Honestly less funny and more sad

😂😂😂

Thats most comedians

While I don't disagree with the statement made above, I have since come to learn Steve hosts a podcast alongside his wife. After watching that for a bit she seems pretty cool, but if you only listen to his stand up it doesn't paint her in the best light. That being said I feel this is a form of therapy for him. Who else can say they make a living complaining about their spouse? Lol!

@@lawrencedalimonte4420 You'd think Josef Fritzl was a great Dad, if you asked his daughter infront of him 😂

Stop giving away the secret

Not really he’s just talking nonsense. He really is a pussy

You will be surprise how many guys allow their wife to do that just not to loose the house.

Many ladies were laughing because they know they put us throught this and all of them do it it's kinda why DV is a big deal cause they weren't that fucken useless till the ring hit the finger then it was just a shit show

Oh she cheatin on him

Cause women don't meet men at the nail salon to go have sex with 🤷

WTF does "You've never seems" mean?

James McInnis fixed it was a typo

@@ChosenPlaysYT WTF does "you've never see" mean?

Cuz bars and salons are the same lol ok you trippin

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find someone who treats you right. You didn't deserve that.

Wow that sucks

My divorce was a blessing.

How urs life now after divorce?

How sad 😢

Absolute legend. And 100% agree

Cheaper to not get married. You get laid just as often

Bo Ho 😂. You probably get laid more being single!

@@georgevause8641 0llmkmllm l

@@boho1926mlllkkklm

Wow, the audacity! Go sleep on your couch sir lol

Salute!!!

As a lady, I totally agree! Lol that's ridiculous, those ladies need to grow up 💁‍♀️

@Joel Gutierrez Alphas don't let their GF move in with them.

Dave BB : Consider this she was just a girlfriend and she already assumed she owned part of the house and could tell you where to sleep. Even if you had done something wrong it's still your house and not hers.

Nah men have their own things too. Like they can sleep with anyone and be cheered for it. Women cant do not that. Also men give women crap about being gold diggers and want them to get a job and help but yet they still want a hot meal and clean house and it's still not a mans job even though they are both working

My husband calls me when I’m out aaaaall the time because he doesn’t know where anything is in the apartment 😂 It’s ok, there’s nothing wrong if it’s done with respect and love.

Tyler Ramsey no tyler, not at all.

@@tylerramsey9502 You've never been married, have you? I bet you've never dated either.

@@tylerramsey9502 you described what ended my last relationship. We both worked FT but I worked 2 hes OT each day. I'd come home & find him watching TV or playing games & pissed off because he was hungry & wanted me to cook dinner, immediately. He didn't want to cook. I hated it. [I'm a horrible cook, never learned] His unnatural objection to vacuuming was weird. No attempt to be partner in the home was made. I did his dishes, laundry, yard work, house cleaning. I even made the coffee for the next morning, while I cleaned up dinner dishes & he went to bed. He is still a pompous, narcissist ass, somewhere else.

I laughed hard at this. Thank you. No disrespect.

Is this not a lecture or a rant? Seems like you're part of the problem lol jk jk

I laughed too! It was soooo funny!!!! People think that these things happen on a daily basis etc, but it's standup comedy and all cramped into one sitting. I fully agree with you. Live, love, laugh. Some people nowadays can only focus on the negative and search hard to find it!

It is funny. But real at the same time. We laugh because we can relate. Still explains how unfair some relationships are. We laugh because it’s real. Still wrong some women and men also are too controlling. Works both ways. Funny to a certain extent

I agree 100% and if you listen to their podcast, the wife is just as funny as he is.

True

True! That's emotional abuse he is describing there.

You won't believe how many guys allow the wife to do that just to not loose the house.

This is being a man married to a woman

You know what he describes is very common? It's only emotional abuse when the tables are turned. Sad but true!

I'm 37 man and I'll never marry. Girlfriends are enough to deal with. Couldn't imagine having a legal contract to fuck me even more. Seen my friends deal with some crazy shit to. Stay single my friend 🍻😉

Exactly

@@Brad__Gray yup in the words of Chris Rock, maried and bored or single and lonely.

@Ruben Dias I thought it was married and miserable...

@@Samurai31631 ahahah 😂😂

I have to confess to a little bit of schadenfreude with those who appear to get what they deserve.

Guys want to be tough and in charge, but they can't. It's not normalized, it's some dudes being pussies

@@steelbear2063 Being abused is not being a pussy. We are responsible for our own actions, not that of others. It's not on you to be in charge to secure someone else treats you right. Lots of people actually, genuinely want to treat you well. Don't stay with the ones who don't. When men and women who call men in emotionally abusive relationships for pussys and laughs at them, they are putting the fault on the victim, and making it even harder for men to stand up to a bad situation and demand to be treated right. It's fucked. As you can hear, it's not just the partner keeping him in this situation. It's family and friends too. It really is fucked up how normalized this kind of treatment and abusive relationships are.

Steel Bear That’s pretty toxic but whatever

@@DjurslandsEfterskole They are not. You don't like it - walk out. Who's keeping him, friends? Like physically holding him, tied him up maybe? No. Tell them to go fuck themselves. Nobody said it's easy

👍

My husband and I just call/text each other every so often when out with friends or alone just to make sure the other is okay (:

You lucky bastard!! lol

Sounds like you married a man

@@emmabemma3100 You think I never checked under the hood before we got married? Come on now.

Reality of an abusive relationship?

@@zkart8038 yep and because of feminism men can't say shit about it.

@@8Maduce50 just leave the relationship

It's comedy...and if a man did this "routine" once a decade for me, he is a keeper. Marriage is 200%, both ways...It's NOT ABUSE.

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

Great understanding wife. Lucky man, god bless you n the kids

There is a good chance this man's wife is cheating on him because she doesn't have any accountability and he turns it into a joke for women.

It’s hilarious 😂 I have been doing that voice to mimic my step-kids lately and they really shape up and even laugh! The Treviños are geniuses!

@@jessc8888 they really are

I seeing this and way too often.

@@jessc8888 To be fair, Steve's most likely exaggerating for comedic effect. I mean, I'm _pretty sure_ the guy can get dressed and make himself a sandwich without his wife's supervision. Comics generally don't let the facts get in the way of a good joke. OP's point is that what Steve is _describing_ is an abusive relationship. As in, if a friend of mine came to me and told me that their marriage was literally like this, I would advise that they start divorce proceedings and that he have no further contact with the psychopath they were married to without the presence of friendly witnesses and active video recording. Regardless of the gender of the friend or their spouse (flip the genders here and see how funny you think the scenario is). But again, I'm sure these are just jokes. Any woman as controlling and capricious as he claims his wife is would have killed his dreams of being a stand up comic years ago. To say nothing of what she'd do if he told jokes like this about her in public.

You mean most?

@@nickwilliams8302 more common than you think

@@cunniffe42 Speaking from experience myself.

hes a p***yehipped b***h!!!

Training classes

No one ever went broke pandering to women.

Sounds Caribbean 😂😂 love those sayings

Jamaican 🙌🏾

Because they are true... It's sad what he's saying...

Modern marriage is a joke. Modern women are jokes. No thanks.. a woman in america can literally cheat on you in your own bed and then file for divorce while being awarded the house, kids 2/3 of your money bc you WILL be also paying for HER lawyer.. its comical. Sad and screwed up.

These weren't even jokes. He was just venting and the vast majority of the women in the audience found it funny enough to drown out any other group of people that somehow thought any of this was funny.

You have a supportive wife!!!

Lol while youre off with your mates... Or shes lining up one of your mates.

Same brother. Cheers

So basically you have an actual partner? Good.

I find these kind of women "male" attention seeker tbh, I let my Husband have fun with his friends, and if they are over, I say Hi, give them food/drink and leave them alone to chat.

If your wife treats you like this, it's your own fault you lost her respect. This doesn't happen overnight, an adult should know how to set boundaries. If you end up being the subpar person your partner settled for, you either better yourself or you leave, but you don't blame others for not respecting you.

Toxihex sometimes it’s not the mans fault but rather her sense of entitlement grows because she can’t be held accountable. As for blaming the disrespect on the disrespected, I suggest you open your heart and maybe understand that hurt people do not deserve the hurt inflicted on them.

@@Toxihex Your statement is about as useful as blaming the girls being raped for it. If and when a relationship becomes abusive in one direction (either one), it takes a whole lot of courage to stand up for yourself and end that relationship. You are right. People need to set boundaries. However from the dawn of time (and especially in the last 50 years) men have been told to accept any boundary they might or might not violate and still be in the everlasting fetch quest to win the "princess". That is not a healthy way to teach men and women alike that you have to learn to set boundaries, find compromises if those boundaries are not matching in reciprocity or leave if a compromise can't be found. Life is hard, and to offset that, unfair as well. For men and women alike, that's equality.

Calm down, everyone, he's just joking. It's a comedy show.

Unfortunately I know this is a comedy show, but it's also very familiar. Future self is single. Why? Because of shit like this. I was whipped. Not anymore. Singleness is a beautiful thing because of shit like this.

Yeah right 😏😏😏 They have to be for the money. Most people don't even recognise abuse even when it slaps them in the face. They believe happy wife happy life is actually a virtue to live up to yet it's the most toxic thing ever.

Only girls, not women.... a woman will want you to enjoy yourself. It's called unconditional love and trust. It works both ways 😎

@@missmarisaferreira sad thing is....many girls are in grown women bodies.

@@thisrichbastard.809 its true... just keep sifting. Us women come across lots of little boys in men bodies as well 😂 just gotta rmemeber what you want for yourself and not settle.

@@missmarisaferreira so do I....come across boys in men's bodies...its infuriating. The difference my dear woman, at the end of the day....you (women) have the final say if there is going to be a pair bond being form. In other words, you do the selecting....we attempt to be selected by acquiring all that women look for in order to consider a man. I will not stop Valuing nor loving women regardless.

@@thisrichbastard.809 I totally hear you... I just finished reading s book by Rollo tommasi..you should look into it. As a woman I was seriously confused with some of the stuff he talks about, probably because I dont feel I fall into that category of "girl".. but you might find it helpful/interesting. It's called The rational Male 😎

Same!

My ex hates it when I told her to cover up more when she dress but doesn’t like it when I’m in shorts or tank tops, she tells me to take responsibility for my wrongs but she won’t do the same, she doesn’t like it when I take long to respond when she text me but when I text her she takes over half an hour to respond. It’s crazy bro.

Happy wife, life of strife.

Ruined a generation of women and men.

Yess

True, but at the same time if the wife is miserable the husband will be too.

Nicole Davis I would hope the wife would be miserable if the husband is too. Wife’s emotions are equally, not more, important than the husbands. Both should be happy otherwise something is wrong. Wife isn’t the only one entitled to be made hapoy

::hugs::

Don't stop looking, you will find someone. You deserve happiness of having children in your life and i m sure that will change your and your partner perspective.

Cisium If you truly loved and married the right woman you can see the humor in what he saying . I hope you find a precious queen to love you unconditionally. You deserve it.

Lonjemarieswisdom Aina He stated that “he see’s the humor in this.” But jokes also come from a place of truth. I don’t blame him for not wanting to be married. You can love the hell out of a woman but she will still try to control you. If a man does the same to his wife then it’s considered an abusive relationship.

I don't want to sound cliché or cheesy or whatever, but there are literally women out there who don't behave like this. It seems any person who behaves like this tends to have insecurities, often such as feelings of inadequacy, trust issues perhaps from a previous relationship or if their parents were divorced (even a parent death can cause issues), a lack of self-defense and therefore any meaningful empathy, it could be as silly as a bad example from society/culture. Usually it's totally out of your control and would take basically therapy to affect, but it'll be a lot for you to have to endure also. Unless you have given your previous partners cause to lose trust in you personally, it's just a run of bad luck. Or common in your area. There really are a lot of people who don't want to be part of something like what he described. It's unhealthy for the person behaving this way also, as their insecurities would cause them a great deal of stress and they likely operate from a place of cynicism, likely to the extent that they can't aim for a joyful and healthy relationship because those goal posts might not truly exist for them. I often see the phrases 'be the change you want to see' and similarly 'be the partner you want to have'. I agree with this as a partner who knows how they want to be treated will know that the only way to achieve it in the real world is to find another person who also values those aspects enough that they are willing to provide them to their future partner. I don't believe it's possible or fair on yourself to try to change other peoples minds on matters as personal as this, especially when you don't know whether they truly want to change those behaviours. It's not your job to waste 10 years trying and hoping. So it's great that you have made the choice to not engage in unhealthy relationships. It has also been said that bad relationships ruin good people. I hope you will find what you're hoping to. It is rather common at least in my area that people treat eachother with common decency and a higher level of respect than what he describes.

Some of us are swooned into them, both sides. You put on a good show, and then somewhere along the way things change, and it's after a heavy emotional investment. Some have a better understanding, others are blindsided. Some have the strength to leave, others are not sure how to leave. That's why I believe in a longer courtship. If it's forever, what's a few months or a year to really get to know someone in a wide range of situations to see what your getting into. It's why they offer test drives in cars.

Sounds nice.. but feminism has destroyed good relationships!

@@philipbyersoutdoors3295 lol yeah what happened to the days where only women could be abused

@@tylerramsey9502 a typical ridiculous statement from someone who apparently has no argument. so what you just said was let's turn the tables so now women can abuse men and get away with it.

@@philipbyersoutdoors3295 no your statement was just absurd lol. Men abused women and still continue to but relationships werent ruined until women got a bit of power? Do I really need an argument against that? Lol c'mon guy. Before feminism, before they started standing up for themselves. Women couldn't vote, women couldnt get good paying jobs, which meant they couldnt take care of themselves from no fault of their own. So you're statement is marriage was ruined when women got the ability to take care of themselves and leave them.

Really? Why?

"actually"

The only paperwork he needs is divorce papers

@@TeslaRifle Sadly, even then he might come out on the losing end, through no fault of his.

@Mohamed Ali A little pain in divorce is better than a life of pain. Give me liberty or give me death! (Also there are ways of saving your assets in divorce)

10) The right of self defense is to be exercised by serving in the military, police or home. Fire arms are to be learned, mastered and utilized in sport, hunting, and self defense only. And as a last resort measure against agression or tyranny.

Lucifer!?? 😂

Rule 1 is the last words, yes dear?

Thanks for not being a wuss

Rules are for pussies

Good for you bro. Live a good life. 👏

How weak can you be? I'm married I follow no protocols, you just need s pair that's all

My husband just makes plans and tells me about them later.

Weak coward

@@katierose1893 like your mom ?

Thanks for making it to a show.

Can’t wait!!! Steve is hilarious 🤣 I mean just look at all the comments haha whether good or bad he strikes a nerve. He strikes my funny bone! Love your Comedy Steve and Renea Treviño.

unicorn here!!!

Yup. Best for both parties. Trust me, she has someone to stay with even if you kick her out.

@jewleetube Oh wow there big, strong man. What a fantasy you have there. I bet if that happened to you irl you'd beg her not to leave like a little bitch. Deep down men realise any woman you get with automatically has an astronomically larger chance than you to get a partner that's just as good or even better simply because she's a woman. Male desperation either won't allow you to let her get away or will make you cry for her to take you back when you realise what you've done. And it will only get worse as you get older. But what do I know, maybe someone with temper issues that would throw out someone they supposedly love is very capable of making the right decision.

jewleetube That works too.

@jewleetube wait wait wait but that doesnt fit the narrative. I have been getting lectured on how the courts and police side with the women. So wouldnt that mean you wouldn't be able to throw her stuff out? C'mon man get your shit together you're making the other people look like liars.

@@Toxihex what is actually wrong with you ? Why do you hate men this much to spout this nonsense🤡

It has happened to me, because I'm a jackass and forgot to charge the phone. I miss the good old days when you did not need to charge the phone everyday (or even twice in the same freaking day).

Some woman are like that kid..my wife will put her phone on vibrate and forget that she did that.. so calling her now is a mission, thank God my daughter begged me for a phone . Now I call my daughter to get to my wife.

Margarida Ferreira that’s what they say too.

@@boho1926 because it's true...

Yeah, that's... I mean, I've missed calls from significant others, but only because my ringer was low or off, and I missed calls from friends too. It was never personal. I also warned my S.Os in advance if I planned on hanging with friends so they'd know I was safe and not ignoring them as a personal affront. One particular ex was toxic, however, and made it a point to deliberately start fights with me on days he knew I planned on spending time with friends, who I only ever saw every few months. We're not together anymore, but I can't imagine being that way to someone when it's so shitty having it done to me.

Yes, find a good woman but it's also your responsibility to not allow bs behaviour.

That is the thing that amazes me... the women cheering all the toxicty and celebrating it. Its absurd.

No, this is emasculated incompetent men at work.

Couldn't have said it myself

Grow up Wuss!

@@OoWhiteStaroO yep they know exactly what they do.... its because men allow it end of story

Right? Yup.

Yea calling about "how to play a DVD?" was basically "how many more hours do I got w this guy?"

👌🏽

You know it.

Yep. She's riding some other guy like a pony.

Yep

Preach!!! 🙏🏻

Right? This clip was heavy on my heart.

Lighten up Francis

Typical double standard

@Norm Meunier True, if this were a woman it would be considered the next Nanette, lol

They know it's true and dont care

The mf'n truth.

You're an angle

They have a good relationship

They write the jokes together, so they're definitely fine

The women are applauding cause they all do it and get away with it. It's crazy.

Ken Cowman true, like they don’t consider toxic behavior but tell a woman a skirt too short or piece of clothing too revealing and we are the toxic males

I mean, you still shouldn’t tell women how to dress, but the way he is describing how his wife acts is noooot cool. Toxic AF. However, let’s hope he’s exaggerating for comedic effect (though I don’t really find it funny, personally)

Although the girls that screamed at his comment was expected, I understand that while been true, he was been sarcastic the whole time. And true, this might be his real life he's telling us about, but regardless, he's getting paid for it so joke's on her!! [after been yelled at by the wife] "Thank you, 'honey'. That's some great material. I can't wait to use this on the next show!!!🖕😏🖕"

Womp womp womp. People treat you how you let them, remember that. Everyone has choices and free will.

Joshua Carrillo perhaps he chose his life partner correctly 🤷🏼‍♂️

They are jokes tho

K-V there are no jokes anymore. Everything is a life lesson. Buckle up, son! 🥴

I mean... He's a comedian. To me it would be pretty disrespectful (and pointless) if he was doing his sketch and the entire hall was silent. You know what a comedy show is, right?

Pathetic

Lol really?

Or anyone else with a pair.

But then where would he get his stand up material?

May he should stop being a beta bitch

oh definitely

Blue pill af! I shall call him doormat from now on...

That's a really good question. I'm married and I am equally confused about this. I think it's important to remember that performers may also exaggerate or embellish their stories for comedic effect.

Do you mean, "who places such restrictions on you?"

Because it builds up. Notice how the friends of the dudes who have their wives act like that absolutely relate and the happily married people in the comments are totally confused because they don't have it nothing like this, and their married friends don't have that either? It's because of the mushy, sticky mentality that women are some kind of different species and "haha look, us men simple and dum creature". You can't put a woman on a pedestal, give her everything she didn't ask for and expect not to be treated as property. When I was a kid and didn't have a type, my first relationships were with basic dudes that did this - they'd treat you like a queen even though you 'd say you don't want it, then you'd say fuck it and agree to whatever they so desperately want to give you, and then you get used to it. Then, you find yourself frustrated without any respect for the person you're with and them accepting and justifying your disrespect as "just women being women haha, I'll never understand them" and their friends relating to it too. It's the mentality that you get more points the more you give and with that, the smaller the chances of her leaving become. It's the notion that you have to win her over and she just has to sit there because there's too much competition for you to feel secure with yourself.

This is hilarious exaggerated comedy. If you haven’t done so, check out their Podcast and don’t forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell. Steve and Renae are fantastic! Comedy at it’s finest! Now remember it’s comedy, not self or couples counseling lol 😂 👍

@Stephen Averbuck being alone doesn't mean being lonely

They are cheering *because* they know this is real. Some have relationships like the one this wimp comic is describing. Others wish they could rope others into such a relationship of male servitude.

@@SvenPrime Male survitude is a myth.

@ceteris paribus Yeah... your myth theory, is the real myth.

It's always funny how they arent controlling until after the relationship is over.

Again, it doesn't start that way. Neither do business partnerships. But then the history is built up, points of view change, and unfortunately too many women (and men sometimes) learned bad habits from their parents, TV, etc. and it all becomes about who "wins" as individuals - win the argument, get what you want, etc. My wife and I started out making 5 year plans together and planning things together, date nights, friends, etc. Now, it is as he describes. Maybe menopause makes it worse as well? My wife had great listening skills when we dated, now doesn't listen at all. She is focused on her friends first - some people care more about the external opinions than inside their own house. People are shocked when they hear we don't get along, because of what she projects in public. People have always been good about being fake and knowing how to push each others buttons, unfortunately. If you lose the reason to treat each other with respect, it's over. But it doesn't start that way.

Yo, get out of that relationship man

"actually"

@@fabiankaufmann6213 I'm sorry your mother was mean to you. Mine is actually wonderful. Dad was mean though

marriage is overrated. Stay true to yourself bro

Turn gay

Are you married?

I have a lot of friends saying the same, so he is not telling jokes. This is one of those show when you can Say: is funny because is real

Its real. Promise.

Philipp Brogli no not married. But this sounds like controlling and bullying someone which I have never done.

@@xxoMIKoxx That's a good start. Even though bullies don't always notice when they bully. And there are few peoples being proud of being a bully and openly admit it. But I've heard that people in start to behave differently once they are married. That's because both the bad and the good behaviors are magnified in a marriage. If you are a little bit controlling to your friends or siblings, you will be more controlling to your husband and kids. That's why observing yourself in many different situations is important and listening to friends about your weaknesses is also helpful. Even if you think those weaknesses are not that bad. I personally try to remove a few of my most problematic bad habits before I even try to get a girlfriend. At the moment I'm just not ready. It's not like you can't improve during a marriage, but sometimes the bad behaviors even make us choose unsuitable partners. So cleaning up the life before the search of a partner is a really smart thing to do. By the way I don't claim that you have major problems. But chances are that there are still things in your live that should be solved. If not then you are one of very few people. And one of the best hints to judge if you have some bigger problem is to see if your own parents had some bigger problem. Children often subconsciously mimic exactly the same behaviors and if they are abused, they even subconsciously seek a partner that abuses them in the same way that they experienced with their parents. This is not something that can't be solved but it should not be ignored.

Isn't that some kind of toxic relationship? Or is that just the normal relationship that many people have?

Mahesa Rangga that shit’s toxic. Healthy marriages don’t work like that.