36 seconds ago extreme

Very 😭

Yeah

So extreme that I am this early

@@HarmonyTheKF that is TOO EXTREME

Read my mind

Lmao great question

Right?!

No, you're all different permutations of crazy. 🤣🤣🤣😔

Do you have a camera hidden in my house or smth?

You can do as I do and practice in your car on the freeway. You're welcome!

I'd hate to annoy to animals.

You need Jésus and to not pay 400 for this and to not do it for your own sanity

Ngl legit thought of doing this maybe not a month but going for a good scream. See how it'd feel.

Yep but I’d be worried that someone would hear me screaming, think I was hurt and end up with some rescue team out looking for me 🤣 hanging out in the woods could be pretty cool though

Definitely caught red handed on that one haha

To me it's not even that but it's so unusual to meet another INFJ or someone who actually gets you that you're not used to react to this. It makes you feel weird. It shows how rare INFJs are.

I don't push people away. I just drift away from them, because it's too draining to interact with people on a regular basis. That and I feel uncomfortably awkward around basically everyone, especially if they understand how my mind works, but I think it's my severe social anxiety causing that part.

My husband says I do this to everyone and it's the reason I don't have friends. I didn't think I did though.

​​@@rachelledellavecchia4951you got married somehow tho. Us single INFJs want to know your secret powers.

I get this one because for INFJ overthinking is thinking so, yeah...

Same lol that one got me

Me too 😭

Hahahaha same here

Super relatable

😂😂

INTJ: Sophisticated Perfectionism, Classy, Elegant, Stoic The main villain in every story Honestly, the way cooler and even more mysterious version of the INFJ -Envyous INFJ

hahahah

I love INTJs because they say all the things I want to say but I'm too worried will hurt someone's feelings. They also recognize my untapped potential to be a cult leader. Double win. INFJ

Omg I'm extreme 😂

That is INFJ when they’re stressed 😂 like get the f out away from me and just use meditation to help yourself 😂

I know how my cats feel, I apologize to my car when I go over speed bumps too fast. I never thought of numbers as having feelings but I do think of them as male or female (letters are also male or female) - this could come from learning them from animated TV where they’re portrayed as being male or female. Buy I just like to think I’m an INFJ, and maybe now I’m an extreme INFJ 😂

I didn't agree with his assessment of the numbers. 9 ain't that weird

Doing this kind of things is more INFP. Usually INFJs when they start doing it after few seconds will think "wait, that's actually pointless".

Don't worry, it'll pass.

This is normal! Despite extreme! So it is the normal!

Better unsubscribe then!

Help me understand what it means! 😂

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it must be a duck

As an animal loving INFJ, ducks are horrifying and depraved when it comes to matters of intimacy, so I sure hope it's a very metaphorical duck

​@@bri9075Smooth looking above the surface, but paddling like mad below. 😂

@@cc1k435🤣🤣🤣🤣

Better to have overthought 10 possible moves/scenarios plus the expected reactions- still be wrong - still assess even when correctly predicted- than to do without thinking. Correction, talk without thinking. Ah- maybe that some just me, but yes CHESS! I had a manager say that about my brain and how I approach/problem solve. ♟️It doesn't make me smarter than others but I'd feel less smart if I didn't.

Advice from intp who took it from another intp: Don’t overthink, when you overthink about something and think like it’s the end of the world, next day nothing happens on so the other is. Just live the moment like this example, if someone is mad and left you, don’t overthink about the reason or something, maybe it’s a sign to let them go AND to become better person. Just live the moment and follow your dreams it might be hard at first but through days you’ll see a big difference. If you still don’t get it and have specific examples just as the first example, whenever you’re depressed about someone, it’s sign to let them go and take a step forward your life and dreams. even when they’re nice, at least you learnt from them or maybe you weren’t meant to be with them for some reason, not because you’re bad or something but because you may not have good future if you kept DEPENDING on them and always want kindness, so YOU will make your own way depending on yourself and learnt from your experience. Those that if you overthink about possibilities and “why?” Or “how?” So Just live the moment AND don’t care about over-pleasing people or something like that.

@@Teaaaluv Oh you really are an INFJ. (There are fakes on some sites)

@@LunaR2017 you know you shouldn’t fill your thoughts for one moment. and write how you think exactly, just be ready and prepare what happens next but not overthink. There’s difference between them, yet overthinking is till bad habit.

OKAY BUT YOU DO HAVE A POINT-

Ben dee

Really?! That's so weird! I'm Normal INFJ with Extreme INFJ Facade!

Same here. People have no idea until my real self comes out 😂

@@etcwhatever Same!

Saaame 😂😂

Cheers! Lol

Yes! Eerie coincidences make me think something's not quite right. Has happened 3 times this week. 🥸🧐🫣

🥁 Correct! 🤭

I don’t discriminate. All numbers scare me equally 😱

Terrifying! I don't like numbers. ​@@MyWits_End

Yeah like 2, 4, 6, 9, 14, 16,19 aren't allowed to be a volume for anything because of that.

Then you're not doing it right. But then I am an INTJ; we understand that any relief provided by primal screaming would be counteracted by the fact that if you scream: *they can find you*

😃😅🤣

It's entertaining indeed! The only obstacle is first taking the amount of time needed for both people to gain enough trust to open up to each other, as we are both some of the most private personalities.

I was married to an INTJ and when he talked the conversation was interesting. Unfortunately INTJ doesn't always like to talk and connect like an INFJ and emotionally they are not gonna match the breadth of the emotional landscape of an INFJ so you would have to be watching at exactly the right moment and limit your expectations to hearing about theories about space and time and physics all that kind of stuff and not as much about why people do what they do. I haven't met an INTJ that is interested in people. But they are interesting at times.

@@christinadonnelly781 As an INFJ, have you ever psycho analyzed yourself?

@@yeppieyay8906 isn't that like the constant state of being for an INFJ 😂 Seriously I wish I could put the psychoanalysis of myself down for a bit and just exist. But it's always oriented a bit outwards. Referencing my views against other people and concepts. But INTJ doesn't really do that so much.

I'm sorry- did I forget writing this 🤣 (Please note I am speaking form experience and not making fun of you) What's wrong with having REASONS for why I needed to bring home these 7 rocks? Or stuffed animal.. no no, I didn't feel pressured by the sweet lady at the register, it was the owl stuffed animal that I couldn't get to stand back up that convinced me I had to buy her and only her. You're exactly right. I'm 36 and question my quirky reasons that are definitely psychological and maybe not as logical as I once thought.

We are natural Shintoists. At least I don't empty my handbag every night in order to give it a much needed rest....

Okay so some of the "slice of life" anime I enjoy is due to the subtle Shinto respect for things. It's just so lovely. I do not follow their religion but if I could pick another that would fit my personality, 😊😊😊 I am beaming-ly happy that you commented that.

omg yes! Same with picking pumpkins for Halloween... I hated rejecting any of them for fear of hurting their feelings. (I once made a reference to that during an improv sketch about pumpkin-hunting and everyone latched onto it as the "crazy joke"... it was then I realized maybe it wasn't so normal, haha)

this is so relatable

I've had so many beautiful encounters with wild animals and even my pets. I feel like I get them so they feel safe with me.

Colours is one for me as I've had depression in the past and certain colours make me depressed now.

True, what is thinking for INxJs feels like overthinking to other types it seems 🤭.

Writing out the speech in my head helps me let it go (otherwise I stay up all night). Also if the raging preacher wont stop, I find breaking out of INFJ pattern can be done BY PHYSICAL ACTIVITY. So chores, walks, exercise & dancing to music really helps to break the intense mental conversations I have in my head. In the end, no matter how I tried to repress my speech writer, I found that by really listening to the inner conversation, it usually led me to work through unresolved feelings (grief). And processing & releasing those intense feelings brought me some deeper insights & peace.

You are a beautiful alien. I feel like that too. And really like Stitch also.

thanks so much!!

Me too Idk how

Good reflexes. 😂

Facts 😂 Unfortunately me

+

I've befriended my INTJ-T coworker, and I promise we are almost the same person. They are just a way cooler, more put together, and more stoic version of myself! 😬

Same! Mostly normal, but I won't lie... a month alone in the wilderness sounds kind of nice...

@@andreae. a lifetime alone in the wilderness sounds nice too. To an extent

So much to look forward to within the INFJ life cycle. 😂

Our Lady of Sorrows! I'm not her only infj?? ... nvm, I head her Son is one too

Sounds about right. Except I would say when you finally come back to earth you keep your knowledge and are more capable going out of your comfort zone compared to when you were immature cause now you're mature, that's the point.

👏👏

​@@Elven.Jesus? 🤔

That's his base .

Yesss, please do!

REAL

The fact there is a skit about it means you're not too unique to be understood ;)

@whimsylore maybe it was sarcasm;)..

😂

​@whimsylore Haha you must not be an INFJ. We thrive on sarcasm 😉

​@@JojoB-fy9qp Just like Frank's entire KZfaq career 😂

I can guess it was because he was seeing it with Ni and you with Si, which would lead to two quite different interpretations. He was sure because to him it wasn't random at all and he could see the patterns that would most likely lead to something. To him, it was just more like a butterfly effect. Actions have consequences and they're not always independant from our control. And nothing pisses INFJs off more than when people think it is and don't take these responsibilities 😅. It's by controlling their actions to avoid consequences that INxJs go through life safely.

Also ENTP!

theres a normal ENFP? 🤣

Normal enfp is an oxymoron lol

Yup I would write that 😂

Relationships are like ducks, they waddle in and out of your parameter, usually hungry, occasionally they bite (may cause serious injury or disease), watch out for the shit they leave behind

💜

Indeed-y and ditto. 🙋🏻‍♀️ I don't know my TYPE of INFJ, but I also have PTSD. And I'm neurodivergent so going to the doctor is... fun. Both sarcastically and the truth. Yes, PTSD has multiple health related symptoms but they gotta overlook it sometimes for some symptoms. I won't bore you with my stories of trying to get answers/additional diagnoses- but perhaps your "Life is strange" more eloquently expresses it. ✅

@@LunaR2017 S' cool. You're not boring me. I don't wish it for other ppl but at least I'm not alone in the struggle and some ppl understand.💚🐺💚

Play it it's a good game and makes you feel like you're playing an INFJ, especially the second one.

Count your blessings...although...maybe he'll do your type next. I'd like to see that. Lol

Well, I'm an INFJ, but sometimes I feel like I'm INFP. Lol. They are probably the most relatable type second to INFJ.

I love intjs 😊

@@carlyofearth We are just as messed up but don't care.

3 is clearly a goofball, with his comic sans shape. 5 is very business like, and 9 is open, Life of the party. Funny, I didn’t know I felt this way about numbers

I think it's projecting traits based on shapes. But for numbers I still think it's pointless and the reason why no one talks about it, unless you want to write a fiction about it.

Ooh 7 is my happy number too. I totally understand golden retriever vibes.

Thank you so much for your words, I relate to them a lot. I would say that, sometimes it's on us...in the sense that, even if other people didn't think through some things, the consequences shouldn't be too disastrous, so we should learn to accept and let go. And at other times, people are really messing things up and we need to clean up behind them. And as this is very tiring, it can lead to avoiding others or wanting to meet only people who are similar to us.

@@ladytakarazuka Oh was in tone of joke that I put it...but yeah, there is a bottom of truth for us, right?! If I would talk seriously, one thing that drag me crazy, it's see obtuse people dealing with kids...In sort way, part of hypersensitivity that I have for things, and be aware of the feeling of everybody and overthink everything, Its do to the fact that I was a neglected child in some measure...When instead of growing healthily and chill, you have to become the emotional reguler of the adult environment, it's impossible to grow plentifully, and It's hard to put it back together later. I'm struggling till today, even already been and adult myself...So even being not a "kids" person myself, I get really pissed off when I see adults or parents bad treating children, cause I know that that can messed up their little heads for life...Even when is not a so easily detectable nocive behavior, I can see, clearly as if written in gold letters. Than you kinna gonna have to find the words to explain to the "adults", so then they can become aware of what their are doing wrong and correct in time, or you swallow it, understanding that whatever you say will have the same value that what the cat burie, and go to sleep thinking how wonderful could it be if every person really effort a little more on dealing with their own crap...Cause sometimes is just tirisome to see the obvious, and have to convince the other that it is obvious, and is for the best of everybody. - Right now, for example, I'm in a dilemma because in a recently familyar lunch I have together with a cousin of my, her little daughters demonstrate have some food blockage/selectivity, and she was fighting with the children in front of everyone because of that... Which OBVIOUSLY only makes the problem worse, with the kids entering in a anxiety state and everything. Now you see, I use to follow positive education pages, because I worry about the collective social responsibility that adults should have towards children, which is clearly have been flushed away for everybody. It's that hard to this fake sapiens sapiens to follow an Instagram page that is about positive education so as not to cause an eating disorder in the child?! Then an adult grows up with a childish taste, lacking of nutrients, vulnerable to any cold, full of health problems, because the parents couldn't get a 5-year-old child to eat properly. Then I realize this, but I'm not the mother, and only they can provide this care because it's not quick to resolve, it requires constancy and patience from someone who is with the little ones every day, and now I'm going to have to find a way to explain it to them that if the "blessed one" doesn't change her approach, she will only make the lives of the children and herself miserable. AND I DON'T EVEN HAVE A CHILD. MAN, I'M BAMING MY HEAD ON THE TABLE RIGHT NOW. WTF. - 😮‍💨 Sorry, this time I realy took the opportunity by find another active listener to vent, rsrs..sorry for being so prolixe!! Thanks for hear me (or better, for read me rsrs!! You right, we need people like us, but we are so rare that only in this kind of communities it's possible to find another person so normal and neurotic for the well-being of other people kkkkkkkkkk May God help us!! I need therapy! 🥲😅 Ps: the English may not be perfect, it's not my language I'm just using it for the sake of international communication lol All love to you that read 💗🌻

🫂🫂🫂

Agree, I feel like this point isn't extreme but just normal for any INxJ. That's how they go through life.