I cry when people tell me to dance, simply because my friends in 4th grade told me my dancing is weird lol. I’m pretty sure it’s not a normal behaviour, but I do panic when I have to dance. It’s like a blocked ability I have yet to unlock again.

Num num num num num Delicious nerd rhetoric~ My brain was practically mush by the time I got around to trying to look into Omnia’s source article, so it’s so nice to have someone more qualified on the subject break it down in an easy-to-digest format. Thank you for that~

I think the worst part of it is that one of the scholarly sources they used was out of date and was from 2013. 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

Terminology aside, "Drama" CAN legitimately be traumatic in itself. There are so many ways where stress responses can flourish, whether that is a result of worry caused by a particular event or personal experiences.

Thank you for clearing up the misinterpretations without turning this into drama, as someone who just wants to teach. Also, your character designing in the art is lovely.

I love this. I know Peaches tried to explain why what Omnia said was bad, but this actually breaks it down with just the research sources.

I'm glad you're speaking about this-over the years, I questioned whether I was "actually" traumatized or not because I don't have PTSD symptoms. I don't get vivid flashbacks and there isn't really one singular event that affected me because my trauma is the result of having an unstable environment throughout my entire life. Maybe this could be classified as C-PTSD, but it still doesn't feel quite right.

I am glad you uploaded this because it's very meaningful that you educate people on truma you definitely don't know what people are going through. It takes you knowing someone to understand if they really are or not.

As someone who has PTSD after being groomed online, I am so thankful you touched upon this subject! Not only because too little people understand the nuances of trauma and often mistake it as being interchangeable with PTSD, but also because I sometimes forget myself that trauma is different - mostly because most of my trauma is surrounding the subject of my PTSD, so the lines often become blurred. I also really appreciated your mention that PTSD can come from a variety of things, other than just the most commonly cited causes, because I've had people say to me and my family that I couldn't possibly have PTSD because "it happened online, so therefore they couldn't have actually hurt you"

Thank you for this! I’m autistic and have had C-PTSD since a young age (only recently diagnosed), and mental health treatment in my country is pretty shit, so I’m pretty much a dissociated zombie that will go into psychosis over things that other people would be able to brush off easily. I have been friends with people who went through similar objectively high stressors that were super traumatic for me, and they just thought it was pathetic that it affected me, because it didn’t affect them. This really helped me understand things better, because them looking down on me really made me feel as if I was just overreacting. It helps to hear that trauma/(C-)PTSD is not an objective response, but varies from person to person :)

I've always felt like most people assume trauma has to be like "Hollywood veteran diving under a table during a fireworks show" or something. A lot of people don't believe my dad has PTSD from the military (admittedly something he doesn't bring up a lot) since he doesn't "act like it"

I really enjoyed this too as someone who studied mental health as well ( special education degree) & who is very passionate about mental health too! This approach (the stress continuum) seem much more inclusive & I think that would be beneficial to everyone who needs help with their trauma to be helped for it instead of ignored just because they don't have PTSD. Also that character looks very promising :D Can't wait to hear about them ^^

To answer Why the name change? I got two possibilities. 1) availability- because the studies can become available to the public, there is a chance the language will be changed to suit a majority than the minority. A baby step into a big,complicated topic basically. 2) literature- the change can be used as a repeat so the brain can remember the topic and title better. Basically it rhymes and makes it easier to be remember and look up if the person wants another look as a fresh up or to cite later. Yes, this was a tiny part in a bigger video but that itched at my brain and wanted to try and get a think train going.

I had a traumatic experience in very late 2018. Though I only believe my symptoms were severe enough to meet DSM-5-level PTSD criteria for the first two months, they continued to interfere with my life for another year and a half. I can still get triggered now, but it happens much more rarely. But, I thought, nothing had physically happened to me. It would be insulting to consider my experience comparable to that of real victims and survivors. I had no right to make a fuss. Getting triggered couldn't be genuine, it had no right to be genuine when nothing had really happened. And yet my body would lock up painfully and my heart would race and my tongue would go dry and then I would cry for hours after a man passed me at a bus stop at night. Those first two months were made so much harder than they needed to be because every night I would get hysterically upset thinking that I had to be making myself upset on purpose. The guilt and paranoia I felt about "trying to pretend I had PTSD" made each symptom so much harder to manage or work through. It took, one year later on the trauma anniversary, finally experiencing a sensory flashback and dissociating so badly that I couldn't feel my face for hours for me to confess that I was having these problems to my therapist. Only then did the symptoms start going away. Situations can affect people in different ways. Traumatic symptoms can be caused by experiences you wouldn't necessarily expect, and even a relatively minor trauma is worthy of compassion and healing.

Very educational on this subject. People, like me, needs to understand the difference between trauma and drama. And basically understand more on difference mental illness aside from PTSD and other things like that

i hate drama. it’s annoying because some boy in my primary(basically elementary)school, some boy created drama with ME in the center ‘for fun’. everyone was against me and he spread rumors about me, even destroying a gift from my aunt. i *loathe* him. now, i am friends with my former enemies, but that event will *never* leave my memories. one of one of my former enemies used to be my friend *before* the drama, and she absolutely stabbed me in the back. she called me annoying and a popular girl (who was friends with her at the time) said my fringe (bangs) looked like cheetos. i now wear a headscarf or wear my hair down because that time i had my hair in a bun. i am muslim, and i forgave them. to this day, i cannot believe that happened. -bakura

My ex touched my butt, tried to fetishize me, and made me uncomfortable by kissing my head and the like. This happened a year and a half ago but about 6 months back I started processing what really happened and I broke down and started lashing out at said person (who I still talked to due to his manipulative tactics such as talking about suicide and depression) I'm not sure if that was a trauma response but I feel bad saying it was trauma at all because I didn't React in the moment.

Moral if the story. You cannot know the feelings of another person or how thier experiences affect them. Also if you are only conducting research on the subject in order to "prove they arent traumatized so its ok the bash and criticize them" you need to re-evaluate your intentions. And finally if you are going to use research to back up your points in an argument you should at least read the entire article you're citing, and if you have, avoid only picking out the parts that support your point of view.

I don't usually talk about this, but I'm pretty sure I have a traumatic experience from when I was in 6th grade. I was surrounded by a group of larger kids, and they were making fun of me for my emotional reactions towards things. Now, I can get anxiety from people going into my room or just generally my personal space, and in some cases when more than one person starts arguing with me at once, I get extremely aggressive. I'm glad people have been talking about trauma more because of the situation, that's one positive from all the drama ^^' educating people is important, and I'd say this has made me realize more about myself in the process

This is easily the best criticism of Omnia’s video I’ve seen. (One of the few I thought was actually good, TBH.) In addition to all your in-depth explanations, I really appreciate how clear you are about specifying that the model you’re using is purely theoretical and that things might be different in practice. Too many responses to Omnia’s video were taking a very absolutist perspective, despite criticizing Omnia for supposedly doing the same thing. I actually think Omnia was trying to be theoretical rather than absolute with their use of “tends to be,” rather than “has to be,” but because their sources and interpretations of those sources were still relatively limited, it came off like they were just making unfounded generalizations. The truth is that, as anyone who has been insulted will tell you, words matter and every commentator has a responsibility to be clear in their explanations. This isn’t about “tone,” so much as it is about being able to identify what the actual issue with the source material is, what are issues based on personal individual interpretation of the source material, and the ability to recognize and communicate the difference. Again, I really appreciate how clear and specific you are in this video both about Omnia’s points, and in your breakdown of their source material. It’s super refreshing after so many videos that were just some version of, “my trauma didn’t perfectly fit Omnia’s subjective generalizations which I interpreted as absolute statements because I was traumatized, therefore Omnia bad.” (And this is coming from someone dealing with CPTSD who thought Omnia’s video was harmful.)

My father grabbed me by my neck after finding my self harm and told me ,,that isn t mutilation.I will mutilate you" And my mom would classify that as drama

holy shit thank you for talking about this, i've barely seen anyone actually talking about this (i have way more issues with omnia, like the dollieguts and hopelesspeaches situation. they didn't even apologize for the dollieguts situation, they just swept it under the rug) my respect for you has shot up tenfold

Okay, other than the fact that this video is very well conceived and easy to understand for someone who knows little to nothing about trauma, can I just say that your art is gorgeous and acts as a constant reminder that I am a hopeless lesbian

I did 4 years on a swim team during high school and 1 year after at a public park. It wasn't something I really liked. I liked 2 swim....like, normal swim. But my mom talked me into it....only she would never let me quit in the years 2 follow. The coach wasn't nice and was SUPER pushy. I never got along with any of the other girls because they have ZERO personal boundaries and I'm not down 2 hug someone I barely know While PRETTY MUCH naked. It was exercise, nothing more, but no one ever LET ME decide that for myself. I always had 2 be "a team player or leader" because I was the fasted in my lane, but not the others. By 4th year I grew 2 resent and loath practice the same way any HS kid hates homework. I had felt this way b4 in Band. I like jazz, but that didn't mean I wanted 2 play trumpet. Swim team was the same as Band, only worse. Then after graduating, my mom signed me up for a summer public pool thing....and I did that....SUPER early in the morning while the water was ice cold. In the 6-7 years after, I couldn't even ENJOY going 2 the pool like I always had b4. I couldn't bare being in the water splashing around for more than 15 mins. I just didn't want ANYTHING 2 do with pools [ANY POOL] even tho I had once loved it. It's been 10 years and I'm actually able 2 do a full 40-60 mins again, but I still have nightmares about it sometimes and it's something I never forgot.

I could say that I have some trauma with abandonment mostly because my mom always was a perfectionist with and prohibited me to do anything that wasn't totally selfless and lady-like, I loved her and she loved me and then she left me with my aunt and grandma and every other relationship I had it has been exactly like that and thanks to that everytime I do something good I feel the need to do something wrong to not get abandoned, or maybe I give them everything but I steal something from them just to make sure they stay so.. I think I can say I have experienced something a little bit similar to trauma

I feel like drama is just the wrong word for that article. I didn't read it, but drama isn't a clinical word, it's a social experience and I feel like it can definitely overlap with trauma whether the drama be because of a trauma response or be the actual cause of trauma. But I think the word adversity is better. But drama is just overreacting to something to cause a social disrupt, it's dramatic, or it ties in with the other use of the word to describe theater and is acting. Is it trauma or drama sounds like a pointless question to me. But I'm not an expert.

This was so interesting! I love how you were able to explain this topic in an engaging and interesting way. I would love to see more educational videos like this from you in the future. You would make a great teacher 🥰💕

I accidentally pressed the notifaction but woah i'm glad i did!

Aaa ive been waiting for u to make this video since ur trained w physiology and you would know a lot about this!!

All of this basically boils down to “people might experience/see trauma differently, and that’s okay” and that’s actually a good message!

I despise people who think drama and trauma are completely separate. What many would call “drama” added SEVERELY to the trauma I already had, and caused me to spiral for months to a severe degree. It may be due to me already having a CPTSD diagnosis so I have a lot of trauma already, but drama ABSOLUTELY adds to trauma, as usually it’s inherently traumatic.

I would love to see you explaining more scientific articles, and more videos about your mental health knowledge :)

honestly i can appreciate that this video isnt so much an opinion piece but more an "expert perspective" for lack of a better term. any youtuber can give their critical opinion of the entire deal hell even i could as a commenter but very few can give perspective of people who are seriously working with things such as this. even as someone who stays updated on new research its easier to read simpler articles that simply discuss the findings than the research paper itself lmao.

I don’t often comment but I wanted to do two things really quick: 1. I am not old enough or have enough education to have any sway in this conversation but I am in therapy for my own trauma and illnesses and love to do as much research on my own as I can so I feel I can at least comment on this. The way you described trauma throughout this video is very believable and I feel the truest thing I’ve heard to how trauma affects people. I am not nearly the only person I know who has trauma but this is exactly why we shouldn’t compare trauma to see who’s is “worse”. Everyone responds to things differently and we should all learn to be more understanding and aware of this. 2. I wanted to at least try to help promote this in the algorithm, more people should see this.

Dancing should be a fun but no one should feel pressured or judged by the way they dance as long as they're having fun. I try my best to encourage others to dance when they want without making them feel bad about how "weird" it looks and sometimes people who have had others say that their dancing looks weird have had trouble with other's judgment and lack of knowledge about how these things may affect others. That type of experience especially in front of a bunch of people can put emotional and physical stress on them then they'll develop a fear of being judged by other's based on things that should be fun and enjoyable.

I knew something felt off to me about the article when they first brought it up in their original video, so them having misinterpreted it makes a load of sense.

I continue to hold the belief that one's response is the bigger factor in discerning trauma than the stressor itself. I have went through traditionally traumatising things (grooming) and walked out just fine and because of that I don't believe that it's part of my trauma. However I have gone through traditionally dramatic things (cyber bullying) but it completely changed me. I don't talk the same, think the same, act the same. It's something relatively small that everyone goes through nowadays and yet it shakes me up so much because of tiny details that were too personal to me. So I consider this part of my trauma, along with near-death experiences because it has the same effect regardless of its severity. I think it's dumb to draw harsh lines between trauma and drama if those lines are solely based on the type of stressor. Anything can be traumatic but not everything is trauma. If you really want to draw hard lines between the two, it is vital that you draw them based on the response to the event.

god i love psychology its just so interesting how many things can affect the human brain and its so complex and i find it very interesting to see sometimes i wanna just look in someones brain and see what happened i wanna see the upbringing what brought them to their conclusions but thats very loosely related to the video

Honestly I have a lot of trauma around people just not believing me. Like I would lie once and then they never believed a thing I said again. Of course that sounds like nothing bit it's lead me down a path of constantly trying to validate my claims with "hard evidence" even if its something simple. People who don't believe me no matter what I say send me into a complete panic and I will desperately try to prove that I'm indeed not lying. It's seems like nothing (drama) but I've literally spiraled into mental breakdowns over it (trauma)

I think you explained the article in an easy to understand way for people who get a bit confused by scholarly articles like this (myself included lol). The example you gave cleared up some of the fancy yet mind-twisting explanations used in the article. I wouldn't mind you made more video's analyzing articles on subjects similar to this one. You could hear your interest/enthusiasm in your voice and that made continuing listening even more pleasant! 💜

Slightly off topic, but whomever that girl is that you drew, she is gooooorgeooooous

Thank you for putting your input into this!! I think I’m gonna ask more questions about omnia’s video to my psychiatrist because it kinda confused on my perspective on my own trauma and if it’s wrong for me to classify as such. I really appreciate your effort to educate us, thank you a whole lot again! 🙏🙏

I'm glad you posted this, I couldn't stomach Omnia's entire video, even with other creators posting critique videos, so I'm glad someone is talking about the articles she quoted

I appreciate the thorough break of the article Omnia used and how it actually goes against what they were saying and was written as a response the exact issue of trauma being defined in such a narrow and exclusionary fashion. I also appreciate how you corrected the idea of this being a heavily critiqued article by the scientific community. Researching scientific articles can seem really daunting and inaccessable to people who don't know much about how to look for or anazlyze these papers, so I'm really glad you took the innotiative to explain this to others. I can tell by the way you discuss these research papers (and know to check for references and meta-analyses, which is often overlooked by the average person) that you have a solid understanding of the academic field. As a psych graduate myself, I think it's important people who have experiencing working with, reading, and analyzing scientific papers work to make sure that they are being used correctly when people reference them. Far too many times have I seen someone site an article that--like Omnia--goes against their point but have no one speak out and correct it because they have no experience with critically analyzing these kinds of papers. Anyways, good work! You've definitely earned a subscription from me, and as a fellow nerd I would love to see more videos like this where you discuss the academic literature around specific subjects~

Holy… I had allostatic overload, thank you I finally found the meaning and word behind me throwing up and loosing ability to my legs, thank you

I really enjoy how you drew the full body pose, specifically the hand on the hip! it looks very natural and not stiff =)

Like Omnia, I have a very average knowledge of this subject and I didn't know how complex it is, even though I had traumatic experiences and even physical symptoms because of all the stress I went through. But I didn't even think about it when I was watching their video, I think this would be mistake I would do too, so I am kind of glad all of this happened. Also I think we in academia have a problem with language, scientific articles can almost inaccessible to the average person that aren't a academic. I have been studying in university for three years and some articles are still difficult to real for me, mainly because I have ADHD. Thank you for this video, it's very insightful! (Sorry if the comment is confusing, English isn't my first language)

OH MY GOD? YOUR NAME IS CALLIMARA

I'm pretty sure I have some type or level of trauma, I can barely remember my childhood, things that I should remember aren't remembered. I remember only a few things and whenever I try to remember there are a lot of unpleasant experiences. I barely remember my 6 years of highschool too. And I know who I feel defensive towards without knowing why.

I have very few memories from 2016 to 2020-2021, because of how my sister treated me. I’m not joking. I genuinely don’t remember what happened in those years. Well, 2020 was its own monster for reasons not related to COVID. The few memories I do have aren’t related to any of those things. But even though I don’t know what really happened then, I don’t really want to know. I’d rather not remember what she said. I just know she was not doing too well and took it out on me.

I like the concept art for the cat aegis holder. She looks amazing! Also, congrats on being a nurse!

From what you sumariced and explains here, I think I like the general view point of the article quiet a bit. I like my parents, but even they hit me with the ocetional "I don't understand what's wrong with your generation, people like me had it way worse " before, so I generaly dislike the notion of judging someones trauma/condiciona by what coused them. I think that's why I like the idea of judging it based on what reaction came from said causes. A sort of...focus mote on the result, not on the equation kind of way. I just finished my training to work in child care, and one thing we learned about was a childs resilience. Basically, as explained here in germany, a childs ability to bounce back from things that could be emotionaly or psychologicaly damaging for the child. The goal here by was not to look at what things count as damaging for the child, but at how the child reacts individually to things in his surounding so we can better find a way to help it and raise his natural resilience to deal with those things. I feel like this article had a similar kind of view, if that makes sens. (Sorry, I'm sometimes really terrible at explaining my thought process xD )

i couldn't agree with the article more. from an outsider looking in, my experiences wouldn't amount up to be 'real' trauma, even though since that jumping off point of my mental health declining ive been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, adhd and bdd, ive been addicted to self harm for years, im still to this day very ill and whenever the topics from which my trauma derives from i feel all the color drain from me and i cant think or breathe or just function for that matter. but i guess its not trauma because its not this very specific set of circumstances? its just crazy and super invalidating

Holy cow this was WAY more in depth then I thought a video could go! Blown away by how good of a job you did here!

I think its well written, yet inaccurate. For instance: the example of going homeless yet finding another roof to put over your head is actually my mothers experience. She had No Choice but to compartmentalize and function. She had no ability to break down or we would both be homeless, have offed ourselves, or something worse or in-between. I do not believe that in any way that manages to invalidate the traumatic experience that was for me but ESPECIALLY her. Having to stay strong and force yourself to cope and hope and create backup plans for someone else removes the option to break down. Like adrenaline altering a mothers strength for a time in return for soreness or agony.

What is your opinion on the article on a scholarly level? As for the articles title I believe it was picked to attract more readers. Personally I think the stress continum model has a lot of validity in concept especially in regards to continuous stressors.

This was very interesting! I never really dive into this type of stuff, but I understood everything, so props to you for wording it so well!

HOW DARE I BE 2 MONTHS LATE?!?! I didn't even know about the video. I have had Austim since I was like 9 months old/practically a newborn baby. I don't even remember when my symptoms started, but I've had Austim for the whole 14 years I've been alive. But great video! Edit: Im pretty sure my mom has ADHD. Again, great video.

great video! seriously, you explained everything great! keep it up!

Awesome and cool! ^^

Wasn't expecting a video like this, hey, I'm a fan, so I watch :P

I have trauma with art....😥 I used to draw and create whatever but now I can't cus I hear the enemy laughing at me every single damn time I pick up a pencil.

I was skeptical about their definition of trauma and when other people were bringing the video up, I speculated that what they did was potentially gaslighting in a sense of invalidating someone’s struggles and trauma, which led the person dealing with them to question their mental state. It made me wonder if their previous relationship had something to do with influencing their mindset about what trauma is. Do they not know that trauma can come from drama too?? Is it really just drama when it’s affecting someone to the point it negatively impacted their mindset and mental state and affecting them physically as well? Wait, was there a time that Omnia got pressed about people spreading lies or misinformation or cherry-picking info about them, because if so… **hissing inhale and idk what I would call that sound associated with reacting to yikes moments** that’s a big yikes they did.

Calli could you continue your series where you talk about artists you like?

This is a very very well done video but when I was watching man did it feel like I was back in college English class lol

Wildward part 2 please

I never knew you were Australian. Nice to find out a favourite channel is an Australian like me.

Yeah, I think the article is pretty good. It really meshes well with my experiences.

WILDWARD part 2 please

Beautiful. :D

Hey callimara I love your videos and l sub. 🙂

Is it okay if you could do a rewrite and redesign on the character Disapro from Winx Club?

Could ya maybe do resigns and some rewrites of characters from ‘Amphibia’ and ‘The Owl House’

As a fellow academic and someone who’s also recently received their BS (in Biochemistry) and is a research scientist currently (tho not in psychology) your video was extremely refreshing! I love seeing a fellow nerd and artist analyzing this type of content! 🥰🫶🏻

You're so cool ya nerd!

anyone: *spreads misinformation on MH* Calli: "That's a paddling"

I just want to share something that I feel should be heard. (Idk if this is trauma. I have not talked to anyone really about this a much less a professional) I went to public school years preschool to grade 5 (I was homeschooled after 2020) I went to school in Florida. In Florida our end of year test(s) is called the FSAs (Florida state tests) I never made it to the fifth grade FSAs (the only good thing to come of that pandemic) but years 3-4 I did. We had 2 hours for the tests. In grade 3 we did a reading/English test, and a math test, in grade 4 we also got a writing test. I am autistic tho I did not know it back then. My school would have people from the school broad come and “prepare us” for the tests throughout the month leading up to it. They would basically tell us that if we didn’t get a 100% on it our life’s would be over. We would be held back, never get to high school, have the worst job ever (if we were lucky), and would be a disappointment. I’m not even joking they literally told 9 year olds that our lives would be ruined if we even got one question wrong. As soon as I heard this I panicked. I was up all night every day for almost 2 weeks. That was the first time I ever had panic attacks. I was convinced I would literally die (my family tried their best to help me) I ended up making my self physically ill some days. For some context even though I was the youngest in my class and got all As and Bs and there was actually no way to hold me back unless my parents agreed to it (which they would never) I ended up running out of time to finish my reading test. I’m actually a pretty good reader I can read 15 thousand words in 15 minutes and I read Harry Potter and the cursed child in grade 5. But I was told to be reading a grade below my reading level because in failed the test. English had always been my favorite and best subject but I began to not like reading because of that one failed test. Those days are a blur. I honestly only remember the panic and before test candies my wonderful teachers would give out. I don’t think I could ever fully remember those days even just typing this difficult and I feel a panic attack threatening. Looking back I’m not upset at myself I still feel panic anytime I even think about the possibility of having to do that again. I feel something should be done about this. And to anyone out there who can relate I’m honestly sorry. Please know that you are not alone. I hope you never get the extreme anxiety I developed from it. I would suggest looking into homeschool and trying to figure out if you have some sort of disability (you get extra time if you do or at least you can in Florida). I would normally never suggest using a disability to get something but I only recently found out that I’m autistic and my brother has multiple learning disability’s and is also nerodivergent. Anyways I hope this helped someone or that you learned something from this.

I loved your video 💕

Since you mentioned it Would be cool if you made a video on your thoughts on Omnia's apology

quick question: why did callimara change their youtube name? sorry if they already covered it in another video, I haven’t checked this channel in a while.

i’m waiting for wildword...

Calimara I have a question, In the 12th my friend was with her aunt and they were walking and then my friend started to shake like in fear or something her aunt saw what happened and said she was shaking and fell (her aunt is young so she didn't know what to do and her sister was married in a young age and gave birth so this story is true I am not lying) Her aunt said she had a panic attack but My sister said it couldn't be bc my friend did faint and she was in the floor and the police came and also an ambulance, the doctor said it was a huge or big panic attack or something but tbh I still don't know if it really is a panic attack. If you have answers pls tell me bc I still have no clue. (Again this happened in the 12th and this is not a lie.

Ok did anyone else notice the cat aegis? I can’t be the only one.

First 10 seconds and I already love it 🤣🤣 exactly you don’t! Thank you!

Just a question but can we have fixing Nathalie sancour I love your content but we got good looking Gabriel so we should get Nathalie!

I remember Omnia saying in their original video that a fight with your parents as "just drama." That honestly struck me a little too hard for my own good. Before I moved out, I had near weekly arguments and fights with my mom. None of them serious, all of them petty and every single one ended in me having a full-blown mental breakdown. My dad even joined in the fights and caused a few. My sister would never hear me out or would shrug them off as "just drama," ignore the very clear and very unhealthy reactions to each fight, my screaming, crying, running out of my home, huddling into a ball whilst hyperventilating, etc. She never budged or cared and actively made the problem worse. My brother and fiance were the only ones who could calm me down, but it was exhausting. If you looked at the situation as just "I get into fights with my family," then I would say it's just dramatic, but combined with the added context of the frequency of which they happen, how they escalate, my clear inability to defend myself during these fights without being put down, my extreme reactions that are clear TRAUMA responses, and my underlying and undiagnosed mental illnesses, it shows that these seemingly "dramatic," arguments cause deeper damage than any of the participants can even understand. Omnia lacks a critical understanding of context due to a lack of critical thinking skills. This is something I've observed from years of watching their content, this is not an isolated occurrance. They made this mistake with dollieguts/Dreamalgia, MadLibbs and Nezziemonster, Tobii, Hopeless Peaches, the videos discussed here and even their artwork. They get criticism for their mistakes, apologize, but turn around and keep making the same errors, showing they haven't learned anything. It's a pattern of behavior at this point and their inability to take accountability and learn is just annoying and I can't comprehend why this hasn't been addressed.

I made it

sounds like they were scambling for something that backup what were saying without really considering how the citation her intital claim. I think Omnia started to realize how her video was digging herself a bigger hole.

i love ur health

EARLY!!

Yooooo SPIIICEEE??,

Nothing wondering if a shitty thing that happened in your past is traumatic or if you're just trying to make it traumatic because calling it traumatic makes your suffering feel more valid.

Hii

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*my omnisexual a$! reading Omnia as Omni:* my sexuality has trauma?

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Early!

I don’t have any repose when you bring up my trauma but does it still count then? Here’s what happened: I was really young playing with my cousin in the house,playing tag,and we were having fun but then I fell on the glass table and I started to cry I then I saw blood coming through my eye and what I was told was I went to the hospital and I had to get stitches and surgery everything is fine now and I don’t care when people talk about so does it count as trauma?

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