“Can you, like, float through a window?” 😂😂😂😂😂

Hubby and I (married 28 years) each have our own bedroom. He does snore and I both flip and sweat. We both sleep better this way.

Hearing Kim giggle and laugh in the background makes this video so much better. I'm guessing you can't do a Penn nighttime ritual. If he's like most guys, it's put on pajamas (Or pajama pants and t-shirt), brush teeth, crash.

crushed antler horns 🤣🤣🤣 totally lost it when Penn said, "can you breathe less" 🤣🤣🤣

Penn is so good at portraying Kim, this made me laugh a lot! 😆😆😆

I love how you guys can tease each other and love each so much.

"We're gonna go. To sleep. EARLY!" I love the way Penn sing songs that line, complete with elaborate jazz hands! 👐😂

You are NOT the only one, Kim. Even if my husband isn't making any sound, sometimes the energy coming off of him keeps me awake. As soon as he's in the shower, I can fall asleep. I love him to pieces but I often have to sleep in another room.

Thanks for the laugh! I so relate to the breathing thing. Once you notice it, it’s impossible to ignore. The rhythmic “puuuuuuuuh” every 5 seconds or so is particularly lovely. 😂

As a female with no nighttime skin routine and a morning routine that involves only 3 simple steps (soap, uhh some kinda cleanser and lotion), Penn explaining the skincare seems very accurate. 😂

Whatever Kim is doing with her face, it is working because she looks great and super young.

Oh my goodness! Thank you so much for the laugh this morning. When my husband and I first got together, he would stare at me in amazement at my "bedtime ritual" with the face cleanser, moisturizing cream, blah blah ..., and then when we finally got to bed the 3 or 4 pillow that had to be arranged in a very specific way for me to sleep. Bless them that put up with our craziness. They are wonderful men and we love them to pieces!!

I am totally like Kim with bedtime. I have a pillow to lay on and 2 pillows to the side of my face to keep my head straight and also block out noise. I love room darkening curtains and also use an eye mask, ear plugs and we have white noise going in our room too. My husband calls it my sensory deprivation chamber. I am a pretty light sleeper and some of us just have to work hard to sleep.

Even though I'm single, this video is so relatable. Total silence and complete darkness. Wish I had some blackout curtains 😂😂

The laughter behind the camera of you "My Wife/My Husband" videos absolutely make them. Thank you.

“Can I say something? This feel nice.” LOL!!!😂

"This is the 2 balls machine". OH MY GOD too funny!

Omg, the BREATHING! The husband breaths, the cat whistle-breaths, the female GSD click-breaths, and the male GSD moves from the carpet to the tile floor every 30 minutes, nails clicking on the tile every step! I have to wear ear plugs or there is no sleeping for me!

I love when Penn plays Kim. Or when the neighbor comes around. THE BEST! I also love hearing Kim laughing in the background.

Married 28 years and this was so accurate! I’m hysterically laughing.

Taking off the bra had me on the floor laughing!!!!! How are y’all so hilarious and accurate 😂

Kims belly laughs 😂😂😂 my sister and her hubby have been together 20 years. Key to their long marriage? Seperate bedrooms. True fact! 😂 they have 3 kids so obviously they find ways to ..get busy lol. But yup when it comes time to sleep, sis needs total silence and her hubby snores so they each have their own room

LOL! This was hilarious! Weird things about my husband and me. He needs noise to sleep well; I need quiet. Since he works nights, I get 4 nights a week with quiet,and I suffer through 3 nights of his noise, and his trips to the bathroom, getting snacks in the kitchen (which I can hear!), and his frequent need to wake me up to ask me a question because of something that came to his mind while prowling around the house. When you are a night worker, it's fairly impossible to straighten out your sleep schedule for the nights of the week when you are off. We've lived this way for 8 years now, and it takes its toll! Another thing: we have a king sized bed, but that's still too close! I need cool to sleep, but he's too hot! 😂 Ahhh, the joys of marriage! 😊

When I was little, my mother used to call me the princess and the pea because I couldn't sleep unless everything was perfect, no lights, no sound, etc. After kids, I was just glad to get the covers over me before I fell asleep! 😂

This has been said before, but the best part of these videos is always Kim's laughter in the background. Also Penn doing the under-the-shirt-bra-removal! XD I actually tend to sleep to instrumental music, because otherwise my brain won't shut down. Absolute silence sends my thoughts into a tailspin.

The levels of pure love and over-exaggeration that Penn does and goes through playing Kim is too much and I'm hella here for it!!! Clearly, they love one another not just as husband and wife, but also as best friends who also still love ripping on one another like chums from forever ago. If this isn't what a fun and honest marriage looks like. They both appreciate each other. Flaws and all. _ big love from Canada

You are not the only one Kim. I'm very glad that the two of you found each other. Your humor always brightens my day. = )

I am with Kim on the silence and total darkness. I have a noise machine that MUST be on, and I have to go to sleep before my husband who also breathes too loud. Once I'm asleep, I'm dead to the world, but if I wake up in the middle of the night and there's anything....ticking clock, heavy breathing hubbie, dripping faucet....I cannot get back to sleep at all. The struggle is real!!

He should have practiced walking around with the bra on for a full day to truly understand what it means to finally take one off and to end of the day. Loved hearing Kim's laughter in the background of the video.

I have the opposite problem with my husband. He lies completely still, on his back, and his breath is silent. Some nights I have to wake him to make sure he’s still alive! He loves that…

So relatable😊! 15 yrs into our marraige I'd accidently left a little fan on when we went to bed-and I actually slept most the night😂(hubby's nose breathing was loud due to a broken nose issue from his young 20's days, kickboxing competition) ... white noise was a blessing! .... at 32 yrs married we lost him to brain cancer💔 ... some snoring sounds seem like so little of an issue to me, now that he's gone.❤ Y'all did a great job of your vid 🌞!

Yes, I am with Kim on everything from skincare routine to absolutely no lights or noise! 😃

Kim, I'm with you on the total silence at night (sometimes I put in ear plugs) and the skin care routine! ❤ You can't have just *one* cream. They do different things. Thank you for the giggle! 😁

I can 100% relate. Room-darkening shades: Check. White noise generator: Check. Earplugs: Check. Satin pillowcase: Check. Nighttime calming skin routine/aromatherapy: Check. Tylenol PM: Check. Melatonin: Check. In my 20s all I needed for a good night's sleep was a turkey sandwich.

"Maybe it's very subtle" 😂 I chortled

That was hilarious and so spot on! The pillows, including the barrier pillow and the need for dark and silence is so true for me too. My husband on the other hand can fall asleep with the light on while I read.

I now have a new favorite Holderness Family video! Thanks for all of the hard work you do to entertain us!

OMG this is totally us! The bed time routine was was spot on. I love that you guys confirmed that Iam not crazy or alone on this. Thanks!!

Kim, I can soooooo relate to this. Zero sound, zero motion and "please give me seven extra pillows thanks" 😂 Love from France ! ❤

Kim, I’m exactly like you. Totally silence, to the point that I sleep with earplugs. No lights, wall of pillows and each pillow has a different function. My husband keeps a metal water bottle beside his bed with ice and it drives me nuts. It’s like a cow bell every time he takes a sip.

Love Kim's giggling in the background. 😁

I hear you about the husband’s sleep fidgets. Mine wiggles a foot SHAKING THE WHOLE BED LIKE THOSE COIN-OP, MOTEL VIBRATING BEDS. When he isn’t snoring, tossing, or stealing the covers, he rolls my direction and puffs on me. I swear it’s a miracle that men reach a ripe old age if they have wives enduring menopause.

This is the most relatable content for married fold EVER. Should be mandatory watching for couple pre- living together ❤️

Thanks for laughing off your issues instead of what most couples do…y’all are awesome!

Spot on with the sleep regimen! The pillow blockade is a must along with no lights. I feel like a terrible wife- No breathing or movement until I am asleep! My poor hubby 😂 gasping like a fish for 30 years.

Thank you for having Kim in the background laughing! When I first started watching, I thought, "What the heck? His wife is going to be soo angry at him for mocking her!" Then I heard her laughing and breathed a sigh of relief, realizing she was ok with the joke and was actually laughing at him! I was worried for a second there! 😄 Now Kim needs to do a video like this about Penn!

EXACTLY!! I have to have total quiet, total darkness and night cream AND lip balm (and stillness). And my husband snores and breathes loud. 😂

i love how tho he was supposed to be kinda poking fun, that Penn is all, "this actually feels really nice" about the skincream.. i think we're all slowly converting our guys to use moisturizers and stuff of their faces. lol. like, DUH it feels good! That's partially why we do it! 😄

You guys always make me laugh, but this video is one of my favorites! The bra removal was really funny and so relatable. I can also relate to sleeping much better when there's no noise and no light. I remember one particular hotel room that had light coming from everything in it, it seemed, and me going around the room with towels and washcloths to try and cover it all. By the way, I love that Kim giggles at her Penn's impressions of her and will admit in her commentary at the end that the imitation is not that far off from the truth. I appreciate the self-deprecation and good sense of humour😄😄😄

Girl I had the same sleep issues for years. Winged Sleepy Gummies and a white noise machine saved me! Also, your skin looks amazing. You should do a video on your skin routine (with affiliate links of course!). Thanks for all the great content. So glad I found your channel.

I 100% sleep like that. There cannot be a single sliver of light & the only noise can be a fan I run.

“They” are always steeling my pillows! I feel you!😂

I completely identify with this! And y'all are still so very hilarious! Ty guys for making my day brighter!

Separate rooms. One of the best things we have done in our marriage.

OMG! i couldn't stop laughing! "can you float thru a window or something?" I need silence and darkness too!

My favorite part is Kim laughing in the background 😂

Kim-you and I could be best friends… as a 47 year old woman, I totally relate!!!

It got serious when the bra came off. That was it, you were committed. My wife starts with multiple pillows but through the night most of them wind up on the floor.

So cute, so funny and so accurate to couples. Why can the one loud sleeper always fall asleep first? Lol. It was so funny to hear her giggling the whole time.

I need total darkness to sleep, but I can't do complete silence because I get in my head at night, so I need some kind of white noise.

Yes - silence totally and darkness (which is odd because for years I had to sleep with the light on 😂) my husband “breathes” too 🙈😂 Thank for cheering up a bad day for me ❤

YES!! All of this is why my hubs and I sleep in different bedrooms. I need it QUIET. Like, QUI. ET. I don't need someone breathing, or farting, or snoring, or ALL THE THINGS when I'm getting my sleep on. NO. Dog on the bed, OBVIOUSLY. His snores and breathing and farts don't count.

I totally relate to wanting the silence and the darkness. 😂 “Can you float through a window?” 😂😂😂

Omg in the same way- no light, no noise, and total moisturizer lol !!!

Kim is my wife - the bra, the creams, the pillows, the no noise ...

The pillow fort!! And the light sensitivity 😂just get your own room to sleep in. 😊

It's not just you! I'm also a terrible sleeper. I have to have my head pillow, my body pillow, a bed that isn't too firm, complete darkness, a fan and a temperature of 68 degrees, and no noises. I also use sleep medication pretty often. For now my husband sleeps in another room because he has sleep apnea but doesn't use his cpap which makes the snoring really, really bad. Because of this I sleep like crap in hotels so I hate traveling 😩, am I the only one?

“Can you float through a window?” 🤣

“Is there a sliver of light . . . ?” That’s me!

Total Kim here - "did an ant just sneeze in SC??" SHHHHH!!!

The creams and serums bit killed me 😅

I totally agree! Silence and darkness.😂

"Ground antler horns" 🫎🦌😂😂😂😂

How is she not laughing her head off....I laughed so hard😅😅😂😂

So so funny. Period. So so funny. 💙 Also, can we just sit for a moment in gratitude how the two of you can laugh WITH each other and poke fun all from a place of love!!! 🙏

Love the ruthless elimination of hurry!

The bit about pillow maneuvering is DEAD ON. I have the base pillow, the back pillow, and the cuddle pillow. I also prefer to have either a pillow or fluffed up comforter between my knees. No light, no rhythmic noise, no NADA. You know the princess and the pea? It's me, I'm the princess.

Hahaha married 28 here. Thought the 1) pillows 2) book/iphone 3) breathing 4) overall psychotic nighttime anxiety was just meeeeee?!!!!! 😂

Couples deciding to and HAPPILY sleeping in separate bedrooms is a legit thing. It's recently been called a "sleep divorce" in America. But I think they should be called "sleep staying togethers". Or whatever. Cuz staying together even more happily is the result. Being able to get quality sleep is a serious thing / need for everyone and if you think about it, NOT sleeping in your own bed is the thing that's more "weird" (if sleeping in separate rooms is odd to one). Individuals' sleep needs can be so specific and individual that it's pretty unusual that two people can share a bed without at least one causing additional problems for the other person. A LOT of people sleep in separate rooms or at least separate beds and it's only HELPED their marriage/ relationship. Cuz they know their partner will not get in the way of their getting a badly needed good night's sleep. Snuggling, etc can totally be done. Even hanging out in bed before going to sleep. And then one can move to the other bedroom for sleep time. In Germany they have a brilliant half and half solution to this - where they have bed platforms that have two separate mattresses and individual bedding on them. Each person has their own sheets, blanket, comforter, even mattress. When making the bed one or both comforters can be spread over both sections for a singular look or one for each section. Anyway those kinds of beds are the norm actually and have been popularly used for at least decades over there.

The breathing/snoring thing is me with my husband!! I hate him at bedtime and always say to him “were you always like this??” 😂

And yeah two pillows as well 😂

👏👏👏My husband “breathes” too. Not a snore, but a “puff-breath” 😂 And yes everything has to be “just right” and then sleep is still 50/50. My hair has to be off my face, but on the side of my face that’s “up” (side sleeper) it needs to cover my ear or else my ear is cold. And my feet need socks, maybe 2 pair. I could go on and on! 😂

You guys are so much fun! Penn is totally hysterical, he doesn’t even have think, it just comes out. And Kim, I love the way you play off of that.

TOTAL SILENCE!!! NO LIGHT!! I am a nightmare to sleep next to. My poor teenagers. They can't do anything in the living room past 10:00 or I'm a dragon emerging from her den to demand total silence and no light. WHYYY does the whole family need to make so much noise and light after I'm sleeping?? Penn, you are so funny and so sweet with your cute de-briefing about how you are not shaming Kim. Kim, sister you have such a great sense of humor. You guys made me laugh all through the pandemic. Love you guys! Please keep making us laugh.

I love this! I love you guys! And I especially love the plug for the book, the ruthless elimination of hurry! Everyone needs to read it!!

Kim, separate beds is the answer! My husband and I have been sleeping separately or probably 8 to 10 years. We both love it and although I don’t sleep great, I sleep a lot better than I did when we shared a bed. NO shame!!!

The barrier pillow is a must, can’t have them breathing on you.

The pillows!😂 "I can still dedect a sliver of light." Sooooo funny. 🤣

I need white noise. My husband and I each have our own sheet and comforter. Best move we ever made.

Black out curtains...pillow towers. ..😂 certain gowns don't work they make me hot.. cellphone lights will wake me up... absolutely no cuddling ..I get hot flashes...my camomile tea next to the bed.. and ice water...my fan has to be aimed at my feet.....omg my poor husband 😂😂

I use sleephones. They blackout everything and I fall asleep to an audio book. Game changer.

You two are so funny! I love how you endearingly poke fun at each other.

Two words, girl. EAR PLUGS. I can't sleep without them. My hubby snores SO loud! Lol. And I have lots of pillows too. So it's not just you. Love the barrier pillows! I'll have to try that. 😊 Oh...and thank you guys for the videos on ADHD. My 19 year old son was recently diagnosed and any info we can get helps us understand why he thinks and responds the way he does. Sometimes it gets really tough. He's about to start his sophomore year in college and some days he gets very overwhelmed. And anxious. Anyway, thanks again. You guys ROCK!! 😁😁🤘🤘

The pillows! “cuddle pillow, knee pillow … a complete barrier” Guilty 😂

😂 You two are adorable!

This video just made my entire day! Thank you for the laugh that brought tears😂😂😂 i can 💯 % relate!!! From taking my bra off, binge watching Suits (I'm addicted!) Wash up routine and the end had me in absolute stitches!!!!! I'm right there with you 😂❤ meanwhile a tornado could rage through my bedroom and my husband would sleep through it 😮 Penns reenactments of you are always priceless!!!

I feel you with the pillows, Kim, but you gotta get yourself a sleep mask and some earplugs if you really want to check out!

Married 28 years - separate bedrooms since 7or 8 years in. One of us got the flu really badly and moved to the guest bedroom and never moved back. It is wonderful! We are the only couple we know still happy and intimate on a regular basis because we have wonderful sleep. I am in perimenopause too, Kim and it is the worst! Sounds bother me so much and I am a sweaty mess most nights. So glad for separate rooms!!

The pillows !!! OMG, totally me. My poor hubby, lol. I need the fan or a/c going 24/7 as both temp control and background noise. Yes, I totally need the silence, however, I tend to jolt awake at the slightest sound, which then has me up for, oh, the rest of the night 🙄 so, yeah, background or white noise is a must. I can't read before bed - if it's a goid book, I'm up until I've finished the book. If it's not good, I'm annoyed and looking for another book. This was Totally awesome 😂❤

I just love when Pen "does" her😂