I'm glad the mom was brave enough to divorce such a trashy man

_"my son is my pillar, and my daugter is my comfort."_ *the most beautiful piece of poetry that i've ever heard*

*lets be honest, the comment section in these videos solve their problems seriously more than the show ever will* 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

this is such a nice, realistic concern that isn't just black and white

You guys aren't understanding that both of them have issues from childhood, it's not just that the sister is bad. The brother never got an apology from his father and so he is probably somewhat sensitive about it and he seems to be hard on her and a little too controlling. But the sister has a problem apologizing because she felt like she always had to be apologetic to her brother as a child but nobody was ever apologetic to her even though she was regularly left home alone with a neglectful father with nobody there for her at a young age and nobody ever said sorry to her - in fact, her brother was resentful towards her. I think they just need to understand each other a little better and they can learn to compromise. She can learn to apologize when she knows it's needed and her brother can learn to let it go sometimes. They obviously care about each other and I think after talking about their feelings stemming from their childhood they can work this out.

I think I can understand both of them. The brother just wants his sister to be the best version of herself. Maybe he doesn't know how to act because he never had a proper example with his father. I hope both of them will try to understand each other and to make the life better to the mom

I think even if you didn't do anything wrong, it's always best to apologize if you unintentionally hurt someone else's feelings. It's just about being the bigger person, not about winning or losing. At the end of the day, you know for certain that you did a good job in resolving a conflict in a mature and responsible way rather than stooping to the low standard of fighting back with someone who has no intention of recognizing his/her faults.

"Now that I'm grown up, I feel bad for the old me" that made me cry so hard! I has abused when I was a child too, when I remember that I feel so bad for the baby me, I really wish someone was there with me to protect the small me when I was hit and scolded and comfort me when I was so scared and alone.. It hurts a lot to remembers those things, I feel bad for the old me

Don't play with sensitive person, cause it might fun to you but not the others. Even small little things, such as you don't say "sorry" sensitive person will always remember, and it's still hurt inside. Just try to deal with it and say "sorry". I'm sensitive and I know how it feels.

In my opinion, I feel that as the sister was always favoured by the dad, the brother sees her as a resemblance or a part of him. Hence, he always asks for apologies or scolds her because he technically wants that from his father.

Hes sister has a lot of pride never bowing of an apology

Hello. Sorry . Thank You. That 3 simple phrase are magic words. don't be too shame to say it.

The drums they play every time they butt heads has me crying 😂😂

I think this girl is lucky to have a brother that looks out for her and care abut her instead of their dad😒😒he just wants to acknowledged by his sister,how didnt she understand that😶

I do understand both of their points but deymmmmmm... the sister is so good at deflecting confrontation.

Honestly it was annoying how they kept laughing at the brother and all hopped onto the sister’s side just because she cried. So what he’s a bit sensitive? If you do something wrong, even if it was unintentional you should still apologize just for being the bigger person, it’s nor about winning or losing. It’s really not that hard to just give a quick apology, thats all he wants.

I think this guy deserves sorry 😐 I’m not sensitive and usually just let go of small conflicts. But being late to work, dozing off, playing on your phone and don’t apologize even got mad because she think the brother is big wuss is so spoiled. Just because she is his sibling, does it means it’s okay for him not to pay for her work? No. So she got paid, but because they are sibling it’s okay for her to often be late and treat her job and boss like this? Apparently Yongja and some of the hosts think so. That’s so biased. I think what make him more annoyed is not because she didn’t apologize but because she look like she doesn’t feel a bit of guilt and doesn’t show remorse. All the time they speak, it looks like she blame it all to her brother sensitivities and her past.

I think many people have stories like theirs. People who don’t want to become like a version of their parents end up being one because they develop other extreme behaviors. I’m more like him and the day I noticed I was too sensitive because of my insecurities and traumas I became a happier person. I stopped placing the blame on others, and instead look for ways I can solve the problem and what lessons I can learn from that. And I also realized people aren’t against you, they’re for themselves so it’s unfair to ask others to put my interests and emotions before theirs. They’re both good people that need more communication skills and forgiveness towards their father who still affect them negatively.

I feel like the family needs to get some counseling because they are both left with broken pieces of their childhood that still effects them. Like the brother holds a grudge against the sister because their father never beat her, so he seems to take his anger towards his father out on her (Not physically but emotionally). While she was always left alone due to which I think she started to focus her anger towards her brother since in her mind, he was the reason she was left alone. And I also think she knows that she is wrong and wants to apologize but unconsciously her emotions hold her back. Thus they both have frustrations and pent up emotions that needs to be talk about and dealer with.

They are a cute family. There is a lot of love there.

I love Yongja for her joke but she often gives advices that I don’t agree 😓 She like blaming and asking the brother to be more understanding and sacrifices more for his sister. To be honest I think even though it’s your sibling shop, if you work for them and received money from them you should do your job. What is the meaning of understanding that the sister will be late again and that’s why the brother have to pick her up to show more care? I relate more to the brother to be honest. If she date and she could work as usual it’s okay but go to date and using it as an excuse to be late and dozing off on the workplace next day is not acceptable. And the sister doesn’t feel any guilt by this. That’s the worst. I don’t think she know she is wrong and just think that her brother is a big wuss when it’s normal to be scolded because of this in real life.

I don't get it. All the things the brother wanted an apology for are things that people are supposed to apologise for. It's basic.

25:22 the way he looked at him was too cute for my heart to handle

Honestly I feel like they both raise some concerns. This conflict is being created because of the both of them. Of course they have deep resentment towards one another because of what happened when they were younger (their father was absolute trash), but I think that this can be changed with communication. They need to stop trying to change the other person and actually compromise. The things they’re fighting about aren’t important and they’re wasting time and stressing their mom out. He’s a bit too sensitive and she’s a little too laid back. Instead of trying to one up each other with their concerns, they would actually get somewhere and listen to each other.

I just cried watching this show last week and I'm at it again huh I can't help it 😢😢 That Dad ruined the relationship between his children but I hope that now as grown ups u will be able to be on the same page..🤗

I didn't buy the sisters story, mom only took brother out because dad only violent to the brother, sister even take advantage of dad's abusiveness toward his brother.. she made a lot of excuses, out of store for 1 hour to chat with fashion shop?? What kind of excuse is that. Lazy at work, never apologize, the hosts forgot it because the sister plays a victim card to shift the pity to her.. it is my opinion since i was once like her..

It’s really difficult to comment on this because I understand both sides. They are both still fucked up over their abusive childhood. It’s just the saddest thing.

This will be a good example for the previous family, when a parent treats one child better or worst, it will always be a resentment to one of them.

I have a similar past as this family. I was never apologized to by my father for the things that he did. Not that he was a drunk, but he often got angry and would demand to get his way all the time. You don't realize how it affects you until you get older. Sadly, when you feel that someone is disrespecting you (like him thinking the waiter threw the dish down on purpose) you start losing your temper - just like your father. I have been the one to apologize to others, but sadly, they don't often apologize to me. But now, I want to stop having a short fuse and this episode shows that everyone is human and has their own story as to why they do things. Recognizing why you get angry can help. Maybe after this, the brother will think more about their shared past and change.

I don't agree with how nearing the end, whenever the brother tries to explain his side of the story, they just brushed him off..?

Why are they trying to give his sister a free pass????? If she's wrong she is wrong regardless.

She just manipulated the situation by saying she was hurt when her mother comforted her brother after a beating! Please, are we also going to ignore the fact that she used her father's abusive behaviour towards her brother to her advantage? She wasn't neglected. She was obviously daddy's girl! She was just upset that she wasn't the centre of attention!

when he said that beef and pork are her comfort it made me laugh so hard hahahaha

I empathise both the siblings' situation and they grew up so well supporting their mother and showing love to each other. But that sister is annoying... "Why should I be the one who should apologise always?". Errr, because you made mistake...as simple as that. Brother is trying to be the father and being very "old fashioned" they said... Don't y'all think we all for once in our life had blame our parents for setting so many rules, applying so many restrictions and etc? My point is, you'll never understand parents reason for doing all that, but it's always for the best. In this concern, I feel the brother is in the same position where he get hated for his restrictions... But the sister will understand him one day

I think it’s really wrong when the sister does something but then calls him sensitive. She’s gaslighting him

My brother never apologize to me too... he just ignored me like I’m not exist even when it’s his mistake and it’s hurt as hell

the sister makes no sense. if she felt sorry in the past for her brother to be beaten then why is she still treating her brother wrong by not showing care when he hired her in his company and she was slacking off??!! i think shes trying to be the victim and not accept the fact that she's taking advantage of her brother helping her.

My siblings and I never apologize too, we fight and getting along on the next day, I think, we just too awkward to say sorry since my parents never say sorry too 🤷

The mom saying that the son is her pillar and her daughter is her comfort is part of the problem, she needs to stop relying on her son and have more power within their relationship

Why this is me and my younger siblings that our dad is alcoholic and now I afraid that my lil sis become like our dad is 😭😭😭😭

Why some people found hard to say sorry? It is nothing’s. To fight whole night and day, is better then say sorry and finished. I am from USA, so far I knew, people are easily say sorry if they knew that they did a little mistakes too. let’s try to change ourself little by little step and love each other because nobody know when we gonna die. Try to say S-o-r-r-y and thank you. Appreciate with each other and live as happy life.😀😍

아빠가 되려하지말고, 그냥 친구같은 오빠가 될 수밖에 없다.

It is common courtesy to apologise for being late, my sons were taught the importance of good manners from a young age. My mother always used to say “ Manners cost nothing” if your family is waiting and you are late saying sorry goes a long way. My sons say sorry for belching too I think it’s so very rude for someone to belch and not say sorry. His sister was working at his shop so she should be working not chatting to other shop keepers, she can chat on her own time when customers are not being kept waiting.

All else aside, u do something wring you say sorry, no matter how small or how big..manners?

The clack clack of the plates sent me I am currently screaming

20:12 i think maybe because he only have the 2 girls in his live, that's why he care too much and afraid that the guy will do the same as his dad..

I think the dad started this and good on the mum for divorcing him

Didn't like how they mocked him when he came out and started apologizing to him. What does that do but make his issue seem petty! That was rude, I would've walked out. They need professionals on this show. A lot of these problems are serious but the cast makes them trivial! Also he has taken the role of father since their father left them. Understandable since he is moms pillar!

결론적으로, 틀렸을 때 사과하십시오. 크거나 작더라도 실수를 받아들이는 법을 배워야합니다.

와저렇게 폭력적인 shake it들을 생각하면 너무 마음이 아프다...

My mom also only cares about my older sister and treats me totally different ( in a very bad way) and whenever I say something she doesn't react or laughs it off. Having a toxic mom is really the worst feeling ever 😪

This is irrelevant but the sister is extremely pretty!

The thing is the mom now only has her daughter and son so it must be really hard on her to watch them fight and also take care of them but they are still a great family

This maybe just a groundless accusation towards the father but i'mma just say it anyways. I don't think the daughter was just emotionally hurt by her father. I strongly believe while the mother and son left home, the alcoholic abusive father took advantage of his daughter. Either by sexually abusing her or using verbally abusive words to her. Why I think this? because if you look at how long of a pause the daughter took in explaining how she was left alone with her father, as well as how she teared up. This could be a sign. And all of this is coming from someone who has been sexually abused as a child and beaten up regularly by not only his father but mother as well. I'm glad the father is out of the picture...Good on the mum

Can anyone tell me the bgm title at 24:25 (almost the end part) I really like the song. Thank you

It’s funny how youtube knows damn well I won’t skip the Kpop ads smh-

too early, i come here to read comment too xD

Honestly, none of my family is really great with apologies... Not when it's really needed, anyway. Little things like bumping into someone, sure, but apologizing for being wrong? Eh... Not so much. We have problems with our emotions.

it looks like she's vert good at blaming everyone else for her mistakes but herself. blames her brother, the clothes store owner, mother etc. when someone older calls you by name you answer that's called respect. when you're working and getting payed, you work hard doesn't matter if the boss is your brother. blaming the store owner for talking, you could have told the owner your sorry and that you have to return to work. you want to make friends? you do that after work hours. i wanted to make friends for our business she said. that's not your job in the first place, that's the job of your boss. wtf is making friends with a clothes store owner during work hours going to do for your brother business? using your phone while working? that sounds like taking advantage of the fact that your brother is your boss. she js a spoiled kid in my eyes, not even a full grown responsible woman. she is laughing it off because she doesn't see that she is destroying her relationship with her fam.

Lol.. i want a brother like that.. she should be grateful.

about that boyfriend part, i think the sister is the wrong one here... you work for someone you should do your best instead of just dozing off, you cant just say im dozing off because i was with my boyfriend last night... she is going easy because she is working for her brother... you take money because you work there u can't just do whatever you want and expect your brother to not say anything to you and then go and play the victim...just because u have a boyfriend it doesnt mean u should do whatever u want, this is your brother who didnt kick u right at that moment, if it was anyone else, they will kick u out and lose that job, even when she said she went to bathroom and came back after one hour... her excuse is doesnt give her the right to blame her brother... u work for him and gives u money he has the right to listen to an apology when u keep doing what u want, what is the point of him hiring u at his job if u r not going to help when he has a lot of people, and u just chat there? u can just say i should leave i have a job to do, u cant say that? but u can argue with your brother right? i dont understand it.......... saying sorry ain't going to kill you, u did wrong tho.....

万里子さんからクォンサンウさん好き残って愛して忘れない!なん泣き

Seoul: *HELLO COUNSELOR* Philippines: *RAFFY TULFO*

i may have bad taste but i'm honestly whipped for the brother

That girl who giggled in the audience reminds me of Amanda Seyfried. 20:42

패널들 너무 답답하네... 저 오빠가 꽉막힌 사람은 맞다. 하지만. 직장에서 1시간씩 자리비우고, 꾸벅꾸벅 졸고. 자기 할일을 못한거에 대한사과는 하는게 맞다

Aaah.. like my mom told me before. Woman forever must being patient when it comes to guys. Because every guy have an ego that can't be bothered somehow

2:01 When Boom said our country:>

Total opposite siblings. Dude is too rigid and the girl is too loose with "rules". If they just accepted each other's faults and appreciated the positive spin of being too rigid / too loose, everything would work out fine. Working in an office with a lot of different personalities made me do this. Focus on their positives and work around their negatives.

It's just an apology, it's not that hard

Oor...just be late to her stuff and dont say sorry about it

Early here

She's trying to brush off her brother by saying that she was traumatized by her mother trying to comfort her brother after getting beaten by their father? WTF 🤣😂 that's manipulative af

동생분 직장에서 하는 꼬라지 보니까 말이 아닌데 오빠분을 예민한사람으로 몰아가는게 이해가 안되네,, 일하는데 화장실을 1시간동안 갔다오는거랑 꾸벅꾸벅 조는데 빡이 당연히 치지,, 사과만 바라는게 오히려 보살인 수준인데,, 패널들 동생이 운다고 동생편만 드는거 너무 별로다.

is it too late to say sorrrryyyy?.... im sry ill leave

I think i have to go to this show😰😅

gurl you know girls always wins 😂😂

My husband and mother do the same they apologise never :)

I have the same problem with my boyfriend, should I leave? 😔

I over apologize 😂

Like the host said, he's holding to grudges against his father and taking it out on his sister since she never got beatings like him. She doesn't feel obligated to apologize since their mother would always comfort him when things got bad and not her. They're both at fault and should seek counselling or just try to talk to each other more. By the sounds of it they don't go out with each other much or probably had a meal together to discuss things. If they got to know each other better I think things would be a lot easier for them both. They're both holding on childhood struggles and constantly letting it clash and hurt them even more

I don’t know why, but I think the sister is being dramatic here. She cried because her mother didn’t bring her along, when her brother didn’t cry when he was being the one to be beaten up and hurt physically plus mentally. And everyone just paid attention to the sister just because she cried, attention seeker or trying to play innocent?

The comment about the beef and pork🤣🤣 oh that is wrong🤨😂

finally, a sweet concern, lmao

wtf that i'm watching. why did they support the sister

They need counseling.

They sometimes really do give the dumbest tips

I think the brother might have assumed the role of father when he left

Its the abusive father fault

They forgot, oki oki okinawa! Haha

I’m early

Bring J-hope for a good Jeolla-do dialect😂

토닥토닥 쓰담쓰담

sorry sorry myanmar hii im from sorry sorry myanmar:33

First time I felt like the protagonist was more at fault

Lol and everyone supported the sister, alright. I’m really so done with the hosts.

She looks like red velvet wendy in the thumbnail

Is that red velvet wendy sister

The brother is too controlling. He needs to date and focus on his own enrichments. The daughter seemed very well rounded. I'm sure she made mistakes but just let it go.

she was treated like a princess, yet doesn't have any sympathy for her brother. She starts crying about bring alone after he talks about being abused. She should work on her petty personality