I really hope you learn a thing or two. I have learnt a lot from my many mistakes and the red flags i ignored. This was hard to post because i was kinda emotionally invested and i needed to process. ❤️❤️

Girl!! This nanny issue...every mom should write a book! 😂😂 Glad you picked your lessons and moved on. God has a good help for you. Our "help" comes from the Lord. Thanks for keeping us glued to the screen. 👍👍

This is my first time interacting with your content Margie, and I must say listening to you is just calming. Following you on socials, because of this energy you're giving 😊

Hahahahahaha 🤣🤣 this was soo hilarious to watch!the imitation part was everything. The moment she started asking your hubby for her needs!that was the moment to let her go!

I have subscribed!!Your narration is on point. The story so relatable.

Your narration is great and you remember every nitty gritty of it. Good listening to you

At least I got something to learn from this. I'll always be on the lookout.

I am a first time mum and working too and your nanny stories are so eye opening.

I was actually loosing it on your behalf. You are really tolerant heee!

WE’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS STORY😂😂

I have subscribed🤣🤣🤣! Wueh this story🙆🏽‍♀️ I got tired on your behalf😂. Too many chances waaah. You’re such a good story teller ❤️

I really love your nanny videos, I learn Soo much!!

It's my first time watching your video and I swear you are my best! Patient, eloquent and all the good adjectives, I'm your new subscriber!!!😘😘

Not my single self who doesn't even know when she'll get her firstborn watching this nanny's videos to the end😹😹😹

I’ve died aki 😂😂 your narration is 💯 and the stories, very relatable

Am a nanny and am learning 3 years now with my boss.zero dramas super professional

I am new here and i just landed here jana!!!i am happy for the progress of this one video.This is what brought me here!!!! Go go go gal!!!

😂😂😂 you imitating the way she talks is so funny I'm still not planning to get a baby soon but your story is educative I love it

For sure you learnt from experience. That's what i call learning the hard way.That's how we grow in this things.Great content.

This is so insightful your such a delight am a huge fan of your content kudos

Your housekeeper was just a chancer. A housekeeper has no business calling your husband for money. This one was just a bad worker. I am so sorry hun. You are such a kind person.

Your story had made me subscribe to your channel. You are a great storyteller and so funny.

Hi Margie, love your storytime, learning a lot. If possible, please put subtitles. Thank you. 🥰

You are an amazing person. Next time you tried employing someone and you find out they've taken another job after you've discussed with them move on and leave them be. People can be very cunning. She may have gotten a better offer but because she felt guilt tripped she came to you and decide to make you make up for it in the worse way. Humans. I'm just glad that this nanny stage is just for a time. Blessings to you👼🙏❤️

You're such a good story teller. Thanks for the insights.

I think them ladies take advantage of your kindness..you're the very boss everyone would yearn for...you so patience for her nonsense....I so much love you

I have a baby and the thought of this kind of drama makes me skeptical about getting a nanny. Your story gives me chills wueh

I love you sisi the way you talking is so eloquent

New subscriber, And oh thanks for this storytime I've learnt from it.

I also noted that once the nanny know that your husband is "nice"... They start thinking that they can cross boundaries... U disagree with her n she will think that your husband will agree with her which really makes me feel disrespected ....one of the red flags

New subscriber and I just love listening to you,can't wait to listen to your next release..have picked some lessons.

Your narration was everything. I have learnt alot.

Aki you are so good your patience is on another level ....

Margie your patience is on another level. That kind nanny could have my home the first two weeks

I remember it was this or a previous househelp video that caused me to love your channel. I miss this. You're such a good storyteller. I haven't given "What is That?" a chance because when I see two people on the screen I felt disheartened, like, "So no more stories?" and didn't bother to subscribe with this channel. I think it's because I could also really relate to many of your experiences. This popped up in my feed yesterday and I'm going to watch it and the other video again. I hope I've expressed myself kindly.. and I trust that God is helping and building and strengthening you, and that you now, like me, FINALLY have a good nanny.

The most awaited video on this channel

Beautiful hair.❤️ ...big difference between trying to save someone i.e. helping them escape the reality of life and being kind. The former makes gets you used and taken for granted. You will be giving to someone to drink or even give the cash to a boyf or girlf at your expense. Unfortunately/fortunately I learnt this last year. No one saves me, not saving anyone else either. I deal with all my problems and live by my means. *Not just about DMS but about humans in general.

You ae a saint!!! Meeeee oooohhhhh, that patience DO NOY HAVE OOOOOHHHHH!!!!

Amazing story, it's very calming listening to you... Your luhya accent is on point 😅😅😅.

Margie you are a great story teller, mimi hata 5hrs nitakuskiza tu.. I am of the Insta guys who were curious😂 we are very much invested.. Thanks for sharing..❤️

Thanks for this video. Am glad am looking after my kids. Coz this issues are too much.

Your nanny stories are just hilarious 🤣and very informative!

Do a tutorial on your hair, this style looks lovely.

You are very very patient 😂😂 .... you are also a great narrator 💯

I'm terrified before I even listen, i have a nanny and i generally struggle with boundaries. I worry that I may be ignoring red flags

I enjoy your story telling..this was funny and relatable.❤

First time here and sorry for what happened but i loved how u gave the story😊

Not me gasping in shock every minute because this story is something else!!! 🙆🙆🙆🙆

I am also in a 'toxic' relationship with my nanny.. this story has opened my eyes in so many ways.. aki I'm such a clown. anyway.. a new subscriber here and it's about time, I let my 'perfect' nanny go. she is good with my baby but vituko, stealing and I have already led her a few thousand in advance.

Very timely thanks namesee

😂😂 the impersonation is hilaaaaaaaaaaaarious!

I enjoy your story about your nanny, you open my eyes, thanks a lot 🙏🙏💖 from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦✌️

It's how u imitate the Nanie 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂a new subscriber here 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳it's my duty to watch all of ur videos 🔥🔥🔥🔥

First time listening and subscribed, good story that is relatable

It's the Luhya accent for me!😂😂😂😂😂.... The storytelling was 💯

Wauuuuuuu this story is so touching but mama Ruani piece of advice dont allow your nanny to lack respect to tha fact of calling your husband nooooo set boundaries please and thats the first thing you need to tell your nanny while start a job no calling your husband no matter what respect ikue hapo

You have the patience of a saint truly

You actually have so much grace, I had a similar experience and my patience didn't last.

New subscriber.I love the storytelling

Woow. Great story telling...very relatable. I understood virtually everything even though I don't know swahili. That said, girl, the first red flag was her saying she's leaving a job she has been at for less than a minute to come work for you. That was really shady 🤦🏿‍♀️

I am a Nanny,I don't throw my burdens to my boss,I just negotiate what will sort me,en I concentrate on my job.a person like that, does not even attend to your child

just watched this after a long strenious shift.....laughed woooi.....the luhya accent waaaa😅🤣.. you are a perfect narrator😅

You are so GORGEOUS and your stories are so relatable too

🥰Maggie is my inspiration in this KZfaq journey😊

Your accent is on point. Aki si you are patient....weuhh. You made the right decision,

You are patient Maggie

Eish Margie you are very patient. I wish hio song ya sipangwingwi ingekua imetokea. You have made me to start reconsidering some things. Quite informative

This lipstick looks so good on you Margie!

Aki I admire your patience 🙆🏽‍♀.

The same one who has no school fees money bought a stolen jacket...so so bad to a point you have to avoid your own home....I'm glad you did not reply to her, DON'T! Its her looking for sympathy again. Thanks for sharing Momma

Aki Mama Ruani... Your accent... It's such an interesting story... You are one patient person.

I really love your stories

I can relate with you...I have a weakness of being too nice to my nannies that in the end they leave you high n dry....I see red flags n funny stories...you are out the next minute. I got tired!

😂😂😂😂😂 Aki mama Ruani you have grace. She took your kindness as a weakness.

Am a nanny six yrs with my boss taking care of three girls triplets...from the day those kids were born...no dramas ...love 💕 my boss alot love these my ATMs....coz these girls are my Atms......she is my best boss ever..... kudos mum shii....you are one in a million...

Think have fallen victim of this many times. But true never allow a nanny to think that you can't do without them. Sometimes it's good to check on the balance sheet of the nanny . Debits and credits.

Omg!!! I found one video of yours one time and it potelead me😂 thank God you're back I've subscribed now I love love love everything about your channel. Can't wait to see more

1. As difficult as it may be for some mums out there, never show any form of desperation for a househelp/nanny when interviewing them, before they start working for you or even when they are working for you. The "God bless you" message you sent her in the beginning gave her leverage to come & manipulate you. She felt you owed her for her abandoning the other job. 2. Have boundaries with your nanny/househelp. Your oversharing the previous nanny's flaws with her also gave her confidence to continue milking you😂😂. If possible, get her uniforms to keep things professional. She is not your sister, cousin or other female relative - she is an employee and should be treated respectfully but at arms' length. 3. Someone who steals and lies no matter how little or small is still guilty. You should have let her go at the point of her lying about okoa jahazi. Never let issues snowball before handling them especially if its a dealbreaker for you. 4. Be very wary of day bugs or nannies who travel between your home and theirs frequently like on weekends. You might just be shopping for 2 households. I have stories of such who basically steal house supplies from their employers. Not all are thieves but be very alert incase you have one with such a working arrangement. 5. Don't invest emotionally on househelps. Treat them respectfully and kindly but don't overindulge yourself (back to keeping boundaries).Remember they are there because you are paying them - if you had no cash to pay them, they might sympathise with you briefly but they will leave so to them cash is king.

A great story teller🔥🔥

I think a boss like u is just frm heaven....ave never had a boss so free like you with ua nanny like how??instructions and work,period!!!nannies plz if u have a good boss like Maggie...again don't take it for granted

Finally 😁 what we order you deliver kudos girl

Wee it's the level of patience you had aki.... your employer also is a good one ... missing work every now and then

Aaah!! You put up with a lot! She's a master manipulator that one😂😂😂😂

Am a New subscriber i love the advice you have given us, thank you alot for this

I love the narration🥰you're a nice boss

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣You buying back the jacket. I'm done 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Oh wow. I think you were too lenient with her. For me, the minute I notice a nanny has stolen anything, I let her go there and then. I am currently without a nanny because my last one started stealing. May God grant us good nannies. I am good to them, so I will not condone theft.

I always like your advice 💕

That must have been very draining! And you're really patient

weh! You are super patient.Mimi angeenda kitambo.

First timer here. I enjoy the stories

You are a good story teller 😂😂

This was so hilarious though...you are a good narrator

Thank you for sharing your experience! We live to learn....Very hilarious narration 🤣🤣! You are so patient...lol!!!

Aki you are soo patient wooiii.

You are very patient. That nanny is triggering me!😩

Hello margie I love your videos,watched your story on unmothering the woman and just loved you,Good job bringing stories we can all relate to

I'm getting third party frustration! Weh! Pole sana aki...

I watched kitt kiarie's video on how to interview nanny's....I picked one point and it has helped me treat them as employees and nothing else , they are not family , they are not friends....treat them the same way you are treated as work by your bosses.

"Sasa mimi nimependa content yako na nimelike hii video sijui utanipangako aje😀" ION I'm always looking forward to your uploads, straight up good and relatable content. I'm glad i discovered your channel.