Narcissist's Cycles of Ups and Downs

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As narcissistic supply waxes and wanes, the narcissist goes through cycles: a depressive phase is followed by hibernation for recuperation purposes and then the emission of a "narcissistic signal": a call for new narcissistic supply.
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@Costumerchx 11 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's the drugs or alcohol that triggers a down cycle or abuse, so I've noticed.

@Rubacund 11 жыл бұрын

Narcissists are very charismatic and charming. Usually, you don't know you are dealing with one till they stab you in the back, or do sabotage you.

@michaeljackson7361 4 жыл бұрын

It's in your life. Then knives to your belly. Then park you in their garage. They need your supply sometime later on in life. They get desperate. No contact ever is the key.

@akumawani 4 жыл бұрын

yep. you feel it at the very beginning- when they are love bombing and gaslighting you- but we get so caught up in it we just dont follow that gut instinct thats telling us to get the hell outta dodge...

@DesiLuProd 5 жыл бұрын

It's exhausting to be the narcissist and to be with one. Everything you said is true and on point.

@stephanwatson7902 6 жыл бұрын

It's like the up cycle is their fake self when they feel they can put on the act and the down cycle is the real worthless empty shell they feel (at times accurately) that they are...

@bobbibacha 5 жыл бұрын

They are fake all the time

@aprilmaher8000 5 жыл бұрын

It’s more like splitting really. One is exaggerated good and the other is exaggerated bad but both are technically part of the narcissist.

@janesmith8894 4 жыл бұрын

This is sad for all involved... Sending loving-kindness🙏

@JonPerson 12 жыл бұрын

It's sad that narcissists cause so much damage when they were hurt at a young age. But still... Break all ties and get the word out on how to spot them. The video Sam posted about recognizing one on a date is spot on.

@TheKhat88 5 жыл бұрын

Noticed these cycles and in the early stages asked the covert narc I was involved with if he suffered with Bipolar because he presented as having a manic episode. Then with continuous gaslighting, triangulation, silent treatment and narc rage whenever he was called out on his pathological lying I realised that he’s a covert narc.

@666ZoeZoe 12 жыл бұрын

When I was going through my divorce from my now ex husband I found Sam's web site and ordered his book. Sam's book is a text book on what I dealt with for 21 yrs of my life. Sam's book and site were a huge help in me getting over my PTSD that resulted from those years of living in his NPD abuse prison.

@pauladsilva9374 5 жыл бұрын

I saw these cycles very early on....I even mentioned it to him...I told him you seem to be struggling with something...and I was right.

@Kingsdaughter10.4 4 жыл бұрын

I wish I would’ve seen this a year ago. Holy cow. Everything just clicked.

@ESSER68NJ 9 жыл бұрын

this is exactly what i saw, this is amazing. they will gaslight you on this too like what youre seeing is not happening. before i realized my narc was a narc these cycles were more frequent. meaning after i called them out on their shit they then tried to hide it.

@debracrowder7179 7 жыл бұрын

my narc thought he was bipolar but now I understand what was really happening

@samvaknin 7 жыл бұрын

Narcissism is often misdiagnosed as Bipolar Disorder www.narcissistic-abuse.com/journal71.html

@1991windsor 5 жыл бұрын

Mine thought he was bipolar, too. He showed zero empathy ever. Sadly, that confirmed with me he's a narcissist.

@ammitlakwani4638 4 жыл бұрын

My narc friend starye humiliating me after he got married....and started idolising his wife and praising her ....initially though he did not like her as it was an arranged marriage. How ever this led to a great change in his behaviour....both physical and mental.....he net with an accident and the fucker was so deoendent in his wife for medicines that he wouldnt even bother to take his meds when they were un his room....he wanted his wife to come and give him meds and it was her duty to be mindful of the entire period of treatment....he would humiliate her at the drop of the hat in front of people but praise he behind her back

@ruby2411 12 жыл бұрын

2 yrs ago I was caught with one typical one.totally oblivious to his motives. he was always talking about his past victims eg ex girlfriends.. I wonderd how they became their prey but now it all made sense when you go through this down to a T. He was plotting and planning, from one manic phase to another, highs and lows...and planning for the next new narcissitic phase. It is all one big drama and a grand theatre production of falsified life.. It is hell being a narcissist. Living dead..

@SheSweetLikSugarNSavage 5 жыл бұрын

How on earth are you suppose to understand a person that is this way? This explains so much about my ex.... if I had known these things sooner in relationship I would have bailed out on the first roller coaster ride. I thought i was dealing only with ADD but it was clearly much darker. So much chaos could have been avoided.

@meuresouza1880 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@wandareneefrazier 2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@jodyracanelli9703 Жыл бұрын

me too!!! I wracked my brains for years trying to figure him out and blaming myself like he did....Thank God the word is getting out!!!!

@xpehbam33 8 жыл бұрын

Perfect. Thanks. That explains my sudden departure from narcissists life.... you even nailed it with i have to "work hard for this" . This person is soo disordered.

@polskigirl8547 5 жыл бұрын

My ex narc has the cycle of ...I'm going to work my way to be good...but it doesn't last long maybe a couple of months..and then BOOM! Full boar arguing, projection, gas lighting, you all know the cycle...

@wandareneefrazier 2 жыл бұрын

Yep. Sounds about right.

@FeelGoodWithin 4 жыл бұрын

It's good to be Single.

@alanpontes2855 5 жыл бұрын

For years I searched for an explanation for my (weekly) ups and downs. And here it is, finally. Thank you Sam.

@philliptaylor5386 Жыл бұрын

It seems like many narcissists have a contradictory disdain for “flattery” which proposes that “narcissistic supply” is more nuanced than “flattery”. Narcissists seem to even require that one’s flattery meets their rigorous standards to qualify as “narcissistic supply”.

@ivoryisis 8 жыл бұрын

The narc I know often spends all of his energy around Valentine's Day until he catches a lady who feels sorry for him. The rest of the year he's very down and out and not very amusing. Definitely the weirdest thing I've ever seen.

@andrewfeliciano8879 8 жыл бұрын

I THOUGHT I WAS bipolar, how I could be happy one minute mad the next, ect. I took time to start realizing that the changes were happening from outside things I could blame such as my diabetes being bad, or someone not texting me back, or slowly fading from my life. I am a narc and I hate it. I am getting help today, but it is so funny how I never knew I was A Narcicist, I knew something was wrong. Then I asked myself today, how much time I spend thinking about myself and my problems and how I wish I was rich and the want to be a doctor and have success to low key show others who left me the bad choice they made. I am a Narc, I hate it, I've tried journals, video diaries, and thinking they would help, they only helped to show who I really am, and what I really am, and now I am getting help.

@samvaknin 8 жыл бұрын

+Andres Feliciano Misdiagnosing Narcissism - The Bipolar I Disorder samvak.tripod.com/journal71.html

@exitpluto1684 8 жыл бұрын

+Andres Feliciano I was also diagnosed with bipolar when I was 17. I always knew the diagnose didn't quite fit. However I feel Bipolars are less stigmatized than narcissists. We all seem to be thought of as "monsters".

@karenkreutzer5325 7 жыл бұрын

Exit Pluto pp

@mcraemctaggart4396 7 жыл бұрын

Everyone is to a degree, even Sam.

@evangelinembertloff7457 5 жыл бұрын

I'm praying for you. My ex was a narcissist and told me he thought he was bipolar too. I loved him and still do but loving him was killing me. To this day it's been almost 2 years of no contact and man I miss him. Not his erratic behavior but the man I knew that was his true self that once in awhile would come out. Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde scenario. Sucks to know what he was after the fact. 5 years of torment wondering what was wrong. God opened my eyes to the truth. Still hurts

@chillout7975 7 жыл бұрын

I send my crazy ex all the videos this man has put out .....he doesn't enjoy stalking me anymore 😂

@iwishyouknew3413 7 жыл бұрын

Chill Out haha. can you elaborate? I've never tried this.

@esiahyousocool3740 5 жыл бұрын

Lol what did he say

@fakenews8295 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, they don't like to be exposed. Rather have an ignorant source of supply.

@ajh757 4 жыл бұрын

Omg I'd be afraid to break no-contact. Mine would say, "Oh you're right. I do have a problem. Thank you for caring about me enough to help me! It's so easy to fall in love with you! You have such a big heart! I will get help and get better for you April! Please wait for me to get better! I will." Eye rolls for days.

@sunlitweb 11 жыл бұрын

@angelbeautybabe - twenty years ago someone asked me a question. "Do you want to be a slave to this person's manipulations for the rest of your life?". I didn't. You have to be "mean" because you have to save your own sanity.

@akumawani 4 жыл бұрын

between all the behavior modification tactics- the hyperactivity- the pathological lying- and the random mood swings the human mind is not designed to handle the kind of stress-test a narc will put it thru. escape- any way you have to...

@elahehabthi2621 6 жыл бұрын

He is mysterious nevertheless. He used to talk to me with full load of energy and no sign of fatigue and then suddenly as like he was being paged or called he would say that he needs a nap immediately, leaving me puzzled wether he is really tired or using it as an excuse to avoid further conversation. He was up one moment then down the next.....

@666ZoeZoe 12 жыл бұрын

Thanks Sam... you saved my life.... I have been doing very well these last 10 yrs....The women he left me for had no idea what he was like. I told her the ex was lying to her just as much as he was me... I am very lucky that she took him out of my life and save me. And for Sam to help me understand what living with.... and was able to recover. I have never been so happy in my life as I have been since I was freed from the ex's heartless prison if NPD insanity.

@Imsleazy666 9 жыл бұрын

im to much of a people pleaser to be a narcissist, but I could say im possibly "narcissistic" based on this evidence. I think borderlines, narcs and other types experience these ups and downs of deregulation. a lot of us are combos, I have a big ego, so I have elements of this. its scary, never thought of myself as a monster

@ESSER68NJ 9 жыл бұрын

***** you probably just have a good self esteem, even saying what you say shows a level of humility. narcs wouldnt have worded it like that, they would just be saying this guy was a loser and everyone in here was a loser. you showed too much honesty and insight.

@jacquisunsong2561 4 жыл бұрын

That talk makes things clearer, as personality changes happen often.

@oscarwilliamson1128 Жыл бұрын

Jacqui Sunsong,You are beautiful 😍,Hope you are not with a narcissist….

@gospelsax100 11 жыл бұрын

It is amazing how the descriptions that I have read so aptly describe the N in my life. You will always be confused if you try to make sense of these people. Think of it this way. These people will make it their life mission to hurt you. You are the worst thing on the face of the earth. They demean and belittle you. When it suits their fancy they will show you a little affection. The anger and rage never goes away. It is in the shadows waiting to again, raise its ugly head.

@RichardDwyerEsq 10 жыл бұрын

Very insightful and helpful.

@mollycampbell5 9 жыл бұрын

Hello I am a big fan. I think you are fantastic. I am benefitting by watching your videos, and will continue to find ways to heal from the insanity that was/is my mother and her hurtful ways. Thanks Dr. Sam! All the best!

@fsanchez5033 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks a million Dr. Vaknin, for your videos and your book Malignant Self-Love! I sure thought for years that my husband (of 15 yrs) was bipolar, now I know he is a full fledged narc. This video ilustrates his mood cycles 100% accurate, I’m amazed! At this moment Im going through my divorce and dealing with his narcissistic injury and rage. One day at a time with him. My gratitude to you Dr. Vaknin!

@TotoIHaveAFeeling 11 жыл бұрын

The behavioral and emotional similarities between bipolar and narcissistic mania & depression make me think we should more scientifically seek some neurological component contributing to the n's issues - a mood regulation disorder, perhaps. His emotional wounds yield poor self-image so he needs encouragement and is hurt by criticism, but that's true of most people. The N's extreme sensitivity, emotionalism, and long depressions might reflect being an HSP with mood disregulation issues.

@samvaknin 11 жыл бұрын

Watch the video about narcissism and substance abuse on my channel.

@lailabugz 10 жыл бұрын

So close to home it's scary and embarrassing. Also enlightening.

@NoPunches 11 жыл бұрын

The outside developments that cause the Narcissist to react and become sad, etc. ("splitting"), could not this also then cause a biochemical response? The emotion becomes so deep, that it seems to colorize their thoughts in other areas, whether subtle by their decorum or not. Their speech, thought patterns and even maybe their voice are strongly effected. Also, it's onset is so abrupt, that it makes me suspect there is a chemical aspect to this at least in response to the outside stimuli.

@lj7780 4 жыл бұрын

you tell it right to the core, thanks for this information

@cocobogey 12 жыл бұрын

there must be some sociobiological foundation for the development of the narcissistic mind ... only this video has adequately explained the extremely confusing "manic depressive" behavior of my psychopathic ex - often cycling within the space of a day which had me completely confounded ... but it followed all of the idiosyncracies explicated here ... except they aren't idiosyncracies ... they seem to be the laws of the narcissistic personality ...

@vellyyusril502 10 жыл бұрын

Hi PGH! I was with someone who is a narcisist and exactly everything that you mentioned is in him. I am currently reading Sam's book, Malignant Self Love. The foreword on this book reminds me of my ex' words that he used to say to me.

@artemisiagentileschi2400 11 жыл бұрын

Dr. Vankin, I am a child survivor of one of the most severe cases of a narcissistic mother. Among all the other things she has always done to me and my siblings and everyone in the world, she used to do one of the most bizarre things to me and my brother and sister that I have spent my entire life trying to find other survivors who have experienced the similar torture:

@samvaknin 11 жыл бұрын

??? Last time I heard, there was no need to ask permission to PM.

@RivetingRadiance 12 жыл бұрын

i was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and cyclothymic disorder (a form of bipolar). everything you say about NPD sounds pretty accurate, do you know anything about cyclothymic disorder?

@rachkate76 10 жыл бұрын

Wow... the ultimate egotist... spot on!

@altimp47 11 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Sam.

@peterlyon8424 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sam.

@carolloraine223 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Sam!

@jeantave8562 5 жыл бұрын

Spot on! Thank you.

@theosilva7188 2 жыл бұрын

Hi this is brilliant. I been with Lorraine for 9 years. I identify the circle of depression and mania. She's full blown cover narcissist abusive and violent. It's really sad to see through this circle she become another person. 😬

@kaellarosenberg166 7 жыл бұрын

These sound all to familiar to me Ty so much i feel less alienated with the person i know like that now love your vlogs the really do help me.

@carolann3444 8 жыл бұрын

What happens when a narcissist is your adult child and you're the source?

@kaijumecha5766 5 жыл бұрын

The more I get close to Narc, the more I realize I am a empath! They are not our problems but why we have to pay the cost of their parents! I don’t give any supplies anymore coz I don’t have anything left!

@samvaknin 11 жыл бұрын

See the video about narcissism and obsessive-compulsive behaviors on my channel.

@marilynbrigitte 11 жыл бұрын

yeah, that was my case

@mariaelenavera7566 6 жыл бұрын

PLEASE traduzcan al español... pueden dar la opcion de subtitular al español please... necesitamos esta importante informacion. than you...

@jehansanzterre3956 11 жыл бұрын

Having watched many of your excellent presentations,it has become obvious both of my parents were narcissistic.After they divorced,my mother was the only parent who remained available,but at such a cost.She became a binge alcoholic,which evidently increases the dramatic swings already present.You may have addressed this aspect already,but I'm curious about your views.Also,your example of their emotional 'hunting' reminds me of 'psychic vampirism'.You're incredibly helpful,thanks so much!

@mollycampbell5 9 жыл бұрын

You have described my Mother perfectly, in the few videos I have watched. What do you recommend to family members (aside from no contact) who wish to seek help for someone suffering from NPD. Thus far, it sounds like the very nature of this illness is impossible to treat. I can now see the difference between Bi Polar Disorder and NPD- the supply. Thank You for your work.

@samvaknin 9 жыл бұрын

Healing and Curing Narcissism vaksam.tripod.com/faq63.html vaksam.tripod.com/faq77.html vaksam.tripod.com/faq70.html vaksam.tripod.com/faq12.html vaksam.tripod.com/10.html vaksam.tripod.com/case03.html vaksam.tripod.com/faq31.html vaksam.tripod.com/abusefamily8.html vaksam.tripod.com/personalitydisorders37.html vaksam.tripod.com/personalitydisorders45.html Misdiagnosing Narcissism - The Bipolar I Disorder samvak.tripod.com/journal71.html

@samvaknin 9 жыл бұрын

Narcissistic and psychopathic parents and their children - click on the links: groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/narcissisticabuse/conversations/messages/4727

@ShannonConstance 7 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure if my husband is a narcissistic, but I do think the cycles are macro with fast micro cycles within it. I thought he had a potential mood disorder because of severe swings. Since listening to your videos, I am questioning what I thought. His moods are always my fault (he tells me that), and these are the micro cycles that spike and drop leaving me baffled and dumbfounded. Also, when I get the mysterious silent treatment and cold shoulder, he hums. The humming feels like a looming darkness that I can't translate. I thought it could have been hormonal, he does have crohns disease. But, the thought that he tells me I'm responsible for his moods is bothering.

@wandareneefrazier 2 жыл бұрын

One minute he was making my dinner and socializing. The next minute he was shut in the back room with the lights off.

@Devotchka161 5 жыл бұрын

I'm tired of riding this rollercoaster. Don't you know by now I get sick easily?

@eliseintheattic9697 4 жыл бұрын

Is it common that narcissists have sleep issues and if so, how does that affect their condition? Emotional stability, ability to think rationally, irritability etc... My ex had severe sleep issues, often tossing and turning for hours until he woke me up in a rage because I dared to sleep peacefully. I know my question isnt directly related to the topic but wondered if sleep was a contributing factor.

@wandareneefrazier 2 жыл бұрын

Mine didn't seem to sleep...or slept at strange times or in broken spurts.

@shivamiltiwari9541 4 жыл бұрын

What to do and talk when they are depressed and feeling down ?

@DryBONESreborn 11 жыл бұрын

Are they known to have odd habits? Like annoying behaviors like high-pitch laughter or odd OCD type behavior?

@TotoIHaveAFeeling 11 жыл бұрын

sorry, I meant "an HSP with mood regulation issues (of a neurological nature)."

@deepseabeans 9 жыл бұрын

how do narc personality types compare to other types? how does a 'healthy' person live internally? just a matter of trying towards a way that is awareness and well-being of self, and others as part of that, respecting your and others boundaries unless self or others risk harm (inc harm to personal sovereignty - ask how to help not force someone to do what you think), not looking for the anxiety/rush spike but a more even keel (joy from exercise not petty masochism etc although I find exercise a chore so the line is blurred), accepting there will always be a struggle to manage yourself. Or turning down the silly witterings of your mind and just try and feel your way in the moment, think about what's in front of you with well-being glasses on, sticking to this approach in the face of abuse. Or continue to disassociate into oblivion, create a persona that does the outward function of all of these things until you sort of but don't become it. There are worse things to sort of not become. Watch out for your naughty self! Best trick of the devil is convincing you it doesn't exist! Although science please.

@samvaknin 9 жыл бұрын

deepseabeans The Construct of Normal Personality samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders6.html Who is a malignant narcissist samvak.tripod.com/1.html

@TheGamerAffiliate 11 жыл бұрын

Mr. Sam, would a true narcissist or a person who is possibly picking up such traits from being under such persons control and manipulation for over 20 years, recognize this same "Narcissistic" Traits within himself? I mean would there be enough conviction to reflect upon this internalized behavior and be able to admit it to ones self? Or do you believe such person would become indifferent, almost none caring about having such personality?Hope you understand what I am trying to ask. Thank you sir

@carolloraine223 5 жыл бұрын

Can ADHD play a part in Narcissistism? Trying to understand. Thank you!

@samvaknin 5 жыл бұрын

Pathological narcissism is a reaction to prolonged abuse and trauma in early childhood or early adolescence. The source of the abuse or trauma is immaterial - the perpetrators could be parents, teachers, other adults, or peers. Pampering, smothering, spoiling, and "engulfing" the child are also forms of abuse - see these: vaksam.tripod.com/narcissismglance.html vaksam.tripod.com/npdglance.html vaksam.tripod.com/journal42.html metapsychology.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=de&id=419 Narcissistic and psychopathic parents and their children - click on the links: groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/narcissisticabuse/conversations/messages/4727 The Genetic Underpinnings of Narcissism vaksam.tripod.com/journal43.html

@isabelleparise5607 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I have experience with narc even if I did not get in their games I still could view they have at least two personality and fonction like the video explain. Even if we don't get in the game and resist or avoid its still very hard to accept and believe. Shared

@Lizzard2060 4 жыл бұрын

Is it common for a person with Narc traits, whether full NPD or not, to be labeled as Bipolar? Person I refer to did show clear signs that you describe in this and many videos but when seeking Mental Health help the male adult was always labeled as Bipolar in early treatments but the person does not normally continue treatment once back into manic or idyllic times and has never stayed on mental health meds for more than six months.

@samvaknin 4 жыл бұрын

Narcissists and Mood Disorders groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/NARCISSISTIC-PERSONALITY-DISORDER/eBiHJoIg2Gk

@julianneparris4654 6 жыл бұрын

@samvaknin Wait a second Sam! You are my favorite Narcissism expert/ author etc, but wait just a second! I respect your opinion, but I need some clarification in what you mentioned in the beginning of this video, please help me to understand what you mean! From my understanding, In Bipolar disorder the internal biochemical changes in a bipolar person’s brain and nervous system are also triggered by external events! This is why it’s so important for someone with bipolar disorder to avoid stress, to eat balanced meals , to sleep regularly etc. Bipolar individuals are also notorious for reacting to significant life events and or trauma by going into either mania or depression, mania is a biochemical internal state of imbalance as well as a psychological defense mechanism to external triggers, is it not? As you say, psychology is not a perfect science or a science at all, but more like a philosophy, correct? ...and these labels are subjective, every narcissist and every bipolar person experiences their disorder differently, but would you say that both disorders are relative as far as being learned behavior, coping mechanisms, deeply ingrained automatic responses to trauma and stress? From my previous understanding, and from what I’ve gathered from researching bipolar disorder, I don’t think bipolar disorder has its origin only in physiological biochemical internal imbalance, but often also the imbalance rather is caused or trigger by, or perhaps the body’s achieving a state of mania or depression is triggered by and or switched on by external triggers whether those triggers are perceived directly or subconsciously . I’m bracing myself for your response, go easy on me Sam. You are my hero, don’t hurt me too much. I still have many more questions for you after this! 😁

@samvaknin 6 жыл бұрын

Read this: samvak.tripod.com/journal71.html

@julianneparris4654 6 жыл бұрын

Sam Vaknin I absolutely agree with what is written here! My questions specifically has to do with what you said at around 1:30 in this video. You said that the bipolar reacts to internal biochemical changes in the chemistry of his brain . I agree with that also, but wouldn’t you say that those biochemical changes in his brain are not always an isolated process, that that biochemical change is or can be strongly influenced by, switched on by, induced and or triggered by external events? In the way you differentiate the two disorders, how likely is the possibility of comorbidity of both disorders in the same person, or rather in the same personality presenting at the same time? This is groundbreaking to me, you have shattered my grasp on and understanding of bipolar disorder(or broadened and strengthened that understanding ) ! Thank you Sam!

@deedeeneri8202 7 жыл бұрын

That one narcissist that always ignores you when you talking about others. while he is looking at something else totally ignoring you. Or that one narcissist that always reflects everything that happens to you all anout them. Are they spiritually dead inside?

@iwishyouknew3413 7 жыл бұрын

Deedee Neri I know my estranged Narc is an Atheist. Im spiritual, meaning that I dont worship any god per se however I asked him if he believes we have a soul or spirit, he answered " I dont know". There you have it.

@deedeeneri8202 7 жыл бұрын

Alicia Smith you asked if he believes in God? What was his response?

@iwishyouknew3413 7 жыл бұрын

Deedee Neri He is very intelligent and has spent the last twenty years studying Religion, Theology, The Bang theory AND the Human Evolution theory. He refuses to believe IN anything that does not have a supporting fact to say it's true , including God. Hes educated in both Science and Evolution as he follows Steven Hawkings and Christopher Hitchens bc they are his idols. He can't believe in any" faith" principle because the definition of faith is to believe in something that has no proof to support the matter. He just won't allow many contradictions and the stories that are falsely written, inhumane lies or and the forbidden parts tgat go untold in the bible. He says Religion is why the world is at war ( which I do agree with) and corrupting. People are scared so they conform to social norm and they rather be " brainwashed" to believe that God created the THE UNIVERSE, while God sacrificed own flesh and only son in order to free the the world from any deadly sins, torture, distorted and maliciously sickened people who are not responsible for anything. He DESPISES THE FACT that a God could allow his son to be slaughtered forsaken everyone. If he was a God, the creator of the universe, he wouldn't NEED to sacrifice his son. "A God" COULD have chosen to free everyone including Jesus and give forgiveness to everyone. He $?doesnt know or ever talked to someone so he wont believe in heaven or hell. He just hates how people are exposed to leaders in religion or cults and how it has never united the people and its only destroying the world. I BELIEVE this as well. I asked if he was God? ( sarcastically stated) He believes in anything that is rationally and intellectually explainable as he said he would think most people have a mind of their own but are too conditioned to conform outside of this. I am agnostic. I dont know if there is a God or not. I DO BELIEVE there's a higher source or power as we are energy BEINGS, made up of matter, atoms, molecules and energy so I'm still learning. IM AN EMPATHIC AND COMPASSIONATE SOUL nothing close to a NARCISSIST. Notice the small piece that look like the NARCISSISTIC beliefs about the world yet it's a denied part if his inner world.

@deedeeneri8202 7 жыл бұрын

Alicia Smith If he doesn't believe in God then he doesn't belive in love bc God is love. Perhaps he needs time on his own . He needs to go through trials & tribulations and be convicted. WE can talk til we are blue in the face. They won't listen until things happen to them to where tgey seek God on their own with their own heart. I'M sorry you are going through all this. But if you remain faithful & forgiving despite what he did perhaps you can be the one to show him a true example of what God's love looks like.

@deedeeneri8202 5 жыл бұрын

@@Zer0.-_ Are you actively trying to gain attention via uncontrolable hateful outbursts? You are like an immature 2 yr old who has no control over his own mouth. You gain nothing but to add to your own judgement on Judgement Day! So keep it up ! Lol

@corkyfenster 11 жыл бұрын

Hi Corky! How's your weekend going? :)

@markrandon7690 5 жыл бұрын

How do I get more narcissistic supply?

@MrBillyDumont 11 жыл бұрын

May i PM you, please?

@toxicpimpsmack 12 жыл бұрын

shit-you just described my bf, scary!!

@tanyastevens710 4 жыл бұрын

Does this mean we are all Narcissistic? We all do this stuff! Where is the balance?

@samvaknin 4 жыл бұрын

samvak.tripod.com/1.html

@michaeljackson7361 4 жыл бұрын

That's why after 46 days of no contact she hoovered I didn't reply she then has got off fb. She was a constant on fb. For 3 weeks now. I per a flying monkey. So now im figuring she will pop up in the next 3 or 4 weeks. Cool beans. Haha. No contact ever! Cause I don't care!

@carolloraine223 6 жыл бұрын

bipolar?

@samvaknin 6 жыл бұрын

No. Read this: samvak.tripod.com/journal71.html

@samvaknin 11 жыл бұрын

For no reason outsiders can interpret.