Overcoming Trust Issues in Marriage | Dave and Ashley Willis

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Overcoming Trust Issues in Marriage | Dave and Ashley Willis

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On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk about the importance of trust in marriage and steps to take if you or your spouse are experiencing any level of distrust.
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A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together they have built a strong following, reaching millions of married couples through their blogs, books, and videos. They have four young sons and live near Dallas, TX.

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@sarahunamsu 5 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this podcast, I look forward to every episode. It has helped greatly mature me as a wife and the golden nuggets in this podcast has definitely drawn me and my husband closer together, I am now very intentional about having a very naked marriage where we can talk about anything because that is God's design and will for marriage. Thank you Dave and Ashley for staying strong and trusting God in the storms of your marriage for they have produced this ministry ❤❤❤🔥. Sarah

@chrisramirez9401 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dave and Ashley for this particular episode. I am going thru this as I type this, I am the who is having trouble trusting my wife although she has never betrayed me. It stems from a past relationship that i thought I had moved past. I will listen to this daily until I can change my ways and move past what still haunts me. Thank you, and keep up the great work!

@alyssaarneaudgonzales9777 5 жыл бұрын

Truly admire your exhortation , it's restorative! Useful tips for Christians. Thanks for the podcast guys!

@thekansasrebel 3 жыл бұрын

My wife and I started watching this and it has helped I know it's going to take time for the trust that has been broken just with help of the Lord and your program thank you Dave and Ashley

@carolpaxton1507 Жыл бұрын

Love these podcasts! Wish we had them a long time ago. I am binge watching/listening.

@XOMarriage Жыл бұрын

Thanks for listening

@lorenadiaz6750 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing podcast!! I’m glad I found you guys! Hopefully this helps my marriage. 🙏🏼

@mandymiller5677 Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I came back to this video. Because I did make the mistake of accusing my spouse for things they did not do. My trust issues broke their trust in me. And when I realized it was disrespectful I thought I ended my marriage. Glory to God that He didn’t harden my husbands heart for my actions. And he is being open to me. And now it’s my job to work on my blind spots. And continue to serve my spouse and trust him bc trusting him means trusting God.

@XOMarriage Жыл бұрын

WOW! That is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing your story. If you'd like to share the ways XO Marriage has impacted your life, please feel free to visit xomarriage.com/sharemystory

@marilynwashburn4480 3 жыл бұрын

This podcast..and this topic in particular, is honestly a divine word for me. I appreciate it SO much...y'all are such a blessing! ❤️

@TheWarrenFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent commentary and useful tips. Very inspiring. Marriage is such a beautiful thing when both partners have a will for overcoming obsticals that come their way.

@JP-ll8iy Жыл бұрын

Trust is rebuilt by transparency and consistency. It takes time.

@dkadwoa4114 5 жыл бұрын

What happens when the trust has been totally betrayed and the person, don't see a need for counseling, won't allow phone access, and is mishandling marriage???? I listened to he sure what I felt needed to be done is what you advised...thanks for being real and sharing....

@rosemarysantos5216 3 жыл бұрын

Aww guys I’m new to listening to your podcasts and trust has been a real struggle for me (for valid reasons). I love the Lord and want to do what honors his heart so I am trying and feel blessed with this message. Thank you and God bless.

@aliyyahconway6733 5 жыл бұрын

Restored Faith

@georgesmith3352 4 жыл бұрын

My wife thinks that women like me and I shouldn't smile because she feels it sends out the wrong message to the other women. I know I don't want these women but she feels like i do because i am naturally friendly

@2livecrew270 3 жыл бұрын

Me too man its really destructive to my psyche because all day long I have to try to be stone cold in my interactions with people for the fear of smiling at a woman if I see something funny happen

@carriebarba6980 2 жыл бұрын

Good for those who are trust worthy. But did not spend a lot of time addressing how to rebuild trust and be accountable when trust is broken over and over by lying and placating.

@georgesmith3352 4 жыл бұрын

This is awesome.

@deannabuchanan9936 9 ай бұрын

I am looking for an episode that you mentioned in one of the narcissist videos you did. It was an episode with Shane and Shirley Out ick called Overcoming in Marriage. I can’t find it.

@gorgeouswales9635 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you both as always! God Bless

@rcz2023 5 жыл бұрын

Thank You so much, Gob Bless You!

@vivianjosephthomas6216 5 жыл бұрын

I have numerous marriages amongst my Parents & their relatives...who live with bully habits, catfights , bickering etc.

@annpruitt951 2 жыл бұрын

He broke my trust four yrs ago and I still have problems trusting him.

@emillenial624 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not even married but the information here makes me look forward to marriage.

@DanielleSmith2141977 5 жыл бұрын

What do we do when EVERYONE you have given trust to BREAKS IT? Even a godly man, so he claimed, proposed to me, put a ring on my finger, made empty promises, Jus to break my trust YET again after all I told him about everyone breaking and betraying my trust. I am learning even a “godly” man will lie then blame you for his deceitfulness calling you jealous and wounded. HE NEVER LISTENED TO MY HEART AND HE NEVER INTENDED TO FOLLOW HIS PROMISE. God def saved me from this one! Although I sound bitter I have so much peace about it all I just don’t know if I can ever trust any man ever again. This one was “set apart” from all the others jus to see red flags that he was NOT set apart from all the others. When he said I was wounded HE REFUSED TO SEE IT WAS HIS LIE AND REFUSAL TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY that WOUNDED ME YET AGAIN.

@nowyouknow2010 5 жыл бұрын

Danielle Smith check out The Way World Outreach with Pastor Marcos from San Bernardino Ca. We just started the Marriage Challenge 2000 today the video is uploaded now. It’s a 5 week conference so check this out to pick up some tools for yourself and when marriage comes along for you. Also this is for singles too not just married couples. Have a blessed day.

@margaretbanda5536 4 жыл бұрын

Is trust even possible?

@DanielleSmith2141977 4 жыл бұрын

JJ Fuentes thank you for this! I am sorry I am just now seeing your response! I will definitely check it out! God Bless you

@DanielleSmith2141977 4 жыл бұрын

Margaret Banda I only trust God! Much love to you 🤍

@shelleyd9910 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Do you have any advice for someone living with a person who grew up in a cult and after 15 years of marriage still projects onto me all the abuse from the past? I think Dave is right when he says "some people think trust is a wrong idea." I truly cannot do any more of this. As a mature Christian I thought I could cope but I am sick of the lies.

@miabadua8340 2 жыл бұрын

So how do you deal with distrust issues that were from your father and other past relationships but all those red flags arose with a current relationship. You gave this person the benefit of the doubt only to find out that your instincts were correct and now you married them. They seem to want to change but how do you get past the fear , the betrayal , lies and the secrecy when you see things that continuously look suspicious? Or when more hurtful things arise from the past that this person didn't volunteer. It makes it hard to move on when things keep resurfacing and I can no longer trust my instincts of what is real and what is not. Confronting this person and asking questions on situations that seem suspicious doesn't help because they deny any wrongdoing and get upset that you are bringing it up. However when you brought things up in the past the same reaction was given just to find out that you were right all along and they weren't being honest.

@djd7258 2 жыл бұрын

It's up to the untrustworthy spouse to rebuild trust, not the one that was betrayed.

@brendasutton8116 4 жыл бұрын

What happens if they DID break your trust by sharing their body with others online and telling them things they would like to do to them?

@KS-un3pi 5 жыл бұрын

Oh yes!! I made my now husband pay for my father's sin as well as old boyfriends. He has broken the mold on what I thought was "normal" thank God! He is a great man! We make the good guys pay for all the sins of bad male examples in our lives.

@billgreene3410 5 жыл бұрын

And on the inverse of that, we men can often make the new good woman pay for the things the ex's have done..

@KS-un3pi 5 жыл бұрын

@@billgreene3410 I agree with that as well.

@DOTMH_1 3 жыл бұрын

He doesn't allow me on his phone. His computers lock down. Our marriage is not open to public on Facebook. He lied to me a few times, and now I'm the one that can't be trusted

@brendasutton8116 4 жыл бұрын

I used to completely trust him until someone told me they saw the pics.

@bobbiwilliam6811 4 жыл бұрын

TRUST is like a crystal glass that once it's broken its hard to put the pieces back together and when you try to fix them, you might get puncture and get hurt. The crystal glass would never be the same no matter what, that is why it's important to apply wisdom when dealing with our partners and i believe smartness is essential in any relationship. I got help from (Cybertech-tracker) as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone Text messages, Imessages, Facebook, Instagram, Whats-app, Skype, Kik, Twitter, Snap-chat, Email and social media chats without touching his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist but I'm glad to uncover his deceits, secrets and Infidelity. All I did was share his phone number with (cybertech-tracker) and i was able to read his recent and deleted messages from my phone without laying my hands on his phone and he has no idea his phone has been cloned. I was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover, i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in the UK and saw all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He also does hacking of account or any other type of hacking and retrieval of data. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable. Contact this great hacker via Gmail (cybertechtracker) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and Whats-app : +1 (202) 697-7171. Thank me, later...#Stay-safe & Stay-home

@hienienguyen6766 4 жыл бұрын

yeah that is so true! I would love to know more about this. my bf seems to be insecure about his past ex wife. I feel he is putting it our relationship. so i need to hear this