Dylan Farrow on Surviving Sexual Abuse | Season 2; Ep 8

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Navigating Narcissism

Navigating Narcissism

Жыл бұрын

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Dylan Farrow, daughter of legendary actress Mia Farrow and filmmaker Woody Allen shares how she survived decades of suffering after being alleged sexually assaulted by her famous father and offers a rare glimpse into her painful healing process.
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Dylan Farrow is a writer, activist, and filmmaker known for her powerful voice and unwavering commitment to social justice. Her mother is the renowned actress and activist Mia Farrow and her father is Woody Allen.
Dylan has faced numerous challenges throughout her life, including allegations of sexual abuse at the hands of her father, which she first spoke publicly about in 2014. Since then, she has become a leading advocate for survivors of sexual assault and has used her platform to raise awareness about the importance of believing victims and holding abusers accountable.
In addition to her activism, Dylan is also a talented writer and filmmaker. She has published numerous articles on topics ranging from mental health to politics to pop culture, and her short film "The Last Day of Summer" was an official selection at the 2019 New York Short Film Festival.
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@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын
I was abused in every way u can think of as a child. It is murder of the soul. My heart bleeds for all childhood trauma victims. I went no contact from my family of origin over 20 years ago.
@TeaPea-jq4ib
@TeaPea-jq4ib Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for all you went through. Please continue to care and honor yourself as a strong and beautiful person who survived. Prayers 🙏🏼 of love and happiness to you. ❤
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын
@@TeaPea-jq4ib ty. You’re very kind.
@KatieB-0880
@KatieB-0880 Жыл бұрын
I am truly so so sorry that happened to you… xxx
@jp5419
@jp5419 Жыл бұрын
I hope you feel safe and loved and living a great life. You are worthy of all of it.
@gretchenburton7184
@gretchenburton7184 Жыл бұрын
So confusing. Am so sorry. I still sleep in my clothes.
@dawn6232
@dawn6232 Жыл бұрын
In the words of Dr. Robert Block, the former President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, "Adverse childhood experiences are the single greatest unaddressed public health threat facing our nation today." It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. -Frederick Douglass
@danielaspitz3052
@danielaspitz3052 Жыл бұрын
True. But some children struggle for their whole lifes only for something their mothers made them believe.
@sharpatite4684
@sharpatite4684 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I find that validation useful.
@maryellengodfrey
@maryellengodfrey Жыл бұрын
TY
@maryellengodfrey
@maryellengodfrey Жыл бұрын
@@danielaspitz3052 like a fairy tale. It’s not just Moms. The twin flame illusion of a perfect partner for either men or woman, that something outside of ourselves romantically will save our lives and give all of bliss- that was programmed big time in the rock music , media and bombarded everywhere as a truth. Actually dragged us away to the point we lost the ability to know how to love ourselves . Let alone really love anyone else.
@timothy4664
@timothy4664 11 ай бұрын
Lies
@is1123
@is1123 7 ай бұрын
very brave..I want dylan to know that when she first voiced her experience I NEVER watched a film by her abuser again. The power of Dylan's voice also revealed the toxic nature of the industry that would ignore it. And know that every "artist" who worked with your abuser after knowing that is not an artist..and show astounding ignorance. Know that.
@Obsessedwithpurple
@Obsessedwithpurple Жыл бұрын
my father molested me as a child. his health is failing and i just will feel relieved when he goes. i am 51 and i still feel dirty around him he later apologized to me in my 30s. he was sincere. and we were able to have somewhat of a relationship. but i never trusted him again. i had 4 daughters and i never let him be alone with them. but even now i cringeee when i have to be around him.
@angelaholmes8888
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
I was sexually abused when I was a child I blocked out what happened to me for years until I was 14 years old 32 I still at times struggle with what happened to me
@cristineconnell7803
@cristineconnell7803 7 ай бұрын
I was on the streets from age 12-25 ( starting in the late 70s) & met many older men that wanted girls under 18. They were gross, but those like Woody were on a whole different level to me! He was flat dark & beyond creepy, & I never enjoyed his movies, so never really watched any. Thank GOD I at 13 met a man who mentored me & helped keep the predators at bay! He never touched me, & got me away from any who tried!
@johanna11980
@johanna11980 9 ай бұрын
Dylan, Thank you for being strong enough to stay in this world ... to reach out for help ... to tell your story for yourself ... for everyone ... our stories are vital ... they need to be told ... this takes immense courage ... thank you ...
@MyKrabi
@MyKrabi 9 ай бұрын
You are very brave Dylan - and thank you for not saying the abuser's name. Because he is an abuser and a perpetrator. I was a child when your story was sensationalized by the tabloids. I am so glad that you are reclaiming your voice and your story.
@Amalgam86
@Amalgam86 Жыл бұрын
From the bottom of my heart, thank you, Dr Ramani for elevating the voices of survivors and centering on their stories! Your main channel 3 years ago helped me to get rid of abusers in my life and leave a religious cult that was controlling my whole life. And now I am thriving. This series of podcasts has a profound healing effect. So happy to see other survivors coming out strong!
@rhealamb8606
@rhealamb8606 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Ramani and Dylan, thank you so much. I am a survivor from mental, sexual and physical trauma beginning at 5 or 6 years old until age 13 years of age. At 59 years of age I am still healing and growing. Your programs are priceless to me. Thank You♥️
@stregalilith
@stregalilith 11 ай бұрын
Once upon a time the people in the District Attorneys' offices used to "interview" young victims of sexual abuse in a confrontational manner similar to cross examination--no matter how young they were. It was a horrendous re-traumatization of the child, forcing them to relive the experience over and over. It was in many cases more traumatizing than the original abuse. I hope they are better informed now because the result of their abuse of these victimes allowed perpetrators to go free and offend against more and more children and many of them escalated their abuse. I always believe the children because how on earth could they even think of such things if they hadn't experienced them? Thirty years of law practice has proven this true.
@cristineconnell7803
@cristineconnell7803 7 ай бұрын
So true! Have a 40 yr old niece that reports being abused worse by the system than the Dad who had been raping her with vegetables, etc for years! Then at trial they treated this poor 5 yr old like dirt, not allowing any loved ones with her, drove her hundreds of miles away. Then let the Dad see her right before trial! She clearly remembers him telling her if she said anything he did he would kill her baby brother! We had to adopt out the kids to protect them, & my sister literally lost her mind! Blamed herself for all of it, because she didn't see & protect her daughter! They were happily reunited when the daughter was 17, son 15! And it made such an impact on that broken child/teen that her Momma, though living in the streets most of those years, saved their baby fingernail clippings! She was abused in the adoptive home too unfortunately, but since has gotten much healing & therapy! My sister stabilized & was doing very well, & had gotten her own apartment & her son was about to move back in with her when she was murdered! 💔 There are lifelong repercussions for those vile acts, not just for the immediate victim, but all it effects! Another child wasn't aware she had been abused by her bio-dad. Until adulthood when she was having issues as a result & needed the information to deal with it, so it didn't deal with her! She is about to be married to a great young man, honors & protects her!❤
@XOXO______
@XOXO______ 3 ай бұрын
Because her mother is a narcissist that created a false memory syndrome in her child to get revenge for the infidelity of Woody Allen. Just read the wikipedia article of her, got pregnant from the husband of her friend at 25, claimed she never split from Sinatra and told another man he was the father of a child knowing he could be not his and was exposed by Moses Farrow and Soon Yi Previn, one of her more than a dozen adopted children about the horrible abuses she commit towards them, some of her adopted children ended with addictions, depression, suicide and early death.
@elizabethwasson1988
@elizabethwasson1988 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Ramani, dear heart, thank you so much for being willing to talk about these painful issues. Please take care of yourself, the world needs you.
@juniperfall
@juniperfall Жыл бұрын
Dylan, thank you so much for sharing your story with such grace, integrity, vulnerability. You are such an amazing and beautiful soul. thank you both for shedding light on the healing process and creating safety in this dialogue about this kind of abuse and gaslighting we need so badly. I admire your courage so much Dylan.
@rachh155
@rachh155 9 ай бұрын
Dylan, you broke the cycle, you should be so very proud xx
@michaelc9915
@michaelc9915 8 ай бұрын
Yeah I'm still very sceptical that this happened.
@tammydietschweiler7852
@tammydietschweiler7852 6 ай бұрын
@@michaelc9915Why would that be? Why would this woman have a reason to make this up. Omg
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
@@michaelc9915 The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, only I was confused as how young ''Dylan'' looked. It wasn't Dylan, but another younger child that looked just like her! Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked just like her, and Soon Yi enabled this! Evil evil man!!
@michaelc9915
@michaelc9915 6 ай бұрын
@@truelove11.11 As I said earlier, I doubt the sexual abuse ever happened
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
​@@michaelc9915 Woody Allen touched Dylan's genital area on one occasion, and he forced his thumb into her mouth on several occasions. This constitutes sexual abuse! We have no reason to doubt Dylan. She has been consistent! Allen said something quite disturbing which exposed him as an abuser when he claimed that if he had wanted to abuse a child, then he would have chosen a different circumstance to do that in. Who would know what the ideal circumstance for abusing a child would be other than those who have contemplated on abusing a child? Allen raped Dylan's innocence when he touched her where he as a parent had no business touching her, and that pervert did it in order to quench his curiosity about how her young body would react to his stimulus, even though he never penetrated her body with his penis. Woody Allen is an evil and twisted narcissist, and if you continue to deny these facts, then you are off course one of his enablers, and as twisted and evil as he is!
@sybilizzard4926
@sybilizzard4926 Жыл бұрын
This is making me anxious and I've hardly watched any of it. I always thought it a massive red flag Woody Allen had a relationship with his foster child then later married her. I just am amazed that that itself is seemingly seen as separate from Dylan Farrows allegations. That I just find so depressing. I watch the rest of this vid another day as those who still disbelieve victims of abuse just add and I find it massively upsetting. So much courage of you both doing this interview.
@juniperfall
@juniperfall Жыл бұрын
Hear hear. Well said! It was just absolute pure courage. they are both amazing. An offering of light and healing I am so grateful for.
@serahsoule
@serahsoule Жыл бұрын
He never had a foster child.
@sybilizzard4926
@sybilizzard4926 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I was wrong that she was not his foster child but he still had an involvement with Farrows kids and basically he went over boundaries.
@Camille_Anderson
@Camille_Anderson Жыл бұрын
​@@serahsoule Sun Yi was adopted by Mia and then she married Woody, so she was his daughter in that sense.
@EMunaBee
@EMunaBee Жыл бұрын
@@Camille_Anderson they never married and never even shared a home together.
@kaystern2980
@kaystern2980 Жыл бұрын
Dylan and Dr. Ramani, Thank you for talking through this trauma of sexual abuse. I did not realize my panic attacks, fear , ptsd and not trusting, I have carried from my child hood from sexual abuse. I have lived with trauma that I normally listen to on Dr. Ramani’s utube through adulthood. Thank you for telling your story, Dylan. You made me feel heard thru your story. Thank you both very much! People don’t know what they don’t know.
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dylan & Dr Ramani, this was so open, empowering, validating, & healing. Adverse childhood experiences are a great risk factor for developing adult health problems. This is very empowering if a parent gaslights you as a liar from early childhood, but they try to play a prominent, public role in the community. If you expose them by not playing "happy family" for their image & reputation, you become the problem for not wanting a relationship or speaking out for help. It's okay too sever ties and speak out about abuse that is less than rape, assault, or violence - especially if you're being falsely accused by your abuser for trying to reach out for help since childhood.
@asmanasim9394
@asmanasim9394 Жыл бұрын
Oh God... So relatable. My story however is different. I have been under my Grandiose Narc Mom. But after I become a mother... The feeling is exactly same as Dylans...
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын
Ppl just don’t have a clue what this does to ur psyche and spirituality that we have to somehow reclaim on our own. It takes a lifetime.
@__rm307
@__rm307 10 ай бұрын
This 100%
@stephaniesomer5934
@stephaniesomer5934 11 ай бұрын
The sadness and shame becomes anger and outrage… once you open up and tell-you achieve catharsis… and calling out the abuser and their enablers is empowering. And that anger becomes a desire for revenge and justice. This happens to survivors when they reconcile with what happened and they refuse to keep secrets and pretend anymore-it is real and is normal. I still get angry and pissed off-especially when relatives say things like “let it go” and or “move on” ect. It actually triggered me when Dylan said she was told “calm down it’s not like you were raped”. Dylans testimony resonates with me-playing video games, introverted, and borderline agoraphobic… I experienced similar abuse at the hands of an uncle… It’s infuriating that he hasn’t spent a day in jail and is celebrated and revered by hollyweird. Absolutely disgusting. Justice for Dylan and all the Farrows! Damn woody to hell. 🤗❤️🇺🇸
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
Yes, to hell with Woody Allen and Soon Yi! The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, only I was confused as how young Dylan looked. Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked just like her, and Soon Yi enabled this! Evil evil man and coward woman!!
@EveningTV
@EveningTV Жыл бұрын
I love how Dr. Ramani takes the survivor's side!
@boboloko
@boboloko Жыл бұрын
I have a lot of respect for Dr. Ramani and I believe Dylan is a survivor of narcissistic abuse. Hopefully the truth will come out about Mia’s cruelty.
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 7 ай бұрын
There are 2 survivors. Dylan, who has false memory implanted by her narcissistic mother and woody Allen, who underwent the worst smear campaign imaginable. MIA is the narcissist and these 2 are her victims….along with her adopted children that committed suicide (and soon yi, who escaped).
@juniperfall
@juniperfall Жыл бұрын
Remember when Aly Raisman, one of the best gymnasts of all time in history, told the US Senate that recovering from childhood sexual abuse is more difficult than the work it takes to become a world class Olympic champion. Dylan is a total champion. and a hero. May she find tremendous healing. Thrive on! Oh! And I love that she tunes Hollywood out and plays video games. And she is a mandalorian fan. The truth is that Hollywood really needs people like her. Truth tellers. Our whole society does. We have got to make this society safer for children. She is so brave for also calling out the enablers. so many layers of cool going on here. ❤
@transitionsnc
@transitionsnc Жыл бұрын
Great interview. I wish Dylan all the best.
@Martec-o3l
@Martec-o3l Жыл бұрын
As a sister of a sexually abused sister I appreciate thispodcast but if I may suggest Could you explore how traum looks for the other memebers of the family and how we could cope with the event once it is discovered and how we can support the victim as we acknowledge our emotions in the matter as they are often neglected and might obstruct the healing of the person who endures the abuse.
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries Жыл бұрын
You're a victim too & need to heal from being divided as siblings. Abusers usually divide and conquer by choosing a scapegoat & golden child. Your sister being abused was an example set by the abuser not to challenge their authority. This is textbook. You will learn about abuse dynamics and family roles assigned by the abuser as you seek knowledge & get help to recover. Witnessing trauma is trauma too
@s.zen.4587
@s.zen.4587 Жыл бұрын
Means a lot to see you ask this question. Your sister is blessed that you care with this. Others, in my family, distance themselves from me and become controlling, which just makes the abusive situation ongoing, and exchange of hands instead of supporting. Care should be directed towards the persons needs and that can change over time. Just to know youre there and you care probably means a lot
@kaajalahuja4982
@kaajalahuja4982 11 ай бұрын
Dylan you are so incredibly strong and kind. I've always admired you so so much. Thank you for all that you've done. I send you so much love. Thank you again.
@BayBaeAngel
@BayBaeAngel 7 ай бұрын
What a powerful and insightful discussion. Dr. Ramani has my ultimate respect for how she handles such painful topics. I’m so happy survivors like Dylan have a safe space to discuss their trauma and find healing. Dylan, I believe you, and I hope that you continue to find the peace you and your inner child deserves. You’re amazing!
@MarianneSteele
@MarianneSteele 11 ай бұрын
I empathise with you Dylan. You've encouraged me with your story and your path to healing yourself. Stay with it, it gets better no matter when you begin the journey with good therapists and the support of your loved ones.
@NancyBrown1975
@NancyBrown1975 Жыл бұрын
Thank you always Dr. Ramani for your work.
@asalane20
@asalane20 Жыл бұрын
The fact that he married his other daughter is sufficient evidence that Woody Allen was and is able to sexualize his own child. I see no argument for discrediting this woman.
@stephaniemetzger7801
@stephaniemetzger7801 Жыл бұрын
I agree. He is a creep. Look at his movies. The fact that he could even marry his ex wife’s daughter.. he has no morals. No boundaries.
@Nushka23
@Nushka23 Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772then that’s something for you to figure out.
@sm-ftw
@sm-ftw Жыл бұрын
The fiction that he married his daughter is what's seems to confuse you all. He married the daughter of his ex girlfriend Mia Farrow and Andre Previn, years after he broke up with Mia. Soon-Yi was never his child or stepchild or anything to him. They barely knew each other until she was of legal age. They never even stayed in the same house for one night when he dated Mia. They married and have been together for three decades with two children as healthy, never related adults.
@Nushka23
@Nushka23 Жыл бұрын
@@sm-ftw At one point in time, he was her step-father. Agreed? So your "justification" is disturbing and void.
@susannahrose111
@susannahrose111 Жыл бұрын
​@@Nushka23 at no point in time was he her stepfather. He never married Mia. He never lived with Mia. He never spent one night in Mia's house, whether it was a time Soon-Yi was there or away. The barely interacted before she was on her way to college.
@valiizajames925
@valiizajames925 Жыл бұрын
I so believed you Dylan from the beginning and then he married your sister 😔🤔🤨!! That put the icing on your truth to me!! You are so brave!!
@redjadebird
@redjadebird 11 ай бұрын
Yes, believed you Dylan from the beginning. So sorry!
@katiehensley290
@katiehensley290 9 ай бұрын
Woody Allen is so blatantly a child predator that he's made movies about it. I've always believed her, too.
@rezzieggg
@rezzieggg 7 ай бұрын
Why people could love his movies showing such themes and then see what he could marry his own daughter in his own private life and still support him, I will never understand.
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 7 ай бұрын
Wrong. His marrying her adult adopted sister, who was undergoing narcissistic abuse by Mia farrow and desperately wanted to escape, does not mean that he molested Dylan. All of the other 3 adoptees of Mia committed suicide. Although, one committed suicide slowly with dangerous lifestyle choices…make no mistake….all her adoptive kids killed themselves.
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 7 ай бұрын
@@rezzieggg that’s a great point but, he still should not need to endure the false child molestation claims hurled at him by his crazy ex wife. Soon yi should write a book about her escape from Mia’s narcissistic abuse and how her 3 other adoptive siblings died because of it.
@thinkforyourself828
@thinkforyourself828 7 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramini, have you examined the allegations of abuse against Mia Farrow from her own children?
@tjtampa214
@tjtampa214 Жыл бұрын
God bless Ms. Farrow, so strong, smart and brave. 🌷When we consider the statistics of one-in-five, they say, the children that are abused ... where are these children to go if they were taken from their home to protect them? There's not enough safe places and workers. It may not be half the population of families but it sure is not too far off. So there's really no place to rescue them to. And absolutely it is the tremendous network of support and bravery of the individual that is going to help them heal. And definitely that takes time and probably a lifetime. At least at some point there will be better and better days. But life in general is pretty tough but definitely there are some beautiful things about it. Those who do not have the support or the money or resources they need, as we see - they often end up homeless and suffering alone .. or nearly there.
@galavignoli2517
@galavignoli2517 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this interview. It is a very important subject. Breaking the Silence it can help others, thank you!!!!❤
@legalservices8856
@legalservices8856 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate you coming out with this Dylan. Now that I'm hearing it from you directly, it makes it more real and now I can let it sink in that I need to change my view of the man I have been a fan of all these years.
@Grace.AlwaysGrace.
@Grace.AlwaysGrace. Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for the trauma that Dylan experienced and is learning to live with and in spite of. I have needed this video, this vulnerability, this affirmation for so very long. Thank you for sharing.
@countessAugusta
@countessAugusta 7 ай бұрын
Wow. I love how positive Dylan has remained. Here in A ustralia we didn't hear that much about her case,and I had been unsure about Woody s guilt. His films though are crushingly dull and embarrassingly self conscious. What a very si c k man. Dylan,you are a bright🌟 .A strong woman and an example to those of us who are priv e lidged to have had loving and supportive parents and still find something to whine about. Thank you Dylan.Go girl😊
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, only I was confused as how young ''Dylan'' looked. It wasn't Dylan, but another younger child that looked just like her! Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked just like her, and Soon Yi enabled this! Evil evil man!!
@bellaluce7088
@bellaluce7088 11 ай бұрын
To Dylan & other survivors who may feel hurt by the clueless comments infecting this page, please know that people who believe and support you are also here, and we're not falling for the lies! PR companies can pay greedy people to spread misinformation they don't even believe, but TRUTH is POWERFUL!
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC 6 ай бұрын
Do you have ANY evidence that anybody's lying, let alone that anyone's being paid by a PR firm? Maybe your affinity for grand proclamations that don't stand up to scrutiny is why you support Dylan in the first place
@bereal6590
@bereal6590 13 күн бұрын
@FLK-BC, let's be honest here, nobody knows all the truths or all the lies within Farrowing and Allen relationship. We can only speculate and two things can be true at once, farrowing may well have been abusive or not, Allen could have been an abuser or not. However, here we have someone saying that something did happen to them, they're telling us what Allen did to them, so unless you're calling her an outright liar what is there to be confused or angry about. You either believe her or you dont
@rachelreed68
@rachelreed68 Жыл бұрын
❤ Dylan Farrow. Glad she was connected with Dr. Ramani. Weirdly inspiring. 🙏❤️‍🩹👍
@claudiacadavid6035
@claudiacadavid6035 Жыл бұрын
I’m 53 my abuse starting around 7 too and I still feel some emptiness in me but I will never forget and I have forgiven I believe I have.
@jp5419
@jp5419 Жыл бұрын
Forgiveness frees you from the hurtful actions by another on you. You are SO much more than this moment(s). Wish you nothing but freedom and peace.
@OjitosChiquititosmaquillaje
@OjitosChiquititosmaquillaje 7 ай бұрын
Those letters were to continue the abuse of her and to stop her from growing into a healthy adult, that's why the letters were sent to her college, not her home address. He thought: she has survived my abuse! Let's try it once again and again. Abusers never let go of their victims
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
It is clear that Woody hasn't let go of Dylan! The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, only I was confused as how young ''Dylan'' looked. It wasn't Dylan, but another younger child that looked just like her! Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked just like her, and Soon Yi enabled this! Evil evil man!!
@Forrrdppl
@Forrrdppl 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this💛
@jdab9
@jdab9 Жыл бұрын
This is a clear evidence that evil exists destroying the sanity of humanity, taking away our good and clean conscience God has given us in the first place. I was too a victim of many abuses and manipulation and still struggle unto this day of forgiveness and trust when kept betrayed again and again by those people you don't expect to do such things to you. I just cling to God's promises. God allows those things to happen for us to seek Him, the real Father who really cares and loves us🙏
@S1fleur
@S1fleur Ай бұрын
Thank you. This was so meaningful to me to hear.
@anjulamutanda2000
@anjulamutanda2000 Жыл бұрын
Oof this spoke to me personally and as a psychological therapist 🙏🏽 Dylan
@voyaristika5673
@voyaristika5673 7 ай бұрын
Hollywood protects so much sleeze. It's beyond disgusting and beyond the understanding of normal people. I'm so glad Dylan uses her voice to help others even though she faces a famous father that many protect. Very brave.
@alice__miceli
@alice__miceli Жыл бұрын
Dr. Ramani, can you please address what Moses Farrow has to say about all this? I have tried linking here to his very poignant text "a son speaks out", which goes into all this in detail, but somehow it keeps disappearing? I can't believe it would be out of this channel not wanting to address contradictions or have a conversation, so perhaps there is a rule I don't know about, about linking to outside stuff? But anyway, ok then, I won't include the link again - but I would still like to leave the request here. And leave my suggestion that everyone with an interest in this should check this text out. Thank you.
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
Good point. I wonder why she's not addressing that. Hmm...
@bellaluce7088
@bellaluce7088 11 ай бұрын
​@@No-xs1no I would assume Dr. Ramani isn't giving air time to Moses Farrow because she knows that enablers who deny abuse that really happened are a dime a dozen and she doesn't have time for that nonsense. She's about helping survivors and raising awareness to prevent more people becoming victims.
@violetvixxxprovixen6682
@violetvixxxprovixen6682 7 ай бұрын
Im so glad you are calling this like it is. I waa watching a documentary about that controversy with Woody Allen and realized his interviews were definitely giving me a weird sensation of listening to my ex lie. Not that it was anything ever involving children in any way, but the WAY he lies is just so...pathologically narcissistic. I immediately picked up on it. Honesty it made my stomach turn listening to his "press conference" speech. Im so sorry, Dylan. The fact he has been allowed to participate in society is not right and society has fucking wronged the little girl you were. You are seriously a hero talking about this as an adult and I look up to you.
@therookiesplaybook
@therookiesplaybook 11 ай бұрын
I don't understand why anyone doubts her story. He literally married another of Mia Farrow's children.
@sjmac9737
@sjmac9737 5 ай бұрын
Remember Woody never lived with Mia and had no relationship with Soon Yi until she was an adult. Get some background on Mia and you'll see who the real abuser was
@therookiesplaybook
@therookiesplaybook 5 ай бұрын
@@sjmac9737 he took naked photos of her when she was 16. She met Woody when she was 10.
@user-jv4yn3jo2h
@user-jv4yn3jo2h 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking out Dylan
@sterlinghplibrary7340
@sterlinghplibrary7340 Жыл бұрын
I have never watched any more of his movies since I heard about this years ago in solidarity with her! Nor any of the Hollywood elites that sided with him! Sickening!
@prettypleasewithsugarontop4858
@prettypleasewithsugarontop4858 7 ай бұрын
And his movies suck anyway lol
@maryellengodfrey
@maryellengodfrey Жыл бұрын
Love your honesty! So good for someone in your social place to open up. The parenting feelings are not unique. For me the daughter that I have now, who she became; for me now there’s nothing better.
@lindaolsen7089
@lindaolsen7089 8 ай бұрын
Dylan is well-spoken & authentic. I have no doubt she has experienced trauma and that she believes what she is saying. Having watched her parents publicly battle, do interviews and understanding parental alienation (as a lawyer who practiced family law for over 23 years), as well as understanding physical & sexual abuse & grooming, I feel unclear on whether she is a victim of her mother's implanted memories or her father's S.A. of her. I'm happy to see she has done the hard work towards her own healing.
@tlotus3032
@tlotus3032 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your strength courage and honesty Dylan! ❤
@kristaquin
@kristaquin 9 ай бұрын
This was incredible. So powerful.
@valentinanunezprado1159
@valentinanunezprado1159 10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry. I believed you immidiately when I heard the news. I never saw again one of his movies
@sm-ftw
@sm-ftw Жыл бұрын
Poor Malone seems to have needed to stay in therapy to really understand the difference between fact and fiction before this fiasco was created for her.
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
I think *Malone The Florida Woman Who Cosplays As Dylan, The Sad Princess Of The Attic* knows perfectly well what did and didn't happen to her
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, because one of their adopted children had such an incredible resemblance to Dylan as a child! Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked like her! Evil evil man!!
@erockfreedom6399
@erockfreedom6399 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. And thank you, Dr. Ramani, for reframing "snapped" as an appropriate, normal reaction to this kind of abuse. I believe you, we believe you. There's only so much one can take. I feel very low functioning having been battered and abused by the people who proclaimed love, also experiencing institutional betrayal. It is hard for me to watch things too. I am glad, somewhat jealous, you have a support system.... So I can resonate with that. The enablers -- are these just narcissists? I have unknowingly enabled, apparently, by existing... But I stopped when I saw the evil right up close and personal. People actively enable... What is with this gangster mentality they do? It feels soul crushing
@nicolasOtales
@nicolasOtales Жыл бұрын
I have an overwhelming feeling that these enablers are people who have a personal interest in diverting attention and distorting the reality of such abuses. They probably do the same thing themselves 😢
@user-gu1jk4qn6b
@user-gu1jk4qn6b 8 ай бұрын
I never felt jealousy towards my daughters, but I was a little envious. I was fortunate, in that I never told anyone, until I was 20, and both my mother and abuser had both died. I think it was so much better that I chose when to go to therapy. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do, but I figured I'd know when.
@terrylynndelman
@terrylynndelman Жыл бұрын
Her transparently & authentically sharing her story makes her a hero to me. My story of betrayal trauma is similar & I am so encouraged by her testimony & healing journey, it was also validating for me. I am so thankful she shared & thank you Dr Ramani, for your perspective & empathetic comments.❤
@afterthestorm9355
@afterthestorm9355 Жыл бұрын
Yes! It’s so relatable -minus the privilege and publicity.
@Trollika_Devi
@Trollika_Devi Жыл бұрын
You mean after sharing her story forever and ever on various media platforms she graced us with validation by appearing on Dr Ramani's podcast ? Think about this. Mia Farrow openly defended Roman Polanski. How are trauma survivors/victims supposed to feel about that ? How are we supposed to feel about the fact that Dylan never ever addresses this ? It's sickening. He r#ped an underage girl. No survivor of sexual abuse or no mother of a survivor of sexual abuse would condone such a man.
@afterthestorm9355
@afterthestorm9355 Жыл бұрын
@@Trollika_Devi I’ve never heard her story before this -I know nothing about Roman Polanski -I assumed in was Woody Allen. I didn’t hear her state a name-I heard her describing her experience which was very relatable to me as a survivor of such.
@Trollika_Devi
@Trollika_Devi Жыл бұрын
@@afterthestorm9355 Dylan has been telling her story for YEARS , with some reworks along the way. On every other platform. So has Mia. Whereas what Moses Farrow says about the abuse he suffered at Mia's hands goes unnoticed for the most part. The HBO 'documemtary' was yet another chance for Mia and Dylan to go on and on and Woody Allen was only contacted at the last minute to give his side , just before the final cuts. As for Polanski ,he's a famous director. Some of his movies are good. He did one with Mia , called Rosemary's Baby which made her quite famous. He r#ped a minor. First he wanted to take topless pics of her. Then he got into the bathtub with her. And eventually the R word. Mia openly defended him. Flew to England to give a statement. That ALONE makes me call BS on Mia's and Dylan's story because like I said earlier no survivor of sexual abuse would condone a child r#pist or a mother who defends a child r#pist. Mia and Dylan are making a mockery of victims of SA. It's sickening. But Dylan is also a victim here. Mia 's victim.
@Trollika_Devi
@Trollika_Devi Жыл бұрын
@@afterthestorm9355 P: S Dylan was talking about Woody Allen. She never discussed Polanski as far as I know. But that she doesn't call Mia out for defending Polanski says everything we need to know about this case. No real survivor shrugs it off when her mother defends a man who raped a minor.
@Busybee.bee.
@Busybee.bee. Жыл бұрын
God bless the both of you for this amazing talk. It was so healing.
@whendays659
@whendays659 Жыл бұрын
You've helped me immeasurably, so I offer this in the spirit of helpfulness, not criticism: I miss your more natural delivery in the other channel. For survivors of narcissistic abuse, even small modicums of inauthenticity, like a broadcaster lilt or artificially slow cadence, make it hard to listen to emotionally deep content without being distracted or suspicious.
@learning4705
@learning4705 Жыл бұрын
18:18 the vast majority of trauma survivors are gaslighted, to this day.
@boboloko
@boboloko Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the gaslighting itself is the trauma
@UnMoored_
@UnMoored_ Жыл бұрын
Are you going to have a discussion with the other children from this family?
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
Something tells me she won't...
@UnMoored_
@UnMoored_ Жыл бұрын
@@FLK-BC It’s important if she decides not to speak with other family members because there is not complete consensus amongst them regarding the abuse. This would indicate bias on her part.
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
@@UnMoored_ Yes, bias or else fear. It's very fashionable and good for clicks to have "brave" Dylan Farrow on. Talking to Moses might enrage her subscribers.
@montyollie
@montyollie 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this. Thank you both so much for sharing. I have to admit, that part about Dylan's then boyfriend saying we have sex or I leave RATTLED me. So rapey. So gross. I would not have looked at that the way she did at all. Ugh.
@wheathusk2499
@wheathusk2499 8 ай бұрын
I can't believe there are people making videos in support of Woody and commenting on how this is all a lie.
@elderlypoodle9181
@elderlypoodle9181 7 ай бұрын
Fantastic interview! Appreciated so much. Now maybe I’ll try to get out to CVS today. Im allowed chocolates for my braveness 😁💪🏻❤️
@tinawhite8835
@tinawhite8835 6 ай бұрын
I've been working my way through her series on her father and mother. It's very triggering hearing all the excuses WA spouts, how he always proclaims himself the victim, the gaslighting, and then the attacks he places on Dylan, her mother and her family. This is compounded by the fact that so many believe his lies, which is such a typical situation with the narcissist. My heart goes out to this young woman, and kudos for navigating such abuse, surviving, and thriving.
@lanettewilliams7122
@lanettewilliams7122 8 ай бұрын
"Entitled uncroachment" is indeed so unsettling! It's crazy
@helenbrooks1316
@helenbrooks1316 7 ай бұрын
Thank You ❤❤
@s.zen.4587
@s.zen.4587 Жыл бұрын
At the same time as I have experienced abuse I also recognize bad behaviour in myself thanks to this documentary and talk. I overcompensate in how much attention I give certain people. I think because I dont want them to feel as worthless and dehumanized as I have been made to feel throughout my life. But, that can become both smothering and also maybe too pushy, which may leave someone who is not great at setting boundaries or expressing themselves in a state of unwanted closeness with me on their end. I dont mean to be unhealthy, and I think of myself as kind but in the light of the documentary I started to realize that I too may be inappropriate actually. Very sobering to realize that I might not be so kind actually 😮
@swampophelia2098
@swampophelia2098 7 ай бұрын
So well spoken Dylan
@tatjanak15
@tatjanak15 3 ай бұрын
As I am listening to Dylan, my still not fully explored traumas get shaken again like a residue on the bottom of an old wine bottle
@lynn333stringas5
@lynn333stringas5 Жыл бұрын
❤ you are so brave
@rooboatdeer22yu51
@rooboatdeer22yu51 8 ай бұрын
I know what it feels like to want to discover a part of yourself that you don't know if it's there and it is there
@inthehouse1960
@inthehouse1960 Жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful that you came out Dylan and respect the courage it has taken to stand your ground. I stopped watching Wood Allen movies after he revealed his true self in the movie Manhattan with Mariel Hemingway. It was disgusting the way he was openly grooming her in that movie - and it was celebrated in the film world - Later in 2015, Mariel revealed that it was exactly what he was doing. How many women's lives were shattered in all the years since then? Nothing was said or done, and now we know what was happening behind the scenes in Hollywood.
@afterthestorm9355
@afterthestorm9355 Жыл бұрын
I refuse to watch Woody Allen movies as well. Never saw Manhattan, either
@angelaholmes8888
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
I stopped watching his films years ago
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
Mariel never once "revealed" that Woody groomed her. She said that when she was a young adult he asked her to come to Paris with him. She said "no" and Woody respectfully accepted her "no". Mariel even refused to condemn Woody when Marlow Stern from the Daily Beast kept goading her to.
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
@@afterthestorm9355 He did not marry his stepdaughter. You're demonizing him based on a lie
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
@@afterthestorm9355 He was never married to Mia Farrow, never even lived with her. He cheated on his girlfriend with his girlfriend's adopted daughter, who was 20/21. He went on to marry her when she was 27. Did he cross a boundary? Sure. But that boundary had nothing to do with pedophilia or with incest or with grooming, and it's dishonest of you to (mis)represent it as such.
@MrsHonesty111
@MrsHonesty111 Жыл бұрын
So brave of Dylan. Wish you healing and actually thriving. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
@bereal6590
@bereal6590 8 ай бұрын
So many parents do not give their kids safety or a place to be validated and seen. Then they deny the harms they've caused, that is a major retraumatisation imo. Whether it's physical emotional psychological or sexual trauma, if it's denied belittled it's being re harmed all over again and rocks your world. Some parents are incredibly weak and selfish
@JonathanMulderMarston
@JonathanMulderMarston Жыл бұрын
I am relieved that I am not a fan of allen. In fact, I honestly never have seen a single film of his. I never found his stuff appealing, he always gave me the creeps even before it came out he molested and married his daughter 🤢🤮 He's another sickening example of anopensecret and corruption in hollywood. But Dylan Farrow is amazing for standing up to tell the truth!!✨ So is everyone else that shines a light on what happens in darkness.🖖🏻✌🏽🌈💚
@dragonclaws9367
@dragonclaws9367 Жыл бұрын
Never found him funny. He comes off as a self-indulgent whiner....Who wants to watch a man complain for an hour and a half? Gross.
@Ausgar-yc1yl
@Ausgar-yc1yl 9 ай бұрын
Wrong, did NOT marry his daughter. What are you talking about?
@tesskaiser2190
@tesskaiser2190 7 ай бұрын
Spot on. He gives me the heebie jeebies and has a huge creep factor IMO. Wouldn't leave my children anywhere near him.
@cyberpunkalphamale
@cyberpunkalphamale Жыл бұрын
Bless you both.
@lynnmeyers10
@lynnmeyers10 6 ай бұрын
You cant get around the fact all the kids involved including Soon-yi were exposed to two wierd people who had narcississtic tendencies, maybe even having odd behaviors toward their children. Sleeping nude with an 11 yo. Stealing your galfriend's underage daughter, asian or not, adopted or not. The suicides and other info shows there was something wrong with Mia and Woody even before they met.
@ourworldfinallyelaine
@ourworldfinallyelaine Жыл бұрын
Enablers do not like it when you tell them “Santa doesn’t exist.” The narcissist so many times say their anger isn’t that big of a deal. But any anger you show at their mal treatment? Suddenly they will say that “you” are the angry one. Anger for narcissists is justified. Not for you though when you finally speak up.
@afterthestorm9355
@afterthestorm9355 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@afterthestorm9355
@afterthestorm9355 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@ushere5791
@ushere5791 Жыл бұрын
i believe dylan. i was a kid when i started watching woody allen movies. i loved him, thought he was brilliant. then i found out what he'd done to dylan, and i could hardly bear to see or hear his name after that--as a result, i have no idea how narcissistic or whatever he is because i filtered him out of my experience as much as i could since then. i grew up immersed in neglect and abuse--including nearly constant torment by my narcissistic sib who knew how to play angel as soon as our parents were within seeing or hearing us. not that long ago, i told our mom what my sib had done to me all day every day growing up--my mom was aghast. "you didn't know," i said, trying to comfort her (since i'd long since forgiven her). her eyes widened. "yeah, but i SHOULD have known. it was my RESPONSIBILITY to know," she said. so, for as much as i love mia farrow for what she does right--e.g., using her public platform to help marginalized communities--re what dylan survived, i have to ask: what did mia know? what should she have known that she didn't know? how could she let this happen to HER precious sweet baby? ...i just can't. thank you, dear dylan, for telling your story. you WILL save others by doing so. edit: i do understand that mia did the best she could with what she knew as soon as she knew. i do. but still, my own mother's words ring in my ears.
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 Жыл бұрын
I was never a fan and did not see his movies. The worst thing he did to Dylan is give her a narcissistic mom.
@bellaluce7088
@bellaluce7088 11 ай бұрын
I'm confused by your comment. You forgave your mom for not seeing constant daily torment by your sibling that presumably didn't all occur in a dim attic away from everyone else as WA's assault of Dylan did, yet you think Mia Farrow should have magically been aware of what WA took care to do in privacy? Abuse hurts EVERYONE in the family system, including those who truly didn't know what was happening yet are nonetheless often tortured by guilt for the rest of their lives, not to mention the pain of knowing how their loved one was hurt.
@ushere5791
@ushere5791 11 ай бұрын
@@bellaluce7088 i'm saying both mothers dropped the ball by not being aware of the abuse that was going on. even my mother, who was super defensive, said that it was her responsibility to know what was going on. what i'll say for mia farrow is that, when she found out about the abuse, she seemed a lot more supportive of dylan in the moment than i bet my mom could have been. it took decades for my mom to understand my sib enough to recognize that things there weren't quite right, so to speak.
@angelaholmes8888
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
Dylan is truly a courageous woman who found a way to heal from her trauma I hope she will find peace 🙏🙂
@ZenZill
@ZenZill Жыл бұрын
After reading Soon-Yi Previn's New Yorker interview, I'm more surprised that people don't talk badly about Mia Farrow. Don't forget she adopted several children, as if they were pets, while busy filming movies and being an icon. You think she helped them? One died from a self-inflicted gunshot to the head, and one who was homeless from HIV/AIDS. It's no surprise we're left with scenarios like Dylan and Soon-Yi. Woody is no angel, but interesting that he and Soon-Yi are 20 years into their marriage, meanwhile the Farrows cannot move on and live their own lives. I've moved on from abuse, you won't see me on CBS Morning Edition talking about it almost 30 years later.
@b.brightstar9189
@b.brightstar9189 Жыл бұрын
Dylan and Rowan Farrow are children from a mother who had a lot of childhood traumata. Their big trauma comes from their mother, not from the father. Mia was emotional not stable enough for her children, she had her own issues. But she needs a scapegoat, and this was unfortunately Woody. Dr Ramani learned me a lot - I am surprised lately that she invites people who are hiding very well another story.
@davidsheriff9274
@davidsheriff9274 Жыл бұрын
Woody and Soon -Yi have actually been married for thirty five years and have two happy well adjusted adopted children who have never had a bad word to say about their parents. We all should be so lucky to have a family like that. Anyway,why are people bringing up his relationship with Soon -Yi, what does that have to do with the allegations made against him by Dylan Farrow?
@Trollika_Devi
@Trollika_Devi Жыл бұрын
Mia Farrow is a toxic narcissist and a grifter. It's really disappointing that someone like Dr Ramani who dissects narcissism brilliantly overlooks all the disturbing aspects of Dylan's and Mia's narrative and hot co opted into the smear campaign they are running. The irony ! It breaks my heart to see even the smartest minds aren't immune to manipulation. Mia Farrow is an abuser and Dylan is her victim like all the rest of her kids. That Dylan gets to go on and on with her story on every other media platform despite all the contradictions and holes , is very disturbing. A modern day witch hunt. I personally find Woody Allen's relationship with Soon Yi weird but that doesn't make him a pedophile. The way people assume he's one just because he married his girlfriend's adopted daughter is just ridiculous.
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
​@Trollika Devi Ramani is not manipulated, she's a manipulator.
@kashesan
@kashesan 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for clarifying language Dr R. This kind of "Snapped" language (there's a frigging television show called "Snapped!") almost always relates to women to imply an unhinged (and hence unreliable) crazy female. Its blame-the-victim mentality. It subtly protects the perpetrators, the modern day version of "hysteria" usage in language.
@oober3690
@oober3690 Жыл бұрын
I have never given much thought to Dylan Farrow's story. The Farrows (Ronan, Mia, Woody Allen, etc.) have been in and out of the news for a few decades now, and I thought of the Farrow/Allen family as two bitter divorcees fighting and using their kids as weapons. I am so glad I got corrected by this episode. Dylan blew me away with her emotional depth and intelligence. What a strong, thoughtful, and compassionate person she is! I was blown away by her story. I am so sorry she experienced what she did, but I am so glad she has had the strength to tell others.
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
She's brainwashed
@oober3690
@oober3690 Жыл бұрын
@@No-xs1no How?
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
@Michael by her mother Mia, who wanted revenge on her ex
@oober3690
@oober3690 Жыл бұрын
@@No-xs1no That's not what I gathered when I watched this.
@oober3690
@oober3690 Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 which brother and why?
@corinnekelley8133
@corinnekelley8133 11 ай бұрын
GO DR RAMANI!!!!!!
@kellyredgrove
@kellyredgrove 3 ай бұрын
I hear you deeply❤️‍🩹
@Sesa-iato
@Sesa-iato Жыл бұрын
Why would a man wait until a child is seven to molest her when he's being watched all day? Why not at three, four, five, six? Why not before the time his ex girlfriend was angry at him, let him visit her house as usual - he never lived in it - and told everyone there to watch him all day and he knew it? Why would he molest a child when he was in a relationship with a woman of legal consent, as he always was? How is it possible that if someone is a child molester, he never molested the other children in the family, never molested Dylan, never molested anyone on set or off, never molested his two daughters with Soon-Yi, his wife of thirty years, or anyone, ever? Only a seven year old on one day in a matter of minutes when he was being watched? It doesn't make sense. Please have any therapist or expert explain a child molester who was never accused of doing anything sexually abusive to a young child, even this one, until the most unbelievable moment. Also, please explain why the mother was busy out, still talking to him, said something like "you took my daughter, now I'll take yours," told friends who were witnesses in the investigation she's got the situation of his new girlfriend all fixed for her, told him she'd stop telling people the story he hurt Dylan for money from him - it's public record - but was never heard telling anyone, and no one who was involved in being questioned said that she ever called them, hysterical, shocked, upset, crying about her child being harmed. She never tried to get a restraining order. She never behaved in any way a mother just finding out her daughter was allegedly molested acts. She just kept getting the child to say she was, on camera, until she got a take okay enough - and Dylan was naked in these! Why? - and the mother took the nude photos she stole of her own daughter, Soon-Yi, taken as a legal, consenting adult, but that were still private, and gave them to the public, and they were all over the news! Why would a mother do that? Why wasn't she seen or heard distraught, in pain, caring for anyone, making them safe, helping them? If you say therapy, we know most of that entire family was already in therapy for many things, so it's not that. I'm not sure this is behavior of a caring mother or someone who really believes her daughter was molested. A mother will scream, cry, call friends in shock, plead to be heard, make sure he can't go near her, get the child help, not constantly yell at the child that the child is a victim and have the child repeat it. It just doesn't add up and this interview shows that. This is also supposed to be about narcissists, and Woody Allen just seems like a shy, intellect, happy to write small movies, play an instrument, live his life in private. I don't think he's been called a narcissist in work, at home, by girlfriends or family members, ever. He wasn't even called a child molester until his daughter of seven years spent a day in a house with him, at least two other siblings, friends, baby sitters, maybe a tutor who were all told to watch him all day, and they did. It's why Moses Allen, formerly known as Farrow, an intelligent psychologist who specializes in adoption issues, has written about that day, how they were brainwashed and harmed by Mia, how she destroyed them, how she was physically, verbally, emotionally abusive to the less favoured children, one of whom was left penniless and died of AIDS all alone. It's cases like this, of a man alleged to have touched a child once at the oddest of times, that have people question women and men, why they think people make up abuse, and even though it seems the mother concocted the entire "event" and the daughter believed it or didn't believe it or knows to be one of the favoured children she has to go along, or really ended up thinking it happened, it's not only unjust to Woody Allen and to Dylan but to all true victims and survivors. Find one other person who was a child molester one time, especially to a child he was with all the time - don't bring relationships with younger, legally consenting women into it - because I'd really like to know about that. The sad thing is, had they not later made up the story of "grooming" for years, to help the false narrative, or had they early on claimed it was happening all along, or that was the one day she realized - maybe she'll make that statement now, since it's neverending talk about him except for in a trial she could have but won't do it - the lie would be believable, especially with the incorrectly reported and repeated and salacious story of Soon-Yi. This isn't right to real survivors of molestation, to survivors of any kind of narcissistic abuse, and to survivors of molestation by a narcissist. Please bring on a believable guest who's believable on her own story, not widely spread terrible rumours, so people can hear someone who can help.
@danielaspitz3052
@danielaspitz3052 Жыл бұрын
Yes. M.F. is a covert Narc, imo. They do anything to destroy the persln/the people they hate and even lie about it and hurt whole families forever. My family and the relationship with my children is forever destroyed. My mother is a covert Narc. Evil to the bone.
@Jess-kn8vl
@Jess-kn8vl Жыл бұрын
Why are you here? These long rambling posts discrediting a SA survivor and defending that weasely man is troubling, wow.
@sm-ftw
@sm-ftw Жыл бұрын
You won't get an answer to that because there's probably literally no real child molester who ever did it once to one child, waiting seven years to do it, for a few minutes, only when people were all around him all day, no one else accusing him his entire life, only his angry ex girlfriend when he moved on with a younger woman, one she has been publicly known to have physically and mentally abused. If anyone does know of someone who molested a child one time while knowingly being watched but not before or after, please share. Woody's smart but it doesn't take a genius to figure that just wouldn't be the day to try it, let alone do it.
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries Жыл бұрын
Reported
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries Жыл бұрын
Sick..."wait" until seven? Huh!? No one should abuse ever.
@rhodaborrocks-dy3fb
@rhodaborrocks-dy3fb 8 ай бұрын
Poor woman. I hope she heals from the abuse perpetrated by her mother
@lynnrogersma79
@lynnrogersma79 7 ай бұрын
Come on the perpetrator married his daughter without compunction.
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi 6 ай бұрын
Get out of here.
@truelove11.11
@truelove11.11 6 ай бұрын
The sickest thing is that Dylan's abuser Woody Allen and Dylan's sister Soon Yi managed to adopt a child which looked just like Dylan! For a long time I thought it was Dylan that they had adopted when a saw photographs of them together, only I was confused as how young ''Dylan'' looked. It wasn't Dylan, but another younger child that looked just like her! Only corrupted judges could have allowed this kind of adoption!! It clearly shows what kind of obsession Woody Allen had with Dylan, so much that he adopted another younger child that looked just like her, and Soon Yi enabled this! Evil evil man!!
@lenkabosma5629
@lenkabosma5629 Жыл бұрын
How utterly toxic to abuse a child! How utterly impossible to fight the demon of public opinion! Dylan must be the most beautiful woman alive. Inside and out. Her and Jennifer Lopez. But the courage of Dylan! I am floored.
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
Lmao J Lo is a raging narc
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 Жыл бұрын
@@No-xs1no so is Dylan's mom.
@No-xs1no
@No-xs1no Жыл бұрын
@@jendine1663 true
@ShadowsinChina
@ShadowsinChina Жыл бұрын
The current push to remove protection against abuse of women and children is breaking my heart. telling your story is how you heal sometimes. This is undoubtelly hard to hear. It shouldnt have happened. But we need to know it did.
@higuoy
@higuoy Жыл бұрын
I cannot comprehend how anyone can support WA regardless of talent as a filmmaker . He married is adopted DAUGHTER! That IS incest. I feel so sorry for Dylan's abuse by the hands of her own father.
@higuoy
@higuoy Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 yes, she is his adopted daughter, legally his daughter. ncest (/ˈɪnsɛst/ IN-sest) is human sexual activity between family members or close relatives.[1][2] This typically includes sexual activity between people in consanguinity (blood relations), and sometimes those related by affinity (marriage or stepfamily), adoption, or lineage. It is strictly forbidden and considered immoral in most societies, and can lead to an increased risk of genetic disorders in children.
@higuoy
@higuoy Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 My misunderstanding, no need to react. The situation still reeks of grooming and perversion.
@Martec-o3l
@Martec-o3l Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 a young adult brain is still not yet developed as a more than a 57 don't you think off is off?, just a thought....
@barbarazancocchia207
@barbarazancocchia207 Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 whatever. She was Dylan's sister.
@barbarazancocchia207
@barbarazancocchia207 Жыл бұрын
@@KPK75772 love is not an excuse for inappropriate behavior. The man was old enough to use his brain. Maybe some real therapy...
@asmanasim9394
@asmanasim9394 Жыл бұрын
Believing the survivors..... 😢
@FLK-BC
@FLK-BC Жыл бұрын
Believing the "survivors".....even when they have no credibility
@jendine1663
@jendine1663 Жыл бұрын
@@FLK-BC Dylan is a brain washed victim of a narcissistic mother. She is not a bad person and she is a victim (of her mom)
@theebensolo
@theebensolo Жыл бұрын
Do you have any videos on overcoming narcissistic women and or breaking away from those relationships? Would be a great watch us man need some guidance too from a woman point of view.
@boboloko
@boboloko Жыл бұрын
Funny you should mention that because that’s exactly what happened.
@shawngoldman3762
@shawngoldman3762 Жыл бұрын
I was a huge Woody Allen fan growing up. I loved his films, especially the early ones. I had an ethical issue with the message of "Crimes and Misdemenors", but I still supported Woody when these allegations came out in the 90's. I just didn't want to believe that one of my cinematic heroes could be such a monster. I am so sorry for not believing your story Dylan. You seem to have come to terms with this horrible event. Thank you for speaking out.
@davidsheriff9274
@davidsheriff9274 Жыл бұрын
Are you aware that this case was investigated by The New York Department of Child Services and The Yale New Haven Hospital Department of Child Sexual Assault, and both investigations concluded it did not happen and that Dylan was coached? The prosecutor did not bring any charges against him and he passed a polygraph test administered by someone who worked for the military and The CIA , that's good enough for me. By the way, what were the ethical issues you had with Crimes and Misdemeanors?
@Trollika_Devi
@Trollika_Devi Жыл бұрын
I watched Crimes and Misdemeanors more than a decade ago when I was a teen. I remember liking it. I'd like to know too - what was so problematic about it ? Honest question. No sarcasm.
@Enlightened77777
@Enlightened77777 Жыл бұрын
They adopted little girls???? How fitting for soon yi to provide him with new supply. How could any adoption agency have approved this with him publicly having molested Dylan. What the hell? We will all hear about those little girls being abused by him when they grow into adults….trust me.
@Ausgar-yc1yl
@Ausgar-yc1yl 9 ай бұрын
They are grown adults.
@LEM19284
@LEM19284 Жыл бұрын
WAIT!!!!!! Her father (Woody Allen) married her sister????😮😡🤬 I vaguely recall this in the news, but I was so ignorant to it all. OR so sheltered and naive until I couldn’t wrap my brain around it!
@theantinatalismzone392
@theantinatalismzone392 6 ай бұрын
So many sick creeps in the comment section defending Woody
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