At 48:00, that's what we did. Just a week ago, 25th Feb, we got married at the AG and had a wonderful photoshoot and dinner with friends. My family is forward thinking but my husband's have and still give me a hard time. I am a Kikuyu and my husband is luhya. Of course there were stupid remarks about Kikuyu women, our ruracio I was told to remove my dress...that they didn't like it. Told them they might as well leave. That was my mom's house. Their son wasn't doing me a favour by marrying me and it wasn't too late to part. Of course my husband has always been on my side. Then we wanted a small wedding coz of our budget but his mom would say that the village knows her and everyone has to come. In short a 1.5+ million wedding. We told them we can't spend part of our savings, 1.5+ for a one day event unless they were willing to give us the money. And of course they weren't gonna do that. So we decided, because they are prolonging and making this process more difficult, we opted to go to the AG. My mom was for it. His parents gave us a hard time and guilt tripped us. The cousins were also not happy. But guess who is happy, these newly weds. They will adjust to the new reality when they decide to. They said they've blessed us because their son didn't back out but regardless, I have put up very strong boundaries. Lesson learnt, sometimes your family or People closest to you are intruders.

This conversation was so hilarious yet informative. thank you! see we can actually have conversations about our different cultures without looking down on others

This was so beautiful and refreshing to watch❤️Thankyou ladies, we need to see more of both of y'all❤️

This was so beautiful to watch. More videos with Kitt, please and thank you.

I totally enjoyed this video. Good job Margie and Kitt!

This video was everything!!! Really enjoyed

I have enjoyed this video....Margie was open more , I have learnt a lot about cultures and most importantly "if it doesn't take anything from you just do it"

This was so fun to watch. You both have great energy. I have learnt about different cultures as I haven't interacted much with people from others deeply. I'm like Martin, attended one burial and wondered why was everyone crying 😭

I am re-watching this video and laughing hard just the same! This was insightful and fun! Bless y’all❤️

Looooooove this video! I'm stuck at the bouquet story🤣🤣🤣wow Margie. Just wow.

Aaaah... I love it here! You ladies are just so Amazing!!!

My husband is an intercultural/tribal child from Ghana and married an African American woman from the USA. It’s complex and requires understanding but our family dynamic is beautiful. I wouldn’t change it!! 🥰🥰

Thank you ladies! This was so funny & refreshing to watch 😂

Just seeing the video is over 50 minutes & huraaaaaay! My evening is sorted.

43:18 kitt "this is the position hands on the head and then you go" 🤣🤣🤣

This was so much funnnnnn! 🤣 Captivating! You two beautiful ladies! Kitt: My son is walking around with his foreskin. 🤣🤣🤣 This vlog is on point.

We want another collaboration like this.... I loved my two faves!!!😍😍

I have enjoyed this convo...Margie is the real deal.

I am in loove with the fact that your content resonates with real life issues . Good job Maggie❤

Can I list why this has made my day... 😆 1. I'm also in a cross cultural marriage 2. Two of the few vloggers I follow and like.. 3. Just the honesty, vulnerability and openness is just refreshing..no beating around the bush.... love it...

I could watch Margie and Kitt's vibe all time. From time since I've known Margie I've been binge watching her episodes, the laughter, the warm heart she portrays through the screen is so real, for sure❤️❤️❤️

Maggie's husband is constantly having a good time unapologetically, I love to see it!!!

Wow I have loved the conversation and I've really laughed, could we please have a part 2.

I loved this. Good to learn cultural practices and your experiences are just hilarious

Enjoyment at it's best. Laughing while learning is the best feeling ever good job Kitt and Margie

Kitt's and her family's open-mindedness 👏👏 very informative video

Yaaaniii!! Mimi na Kitt ni kama Tuko same wozzop half of the things 😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾 I really really enjoyed this video. Please collab more often

I had so much fun watching this 😍😍😍

Interesting conversation, loved it!!

This video was so much fun. Please do more videos together, thank you ❤

This was so good!

I love your energy ladies and I learnt a lot about how we navigate and should navigate culture and traditions. Overall you two should make more videos together 🥰

So relatable I just had to subscribe. I am a Luo from Migori, raised in Nairobi, and married in Kisumu. Let me tell you! Very difficult. The guys up north have really fixated mindsets when it comes to beliefs that is totally different from how I was brought up. It is a struggle I tell you.

This is a nice one... I'm here from team Kitt 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Love it when phenomenal women collaborate.....

Definitely loved the video. So so much

I relate 100% the language switching, food choices, typical upbringing and the in laws....so fascinating and enlightening

Maggie you should definitely do another video with Kitt ,this was so hilarious. Kwanza did we bury the right person waaah 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The intro is so dramatic.i love it🥰😁

Love this topic and duo, pls do another one soon🥰🤗

A very important thing to note with marriage ceremonies, is to understand what other traditions the family observes, to avoid consternation when you have kids (shaving, naming), polygamy, God forbid one of you dies, the surviving spouse should know what to expect/ prepare for etc. because Luo funerals are very expressive while centrooo funerals are clinical affairs.

I have laughed and cried and laughed again! Top tier entertainment! 😂

I really enjoyed this video, watched it non-stop

Such a fun video! Loved it.

I have really enjoyed this episode! Ah 😄😄

This was funny as hell 😂😂😂I love it

i love this collabo. you should do more

This is an interesting convo n informative, Kitt's laughter cracked me up all through😂🤣😅

Really enjoyed watching this,I have laughed. I'm luo married to a kisii few months and I can relate to all of those shocking traditions during the wedding.Margie.

I have laughed so hard through out!! Kwanza the burial part😂😂 I'll be back for some doze💕

You two girls are a vibe❤️❤️

😂 hapo kwa funerals kwanza, was shocked to hear some luo families even hire mourners... Kikuyus just shed passing tears and move on.. Alafu, Weh, the first luo burial I went for went on till evening, around 5/6pm I was wondering kwani what's the deal here... Kumbe that's how it is... Kikuyus are usually done by 12 then people eat and go back to work 😏 but all in all, we celebrate the diversities. May God bless you ladies and your families 🙌

sbcribed to the channel... here after watching the video on kitt's channel & loved the vibe

I'm a new viewer and you guys have made my day. You were so hilarious 🤣🤣

Love the content. Luhya married to kisii. I've learned things here about kisii culture. I think Margie is kidogo starstruck with Kitt but it's a 🔥🔥 combo

Such a good video!!!

This was so funny to watch. Especially the funerals part 😂😂

I fully understand what you went through Margie during your traditional wedding. Im a luo from south Nyanza married in Siaya county. The culture shock I have waah, The Siaya people believe in weird traditions.

This was very interesting!!

This is an amazing topic very good conversation

Aki you ladies have nailed it a good one. This things need to be talked about. Am a kikuyu dating a beautiful luhya man. I know when it's time God will provide peace no matter what.

Interesting conversation!!!I was hooked!!Kitt you are so level-headed,reasonable...just a breath of fresh air...

You just got yourself a new subscriber

I have laughed the whole episode ..you are super women...im a luhya married in Homabay and for real if given a chance id have sticked to a man of my cultures.The culture shock i got in South Nyanza ,the deep cultures shocked me,im just lucky i have strict parents that if they say this is a NO ,you gonna nothing to it...we luhyas also we saw rooted in that chicken bit😂apart from my parents,who will keep shouting in the house that if you dont go per his house rules...stand and leave...he is a man of the cloth and you will have to respect that.....i wish i attended the show😁

Phenomenal women ❤️❤️. I'm a Kikuyu Lady married to a Luo Man. I love this colabo

I have burst into laughter! ati forgot the rings 🤣

I really enjoyed this conversation😂...and learnt alot too

About the big sister issue,I have heard of it ... Such beautiful ladies

U both are so bubbly u need to do more videos together I love💕💕

This convo is just hillalious. Am a kikuyu and that thing of not crying during funeral has cracked me up. I didn't cry the day of my dad's funeral I had cried so much before the day

A kissii married to a luo, i am still to recover from all the cooking we do at funerals eish, yawa!

Watching this diligently with my boyfriend 🙂 since we are also in the same boat.

Love this 😊.

The chicken issue is very serious 😃 I can right you a whole book 😂😂

Moraa Karibu to our kisii family. Its funny am kisii i was married but we didnt do all this but i guess i live in diaspora. Welcome home dear moraa

Very interesting content!!

I loved this❤️😂

Dope! You as a couple either decide that *retrogressive culture is bigger than the two of you or present a united front and stand together no matter what💯

I am a luhya married to maasai the cultural differences are huge only that we don't go into details but I enjoy the MAA

I love the intro

lovely!

I have laughed all through😂 most so on the funeral part

My first video by Margie and I have loved you the most. Tomorrow is Sunday, allow me to camp in your channel

This afternoon,I as Lynn have laughed and cried and laughed again 😂😂😂😂🤎

Great conversation ✅

I think it is true us Kikuyus try not to cry during funerals and one has to be strong.When my Dad died I was 16 I cried the night before when I was in bed but during the funeral I did not cry because for SOME WEIRD REASONS I DID NOT WANT MY MOTHER TO SEE ME CRYING LOL,my reasoning was that it was a bigger loss to her than it was to me so I needed to be strong for her ...what the hell lol and mind you nobody had told me this ! strange I know!

I like your personalities 💕

I noted the story of the firstborn daughters its never easy for us but prayer keeps us going 🙏

Kitt is making me laugh alone like a mad woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hah... marriage...the tradition ceremony had a lot of hiccups ...long story short, it never happened...I got married either way. My hubby and I got into a matatu, went to the AG's and got married. Best decision we ever made.

Just that intro made me subscribe

This is fun😂ati margie you doubt the person being burried if you didnt view😂😂

Wah! Aki si I've laugh btw I was dancing when you played the section where your husband came in dancing. That music was good. Please invite me to luo functions. Maggie's and my experience were similar. I finally had to do a civil wedding because of the drama. I really enjoyed this video, I've actually know about you through Kitt and I've subscribe.

I just love you ladies. Luo culture with this thing of people coming and eating chicken😂😂

That thing for Kikuyu funerals, aki i was also shocked. I wondered why people are not crying... waaaaah!!! It was so weird...

The ceremony for carrying the baby in Kikuyu is "kuchugia mwana"

You guys should be best friends

I am Kyuk. And I am always fascinated by other cultures as much as you guys are fascinated by ours especially the burial one. I don't understand why the wailing and havoc though I know it is culture. And yes if you don't wake up kuenda mortuary you will miss viewing of the body.

Maggie is such a story teller😅😅

I thoroughly enjoyed this 😊😊😊 I'm shocked that Kitt doesn't know about the chicken thing 🤣🤣🤣..