Am a nanny,and I have worked for this family for 8years and we are like a family. I thank God for connecting me to this family my life will never be the same again. We are different . God bless this family

I can relate. I had a nanny who we stayed with for 7 months. She was so good with my daughter, but not perfect with house chores, in that I would do deep cleaning on Saturdays. The first day she reported to work my hubby and I told her that we want to live as family, we will never treat her as a house girl. That is where we made a mistake. We would let her accompany us on Sundays for family outings, church and also go upcountry with her. She was so comfortable that she gained so much weight, started wearing short skirts in the house and at my in-laws. She even started disrespecting me thinking I can never replace her since we are now "family". When she left I swore never to treat nannies as my sisters. I made my new one understand that she is there to work, the same way I wake up daily to go to work.

Omg, thank you for shedding so much light..

Am a nanny i have been with my boss for almost fours years na penda kazi yangu kazi yangu ni hao watoto thanx for tha video nimejifuza kitu.... Bless you

I feel like at this point I'm the Queen of choosing nannies and the reason why is if you can't gel and interact with my child you can't be here period,house chores can be taught but baby number 1 no nanny is irreplaceable because things happen,but u have learnt so much and you are doing amazing,lots of love

I so related with you especially on the part of being ready for the nanny. Ive also had nanny drama... weuuh! I felt the same. I look forward to your videos.

I don't even have kids but I watched all of this🙈 very good story telling and the intro is amazing too.

I am a first mom too ... This has taught me alot soon i will be needing a nanny i know what to consider, what to be vigilant about and how to handle them . Thank you this was really helpful. Just bumped into your channel.. You just earned yourself a new subbie

New subbie alert!!❤️🤗 Great content Margie👏very insightful..as a mom of a 6mth old I'm fairly new into the nanny world..been having one for about 3 mths and so far can't complain I hope it works,,🙏

The introduction is 🔥🔥🔥Eeh Margie you're creative👏🏼❤️

Babies can read energies. Actually from around 6 months they can be able to tell good people from bad ones. I relate so much to your story because I went through it too. It gets better definitely. I know better now to never cross that boundary between employer and employer.

Nannies! You are right, no one prepares you. People always judge the employer yaani, it can get crazy.

My first time watching your content,I enjoyed the video,your a very good story teller,I was hooked till the end.

Mine is tough had a good one and she raised my kid till 2 years after that it has been ups and downs and pure drama.... thankfully we are growing now at 4 yrs old and I keep praying for a good one but never had any as good. Anyway the kids keep growing and soon we might outgrow nannies 😊

Reliving my life through you. I call it a profession of zero professionalism. Sending you love 💗😙🤗🤗 mum. May God see us and our kids through.

This video was so enlightening especially for me , a doctor-mum about to resume work (duties , theatre , night calls await me) . I have never had to have a sleep-in maid before and I had a wonderful day-bug before I relocated to a new town. Let’s just say that I have seen things in the three months ;character development !!!. I fired three in 2 months . One reported me to my in-laws that I wasn’t helping her with house-chores yet it’s me who sourced her and I paid her salary 100%. Don’t forget that I was a new C/S mum , I was doing everything for my baby and doing exclusive breastfeeding with no expressing ; yet she was complaining about me not helping her with chores yet I was still weak, was admitted in hospital during the first 6 weeks, 100%sleepy and extremely tired and of course her boss financially (Hubby takes care of most of the things but nanny business and terms is my docket). 3rd nanny is a long story but in summary she was indecent, macho and a TV addict to the point that our living room became inhabitable during the day and she wrote me a string of nasty abuses when I politely asked her not to come back after the Christmas holidays cos she wasn’t a perfect fit for my household . Weh , I was abused proper meaning that she was malicious all through her stay in my house . I’m hoping my transition to work will be smooth with my current one

This was timely. As a nee mom I needed this advice

New subbie alert! Love your content already... Hapo kwa if your baby doesnt nap during the day, he wont sleep..koorekt!! Nannies...wuehhh..but babies grow regardless. Fire hire till you get the right one!

This intro is fire !! Love it

Today was my first day watching this! So so real and I relate to every episode you had....so catchy..... I've watched to the very end! Already subscribed!

Thank you, this is very informative whether one is a new mom or will be future mom and could need a Nanny.

This was so relatable. I kept pleasing my nanny and trying by all means. She initially left after a month and I assumed it was because I was home and we were in each other's ways... She came back when I went back to work and she stayed for almost 6months and was very good with the baby and house work. My baby had bonded so well with her. I came late from work one day and the next day she went awol. I cried for days. But I found another good nanny immediately, I learned to keep it strickly business.

Insightful! I'm here at a time when I'm going through "nannies drama"😂😑

I have had one day burg for two years now, and she raised my son since day one. All I have learned is to overlook the small things and focus on the bigger picture. No one is perfect, but the negatives shouldn't be as many...

Hahaha, 'angalia kijana yako' in that accent is probably my favourite part. And Rayani😆😆oh my. This is really informative Margie.

Mamas! Nannies are there to help lessen your work load so u can parent and raise your children. Be careful not to delegate that role to the nanny. Otherwise your stories are great. I ve had nannies and I prefer they do housework so I can never miss their milestones and unsafe situations

First time here and am loving this

The INTRO!! 😍😍😍😍😍

Weee i was just searching for nanny dramas and see how to deal with things and I came across this channel.... Thanks

Have learnt a lot as I am planning to get one along the way motherhood can make you forget yourself hence got the courage to accept I need the help. Help keep God

Nannies!wueh!!! Anayways if they're done just let them go like that minute. Relatable content

Looking back now with extensive my nanny experience that has been honed since the first time I watched this🤣🤣🤣, I think they usually go for interviews expecting to start work immediately. By the time you called, they had probably found other jobs.

Aki this is my character ,the imitation parts plus the nannies stories wuuue .....

I realise how much a blessing it is that I have had the same nanny since I was 8 months pregnant to date- 16 months later.

Thank you for sharing your journey! I thought I was weird...the not being ready part, and changes that come in the home

I just love the story en the story teller too..... straight to subscribing..

Woi I can relate. My nanny is a bit older and she always wants to tell us what we should do. I already told her to cut that out. It is very annoying. She also tries to give us hints by mentioning what other nannies told her they are getting in the estate. She would tell me a nanny's salary was added to 10k then a week later she will tell me the same nanny is getting 8k. Then she will later say 9k. She is always trying to manipulate me to add more salary. So far I am her highest paying employer. The thing I love about her is the fact that she loves my son and we always help her out when she has a problem. Getting the right nanny is difficult.

it is more harder having twins the past 1 year has been tough very stiff ,i have gone through hell as afirst time mum ,for me i realised nannies were making me to be depressed , i couldnt concentrate at work i spent every month hiring for some reasons i became depressed ,i almost gave up on work and wanted to go home and rest , when my babies got to 8 months i took them to a daycare bcoz i dint have anyone to help me with ,since then its 5 months now and am happy since i know they are in good hands ,i dont have to interact with any nanny except the lady who takes care of them ,what i have gone thru i cant explain in words ,God is there for our babies

I'm so grateful for these videos. I have really been feeling guilty. we have had one nany for 2 years. she came in once a week then when my baby was born she became full time. its a mess she is not coping but for some reason i feel guilty to let her go 🤣 i fept better after watching your nanny videos

I've employed more than 20 some of them I don't even remember them.So much drama but luckily I landed on a good one and I thank God it's almost 2yrs now.

I relate with everything!!! If I could tell my story, you would laugh and cry, full DRAMA!!! But my mum says, children can't be wekelewad a rock, yaani they continue growing through all this drama. One day we won't need a nanny, soon.

Nannies, I just hire and fire depending on my sons reaction, I once had one who i fired the next day my son kept crying whenever she held him. Rule number one trust your child's instinct.

😂😂😂😂Mimi their is this one could call my daughter"wewe"or Nani"was like mbona usimuite her name eti hapana hio Ni yako na yeye 🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️

The intro is everything

You Nailed that Accent!!loved this episode

I enjoyed this episode a bunch

Thanks for sharing. Kindly guide us more when you become a professional on dealing with our domestic workers or nannies. Have actually been checking around for any Kenyan researcher who have written something about this to no avail. Balancing between being human or godly, professional while dealing with unprofessional people, patient and wellbeing of the children and entire family is quite a task.

This video made me subscribe to your channel & it's only my 1st one that I randomly walked into KZfaq

The nanny struggle is so real...

My journey is your journey, used to treat them as family, but not anymore, i used to cry alot too, i had one for a year, but when she left, i was shuttered, the nanny drama started

Weeeeee!!!!……I love that you prayed for a better nanny.Am also praying for mine too🙏🏾. Lovely introduction and keeping us first time mommies engaged in your journey. It keeps me in the know how and motivated.More blessings Mama.

I'm in this situation, I relate to this so much

Ur intro aw wow so professionally love it

I really love the intro, first time I am seeing it😊❤

Soo nyc story already a new sub

I enjoyed this video. The choking part tho 😢😢

You are good story teller si nimecheka ❤️❤️

Loved it❤️

😂😂😂 mayie nyar awuor. Angalia kijana yako..haha Rayani. Good lessons here

Even though I'm not a mum yet I really loved this😁😁

I loved the ending that she geled with your baby

New subbie, you are a wonderful storyteller. ❤️

Nannies have weaknesses bosses too have weaknesses that can't be narrated in public coz some of their mistakes are so embarrassing. All in all it's good to have boundaries 😉☺️. As a Nanny I have learned so many lessons that when I come to your home to work I'll focus on that no stories having goals. Your child is my priority coz I also have kids and it's somebody else taking care of them back home so I always think that if I mistreat your mine will also get mistreated. We'd rather colide on the house chores and not the baby . I love my boss Soo much coz she understands me. Ofcourse no one is perfect when she comes home and finds something not done but the baby is fine she'll pick it from where I left and not making noise. When I go to someone's house I don't care about tv I have my phone , it's not a must I ask you for the password I'll connect to the internet myself by going to setting then push button 😂😂 while long pressing the WPS button on the router 😂😂😂😂😂 I don't even know how knew these. Though even if I have the internet connected I know when to use it of course I would not let my boss know that am using it.

Mine is my world aki akienda Mimi kwisha.. My baby tells me momy you are not my friend, auntie is my friend.. I can't feed her, I struggle to bathe her.. Yaani the nanny is everything

Loving your content

Aki margie, this is the first video nimewatch yako. I have watched it to the end. Mimi tuko 3 and half months and we've had one nanny since week one. I love her so much and I shower her with gifts. Nikitoka job lazima nimletee kitu ata kama ni miwa. Huyu akienda mimi nimeisha. But I also love your storytelling prowess. I hope to get this good aki.

Pole sana 4 all tht.am a nanny. grtfl to God 4 connecting me with th best.niko mwaka wa saba same same house.my madam nilimpata mara ya kwanza na mtoi wa 6months nikamlea .mwingine na mwingine.....yni watoto watatu kazaliwa nikiwa apa na yule niliyempata kadogo kijana kamegrow.mwenyewe twapendana sana sana.yni ni mungu tuh ukiwa na roho ya kupenda mwenyewe utaishi vizuri na watoto.yni ni God tuh

Loving loving the new intro❤️So good to see you grow and not sit in your comfortable zone.Also great story too.Am not yet a mother but I always say when I have kids nitawapeleka day care pap!It's just 100 Bob per day penye naishi.mambo ya house help,Sijui house managers,nanies sitaki!!!

Malenge kwa menu hehehe, waa dealing with nannies can be hectic. Sasa sisi who have not been through that journey, at least we know what to expect. Thanks Maggie

At some point I stopped and held my hands at akimbo! Ati you found the nanny with earphones weya!!! AND SHE STAYED 😨😨😨 Lakini you have heart

Hahahhaha I can relate. I got one from 2 months roll four months. I was afraid of letting her go, I used to express milk and every day I get 3 packets used. I thought my baby was well fed, I let her go especially while she began being silent with me and not responding positively, I let her go and when I got my current she has been a blessing, a day burg and my baby likes her alot and cries when she leaves. I'm praying we can go on very long aki🙏🏻

I love the intro 😍😍

Very true nanny heartbreak is different 😂

You're a brilliant story teller 😂😂😂😂

Thank you for sharing!!!

woooww you are really tolerant....I have had so many nannies so far and I release immediately I see a red flag

❤️❤️❤️You are amazing

".....treat employees like employees" this is the thing

"Huyu anatupeleka aje haraka, na meno haijatoka" ... sorry, I had to laugh 😂😂😂

A new subbie here, suffering from broken ribs! "Angalia kijana yako!" "Rayani" I had to pause to laugh first.

Never ever treat a maid like your sister. don't take them to visit your friends or in-laws, or watch tv with them all the time. familiarity starts there. TELL THEM EARLY ON THAT THEY ARE THERE FOR STRICTLY WORK WHICH IS PAID FOR. PERIOD

You good with narrative. 👍🏻

Angalia kijana yako has finished me 🤣

When I listen to this,I feel like watu home muko so spoiled,do u know hapa tunajifanyia yote and go to work unatokea job unachukua mtoi daycare,kazi za nyumba zakungojea.

Gosh finally someone that feels like me. I don't know how to share my space with non family members,like maids. Resorted to have atleast even the slightest family relationship

Am 8 months into motherhood, n I can relate...hadi nimejiambia sitaki house gal hihihi...God help us!!

The jina ngumu ya mtoi has finished me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hahaha "angalia kijana yako" wueeh those red flags I can relate...

I had a daybug for the entire first year. She was a lifesaver for me. Now I am a stay at home mum running a little #bag_kiosk business on the side 😉 because I just didn't want the nanny drama.

Thank you for this

Ati 'pambana na hali yako'? Surely! Nannyworld was a piece of work for me at the beginning! Our last one then stayed for 10 years. She had a good heart, took good care of the girls and cooked descent meals. Wasn't super tidy buy that was fine. That was my compromise. We think about her often. She became one of us. 😊

I could relate tho this story , I had my fair share of nanny drama. It was the first time coming across your channel but the title caught my attention. I enjoyed everything but I kinda felt lost as I couldn’t understand certain phrased ( which I assume would be your native language). I love the content and therefore I’m subscribing. BEST OF LUCK WISHING YOUR CHANNEL GROWTH AND SUCCESS

Aah Margie I have learnt so much. Sorry for the experience. I'm happy you currently have a good nanny. I have had mine since my son was 2 months. He's now 8 months and the nanny is still great. I am guilty for treating her like a sister but deep down it's not as a bribe to keep her but generally just trying to "mentor" her. I keep it very professional whilst also being open to banter here and there. I pray we keep it together at least until he's 1 year but I'm keeping an open mind just in case she leaves us out of the blues. I say a prayer for my son before I leave for work and call in randomly to check on them. My hubs works from home so he let's me know if there's sth not working and if I talk to her about it, then she gets shocked that we coordinate and that just because I'm at work doesn't mean that I don't know what is happening at home. I'm thinking of fixing cameras but my son likes her so much. He prefers her to me which feels bad BUT makes me feel at peace because babies' energies do not lie. Thanks. God bless 😂😂

Just discovered your channel..love it..

Ooh may God I can relate to everything that you are saying,it's like my earlier me talking in you,I was not ready and they were also not acomodative,wacha tupambane na hali yetu

Nannies are the real Character development experts!😅

The story of your Nasty nanny is what I'm going through right now. You've made me realize that I need to release her asap.. She's disconnected with my 4yr old kabisa. I'm never at peace when I leave them alone in the house I always feel I should take my daughter with me. Every time I ask my daughter if she likes her she says she doesn't know. Or she's not sure weh . Its timd

... angalia kijana yako 😂😂😂😂 ...this part has finished me😂😂

Everytime I hear about nannies stories my skin crawls literally 🤣 yaani zile drama nimeona especially with young kids from kukuliwa fare to watoto kuachwa peke yao to the latest wa kutoa mitungi ya gas akiuuza waah 😡

Angalia kijana yako🤣🤣🤣🤣.. how you mimick them its hella funny.. i just discovered you