I find it hilarious when someone calls me "female to male transgender" its like me calling my 19 yr/old sibling "baby to adult human"
@everestlol43093 жыл бұрын
BABY TO ADULT HUMAN JKHSGJSKGK
@kalyan77083 жыл бұрын
HELL NAHH NDNK
@tblmoon3 жыл бұрын
JJAKSJAJSJ
@Draftspike3 жыл бұрын
Not the same... at all.
@serena77543 жыл бұрын
@@Draftspike its just a joke lmao
@eggfroggowo3 жыл бұрын
im nonbinary and i use he/they pronouns, but my mom refers to me as “y’all”
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
is that ok with you
@eggfroggowo3 жыл бұрын
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 yeah, it makes me feel like a god lol
@althea5353 жыл бұрын
@@yourlocalcupofconfusion322 my names rain 0-0
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
@@eggfroggowo that's amazing :D (just so anyone knows my name used to be "child of the rain" so that's why rain commented that ^)
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
@@althea535 your chosen name or birth name? my middle name (chosen) is rain
@fernwebb55683 жыл бұрын
I am 66. I am trying so hard to understand non-binary. This was some progress. I did not totally fit the mold and still am not sure about my own self. You kids are cool!
@ducttape-sillystring3 жыл бұрын
Hi, baby enby here! I just wanted to say thank you for existing. It's not often that older folk are so open to us and nice. Thank you. (I'm sorry I am not good with words but I am glad you exist and are here)
@webbyishere3 жыл бұрын
You're cooler Fern!
@eijirokirishima3723 жыл бұрын
It’s great that your here to learn :) You remind me of my grandma...I recently came out to her. She was very open and it trying to learn. So thank you❤️
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Fern Webb 66?! WOAH! You must be an awesome grandparent! TYSM for being so accepting!
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Eijiro Kirishima I could never come out to my non-immediate family. You have balls of s t e e l
@unitymask3 жыл бұрын
nonbinary means: N - Numerous O - N - B - Bees I - N - A - R - Y - that's why we use they/them
@bangchanIover3 жыл бұрын
I love this
@justapersononyoutube34863 жыл бұрын
As a non binary person I can clarify that I am a bunch of bees lol 🐝
@kayleemoon._60453 жыл бұрын
NB means non black...and NB has nothing to do with non binary please call it enby not NB
@unitymask3 жыл бұрын
@@kayleemoon._6045 yeah i only learned that after posting this. ill fix this
@windcrystal13493 жыл бұрын
@@kayleemoon._6045 uuhh.. Shut up please ?
@Captain_Ravioli73213 жыл бұрын
Me: (finally comfortable with my sexual/romantic identity) My gender identity: henlo frien
@theshywolfie66553 жыл бұрын
why is this me
@rainestormee3 жыл бұрын
Duuuuude this is literally me
@gvnlessktchn3 жыл бұрын
FDJGHSGKJHDK SAME
@callieplush3 жыл бұрын
I can only be comfortable with one at a time
@Hi-rb9kf3 жыл бұрын
That was me.
@fluffysocks63213 жыл бұрын
To all non-binary pals out there: You are heckin valid and we all love you ❤❤
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu
@rdexming3 жыл бұрын
Tyyy ;w;
@thesupplyofpower3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@katelin16923 жыл бұрын
Thank you I need that more than ever now. Thank you!!!!!
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Rainbow Vibes Only 🏳️🌈 TYSM! I love u too!
@kd_ashton23543 жыл бұрын
I died when ‘They/them? What are you, plural or something-“ YEEEEESSSSSS! I AM THREE DOGS IN A TRENCH COAT! AND YOU WILL REFER TO ME AS SUCH! AAAA-
@od39103 жыл бұрын
My favourite animal is dog so this speaks to me
@gayunicornprincess693 жыл бұрын
*me too I died a year ago from that*
@M1KEYWAY3 жыл бұрын
2:57 :)
@Alisibeth_Talia2123 жыл бұрын
That's a mood
@liferanter9363 жыл бұрын
This killed me XD
@puttputtsheep47973 жыл бұрын
I would like to have a non binary cottage core parent with a bunch of chickens
@mermaid9603 жыл бұрын
I NEED THIS
@guywithtie66243 жыл бұрын
Hello then I am now you Honorary Parent
@skeletonentertainment42012 жыл бұрын
Relationship goals
@tocacherry2062 жыл бұрын
I’ll be that :)
@puttputtsheep47972 жыл бұрын
@@tocacherry206 thank you for the offer I will consider
@fictional-girl_053 жыл бұрын
"Auncle" I love that so much. Also the one with the mom asking about her child's partner was so sweet.
@serena89423 жыл бұрын
@@gaybot8375 You could just try telling her if that’s an option. Kids are pretty adaptive to things like that typically. My lil bro actually loves to change my nicknames all the time and immediately solely call me the new name he’s chosen (which feels great because I’m a trans boy in the closet so my birth name is used by pretty much everyone and it sucks pine sap)
@nuclearpepperonirollsonabike3 жыл бұрын
Lol just say ankle
@fictional-girl_053 жыл бұрын
@@nuclearpepperonirollsonabike That’s a body part tho
@nuclearpepperonirollsonabike3 жыл бұрын
@@fictional-girl_05 it's a joke lol I'm just kidding
@Mendoxs_2 жыл бұрын
That's the best one I've heard so far damn
@abbeythedino3873 жыл бұрын
To all the female to nb, congrats on graduating from the cis-terhood. (I am honestly so proud of that) Edit: omg I have never gotten this many likes before! Thank you guys so much! Remember, no matter what, you are loved and appreciated for who you are. You don’t need to try to be anything. Just be yourself and people will love and admire you for it. Have a miraculous day!
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@alliearts3 жыл бұрын
u w u t h a n k y o u
@rdexming3 жыл бұрын
W h y t h a n k y o u
@chronicallyunsupervised3 жыл бұрын
I am honoured, you have to be proud
@TheIheartjayla3 жыл бұрын
ty 🐠🐠
@clovermanipura16873 жыл бұрын
I have experienced 'passing as non-binary' I am actually a girl, but I don't pass. I look and sound like a boy, but I wear the military outfit designed for females and it confuses ppl so much that they just call me they/them pronouns.
@des-astre3 жыл бұрын
Oh, what a dream...
@clovermanipura16873 жыл бұрын
@@des-astre yeah accept for the fact that I am a girl, so for me it just further cements the fact that I don't pass as a cis girl and that if it weren't for the uniform, they'd be calling me he/him
@des-astre3 жыл бұрын
@@clovermanipura1687 Yes, I understand your struggle, sorry.
@clovermanipura16873 жыл бұрын
@@des-astre Oh no, it's okay! I understand that we're working towards different things, and I am aware that all of us dream of being gendered correctly. I am totally aware that the way I am gendered by others would probably be a dream to most nonbinary individuals, it's just not my thing specifically. I hope you smooth sailing to whatever gender you feel comfortable with...
@Sick_in_love2 жыл бұрын
Well, I do look like a boy too (due to having very short hair with the left side longer), but rn I'm having an identity crisis. Idk if I'm demigirl, non-binary or bigender. Anyway, my name is Kuro and you can use she/her or they/them pronouns on me.
@mushroomlover4793 жыл бұрын
*copies link to immediately send to my enby partner because they are amazing and deserve to know they are valid*
@TheBirdGuy9233 жыл бұрын
This is sweet but NB means something else so maybe use enby next time?
@mushroomlover4793 жыл бұрын
@@TheBirdGuy923 Okay thank you for letting me know! I'll edit it!
@TheBirdGuy9233 жыл бұрын
@@mushroomlover479 yup, no problem but I feel bad because your heart isn’t there anymore 😕
@mushroomlover4793 жыл бұрын
@@TheBirdGuy923 Its okay! I know the creator saw my comment. I don't really need a heart on my comment.
@zoesbabyalives56153 жыл бұрын
You got that right, all good humans are valid!
@justaspiral133 жыл бұрын
I do not want to have the gender conversation with my parents... I'm afraid of coming out. DREADFULLY
@darkspector36923 жыл бұрын
You don't have to come out to be valid, stranger, but if you do, make sure you'll be safe first. Have a backup plan if you need it.
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Same
@urfavoritefurry43683 жыл бұрын
Same-
@MidnightMEMER3UwU3 жыл бұрын
@@darkspector3692 ME TOO
@putridpunk79883 жыл бұрын
I did something similar as I only came put to my siblings and now I'm waiting for everyone else to figure it out
@kaitlynbrinkerhoff94653 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I’m sorry but the “you’re not nickel back” is the funniest thing I’ve heard all day
@disableddragonborn Жыл бұрын
I read this comment, forgot about it, and when that clip came up, it almost caught me off guard.🤣
@milkenwood61503 жыл бұрын
"you're not nickelback" is literally my favourite tiktok ever, it lives in my head rent free
@katiem6563 жыл бұрын
I identify as a girl but I still really want a binder..?? Edit: I’m nonbinary lol
@putridpunk79883 жыл бұрын
I'm nonbinary and I'm here for you i hope you're able to get one soon
@katiem6563 жыл бұрын
@·Ēłłē· ᗩsђ ah, I forgot I posted this, turns out I’m nonbinary
@katiem6563 жыл бұрын
@·Ēłłē· ᗩsђ thanks, and good luck finding where you’re comfortable! :)
@katiem6563 жыл бұрын
@ᗩxᗴlle that’s great! I’m so happy for you!
@fernwebb55683 жыл бұрын
66 year old grandma type here. Again. I am getting such sweet love notes from so many of you for the first remark I made on this video. I love you all. What is hurting my heart is that I can sense the misunderstanding, rejection and even abandonment for some of you in your replies to me. I just don't know what is wrong with people. You must all be old souls. We have the toughest journeys but also when life is good, it is really good. A lot of it has to do with American culture and I think it is deteriorating beyond repair. There are many places where people are not this hateful and judgmental. But there are also places where the consequences for being different are far more horrific. I hope you understand that you are OK. You deserve to live the life that makes you happy. You don't have to be loyal to abusers. Get out there and explore the world, stick together and make this planet a better place. You are making my existence better! Thanks for all the sweet notes. You don't have to be a genius to be intelligent. Having an open heart, accepting others as they are, respecting others that are different than you, and keeping your mind open is absolutely intelligence. Hugs.
@themachine6131 Жыл бұрын
Fern, as a young non binary teen, thank you for your messages. It honestly makes me so happy to know that some older people try their best to understand others in the trans and enby spectrum. I'm still anxious about coming out as enby to my family but I'm so glad that even some older people will accept me. Thank you so much Fern for your kindness. Best of luck and have a great day xx
@disableddragonborn Жыл бұрын
This comment furthers my feeling justified in not giving my dad the excuse of age for being obviously uncomfortable with the world becoming more diverse.
@handcrusher26583 жыл бұрын
0:31 This is the exact excuse my parents use for not using my pronouns, they still don't use them. Idk how my pronouns are "uncomfortable" but I hope they realize that my pronouns and neo pronouns make sense and shouldn't be deemed "uncomfortable".
@acekenny93393 жыл бұрын
I think bc you've had she or he pronouns your whole life, but sometimes I forget not to use they/them.
@handcrusher26583 жыл бұрын
@@acekenny9339 Yeah but the thing is, they just act like I'm dumb. They have been saying the same thing over and over since April, and they just keep going on and using she/her pronouns on me. If I correct them it's "the wrong time". Once I was in the car and my dad kept saying I'm still a girl even though he knows I'm non-binary, almost hit me saying how my pronouns don't make sense, and now mocks me over my identity. So idk what to say about the whole " I'm getting used to it!" thing because honestly, it's pretty easy to get used to. 😅
@acekenny93393 жыл бұрын
@@handcrusher2658 that's stupid, yes. But in the first week or so, I understand slipping up. Thats not slipping up tho.
@handcrusher26583 жыл бұрын
@@acekenny9339 Yeah, it hurts honestly
@blubbubbel47733 жыл бұрын
@@handcrusher2658 Yea that is not nice i do not know much about this subject but aren’t there several non-binary pronouns? So have you asked them to try different ones that you are comfortable with? Oh and a maybe stupid question if someone uses they/them pronouns should one say “they are walking” or “they is walking”.
@tryingmybest99783 жыл бұрын
TIPS FOR BINDERS!!!! You always hear the "if it hurts take it off!" which is a YES, BUTTTTT if it is your first time (ONLY YOUR FIRST TIME) it is natural for it to ache a bit more than usual, take it slow in intervals (i was able to handle abt an hour at a time for the first week or so) :))) ily all!!!
@ducttape-sillystring3 жыл бұрын
Another tip for taking off binders!! Fold it up over your chest, and reach up and behind you, tugging on the shoulder blade area and shimmy that bad boy over your head. It's harf to explain but that's the easiest way for me to get it off without dislocating my shoulders like the other version does. Stay safe y'all!
@eijirokirishima3723 жыл бұрын
I would also recommend that you get the right size binder 😅 I got one a little too small. Definitely don’t recommend as it puts pressure on areas it shouldn’t.
@orangejuice91023 жыл бұрын
Hello,i'm enbie,and I identify as a God
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Hello, I'm enby, and I identify as a piece of s--t
@squaredonut32503 жыл бұрын
One time, I heard someone chose Lucifer of Satan as their chosen name, just to annoy the transphobes, homophobes, other -phobes of the lgbtq community.
@mushroomlover4793 жыл бұрын
My enby partner said they identify as Satan-
@squaredonut32503 жыл бұрын
@@mushroomlover479 Nice!
@orangejuice91023 жыл бұрын
I identify as a God that had taken in several million souls,so refer to us as they/them :)
@MariaJose-yx8ru3 жыл бұрын
i know probably no one will ever see this nor care but i just realized this is me. i always felt that im neither a boy nor a girl and that im just me. this makes me so happy, confused and scared. just... yeah. (sorry needed to tell it somewhere)
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
that's beautiful and so are you
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Me too
@tuesdaywithanh3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you're figuring out who you are, that's wonderful :D
@radioyamada9573 жыл бұрын
Dude you’re so awesome and valid >:DDD
@charliefinnmichael47703 жыл бұрын
My pal, I'm proud of you. And I love you in a platonic way. You're valid, you're awesome. And I'll respect whatever pronouns you use.🤩😍
@daudycka73283 жыл бұрын
Someone: “they them? Are you like plural?” Me: *laughs in DID system*
@rue87782 жыл бұрын
what’s DID system? Sounds cool. I need the knowledge to brag to my best friend who loves grammar lol
@unoreverse21302 жыл бұрын
*Laughs in OSDD system*
@preppy_emily_xoxo18793 жыл бұрын
im non-binary and i use they/them pronouns but i dress in what society would say is 'girly' but in my household clothes have no gender same with colors and overall looks. the other day i was hanging out with this 6 yo and her brother who is now 9 and she took off her ring so we could jump on there trampoline and the boy put the ring on and said "wow i look good in this" and the girl said "no you can't wear that! boys can't wear rings!" and little dude came back with "tell that to our dad who has his ears pierced" then i explained to her that there isn't such thing as boy and girl things
@scoootaloot63913 жыл бұрын
You’re not non-binary. No one is. You’re a girl or boy and it’s sad that people are still parading around as jokes
@appleglassjuice113 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 Why did you click on this video then
@Mitsuri.Kanroji..3 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 o its u the fucking homophobe
@appleglassjuice113 жыл бұрын
@Franco Cavalli No one saying that their not their birth sex, they just have a different gender from their sex, dumbass
@preppy_emily_xoxo18793 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 mhm. im not non binary anymore, im transgender, im a boy now thank you
@bogabog3 жыл бұрын
Celebrating New Year with Mr.Demon and my non-binary pals
@wonderland16633 жыл бұрын
hi nice to meet you
@Im_alivexx3 жыл бұрын
Ayee
@kisagamez74603 жыл бұрын
Happy new year
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Sup
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Brogan AYYYYYYY Happy new year to u too!
@TheLizardKing1403 жыл бұрын
I ain't enby but I'm doing research for my characters
@nalu43133 жыл бұрын
heyhey, just an idea 🌟neopronouns🌟 cuz I don't see many rep on them or ppl who don't use any pronouns or ppl who use any pronouns thx
@TheLizardKing1403 жыл бұрын
@@nalu4313 I don't want to get into that topic of neo pronouns but I do have a character that uses all pronouns
@karina_martinez4203 жыл бұрын
@@i.dont..exist_ whats double trouble
@bread-gw6he3 жыл бұрын
@@TheLizardKing140 if you have questions about non binary stuff I'd be happy to help!
@RottenLegacy3 жыл бұрын
@@i.dont..exist_ Napstablook uses they/them pronouns too! I feel like they're forgotten a lot ;;
@iceddjelly3 жыл бұрын
hey guys! remember, if your non-binary, or anything else that has something to do with not being male or female, you dont have to go by they/them! i myself am non-binary, and i use it/its pronouns! everyone is valid, you use the pronouns you want to use, and no matter who, what, or where you are, your still so valid!! ♥️♥️
@sparkledick5000 Жыл бұрын
You are heard 💕
@i.love.willow Жыл бұрын
wait how
@Devlinator6111610 ай бұрын
I actually chose ze/zir specifically to avoid the singular and plural ambiguity of they/them.
@Pyr011573 жыл бұрын
I'm a closeted enby and it's so awkward because my dad was like "your cis female" and I was like "uuuuuuum, yep yep yep definitely a cis female!"
@scoootaloot63913 жыл бұрын
You are a female. Unless you’re actually trans, as in female to male, you’re a female. Being non-binary is the funniest crap I’ve ever heard and you’re a joke for identifying as one
@appleglassjuice113 жыл бұрын
Ignore the dumbass that replied above me, you're amazing and your identity is real and valid :)
@aldrinspade3 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 Actually, nonbinary is a valid gender, you're just rude. Why does it affect you, anyway? You don't have to identify as nonbinary.
@lauvayed2 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 you're a joke for saying this
@lauvayed2 жыл бұрын
I keep thinking I'm a female and it invalidates me so much, my brain fucking sucks 😔
@BodiBaghead3 жыл бұрын
My mom got me some binders for christmas and I cried so hard on the inside
@Tadpole_Plyrr23 жыл бұрын
How nice of your mom! :3
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
that's amazung! congrats i’m so happy for you!!!!
@kisagamez74603 жыл бұрын
That's amazing! I really want binders but the second I nearly ask I chicken out.
@soyboy69533 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!
@msp83273 жыл бұрын
I thought u meant school binders nvshvdf- but congratulations !
@sprnkles3 жыл бұрын
I'm a cis girl but I wonder if I should get a binder. Sometimes, I just wanna present more masculine.
@darkspector36923 жыл бұрын
That's perfectly fine! Your gender and your gender expression can be the same, different, or anything in between! If you do bind, however, just remember to be safe and take breaks if you need it :)
@tuesdaywithanh3 жыл бұрын
That's pog! Go for it! Also remember to bind safely :)
@urfavoritefurry43683 жыл бұрын
Same. I’m actually juxera tho. Not many people know what that is so look it up if you need to. I just haven’t figured out how to explain it yet.
@karina_martinez4203 жыл бұрын
If i were you i would start with sports bras then work your way to binders - a cis girl who's chest makes her super uncomfortable
@urfavoritefurry43683 жыл бұрын
@@karina_martinez420 yeah that’s what I’m doing.. I’m wearing a tank top underneath my hoodie right now that has a sports bra built in
@karina_martinez4203 жыл бұрын
If you can't wear binders for whatever reason then i have some tips Sports bra's they are much more comfortable and they do make you a bit flat not as much as a binder would and do not work if you have big boobs Loose shirts they arent as effective as binders or sports bras but if you dont have big boobs you should be fine Layered clothing so this would be an alternative to loose clothing and a bit more effective do not wear this in the summer if you live in a hot place like arizona for your own safety if you have big boobs this may be the best one for you
@clyde-or-monty2 жыл бұрын
"much more comfortable" SCUSE ME ITS NO-
@himynameisoliver3 жыл бұрын
To be honest I’m shit at pronouns so my solution is to assume everyone’s just a bunch of bees operating a human and this has worked so well. just thought I’d share that because I don’t wanna misgender people even if it’s an accident
@urban_gse_3 жыл бұрын
Yay thanks
@i.love.willow Жыл бұрын
have you ever seen meet dave
@chaitheclosetmoth3437 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is genderless until proven guilty
@VanillaVillain83 жыл бұрын
When they acted like their parents it just.... Oh G O D. MY MOM AND DAD AT THE EXACT SAME. My mom is constantly invading my privacy and doesn't listen to my therapist because "tHEy ArEN't P A R E N T S!" They almost never use my pronouns and told me that going into the boys bathroom is "INaPplROpRIaTe" and "FOrciNg YOuR BeLiEFs ONtO OThERs"
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Martial I'm sorry tht is happening to you. I accept u and I love u who u are and ofc, God does too. I am both your mom and dad now
@VanillaVillain83 жыл бұрын
@@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx888 :)
@VanillaVillain83 жыл бұрын
@Sister Bear eh well 4 more years and I'll be outta here
@gayunicornprincess693 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that is happening to you. I would always respect you!
@funpersonakaebw11103 жыл бұрын
Oof. Hope they both learn to be decent human beings.
@aspillust3 жыл бұрын
the vibes in this community feel so welcoming holy shit i finally belong?! i love being nonbinary 🥺
@kdevilbaby17643 жыл бұрын
You've always belonged 🥺
@Briar_Kerbo3 жыл бұрын
I'mma tell y'all about my fellow NB friend Avery When we first met I got a crush. But it sucked because I didn't know what I was crushing on. Their hair was short and white-blonde, they always wore overalls and the colors were like denim and yellow. Their voice was pretty neutral, and they were flatchested(7th grade, hadn't gone through puberty) and I had to listen for a solid MONTH for someone to say he or she. Mind you, I had no idea what NB was. They ended up rejecting me when I asked them out (Just got out of a relationship, needed time), but we still good close friends now. When I told them that story, their mind was blown. They'd achieved true androgyny before they even knew they were NB. And I think that's beautiful.
@disableddragonborn Жыл бұрын
"I didn't know what I was crushing on" I relate to that so hard, and used to strive for that, which I have since acknowledged is an unrealistic goal, due to the excessive amount of testosterone that has been flooding my veins at increasing levels for 22 years.
@els_3663 жыл бұрын
as an afab feminine presenting enby, it really annoys me when people say I can't be non binary because I "don't look like one" NON BINARY PEOPLE DON'T OWE YOU ANDROGYNY OKAY 🤚😃
@aphelion21653 жыл бұрын
First of all, love your name and pfp, Second of all YEESSSSSSS
@els_3663 жыл бұрын
@@aphelion2165 oh tysm :)
@andreaac44992 жыл бұрын
Wth is afab enby
@els_3662 жыл бұрын
@@andreaac4499 AFAB- assigned female at birth ENBY-non binary
@sugar-and-stardust2 жыл бұрын
YES EXACTLY THANK YOU
@spook62013 жыл бұрын
“ *you’re not nickelback!?* “
@andyp99693 жыл бұрын
Can't identify as Norbert That don't make sense
@uni_locust77383 жыл бұрын
Only nacho and cool ranch
@mx.sinistxr3 жыл бұрын
you’re not born nanabanana
@gayunicornprincess693 жыл бұрын
*THERES ONLY TWO GENDERS NACHO AND COOL RANCH*
@spook62013 жыл бұрын
@@gayunicornprincess69 IM NACHO
@-nick-4213 жыл бұрын
Wait what if someone sewed half of a famale and male collared shirt ?
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
someone did that actually! it was really cool! the "female" one was pink and the "male" was blue!
@-nick-4213 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@nothanks6733 жыл бұрын
Clothes have no gender
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
@@nothanks673 yeah i most definitely agree trust me, so that's why i like to put feminine and masculine in "" to emphasize that the fact that clothes are labeled that is stupid and made up by society
@-nick-4213 жыл бұрын
Yeah like who cares if like they have to be labeled as anything
@uno11873 жыл бұрын
Ah, yes. Nothing like some good old NB TikToks to end the year... *Sips tea* Also happy New Year everyone!
@eijirokirishima3723 жыл бұрын
I love your profile picture❤️
@kisagamez74603 жыл бұрын
I have a plan to send my mom pictures of chest binders and... Stuffs... To hint that I prefer they/them pronouns. She's very supportive and not at all homophobic or transphobic but I just wanna have a little fun.
@kisagamez74603 жыл бұрын
I told my mom about binders and that they can flatten your chest if you don't wanna do surgery and she just said "you want one, don't you?" And I just responded yes and she said "I can't get you one right now since they're a bit pricey but maybe soon." **Happy dance intensifies**
@lavenderkismet45683 жыл бұрын
@@kisagamez7460 Aww yay! Congrats! 🎉
@Sunny000023 жыл бұрын
I don'r know if my parents are homophobic or transhobic. When someone on the TV is talking about trans or gay people they change the channel or ignore it. The last time i talked to my mom about trans people she said that it was a bad thing, but we were watching a movie and a character said that she was lesbian and she didn't care
@lavenderkismet45683 жыл бұрын
@rudolfshitler If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. Your hate is not welcome here.
@bangchanIover3 жыл бұрын
@rudolfshitler Gtfo
@nvmjeon3 жыл бұрын
ok but the convo between that folk, their dad and the dads gf is sooooo cute 🥺🥺 i wish more parents could talk openly like this with their children!!
@SatanicGhostCat3 жыл бұрын
Ah, I really needed this! I've only been out as non binary for a bit and today I had my first not so great interaction... Someone called me broken, said that there's only two genders and asked me what's in my pants. I starting to feel bad for being non binary.
@monochromaticdemondog31703 жыл бұрын
**cries in happy trixic** edited because people dont know that a nonbinary lesbian is another term for trixic :/
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Same, it's called trixic if your enby and are attracted to females. Toric if your enby and attracted to males
@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx8883 жыл бұрын
Monochromatic Demondog *Sobs in happy panby* Edit 5/5/21: turns out I'm bi
@chronicallyunsupervised3 жыл бұрын
HELLOW FELLOW HUMAN NON-BINARY LESBIAN
@monochromaticdemondog31703 жыл бұрын
AAA IVE FOUND MY KINDDD YESSS
@monochromaticdemondog31703 жыл бұрын
@Sister Bear well, its when a nonbinary person is like feminine or something, or just attracted to females. like megan said, its actually called trixic, but i identify myself as a nonbinary lesbian because im somewhat feminine.
@dumbasspansexual70822 жыл бұрын
I made a bracelet that I wear that says “they / them” so my friends don’t forget but since I can’t find the bead I need to make one that has my name I have a feeling they are still gonna say the wrong name- [the friend that messes up my name doesn’t purposely do it, I can tell because he normally uses it correctly but forgets and calls me the wrong name and my friend always points it out and whispers to me “he just called you *my dead name* “ and all I say is “I know it’s fine he’ll figure it out”]
@teddybearbmb83802 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom as non-binary and she said “that’s confusing, explain more?” After I actually I explained she said “oh that’s a cool way to be” and I almost started to crying happy tears 😭
@haito4282 жыл бұрын
I remember I told one of my friends about non binary and he was like: “so like they’re just flat down there?”
@j.kkidding97643 жыл бұрын
Ugh it is SO hard to explain being NB to my friends because when they think of trans they think of boy ---> girl Or girl ---> boy And they cant get girl ---> non binary (Which is me) And my friend thinks im over exaggerating because I asked her to respect my pronouns and not constantly deadname me on purpose even though it makes me uncomfy
@kdevilbaby17643 жыл бұрын
It's a bit of a jerk move but you could use the opposite pronouns for that friend (who doesn't understand why the wrong pronouns make you uncomfortable) and they'll pretty quickly correct you, and you can then point out that that's what they've been doing to you. It might help them understand why respecting pronouns are important. And for the others not understanding things you could find some resources online that may better explain these things to them, it might help :)
@Sunshine-vt5tf3 жыл бұрын
My gender fluid went like:🌊💛◻️💜🖤
@saoirsedoyle13613 жыл бұрын
Lmao yess
@scoootaloot63913 жыл бұрын
That’s not real
@user-xu9eb4ej9n3 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 Gender-Fluid people are actually just vapor that shape into a human body whenever they so feel like it, so in conclusion, your just a homophobe so please go away
@Mitsuri.Kanroji..3 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 dude-
@diobrando25052 жыл бұрын
I read this at one point, and I still find it funny. "The NB in Non-Binary stands for NUMEROUS BEES"
@beepboop28163 жыл бұрын
You heard him, Mr. Demon has dubbed 2021 the year of the enbys
@oghenbread33303 жыл бұрын
YES
@rossetheduck48723 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@cassandramurray54163 жыл бұрын
YES
@soyboy69533 жыл бұрын
I will use this year to convert all my friends to enby-ness
@jesslester69703 жыл бұрын
Now everyone join me for the chant 🪘🔥
@Krissy1433 жыл бұрын
the most aggrav9ating moment is when a non-binary kid's parent will say: she identifies as they now or something
@decentlysmartforanidiot82843 жыл бұрын
okay all of these are cute but the one with the enby mom is so fricking adorable and wholesome i might cry-
@Bunny-st4gh3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else just want their family to accept them, stop using the wrong pronouns, stop misgendering them and let them be who they are..?
@dodobunnie42073 жыл бұрын
My biggest achievement as a non-binary is that i can make everyone question my gender. I go by he/him mainly but i don't mind she/her or they/them pronouns either. And y'all i attract people like a magnet, I'm living for this shit. I'M AN UNSTOPPABLE SUCCUBI.
@hannahlipson30433 жыл бұрын
I have a non-binary friend! They're super nice and we share the same interests
@kisagamez74603 жыл бұрын
That's cool! I'm glad you share the same interest with them and support them.
@scoootaloot63913 жыл бұрын
Leave him/her until he/she figures out his/her crap or support him/her changing. Y’all are ridiculous
@nullandvoid423 жыл бұрын
Wtf dude?
@nullandvoid423 жыл бұрын
If they identify as non-binary how does it hurt anyone? By finding their identity they’ve already figured out a lot more crap then most people have to
@hannahlipson30433 жыл бұрын
@@nullandvoid42 Agreed, they are officially non-binary. I support all pronouns. There are more than just she/her and he/him.
@linxnfovx3 жыл бұрын
Me realizing that it isn't normal to slouch while walking around my own house as to hide my chest because I'm uncomfortable with it:
@Prometheus4223 жыл бұрын
That moment when you have a gender identity crisis in the middle of math and you have to act as though you aren’t questioning your entire life.
@inactive95503 жыл бұрын
People really be like "He's nonbinary" "She uses they/them pronouns"
@monstrousmoss2 жыл бұрын
3:34 this parent literally sounds exactly like my mom. she’s done all these things
@ephemeral16543 жыл бұрын
That one with the non-binary mom was so cool, it seemed like the happy ending of a movie
@pirate38292 жыл бұрын
Non binary people have the best sense of humor ngl
@thicccbread91463 жыл бұрын
This is the best way to start off the new year
@theofficialsoi93973 жыл бұрын
YES I NEEDED MORE OF THESE
@archiewisecup2353 жыл бұрын
As a Christian I just want to say, Jesus does love you, so do I, I want you guys/all to feel safe and happy in your body(and life) non-binary=a person who's just different- lgbtq+ as a whole = people who deserve safety and love just as much as anyone else.
@parkerg.83783 жыл бұрын
People like you are why I still have faith in humanity 💛
@thesandofthedesert16123 жыл бұрын
I cried at the one about the family of they/thems! It was so touching.
@kittenlovingclaude3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mr. Demon for teaching me LGBTQ+ meanings. I want to learn what the sexualities/genders mean to help support people with those sexualities/genders.
@kneptoon033 жыл бұрын
I love that you use your platform to spread awareness and amplify people’s voices! (and not just talking about this one video lol) Could you possibly do a nonbinary transfem compilation if you haven’t already? I feel like they are definitely underrepresented
@orangethedemoncat57723 жыл бұрын
The "You're not nickelback" fucking sent me! XD
@dontask74093 жыл бұрын
I'm a cis girl and I've always felt like a girl. But I experience chest dysphoria and I really like presenting androgynous. I don't care whatever pronouns people call me. Does that make me trans or non-binary? I'm confused because people say I'm non-binary even though I like being called a girl and I'm comfortable with she/her pronouns. Please help me out.
@zoesbabyalives56153 жыл бұрын
While experiencing dysphoria or wanting to dress differently doesn't inherently make someone trans/nonbinary, the two together would put you somewhere on the enby spectrum, maybe demi girl? And please remember that you don't have to use they/them pronouns to be nonbinary, you can use whatever pronouns you see fit.
@borderline_sunshine3 жыл бұрын
I'mm not sure if I'm nonbinary or genderfluid yet, but I definitely don't identify as a girl. I don't like she/her pronouns or being called a girl but I like my girl parts and boobs and looking feminine and stuff so I feel you lol If you identify as a girl then you're a girl! You don't have to be girly or like your girl parts to be a girl, you are what you identify as and you are what you feel you are I understand the feeling and I realize that it doesn't matter what you like, wear, etc. It's what you want, what you feel, what you identify as!
@biancaolfert14983 жыл бұрын
Imo, you can dress/present pretty much the way you want regardless of whether or not you want to be identified as any particular label, if someone asks or something then it might be easier to explain if you were comfortable saying "oh well I'm non binary so I like being androgynous" but if you don't identify as such and its just that you feel more comfortable in those clothes then whatever feels best. If it were me, I wouldn't likely label myself non-binary if I still felt completely feminine in identity and perspective, but wearing andro. clothes doesn't make you less of a girl in itself.
@c0quettesubz_3 жыл бұрын
@Franco Cavalli so your not supporting non binarys?
@c0quettesubz_3 жыл бұрын
@Franco Cavalli oh I understand,sorry for the misunderstanding.
@DarkAngelCookie2 жыл бұрын
This is the first video abt nonbinary I watched since I came out and because I'm so fed up with the constant misgendering at work. Thank you so much for spreading all of this positivity and care and just amazing people 🥺 This really warmed my heart and I have tiny happy tears in my eyes.
@nyxthedragon2253 жыл бұрын
The three dogs in a trenchcoat one gets me every time :D
@clementine11692 жыл бұрын
My bi panic is off the rails with this one. Y’all are valid and I will hype you up if I see you in public!
@blank27173 жыл бұрын
Warning: I basically tell my whole life story and it’s pretty boring :) I’m AFAB, and legit everyone calls me a girl and uses she/her pronouns when really i’m in the closet hiding the fact that i’m non-binary, i only have 5 friends and only trust 2 of them so those two know that i want to be identified as non-binary and respect my decision, they also use my preferred pronouns even when around others but people always correct them saying “*she/her” which is pretty annoying. I’ve always hid my chest which to my mum isn’t a big deal because the first bras she got me were sports bras and just thought that i felt more comfortable when i wear them instead (which i do but that’s all my mum knows, she doesn’t know my whole non-binary thing) the reason i haven’t came out is because even though i’ve felt like this for 2 years, i’m just not ready to tell them because of how things are in my family (everyone is supportive when it comes to sexuality but from what i know, my family don’t know any non-binary’s/genderfluid/genderqueer/transgender/etc personally)
@urban_gse_3 жыл бұрын
Same I'm scared as FRICK cuz my cousin came out and it didnt go amazingly well and I'm afraid my mom will think I'm lying or something.
@blank27173 жыл бұрын
@@urban_gse_ I don’t really have any advice on coming out as I haven’t myself but what I can say is that even though you don’t know who I am, i support your decisions
@awesomesauce25643 жыл бұрын
:O NON-BINARY TIK TOKS!!!!!!! I HAVE MY BEANIE ON!
@nightshade89283 жыл бұрын
BEANIES
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
@@nightshade8928 YES
@XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX3 жыл бұрын
I love beanies
@awesomesauce25643 жыл бұрын
@@XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX Don't we all?
@elliel47363 жыл бұрын
My non-binary cousin is calls themself Beenie.
@dipstick4742 жыл бұрын
My friend publicly came out as non-binary and I said I knew. They asked “How on earth did you figure it out?!” Their name is Cactus. And they wonder how I knew😭
@cuddly8demon2452 жыл бұрын
I needed this, my mum just told me that when your non binary it is un-necessary to use they/them pronouns and how they make sentences hard to read. Now I wouldn't really care that much, if it wasn't that I'm a closeted enby with multiple enby friends
@pheaseyryan13 жыл бұрын
Non binary rights all the way 💛🤍💜🖤 You guys are valid 1000% ❤️
@nuclearpepperonirollsonabike3 жыл бұрын
13:03 this litterly made me cry 🥺❤‼️
@NoOne-pg4qu3 жыл бұрын
Four minutes ago :) Also, as a nonbinary adgender person- I like dis :3
@NoOne-pg4qu3 жыл бұрын
@@jayrteev1902 what. The fuck. Did you not watch the video? What are you doing on the video?
@NoOne-pg4qu3 жыл бұрын
@@jayrteev1902 and how exactly are they not a thing? Do I just not exist then?
@NoOne-pg4qu3 жыл бұрын
@@jayrteev1902 Ah, and you're not gonna respond. Good. I don't even want to waste my time on a shithead like you.
@scoootaloot63913 жыл бұрын
@@NoOne-pg4qu no he’s right. They don’t exist mr special
@NoOne-pg4qu3 жыл бұрын
@@scoootaloot6391 How do they not exist? Can you give me a reason? Why are you on this video, which is literally "NONBINARY TIK TOKS" if you think they don't exist? You wanna call me 'Mr Special' when all you're doing is trying to validate yourself and your wrong opinions on gender.
@firefly70763 жыл бұрын
I felt so called out with the three dogs in a Trenchcoat. Yes I am 707 Fireflies that make a hive mind and I’m agender (they/them). Loving it. Just the steady stream of wholesome :)
@xberryx55983 жыл бұрын
8:13 I’d love them as an uncle, mine is a cop sadly and we have a bad relationship so I’d love to have them instead 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
@Soul_404.6 ай бұрын
Don’t get arrested…get it…, I tried ok
@skyw34193 жыл бұрын
EYYYY yes! Perfect way to end 2020!
@meganbowden86513 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@pinksoft393 жыл бұрын
i am not ready to tell my parents i'm non-binary, because i don't want to hear my mom talking for like 2 hours, just to tell me she accept me, i am not that pattient, so i guess i have to wait
@urfavhebrew3 жыл бұрын
As a person still trying to figure out my gender identity, these help me out a lot
@lilmissplaguedoc66873 жыл бұрын
Excuse me! Pardon! Sorry! Yep definitely not a Pansexual here to see and blush over some, or a lot, or all of these fabulous and amazing people. O3O
@ihaveapjoobsession2 жыл бұрын
Me, a lesbian :)
@AstralArbourSys3 жыл бұрын
My parents are still confused by they/them, wait until they find out I use neopronouns too 😂
@AstralArbourSys3 жыл бұрын
@@ziivual Neopronouns are pronouns other than he/she/they, yes. Ze/zir is one example.
@kayleemoon._60453 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder neopronouns are only a satire thing and not serious, the only real pronouns are she/he/and they, neopronouns are just satire..so I really hope you don’t expect people to call you them and get upset when they dont
@AstralArbourSys3 жыл бұрын
@@kayleemoon._6045 That's not at all true and if you think so please actually read about it from our perspective instead of just watching the first "why neopronouns are stupid" video you see
@kayleemoon._60453 жыл бұрын
@@AstralArbourSys they aren’t stupid, they just aren’t meant to be taken seriously, your a human, not a ze, you can be either she/he/or they pick which ever idc just don’t tell me you expect people to call u some shit like ze
@andreaac44992 жыл бұрын
What are you doing to the English language damn
@ninjaboii77793 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but i fall in love with non-binary people because there so beautiful showing who they are. if i did that i would get kicked out of my house for even showing i was non-binary. because my parent are a little homophobic and i'm 13. but i love they way your not scared to show who you are and i love that. your AMAZING.
@ashex_59633 жыл бұрын
"Are you plural or something?? YES IM THREE DOGS IN A TRENCH COAT" Me: dying on the floor laughing😭😭😭
@elleapostrophe4483 жыл бұрын
Okay funny story: I was watching a video giving advice and tips for playing a non binary character in a video game. I noticed at one point the person got their pronouns wrong, so I pointed that out in the comments. Keep in mind that this is still going on. Someone replied with something along the lines of “Dude, who cares?” I proceeded to tell them that it made some people more comfortable, and I told them that if it’s an accident that they messed up the pronouns, it’s alright, as long as they fix their mistake and try to get it right. They gave me a lecture about how it’s “Harder for people to use grammatically” and they proceeded to go on about how they were fine with people being open and supported when it comes to sexualities, but they thought it was hard for people to change their perspective of someone and use they/them pronouns. I told them that “It just makes some people more comfortable” Then pointed out the fact that they seemed to be using They/Them pronouns for the person they referred to, so everyone basically, and seemed to have no problem with doing so. They have yet to reply to the message, but I wanna see their reaction so bad.
@aceofspades5109 Жыл бұрын
Did they ever respond?
@el-vm9cr3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making theses videos! I’m not non-binary myself but I’m try my best to educate myself on more sexualities/sexual identities. You all are loved and have value. I completely support whoever you are, and who you will become. Stay happy! 💞💞
@parkerg.83783 жыл бұрын
💛
@razrinecoz82693 жыл бұрын
I was having a gender dysphoria panic attack and this helped.
@sweesbees2 жыл бұрын
that ‘you’re not nickelback’ was so threatening
@Level_of_violence3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like a piece of garlic bread
@SpikeyBagel3 жыл бұрын
this. this is a good way to start my year
@yourlocalcupofconfusion3223 жыл бұрын
yes.
@f1nnzy2 жыл бұрын
Today's been a horrid day for me but the one thing that actually made it liveable was when I finally FINALLY came out as non-binary. I had been questioning for months and I finally decided I don't need a gender. I told my mom and my dad about it and now I'm so proud to be able to say "hello! My name is Finn, I use they/them pronouns and I live in an accepting household"
@kokonafriedchicken90312 жыл бұрын
"YES!! I'M THREE DOGS IN A TRENCHCOAT!!" Is my new motto.
@jollyrozrandomvids3 жыл бұрын
as a non-binary person its always awkward for me when we do boys vs girls ;-;
@NekoChanSenpai3 жыл бұрын
Binder tutorial enby looks exactly like me, and I feel so heckin valid seeing how I might look in a binder. I can't wait til mine comes in the mail and I can be flat!
@itsacidbitch3 жыл бұрын
I get asked all the time ‘are you plural because of your pronouns?’ So I loved the three dogs in a trench coat and you will refer to me as such. It was really sweet, and I love this compilation.
@englishash18122 жыл бұрын
I just came out to my friend and she was so supportive, I’m actually crying and my screens wet