NO CONTACT: When to WALK AWAY

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Danny Vera

Danny Vera

9 ай бұрын

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In this video I talk about the no contact rule, and situations when it is usually best to implement it to cut off low interest and/or disrespectful behavior from a girl
#selfimprovement #nocontact #dating

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@NickRivers-bk2ni
@NickRivers-bk2ni 4 ай бұрын
Trust your gut all the time
@martincolton32
@martincolton32 7 ай бұрын
Use no contact when they dump you and no longer want to be with you emotionally and intimately.
@Bdigital9482
@Bdigital9482 11 сағат бұрын
Fact; and then watch them come back in the usually near future. Humans in majority want what they can’t have.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 9 күн бұрын
Dated this girl for 6 months and called her out for the first time on disrespectful behavior. Rather than apologize and make amends, she blamed it on me and ghosted me. Never formally broke it off she straight blocked me on everything. After a week I spotted her using dating apps. Women don't come back they have way too many options. No contact is permanent.
@isaacjacobs3785
@isaacjacobs3785 5 ай бұрын
My last girlfriend ended it with me close to 3 months ago. Apart from meeting up a week later to return her things which were at my apartment, Ive gone complete NC. Not because I want her back, it's just the right thing to do. Being respectful, having dignity and coming to terms (slowly) that the relationship is over. I am also open minded and believe in timing. So if somewhere down the line she does reach out, I will as always be polite, I will be the man I have always been. I trust my journey and would never want someone back who does not want me. As much as I loved her, as much as I miss her and as much as I feel lost at times, I still have my pride.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 9 күн бұрын
Update?
@isaacjacobs3785
@isaacjacobs3785 9 күн бұрын
@@LeeEverett1 All in the past now bro. Truly have moved on. 3 months in with a new girl, new laughter, connection, energy, focus. Amazing how at the time you are so into them, but then you see they let you go way too easy. We learn, my heal, me grow, and lastly we get stronger. New life is ahead, we move.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 9 күн бұрын
@@isaacjacobs3785 Glad to head you're doing well man, I'm currently going through my own grieving journey. Dated this gal for 6 months and she ghosted me after our first argument 1 month ago. She never formally ended things she just blocked me everywhere and some of my friends spotted her on dating apps the week she ghosted. I've been on a couple dates and hooked up with 2 women but my ego is still bruised bro. We even had a trip bought in advance next month for my birthday, just wild how these women discard you so easily.
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 9 күн бұрын
@@isaacjacobs3785 Glad to hear you're doing well man. My ex ghosted me a month ago after 6 months of dating and never formally ended things, she straight blocked me after an argument that was her fault and a week later some friends of mine saw her on dating apps. It's tough right now and I'm hoping I'll get to where you're at.
@sebastianamaya6878
@sebastianamaya6878 7 ай бұрын
This is the video I was looking for, There has been about 45 days since I started my No contact and I haven't regret it, It was the best option I could take.
@reshieroo
@reshieroo 6 ай бұрын
I wish I had a video like this to have guided me to the massive warning signs before a brutal 10 year marriage. The one good thing is that it is now over and I will never make these mistakes ever again. This is so helpful in decoding my own mistakes so thank you
@ew3612
@ew3612 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, thats where im at as well. Just looking to divorce now.
@KennyRogers8972
@KennyRogers8972 3 күн бұрын
everyone tells me I should be a model but I haven’t had real relationship ever. still 19 and single.
@Adi29x
@Adi29x 6 ай бұрын
Absolute gold content Man !
@scotttyoshimura
@scotttyoshimura 5 ай бұрын
Thanks. Your few videos I watched were very helpful. Respect.
@brandonlow8942
@brandonlow8942 7 күн бұрын
I met this women in a club earlier, after multiple drink, she told me to get ready my car to wait outside and fetch her home. After few minutes I was in my car and outside of the club entrance, she was flaking , saying I was late and she went off with another car. I tolerate and told her that’s fine, let’s meet at her home lobby, when I was arrive she was at her apartment and totally ignoring text and calls. From there I did the no contact approach, she added me on the next morning and I rejected it, suck it up and move on! It was just day 2 by the way, I am still healing and start talking to someone else to ease my emotional thoughts on this person.
@thabanimsibi7871
@thabanimsibi7871 9 ай бұрын
You like a big brother I never had. 🥂 Nothing excites me like getting the notification.
@Leo-yn5fx
@Leo-yn5fx 9 ай бұрын
Pull your skirt up
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 9 ай бұрын
💯 That's real, thanks for always watching my man
@none377
@none377 3 ай бұрын
This video is a wake-up call for me.
@jamessullivan5619
@jamessullivan5619 8 ай бұрын
Great Video......I'm into Day 4 of my No Contact but know I need to go much longer......probably forever........I feel like crap but know I need to get busy exercising and doing healthy things.
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 8 ай бұрын
Stay strong bro, it gets easier with time and the more you stick to your stance. Remember it's all brain chemicals playing tricks on us. It's like breaking any addiction and it's very difficult at first. Your body adapts over time
@jamessullivan5619
@jamessullivan5619 8 ай бұрын
Thanks...I'm older which I suppose does not make a difference......I've been through this before...I still feel like crap but I'm still in NO CONTACT@@itsdannyvera
@swixdon
@swixdon 13 күн бұрын
Keep going, bro.
@faint3745
@faint3745 6 ай бұрын
This guy is speaking nothing but the truth and if implemented will save you a lot of valuable time.
@comparecards5688
@comparecards5688 4 ай бұрын
Did your ex come back? You wish 😂
@faint3745
@faint3745 4 ай бұрын
@@comparecards5688 my ex did reach out to me on my birthday, I replied briefly and then proceeded to ignore her cause it was not worth my time.
@brandedgatsu1805
@brandedgatsu1805 3 ай бұрын
Hey Danny, I love your videos it's helped a lot in my journey, and also, you have a really good style. I was wondering what cargo long sleeve you're wearing in this video and if you have a link to it and your clothing line. and keep doing what you're doing. It's helping a lot of people.
@tasosstou2669
@tasosstou2669 5 ай бұрын
i love this man he speak some fucking facts straight guys!
@chrisf247
@chrisf247 2 ай бұрын
Agreed with the caveat that going quiet suddenly in face to face conversation could just be a sign of introversion, which is fine. Going silent for extended periods on texts is a different story.
@seanpowell720
@seanpowell720 8 ай бұрын
I chased for a month 1/2 and she let me go slowly and started ignoring me so then I removed her and went no contact. I don’t know if I want to take her back, because this all started because she was frustrated that I didn’t understand what she wanted, when she never communicated it clearly.
@zyzz3123
@zyzz3123 6 ай бұрын
Don't worry, God gave her a mouth and a voice to talk properly
@seanpowell720
@seanpowell720 6 ай бұрын
@@zyzz3123 Romans 12:19
@aubame-bloodclut-zette6745
@aubame-bloodclut-zette6745 8 ай бұрын
Great video my man, how do you recommend initiating no contact? Just stop talking to them/blocking them/telling them you’re better off going seperate ways?
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 8 ай бұрын
It depends on your situation, but I typically stop replying and mute the conversation/their posts and stories on IG. If it helps you to block/unfollow them, then by all means do whatever you feel is necessary to keep them out of your life in order to move on. There's no rules, just whatever keeps you on track with the no contact.
@Jules-740
@Jules-740 7 ай бұрын
Please give me some advice! I met the most amazing person ive never met someone that connected so well with me. We only went on 3 dates but we are compatible in almost every way. Same values and emotional connection. He wanted to make me his and i acted out based on fear I didnt give him enough of my time and phone calls that he wanted. I was trying to slow things down. Then he ghosted me. 😢 he told me he wants to make me his but he's afraid i would reject him. But in the end looks like he rejected me. Should i give him one more text to say goodbye so it doesnt look like i dont care or like if he meant nothing to me? I feel like he was my life!
@Leo-yn5fx
@Leo-yn5fx 9 ай бұрын
We can go in circles about this, but i had women accuse me of sleeping with an attractive woman on a daily basis. Honest to god i never slept with her(just really good friends) but ik what it looks like on the outside. So really both of us are not wrong to assert a stance on things. You're just gonna have to take their word for it.
@steelesharpensteele6252
@steelesharpensteele6252 6 ай бұрын
So don't trust em because a wmn word means nothing
@jasec2252
@jasec2252 5 ай бұрын
No Comment is great, but very difficult when you share two young children. I wish I found this content 9 years ago......
@WorldOfMasters123
@WorldOfMasters123 9 ай бұрын
How far should I go with no contact if I've known the person for years, but am beginning to think they don't respect me? Just don't text them or unfollow them? They never did anything red flagish but I want to forget them for good because I got left on read for months. I tried blocking them on a throwaway to see how it'd make me feel but it made me think of them more. And how do I meet more people?
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 8 ай бұрын
Yeah you could simply stop talking to them. It just depends on what it takes for you to get them out of your head. For some people just not messaging them is enough, others will want to block/delete their contact which is all valid too. Meeting people comes down to the size of your city and the activities you have around you, but taking every opportunity to get out there and socialize is key, and taking the initiative to try new hobbies and go to new bars/clubs/social events etc. Also interacting with people you know on social media to stay in the loop with things going on around you. Takes trial and error + consistent action.
@WorldOfMasters123
@WorldOfMasters123 8 ай бұрын
@@itsdannyvera Ok. I feel like I will think of her more if I block her. But I have been talking to many new people, and I found several people who I like and want to pursue. I've been off messaging on my main social media though, maybe I need to get online DM practice.
@kobinaarhin
@kobinaarhin 6 ай бұрын
​@WorldOfMasters123 It's no problem thinking about her. Embrace that thoughts of her and move on. The thoughts doesn't mean you want her, it's normal for you to still think of her cos the brain memory is still working. Embracing those thoughts actually gives you the strength to actually move on without malice in your heart.
@ParhamSolo
@ParhamSolo 3 ай бұрын
How about "im Better off alone" from the first place? 😂
@MountainbikingUK
@MountainbikingUK 2 ай бұрын
Love this video, every other video on KZfaq is about no contact to win her back. Fuck that. The girl I’m going no contact on I don’t want back, what was left was second best, no way am I disrespecting myself wanting her back
@comparecards5688
@comparecards5688 4 ай бұрын
If you want to lose your ex forever go NC Come back here and prove me wrong!!
@berrybestlifestyle9188
@berrybestlifestyle9188 9 ай бұрын
Bro, dig your style, can you please start listing the items you are rocking?
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 9 ай бұрын
Appreciate it bro, anything specific you want to know?
@berrybestlifestyle9188
@berrybestlifestyle9188 9 ай бұрын
@@itsdannyverathe button down in this video and the striped tee in the last one
@timbond6060
@timbond6060 24 күн бұрын
How do I contact you ?
@_j_8151
@_j_8151 2 ай бұрын
Thanks im going no contact with my 1 year gf
@JV-cz6fz
@JV-cz6fz 2 ай бұрын
I don't think that video example is the best lol the girl was very excited and sure about their relationship, she quickly offered her phone, and the dude was probably cheating on her which is why he didnt want to show his...I think her calling him an idiot because of how suspicious and shady this is is not entirely disrespectful
@xKingUVHearts
@xKingUVHearts 9 ай бұрын
When you say “initiate no contact” what does that act look like? blocking? deleting text thread? deleting number? etc.. Also should you leave the door open to smash if she comes back around? serious question.
@xKingUVHearts
@xKingUVHearts 9 ай бұрын
also, don’t mind the username made this account wayyy back in like ‘05 when sidekicks were cool.
@itsdannyvera
@itsdannyvera 9 ай бұрын
There's no right or wrong way to do it. For me, I never block/delete any girls unless they're really acting crazy, but that rarely happens due to me avoiding those kinds of women to start with. As far as leaving the door open, it depends on why you went no contact. If she's disrespectful or brings stress, I prefer to just move on. Some guys will need to block/delete to forget about the girl, and some may be able to distance themselves even though she came back etc.
@Sassquatch713
@Sassquatch713 Ай бұрын
You disrespect me it’s one thing. You disrespect my family you dead to me. She thought I was joking. At least I got a couple good jokes for the boys. Crazy stories . It’s not what it sounds like . 😂 good one my man. Get you a girl who wants you and makes it known.
@johnsurabian2010
@johnsurabian2010 26 күн бұрын
Girls are always looking for the next so these things inevitable ...
@user-wo2wz2re8z
@user-wo2wz2re8z 6 ай бұрын
So for the past couple of months we went from hot to cold, with no explanation. Should I say I’m done and go into no contact or go straight into no contact?
@dujalowlife
@dujalowlife 6 ай бұрын
Just disappear.
@user-wo2wz2re8z
@user-wo2wz2re8z 5 ай бұрын
@@dujalowlife she actually went back to her ex
@dujalowlife
@dujalowlife 5 ай бұрын
@@user-wo2wz2re8z good for you
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