The narcissist EXPLOITS any and all your fears. They create chaos from your simple fears, wanting to push you further into negative directions to severely harm you.

Nothing that these monsters say or do can shock me anymore. Expect the worst from them.

They display the same reaction when your ill. They say you are looking for attention and are disgusted by your display of weakness in their eye's

I just realized what narcissists are doing by continually pushing your buttons. They're empty shells with no personalities of their own, so what they do is push your buttons to see how you react in certain situations, so they can turn around and mirror/steal your personality. That's why you're so deeply attractive to them as a source of supply. You're overflowing with personality, which helps give life to their empty shell.

My narcissist ex did that to me. He left me in the streets in the middle of the night in a foreign country, the night he finally drove us to homelessness. I had no money to get a room or travel back home. I havent talked to him since even though the first 6 months i really tried to understand and get closure by reaching out and waiting and praying. Earlier that day that he left me, we talk about our upcoming wedding, he asked me just hours before to get matching tattoos. Found channels like this just recently and i am really grateful. It has helped me to understand im a survivor and not the root to all evil. I really appreciate the feeling of not being alone in this. Thank you to all of you ❤

I had the exact opposite experience. I enjoy flying and never had fear of transit. My ex tried to pick a fight during long flights, preventing me from sleep or otherwise relax (some transatlantic flights, or coast to coast), and drove recklessly to intimidate me. He claimed that he started having fear of flying after a difficult landing he once had, but now I am not so sure. He faked many things I later discovered were not true.

So many trips ruined. I used to not know how to swim I had a horrible phobia of the water and he would always pick on me about it and say I need to learn how. After years of this I finally decided I was really going to try to do it....AND I DID! I finally learned how to swim and I was so proud of myself. Well he started making jokes and hints about drowning me.

Many years ago, I didn't know what narcissistic abuse was. I was in labor with our firstborn, & my late husband would watch the monitor. The monitor alerted us before each pain would strike. As the alert was showing pain was going to strike, he'd laugh so hard and say..." You have another pain coming". He kept doing this laughter while I was suffering. The nurses had to escort him out of the delivery room & ban him from returning. As life with him went on, he'd enjoy the beatings & would torture me through frightful events ......speeding while drunk & laughing in the car trying to scare me, putting a knife against my throat and laughing as I squirmed & cried, spraying me with pepperspray as we drove along and I wouldn't stop asking his abusive father why are they this way. He emptied the spray into my eyes. I rolled out of the car into traffic. He went to jail. He died in a traffic accident 7 months later. He was extremely cruel & sadistic. My pain was entertainment to him. I learned he, his Dad, my mother & my sister were all narcissists who were sadistic and enjoyed watching me suffer. I have been no contact with mother & sister for over a year now.

Thank you, on spot again. My narcissist (ex)girlfriend just went home when I fell ill on a short vacation. She got bored after 2 hours, 'you can look after yourself.' She despised any sign of weakness / illness. 'If you ever get sick, I'm not gonna take care of you.' But she herself was sick all the time, but try to gaslight me to think I was the weak one. And don't tell a narcist about painful moments from your youth, because it will be ridiculed.

Wow yes They are so cruel 😮. My car was on fire on a main road and I phoned my narcissist husband ..he came and drove up and down past me laughing with the kids in the car . My adult children are narcissist too now 😢😢😢

You are not alone. You are thousand and thosand who lived that devastating experience.

Ditto on plane trips and car trips…. Once when I was about 6 my father left us on a mountain road in Vermont and simply walked away from us. Over 50 years ago and I still can not shake it….

I am actually danish :-) .No doubt this man has been through it himself. This is pure gold.

I am on the autism-sensory spectrum, very heavily sensitive to sound. Narc father in law in the final year he worked for us before we fired him and kicked him out of our lives took over our house for a "renovation" project that would have never ended, and he routinely would kick on power tools behind my head. He was so blatant about this abuse in that last year he openly smirked while doing it too. These people are pure monsters and have no capacity for change or even a baseline redemption.

I am sick and tired of him. 19 years. I have grown up and been raised by this narcissist. His psychopathy is all I’ve ever known. Thank God I’m a legal adult. Ever since I was 5, I knew something was wrong with him. His parents always defended him but they’re narcissists too. That whole family is evil and will not help anyone if they’re suffering because of them. Why would they? They are heartless.

Yes, i experienced the car drive just exactly the way you described.

The car trips were not good especially when the children were there. Once, I got lost and called him - (children were at Grandmas) I was not in a good location and he told me: "just drive towards the river." The same river that he had knowledge of a woman being dumped in after she was abducted from the driveway of her home. It has been an unsolved cold case for several decades. How did he know what happened to her? I don't know. He told me if I ever said anything, I'd "end up right next to her." Many years later (not long ago) he called our daughter and began telling her details of the woman's abduction. These people are evil... pure evil.

My Narcissist has died. I do have fears of bugs and reptiles but for the most part i learned to keep my head down and try not to show my fear to anyone. Makes total sense. Thanks for your videos

I experienced this on death of my mother strangers helped me but my husband doesn’t even said words of condolence with me 😢

With my narcissistic boss, I had gained weight, lost all charm, developed severe anxiety. He never gave me proper training or direction to do my task properly and lost many years of progress in career. I became a ghost of myself but when I was there with him I felt he is my soulmate because he could literally read all my emotions and know all my triggers, weaknesses. If he see my happy and confident, he would make an issue out of somewhere and spoil it. Also, he know how to breadcrumb and lovebomb to make me happy. I ghosted him the day I left the job. Now I'm dreading the retaliation 😢

Yes!!!! The car thing always happened to me.. now I’m taking Uber or the bus and everyone is so kind is helping me heal.

The reckless driving does ring a bell. My ex Narc husband would drive not only fast and aggressively but road rage as well. I remember sheer terror and panic driving with him, and god forbid you were never allowed to say a word or he would double down and do it worse. When you told the story about the things people do on vacation it reminded me of an incident, while not on vacation, it did involve being left in the middle of nowhere. Our son was having surgery at a surgery center about 45 minutes from our house at 5:30 in the morning. I had to wait with our other son for the babysitter to arrive, so my husband took my vehicle and our son on to the hospital and left me his car. What he never told me was that the car was on empty. In this small town the gas stations wouldn't have been opened at that time, even if I had noticed that the car was on E. I ran out of gas on the way, in the pitch black, on a lonely 2 lane road. I literally had to hitch hike because that was before cell phones. They were just starting to come out. I had to risk my life, in the dark, with a stranger, and then ask this stranger to take me to that surgery center. Now in retrospect, I think he did it on purpose. Most likely to make it look like to the hospital staff that only he cared about his child, and also in hopes that something terrible would happen to me. Then, on top of it, my Narc mother blamed ME, for hitch hiking and endangering my life. Telling me I was stupid and reckless. But yet, I supposed I was supposed to walk miles in the dark to where? Again, you can't make. up the insidious things narcissists do for their own pleasure. It would blow normal people's minds.

In the terminal cancer of my mother my narc stepfather insisted on being the only one who cared for her. Perfect opportunity to put a veil over the decades of torture she suffered at his hands in all the decades prior to that. My mom died 10 years younger than my grandmother… a assume under loving circumstances it could have been the other way around.

Why when you are isolated the abuse is worse the car was the worse no where to go stuck listening to non stop abuse no matter how I tried to calm him down nothing worked in the end I had to go to A and E and told I was in danger of a stroke my blood pressure was so high and my heart rate was 170 beats a minuite I needed a heart prodicure in the end please get out as soon as you can they make you ill mentally and physically I was thrown out of the car in the rain in the dark and he drove off they are just pure selfish and heartless Thank you Danish they get supply from your pain the reverse discard was used on me because I was ill never excpept any support from narrissists your on your own 💯

From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA Thank you Danish for all you do for MILLIONS. GOD BLESS YOU and we SHARE, SHARE these videos on many platforms etc.

How accurate you are 💯👍

My friend’s ex-partner literally left him alone when his loved ones pass-on, when he needed someone most!

Danish you have helped me so much, describing many of the experiences that I have found bewildering and nebulous. I have been thinking so much about how hard growing up must have been for you to be abused both Narcissistic parents. I hope you had siblings who were not affected they often do more damage. You certainly have turned bad into good and I do hope that God blesses you richly in the future as you have blessed us, Narcissistic abuse survivors. I so much respect people like us who have come through and we should be proud of ourselves. We have a depth of knowledge and experience that others who have been brought up in a loving home will never have.

Narcissist will throw his kid a party and only invite their own friends. Status is everything, everything they do is for themselves disguised as doing for someone else to appear humble.

Yes on the end they only make you stronger because you cannot doubt the truth anymore since they can attack it

My nars father drove the car like he wanted to kill us - fun times Thank you :)

Yes. Every word you say is correct. They can be very sadistic pleasure seekers. But do they ever change...!!??

Studying my brothers narcissist wife @ my uncles funeral was something. Thank god my dad doesnt fly much. But he did leave me & my brother @ a hotel in LA during the riots in 92. We was on a family trip from MT. He thought it was funny. When i was 3 i got my arm caught in a wood splitter and my elbow was crushed. I sware i can remember my dad laughing on the way to the hospital. But i was 3 and cant be sure. I was made the scapegoat by this father of mine. Im glad i finally came to these conclusions @ 39 w full certainty that is what he is and his dysfunction led to me missing out on what i could have been. I will get back to the true me its work but freeing once you identify what Danish is teaching.

I've come across them Doing Security Checks in the Airport, absolute nightmare, as they are on a Major Power Trip, and go extra Slow checking through your things, and I came close to missing my Flight because of his sick Mind Games😏🚩🏃‍♀️

Thank you again! Let's not forget that we attracted them in the first place, due to our level of awareness. The hardest thing about forgiveness is taking responsibility, and we'll never fully heal without this. Learning about all the red flags and tactics is huge. But also to embrace aloneness (vs loneliness) is so important vs relying on others. Codependency is a prison sentence even w/o Narcissists. Human relationships are important, but not as much as self-examination and growth from the inside out. This is the cornerstone of sovereignty.

seems thats all i attract is narcissist people, gonna start telling them my biggest fear is to get married and have a family lol

Judgements is my kryptonite... I was a people pleaser all my life because when I didn't people please I was automatically portrayed as a bad person, (Arrogant, disrespectful, full of herself etc) and people used it as an excuse to treat me badly, I was supposed to be easy going and NEVER show any negative emotions that could annoy others or hence I was treated as the most horrible human being that ever existed, heck I was even called mentally deranged for having negative emotions and I found myself apologising even when I know I didn't do anything worthy of such mistreatment. I can endure many things, like poverty, sickness even solitude but NOT judgements, when I am portrayed as a bad person my fawning response kicks in almost instantly because I know that if I didn't fawn, I will be harmed.

My stepfather was an a$$ hole To me My mother too They used this tactic They approached a lot of things using “ you’re conceited like your real father “ ( I never had met my bio father) Very chaotic home and upbringing Both consistently seemed like unhappy people Except when around their friends

That happened couple of times in my family of origin and I really thought I am week. Also, my sister (the flying monkeys/communal narc) told me couple of times I am looking fot attention and I believed her and I really thought I am needy!

My Narc knew I was terrified of his driving so he refused to let me drive.. he drive recklessly on purpose to scare me. I hated road trips with him. I was a nervous wreck when we finally arrived.. imagine how I felt when we went to England and he insisted on driving on the other side of the road and the other side of the car.. it was a nightmare.

I am happy to say that I have no worst fears. Only temporary ones which sometimes I cannot fully explain while exiting any unhealthy situation at the time there soon enough. Now that I am older I have come to realize that those narcissists who feel pleasure whenever they believe we are looking confused and weak compared to them are instead continuing to make their own world smaller and smaller all of the time while at the same time complaining more and more about how according to them they have worked so hard all of their lives while everybody else around them is only lazy. Then when realizing that it is too late for them to get back the people whom they have lost from their life in their dementia which was developing in them the whole time then they spend a lot of time in wishful thinking. Wishful thinking while for example inviting someone to become their one and only daughter or son to replace the daughter(s) and/or son(s) who want nothing more to do with them anymore. People like that continue to be dangerous in how they can attract pity from others while spreading hatred about their own biological children who are so ungrateful.

Yes! My mother would intentionally create anxiety in me...being very late or canceling on me, using my children against me by making me feel the world is falling apart etc...

Very true.. Yes I experienced this incident s in car journey... Thanks🙏🙏🙏 may God bless u

So true. My narc sister told me my kids would be better off if I were dead...and that is 2 of my biggest fears. 1) leaving my kids behind because nobody can love them like I can. And 2) ruining my kids lives and treating them and raising them how I was raised. I've suffered from severe anxiety ever since that one little comment she made and it's so stupid.

You have an amazing understanding of OTHER peoples psychology , other wise you could not have explained it so beautifully. That might be because of the narcissist abuse on you . By this your psychological or mind power have increased immensely. Great going keep it up dear. The same airplane and many other issue has happened to me .👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹let the healing begins.

May I ask a serious question? I teach high school and there is a 16 year old who exhibits strong narcissistic personality. He has written me love poems, sung songs, offered his phone number, basically asked me out. I am twenty years older than him and am his teacher, so I rejected him. He has now started misbehaving in class, passing sexual comments about me with his classmates, etc. How do I respond to this situation?

The biggest mistake they are making is at the end their is nothing positive left in the relationship so no reason to lose something when quit the relationship 😉.

Thank you Danish for sharing all this very important information.God Bless and Protect you.🙏💜🙏❤️

The worst fear against me, the exact words I felt a dozen time but couldn't word them exactly, my own brother and sister used my fear against me which is my dad as he's also a narc*******🦖🦖

I have an extreme fear of flying, chose to take a bus 10 hours instead, narcissist accused me to taking the bus so I could cheat on them in different cities instead of giving me uplifting words :/

#true hard to explain what it's like to experience a living nightmare in broad daylight everyday.

Lordy is it ever true about cars. Covert narc' got me in a car after losing control and did 90 in a 30mph zone. Horrible experience

Yup! My ex would pick the lock of the bathroom when I was taking a bath and try to throw a cockroach on me and laugh hysterically. Haha. His next girlfriend had him thrown in jail. 😂

My Dad took my narc mum to a far country on a leisure tour. She gave him such hard time he fell very ill and nearly died. Lucky they went to an uncle's house and he took care of him. Dad died 5/6 yrs later from throat cancer. Yrs later i was going overseas to an island paradise. My narc sis pushed and nagged her to nag me to take her. Like a fool being weak not putting my foot down, i took her. She also suffers from anxiety and Traveller's anzeity. Her peak narc trait is control of mad magnitude. As we entered the airport her Traveller anxiety kicked in. On landing she was going mad. Shocking . And the narc sis travelled with her on several trips so she knew My trip will be F_____. !! Then now i realized what must have happened with her trip with Dad. She herself told us { narcs always reveal themselves} That dad had once thrown the camera. Picture taking happened with me too. I told her to stand facing this way so that The Temples and Gardens are background. She said no this way. Behind her was only bush. I kept insisting to stand this way . She wouldn't budge. She didn't. I said bush in the background or temple ? She kept insisting. Control is her madness. When i'd try to reason with her she 'd cry and say i'll tell that narc sis and ano narc bro. the worst of the worsts. Then i realized dad throwing camera. He must hv got sick of her.

Senior female spiraled into homelessness due to high cost of rent, thus forced to rent rooms where she was sexually assaulted, financially exploited, and left in depressing dire straits. Her so-called loved ones, which included 2 adult children with good jobs and homes of their own, ceased all contact, offered no help at all, and then blamed this senior female for her own homelessness, going so far as to accuse this woman, their own mother, of having a drug problem and mentally ill, which was completely false. This woman developed PTSD and her disgraceful adult kids then said “ see, I told you she was crazy “

How common are narcissistic drs ? I've met several? Any responsibility experience

Once you’re done with the narcissist, you have no fear! God will make sure the narcissists plans and lies against us return back to them! They expose themselves because of their hate! Pray for them!! God’s promises are true in his way, time and a door open to freedom!🙏❤️🕊💞🎶

Video request- pls do one if possible for female victims of narcissism in countries with strict cultures like South asia. Because escape is extremely difficult due to the unsafeness and a severe lack of safe houses etc and u cant bad talk abt family with anyone and ud be labeled a bad person and no one believing u.

My narc husband enjoyed scaring me in the car , he would speed, also he pretended to almost hit someone , freaking me out , he did this a lot , I would ask him why he would try to scare me on purpose, they are evil !

One situation with a narcissistic ex of mine that pops up time and again - I was driving and he started a fight. Suddenly he opened the door - while I was still driving. Luckily he did not jump out but kept the door open. Eventually cars behind us started hooting.

They disgust the weakness.

During my 1st pregnancy I had to be on bed rest. My husband left me under his friend and his families care in UAE and went to meet his mother in India. Behind him I was admitted due to some complications for few days, he didn't come back immediately despite of continuous calls from his friends. And finally when he came back after 2 weeks he was irritated that he had to look after me and not the other way round. And I am just using pregnancy as a tool to make him suffer. 😢😢 He continued his poor me, no one cares for me behaviour even after our preterm baby was born. And when I finally made my mind to leave him he came back with the love bombing. I didn't know then what he is. Now that I am slowly coming to this awareness and I can connect the dots.

my ex didn't have a car, so I was driving most of the time. now imagine him starting horrible fights while I was driving. I would beg him to stop because I can't focus on driving or when I would cry I won't see anything. And he was sitting there smiling. Like wtf as if he would love the thrill when something really happened.

U won't believe that my spouse won't allow me to sneeze. He gives me disgusting looks n lectures me. I have slight allergy which hpns once or twice a year occasionally. I immediately move away from him due to past traumatic experiences caused by him.

Hi Danish. Thank you for these excellent, helpful videos. Have you seen the movie “French Kiss” with Meg Ryan and Kevin Kline? Meg’s character has a severe fear of flying that she has to overcome. Otherwise It’s a cute romance movie.

The casino reservation all narcissist 💰💲👂🏾The alcohol Salesforce the cigarette companies 👊🏾 Pharmaceutical companies as well

If narcissists don’t repent and make things right with God, they will not make it into heaven. They think everyone is a fool and they are smart for PURPOSELY causing problems. They will find out how smart they are when they meet God on judgment day.

True sadism, true shattering intentions toward another - with no ability or willingness to understand their own destructiveness. These people are broken inside beyond belief. We're learning their issues come from trauma in their own past, and they must do the work to heal! More and more therapists are becoming able to understand and help. We do not have to tolerate it any longer ourselves however!! We cannot. We will not. Nothing we do, including participating in our own destruction, would ever really help anyway. All we can do is convey (in whatever ways are safe, wise and appropriate in the situation - or not) to them that we care, we have shut/detached/restricted the door, we believe in them, and we wish them well in their journey. --------- Danish, in several of your stories about your father, I believe he was a primary or secondary sociopath, bordering on a psychopath. These cluster B disorders can shift & morph if people are under stress, with a narcissist acting like a borderline then becoming a secondary sociopath, or even acting like a psychopath for a while. And so on. I find it hard to believe after all my years of studying that your father was merely a malignant narcissist... bad as narcissism is, he had something worse as well imo.

Not in aircraft but on bike he always speed up 70-80 km/hr when he was angry inside & I was like whether anything wrong happens or not Very scary 😨 😳 😬 😕 😐 😢 😨 from inside

Spot on!

My ex used to drive from wrong side and make me feel embarrased

They are absolutely demonic

Danish if you see this comment please please do consider this topic for me.a narcissistic mother and how she withhold inheritance and also how to handle the situation

If someone does that to you is because you let them.

How to come out worst fear triggered by narcissistic

i think nobody likes a non aggressive victim that acts childish and stupid...one could say narcs are just doing what we are too afraid to do lol

I am recovering/ healing from narcissistic abuse by the best guidance in your motivational videos but I want to change my husband who enables his narcissistic mother overtly and do every thing to satisfy her grandiosity and evil nature. He cannot do anything without her permission. What can I do to make him a positive reflective man so he would not harm himself anymore?

Ookhhh the weird faces so true

Please Make a Video on Narasstic Husband and Cancers Wife's Reaction? 😢 My Mom Dies and I want to Know my Father's Reaction with my mom when I'm child 🚸.

What happens if you are violent against a narcissist?

My narcissistic husband likes to watch patriarchal movies.... especially when I am sitting in the same room😂..

What's the end of victim with NARC?

😂 It's in God's hands!!! Only GOD, no fake..no counterfeit..no familiar spirits...GOD is more than able!!

Can you please let me know ,how big is the topic of Nariccisim ❓---I mean in your videos you always talk about Nariccisim , narcissistic people,disorder n many things.Sometimes I feel it's a never ending topic that an entire channel of yours n many other youtuber in India n abroad is dedicated to this issue.At a time I feel one lifetime will be less to understand this disorder.🤔🤔🤔🤔😔

I dont like the title. Because a narcissist is the excessively fearfull ones V normal people. Content was ok. The title provoked me to say - "so fight your fears" There is something wrong with the title as to my feeling.

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