Old And Alone: The UK's Impoverished Elderly

Old And Alone: The UK's Impoverished Elderly | Full-Length Documentary

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7 жыл бұрын

An affectionate insight into being old today.
Three Golden Oldies pass on their astute and humorous insights on becoming old and poor, and the stark choices they now face in their twilight years. Full of wisdom, independent spirit and hard earned perspective. Makes you ask, could this happen to me?
Doris is 84, who won’t let a living soul (including the film-maker) inside her chaotic Clacton home - for fear that social services will take it away from her.
Feisty Kitty in Exeter is also 84. She shows us her Kate Moss inspired knicker and bra collection, and dreams of a miracle cure to an illness like most dream of winning the lottery.
And then there’s relatively youthful and charismatic Frank from Liverpool, who at 72 has lost his family to emigration and with no one left has lost the will to carry on - but not his intelligence or tragic humour. Self-imprisoned in his own home like a character from a Samuel Beckett play, his neighbours rarely see him. He hasn’t had a bath in years - mainly because he doesn’t have one.
Golden Oldies was produced by True Vision Productions. If you wish to find out more the people featured in this documentary then go to truevisiontv.com/foundation
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@cherylesteele5854 4 жыл бұрын

When that lovely scouse guy said that life should be a rehearsal because he has made a mess of his, I felt that. 💔

@lesleyhubble2976 3 жыл бұрын

I guess you have to learn by what you see as any mistakes

@nickieriley7733 3 жыл бұрын

Should be quoted lol

@rachelevans6247 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! And I just don't understand why no-one paid for him to have a hot water and put his sink and bath in. If I was his neighbour I would have. Even the district nurses just left him after his treatment even though they knew. He seemed to be crying out for help for the simplest and most basic of things or perhaps he is just to proud to accept any help? Makes me very sad.

@Cholosaurus360 3 жыл бұрын

The Irish lady breaks my heart the most, you can tell she’s fragile inside and out. God protect her.

@ftw7026 7 жыл бұрын

Can you adopt old people? I would adopt Doris in a heartbeat. She's lovely and has a wicked sense of humour

@tarantala111 7 жыл бұрын

Here in NZ, we have an organisation called 'Age Concern' which one can join (after being vetted) whereby you 'adopt' an oldie or two or three or - as many as you can reasonably manage. You befriend them, then visit on a regular basis - usually weekly. I did this for over ten years and found it incredibly rewarding.

@nomadicnana5497 7 жыл бұрын

i would adopt Frances and fix his place up for him. God bless Frank.

@eddenoy321 6 жыл бұрын

I have befriended a few oldies on my own, if they can maintain a some degree of of conversation or retain a bit of humour. I am not a skilled professional,so I can't do much more than that.

@biscuits2572 6 жыл бұрын

Would love someone to fix up his place for him. And someone to take him for a drive now and then and a chat.

@misst.e.a.187 6 жыл бұрын

We have befriending charities here too. Age UK and other local bodies. I was registered as a volunteer, and my previous church practice this, visiting elderly parishioners regularly, as well as care homes. Most care homes have volunteer visitors. But, unfortunately, this is a growing and heartrending problem.

@rhondarose8180 6 жыл бұрын

she is smart to keep moving everyday

@cindyjones8336 3 жыл бұрын

She moves around better than I do! Bless her Heart!

@kaykepop4084 6 жыл бұрын

Kitty looks amazing to be 84 years old. And she seems to be such a sweet person. All of them seem to be such sweet individuals. Wish they were my neighbors, I would visit them often

@artsyamy73 6 жыл бұрын

I loved how real kitty was about how the way we feel about our body doesn't change,such a small insightful and neat thing to hear😊

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

Amy YES! This is the biggest thing about aging that young people don't realize. You think you change as you get older?

@jerifarrar5596 7 жыл бұрын

I have adopted an elderly couple I go by every day and do wat I can. they have enriched my life. it takes a village

@celtglen 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, it does Hon. I wish the powers that be will, in turn, grant you as caring a companion to you as you are to them.

@reddogmom3365 4 жыл бұрын

Jeri Farrar 🙏🏽

@firstlast3507 4 жыл бұрын

You after the house or written in the will.

@darlenemichuk9128 4 жыл бұрын

@darlingUSA1 Nice am sure very rewarding to put a smile on somebody's face ,warmth and comfort in their heart. Do you call them by nickname, I know a guy who had a nickname for everybody, born in the 40's? he sure taught me a lot about life. Old Vic, his wife left him a long, long time ago due to his infidelity. Plus, no children we my husband, a friend of his, kinda helped him out with vet visits, grass cutting and grocery shopping. at the supermarket one day, his pants fell down in the produce section. he was very angry saying "You f****** C***. I could not do anything. He was talented enough. Being a mechanic at 21, building his own rear engine engine rail (front engine rails are not great) If the engine starts on fire ........ However , many winning trophy's, one of I have, A small victory cup from the year I was born. He said I could have it. My (ex) husband met him at the racetrack. It takes somebody to put a smile on somebody.

@harrickvharrick3957 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@definity5260 7 жыл бұрын

As a "young" ageing lady with health issues, this documentary has given me the insight that I need to count my blessings for what I have even though I am alone.

@amykrueger6024 3 жыл бұрын

Yes me as well.

@annjean8709 3 жыл бұрын

Ditto.

@wendybrierley5412 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree. You need to help yourself to improve your quality of life. I am not young.

@caskettsolo7925 7 жыл бұрын

In a sea of beauty, makeup, lifestyle, etc vlogs, +Real Stories is one of the channels shows the true raw harsh side of life around the world. Make me more grateful for everything in life. Thank you.

@levimacdonald5188 5 жыл бұрын

True💯👌 couldn't agree more

@StanSwan 3 жыл бұрын

All amazing stories but Frances' story got to me the most. "Yesterday" playing, what was once a Beatles song about a broken heart takes on more meaning in facing old age, loneliness, and death. As a contractor I have done work for elderly people who I knew could not really afford things to be fixed for free or a tiny sum so they can keep their pride. I have spent hours talking with elderly customers in their homes after just fixing a lamp or wiring a chair lift for $10 dollars. I really never talk about it much but had I known Frances I would have got a few people to come by a Saturday to get his bathroom working and kitchen sink for the best gift of all to see his happiness and show him people do care and respect him.

@gianinas9348 7 жыл бұрын

The first lady have a good sense of humour. God bless her!

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

She is now with God's grace !.

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

***** I knew her ! known , i helped her across the road and stuff ! when i was around . This video was done around a year ago ! sadly .

@SOMD-THC 7 жыл бұрын

may she rest in peace. Her story while I admired her strength to keep active. broke my heart because she was alone and just brought tears to my eyes...

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

T. Kemp She was hit by a bus or something to . She's with God and she's back to being perfect again ! became an angel of light . A ticket to valhalla !.

@didirobert3657 7 жыл бұрын

You just made that shit up, didn't you? Shame on you!

@yunnanne 4 жыл бұрын

One of the best documentaries I've ever watched. When I turned 18 I was confused and I didn't want to go to college. I spent a year at home wondering what to do, and that year turned into two years... After that my mom told me I had to work or study so I looked at the options and since I've always loved the medical field, I went to school one year and became a nurse assistant and that has been the best choice of my life. I did two internships at a hospital (which I loved) and one at an elderly home and that was just... so rewarding? I legit felt my heart fill with love when I took care and helped them every day and it's such a shame we tend to forget our elders as a society. I'm studying again now to try and get into college and hopefully become a nurse so I can work with elder people again and take care of them during their last years around and, hopefully, bring to them the comfort they bring to me. Hugs to anyone reading this

@sabinekoch3448 Жыл бұрын

You are a wonderful person! 💐

@yunnanne Жыл бұрын

@@sabinekoch3448 coming here two years later to update this: I did make it into nursing school, starting this fall. I've been working at a nursing home and I love it in here. I plan on coming back once I'm a full nurse!

@bellaangel7598 7 жыл бұрын

A very touching documentary well done. Lonely and frail elders are all around us if we have but eyes to see:-|

@keeponsearchingearth1543 6 жыл бұрын

Beautiful and sad story . . . and it terrifies me that I will grow old and broke. I need to make better decisions . . .

@clvanhorne7841 6 жыл бұрын

haVe u?...eyes 2 see , a mind to discern,...a heart to loVe & understanding & chaRity to remedy or aide &not inTeRfeRe?...hmmm see my aboves of whence i write to u of love,s...10 & 2 sabbaths PassoVeR too...

@christineryab9429 6 жыл бұрын

bella angel y top

@jennyhughes4474 4 жыл бұрын

But we are mostly invisible: only go out on days I'm good enough to so people think I'm doing just fine. Some ask 'how are you?' but when I tell them the truth they don't want to hear so I wish they didn't ask if they really don't care how I am and what I need. I've got a brain injury & other injuries and this neglect has made me anxious & depressed, oh what a surprise.

@baxtorhowle2872 4 жыл бұрын

That old man was such a horrible human being not even his only daughter wants anything to do with him...shame.

@sagrammyfour 6 жыл бұрын

I am 71. I have a niece from Greece, and was astounded at the way she treats her elders--with respect, gentleness, and even reverence. I have seen similar treatment in other cultures. So nice...

@chrissie1066 4 жыл бұрын

sagrammyfour We are both 75. From England originally, bu we emigrated to Canada 18 years ago to see our grandchildren from birth to 17 and 19. Next year we are emigrating again to Crete...somewhere warm and sunny. Same health care as the UK too. Can’t wait!

@khalidalali186 9 ай бұрын

It’s the same here in the Arab world. Senior citizens are treated like royalty by random strangers everywhere they go, let alone family, clan, and tribe.

@TheBillaro 6 ай бұрын

truth. seen them in toronto

@FrostValkyrie 7 жыл бұрын

Kitty reminds me of my Nan, I'm just glad my family have always looked after her and my grandad before he passed. I learnt it doesn't take much, just having them over once per week for Sunday dinner, bringing over a few meals to put in the freezer for when they don't feel up to cooking. Helping with the garden and cleaning the house once per week, popping over for a cup of tea it doesn't take much but it means the world to my grandparents to realise they are still very much loved and wanted around. I've also found just taking my little dog over to see my Nan helps cheer her up as she doesn't believe elderly should have pets cos they could be left without a home after she's gone, it's why care in the community and things like PAT animals are so important if people don't have families around it gives people hope and socialisation, there's nothing worse than being alone.

@leaperrins8373 7 жыл бұрын

It's certainly not just the elderly that are isolated. I am 37 and I haven't had a proper conversation with another human being for 5 months. I spent all xmas and new year alone. I am self employed and work form home. I talk to a couple of clients via email every week and that's about it. I love living on my own and value my independence but it can be really difficult to find appropriate company once you leave school. I've had tons of friends over the years only to find that they have died, let me down, ripped me off or fallen out of contact. I don't know what life has in store for me in the future but I do hope that these people featured are able to maintain their independence (if they wish) but that the locals may do more for them after seeing this documentary. It's important to reach out to anyone who you think is suffering. If nothing else, people should take away from this documentary, that we could all do more to help those around us.

@laurenloveshere 7 жыл бұрын

lea perrins ❤️

@moogie4z 7 жыл бұрын

lea perrins going on14? years been living alone and it does get extremely lonely at times and its easy to lose hope when you realise nothing will get better

@ephraimdikel7663 6 жыл бұрын

I feel really bad for you.

@FULLOOKKK 6 жыл бұрын

Yup same here. Though I really enjoy being left alone :)

@PatrickMcManusNY 5 жыл бұрын

Hello.

@ErykaSoleil 7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I watched this, but it broke my heart. I was holding it together until the first two or three chords of "Yesterday", and then I had to grab some tissues. :( What strikes me the most about Francis is that he would benefit SO much from simply having a local plumber or two who would be willing to put in some volunteer hours here and there to put his plumbing together properly (including a water heater, even if it's just a small one). He even made it clear that he'd rather have help fixing up his house, than go into a "home" where he would lose his independence. Why are people so willing to shove the elderly into assisted living facilities, but so unwilling to help them just fix the homes they have now, and maybe visit every so often?

@yasnyne 4 жыл бұрын

ErykaSoleil Probably to keep their houses

@isbsey 4 жыл бұрын

Francis is entitled to a kitchen and bathroom if he were to be referred to a social worker. Someone needs to report his circumstances and life would change for him.

@lesliekendall2206 3 жыл бұрын

Because if they go into "a home", the State and care facility get the house. Remain independent and the State gets nothing, that's why. We live in a callous, cruel world. AND HIS SELFISH DAUGHTER IS BEYOND COMPREHENSION! I'm only 63 and my only child that I did EVERYTHING for, doesn't speak to me, either. I'll be GLAD when I'm finally gone.

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

DARK APPERITION Well, the narrator says that he is not willing to accept outside help, so what do you do?

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

DARK APPERITION Well, he also kept saying that he had not had a bath 🛀 in 12 years, so those sweet female nurses arranged for him to get a bath and a meal and somewhere to get in out of the cold. And what did he do? He was almost about to get in the bathtub, but of course, decided not to at the last minute. Very confusing. I have JUST gotten a place to live after being homeless and in the cold for 10 years. I cannot tell you how good a tub bath felt after using the water hoses’ cold water for all that time! I did not want to get out! God will provide a way for those who have good intentions and love him. I am a living witness to that, even though I have strayed away from him several times. I never did get too far away that I could not remember how to get back under his caring wing. Maybe Francis will find a way to live in his little home with the plumbing problems corrected so his last years are comfortable and his daughter finds it in her heart to forgive or forget their disagreement(s). I will definitely pray for just that. Take care of yourself my friend. Mark

@riverunner9978 4 жыл бұрын

I’m 68 and alone. I have family I keep in touch with,they keep in touch with me. I maintain my home of 45 years. I grow my own organic garden.preserve lots of fruits and veggies! I make sure I arrange repairs of paramount issues like water heat and roof, etc. I remain positive and keep moving above all! I feel very fortunate after watching this.

@susanpettitt713 7 жыл бұрын

the eldrely woman is like a zen master ...understands suffering and attachment...what lights these people have......

@motorhomemike4014 7 жыл бұрын

i'm 62 and i'm in love with Doris she rocks and i hope when i'm her age i am as together as she is i love her attitude and her sense of humour

@Signal_light_instructor 7 жыл бұрын

evony tree are you retired

@motorhomemike4014 7 жыл бұрын

i live on a disability pension the govt. says i'm crazy but i fooled em my tin-foil hat was hidden under my touque ;)

@franniefargo9454 7 жыл бұрын

evony tree thank goodness for that

@eddenoy321 6 жыл бұрын

LOL,GOOD JOB,EVONY !

@sabrinacash3361 6 жыл бұрын

evony tree 😂😂😂😂

@dangodaydreams7872 6 жыл бұрын

The poem Kitty wrote honestly made me sob. Her and Doris are just so inspirational. They're all wonderful people who have lived such interesting lives. This is a really hard hitting documentary because it really makes you realize our mortality. Life is short or sometimes far too long. Hearing such wise advice from people who have lived for so much longer than I have is honestly just....I can't even explain it. It's terrifying and awakening all at the same time. It's just so astounding to see these people go through their lives, still being as strong as ever. I know this is an older documentary but still, it REALLY stuck with me. This is probably going to stick with me for years to come. This is definitely a documentary that's worth watching.

@skshi2280 6 жыл бұрын

It's so hard to believe that thousands of elderly are living in difficult living conditions. I especially adored Doris for her words of wisdom, sharp mind, and wicked sense of humor.

@gerardscott5815 4 жыл бұрын

I wish we did get a rehearsal like this man said.....because we can so easily make a mess of our lives. How nice that would be

@angelaviolet 7 жыл бұрын

Ah, what lovely genuine elderly people in this documentary, it's so unfortunate for so many that they are neglected by the very system that they've paid into all their lives.

@laurenloveshere 7 жыл бұрын

So much emotion ❤️ I just can't even collect my thoughts right now. This is by far one of the most important things I have ever watched. So many life lessons here.

@MareeStone798ms 7 жыл бұрын

Kitty is a sweetheart and Doris is a sharp old pin and Francis needs help!

@GGiblet 7 жыл бұрын

yes, exactly!!

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

I known and know her she was a nice lady ! and she was very strong-willed sadly she as left us now ! . my mum is the lady in the shop ! .

@karen4you 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for update. I am glad they made this film.

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

karen4you ow i do mean Doris she will be angel in my heart always, That's ok i would tell all the others about it here but ill be here for to long but they have said nice things about her makes me want to !, but i do not know what to say or i think it sounds weird ! when i do .

@karen4you 7 жыл бұрын

The Beyonder .... I really would like to know all about them. The guy seemed very fit and wished his house could have had a kitchen and bathtub put in. Each grew wise with time and it inspired me in ways I can not express.

@cindyweir9645 3 жыл бұрын

I used to take care of the elderly. Now I’m elderly myself. It isn’t easy, but learning to live in the moment helps. Doris is a hoot, love her.❤️

@nitalancour7316 5 жыл бұрын

I think this will be me when I get old. Never planned for it to be this way, but life has a way of throwing you curveballs. And strokes.

@jennyhughes4474 4 жыл бұрын

Yup, it happened to me: was fit, strong & healthy when BAM medical errors wrecked my life - and no access to justice (or even remedial care) after.

@noellechristie2418 7 жыл бұрын

its abslolutely disgraceful that the British government allows so many elderly people to have no heating in the winter and allow pensioners to die every year of the cold. How can this happen in powerful 1st world country ?

@davidglover9210 4 жыл бұрын

The government is not interested in looking after the people they should. They keep putting the pension age up hoping people die before they reach it so can't claim a pension.

@quasimobius 4 жыл бұрын

Because they're spending all their surplus tax dollars on those demanding "immigrants". It's shameful.

@riverunner9978 4 жыл бұрын

Corruption in gov. !

@galegrazutis185 4 жыл бұрын

@@quasimobius absolutely and druggies making criminals comfortable in prison and a whole lot of other things that piss me off

@patriciabroderick3436 4 жыл бұрын

How can they?

@youreawhitedsepulcher8662 7 жыл бұрын

"You look out the curtain to see if life is still out there."😭💔😭

@cindyjones8336 3 жыл бұрын

That is so SAD.

@valerieobrien5521 3 жыл бұрын

People who spend time gawping out from curtains have nothing better to do ! Such people tend to live in a vacuum and often are gossips. There's one in every road. ! What folk need are interesting pursuits. Even if it's just looking up a word every on the Internet !

@nunurbuisness5877 7 жыл бұрын

this is why saving for retirment and owning my own house is so important to me. you must save for retirment as soon as you start working don't depend on the government and in the U.S. it's worse in that we have such high medical costs

@cliffkonkle3467 7 жыл бұрын

Nun Urbuisness The way the world is today makes that not always possible for everyone. One day everything will be taken away from you no matter what.

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

Except Francis couldn't keep up with repairs. You could sell your house after you retire, invest the money, and live in an apartment where someone else is responsible for the upkeep.

@BrittMFH 5 жыл бұрын

Very true! (Especially) those of us without families need to prepare for the future. Spend money wisely and save! 👍

@margimackowski-seif9305 4 жыл бұрын

Nun Urbuisness Sad to say, you can try to prepare your whole life through but, in fact, more often than not, life can kick you a blow. ... an illness, an accident or, like in my husband’s case an acquision that swallowed up His pension ( long story short - Poof! Gone ) . We were some of the lucky ones, we were retired from the military before he went to work for that company. So we had an income to fall back on and his medical bills that occured due to a major heart attack were covered or we would have been out on the streets. We are now in our mid-seventies. We have worked our way back through a lot of financial difficulties and, again, own our own home - with a mortgage - have his pension ( which will go away if he passes) and Social Security. I am more than willing to cut back when necessary and I think assisted living sounds fine to me as long as I can decide my own care. I don’t want to be medicated and strapped to a wheelchair. I want to be able to come and go as I please. Doris îs my hero. She lives life on her terms.

@jujuvtx 3 жыл бұрын

I saved for retirement. Then got cancer and spent my retirement on getting better. Now I have nothing. Life throws you curves. And then you go without.

@cuddlesanddaisy 6 жыл бұрын

"You don't belong anywhere." "Do you believe in God?" "When you're on your own He's the only one left."

@VirgoCatleesi 3 жыл бұрын

😔

@pattyperkins5007 3 жыл бұрын

Yes amen

@MrLegendary0ne 7 жыл бұрын

Sharing our lives with other people gives it value. I can't imagine being that alone for so long.

@laurenloveshere 7 жыл бұрын

MrLegendary0ne ❤️

@badbag9625 6 жыл бұрын

Was 80 yrs old last week and reside alone. Can not walk more the a few feet but grateful to wake everyday. i try not to depend on others who are busy with their own lives but do have a wonderful health aide a few hours a week Live on a fixed income but appreciate the fact that life is GOOD. THANK YOU LORD, bless people of ALL ages that have difficult lives,

@christinad4432 7 жыл бұрын

I love Kitty! her bra and panty collection had me cracking up haha

@christinecortese9973 7 жыл бұрын

Such words of wisdom. We all have to give up everything eventually. Stay present, in the moment, and pray or meditate to clear the mind of those omnipresent worries.

@CDN1975 7 жыл бұрын

Loved when Doris talked about the rhubarb. Rest in peace, beautiful soul.

@annabelgrace1267 4 жыл бұрын

Did she pass?

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

Theresa75 ‘Straight under the rhubarb’! That is just beautiful! I love it!

@ruff2play 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this and thank you to Doris, Kitty and Francis for sharing your thoughts, hopes and anxieties. The trouble is, I don't consider myself old - other people do and therefore it is their problem. I love living by myself, but now I have a gentleman who shares my facilities (ie cooking, laundry, electricity, rent ,bathing, internet) and he sleeps in a caravan on my property. We share the grocery bill, fuel costs and housekeeping. We respect each other's privacy and habits and compromise by constant communication. Others would probably think we're on the poverty line, but we don't. Blessings to you all.

@rosemarycornwall5162 4 жыл бұрын

I'm 25 minutes in and I can't watch anymore.I am 61 years old and just can' bear to watch as I can see my own future unfolding....

@angelavandenberg5713 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Rosemary, I'm 53 and single, underpaid (in comparison to a male doing the same job) white woman who rents, living in Australia. I'm preparing myself now for the possibility that I'll be living on the streets when I can no longer support myself. I watch these to the end to get some tips/ what to look out for, what to keep or throw away in order to live/travel light, what help is available etc. This is an epidemic that is global. The saddest part is that we aren't allowed to die if we choose and our children cannot afford to look after us. I have learned to love only having the precious things that have been given me by my children or dear friends around me. The rest is superfluous to leading a good life. My favourite quote by Leonardo da vinci is "As a well spent day brings happy sleep, so a life well USED brings happy death". Its not about what we've got, its about what we do with what we've been blessed with. Sorry, this wasn't meant to be a rant, just my thoughts. Have a great day!

@avengernemesis7990 4 жыл бұрын

Rosemary Cornwall I am nearly 70 and I take every day as it comes. Look forward to what the next day brings. I drive and go out daily. I look after myself physically and mentally. Have a good diet and grow my own organic vegetables. My adult children have their own homes and lead busy lives, however we see each other every day. Unlike the UK I am privileged to live in a country that provides good health system, emergency housing for people who need it and good social structure. That country is Australia! We also have a service that provides hot meals to the elderly or infirm. I don't know about the UK or USA but I think we are extremely lucky to live in Australia.👋

@NoodlesEaton 4 жыл бұрын

I a 65 and this makes me want to die now.

@lisamendez7479 4 жыл бұрын

@@angelavandenberg5713 hello Angela, I too am 53 i have your same worries! But i loved you favorite quote and your thoughts. STUFF doesn't really matter, but holding on to those precious few things that remind us of happy times, and loved ones. Have a blessed day Angela

@NoodlesEaton 4 жыл бұрын

@@avengernemesis7990 Well I guess you are just a better person than me. You need to get off your pedestal and stop judging, pendeja.

@sisterbluesighs 3 жыл бұрын

I adored meeting these people via this doc. My maternal grandmother lived to 100. She always had a fabulous sense of humor. My mother died at 68.❤ We never know how much time we have left. I hope to live until I've lost my sense of humor.

@imcavdb5465 7 жыл бұрын

Frances looks a bit like Robert de Niro. I feel for him. He wants so little and gets less.

@janinewetzler5037 6 жыл бұрын

Ed, honestly, you're on to something there. Francis struck me as very creepy and not because of his mental illness. He loved, way too much, being handled by the young, YOUNG, home care givers he had in. I believe they go in pairs to see him for safety's sake. He does say he had all the girls after him, and that he was a looker. I get the impression that there are a few sexual assaults in his past that were passed off as just getting a bit overly friendly, right ? He was an engineer, why didn't he keep up with technology and get a computer or engineer his own solutions to his piping problems in the bathroom/kitchen ? His daughter probably has very good reason not to contact him! (that's my impression.) It took me until the care givers went to see him to come to these conclusions. a summation for sure, but I wouldn't count it as being too far off.

@michaelvasquez9677 6 жыл бұрын

Ed Denoy your a vile human being for saying that

@JaneFrieman 4 жыл бұрын

Plus when he talks he sounds like Ringo Starr.

@susiemcd3941 4 жыл бұрын

Ed & Janine you're both sick & twisted in the head. Bad childhoods?

@sorousse 3 жыл бұрын

@@janinewetzler5037 Sometimes it is wiser to just shut up and keep your weird thoughts to yourself instead of spreading serious allegations against strangers. Why would he not be overly content and friendly to the carers if they are the only people he gets to see every once in a while? I wonder who is the creep here. ^^

@KraftyKreator 7 жыл бұрын

Wow! Really thought provoking, humorous, witty, sad, and observant. Certainly makes one stop and reevaluate where the end of the road is for each of us.

@adverse 7 жыл бұрын

Wow! Kitty was absolutely gorgeous in her younger years! She almost looks like Debbie Reynolds. Time is a cruel mistress...

@blightyA 7 жыл бұрын

So true.She looked gorgeous on her wedding day.What a fool of a husband for being so possesive

@FrumpyDucks 7 жыл бұрын

tbh her complexion looks really nice then and now

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

adverse Then decide she's still beautiful and stop being brainwashed about beauty conventions.

@kaininjathundermmandopoke5167 3 жыл бұрын

Time is the ture emeny

@brucecolemancfo5087 5 жыл бұрын

Breaks my heart. I wish i knew Francis. I'd be his friend any day.

@AnneLien1987 4 жыл бұрын

I've dedicated my life as a nurse to elderly people in their homes. I take care of 20 a day. I love them

@LindaKordich 7 жыл бұрын

Incredibly touching....yet at the same time incredibly heartbreaking. Thank you so much for bringing light to our fragile, helpless elderly.

@susiemcd3941 4 жыл бұрын

I raised a large family and when my kids were younger they helped the elderly neighbors. They'd get paid in cookies which tickled them pink. I told them that when I get old, move me in their house, just set me in front of the window and give me tea, I won't be any bother at all. 💖

@littlepiggydogonig1415 7 жыл бұрын

this just depressed the fuck out of me

@daisy8284 7 жыл бұрын

Saaame seriously

@michelledoyle1969 7 жыл бұрын

littlepiggydog on IG i know i am an AIN & i just try my hardest to treat these beautiful people with respect & dignity as they once had a wonderful life & its all about the heart & soul of a person...they deserve love & compassion

@leealexander3507 7 жыл бұрын

littlepiggydog on IG Why? I am one of those people. I've already faced the worst life can throw at a person so what's left to fear? I left a rather nice nursing home although they scored me as very frail in order to go a few states over for a feral Arabian stallion. I consider that horse a family member so I'm not at all lonely. My body has slowly become a little stronger taking care of him. I am slowly getting him trained. It's just harder than it was in my younger years. My many years of experience help offset that. Old age can be sad and lonely or it can be joyful even without much money.:-)

@bernardpopp541 6 жыл бұрын

Without God in your heart...these stories can be very depressing. Oh what grit, you can find in a Brit!

@acajudi100 7 жыл бұрын

I admire these people, for being survivors. God bless everyone.

@DirkjeA 6 жыл бұрын

I hope if/when I get that old, I will have the same wisdom as Doris has. Such a sweet wise lady with a sense of humour that brightens up every bad day you can have. Someone asked if it was possible to adopt an elderly person, may be a joke, but the idea is really great. I know here in The Netherlands there are organisations that bring ppl together in that kind of way. People without children are matched with single parent families. It is called the grannyproject. The children get a nanna and the elderly woman get some sort of grandchildren, works great both ways.....

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

DirkjeA That's wonderful! I decided not to have children for many reasons and I was sad despite that that it meant I wouldn't have grandchildren. I would like to have "adopted" grandchildren if I live to be elderly while also helping a single parent. That would be a blessing for everyone.

@dottievillegas9122 6 жыл бұрын

DirkjeA love that idea.im a full time recluse.

@michellehitt1976 6 жыл бұрын

DirkjeA 😍😍

@brendar9363 7 жыл бұрын

Francis is a total contradiction. He's physically strong. Can go up and down the stairs with little effort. He talks about not laying down before it's your time, yet he's frank about trying to commit suicide. It seems his loneliness could be fixed so easily with some visits out to play cards, have meals. I think his issue is more anxiety and severe depression that's not being addressed and that's too bad because he looks like he could have some good years left in him.............and he's certainly not unattractive as he seems to think he is.

@warriorfortruth2838 7 жыл бұрын

i agree jsut needs to resocialise again

@michelledoyle1969 7 жыл бұрын

Brenda R exactly love i am an AIN & half of the time its isolation & pain that is the problem which leads to so many other things I love what she said dont carry your burdens give it to the Lord

@moogie4z 7 жыл бұрын

Brenda R I thought Hot water and household repairs first and the others should follow after, fix his House problems first!

@annalizapacana7031 7 жыл бұрын

Michelle Doyle What is AIN? Thanks

@laraoneal7284 7 жыл бұрын

Brenda R I agree. He's cute in his own way. These ladies are so cute. They are so sweet. I motivates me to possibly volunteer to visit the elders. There are so many needs.

@toriagiro9519 3 жыл бұрын

I love Dorris. she is so special and well spoken. ❤️❤️❤️

@marciajia9364 7 жыл бұрын

the eyes with full tears, the word sorry is not enough for me to feel about the documentary!

@emilytoole1524 7 жыл бұрын

elderly with low pensions must have fuel for free in winter!

@lesleylofthouse276 7 жыл бұрын

Emilia Ruiz olivas - I agree Emilia !

@wooddragonable 7 жыл бұрын

Emilia Ruiz olivas yes! this would be a wonderful petition.

@donaldderp1602 7 жыл бұрын

But, but what about the billionaires and their pockets??? Capitalism will not allow it.

@didirobert3657 7 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with that! I was surprised that England doesn't care for their elders better than that. I guess they're taking lessons from the US.

@wcstevens7 7 жыл бұрын

Emilia Ruiz olivas ..They prefer to give money to Asylum Seekers and freeloading ( so called ) Refugees.

@rottentomato8940 7 жыл бұрын

A fox in the lounge 😂😂 god love her eh.

@karenstrong8546 5 жыл бұрын

I’m quiet tearful watching this .. lovely souls .. all of them .. as for that daughter .. well words fail .. no matter the water that’s gone under the bridge .. bitterness is the most saddest of all emotions and she will be the one who bares it’s consequence.. because bitterness carries a heavy price .. always and without exception

@catladyoftroyn.y.8713 4 жыл бұрын

It's so real. One by one, we all go. Clearly, it's so hard to be lonely. Thank you for this story.

@unappreciatedtrap_queen7787 3 жыл бұрын

Oh I love Doris. Nothing gets passed her, the expression on her face when he asked why she won’t allow people in! Priceless! Good on her. God watch over her till u need her back.

@janrees4887 4 жыл бұрын

My grandmother is 98 and still lives mostly on her own. She's an amazing woman and she's always been an incredible woman.

@levimacdonald5188 5 жыл бұрын

Kitty sounds so sad when she's talking like shes crying 😔😔❤

@sushimaya5691 7 жыл бұрын

God bless all old people😇I am glad my grandparents and died with dignity and family around.

@lesleylofthouse276 7 жыл бұрын

Sushi Maya - yes mine too x

@misst.e.a.187 6 жыл бұрын

A blessing, and how it should be.

@MegaCaprice123 6 жыл бұрын

I like Kitty. Such a gracious lady. She’s not much older than me, but I admire her discipline towards life. She keeps herself well presented and her home is tidy. That must take a lot of effort on her part. I liked Francis and Doris, as well, but I can identify more with Kitty. God Bless them All, wherever they are.

@starbound6287 6 жыл бұрын

to tell u the truth I needed the wisdom that this wonderful older lady did depart to me,,im closing in at 67,,but have much to live for,,i needed her message greatly,,as she wished,,she blessed someone today,,thank u a million times,,

@ceciliahink6677 4 жыл бұрын

while the queen sits on her thrown,Do you believe God is not watching?People who are so wealthy and don't try to help people like these.People who fight with their last breath to stay strong and don't want to be a burden to anyone should be given help,however minor it might be.I bet 1of the Queen's hat has the value to keep a man warm during the winter.How can people bow to her.I don't even want to look at her wrinkled up old face,because everyone ages.God knows.Dosen't it say in the Bible,"The weak she'''ll inherit the earth".????? God Bless the queen Ha! Never.God bless these elderlies who keep fighting for 1 more day,on their own.These people would rather suffer than be a burden to anyone. I so regret not being there for my father because of wanting my son to have the good life.I can only pray for forgiveness everyday.

@raithigovender195 7 жыл бұрын

I'm watching an elderly poverty video at 4am.

@fauxmanchu8094 7 жыл бұрын

Raithi Govender It's now 4:22 a.m. in my neck of the woods and I'm watching this docu. Lol!

@laurenloveshere 7 жыл бұрын

Raithi Govender Same

@babysinblack8064 6 жыл бұрын

Me too... What am I really doing with my life

@leah8112 6 жыл бұрын

Raithi Govender me2

@Chris-zd2nl 4 жыл бұрын

Raithi Govender I’m also watching elderly poverty vid at 4.35am 2 years later how strange is that? 👀

@XWoodbineX 7 жыл бұрын

Despite what may or may not have happened in the past. He's still your father and it's disgusting that he went out of his way to try and find her number for halfway across the world, and she didn't even have the decency to just give him a quick phone call. I wonder if she even knows about the state he's living in? Poor Francis. He literally has no one 😞

@Signal_light_instructor 7 жыл бұрын

AvengedAmaranth36 what about fathers who rape thier children?

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

AvengedAmaranth36 You know nothing about his life or his children's life. You're not exactly on a plane to go save him. Despite your outrage, you're still doing absolutely nothing to help him or anyone like him and it's still a distant problem, far away from your life and you're far from being responsible. But outrage you have in abundance.

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

AvengedAmaranth36 Well, there are plenty of people out there who literally have no one.

@blancaw6280 7 жыл бұрын

30:49 No I can't text her because I haven't got a computer. So sad that his daughter didn't even bother to ring him back. 35:24 was pretty heartbreaking too. It must be so devastating for her to be trapped there with folks who are in horrible shape, slumped over in a wheelchair and she is still high function enough to know better.

@georginacat7667 7 жыл бұрын

Blanca W please consider why she didn't ring him back?? we don't know the situation the man may have been abusive... we can not judge his daughter

@blancaw6280 7 жыл бұрын

georgina cat You don't stop trying though. We don't give up on our kids and so they shouldn't give up on aging parents. If she doesn't want to do it then she at least can have somebody else who does it for her. I had a relative who was very difficult and could be mean but lived alone well in to her 90's. She was not friendly, she argued with people, she wouldn't ask for help and she didn't tell me when she needed things She just went without because she was too proud or "independent" to ask for help. She was very combative and embarrassing in public. When I would do things or buy things she would get mad, yell and scream and stomp her foot like a child. I didn't give up though. I did things behind the scene and let her believe she was independent. It was a thankless job but I did it anyways. I contacted neighbors and gave them my phone number and asked them to keep an eye on her. I brought food, arranged for senior services, made sure her yard was kept up and tried to get a cleaning service in. It was not easy but I can't imagine just forgetting about her and leaving her to fend for herself.

@blancaw6280 7 жыл бұрын

georgina cat Well if that were the case then she wouldn't have to worry at all because her father would be well taken care of in prison. There is nothing to indicate that this is the case here. Looks like this daughter is just a lazy, selfish hag.

@georginacat7667 7 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry that you have not be blessed with the ability to look deeper into something. No it does not mean he would be in prison at all. My father isn't in prison and he beat me.. he doesn't deserve prison he was just a shit dad... but he also does not deserve my support. This man may be innocent and his daughter may well just be a hag as you say but we don't have her side of the story to judge her

@11redlions 6 жыл бұрын

thing is bible is clear--if you do not forgive you will not be forgiven, and that is scripture, forgive all to begin healing, maybe the daughter is mentally challenged but in any case have the courage to return his call.

@didirobert3657 7 жыл бұрын

I want to hug every one of them. I just love little Doris, bless her heart. She was so funny talking about the foxes. I wish I could adopt all of them as my grannies and grandpa.

@katerineella274 4 жыл бұрын

Then do so. Or find elderly people in your community that you could visit and help out. That would be lovely for both sides. I know about this.

@ematlapeng1117 3 жыл бұрын

💔 God bless these people! The government should do much more to help the elderly regardless if they own their home or not. They are vulnerable 😔

@dorothymerrell6091 6 жыл бұрын

I feel so sorry for Francis, I can't imagine living without hot water, a bathtub or a kitchen. I think I'd die if i had to keep the heat off just to survive. It would be nice if someone would volunteer to do the repairs for him.

@Kyee71 7 жыл бұрын

Wonderful thank you, you can see how important independence and dignity is to everyone.

@huub1989 7 жыл бұрын

At 72 Francis should not be considered old. Too many elderly people live like this in the U.K., a sad reflection on that society.

@sarajohnson2928 6 жыл бұрын

He has chronic fatigue syndrome which will make anyone, no matter how athletic, energetic, and vital prior, feel like an 80 year old.

@BlackHearthguard 5 жыл бұрын

It's not just the UK, it's the same here in Australia. I've seen doccos from the US that speak to this problem as well. It seems to be a Western problem, many of us are content to warehouse our elderly, and generally only think of them infrequently, if at all.

@mummyp2609 4 жыл бұрын

72 isn’t really that old in their day and age but having an illness makes you ages a lot more than normal. You are lucky to reach old age without serious illness

@tandiparent1949 4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, it's the same way here in the United States too 😪

@heatherbowlan9822 7 жыл бұрын

thank you for this beautiful , so very inspirering , I so love old people , they can give so much nolage , if people could take the time to listen ,and love them ! Loved this documentary so very much , and will share with my family and friends , thanks again .❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦

@dlighted1277 6 жыл бұрын

Heather Bowlan "KNOWLEDGE", not "nolage". Work on your spelling.

@Linda-iw7bk 6 жыл бұрын

Stop being the spelling police, you and all of us know what she means, Shakespear couldn't even spell his own name spelt it 5 or 6 ways! It is God is great longing and desire to show us His true intentions toward us. Even if we cannot imagine how we can be helped, if we are trusting #God, we can have confidence and therefor have peace that He will not forsake us in hour of need. wordpress.com/view/cornerstonemontgomeryblog.wordpress.com CORNERSTONE MONTGOMERY - 7 Year Report More of 9 years of abuse, fraud and mismanagement at lydiagorbik.blogspot.com/

@LostLakeLass 6 жыл бұрын

Heather Bowlan maybe one of them can teach you to spell knowledge, lol

@nanabusterd 4 жыл бұрын

Dlighted 1 Maybe work on being a nice person.

@beardsgirl 4 жыл бұрын

When she said she's takes Kate moss fashion advice I could of cried shes so sweet, they are all amazing people who deserve the best ❤️

@consistentlyloyal8163 7 жыл бұрын

This is sad. I wonder where I would end up when I am old. I know elderly who have children and they are abandoned when they are old. It doesn't matter how may children they have.

@grammyd8361 4 жыл бұрын

I have been abandoned by my family. I have leukemia and diabetes to name a few illnesses and I haven't even been visited or called for 7 years by any of my family. In a way I am glad I am sick. I have a short expiration date and won't have to live in this pit of loneliness much longer. For that, I am blessed.

@quasimobius 4 жыл бұрын

Seriously, my mom's mom had seven children, all of whom she doted on and they all left her in a nursing home after a stroke. The worst of it was she fully recuperated, but they made her stay until she died...twenty years later. None of them treated her right. She didn't even fight the will when her husband left everything to her sons who went on to all be successful business owners. It's disgusting how they did so well and some didn't even contribute to her care. I'm deeply ashamed of how cold and heartless my mom's family treated their mom.

@annabelgrace1267 4 жыл бұрын

@@quasimobius That would include your mum too? I am sorry you had to see that or know about that.

@kathrynb4683 4 жыл бұрын

@@grammyd8361 You're not really alone. Jesus is always with you. My children are close by, but rarely reach out to me. Don't dwell on that. Get what joy you can out of each day. Keep kicking your feet up if only in your mind.

@jodykurt9935 4 жыл бұрын

I'm on my way to be considered elderly and I have 4 children. I watched and saw the examples of my parents taking care of their parents, so I did the same for my aged parents. Children learn by example so hopefully they will follow suit!

@babysinblack8064 6 жыл бұрын

Francis is adorable. And such a Greta quote "everyone should get a rehearsal" in regards to having a longer/second chance at life.

@daisy8284 7 жыл бұрын

These are all such special people. Good luck to them, and everyone.

@arleneosmond2474 7 жыл бұрын

if this does not make you cry you have no soul

@Julciaremix100 7 жыл бұрын

every time Kitty appeared I started crying

@nager1345 6 жыл бұрын

Kitty reminded me of a old lady in my village. Made me cry

@ordeliaordones2977 3 жыл бұрын

Its not about crying its about helping people around you be humble and be of service when posible

@daisy8284 7 жыл бұрын

I've been feeling old af at 37, but then I watched this doc and I feel like 👶🏼🐥🌱

@yaxifromeast1989 6 жыл бұрын

feeling old at 29

@artsyamy73 6 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Its good for us to watch and remember to be grateful and try to use the time we still have the right way😊

@thesouluniversal 6 жыл бұрын

not easy if you have a thyroid problem or other illness that wipes you out. Lots of younger people equally housebound with health problems, if ony there were some way to unite all the lonely people. Breaks my heart tbh.

@Heartbeat214 6 жыл бұрын

Age is relative. I remember feeling old at 18, lol.

@cgreen399 6 жыл бұрын

Daisy just think that if you were related one of the people in this documentary you would be likely their great grandmotherp

@btakesa 3 жыл бұрын

I am a 73 year old Australian and my Government looks after us very well. They will do everything in their power to keep you in your own home instead of going into a nursing home. I have nursing and carers that visit me 7 days a week and help tend to my needs and meals and it cost nothing. Aged care allows about $140 per day (7 days per week) to pay for nursing and repairs to house. I the have my aged pension of nearly $2000.00 per month to spend how I want. Free doctors and medication plus many reductions on power, gas, rates etc. Pensioners are looked after very well, but no system is perfect, but I am very very grateful that my last years are as good as they are.

@mariekrekora9958 6 жыл бұрын

Doris is so lovely, she is adorable, if she was my grandmother, we would have fun, go places, be silly.

@avalondreaming1433 6 жыл бұрын

Is it true that you had a fox in the sitting room? Well, so be it! Best line in the video.

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

AvalonDreaming Well, that and ‘right under the rhubarb’! Priceless!

@classicalmusic1175 6 жыл бұрын

What a fascinating watch. Elderly people like this have a totally different outlook on life. I guess it's a generation thing.

@StanSwan 3 жыл бұрын

You may think that now but we all have the same feelings. Some people find religion some curse it. It is a very unnatural thing to welcome death. It goes against our very own instinct for survival.

@celestaronin 3 жыл бұрын

They were the lucky ones fought wars and knew who side they were on, could see through the bullshit and everything was reasonably priced and they worked for it I wish I was one of them and didn’t have to live into the future BS that is coming!

@franceinegelven677 3 жыл бұрын

You will find old age is a cruel joke. Not only does your body attack u but u find the closest life long family n friends dropping off one by one. It hurts!

@susanmaguire9009 3 жыл бұрын

I do wish we legally would have the right to die.

@franceinegelven677 3 жыл бұрын

@@susanmaguire9009 SusN there r plAces in Europe and I thought here in US one state is coming Around. It’s hard isn’t it. No one knows how bad getting Older n older can be. Even society views us acually ignores us like we have no purpose. Only family n old friends can be saving grace.

@TabbyAngel2 7 жыл бұрын

Well I cried throughout this entire documentary... God bless them all..

@sallyviel671 3 жыл бұрын

I want to adopt dearest Doris... She's straight up. Bless her. Watching from Melbourne Australia

@estherday2239 6 жыл бұрын

I worked as a care assistant for (mostly) old people. there were some who I genuinely loved and it made me so sad how most of them lived such isolated lives

@donaldfeger91 4 жыл бұрын

Im 64 and handucapped in a wheelchair cant leave my apartment totally isolated-thank god I have a wonderful young lady checks on me-and I got cable tv

@ultraboombean 4 жыл бұрын

I am glad you have someone in your life 👍.

@judya.shroads8245 6 жыл бұрын

These lovely ppl have inspired me to do more in my early retirement frot with some lower disabilities in my legs. Just keep going, getting out and talking to ppl, having GOD and JESUS in my life. GOD BLESS

@breanne3267 4 жыл бұрын

Quarantine has me watching one documentary after another.

@wifemomteacherlife7648 4 жыл бұрын

That beautiful smile at the beginning just made my day! She’s a beauty!❤️

@TheresAnAngieAmongUs 7 жыл бұрын

Kitty i would love a Nan like her, she seems a very lovely woman. Francis seems to have just locked him self away i think hes depressed more than anything, Doris what a lovely charming lady, i feel so much for these elderly people, my Mom is 72 now and she lives alone but she has said when she gets unable to do things for her self would i move in? Yes of course i would i promised my Dad when he was dying i would look after her, sadly when my dad passed away he didn't know one of my twins was severely autistic but still wouldn't stop me caring for my Mom.

@allmightlionthunder5515 7 жыл бұрын

Doris wouldn't of let you she just let my mum help her ! from time to time. that is my mum in the shop !. I helped her across to the road salvation army i have helped other old ladies across the road to but she was the better one ! nice to talk to in the shop to. She is a golden angel and she is with God now sorry to say ! .

@grnpeepers2683 7 жыл бұрын

The Beyonder Wow! Thank you for sharing that little story. Although I'm saddened to hear she passed, I'm glad to know she's at peace & is an angel for God now. Bless her soul. And yours too! Happy Easter🐰🌷🕊️

@eddenoy321 6 жыл бұрын

Grn Peepers Doris looked like a tough old bird,remaining independent as long as she could.

@chrisfry436 6 жыл бұрын

"First time should be a rehearsal"......HALLELUJAH!!!

@Jon212Farrand 3 жыл бұрын

I love and feel my heart break at the same time watching this. Also while contemplating my own life at 40 and I’m not far off from theirs!?! Scary!

@mi5tyfy 4 жыл бұрын

I would hope that the film makers paid these folks for their parts in the documumentary. .

@beverlyfeldman6080 4 жыл бұрын

i just wrote the same thing. seems we are the only enlightened two.

@MeadowDay 4 жыл бұрын

Geez..what would it take!...a days plumbing and that guys life would be changed...so much money..all in the wrong hands 😢

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

Marisa Lopez I would hope so too, but I think that it is nothing but a hope. Something tells me that they were again exploited. Maybe they got a break in their last few years.

@TheSully1961 6 жыл бұрын

..i can relate to Frank/Francis going thru personal problems, depression, thoughts of suicide/suicide attempts and isolation. also, Kitty - who went thru a near-death situation due to anxiety caused by neighbors. but i still try to smile and keep a sense of humor like Doris. she also was not going to make it and prefers to live alone. life is short and its not worth it when you try and try to reach out to others but to no avail. that's me.....(and yes Doris, you were a blessing for me today - wherever you are).

@Julciaremix100 7 жыл бұрын

amazing one! i think the best one I've seen. It's very touching and it just makes you think. Great one!

@bethl1583 7 жыл бұрын

Getting ready to turn a young 55, yet feeling "old" due to spine injury of 12+ yrs and several other life threatening medical issues. She give me hope! :)

@jimferguson7503 3 жыл бұрын

A sad reminder of how lonely and impoverished aging can be for many people. Makes you wonder about humanity and our existence on this Planet.

@markmcknight2467 3 жыл бұрын

I just adore Doris! What a sweet, lovely old bird! I hope to retain my humour, energy and positive outlook exactly like her as I move into my closing years. We should all hope for that! How could anyone treat her negatively? She is trying her best not to depend on anyone and she is doing a remarkable job. Take care of yourself Doris. You have a big fan in Birmingham Alabama United States 🇺🇸!

@belsbling114 4 жыл бұрын

I watched this just now and what a lovely lady Doris is and Kitty. I felt so sorry for the gentleman without a bath or a kitchen sink. I so hope three years after this documentary that he is ok and had some sort of help

@chingchingdarling1070 4 жыл бұрын

Kitty is so sweet, so gentle, has a kind heart and a good sense of humour. She looked so beautiful on her wedding day, it's sad she never had children for she would of been a wonderful mother! Doris spoke many wise words, a lesson to us all. There should be more help avaliable for Francis just to have his basic needs let, but he doesn't make a fuss. This was filmed 7 years ago does anyone have an update how they all are?