, and neither are constantly cracked and hurting nipples; atleast not to the unbearable extent that you’re describing it. If a woman is suffering such pain, it is time to see a lactation consultant and get advice re how things may be improved. It may be as simple as using a nipple shield or assessing the infant for a tongue tie etc, or expressing breast milk so that the infant may be bottle fed. I stress once again that breastfeeding is NOT supposed to cause you pain. It may be uncomfortable or cause soreness initially. The kind of ‘put up with it’ is an unsafe message imho and can contribute to postpartum adjustment issues in the new mum.

I'm glad that you are sharing this, people should know..... What a woman goes through during pregnancy and after delivering the child. This is your story and other moms have their's.

When I saw pearlys vdo I thought wow so easy... But this situation also does exists... Thanks for sharing.. the courage to speak out 👏

Truest inspiring Shilpa ❤️. Kudos to all Moms.. we all gone through similar problems ..

No words, may God bless you and others who have gone through this and going through this situation 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

OMG Shilpa.. I saw this video just now and tears literally rolled down my cheeks because I had the same experience as a new mom - the ever unhealing sutures which took almost 2 months to heal with lots of potassium permanganate sit baths, and such; the biting pain when my child took his feed, the fearful sight of my baby demanding milk, the moment I screamed at my child at a moment of distress due to lack of sleep, the yells I did to my parents for labeling me of not sufficiently producing BM where actually my baby was catching up with weight well ahead. The one and only pillar for me throughout not to slip into PPD trauma forever was my husband and a couple of true friends. I could relate so much to this video and now when I recall all these incidents from 3 years ago, it still brings tears to my eyes because no mother could ever forget these moments of self doubt, guilt and helplessness against what we could have picturised in our minds as cuddling with our newborns and pampering them. I wish every mom gets the support from their family to overcome PPD and I also wish that our hospitals give awareness classes to the expecting couples on PPD, the importance of breastfeeding and how to face the struggles in it, etc. You have been touching my heart through your honest videos like this. Much much love to you and ur family. Stay blessed. - Jaisa ❤️

It's really explaining The value of a mother .... You and all mothers are GREAT

I had gone through the same situation..it was terrible to handle that situation in my husband's home without my mom..but my mother in law treat me very well..but i realised what is motherhood...my husband support me very well...now my baby is 4.5 yr old.so nice of u shilpa and ur husband...🥰🥰🥰🥰stay blessed ...

I had the same situation ! I had c section and and was in deeeep pain ! Couldnt feed baby properly had nipple cracks . Could sit couldnt lie down coupd turn around in bed . Feeding the baby was the biggest nightmare . Then i fell into depreesion on degrading myself as a bad mother who thinks its burden to feed baby .. my pain wasnt going away ! Nobody is aware of PPD ! I think more people should talk on it . We met our gynec and she asked us to see pschuatrist on diagnosing ppd ! But my mother refused me to take to psychiatrist as its social norm saying wat if someone sees us ..I APPRECIATE YOU on talking about ppd as its not known to many people ! PEOPLE MENTAL HEALTH IS AS IMPORTANT AS PHYSICAL HEALTH !!

Every husband's and father to be should hear and understand this

I was exactly in the same situation & I had this same allergy to stitch & I was going through a hell lot of depression!! Not a single person was there for my mental support!! Somehow I managed to come through al these!!! Even now after 4 years I get back to these bad feelings sometimes!!

My eyes filled with tears...because iam also experience that situation....nw iam happy being a mother

Cried watching the whole video... In fact, tears flowing typing this now... Experienced a similar fate, though it was a c section... Like ur vishnu chettan, my mom nd retheshetan were my strongest pillars... None of the sisters used to clean me but my husband.. All the staff nurses were so proud of my husband and told my mom that I am the luckiest to get such a husband.... Dont want to rem those days but grateful for what god has bestowed on us... A beautiful child and an even beautiful partner for life💞 god bless u shilpa, vishnu chettan nd yami baby😘🙏

I was crying when i saw this..u r really a gem❤️

Thanks for sharing this. I can't stop crying when I watch this . Now I'm a big fan of both of them . Chechi ur blessed with a lovable caring husband 😍

What u said about nipple crack is true.. for me also it was very painful, but I did not stop feeding... for me it was c section.. truly motherhood is a blessed moment.. but nobody know how he'll is postpartum depression.. best medicine is support from husband and family.. sometime a hug or kiss can change our mood... delivery and post delivery is not only a mother's part.. it's a process and support of a complete family.. god bless dear

Shilpa chechi...felt very good listening to you..PLS DO A VIDEO ON PCOD / PCOS AND ITS TREATMENT . I think this would help many girls including me .

So Touching❤️❤️

Super jodi ❤❤❤ Very supporting hus....

I'm mother of 2 year baby. I can also relate this. My breast underwent pus and it's so terrible that days. I also thought I cant overcome from that. But after a few months everything went fine. So dear mothers don't worry too much and share your problems with your doctor and get out off it soon. Happy motherhood

I was also go through the depression stage . It was very difficult . AIthough i am From medical feild still It was not identified quickly and i suffered alots . I was sharing to all my friends so that It will help them . I think all the family members should aware about it especially husband because mine he doesn't have any idea at all about it . Thanks for sharing .

I too told my doctor labor pain was too easy comparing to that stich pain😣

So much touching ❤️

I can see and feel myself in you..the only thing is the story was different..But I just wanted to say 'postpartum depression' is very very real..

My same situation.. except about re-suture, mine was unidentified fissure happened during delivery which got diagnosed only after 54 days...aa 54 days il njan anubhavicha pain...just like you said the physical pain took over all other pains..plus my husband was not there with me (he was abroad).all this put me to deeeep postpartum depression.. Feed cheyyan pattatha avastha..life orikkalum pazhayapole avilla enna feel.. absence of husband's presence...all this was helll ...my worst months..i never felt the happiness of being a mom for almost 3 months... After the healing period , and being back with my husband..i recovered from my depression.. Now Alhamdulillah iam enjoying motherhood with ma baby n husband being my side... 💖

Love you shilpa❤ Each and every word you spoke about is really true.. I am indeed proud to be a mother. A big shout out to all mammmas out there!! We are real warriors 💪💪

Tears out more respect to both of you❤❤♥️♥️

Watching dis vdo at early morning.. can't hold my tears. I think you are a warrior Shilpa. couldn't hold my tears. Only you know how much you suffered ..from your eyes it could be read out.howbad days you went through.. anyhow you are a blessed women, wife and Mom. Hope you are much happy with yamika ❤️ no words to say. Only hats off to you ❤️🔥🔥🔥... much impressed vdo👍

Great video I can connect but many people even my mother didn't understand me it was so horrible thank you Shilpa for sharing ur video n creating awareness

I randomly saw your video. I had postpartum anxiety after my first baby was born. My baby had feeding issues. But by God’s grace, I came out of it. During that time, I had a feeling that I am not loving my baby enough. There was a burning anxiety in me. It was there for 3-4 months. But, those days will pass. If you feel you need medical help, pls go for it. But support of husband and family members are most important. Even the small conflicts between them will make your situation bad. Now my son is 5 yrs and I have a 6 week old baby. I was bit worried when I was pregnant with my second child, whether it will come back. But by God’s grace, I was perfectly ok. We are settled abroad and due to corona, no one could come for help. I had C section as well. But, everything is going well. I understood there is a solution for everything. Stay strong my friends. This day will pass. Once you are out of this you will enjoy the motherhood like anything. The best feeling of your life 😊 Good job Shilpa. People need more awareness. Happy that you shared your experience

Njn karaju poyiii kettit... God bless u chechi

Heart touching video ❤️. Hat's off to every mother in the World ❣️

Hai.. Dear chechi ❤️you shared such a good information..sharing our life experience is better for others..God bless you chechi🤰🤱

This is too good shilpa.. I myself was a victim of post partum depression and i had to undergo this for almost two years.. Only after a few months that i realised that am under pp depression.. I wouldn't have been in this stage if my husband wasn't there.. He held me up in my bad times and stood for me and trust me now we have an awesome bond much much better than what we had before having our baby..love to you 🥰🥰

So much of respect to both of u especially Vishnu chettan ✊ .. Chechi u r truly blessed with chettan 🤞🏻 Lots n lots of love ❤️

Ethu kettappol orupad santhosham thonni.u r really such a amazing mother and wife..ethupolulla budhimuttukal ellathe yaamikk orupad unnivavakal undavatte.ennit oru happy pregnancy story vivarikkan pattatte.

The way she present....Fabulous❤️🙌