Great question. When I said "Sometimes when it seems like things are falling apart, it's possible they are falling into place," I meant it's best not to judge anything as "good" or "bad" because we don't know at the time something happens what the long-term ripple effects of it would be, so what seems "bad" at first, may end up being a blessing later on. I, for example, am SO grateful some of the things I used to REALLY think I wanted did NOT turn out the way I thought I wanted them to. It's what we often call "a blessing in disguise." So, the invitation, perhaps, is to consider EVERYTHING a blessing, and to trust that it's all happening FOR us, not TO us, and the healthiest response is to accept because resistance of what IS often causes more suffering than what is (if that makes sense). I'm not talking about being passive or numb, there is a big gray area between holding on and letting go, and in that space we loosen our grip of any certainty that we are "right" about anything, and we proceed with curiosity because at the end of the day, the only thing I know for certain, is that I don't know anything for certain. Everything else is ego. I hope that makes sense..🙏