Hey P&M Fam! Comment what you thought of this video and the views we shared. Also, comment any encouragement you have for those who might be unsure or struggling in this area :) Watch pt 2! ‘What We Did Together/How Much Time Spent?’ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ZrR1nbtqmp2rdYk.html
@Jessie200325 жыл бұрын
Yay for 100k subscribers 🎉🥳 love this , I certainly agree with boundaries while dating it’s so important to keep ourselves right and pure. Holding hands and side hugs I think are ok. The rest is to wait till marriage.
@machaelaailene5 жыл бұрын
I like where you are coming from and the need to stay pure. However, I think that it is also best to go over your love languages in that topic as well. For me, I needed that physical touch and affection to feel loved by my now husband. And not in a sexual way but in more of a "I'm telling you I love you" kind of way. Holding hands, hugging, and maybe some kissing with limits (if they can exercise self control). Otherwise, I would have wondered if he truly loved me. Obviously making sure that lines are not being crossed. But that's just my opinion and what I know that I needed in that time to feel his love towards me.
@elizabethesch8755 жыл бұрын
I love this series so much! I am so thankful to know that I'm not the only one who holds these values!
@user-kc2us5lc4s5 жыл бұрын
You're my best
@Reason_Breathing5 жыл бұрын
This is coming from love and in hopes that future videos might be even better. Thank you for allowing The Sovereign to use you. One suggestion, bro, your shirt was a huge distraction simply because of how open and expository it was. Message was strong, but simple things like that can be a stumbling block for a brother or sister in Christ. Maybe just buttoning it up a little more. Thanks again for being bold and letting Daddy use you both and your experiences to help others! Take care!
@hopep83715 жыл бұрын
“It’s okay if you look different from the world!” Amen, sister!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
🙌❤️
@flowerpower3618 Жыл бұрын
Preferable. The world is ugly
@hirtzlifechristianblogs92855 жыл бұрын
Someone once told me that....Some people think, “I want to be ‘free’ to do what I want, so I don’t want boundaries. I want freedom.” BUT that’s not freedom at all. God gives us boundaries so we can experience TRUE freedom: free from guilt, shame, etc. Boundaries=living in real freedom. Thanks for sharing Paul and Morgan! Great stuff!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Amen that’s right on! Thanks for sharing!
@yasmine90465 жыл бұрын
Amen! Such a great comment :)
@daniellewoodard41135 жыл бұрын
Amen! That is so true
@brandonburrell85175 жыл бұрын
@@chesssean Interesting. I never knew the words.
@Will-ev3pc4 жыл бұрын
So true. We can see that with driving. If everyone is following the laws and guidelines for driving, then no one gets hurt. However it is when people go beyond those rules that tragedy happens. Getting tboned by a drunk driver as you cross an intersection, ignoring the speed limit and losing control of the vehicle ending up at the bottom of a cliff, and many other scenarios. The day that we stop having rules and guidelines to protect us is the same day that tragedy will strike powerfully.
@jazzyrobot5 жыл бұрын
A phrase that always sticks with me is: 'It's not the weak man who falls, but the man who thinks he's strong.' You're so right that we''re probably weaker than you think! But if we recognise that we're weak, we can put the boundaries in place, like you're always saying, so that we don't fall! I like that you guys present such a 'strict' model because it normalises the desire for purity and makes us feel stronger in our pursuit. Be blessed!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
jazzyrobot amen! Thanks for sharing 😊
@nikitagabrielle97335 жыл бұрын
Morgannnn I can't get over how beautiful you and your hair is😍😍😍😭😭
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Nikita Gabrielle aweee😊❤️
@estheraruka63745 жыл бұрын
I loved it when Morgan said that if there is a difference in stsndards, the couple is better off taking the higher ones.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Esther❤️
@tracymonique41595 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm still a single Pringle. I'm a young 19 year old girl in college waiting for someone special to come along. Your videos have helped me learn what to expect and how to make the most out of a relationship one day
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Tracy Monique awe so glad to hear that😊❤️
@hblane15 жыл бұрын
Tracy Monique haha girl same
@josephinamonique70245 жыл бұрын
Same girl sameee
@abigailinmissions5 жыл бұрын
Same here girl! Waiting patiently, they help prepare me for sure
@journeywithshemaiahmills67175 жыл бұрын
I’m a single boy let’s talk
@ronaldlucindamartin87844 жыл бұрын
Just for encouragement... we have been married almost 5 years... when we were dating, we didn’t hold hands, kiss or even intentionally touch each other. IT WAS SO WORTH IT!! Our wedding night and honeymoon were the ultimate high point where we got to do EVERYTHING! I can not recommend it enough.. hard? Yes. Worth it??? A million times YES! Having ZERO regrets was so worth it!
@emilymeyers6069 Жыл бұрын
Woah
@skybishop55965 жыл бұрын
I watched a message by Steven Furtick the other day and he said, "Your habits create the condition of your heart." You can't expect to have a pure heart while falling into habits of kissing early and things like that. It's so important to guard our hearts!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Sky Bishop that’s a good word!
@elishajacobs80265 жыл бұрын
Steven Furtick is one of my favorite pastors to listen to. I love his sermons. What sermon was this that you listened to?
@skybishop55965 жыл бұрын
Elisha Jacobs I believe it was titled "Three Habits of a Healthy Heart"😊😇
@yesvember114 жыл бұрын
Hugs and hand holding do not need to be sexualized, just saying
@NyanHomeschoolGirl174 жыл бұрын
Yesss so true, touch can be used to communicate platonic/non-sexual love too 👏
@hopemaier87054 жыл бұрын
that's true but they can lead to other things
@znovosad5553 жыл бұрын
intimacy doesn’t mean sexual either. i feel having some physical aspect is very important to some relationships and some things shouldn’t always be viewed as sexual. with that being said, can things lead to other things, absolutely can however, that’s where self discipline is very important. those temptations should be ignored and fought if that’s what you believe. sacrificing a non sexual intimacy aspect of a relationship like cuddling, hugging, and even kissing can hurt relationships in my opinion. everybody does their own thing but i don’t think saying these things are bad pre marital is bad is the right thing.
@xoxoxtara3 жыл бұрын
I wish they weren't but in this day & age/ culture they kinda are 😔 although holding hands is alright
@heavenhernandez841 Жыл бұрын
That’s not what they are saying. Every little thing leads to something bigger. The adrenaline grows and you want more and more, just human nature.
@ElizmaryMB5 жыл бұрын
“Fresh of breath air” i diedddd, I was confused too! 😂 I really admire you guys and appreciate these videos, it’s good to know I’m not crazy 😂
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Elizmary Marrero haha yeah that was epic😛 So glad to hear that! You’re not alone :)
@Joybutterfly19774 жыл бұрын
Elizmary Marrero I’ve totally said that before!!! 😁
@LittleFugueFlute5 жыл бұрын
Paul & Morgan: Modesty is important! Paul: *shows us half his bare chest*
@rosegold57205 жыл бұрын
i was literally looking for this comment 😂 never have i ever missed buttons so much
@MRuth-es5kf5 жыл бұрын
It would be interesting to see a video of them talking about modesty. I feel like modesty is part of “fleeing lust”. It’s intersting to see different Christians views of modesty...
@jessicatorrez83704 жыл бұрын
You’re not suppose to judge others for what their conscious allows them, you’re not god to judge
@LittleFugueFlute4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicatorrez8370 Real funny that they do, then
@smileyrulesinthe8184 жыл бұрын
Jessica Torrez Girl who told you that lie. Of course we can judge others with fair judgement. Society today depicts judgement as wrong and wicked but in reality it can be constructive. If someone is giving me good advice i should be humble as a christian and analyze the judgement/advice through the Bible and if they are right suck it up and accept it.
@angelhelton90985 жыл бұрын
Love y'all so much. Please do a video on awkward things that need to be talked about in a relationship. Like body hair or other sex related things. You always handle every video with such grace and dignity. Also pmease adress how you KNOW who the one to marry is??
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Angel Helton awe thank you so much :) We plan to do a series and get deeper into topics related to sex. And actually part 5 of this series is on how we knew they were the one!
@angelhelton90985 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan thank you!!!
@alliebenson46535 жыл бұрын
Body hair doesn’t have to be awkward. It’s a totally natural thing and neither partner should feel under any pressure to change their body hair habits just to please someone else. If you want to shave your legs/anywhere else, that’s totally up to you. If your partner can’t or won’t accept your body hair (or lack of), or they are hypocritical about it, they’re not worth your time. End of.
@alidarosieee5 жыл бұрын
"Suck it up and step it up." You guys are such a blessing to the KZfaq community! God bless you. :)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Alida Rose thank you!❤️
@eniolafujah4 жыл бұрын
Alida Rose definitely
@meredithk124 жыл бұрын
Having each person write what their expectations of physical boundaries is a great piece of advice. With my last boyfriend I let him know what my expectations where and he nodded. Come to find out later he totally didn't care about purity to the degree I did. I wish I had taken purity way more seriously. I was all about staying pure till marriage, but I indulged in a ton of sexual activity besides full on intercourse, and it did damage me and the relationship. It made the relationship feel less real. I learned if I can't keep my hands off of someone, it's not a real, honoring, friendship with longevity- it's a lustful affair. He was a cool person but ultimately I got sick of my trying to please God, myself, and him all at the same time.... I am super interested in what I would have previously considered "strict religious boundaries". I'm happy to hear Morgan loved dating Paul and felt loved by him because he was challenged to express genuine love to her in other ways. Physical stuff is easy; intimacy takes a lot of maturity and intentionality.
@MJ_Hershey4 жыл бұрын
So what if your love language is affection? While completely respecting the boundaries put in place, you never find out if the other person's naturally affectionate. Then you get married and find out that they hate touching and hate physical affection, hugging or cuddling? Now you're stuck. Just a thought, I am sure you'd talk about it and hope they're honest.
@karenstiltner13863 жыл бұрын
I've thought of this too. Touch is my love language. I'm thinking though that if you are really putting God first in your life and you ask Him if this is "the one" you will get an answer. I think we need to have faith and pray 🙏 I hope this helps you.
@amaragrace945 ай бұрын
Precisely. In my relationship (9 months in) quality time is primary for both of us. Physical affection is secondary for me, third for him. Words of affirmation is secondary for him. So we discussed boundaries from the beginning. Hands stay in appropriate areas. We hold hands, hug, and kiss. I'm fine with light pda when out on a date or just hanging out, but no more than a side hug or hand on the back with family and friends. I think I am more private than him in this way and I clam up with embarrasment/shyness😅. Like the one time he gave me a kiss on my forehead at church I was like😳🙈. If it ever gets carried away, one or both of us needs to initiate a pause and we'll re-evaluate those boundaries as needed. I'm not thinking about sex when I'm affectionate. It's more about romance and how safe I feel with him. I am the same way with family, especially my older sisters and my neices and nephews...long hugs, kisses, and sometimes cuddles. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy lol. Everyone's mind is different and have different levels of self control. Therefore, boundaries will look different in every relationship.
@lukecarter5085 жыл бұрын
Thank you two for making this video. It makes me feel confident that my girlfriend and I are doing the right things. You two are amazing. Thank you again!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Luke Carter love hearing that bro! 👊
@megalopolis20155 жыл бұрын
Your lady is so blessed to have someone respecting her to the point of delaying pursuing strong selfish desires, and being obedient to God's will and timing. May the Lord continue to bless you both and have His Hand on this growing union.
@laurcoustic2774 жыл бұрын
I started watching your videos a few years ago after I ended a pretty ungodly relationship. We didnt have any conversations about boundaries and very quickly things escalated. When I started watching your purity videos God really changed my heart and I am happy to say that I am totally on board with all of your strict boundaries and am now starting to see someone new and I laid out my strict boundaries right away and have really felt Gods peace and blessing in it. Thank you both, your message and ministry changed my life, may God bless you both and thank you for giving us all the encouragement to have hope and be free.
@thomasmbiba55585 жыл бұрын
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell. Matthew 5:27-30 Personally, whatever it is that causes us to stumble in a relationship, especially if it affects our relationship with God negatively, we need to remove it. To some it may be holding hands, To some it's hugging, to some is being too close, to some it's looking into each other's eyes for too long, to some it's kissing. We all need to be sincerely honest about what the Holy Spirit says to us with regards to how we conduct ourselves in a relationship, Both in thought and in action. That's my starting point.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thomas Mbiba amen! So good. Thank you for your comment.
@brandonburrell85175 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@ethanbarlow33725 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan, you guys are awesome! My girlfriend and I very close to being engaged, and we have not yet kissed on the lips. We have talked about it and decided to at least wait until engagement, but as that day grows closer we felt convicted about waiting longer. However we were not 100% decided. Today I was driving home from work and just praying to God asking for wisdom and guidance whether it be through a mentor, Scripture, or one of the many Christian influencers that I follow. Sure enough I saw your video, and my convictions to wait longer were renewed. God directly answered my prayer through the two of you!!! I know this is a long comment, but I want you to know that God is using you!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe praise God, that’s so cool!
@fayeildefonso5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. My boyfriend has set a boundary with me that he wanted our first kiss on our wedding. I've been praying for a guy who'd do that to me. Struggle is their but I know that the wait is worth it. That Christ is glorified in the wait. And our relationship is strengthened as we go through this path of purity.
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
Do you think the devil is transmitted through kissing? I dont see the logic here .. 🤔
@corykilgore24445 жыл бұрын
My first and the last relationship I had was very difficult revolving boundaries. We set them very early on but they definitely did not last. My advice to everyone who is wanting to date or is currently dating, coming from someone who has fallen, please do NOT compromise. In my situation We justified overstepping boundaries by saying that other people are going way farther etc and a little 3 second kiss won’t be that bad but it really does accelerate things. I use to think my will power was greater than any temptation but don’t fall for that same thought. You will become a victim of sexual sin. It’s similar to doing a drug. Once you have had it, you want more of it and once that’s not good enough you up it to something stronger (all the way sex).
@corykilgore24445 жыл бұрын
One other down fall I want to mention, just because you don’t go “all the way” does not mean you aren’t sinning. If you feel the least bit of conviction or guilt you have committed sexual sin. If I could redo it over or whenever I date somebody again I’m setting strict boundaries and avoiding being alone in secluded areas.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you sharing that, Cory, and your openness. I hope that will resonate with some of our viewers who might think boundaries are not a big deal :) God bless
@lindseyallen59895 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on intentional dating for long distance relationships?
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Allen thanks for the suggestion :)
@lynnjoellegardner105 жыл бұрын
If they've never done one they might not have the experience with it
@LowCarbLifeofBecky5 жыл бұрын
Yes please.
@AshleyGummies5 жыл бұрын
love this series so far! i just got in a new relationship and this is really strengthening my faith and confidence that my purity is nothing to be ashamed of, but rather to be proud of !!! thank yall for sharing
@nataliehalling5 жыл бұрын
I'm not dating yet but I love watching your vids because I want to keep these standards I have current for when I do. It also encourages me to know there are other people out there who believe the same things I do. Thanks so much Paul and Morgan!!!💕
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe you rock Natalie 😊❤️
@SomanVlogs5 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to hear! Boundaries are so important, when my boyfriend told me he doesn't want to kiss until we are married I nearly died! But looking at it now, it really does makes sense! xx
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Amen, you got this😊
@chrismoraal17695 жыл бұрын
Amen! It truly surprises me how many people who call themselves Christians but are not following this. I truly appreciate your guidance and ministry!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Chris Moraal 😊😊
@ben70605 жыл бұрын
YAAASSS!!!! I LOVE GOODDDD
@ipodtouch5735 жыл бұрын
Chris Moraal I don’t think it’s a sin not to follow this as long as you are not lusting
@chrismoraal17695 жыл бұрын
@@ipodtouch573 I agree with you that even if you don't exactly follow their advice but avoid lust and sexual temptations then you are avoiding sin. What I have increasingly come across is what I call "Sunday Christians" where they go to church, call themselves Christian but continue to engage in sins such as sexual relations outside of marriage.
@michellebyrd9795 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! No kissing until marriage. My husband and I have been married 12 years and we are SO glad we waited because our relationship was not clouded with shame, AND we now have 3 daughters that we can share our testimony and wisdom to. Thanks for this video AND series; ya’ll are the BEST! 💝💝🙏🙏
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe love hearing that!❤️
@emilymeyers6069 Жыл бұрын
Woah that must’ve been hard
@chosentobe71375 жыл бұрын
Lol!!! You guys are soo hilarious.. You guys preach THE GOSPEL and still show the joy of YAHWEH!!! At the same time being honest!!! Being who God called you to be.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Chosen To Be awe that makes us so happy to hear😄❤️
@des65005 жыл бұрын
“Such a fresh of breath air.” - Morgan 2019 😂 I love you guys so much and I’m so blessed and thankful that I came across your videos. God bless you both!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Baahaha❤️❤️
@jackhilsher35035 жыл бұрын
In y’alls opinion, do you think that there should be a ‘spiritual boundary’? What I mean by that is; do you think it would be wise to have a boundary that would keep a dating couple from doing devotions together? Like, at first you’d think, of course you can do devotions together, but at the same time, while doing devotions together, you create a spiritual connection that makes it very difficult to let go of and separate if that relationship doesn’t pan out.
@sarahfrederickson29115 жыл бұрын
I would love to see a video on this too!
@alyssabird7205 жыл бұрын
But I mean.. we do devotions with friends or in groups. Why not one-on-one with the person you love? I think you can hear their heart more.
@jackhilsher35035 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Hoyt I agree, however, if you love your boy/girlfriend so much, you should try your best to protect her and save her for her future husband/wife, whether that is you or someone else. It’s a little different with friends, but good point! ;)
@briannacollie27425 жыл бұрын
I use to debate the idea of saving me and my future husband's first kiss until marriage, but now I think it's for the best.
@arbretree54635 жыл бұрын
Same.
@ben70605 жыл бұрын
no. no. no.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
I don’t think you’d regret it❤️
@audreybeard93225 жыл бұрын
Yessssss!!! The NO KISSING is a life saver! I am so glad me and my boyfriend decided to wait to kiss until marriage. And even though our relationship has remained pure....This video actually convicted me to tighten up our boundaries! We want to set ourself up for success and make it easier on ourself. ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for this truth!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Love it, thanks for sharing! God bless your all’s relationship❤️
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
What success comes from no kissing?
@ben70605 жыл бұрын
YES YES YES !!! I LOBE GOODDDDD
@ipodtouch5735 жыл бұрын
Everything and Moore as long as you don’t look down on others that do kiss before marraige
@ben70605 жыл бұрын
Jack R i’ll let you look down on me daddy
@slkalab5 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on the couple. My parents held hands, hugged, and kissed when they were dating and it didn’t go further. So if you struggle with self control or think you couldn’t trust yourself to stop then this is good to follow, but if you and your significant other are strong people and have a good sense of self control then I think than it’s OK. And I know literally dozens of Christian couples who did these held hands, hugged, kissed while staying pure, and are still happily married today. I think it’s just a matter of personal preference and knowing what you can or can’t handle.
@megalopolis20155 жыл бұрын
I always thought I had a lot of self-control--until I didn't.
@arbretree54635 жыл бұрын
The thing is that it is not just about not having sex but it is also about not having lustful thoughts and that's the hardest part in my opinion.
@megalopolis20155 жыл бұрын
@@arbretree5463 You're not wrong. Praying for God to take control of the deepest parts of ourselves is the most challenging thing.
@sarahbrubaker42095 жыл бұрын
First off, I have been so encouraged by your videos. I never realized people with such Godly morals still existed! I won't go into my whole testimony, but I did not do things properly... and there were many great consequences. Biggest consequence was my ex-husband divorcing me (leaving me with a daughter and no job at the time (was a stay-at-home-mom)). I'm grateful for what God has freed me from and the grace He has given to me and my daughter, but there are consequences I face daily because I didn't hold steadfast in my faith and convictions when I was dating. God has given me hope through His Word for the future, but if God brings someone else into my life (I've really studied out His Word about divorce, and I have found that I am free from my ex and am allowed to marry again.) I will continue to hold onto my convictions and faith! Secondly, Morgan, your make-up is on point! You look gorgeous! ❤
@risenshine70323 жыл бұрын
@Sarah Brubaker Your comment should have had many more thumbs up!!!! Yes! There are consequences! I wish I knew back then what I know now, right? Thank you for your honesty and may God richly bless you my sister, and stay encouraged. He most definitely is a God who gives us second chances once we learn from our mistakes❤️🙏🏻
@abbywelch31255 жыл бұрын
We have a lot of the same views on physical standards... no holding hands until engagement and no kissing until the wedding day! Thank you for your stand for Christ!
@claubit325 жыл бұрын
That's so cool! Keep it up, you're encouraging so many. :)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Abby Welch 😊❤️
@ben70605 жыл бұрын
OMG YAAAAAS I LOVE GOODDDD
@jaqkelisdead63884 жыл бұрын
What are you fuckinng gay?
@skinsciencebymira4 жыл бұрын
“God is into the practical” “There are things you can do that can set you up for success” But taking birth control if you’re not ready or able to support a child isn’t included in this?
@Mariaelaina104 жыл бұрын
When Morgan said “it was such a fresh of breath air” Paul’s face 😂😂🤣😭😭 Love you guys!!
@carolineh.carver10915 жыл бұрын
Paul’s unbuttoned shirt was making me stumble 😂😂😂 jk
@sarahfrederickson29115 жыл бұрын
LOL! I'm dead!
@iceagebaby55335 жыл бұрын
That’s is unholy
@daradarling5 жыл бұрын
My friend just entered a relationship and she said that God told her something that totally blew my mind. He told her that she could cross certain boundaries of the “promised land” with her boyfriend (obviously not sex) with God not being on the mix, or like Moses, she could say “I’m not going past this point without you Lord” and move at the pace of grace. Only going as far as God is present, entering the promise land together. Just something to think about.
@gabrielbermudez90125 жыл бұрын
You may have to explain a little bit. As I don't completely understand the picture your trying to paint.
@isabellajacobs63225 жыл бұрын
I’m about to get married this month and we have done this and it’s so worth it. We decided to save our first kiss for our wedding day- honestly it is really hard but it’s going to be so special!♥️♥️♥️
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe love hearing that! Big congrats to you guys❤️
@hideyable5 жыл бұрын
Aren't you at all worried that the first time you're experiencing that moment; it's in front of an audience?
@isabellajacobs63225 жыл бұрын
Heidi no, we decided we are going to do it in private that day to avoid that. I’m not a fan of PDA in general so having our first kiss in front of everyone was definitely intimidating haha
@brumbybailey65995 жыл бұрын
I've had this question for ages! 😂
@isabellajacobs63225 жыл бұрын
Brumby Bailey Well we’ve been married for a month now and I’m definitely glad we made the choice to do it that way- no regrets at all!
@brittanywyatt20035 жыл бұрын
I’m not incredibly religious, but it’s very refreshing hearing such advice. I really like your videos because while I may disagree on some things, your personalities and chemistry together is very fun to watch! Don’t listen to all the haters, just live your lives the way you want because god was great enough to give us that power :)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Brittany Wyatt we appreciate that a lot! 💜 you’re awesome. Thanks for your support, even if you don’t agree with all of it. 😄
@theredhead19005 жыл бұрын
Nice to see that there are still people out there who can listen and respect people with a different viewpoint!
@jeremiahtassinari17435 жыл бұрын
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16 Only Jesus Christ is the way to Heaven and be saved from hell. "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8 "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 Have you believed in your heart that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins, was buried, and rose from the grave? You must believe that Jesus Christ is the Son and God and died on the cross for your sins and rose again to be saved from eternal damnation and instead go to heaven "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." Romans 10:9 "For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one." 1 John 5:7
@allisonlucas0185 жыл бұрын
Its great to hear what you two did to keep physical boundaries. God has really blessed your relationship!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Allison Lucas thank you, yes He has😊
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
Sounds terrible tbh
@nataliehalling5 жыл бұрын
Your so close to 100k!! Only 11 subscribers away!! SO Happy for yall!😁
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Natalie Halling we made it!! 😄 thank you so much!!! 😄💜🙌🏼
@nataliehalling5 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan That's awesome!!! God bless you two!!🙌🙌😁
@ConvictingTradition5 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and unfortunately divorced. From experience, yall nailed it.
@claubit325 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Nevertheless, God can redeem any situation.:)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
ConvictingTradition thank you❤️
@megalopolis20155 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you have already experienced that. I know that God works all things for good, even our deepest pain. I hope you know that comfort and are strengthened by His presence.
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
@@megalopolis2015 sure. Shes alone and jaded. Way to go God.
@megalopolis20155 жыл бұрын
@@PoisonTheWell_ There are a lot of mean people in the world. That is not the work of God.
@skybishop55965 жыл бұрын
Love it, love it, love it! Thank you guys again for this series. You guys are a blessing!😇❤
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Sky Bishop awe so glad to hear it!
@livingunashamed48695 жыл бұрын
Great advice guys! For me no holding hands till in a relationship and no kissing, cuddling, or sex till marriage. Hugging in moderation until in a relationship as well. Congrats on 100K.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you sharing, Kevin :) And thank you!🙌
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for you brother. You're missing out on alot.
@kemajegranderson91905 жыл бұрын
I love this video!!! People really discredit boundaries and values because they don’t want to be left out but God wants us to understand that if we do it his way, we’ll never be left out! And for anyone who dares try to go against what they said in this video, go read 1 and 2 Corinthians. God Bless! 😊
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Amen so good!❤️
@VihanDamaris5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing how y'all went about it! It's super helpful to see how different people handle these areas, so one can determine how they could go about it when the time comes or the question arises.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@paulinechristin4305 жыл бұрын
They are such a beautiful couple🌻
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Pauline Christin 😊❤️
@dariatnk9995 жыл бұрын
HEEEY you've just got a 100k !!! That's the proof that God's word is spreading ❤🙌🏻 I'm so happy for you guys! Can't wait to see a video you were talking about
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Dasha Twinlight wahooo!!!🙌 thank you❤️
@josephinepostma27815 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Paul and Morgan!! I really appreciate the practical advice, and the godly way that you express your thoughts and opinions! I am so grateful that there are people like you on the internet! ❤️❤️ May God bless you both for you faithful ministry!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Josephine Postma awe thank you😊❤️
@katherinezehnder68945 жыл бұрын
I'm not entirely sure I agree with everything but I understand why you waited and totally respect and support the position you are coming from!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@charismagustafson43155 жыл бұрын
This was a great video! :) Paul and Morgan- I love your guys' mission.💓 Staying pure for the Lord in ALL areas of life shows that you really love Jesus with your whole heart, mind and strength. I'm glad that there are others who want to stay pure, not only in dating but in singleness and marriage and just in our everyday lives. It's all for Jesus, to love others, and to love our selves! The dating world can be tricky, but remember, God is on your side! The Holy Spirit will guide you, because Jesus LOVES you! ✝️ Proverbs 16:3- "Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed."
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Charisma Washburn aww thank you so so much! We appreciate your support!! 😄💜 you’re awesome.
@KellBell-oz3cu5 жыл бұрын
Omgosh!! I literally needed this right now! 😱😂 thanks so much!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
GODLY GIRL23 hey! Welcome 😊😊
@MsDottyDotDot5 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with this concept. I had a boundary with the guys that I dated when I was 18/19 (3 years ago now) that they couldn’t kiss me until they knew they wanted to marry me and it was always on the first or second date. I didn’t have my boundaries put fully in place and I allowed them to push my limits. I have repented of my sin, cut off the limbs that caused me to sin and am totally fine being single. I fully intend on being more strict in the future and I like the idea of going with the stronger boundary than the weaker.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Wow really appreciate you sharing that❤️
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
Sad story. I wept.
@jessimitchell20515 жыл бұрын
I love how Morgan said that this was the purest relationship she had ever had
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@Emily_Rudolph5 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love this!!!! THANK YALL for being BOLD!! I have been married for 7 years and my husband and I had clear physical boundaries that we stuck to and I do not regret it one bit. Ours were very similar to what y'alls were and I would agree with you if I could do it over again my husband and I both agree that we would wait until our wedding day to kiss. If you think about it there's really no negatives to that other than it makes the boundaries very clear and simple and I think it takes a lot of pressure off of you and you can just relax and enjoy getting to know each other on a not physical level just emotionally and spiritually and all of those areas.
@arbretree54635 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Great insight😊❤️
@zogly94695 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the video as always. I don't have any regrets from the hugs and hand-holding from my last relationship, but when I begin dating again, I do plan on having stronger boundaries, or at least to introduce things much later in the relationship. I smiled and smashed that like button when you guys kissed. :) I had an idea last night after watching some of your older videos: you guys should make a video compilation of all of your bloopers and funny moments from your videos so far! There are so many times you've made my day better by scaring each other, being funny, etc. Edit: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! 100k subscribers!!! Go do a special date or something to celebrate!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Zogly thank you so much! Always love reading your comments. You’re awesome! And yes! We definitely need to do some kind of blooper video! 😂😄 and ahhhh! Thank you so much! It’s crazy! 🙌🏼😄💜
@hannahdare43505 жыл бұрын
Zogly this is such a great idea! P&M blooper video would be hilarious!
@zogly94695 жыл бұрын
Hannah Dare It would be amazing, but it would also be a lot of work. Some of their funniest moments are spread through their videos, not just put at the end. So they would have to go back through all of their videos and find the good moments to include.
@hannahdare43505 жыл бұрын
Zogly oh that’s true it would be very time consuming... they should make a community post and get everyone involved! Could ask people to comment the names of any videos that have their favorite blooper worthy moments in them. I’ve seen another KZfaqr do something similar in the past getting their subscribers help finding specific moments from old videos :)
@zogly94695 жыл бұрын
Hannah Dare That would be helpful for them, and would also mean that all of our individual favorite moments have a better chance of being considered. But that means we will have to all spend that time digging to find it. It may be something they could ask the Patrons to help with though.
@kelseyyoung42375 жыл бұрын
I have been in several relationships that did not respect boundaries at all. The more I grow closer to God, the more I am valuing myself and the other person. Boundaries are NOT easy, however the more I seek a man after God’s own heart, the more I want to respect him by keeping proper boundaries. Thanks for sharing the awkward moments, and topics, that many people are curious about, but don’t ever talk about. 😊
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the insight, Kelsey❤️
@makaylajoyy5 жыл бұрын
This was awesome . I’m engaged right now and to see someone else had boundaries like me and my fiancé really encouraged me. We’ve committed to waiting for our first kiss and being physical for our wedding day next April of 2020. We’ve been in a relationship for 3 years so our wedding day will be a blast lol. We’re already seeing how God is going to bless us for waiting this long. And I love how you said Morgan that God does care about the little things. Thank you again for showing such a beautiful example . God’s smiling down on you both 🤗
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe congrats!
@Rhoades24eva5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos on this topic! We also had boundaries when dating because we felt that it was worth the wait.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Rhoades24eva amen😊👍
@glorielysf82915 жыл бұрын
Hey God bless you guys, I’m single and saving myself for marriage I turned 19 today Lol. For When I do start dating I want to be intentional about it like you guys have said. I want to save the most for marriage and there were thing you guys mentioned that I’ve never stopped to think about them and I now agree with you guys and understand the message you guys are delivering. We can’t let our guards down thinking we are strong enough and give way for the enemy and sin. Godly Boundaries are necessary and essential for not only relationships but for other things in life. Thank you Guys! Love y’all! ❣️🤗 I’ve never written this much😂
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing❤️
@Chryslerdealership5 жыл бұрын
First comment! Ya'll are crazy close to 100K!!! P. S. I laughed so hard at Paul's face at 4:53. Lol love you guys ❤❤
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Christina Dimidenko woot woot!!🙌🙌⭐️⭐️
@stacieb93645 жыл бұрын
You know..I appreciate these videos..they might sound extreme, and it might be very difficult to stick to boundaries (but worth it)..those kinds of regrets and heartaches just aren't anything to play with when there aren't boundaries put in place. And if or when I ever meet someone, boundaries are most definitely getting put into play. And if the guy isn't for it or on the same page, he isn't the one God intended for me..point blank, period. 🙂
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Good stuff, thanks for sharing❤️
@melissaroberts12995 жыл бұрын
Okay, when do you guys think that we should START dating?
@elulmulugeta4 жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU PAUL N MORGAN!!!!! God literally spoke to me right now using you guys and im sooooo glad we have a christian couples who takes time to SHARE the gospel through dating and stuff....you guys are the best
@PaulandMorgan4 жыл бұрын
Awe praise God😊
@DarkerASMR5 жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video!! I havent dated or crossed any physical boundaries yet, but i intend to start dating fairly soon and this was definitely encouraging!! I think i am committed to saving kissing until I'm engaged, and i think holding hands and hugging I will be fine with! But if i see myself start to slip or lust, I will quickly put those boundaries in place!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Darker ASMR thank you so much! So happy you liked it. And that’s awesome! Stay strong 😄
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
Cant stop human nature bud.
@krazykris49575 жыл бұрын
im not saying what worked for y’all won’t work for anyone, however creating such harsh boundaries can actually be harmful to a relationship, and the heart. it can change it from spiritual & God centered to legalism. again, it worked for y’all so good on y’all, and it could work for others. i believe boundaries are SO important, but it can do some harm too if not in the correct context or heart.
@annahg75695 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! The way I was raised was no hugging of any kind until engaged and only then side hugs, no kissing until marriage, no hand holding until engaged, and no sitting next to each other in church until engaged. The less physical contact the less room the Devil has to slide in and tempt you. Of course it is going to be hard but in the end it is all worth it!! One other thing I would like to add is, pray often together. Keep God at the center of everything. Even the small decisions. He cares!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
😊
@ipodtouch5735 жыл бұрын
I kind of agree with this, but it’s kind of hard to keep these boundaries if you wait 5 years to get married
@karenstiltner13863 жыл бұрын
Maybe if these boundaries were in place you would really get to know the person so much faster because sex isn't clouding your mind and you can tell someone wants to be with you for a reason other than sex.
@amandaayala5375 жыл бұрын
100k congrats guys
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Ayala thank you so much!!! 😄💜🙌🏼
@hblane15 жыл бұрын
I respect this so much, thank y’all!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe welcome❤️
@putuimchen30425 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you guys on this. Things can escalate fast physically. And it's really hard to put a stop to it when you're in the moment. My fiancé and I are getting married this fall. And yes it's hard sometimes to wait but I know it's totally going to be worth it. While some might see you as too conservative, God is serious about holiness. Either it's a sin or its not. There's no in-betweens. Thanks guys for reaching out to the younger generation 💛
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment!
@rachaeld.47535 жыл бұрын
Just want to add to the conversation a bit! I think these below are some good rules to follow when it comes to hugs specifically during Christian dating: #1 Use the "Cringy Christian side hug" for those you are not dating (aka friends & acquaintances) #2 For the one that you are dating: use the 3 second front hug tactic (count aloud together- it might seem weird at first but as you get closer you will cherish longer hugs when you are married) Keep kisses short btw too ;)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the perspective :)
@micaiahbolton28265 жыл бұрын
As a Christian, I feel that if it doesn’t convict you then it is within your boundaries. I believe you guys feel the same way! The only thing I’d ask that you add to videos like this is that it’s okay to be tempted. Temptation is not a sin. Avoiding the temptation is where it’s at. It’s about taking those thoughts and feelings captive and pushing them away. As I’m sure you know, even Jesus was tempted, but he didn’t sin cause, well, He’s Jesus (among other more we’ll put and thought out reasons). I love you guys, I love your ministry, and I’d love to see more of y’all! Maybe a video about maintaining a relationship through all of the things that we humans go through? Y’all might already have one of those. I’m just getting into your channel. Thanks for providing such a great ministry to this forum. Y’all rock!
@benjamendrummond73985 жыл бұрын
Love this series so far!
@jodimileng16405 жыл бұрын
I love you guys! Thank you for your honesty and handling these subjects with such grace and dignity. Also, I have never kissed any guy yet, I'm 22, and still holding out for that kiss on the altar with my man! It's so worth waiting for!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Great hearing that😊
@misselaineousmoments4763 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your videos, Paul & Morgan! Almost 5 years ago, for about 8 years, I was part of a strict Baptist Church and Bible college. Sadly, it took me that long to find out how much spiritual abuse was in that place. While the standards you shared were very similar in the "letter of the law" to what I was taught there, the heart is completely different. God does care about the little things, but most importantly He cares about our heart (not about the rules themselves, if that makes sense). I am so thankful for how He has been teaching me about listening to the Holy Spirit, not just living by man made rules. Your videos are helping me relearn how to step into dating with intentionality and purity, while also walking in freedom and having fun along the way. I'm looking forward to the rest of this series. God bless you!
@LivingTrancefully5 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS ON 100K!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
WhaleTail thank you!!🙌🙌
@LivingTrancefully5 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan --time for 100k party stream right!? i wanna see Paul break dancing
@markmoore83995 жыл бұрын
I think that 1.5 smiles became 10 smiles after the 1.5 smiles were mentioned. I already know that I will have to have strict physical boundaries if God leads me to someone because I still struggle with idolizing women at times.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Mark Moore that’s great that you are aware of that. Stay strong, lean on your Father. He’s got you! 😄
@markmoore83995 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan Thank you. I think "aware" is understating it, but He's definitely got me. 😄
@Fierclyfabulous5 жыл бұрын
Honestly i loved this 💖 For a woman like me strict boundaries are absolutely necessary. I struggled with sexual sin from early on. I was tied to pornography after being abused at age 11. At 18-19 making out with guys and eventually losing my virginity to a ex boyfriend. And i even got tied in same sex sexual sin. God has changed my heart. Still a work in progress but i feel like you never know the sin someone struggled with or the temptation for it to so easily come up. Physical contact can truly be harmful if not done God way. I respect this video so much for the honestly and the content 💖
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Wow praise God for what he’s done in your heart. Really appreciate you sharing❤️
@sarahcohen63555 жыл бұрын
I loved this video! I’m dating a guy now and we set our boundaries on our third date and this advice pretty much lines up with what we agreed upon. We’ve been keeping to our boundaries for 3 months so far and this video really gave me hope that we can continue it and be grateful for the outcome. :)
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Way to go!❤️
@ItsKandiGirl5 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS ON 100K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
KandiGirl thank you so much!!! 😄💜🙌🏼
@ashleighpratt72905 жыл бұрын
This is fantastic! Boundaries are just a must have and something that I’ll be implementing when I’m in a relationship again because I’m not strong and to protect me, I need them. You guys are great and so encouraging!!! 😍💖
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Ashleigh Pratt thanks for the comment!
@SupahNerd5 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for this. You both are such an answered prayer for this generation.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Perry Foster awe praise God😊
@elizabethfreeman71585 жыл бұрын
Amen to That!
@josiecasey32485 жыл бұрын
Loving this series guys!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
josie casey yahoooo! 😄 thanks!
@ItsEverythingEuodia5 жыл бұрын
I love hugs, ok. I'm a hug addict but if I’ll have to dial down on the passion in my hugs to stay pure for God then i’ll take it as a challenge in the future
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Orikundela Matshili amen!! That’s a great mindset 💜
@ItsEverythingEuodia5 жыл бұрын
😅Thanks to you guys
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
No hugs?? LMFAO start living your lives. You only get one life. Enjoy it !
@gracetran5 жыл бұрын
In a world full of compromise and mixture, even in the Church and amongst Christian circles, your videos are seriously a breath of fresh air and an encouragement to know we're not crazy or too "extreme." Thank you!!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe thanks Grace❤️
@KellBell-oz3cu5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊🎉 on 100K!!! 😊😊😊🙏🏻 you deserve it 💜💜
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
GODLY GIRL23 thank you so much!!! 😄💜🙌🏼
@monicanava85 жыл бұрын
Hey, P & M! This was so good to hear and watch. I am so relieved that boundaries before marriage are still being implemented!
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@KellBell-oz3cu5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with you guys. I still need to have this talk with the guy I’m seeing
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
GODLY GIRL23 😊
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
Poor guy.
@RachelMarieMinistries5 жыл бұрын
Go for it girl! It’s better to get it all out in the open EARLY! Otherwise, he may likely push your boundaries because you haven’t designated what they are since he can’t read your mind. I’m not judging, I know this from experience! It’s also so important to make sure you’re with someone who respects those Boundaries you out in place :)
@lillymagdalena94165 жыл бұрын
Such a big Challenge! Thanks for sharing everything!! Helps me so much and gives me hope
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Lil ly you’re so welcome! With the Lord on your side, you can absolutely do anything! 💜
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan with the lord on my side can I wrestle a bear and win?
@evierose16935 жыл бұрын
So my husband I where pretty much hands off. We didn't kiss tell our wedding day. People think we are aliens I think when they hear that.😉 But it was what we felt was right at the time for us. Its not easy, my husbands top love language is physical touch. But something I noticed, that I would really encourage people with, is when you are waiting to get physically intimate, it forces you to learn to communicate your feelings verbally, And there is no way to explain the value in that. And you just plain get to know the inside of the person better before your feelings and hormones cloud things. Also, my thought at the time was, lets wait tell we get married and then we don't have to worry, ONLY THIS FAR AND NO FARTHER. We would be free then to go as far and have as much fun as we wanted without guilt.
@arbretree54635 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@BiebergirlP95 жыл бұрын
I haven’t started dating yet however I wrote out some dating boundaries in my journal about a month ago. I think it’s healthy to establish godly dating boundaries before you even meet someone. That way you stay true to yourself and your purity.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
I like the sound of that😊
@jeanmarieperez85285 жыл бұрын
*i love all these videos, thanks for all these helpful tips!*
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Jeanmarie Perez you’re welcome😊😊
@calebs92915 жыл бұрын
I love you guys! I’m a single 20 y/o guy but love your videos that support a Christian lifestyle. Your marriage is such a beautiful thing.
@PoisonTheWell_5 жыл бұрын
This is why you are single chief
@calebs92915 жыл бұрын
PoisonTheWell Don’t be toxic.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Awe thank you, Caleb😊
@mariahmartinez91215 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Thankyou for keeping it real and going over these topics that people are too shy to talk about.
@PaulandMorgan5 жыл бұрын
Mariah Martinez awe thank you😊❤️
@Kahrowleen5 жыл бұрын
I personally think it's very important to know if me and my partner are sexually compatible before marriage because that's very important to me. But it's always good to have boundaries ofcours.
@sharonpedroza8045 жыл бұрын
I agree that hugging and kissing should be saved until marriage.