I love this re enactment examples. So helpful. In so many cases, i may know what not to do, but i have no idea what TO DO. And time in that activated space i eventually would do the not to do thing out of desperation. Keep them coming.

Yet another good video Jayson! Thank you 🙏🏻

Once again a great video. I loved that this one had a very quick explanation for the avoidant partner on why the anxious is the way they are, while also giving the anxious partner some tools. Hit both sides. You asked me before about possible other videos and I had to think again, then recently I had the following happen: a friend got triggered by something I said regarding my work situation. It triggered in them old wounds and that friend was able to state “I’m feeling triggered (after making a couple comments)” and while I recognized this and said “I can tell” … I wasn’t really sure where to go from there other than change the subject. Though in actuality I really wanted to explore that with them but was having troubles with how to start that conversation. This is really where I love any of your demo videos that help step into those hard conversations and give tools on what to say and how to proceed. Thank you 😊

I have a situation where my wife is constantly on her cellphone and calling individuals during the day when I need her to assist with our daily and weekly tasks. How can she cooperate when she feels I’m interrupting her when I come home from a doctors appointment and wish to discuss my visit. She posted on our refrigerator that “I’ll greet you when you come home “ but never abides by it.

How do you agree?? on an agreement. ?? To do with time out. One wants to sort out the argument right here and now, The other wants to have time out. ?? The one that wants time out... is triggered by pressure to sort things out NOW