When it comes to friendships I'm very good at walking away if my mental health is disturbed, as women we are each other's enemies, we put each other down we don't know how to fix each other's crown, not everyone is meant to be in every chapter of your life, find peace in that and you will never get hurt,

Tip on house hunting: House hunt on a Sunday to know if there are any loud churches nearby and also during this rainy season if you search for houses you'll be able to assess whether the area is prone to flooding, if the roads flood during the rains or if the houses are built on riparian land to avoid instances of rivers bursting their banks and flooding into the compound or house. All the best!

My mom is a single mother too...I know the man who fathered me,I also know his other kids...Not a day in my life have i ever called him dad or daddy...All I can say is...I'm content with my lovely moms' love...she is my everything♥

I'm a home owner and we built. Reason being building will not come with the pressure to clear money owed in the process but I would definitely buy a home in the very near future. Whichever way, it's you to decide but if you get bored easily, please buy. It's easy to let go of such a house, no attachments at all.

I love how self-aware you are,this is such a beautiful thing.

I totally resonate with your experience around friendships. I was in the same shoes as you; people pleasing and it felt exhausting after a while. I would show up for her but she never did for me. I had to let it go after she disappointed me more than I could handle. It was so liberating.

I'm a low maintenance friend and so I don't (naturally) overstretch myself to do soo much for anyone. If my dynamics don't work with one friend, I'll gladly let go. Yaani tusipeane stress na pressure jamani. Alafu the dad issue, girl just let him be, wacha aishi vile alichoose. If he was interested ( which he should) angekutafuta. But he is not. Respect his decision. Let him be 🤍

Hi dear!I've been watching you for some time now and just wanted to let you know I'm very proud of you!you're my daughter's agemate but i like how determined you are to achieve your goals...may God bless and protect you always!

This has been such a timely vlog for me. Thanks so much

I have been here since then and have gone around the world with you.have seen you cry and happy at the same time.but its growth.

Everyone's journey is different, what you are looking for is closure, go expecting any outcome, but leave with the peace that you tried before it was too late, (the dad issue)

Thanks Nairofey, I love seeing people taking about their youtube journey

Nairofey you are such an inspiration what a young soul with so much at hand be blessed I always looking forward to new videos ❤

Yessss keep reaching out to brands and we cant wait to see you in that mate green defender 🥹🎉

I've always had a calling to content creation but even recording on my phone is impossible due to the quality and due to financial struggle that's a dream that I've just kept aside

I have a mixed reaction about that topic of looking for dad ,my mom she is a single mom too what we went through after separation yoooooh !😢 I just decided to respect my mom becz she didn't leave us

😂😂😂 i swear. Thats me right now, i look like a joke right now. Nobody seems to see what i see. I make videos and delete them out of frustrations. This video is so satisfying. You've described my mind literally. I'm encouraged. ❤❤

Am obsessed with your videos...congratulations girl

My mum died dad remarried and he became so violent he is a narcist he chased us away but God is faithful we are okay hustling

Yes ,Nairofey i would look for him in order to get clarity to some of the questions i have always asked myself so go for it..Its a good idea❤❤

You have really grown from the last time I saw your videos. Its only up from here.

Hey girrl❤ First about moving, it's okay to explore various things before you permanently settle for a specific thing,go get that new apartment,two if i was in your situation I'd go inquire more about my dad but before you do that meditate and pray about it first, with all that said keep doing the great job,be consistent on your platforms and bag more money,and may we be released from the shackles of people pleasing ❤

I'm a proud Virgo😊. I've had a best friend forever now. Our friendship works for us. I love my alone time too. Keep pushing girl

You are growing ❤, I love that for you

On that friendship topic, that is such a Virgo thing. I can 100% relate as a Virgo myself. Virgo is 100% the divine feminine.

I'm married too and the time we decided to build our home one thing I'm really happy about is he really did his research and we have worked with professionals from the foundation to finish. They may be a little bit higher in price but I guarantee they get their work done. If you decide to build go with professionals, don't be in a hurry and do the research

NAIROFEY l have jst started loving you and have that good feeling watching your videos....go getter go gal ❤❤❤😊

Hi Nairofey silent follower here,I love your vlogs I'm a virgo too and we enjoy that time alone but definitely lovers,keep pushing.

I do watch your vlog every single time you post and I have never commented on it buh today gal you got me ❤❤❤❤ily forever my favorite

This is amazing,learn a new thing topic on frwdship,...thanx my inspiration ❤

I love it heree🎉🎉

My favorite influencer,,,been looking for your vlogs ,,I'm so glad I found you again,,much love from South Africa🇿🇦🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I was also such kind a friend...people pleaser but they i realized they will never do the same.

You were born to do this Nairofey, you are a natural and you know how to engage your audience ❤

It's better to build your own home,as much its kinda costly depending on what you want to build, you'll be able to monitor how they're building to avoid mistakes otherwise during floods like this you can really regret

Loved this

I think you should find him, but remember things could go either way. You could get some answers but also he could also use and misuse you for who you have become. Self preservation is extremely important even from our loved ones so remember that as u proceed. Have no expectations, be patient and willing to listen.

The makeup n everything was superb 🎉❤❤

You have really elevated❤❤

Knowing your roots is very important no matter what? Remember in future you're going to be a mum and they'll ask a lot of questions

Yes I’d look for my Dad and get to hear his story you never know why he wasn’t present but now as a grown up it’s green easier to understand Some situations turn out positively ❤

Thank you for the advice it will help me in growing my KZfaq channel ❤

On the buying or building your home I'd advise you to build, you get to express your creativity and ideas to the fullest, you don't have to compromise on anything in terms of what you want, you will get all the quality materials you want yourself, in contrast to buying where you don't know whats underlying the finishes and the design might not be to your full satisfaction.

Hello Nairofey 😍 I always look forward to watching your videos 🥰 Love from Uganda 🇺🇬 😁

I do love home videos 😍

As for me i would find my dad no matter what.people are different and its good for closure just to know who he is not even get anything from him but just know who he is.

Nairofey💓💓 very humble girl

i have had a best friend for 20years im 39 now and the truth is we don't talk for months but when we meet it's like we were off for a minute!!i give her her space,she does the same but when it matters the most we are there for each other through thick and thin and i love her to bits..Nairofey, it's part of " growing up" ,embrace it all!!!love you❤

Hey Nairofey ...always here to watch your videos ❤❤mimi na mtoto wangu tunakupenda

Hi beautiful girl... I'm here about the idea of buying/building a home. Well, my husband and I bought our first home in 2022, now here's the thing, apart from the pricing if the house there's alot much more charges afterwards(like mob tu, in our case there was like more than 1M additional charges)...that was a lesson learnt so we built another home last year it cost much less and even much bigger than the one we bought... I'd recommend that you do your due diligence before buying a home...or rather buy land and build a home of your liking from scratch..All the best with all this♥️

I wouldn’t look for him. Just be happy you still have your syblings and dont bring them trauma. Love you nairofey I loved the make up out come

Hey Nairofey, thank you so much for the beginning of the video, are you able to also make a video on beginner content creator tips? Courage, what to note, as an upcoming content creator, there are certain things I am so curious to know just to help motivate us….

When it comes to friendships,it's always okay to leave if things aren't okay,and that doesn't mean you are the "bad guy".

Nairofey started with you and your channel is my happy place ❤❤❤i love you Advice in looking for your dad Its good since you would know the reason he left and whats happening about his life ❤

Build a home,dont compromise on anything ,proper planning, proper drainange at the start of building,have a step by step plan to avoid going back to undo things,dont move into the house before finishing,Dont be a rush to make the house plan,whatever you want if its a big window or maybe have a view of the sitting room as you go down the stairs no fundi should change your mind..if you have all the money in the world i suggest you buy a house in a gated community.

You live my dreamlife.. ❤ Your channel is my happy place😊

Hey Nairofey. It is great to watch yet another video from you. First, do not be apologetic over anything that makes you happy like moving and all. At long last you are using your own finances to do all that even if you moved every month. Secondly, on looking for your dad, had it been me i would definitely look for him but with an open minded mentality. Incase he denies me, i would assume i never found him and carry on. If he recognizes and appreciates me then a different life would start from there. So yes try look for him but prepare yourself for any outcome. Alll the best in that if you ever go that route. 😍

Building a home is better for you customize your home to your liking than buying where you will be forced to renovate to have things pop as you desire....

I really love your eyelashes Nairofey.... they're so gorgeous and they look way way nicer than the lashes a lash tech attaches. Like they're just so gorgeous Also nimekua nikitaka kusema, I just love your confidence. Vile tu uko yourself and your consideration for others.

Hey Nairofey... I parted ways with my dad when I was so young... so when I got older around 22 yrs I looked for him and I really thought he didn't want me but apparently he tried to reach out to me but my mom could not allow that... plus any issues between parents should not affect any bond with the kids... so find him he might want to see you...

Hapo kwa pple pleaser we are twin Damn i reasonatebso much with you 😅. You just gained a twin n subie. Hapo kwa content creation thanks alot 🎉. About your Dad you need to follow your guts sis

Hi mrembo Looking for your parent is such a personal issue, I would say if it's something you really want to do , pray about it and go ahead with an open mind and heart , expect nothing and accept all that happens rejected or not then make peace with the outcome and leave a full life knowing you did your best and you are enough. Thank you for sharing Nairofey God's speed ❤

Looks amazing ❤❤

Hey Nairofey, over time, what I've learnt about friendships is that we have to know they can be seasonal too and perhaps we get into them with a forever mindset, whereas when a season is over you can't just force things.So, yes it is okay to fall out.On communicating, I used to be like that but with some inner work I learnt empathy and nowadays I ask myself before ghosting, would I like to be treated like this? So when a friend calls, and I don't wanna talk, I text and let them know what's happening to manage expectations.Also, we need to stop expecting us from people, we are such diverse humans and nobody can fully tick our 100% friendship goals, coz we are perfectly imperfect. Finally, when you put your needs first and love yourself, some fluff will automatically go including people. Do you girl, sending hugs and love and may God guide you on meeting dad❤❤

Abit late ...karibu niteguke mguu nikija hapa Kwa Nairofey...big up babygirl.....extend your prayers to some of us ...I am drained

All i know is that,if you find your father,he will accept you because uko successful,.he will definitely benefit from you,...but ukiwa mkono mtupu?...omooooo 😅😅😅😅😅who wants a burden?

Completely relate to the one sided friendships

If I were you I would look for my dad but will not have any expectations...go go for it.

Yes, plz do it coz it will relieve you of all those questions you are having in your mind. My mother and dad separated when we were young,he later died way back in 2002. Am now married and have three kids but I traced my dad's home(our home)and finally through God's will we met our uncle's last year and our other siblings. We are happy together now. It's not a bad idea, just follow your heart dear.

Building your own home is better. You can customize it to your design. It's also cheaper to build than buying but only if you have time to be on the ground.

I like even before starting the video.Imagine for me i would love to meet my dad...though my mum said he passed on when i was small.all i know is that my dad used to work in a coop bank...thats all but now as an adult i would love to know who he was...

😂after seeing this I'm more than ready to start my chanel 😂 beeen vlogging and deleting. 😢sweet thing Nairofey has been my inspiration. We love you 😍

I’m an insurance sales agent and rejection is part of me 😂😂😂😂 T for Tough skin 😅

The fact that the thought has crossed your mind, I'd suggest you look for him if you can..... Though don't have any hopes whatsoever, because it can go both ways... You can find him and He might be uninterested in you.... You should be ready for this. Ama... It can be the other way round... You will never know until you try. Also, even if you get rejected by him, you will not be at any loss. Atleast you tried and got to know the type of person he is!

Am happy the Consistency love u Nairofey ❤❤❤

Girl that’s me in terms of friendship

If it were me, I would definitely look for my runaway dad. Even if he ends up still denying to be part of my life I will be contented and at peace to know that I did what I could do to have a relationship with him but he's the problem not me. At least I would have answers. I feel like it's way better to know. So yes Nairofey, go find your father. If he agrees to be part of your life then you might find the missing pieces of the puzzle of what happened. If he doesn't want anything to do with you then you'll live the rest of your life with no regret coz you will have already know that you are not the problem and he's just another deadbeat.

I just lovee u nairofey💓💓

Hi Nairofey, I love your content as you're just enjoying life and making money at the same time. What can be better than that but of course adding God's purpose into the mix. For your dad's manenos you need to be emotionally prepared for whatever outcome will be. If you are not ready then give it some time as remember it will automatically affect your siblings, especially your youngest sister. Sorry about your mom. For the house you need to ask yourself what your goals are - like do you want a Taylor-made home rather than building which can be cheaper but also labor intensive in terms of getting a location to build can be a challenge. If you buy it will be more expensive but the work of dealing with construction manenos like contractors, suppliers of materials, materials getting stolen, etc will be eliminated. Ready-made homes are available in all sorts of great locations. Really the answer lies with your goals - whether is for income (rent) or a dream home where your hubby will also have his input. I remember a friend telling me that is important to investigate the areas you buy to know how it was used before purchase so that you don't get plots or homes in areas with spiritual challenges, etc. But again if your faith is strong this need not apply. Don't be in a hurry because as you can see there is a lot to factor. I thank God for your marriage as it's rare for a young couple to be so focused. Continue remaining close to your hubby and keeping God central. All the best. Hope I didn't add to your confusion.

A video on why you started your channel please❤

Love you my love ❤❤❤

Hey Nairofey you have really inspired me to start a KZfaq channel 🎉❤ I always love your content and tbh 😅 ata kupata subs si rahisi but am grateful for starting this new journey coz of your inspiration

First one❤Nairofey!!

First comment for my gir!!l❤❤😁😁

Mine is short,for closure yes I would

Hello, thanks to you I have a KZfaq channel now, you are one of the people I watch and remind myself it is possible... Story about your Dad, mine left and married another woman, he doesn't send any fees and only calls my working siblings to ask for finical help. I am not saying that yours will do the same but I think if he really wanted to be in your life he would have come to you when your mom passed instead of just going just like that, if they had issues with your mom it had nothing to do with you, mostly the youngest sibling, she needed her parents the most. My baby sister can't even recognize my dad

This is amazing

Forgiveness heals the mind and brings blessing, since i have forgiven my father he brought so much blessing into to my life. Thank God for deliverance.

Nairofey, you said you enjoy decorating spaces. That can be a side hustle for you and I am sure people who resonate with your style and aesthetics will seek your services. It can simply be consultation or you can decide to go all in.

Love you Nairofey

You look very beautiful. Love u gal

Try Allan homes around kiambu road,mugumo ,Redhill, thome,runda, etc if you need a plot around there too ,stand alone,etc

Nairofey Please teach us how to do makeup 😊😊😊..

you don't fall out with people, it is seasons that change. Some people are meant to be in your life for a season and a reason. When the season has passed, they don't serve any purpose any more and that is very normal and okay.

I'm a lover of your vlogs Nairofey,though a silent follower, but today I must ask this, what did you use for a weight loss dear, I'm really struggling with a lower belly fat

The best is to buy land and build your dream home, that you have envisioned and direct your architecture 60% as he fills in 40%. Buying is good for investment at least in the long run, stay in them first, to improve on the interior and rent them out. It is true, you are a liver girl and one day, Shorn Arwa will realise, you were a true friend in thick and thin. Your weakness is what I am working on this year. I put myself first because people feel entitled to be pleased.

to me if the man was interested in knowing his kids he would have reached out especially now that you are an adult. If you reach out just be prepared for a chance of rejection and willing to accept what you are met with so you are not setting yourself up for depression.You may find he had another family he prioritized, be ready for anything.

I love your girl talk episode

I was like u I used to sacrifice myself a lot for friendship so kitambo I had this friend whom I was always there anytime she needs me while she is busy progressing her life I realized she was using me and I left she has another friend and we are now status viewers😂since then I focused on myself and I have made a lot of progress

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