In your case, you have a strong case because you discussed taking the HIV test. You can prove you took the test. You specifically asked him to take one. Even if he did not tell you he was +ve, his omitting this information is the same as lying. He was deceptive about something you had specifically discussed. You need a good lawyer to help you with this case. Even if you have let everything go, he is still out there infecting other people.

Technically, based on the third point, you consented to having unprotected sex with the assumption that he had tested and was negative (an assumption made through the conversations you had), in the event that he had explicitly stated his status you would've revoked the consent. Consent has terms and he didn't follow the terms, meaning the consent was invalid. I don't have enough English to back this up, but I once read an article that stated that if someone acts as if they are something they are not, in order to get a sexual encounter with a person, it is deception and it is a crime and that encounter can be noted as rape. I don't know if I'm making sense, I hope I am.

If a person is positive he or she must disclose their status to their partners & give the next person an opportunity to protect themselves. I understand if u did not know but when u know tell the next person

I could listen to you the whole day 😩❤ please create another KZfaq channel for vlogs/ sharing your daily routines i.e how you keep your skin so clear

Your channel is so informative sis Nozi. I love your content ❤️

You are a gladiator nozi Masha Allah and God bless

You inspire to want to know more about the law, you literally inspire me to want to be better informed so I may also be of assistance to other women. I wish I saw this in high school, my career path would have been completely different.

Its a first time watching your channel and i have been on it since morning.

Yoh Nozi l just love you girl. I'm forever grateful to my boyfriend for introducing me to your channel. I have learnt a lot and guess what lm hooked.

Thanks for sharing, I love you ❤️ 🙌

I'm so intrigued with your level of maturity and truthfulness, you could be bitter and play the blame games by not taking responsibility for your actions but rather you joinly take responsibility along with your ex, my dear I believe that this was intentionally done to you but stand still and see the salvation of the lord, The Lord shall fight for you and you shall hold your peace, be bless

Hello my dia sister thank you so much

Absolutely crazy! if u know and don't disclose itto your partner that should be a crime !

Thanx for informative topic I've learned a lot thanx babe

I agree it is criminal to knowingly infect someone.... it is wrong

Ma'am you are really strong and beautiful Your channel is the first KZfaq channel I am commenting for the first time. Please in your next videos make out space for a video how girls should protect themselves against rape and HIV.Us young girls are dependent on your advice I love you so much.

very well researched thanks dear

You give me hope and strength and i love you for that may god give you eternity of life love blessings and happiness ❤🙏

I think in SA is lenient because they have seen that many people have lived with the virus hence they lenient, which is sad. Very informative Nozi, thank you☺️

I have really enjoyed this video. You are very informative and have given my a wider understanding on this topic discussion. Thank you xx

He needs to pay.expose him.

Playing victim is the national anthem of women. i am afraid of HIV. BIG TIME. My mom won't keep quiet about how bad it is. I test my one partner over and over and use protection RELIGIOUSLY. I CAN'T !

Thank you for sharing

What is key and what u said inn one of your other videos is "...forgiving yourself every day..."

In Kenya it's an offense punishable by law. One can be jailed for infecting another knowingly.

u are amazing

Aba babini bajongise oobhontsi ezantsi ba right? 👀🤔 Sendtsho laark yintoni engathandekiyo kulento ithethwa ngu Nozi? I like it when you say "eneh" ❤😂

South Africa should work in agreement with Europe about resources used to trace when the person was infected and by who.that would also lead to so many convictions coz batho ba diha ka boomo infecting innocent souls out of revenge n saho makatsa them ho ipususeletsoa ka bona were not even there motho a tshoara mogare. N the wae they do just going around infecting innocents is what will make them people to continue with the stigma n not allow them in their lifes.m sad. Askies Nozi

Your hair. 😍😍😍😍

Can you tell us the symptoms you had or how you can know if you have it Thank you so much again for helping a lot of people through your testimony

Kodwa ke if umuntu engafuni ukuyisebenzisa icondom ekubeni ezazi akukho right.

About the requirement for consent, I would presume the law would say that, if you are aware of the status but you proceed with the sexual act, that’s when you waive your right, but not when you are not aware and and you proceed with unprotected sexual contact. Further in your case, even if there was consent, it was consent obtained by deception. I believe in some circumstances, consent can be invalidated, especially this circumstance. To determine consent, one must not only look at the act but the risks. And for one to analyze the risks, all facts must be on the table i.e I am consenting to having unprotected sex, which may lead to pregnancy, I am consenting to having unprotected sex which may lead to OTHER STIs, and I am consenting to having unprotected sex which may not lead to HIV infection-based on the knowledge at hand. Your consent is not only for the sexual act, but the consequences. If you are keen on it, I think you may find a way.

I have watched your Videos starting from the latest and I visited your #ImstillMe and they are so encouraging. Thanks. I'm not positive but I know someone special to me who is positive and all I learnt all this years was to accept and love the person more and me morally supporting. Thank you. #WakeUpAfria #AfricaToTheWorld

Iam a 24 year old woman and I just found u today and I relate souch coz first time I had sex I was 15 and I was infected with HIV I always tell my partners early...... But i must say it has been very hard growing up as a teenager and a young woman having to tell pply status as I have gotten older I have gotten used to everything and iam so proud of my self my family still doesn't know but my friends and partner know and previously what I had seen is men wanna use condoms to protect themselves from HIV but soon as I tell them my status they wanna stop using condoms my current partner we been together for 3 years and for the past 2 years we haven't been using condoms but he tests negative.....but he knows just like all my previous partners.

And self test HIV kits are not sold over the counter in S.A. why???

My husband and I didn’t want to have children right after we get married , we always use condoms . One day the condom broke I get pregnant.Its not a matter of protecting myself if he was infected with HIV,I will b infected that night.

1 successful conviction and it's said specific laws are not principled.... disappointing.

This person should have been jailed. Especially because you have an email showing that you sent him your negative results

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In as much as it is every person's responsibility to protect themselves and not assume a negative status, the + person should disclose because the other may be responsible enough to insist on condom usage however condoms break, the question then becomes would the - person have had sex with the confirmed + person even with a condom had they been made aware of the + status of the other? The answer is not likely, but no one will ever know because that option was never presented. The negative person may not even be aware that the condom broke...and there they are assuming safety because they used a condom right ukanti if they knew that condom would be inspected for even the slightest erosion whether there was suspicion of breakage or not.