No Freaking Speaking: 3 Techniques for Managing Speaking Anxiety

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9 жыл бұрын

We all experience nervousness when we speak. Learn 3 academically validated techniques for managing your speaking anxiety.
For more information on confident and compelling speaking, visit NoFreakingSpeaking.com

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@roughryder5 8 жыл бұрын

I like this guy. This stuff is gold. I have a 5 min presentation tomorrow, and then a 20min presentation next week. Wish me luck.

@SteveeSmith 7 жыл бұрын

how'd it go?

@roughryder5 7 жыл бұрын

Bombed the 5minute presentation pretty hard since I had no time to prepare but I aced the 20 minute one like a natural. Spent about 2 hours a day rehearsing for 5 days leading up to the presentation. I think I got a 98% on it.

@SteveeSmith 7 жыл бұрын

well done you. I've just been informed that I will have a 4minute presentation and a 20minute presentation in November. already shaking.

@roughryder5 7 жыл бұрын

SteveeSmith Trust me, rehearse a few hours every day until you practically memorize everything word for word.

@aibdraco01 6 жыл бұрын

Have 5-6 min speech 2morrow. Already freaking out

@user-le1rr8ls1e 2 жыл бұрын

Notes: Technique 1: Greet anxiety and acknowledge that it's normal and natural to be nervous Technique 2: Reframe as conversation, not a performance - by asking questions and polling - use conversational language Technique 3: be present-oriented - focus on the present but not the future - e.g. count down, tongue twister Thanks for the useful tips! I have learnt a lot from this video!

@syahirah4499 10 ай бұрын

1. asking questions beginning of the speech 2. be present, less worry about the future (listen to music, count backwards) 3. do tongue-twister 4. use conversational language

@sibongiletasilaphiri7521 2 жыл бұрын

3 key tips 1. Greet the Fear 2. Reframe the presentation to become conversation oriented 3. Become present eg through walks, musik, tongue twisters, etc

@esrathe-first9316 2 жыл бұрын

7 years on from this video and I must say it is the best video I have watched. I'm a 40 year old autistic guy who has to speak tomorrow. I have been watching video after a video recently and this one is amazing. Thank you kindly 🙏🏽 🙏🏽 🙏🏽

@janellenevarezgomez3935 2 жыл бұрын

How did it go?

@esrathe-first9316 2 жыл бұрын

@@janellenevarezgomez3935 I had to speak to two different groups and after the first one I realised that I coukd use what I found hard as a great ice breaker. I found it hard to say "employability practitioner apprenticeship". By starting off saying that I have practiced saying it hundreds of times and still find it hard to get it right. People try saying it and start smiling. It turns talking at people, to talking with people. After talking, people were coming up saying that it was hard to say, to many p's. I want to get good at public speaking and you can only get good at it, by doing it. Thank you kindly for asking. 🙏🏽 🙏🏽 👍🏽 🖖🏽

@misterrkaiser Жыл бұрын

Took me three times to say it myself 😂

@Divinii 4 жыл бұрын

4:16-4:37 *Wow! Mind blown! So speaking is very different from a musical performance. It's ok to make mistakes.*

@konyvnyelv. Жыл бұрын

Seeing how people are afraid of public speaking makes me realize how lucky I am for not being interested in a career which involves it. I want to be archivist or librarian

@gregsbrown85 Жыл бұрын

One other thing I would like to recommend is that there are apps in virtual reality that help you with giving speeches. The apps have you present in different scenarios and it feels real. There are games like Horizon in oculus that give you a chance to talk in front of live audiences too. Both instances feel very real and it's a good way to practice. Once you do it a lot of times, you become more comfortable and you can train your brain to focus on your the information you're presenting rather than thinking of a performance.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Virtual Speech is a great example.

@skrrtmycat761 Жыл бұрын

What app?

@EricELT18 8 жыл бұрын

Framing the presentation as conversation certainly helps, and starting with questions makes this aspiration a reality. Thanks for sharing this practical, often overlooked tip.

@xiangningsu5882 3 жыл бұрын

I love Abraham’ speech especially when I have a teaching presentation

@user-ux5ux5ji8s 6 күн бұрын

One of the best videos l have watched about public speaking

@bernie5809 6 жыл бұрын

Matte is effective in any topic he discussed. Thanks much. You sure are a BIG help.

@SamAndrew27 Жыл бұрын

This is a great talk - thank you!

@julesmartin6972 8 ай бұрын

Great techniques, definitely will try to think about it. In two days I will be presenting for 1.5 hours for 300 people since I will start teaching. Twice a week, for the coming 12 weeks. I'm curious how it will evolve.

@frankc1702 Жыл бұрын

’ve developed severe anxiety when speaking not just to a group but one on one and it can be a spontaneous conversation in passing. This only happens in work settings. I feel like I can hear my blood flow, I’m trembling on the inside and I feel like I’m going to pass out. The last thing my anxiety does in help me focus. Most of these videos are geared towards public speaking to a group. This is not the case for me.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart Жыл бұрын

I believe most of these techniques work for in person communication as well. Check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for more.

@yum121234 8 жыл бұрын

i have an interview tomorrow wish me luck, thanks for the tips :)

@loganschimweg2867 2 жыл бұрын

Is it over yet

@lin-kaiwen 9 жыл бұрын

I slit a sheet, a sheet I slit, and on that slitted sheet I sit. 9:36

@loursvanthilai4034 9 жыл бұрын

thank you

@theyadore_me. Жыл бұрын

This is long ago but wish me luck on my Student Council speech!

@faisalarghandiwal7508 3 жыл бұрын

*keep up the good work*

@user-mb9gi1hw8b 3 ай бұрын

Awesome!!!

@jaehan3161 Жыл бұрын

Hi Matt, your video is great and it is the best video I've watched. Your sharing helps me think about public speaking differently. Thank you.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Please check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com

@ameii6887 7 ай бұрын

I have a presentation in 2 days, and it’s my first time present a presentation, and kind of new world to me but what I found difficult is that breathing and talking at the same time. 😩 Thank you for the tips.

@AshwiniKondalakadu 2 ай бұрын

You are sooper good... Very effective speech 👏

@eugert6 17 сағат бұрын

Conversionational form, greeting fear and present oriented(tongue twisters)

@sandyperez847 6 жыл бұрын

alguien sabe donde puedo encontrar el video en español o subtitle...

@ferozarian9672 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir for the great guide, Is it possible to get that handout virtually ? highly appreciated.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart 5 жыл бұрын

Please check out NoFreakingSpeaking.com for hand outs and material.

@lucysmithe7916 6 жыл бұрын

I have to give a speech in front of my whole school in two weeks and im freaking out

@uncracked2302 Жыл бұрын

How did it go

@nimeshkotadia6526 4 жыл бұрын

Are there any other techniques which you have not mentioned in this video? Three techniques mentioned are gold when it comes to doing something about anxiety.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart 4 жыл бұрын

Please check out my book Speaking Up without Freaking Out for 50 techniques to help.

@aydataha6564 4 жыл бұрын

What worries me the most is that I get palpitations and tremors. That worries me cause it shows. At times I feel I will pass out. I'm in big trouble

@ansh201 3 жыл бұрын

I get that too and hate it

@pemayangzom629 3 жыл бұрын

I completely understand this 😥

@aydataha6564 3 жыл бұрын

@@pemayangzom629 I started therapy and feel better

@pemayangzom629 3 жыл бұрын

@@aydataha6564 I am happy for you. 😊 My therapy and therapists are youtubers...

@aydataha6564 3 жыл бұрын

@@pemayangzom629 thank you. I had to. Was getting totally out of control for me. But KZfaq definately is helpful

@FlyenNun1 9 жыл бұрын

@AdityaNandan898 6 жыл бұрын

Good

@trendme5943 4 жыл бұрын

I need to take a training in public speaking please advise me

@ThinkFastTalkSmart 4 жыл бұрын

Please check out BoldEcho.com

@sun_sets_with_Natalia Жыл бұрын

Hi, @Trend Me. I would be really interested in learning more about your experiences relating to public speaking and/or any anxieties you may still currently face. I’m looking to interview individuals (purely for my own research) to help me build a new workshop I’m working on. It would mean the world to me if we could hop on a quick call and I could ask you a few questions. OR if you know of someone who fits this description, please tag them below/introduce me. Feel free to tag me here with a reply if you’re interested :) Super appreciate your shared insights in advance.

@Pheonxhyper Ай бұрын

Can somebody write for me the main idea claim and evidence in This video

@abdullateefw.alshayji1668 Ай бұрын

Are you in rss Because it is a homework

@Pheonxhyper Ай бұрын

@@abdullateefw.alshayji1668 😅😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@shehaba.alshehab5657 Ай бұрын

do you have the answers?

@abdallahm.sultan4056 Ай бұрын

I am waiting for somebody to send it 😂

@sarvinozizatullayeva8502 Жыл бұрын

I came here because my professor shared the link

@Fadednights730 4 жыл бұрын

I slit a sheet, a sheet I slit, a gave a speech, when I give a speech I shit.

@smokinjoe4684 2 жыл бұрын

9:36

@8finiity Жыл бұрын

I have a 40 minute presentation Infront of 75 students... Wish me luck!

@ThinkFastTalkSmart Жыл бұрын

You’ll do great!

@nickwightman4063 2 ай бұрын

How did it go

@adeeshaakalanka5777 Жыл бұрын

I have to give a speech infront of a whole institutions and I never done that in my life. I don't know what to do. And my crush is there also. I don't know how to not give a f about that.

@ThinkFastTalkSmart Жыл бұрын

Congrats on the opportunity! Please visit NoFreakingSpeaking.com for techniques to help.