okay actually we need to start calling every man who uses "female" unironically "male" in their comments and see how they like it

​@@gracegrrl007Agreed.

@@gracegrrl007 um i prefer moid

Seriously the ‘I’m building you up as an independent female’ line is just stupid.like yeah you can bring her up but the way he’s going about is just borderline idiotic.

@@Sufjan4ever hey I love Sufjan Stevens :O just for you fellow sufjan enjoyer?? i will call you moid 😌

Loll

You do realise no guy ever says that about themselves. Those roles you described are traditional gender roles women used to perform while the man worked and provided and that’s what made them independent.

Lmao

​@kongking6860 these "traditional" gender roles weren't common for hundreds of years. It only became more common in the 50s due to changing finances and men returning from war Women always worked.

@@kongking6860women always worked

Probably 2. Womenn stay with them thinking they'll change so they give them chance after chance.

​@@Amanita._.Verosa._. I second this comment, my mom did exactly that

An orange

@@Amanita._.Verosa._. yall would prefer a woman to be abused than to actually let go of your stupid bias

it is 1. the whole series of “bad boyfriend” is just rage bait, he posts the same kind of content with her being a “bad girlfriend”.

Oranges are so good when you’re sick 😍😍

​@@T-swizzle-fan13 actually 😂

As you should!!!

As we all should

Run away? If my boyfriend says that, I’m going to jail on an assault charge. We are not the same

@@jackiealexander92530 im trying to control my anger 😭

Literally grounds for divorce

Absolutely 💯

Then she needs to get a separate basket and stop doing his laundry. She's the one who decided to do his laundry expecting him to peel her orange for a video.

Then what is the point in being in a relationship if your partner doesn't want to do sweet things for you every once in a while, like how she did the laundry for him. I guess he doesn't like to do sweet things for his gf. @@summerbrewster5555

@@summerbrewster5555 what..? Are you serious??? She probably did his laundry because he was too lazy to do it. He’d probably complain if she hadn’t. All she asked of him was to just peel an orange. Even if she didn’t do his laundry I don’t understand why he had to say all that stupid stuff…. You missed the entire point of my comment. He preached independence but she was the one doing his laundry… make it make sense. 😭

@@user-cupidscorner ikr, it took more effort to say all that crap than to just peel the freaking orange

I think for this one if it’s expressed that those names make the person uncomfortable then don’t use them but I think it’s really up to preference. Like personally my partner calls me bro and dude and I do the same to him and I quite like our dynamic

@@pax-it2lw no, yeah!! i totally get that, but at some points it seems like she’s annoyed with it. i understand that some relationships work in different ways

That is the most wholesome thing I’ve read today. Idk you but I love this for you

I am so happy you found this kind of love and I hope everyone else does too! sorry that you had such an awful panic attack, I hope that whatever is causing them gets resolved soon and am so glad that you've got such a sweet person to help you get through them ❤

Oh i'm so jealous lol. You and him sound lucky :)

your boyfriend is a real one

Your boyfriend would peel your orange without you even asking. That's a real man right there.

Oh hey congrats on finishing with chemo!

@@sparklepugtea thank you so much! ❤️

The video isn't real. This is the couples thing for views. He has a video on his channel asking her the same thing and she berates the fuck out of him, even worst than how he talked to her. I'm honestly surprised Cooper didn't figure that out before posting a video.

@@cosodesign8953 what's the dude's channel ?

i read ur comment at the exact same time he said it. kinda scary

As half Italian , any woman who behaves like a spilt brat would be smacked by the father too .

not the spoon 💀💀

Nah he fits italian

100% un maranza 💀

​No non nostro he has been disowned. You respect the family or you on your own

and he doesnt even do his own laundry 💀

@@al3xisd3ad i’m surprised she hasn’t broken up w/ him sooner😭 when i heard that she does his laundry my jaw dropped

Fr like I hate oranges but I peel them for my siblings all the time and I'd do the same for my lover

@@lyric8710 I know this isn't related to the video, but I LOVE your pfp 🤩

My little sister asked me to peel an orange for her and I’d just done my nails but she really wanted it so I just went for it anyway and then at the end I carved the last bit with a knife. Because she’s my sister and she asked me to

Even if he did, he still won't peel a orange for his gf/wife, like damn, he's so... selfish. Like my dude, your gf asks you to do something, just do it.

@@kiraphobia222exactly, and if he actually did stuff for her then this really isn’t a big deal or big request at all

When he said he does everything for her it was code for "I have sex with you! Y'know, that activity that I only derive joy out of?" (Obviously women can enjoy sex but I don't think he's physically or emotionally capable of pleasuring a woman sexually considering how selfish he seems to be)

These same men who ask: “what do you bring to the table?”

@@lianxie5582 The patience it takes to be in the same room with a D-bag who would ask a woman that.

The men I’ve met think love is me exploiting myself on their behalf, and their love is existing, allowing me to exploit myself on their behalf … I’ve decided to stay single for the next 7 years then marry myself once I turn 30 because “the wall” lol. Just gonna have fun with life, visit places and learn stuff until I croak 😂

I 100% agree

Romantic orientation is still an orientation. These men value their male friendships far more than their relationships with women, but that doesn’t mean they’re romantically attracted to their male friends. An argument could be made that they are not in a romantic relationship with their girlfriends, only a purely sexual one. When you say that they aren’t heteroromantic that leaves the question: what is their romantic orientation? It’s not homoromantic. Are you saying they are aromantic? Because if you’re claiming the reason these guys are awful is that they are just “incapable of real love” then that is really aphobic. I understand that you probably didn’t mean anything by it, but as an aromantic person it just hurts a lot

Holy shit you just blew my mind by saying that

That makes a lot of sense actually.

Imagine saying that to your partner - like why are you dating me then????

I'm aroace and don't want a relationship but if I had a SO and they would say this to me, I would have a mental breakdown right then and there. Needless to say that my self-esteem is already none existing but it would go to the earth core after hearing something like this.

@@athena8335 that's because it's abuse

it’s so sad id literally dump him right there no questions if my so said that to me

The video isn't real. jesus. Which is just proof that so many of yall project your own feelings on to these videos. Her boyfriend has the same video on his channel where he asks her to peel an orange for him and she is meaner than he is in her video.

THEY REALLY SAYING SHIT LIKE "no he's really different off camera, he's actually really nice" GIRL. If you have to convince people that badly, it ain't true

Me but i never posted to the Internet, luckily I got out because i had a shitty awakening

@@Jesssss._ abusive relationships are hard to leave

Abusive relationships can be so hard to leave

@@mcoofannoyingperson7069 unfortunately that’s true, I really hope someday people like this will be able to leave them

5 months late but they are all skits

FR!!! lol.

Exactly!!

he‘s not daddy, he‘s ‚tough love‘ father who really just doesn‘t want to be a father

@@wa11ie i don’t see the love either honestly

A DADDY WOULD PEEL THAT ORAAAAAANGGEEE

Right, and calling her dude and bud. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Thank you Kenny from South Park I agree.

@@kanyanavanathan3786 of course

I named my dog after kenny 😂​@@im_eepyy

The machines does the work. So how is that a valid reason.

@@atomseve9858 Tino saying this to his gf is condescending, switching ‘female’ with ‘woman’ is better wording for others because it’s true. Wanting nieces, daughters, sisters to be strong and independent is how this world should turn

Also it not his job to decide when to “teach” her stuff she isn’t asking you to teach her

And it's so ironic how you can live independently never peeling an orange again but can't say that about doing laundry lol

Even when showing her the process of changing a tire and checking the oil, that would be super fucking condescending to make her learning these skills a part of her becoming an “strong independent female” and not just a basic skill. Like, when I was taught how to do that, it was “watch me do this, son.” Not “congratz, i’m making you a strong independent male!! omg you go boy, you’ll dominate out there now!! King~” Like it’s a simple skill. I honestly think “strong independent woman” is a stupid phrase to begin with though, because it assumes that most women these days are weak and dependent on big strong and more capable men to help them, which I’ve never noticed to be true.

@@callahardy8639yeah this too, he’s not her father.

to call women „females“ is literally an insult in german, mayor red flag

or if he refers to women as b*tches 😬😬

Sneako fans be like

True. Those are the loony "alpha male" guys who keep trying to apply a disproven theory about *wolves* to humans. Embarrassments to the human race basically. 😂

I kid you not, these group of people responded to an argument similar to yours with “yeah we call ourselves sigma males like how we call you females.” Made me truly laugh

As they say "Make his pockets hurt" or his... nails? In this case.

It's never just about the orange, as well as it isn't about the worm in "would you love me if I was a worm"

I feel the same way. I hate these relationship tests too, but the way he spoke to her was not necessary. It was like he was scolding a teenage son for not cleaning up his room, not talking to his wife that just did his gosh darn laundry.

It’s gotta be biological… IDK I’m not a scientist but doesn’t it seem like an echo of the past??? Like I can imagine every one of my ancestors going back to before cavemen like basically monkeys in trees where even then you’d still probably peel the bananas for your ape friends/family Look up the story for Burial 9 from 4000 years ago and Shanidar I from 45,000 years ago… people cared about making sure their loved ones were full and taken care of even back then and under dire circumstances, this guy is more brutal than a neanderthal or “primitive” hunter gatherers (I can’t undersell that for their community to keep someone alive and in good condition that long is basically inventing hospice care before agriculture, medicine or germ theory)

it is a psychological instinct within us ALL unless they have disorders which those people are dangerous as fuck if they arent seeking help or worse not selfaware of the damage they can cause. it is in MEN AND WOMEN we are social entities thats why our offspring need to be nurtured and protected and guided . we have empathy FOR A REASON. it is survival. @@healgoth if a man doesnt know love hes a freak and should be shunned because those people are the most dangerous.

congrats on the divorce gosh got rid of a malignant tumor

in hindsight, were there any red flags before you got married? my worst nightmare is going so far into a relationship with someone (ie marriage/kids) only for them to flip and become the worst person alive

@@fashionvibe101 not as many as I would have liked to be honest. I think more than red flags it was listening to his goals rather than looking at his work ethic. Basically, if your partner says they are hardworking but always end up shoving the majority of tasks on you, then it will get worse as soon as you are vunerable. Also, dont let your acts of service (because thats my love language) cloud the percieved willingness of them to do things. And just because they dont usually do a chore, doesnt mean they cant do it the right way or take constructive criticism. He would often say (when he did do a shared chore) that I couldnt expect him to (for example) load the dishwasher so the dishes got washed properly if he is the one doing it because hes not "good at details". I wish I had compared his willingness to take on a task (and do it correctly because I didnt have a backup person to fix it after) to my own. Also, promises mean nothing - he has broken so many promises, so many "dont worry, Ill take this task from you next week", "Ill take the day/night shift", etc. that Ive lost count.

@@fashionvibe101 oh, and one more thing - never ever ever double down. If you think you want out now, then its better to walk away and possibly rekindle later than wish you had left and feel trapped. There was some terrible behavior from him when we were 2 years into marriage (I was selling our condo and buying a house while being the only income and he was spending all his time at the bar with friends and specificly one female friend) and I thought "nows the perfect time to leave, I just sold the condo, I havent bought a house yet, my stuff is in storage..." but I didnt want to admit I chose wrong and I didnt want to throw away a majority of my lifes progress to that point. Well, 4 years after that Im now throwing away far more progress and struggling much more to do so. Dont double down, its ok to admit you were wrong.

gj on getting rid of a nuisance

Right and even my child I wouldn't speak to like this... 'you're not special' ?? Like wow dude that's not a joke that's actively talking down to someone to make them feel worthless. His whole tone is so gross.

all the while expecting her to treat him like he's her child. he wants the authority of a parent but none of the inconvenience. and really, you should never want to have a parent/child relationship with your significant other

Plus!!! SHES the one caring for him! It’s like parentification.

@bee1411 I was parentified. My parents acted like that exactly

@@Iamagoblingivemeyourstuff SAMEEE

This is a great simile but all I can hear is "Let's get ready to CRUMBLEEEEEEEEEEEE"

The videos are fake........

Thanks for reminding me how much I love seeing movie stunts with breakaway glass lol

@@maschaorsomething Did you even watch the video? Coop explains clearly why they're not

Dude their videos are fake. They have hundreds of shorts on Facebook and tiktok. She is just as savage as he is, but their is never any outrageous reactions by either of them nor any conclusions. They just post another skit the next day.

That's so sweet, omo

OMG THATS SO CUTE

where can i get someone like this 😭 LA boys def aren’t like this 💀

how do i find one like that

@@london_inlove same here 💀 seriously..

My ex never told me "you aren't special" but he did say "you're lucky I'm with you" even after behaving like a sentient pile of rotting garbage. I wish I had dumped him sooner but at least he's gone.

I dated someone once when I was younger who told me I wasn't *important*. Not even that I wasn't special. Trash. Straight in the trash

​@@wolvie1618 i believe in u girl youre strong ❤❤

​@@wolvie1618happened to me too, hope you're doing a lot better now tho 🩷

Ugh same! It’s just them trying to drag our self esteem and happiness down to their level, we can’t let them win!

Or the term woman come here..

Fr! They act like women aren’t also people??

It's so incely lmao

As someone that uses "human", "female", and "male" as a mixture of derogatory and out of habit because I just generally see people as autopsy samples. True. Take OPs advice. If it makes people happy, it's more as a want to open human bodies up and less out of hatred for people.

Esatto!!!

He def not italian and not of italian culture. Doing small acts of service and sharing food, like peeling yo wife's fruit is considered alpha here, even my toxic masculinity infused grampa did that lmao

Same 😁

as an italian, i support this decision

My Dad does that for my Mom (and vice versa) and honestly it's so wild to see. I've seen the other side and can say these little acts are mountains, not molehills.

Literally!! Rocking back and forth is a form of self-soothing when you're anxious. Especially when your man has never ever done a single fucking thing to put you at ease.

it’s a skit

Sounds a lot like confirmation bias, but alright

She fidgets when she talks to him. Anyone that defends this secretly loves abusing ppl idc.

@@antoine7611saying this is a skit is crazy, so she’s also pretending to have anxiety and scared too? I know you don’t actually believe that, I just think you enjoy watching it because you wish you could do the same thing. Jokes are confessions, and being obtuse, is a confession.

It honestly makes me think of Andrew Tates daddy issues. He idolized his dad because he wasn't around to see how terrible dad was while vilifying his mother because "mommy sent my perfect daddy away," even tho mom did everything possible to provide a good home life. Obviously in men who start to feel superior to all women, that can lead to vilifying and hating all women. I think it's a somewhat common situation.

and then others will argue that peeling an orange is very simple and you shouldn’t ask your partner to do it, what if you’re like sick and don’t wanna move or you’re too busy doing something else at the moment, also even like she said she had nails on, those things are so hard to clean sometimes so it would just be very messy for her

@@kyluvs_even if it was an easy task i’d still do it for my partner because i love them and i want to make them happy lol it’s that simple to me i can’t imagine full on refusing like the guy in the video 😭

@@millystars LITERALLYYYY, just cuz it’s simple doesn’t mean it wouldn’t make them happy and feel loved, who cares if it’s literally just peeling an orange it’s still a nice thing to do😭 and adding the whole “ur not special” line made it 100% worse

Did you ask him? Or use manipulative words to get him to peel it. Watch the video, she never actually asks him He felt the manipulation.

@@hangtownranger I asked them?- a good partner would be willing to without manipulation- do you need help?

exactly how my last relationship went and it went on so for so long i was noticing i was doing the same things he did and after breaking up i noticed how much of a crappy ass person i was turning into bc you get so used to it you don’t notice anymore it’s like oh well he’s always been like that he moved on in two days and got mad i talked to one guy when we were broken up 😟

@@dia4024 I'm so sorry, you deserve so much better ♡

Yeah that happened to me. It got to the point that checking my texts gave me anxiety. Hell, I felt so isolated and alone that I downloaded one of those ai friend apps and deadass the ai treated me better than he did and it was just a program. Like damn you know you messed up when a bloody Replika is nicer than you. 💀 But it took my current bf (at the time friend) coming into my life and making me happier than I had been in years for me to dump my ex.

@@wolvie1618good for you!! Your current bf showed up when you needed him the most and helped you get out of a toxic situation- I hope he is treating you like you deserve ❤ it’s hard to tell after an awful/ abusive relationship bc any sort of kindness seems like the greatest thing ever. I have been in a similar situation and I am so happy you are out of it!

Yeah I feel like this 😢

what matters now is that you got out and can focus on treating yourself the way you should be and meeting new people who will appreciate and care for you the way they should

Same. The brainwashing is real

Tell that to my ex lol

this got a lot more likes than i thought it would lmao

It's all fake skit. You should see how savage she can be to him in their skits. But none of them ever really shock the other it's always calm reactions. They don't even hide their cameras.

my bf and i are lazy so we take turns picking up food lolol

awww , hope you guys continue together

lol@@mightymeatymech

And you deserve it because I'm sure you'd do the same for him. 😊 That's a healthy relationship between equals.

My partner is like this too. She just wants to see me happy. I try to do the same for her 🖤

It's fake they have hundreds of videos going back years. If you think that's bad you should see what she says to him. But it's all staged hence why they never have over reactions and the camera is always out in the open.

@@buzuxifr it even looks fake with how unnatural she talks

It's not real.

@@maschaorsomething source?

No it’s not.

@@Lowki-ki What do you mean "No it's not."? Everything they said is true...

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING LIKE HE TALKS TO HER LIKE A SIBLING 😭

Ok but even with siblings id sarcastically say no while also pealing the orange

no because with how he calls her 'dude' and 'bro' ?? sibling word choices😭

@@amandatownsend5132 SAME LOL, my brother would be like "NO I DONT WANNA PLAY!!!" but joins me anyway

@@amandatownsend5132 NO YEAH 100% LIKE BROTHER IT IS AN ORANGE

My husband and I call each other “bud” but that’s because we were friends first and consider each other our “best friend/best bud” so it’s always said sweetly. IF we ever use “buddy” it’s in jest. He and I would Never talk to each other seriously like this guy does to her

@@gracesblythe yeah but the tone he was using was very aggressive. I’m glad you and your husband have that relationship! That’s so sweet!!

​@gracesblythe same. We've been married for so long we've got all kinds of names but none are disrespectful

@@im_eepyy Thank you!!! He's the coolest person I know and a total sweetie, and he tells me I'm pretty and makes me food and I make him laugh and sorry just gotta gush about him I STILL have a crush on him lol

Like sometimes people might use the term buddy to talk down at someone but it's also used in contexts that are friendly or endearing. Like I'd call a friend or partner buddy but I'd never tell someone they aren't special like wtf.

That's the thing! Like, okay, it's likely scripted and an exaggeration - but that too is a problem!!!! It's normalizing behavior like this, even though she's upset and telling him why, because it's showing it in a natural-looking interaction. It's very easy to believe that someone who DOES think along these lines would see that not only is someone else portraying it, falsely or not, but that it's someone with "clout." Being someone with a platform and posting toxic things like this gives that thing legitimacy, when really, no one should treat their partner the way he does in the video. Also, thinking this is "funny" is a red flag, because scripted or not, it's anything but.

I think the number of ppl pretending this is fake are just men confessing they are sadist. If you think about it, there is no real for a group of people that make fake scenarios about women in their head to jump to the conclusion this is just a skit. Really just think about that….

@@ericaholloway1751another comment said the boyfriend posted basically the same video but with the roles swapped and if they’re telling the truth then yeah it is fake

Treat yourself well, your bf/husband should never be calling their gf/wife buddy or bro or dude or anything like that.

it’s a skit like the rest of their page is videos like this trying to bait

@@swarmofgeesethank you omg. people are so brain rotted

@shroomi1214 oh yeah it’s definitely still problematic what they’re doing, but like both the people in the skit are in on it. both of them are rage baiting not just the bf. like she’s definitely in on it as much as he is. their both pretty scummy for doing this

@@swarmofgeesestill going to be honest, i'll never understand skits like these where it just makes you look stupid. like if it were me, i'm making sure i comment it's all fake or something because no way i would want ppl to think this is real (since behaviour like this is real).

@@ggundercover3681 fr fr !! content like this makes it harder for actual victims to speak out as deniers will point to videos like this where people fake it for clout. such a scummy thing to do and all for some views

Oddest thing about the world too, honestly.

what's engagement bait?

@@cheeling794 engagement bait is when an account online posts something purely because the poster knows that people WILL have some sort of reaction to the content that causes the viewers to engage, in turn making sure it’s pushed in the algorithm so more people see it = more money. it’s takes many forms. it could be as harmless as someone being like “comment if you’re an aries or sagittarius” or it could be what we see here, a couple fake fighting and preying on other women’s insecurities to come to the girlfriend’s defense, therefore getting more engagement on their video and showing it to more people.

Are you talking about this video or the one being reacted to? Because I don’t think that’s coopers style. Tf

@@ariamadd3617 i am definitely talking about the video Cooper is talking about in the video. i mention the girlfriend in my other comments but context clues are hard on the internet lmao!

🤣

how is it that these breeds of men can get the most gorg women but we can’t 😭

Man this is relatable asf 😂🤣😂🤣😂 (I'm convinced that I will die alone and unloved) 😂 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Down bad thread (me too)

imagine having a friend

Good move 👍👍