Amen Janice 🙌🏾. And the heartbreaking part of this is when most women hear a man say he is not ready in their mind they think what can I do to change his mind and get him ready 🥺. Ladies you can’t. You have to just move along to the man that is ready and wants that with YOU.
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! And she wasn't a wife but now she wanted to be a wife. smh.
@joannwilson90972 жыл бұрын
Amen
@julie13932 жыл бұрын
This is why loving yourself is so important! Once she started loving herself, her mindset shifted. She wanted to get married and she wouldn't allow him to cheat in peace. I hope she keeps elevating herself.
@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy12 жыл бұрын
Elevation only comes from an intimate relationship with God 🙏. Praying for the kids and the parent's souls.
@toriyt27142 жыл бұрын
I do think it is by design that society does not teach women to approach men and relationships from a strong position. So many women approach relationships from a weak position giving all the leverage to the man very early and then pray to God to make his heart do the right thing in the end. It doesn’t have to be ladies.
@joellgilbert95882 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
@80sabrosa2 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@raesweety2 жыл бұрын
This also hurts men too. Being in a society where they aren't challenged to be responsible (masculinity increases through being challenged), it makes them weak and nonchalant about life.
@toriyt27142 жыл бұрын
@@raesweety yes!
@kejuanlynette85312 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree, and your profile picture is BEAUTIFUL!!!
@onmylevelsixx2 жыл бұрын
That's an EXCUSE, saying "I not ready to be a husband". But I'm ready to have kids (because women LAY DOWN with that behavior). It's, I DON'T WANT TO MARRY YOU...
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
We have to close our legs to these men. They will lay down with us, make babies with us and not marry us.
@joellgilbert95882 жыл бұрын
🎯💯💯🎯 Right!! So, if a man says to me I don't want you to be my wife. Ok...I'm OUT!! (And in my younger years, I was in my feelings and felt the spirit of rejection but now that I'm older baaaybeee: I am glad I didn't drop the cookie on ya!!) Young women: Keep the panties ON and pray for discernment.
@neicey282 жыл бұрын
Exactly and the weight that comes with being a husband is him saying you're not worth the weight. Ladies, if he's not ready to be a husband, he's not ready to get husband's privileges - the bedroom. Know your worth.
@joellgilbert95882 жыл бұрын
@@neicey28 💯 and if you (male) Don't think I am NOT worth the weight, then yeah - No more further conversations. I.Am.OUT! ✌ peace luv, you 😉 enjoy!! I will NOT think of myself as a worthless person just because a male doesn't get me. GOD got me. How about that!!
@yolandalcheek4622 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@theunyet.curatedlife2 жыл бұрын
All he is saying he wasn’t ready to stop cheating and living his life but he was ok with being a baby daddy. Our generation is so lost.
@maureen10312 жыл бұрын
It really is.
@rachelstruth18892 жыл бұрын
I get chewed up every time I go against everyone glorifying struggle love or someone dating 12 years just because he proposes when he becomes rich or successful. Talkin about don’t judge a book by the cover. Those situations are RARE
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
SMH. And they wonder why so many of us are unmarried but have all these kings with no fathers and husbands. smh.
@keshiawright42422 жыл бұрын
If you not prepared to be a husband then you are not prepared to be a father. A father should first be a husband. We have gotten so used to life being out of order that when someone calls it out you judging.
@finesseg52592 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a responsibility....being in love is an emotion
@mizzmolly76492 жыл бұрын
And making 4 babies is even more of a responsibility.
@whitleya6442 жыл бұрын
@@mizzmolly7649 so what they can afford it
@QueenShanine2 жыл бұрын
@@whitleya644 affording it is not the point she was making.
@mizzmolly76492 жыл бұрын
@@QueenShanine Thank you Shanny. People act like marriage is a bigger decision than bringing a baby into the world. I honestly don't get it.
@mizzmolly76492 жыл бұрын
@@whitleya644 They can afford to screw up a child's life by giving them instability and raising them in a broken home? What's the price on that?
@SageCloverThyme2 жыл бұрын
Didn't want the weight of being a husband, and didn't respect you enough to make you a girlfriend. How will adding a child to the situation do anything but cause the child/children to feel like an afterthought? I'm noticing a new normal in terms of family dynamics and it's heartbreaking...
@kmross732 жыл бұрын
People do everything backwards. They want to have sex first as a way "to get know each other." Then they want to move in together to learn if their living styles are compatible before they get married. Next come the children because they can always "responsibly coparent" together if they break up. Marriage, if it ever comes, is after all of this. It's no wonder our relationships are so messed up.
@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy12 жыл бұрын
@@kmross73 Preach!
@sjames57772 жыл бұрын
This situation is so exhausting. Why is this so prevalent in the black community? Beyond the immediate gratification of sex is there something deeper driving them to behave like breeders?
@ettak75942 жыл бұрын
it came from slavery and no father in the home.
@kenyafromcali2 жыл бұрын
@@ettak7594 Wherever it came from, we’re not animals, and we can be moral and have standards for marriage. Moreover, it’s funny that we say it’s due to slavery, but somehow coming out of slavery, we believed intact families and honoring his responsibility and seeds with marriage and family name and legacy. So this undisciplined degeneracy has been new in our history for the past 55 years.
@ettak75942 жыл бұрын
@@kenyafromcali Lady. What are you talking about. Yes, black people get married. However, statistics show that today over 70% of black women are not getting married. 68% of our black women have children and never get married. Why, because of welfare, food stamp and section 8 or because they refuse to marry a man making less than them. The average income of the black man is $35,000 a year while for woman $45,000 or more. Also once not all, but a lot of black men once they began to make 6 figures or more, marry outside their race. Leave the black girl and his children and marry the white girl. Look around you. There are so many beautiful nice black girls with no husband's with a child. Wake up open your eyes lady. Are you married!!!!!!! LOL
@tamareana35652 жыл бұрын
Lack of direction and guidance from elders ….
@jeanniejones87772 жыл бұрын
Agreed, as women stop allowing this behavior it will change.
@denisebrinson31052 жыл бұрын
Good morning Janice! I love your channel ❤️. Women aren't supposed to chase men. Men know what and when they want. My husband told me I don't want a girlfriend after 3 months, he wants a wife. We've been happily married for 10 years, never been separated. We just had a vow renewal in Jamaica on our wedding anniversary on Valentine's Day. He chose me. He didn't want me to work as he is a six figure engineer however I did continue my 22 year career as an insurance agent until I couldn't anymore because of health reasons. I must purchase your book immediately because you are right!
@jeanniejones87772 жыл бұрын
All Truth...so many women have not had father's or mother's to tell them the truth...because of one reason or another. The music, narrative of entertainment and advertisements usually always have some type of sexual concept to mind control us. Thank you for your honest show of love. We have been lied to for too long and this has led to countless broken hearts, aborted babies and self esteem issues because of not understanding how precious our bodies, emotions and souls are. We have to protect it all. Being celibate is a special gift that you give yourself while you are on a journey to be the best you that you can be. The one meant for you will find you. You don't have to let someone test drive you.
@virginiaallen36182 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯 percent with you this morning. Cam is one of my favorite players, but the way he chooses to live his personal life brings no honor to The God he always claimed. Also. Cam was not raised and trained in this type of environment. He has no excuse for this type of behavior.
@kenyafromcali2 жыл бұрын
No excuses!
@Sweetlady19162 жыл бұрын
I think the whole athlete lifestyle over rides any moral/values these men have. It feeds the very dark side of the male desire. Yes,his behavior was disappointing.
@familyoriented54172 жыл бұрын
@JANICE.... you know my story. Had one child not married. Love my son. His dad and I both wanted marriage. Then things shifted and he wasn't ready. (As you said I was taken for granted). So then he wanted us to TAKE A BREAK, but not see other ppl. I said no. Either we on the same page with marriage or it's a BREAK UP. So at the end of year 3 we broke up and during year 4 he did what he had to do to get where he wanted to be. THEN he had to get in line and date me and propose. By the end of year 4 (not waiting on him but dating accordingly) he proposed and going into year 5 we were married 3 months later. Now a family of 4 with 2 dogs and Stay at home wife!!!! But had to stand my ground and reevaluate to get to where we are now. It was HARD! I love that man but I wasn't accepting not being married but serving up wife benefits. Nope!
@beverlyfrancis84332 жыл бұрын
He wasn't ready to be a husband but ready to be a father 4 times! He is wicked. She should investigate his outside life
@abiodundosu42052 жыл бұрын
1 is too many! Stop having kids before marriage. We blame the men, but the women can’t take any accountability for laying up with him unprotected. We put all the pressure on men to be financially prepared for marriage, however there is room for women to make a “mistake” by having a kid out of wedlock. If you want to be a wife, stop laying down for years and popping out their babies without any commitment!!!
@onmylevelsixx2 жыл бұрын
Example...Ne-Yo, Monyetta, and Crystal "situation"🤨
@toriyt27142 жыл бұрын
Whew yes!
@racqueenus2 жыл бұрын
The man convinced her to tie her tubes. You are so right.
@shelleydennis83502 жыл бұрын
The way he did Monyetta was so foul. I’m glad she found happiness
@exquisite9212 жыл бұрын
@@shelleydennis8350 same
@kfrancis18722 жыл бұрын
Peter Gunz, Amina, and Tara. Convinced Amina, his legal wife, to abort; but or BECAUSE he knocked Tara - BM of son 1 & 2 - up on purpose. I don't see how that doesn't cause PTSD. Both ladies are STILL beautiful and VERY single. Traumatized.
@shaquayshahill33072 жыл бұрын
He is for the streets. She had those babies to secure the bag. A woman who knows her worth is getting married before bringing children in the world. Kids are a bigger responsibility.
@oneloveonelove99832 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why have so many children with a person you don't want to marry?
@prettybrwneyez77572 жыл бұрын
Selfish AF
@alyssiab.2 жыл бұрын
Having a baby or more by someone who wouldn't die for you 😞
@notaytguru82142 жыл бұрын
That part!
@Tammy-se2hu2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Janice so much. You freed me a little more today. My gratitude toward ABBA FATHER for delivering me from myself and a man that thinks like cam newton. I'm ordering your books. Your next book should be titled 12 years a man child pretending to be a man.
@fonda77602 жыл бұрын
God bless you for operating in your calling to educate us with a biblical worldview. Keep it coming my sister!
@BEBEBUTTER2 жыл бұрын
I'm learning from this channel love it
@jenniferpeek87472 жыл бұрын
yes! preach janice! This is so true!
@tiffanyc83072 жыл бұрын
If I man want to marry you he will within 2 years of knowing you. She knew he didn’t want her like that but kept having kids and there are women who do this with men that have r
@robertacollins32052 жыл бұрын
NOT swinging off the pole.. LOL
@raesweety2 жыл бұрын
This is why I am on your channel. You speak the truth. The saturated info on women submitting is taxing. You are speaking about the scripture that everyone skips over. Thank you 😀
@thaliaguthrie96142 жыл бұрын
That sorry dude just didn't want to marry her but he was ready to be a dad of four😮. Like you said before men are weak and they sorry. Is he ready to marry her now?
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
Shows you how times change, when I was coming up if you were pregnant in school age, you could not go to school with the other girls unless you were married. There was a separate school for pregnant girls.
@cherishoneal91082 жыл бұрын
It just seems like a normal thing these days for athletes to have children and not commit. Just a generalization. Always a s*x worker/instagram model.
@chrisharris23672 жыл бұрын
But what motivates him to want you I see beautiful black women getting played all the time Maybe we as black women should just stop giving wife benefits if they wont commit to be godly faithful husbands Good advice Ms. Janice
@jeweloholic2 жыл бұрын
I have heard of children asking their parents to marry because married parents makes the children feel more secure, with every one having the same last name. Matthew McConaughey is an example. If children feel something lacking, you know a woman feels it.
@godbless81382 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful janice to keep educating us...who have ears to hear let them hear.❗
@feminineone96102 жыл бұрын
Football money IS NOT. as long as Basketball money.. simple answer 😏😏🌺🙏🏽
@ShayLikeButter2 жыл бұрын
Well I believe he likes men, so I'm not surprised he doesn't want to marry her. Also, these people in Hollyweird are into some very strange arrangements and I generally hold them to a lower standard.🤷🏾♀️
@Always_Meeka2 жыл бұрын
I get that strange feeling about him too. There’s a lot of guys out there who are grappling with their sexuality. It has them conflicted in so many ways. I at least like the fact Cam didn’t marry her, versus all these other down low men out here married to women and taking men to bed at the same time. It’s so sad 😞
@nikcarolyn47102 жыл бұрын
Great video Janice.
@sarahgivens71822 жыл бұрын
I remember in my 20s a girl came to Mt house wanted to fight over her kids father. She said he was her man. They have 5 kids. I bust out laughing. I was like calm down. If he is yours why are you at my door. Also why are you not his wife. He is a much right man. I have just much to him as you. But I don't have time for lying, cheating and foolishness. He ended getting married to another girl.
@sevenco37692 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry this is a doggone shame. I agree a man needs to be ready but years of relationship and three children later it's time to grow up.No one is fully prepared for something they have never done, but they get in the ring. Infantilising these grown millionaire men as a way of explaining away their bad behavior is ridiculous. Glad you brought this story to light.
@companyconfidential2 жыл бұрын
GM Janice, hope all is well! We have to take into account that the woman that a man chooses says more about him than it does about who she is. The man sets the tone regarding if he marries her or not. The fact that a man refuses to marry a woman who has bore his children defines his character or lack there of. The woman in this case equally sees herself in a poor light otherwise she would have stopped after the first baby. As women we have to teach a man how to treat us and not necessarily through actually teaching him but by what we are willing to accept as the standard. Great show!!!
@clara79202 жыл бұрын
Just so you know. He have 9 children I believe Not sure which team he will be Quarterback for Cam was good in 2015 since he’s been rid with injuries. Not a starting QB now so…………….
@keshiawright42422 жыл бұрын
I love that you speak truth. We need to hear this.
@joellgilbert95882 жыл бұрын
Thank you Janice!! 😊 I agree if a woman wants to be a wife, she gotta keep her "cookie" in the jar. Men will do only if ALLOW them. Several things - major- physical/scientific and spiritual: men say, "boys will be boys", "WOOF!! Nothing but the dog in me🎶🎵" (alright great - Atomic Dog, Parliment/Funkadelic jams) and it is reality-based on the physical: a man can reproduce with women (plural) and seed (sire)12, 24, 44 women in one month! If that man or male IS the shiggidy diggity- dog! But a woman can only birth one child in one year. Now!! I KNOW a woman can have two children in one year and that could either be twins or "Irish Twins" (my mom and my uncle are Irish Twins but for sake of the discussion: men can squirt and squirt with many and woman can get THE BEST DNA for her (also scientific, a woman will size up a man in about 8 seconds to say yes or 👎 naah) future children and women cannot wait super duper long to get those eggs fertilized and have her children to love, nurture, teach and etc... on the physical realm, we are responding to the scientific reality: human population needs to flourish and we gotta get these eggs hatched and in a civilized society, as HIGHER creations of THE MOST HIGH - we need other idealistic elements: love, respect, nurture, resources to build and maintain community (family). As creations of THE MOST HIGH - He gave us Free Will. We humans are tasked with great responsibilities and since I believe in my creator who gave me life through my parents and kept me SAFE and protected in some really tough situations as a young woman (CRAZY ACTUALLY), I had to MATURE, pray more and OBEY God. Now I am 54 (just had a bday 3 weeks) and have been abstinent for 4 years since 2017 because I was IN MY FEELINGS about getting older and menopause and just not doing the right things but I finally stopped - COLD🥶🥶 and am in a better place to sit down and be quiet and read and pray. Mr Cam Newton (as all men in Society) will have a moment to say, "Lord I was wrong with all this sex-ing sexcapades, strippers and OOW babies, LYING and conniving women who really liked me, lying just to get the cookie quickly, and I want a WIFE" but he will have to come to that point and I hope he does. I pray all men get their spiritual lives up to par, I will pray for him AND Ms Proctor. JANICE, you are correct and I listened to this video 3 times. (Sorry for ranting and disorganized outline of my research paper🤣🤣🤣)
@whitlocknicole2 жыл бұрын
I definitely understand you and mentors when they say don't have more than one. I have one child and I refuse to have anymore because I was not married. While he was able to keep making babies....but he wasn't the man he needed to be in order to be a husband. He knew he wasn't ready. Men know when they are ready. You can't force them, you can pop babies to make them, theh have to be ready. There is nothing a woman can do to make him marry her. It's so sad women find this out too late, after having numerous babies. Wife/husband is a title, you have to be ready for a title. CEO is a title that you have to be READY for. Come on preach Janice....if you can't come under him and he can't take care of you.....YOU'RE NOT READY!!! PREACH PREACHA.....TEACH THE WORD!!!!!!
@keptbygrace62212 жыл бұрын
@ 26:36 the word you're looking for is "trifling" 😉
@yolandalcheek4622 жыл бұрын
Sister Janice 🤣🥰. When you right the book for the men I can't wait to read it.
@exquisite9212 жыл бұрын
They are both to blame but he is just so dishonorable… why NOT make it work with this woman you’ve been with for several years and gave several babies to? Then say you’re sure someone will want her with all those kids. How awful.
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
We have to stop giving boyfriends husband privileges...
@BEBEBUTTER2 жыл бұрын
Great review and advice again. Thank you xxx
@trishonya2 жыл бұрын
His career is never gonna be right because of how he did her! He’s a QB the face of the franchise and have to have a certain persona…NFL owners don’t like that…
@kenyafromcali2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@teachingnacirema90462 жыл бұрын
Yooooo....same thing I been saying. He has not been able to have a good career cuz of how he did her. But he can't see this
@trishonya2 жыл бұрын
@@teachingnacirema9046 they want more Russell Wilson not Instagram thot baby momma!
@BEBEBUTTER2 жыл бұрын
Please watch Tinder Swindler on Netflix and review it for us. Have you seen it LOL
@Mrs.T3052 жыл бұрын
Im going to watch it tomorrow 👍
@TheSherbear872 жыл бұрын
Good video Janice, thanks for sharing the gems as per usual!!!
@sarahkelly22682 жыл бұрын
Wow I don’t know why this pop up on KZfaq. I am considering being with someone after 5 years celibate. Please pray for me that stay strong and keep fellowing God. Lord knows when you need a word.
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
Huh??? You're considering being with someone AFTER 5 years?? What does that mean??. Do you mean you've been with a man for 5 years but you're celibate?? I need answers please.
@Sesboy172 жыл бұрын
Great video 😎✌️
@kmross732 жыл бұрын
So he selfishly used her as a placeholder until another woman he truly wanted to be with came along. And she foolishly allowed him to use her as a placeholder. I pray that women stop being comfortable with being a man's placeholder.
@niam41612 жыл бұрын
She got a KZfaq channel to called Shades Of Kia.. I notice she started doing KZfaq once they broke up.
@bkandy71652 жыл бұрын
That robe ❤️
@ladyzinada53412 жыл бұрын
New Subbie just for this video. Glad I crossed you.🤗
@racqueenus2 жыл бұрын
YOU BETTER TEACH COUSIN JANICE.
@ButtaUsagi2 жыл бұрын
Amen Janice 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@angelawilliams90882 жыл бұрын
Why would ANY! man, have 4 kids by a stripper?! Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of strippers doing it to pay for their college education! But Cam, what's wrong with you?! Me myself wouldn't have had one child by him regardless, of what I did to make my money. Cam is still a kid in a man's body !
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why these women are taking pride in becoming "baby mamas". When I was coming up being pregnant outside of marriage was shameful, not only to you but your entire family. I'm glad it's not that bad anymore but we have taken it to another level because it no longer has that stigma. But God's word still stands on it and it should to you morally.
@jeanetteellis48782 жыл бұрын
In highschool, l attended a conference about how the sport world uses women. I love 💕💕💕💕 my late granny. She taught me to have babies with my husband. I never forgot that. Also, what woman want a man with 9 children. She must be Oprah Winfrey with the 👛 or Bill Gates in a 👗. They sleep with low esteem , no father in their home or ❤️. Really, God requires him to accept Christ and change. God will not bring a good wife.
@jeanetteellis48782 жыл бұрын
Women whom do not know their value in God.
@vjp46992 жыл бұрын
HE HAD TO HAVE HAD MULTIPLE RED FLAGS IN THIER RELATIONSHIP. LADIES SHUT IT DOWN!! STOP THE FOOLISHNESS. TAKE! YOUR! COOKIE OFF HIS TABLE!! OK!!! THANK YOU EVANGELIST FOR YOUR❤💯 PRICELESS ADVICE TO US WOMAN❤💯
@leleg30462 жыл бұрын
Why have so many children when you don't want to marry. The young woman doesn't know her worth. 😉
@robertacollins32052 жыл бұрын
Four is a lot. She probably feel used.
@Polyglotgoddess2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah ☝️PTL!! Preach sister😇
@lesley_lezley2 жыл бұрын
7 children and still not married 😭😭😭
@Djkammie2 жыл бұрын
This spoke to me as my ex boyfriend wouldn't marry me after 4 years! He said we couldn't afford it and his 4 young adult children wanted to stay at his home until they decided what they want to do with their lives!
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
Gurl nnnoooooooo
@notaytguru82142 жыл бұрын
So let him marry them then, have them all up at the clinic *yvette voice * 🤣
@rubyjones28342 жыл бұрын
Amen, preach my child
@Getitgirl8162 жыл бұрын
He doesn't see the value in marriage nor in her, in addition to, she gave him everything without marriage, so maybe she dosen't see the value in marriage either. 🤷🏾♀️
@absolutetreasures68772 жыл бұрын
The children suffers!!!
@shontaemitchell72742 жыл бұрын
I don't commend him . It took you 4 babies to realize you didn't want her. .
@sunnytayse0072 жыл бұрын
I’m up with you at 4/5ish and then around 8 I turn into grandma🤣😩
@alyssiab.2 жыл бұрын
I'm just waiting for Mahomes to dump his fiancee, she's so embarrassing to him especially in public 🥴🤦🏾♀️
@Taytimethursday2 жыл бұрын
When he didn’t marry her before nor after one; why would she hv 3 more?! It takes two to be ridiculous in this situation
@imo.1242 жыл бұрын
I wish I would've found you when I was 30 smh
@Motiva8-TV2 жыл бұрын
He wasn't ready to be a husband, but he was ready to "make" kids. Chile, please!!!
@treanaalfred1482 жыл бұрын
As believers we are called to judge the sin not the person. The sin is judged by the WORD OF GOD. And taking you clothes off as a profession is a sin. This is all irrelevant to Sis. Janice commentary, however Bro. Newton knows the difference that is why he sexes the women but doesn't marry them. Sorry not sorry.
@pharvey24732 жыл бұрын
So since he was not ready, she should have not been ready to sit there and have 4 children, so sorry she waited
@pharvey24732 жыл бұрын
It's so much packed into this situation, I hope she heals & get some healing
@KS-kr4ok2 жыл бұрын
If my son did not marry the mother of his child, I would disown him and try to make her my best friend. The mother of the children needs to be honored. If my son did not he would be trash to me. Would Cam want a man to treat a daughter of his the same way. Sex makes babies. If you do not want to do the right thing then do not have sex, get a doll.
@treanaalfred1482 жыл бұрын
I'm such a morning person also!
@jacquelinehayles29752 жыл бұрын
Preach
@artistrybyartisia53185 ай бұрын
Don’t beg for marriage and don’t beg for a relationship. He will not show up authentically if it’s not his decision
@bodhisattva23482 жыл бұрын
Wasn't ready to have 2 b a husband but have no problem bringing 4 kids in that hot mess. 🙄
@tinadbina2 жыл бұрын
Preach 😇🙏🏾❤
@sandrataylor78922 жыл бұрын
Don't blame him because she didn't want to be marry and people think if your not marry your life is not complete please. Look at most people who got married. 0
@thatgirlkatrinab71802 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!
@ladyzinada53412 жыл бұрын
So she never became good enough to marry after 4 children born of him. Goodness grief JESUS Christ. OMgosh. These men have no love 9r respect for you if you see no value in yourselves. 🙄 I learned the hard way. Sad he gave her push back....about marriage only to go elsewhere...become another Woman childs baby daddy. Sad for her.
@kfrancis18722 жыл бұрын
Can u imagine letting someone plow, plant, and reap u for 4 seasons, increasing wealth of HIS legacy... and they never purchased u, registered ownership with the county, or hung a sign with their name on it. Just harvested over & over, with no claim? Sorry, that's my analogy of it. Being land. Unclaimed land that's being produced with NO benefit to the land whatsoever. Who's going to want tilled land with compromised soil thereafter?
@notaytguru82142 жыл бұрын
I love it
@leleg30462 жыл бұрын
Thats right, Hes planting all seeds and forgetting the main source 🤣
@mariesmith5042 жыл бұрын
🎯 Perfect analogy!!!
@celesteharvey9782 жыл бұрын
Straight facts
@mattisonjames56392 жыл бұрын
Probably because she is from and still in Alabama. If she moves to Cali, the child support goes way up.
@keshiawright42422 жыл бұрын
We really have to define God's original purpose and plan for marriage.
@tatucorreia2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂That's do true! This ladies are defenetely laughing!!! Like Tristan latest lady c'amon.... She knew.... Anyway.....
@robertacollins32052 жыл бұрын
He is a slider!
@whitleya6442 жыл бұрын
Some of you put way too much on getting married....being married is not all it's cracked up to be....couples can get married & unfortunately still be lonely, marriage is not the end all be all.....women should NOT put all their self worth into feeling as though " I have to wait for a man to marry be or I wanna be wifed up".....men can marry and still be the worst partner a lady ever had lying cheating being disrespectful and dismissive......so basically most men ain't ready and never will be ready to be monogamous so if she chose to get the bag from this rich man and still have children like many women desire...no biggie...life goes on plus regular women do it every day, have babies by broke men, by felons, etc this lady did it with someone she loved and he just so happened to be rich...even better
@patricedixon26342 жыл бұрын
Divorced and I agree wholeheartedly. I was treated so bad-- dismissed, belittled, cheated on. Stayed too long won't do it again.
@kfrancis18722 жыл бұрын
I got married at 21 after he asked me to have his son. "U need to give me ur NAME before ur SEED!!". Well, it was great for a year, then okay for 2 more - enter 2 sons - then absolutely disastrous for the last 5. BUT!! I just could not fathom contributing to a man's legacy without so much as his legal claim to me and the children to follow. Without him SYMBOLICALLY investing in said claim with diamond & gold. And without my LEGALLY being given his last name - if something were to happen to him, I'd be given what he was worth. I'm 53 now. I'm completely baffled why these 50+ y/o men I have in my life ALWAYS hint to marriage. What is the point NOW? I don't need ur name, $$, can't reproduce. And somehow I'm SUPPOSED to be desperate to repeat something that turned out to be miserable. No simple remedy.
@prettybrwneyez77572 жыл бұрын
@@kfrancis1872 wheweeww AMENNNNNN!!! This should be upvoted!
@msb95062 жыл бұрын
Why marry her he getting thing free
@rosg4522 жыл бұрын
I hate it when Black Sisters and Other Women want to denigrate women who are strippers as if not being a stripper makes you a better woman. There are many women out there who are and have been strippers who are good women. Some strippers are better women spiritually than the people, men and women who criticise them. No it is not a good thing to be a stripper but it is a job that a lot of women take to make a living because of negative circumstances in life. I just wish black women would be more understanding and stop judging these women. A lot of these women are good women. You can be a stripper and be just as celibate as any other believing woman. This is a fact for some strippers but most people just talk without knowing what they are talking about when it comes to strippers. The jealousy, hate, and begrudging a lot of black women and other women feel against strippers is unchristian and unwarranted. You don't know what kind of women these women are. You don't know all strippers and their character. You are just generalizing based on a few assumptions by other people who also don't know who or what these women are. Strippers are just like the society of women and men as a whole some good some bad.
@tiffanyc83072 жыл бұрын
Some women find out it’s easy money to get to the goals they looking for in life and some women truly allow that life to consume character so it’s 50/50 to me
@thevegene2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I actually went to HS with this young woman, her and her older cousin. Her cousin was a year older than me and played BB. I cheered. She was quiet and unproblematic. Unlike some of my pretentious cheer teammates who were fast, loudmouths and dramatic. I too had (have) my characters flaws so who am I to judge someone else for their job.
@JaniceHylton2 жыл бұрын
So, let me see if I understand your anger. You're angry because i said she was a stripper?? Was she not a stripper??
@alyssiab.2 жыл бұрын
@@JaniceHylton bc you're tone makes it seem like she's less of a woman or didn't deserve to be respected bc she was a stripper. A stripper is a cash job that both men and women do hopefully as a means to an end. Hopefully she'll just have the 4 by him, the 1 by the other and don't have anymore.
@aminaadam36172 жыл бұрын
Ros G,I think you may be missing the point Janice was making,men of essence,high value,influential,'Good men' do not marry stripper's.We all have our flaws and struggles in life,but we need to teach our young girls that is not the way to go.They hold on to these men knowing fully well they dont want them,all for a life style.Would America be better without strip clubs.Yes.
@Tammy-se2hu2 жыл бұрын
How about I'm your boyfriend Not your Savior. But, I will take your Cookies. The title for your next book.
@bkandy71652 жыл бұрын
Take your cookie and ask u for some of your milk 🥛 to dip it in🤣😩