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@amithegenius
@amithegenius 7 ай бұрын
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@Legacy-sw7bv
@Legacy-sw7bv 7 ай бұрын
That last one is just heartbreaking. I can understand the father's position, but dang... that child is obviously trying to be the best son he can be, and sounds like an amazing person in general. That family needs to find activities that they can all do together instead of wallowing in the dissapointment of being unable to do the physical activities they wanted. Don't distance yourself from your child simply because they physically can't be what you wanted, especially when they're clearly trying to make up for the shortcomings that they had no control over.
@youarehere594
@youarehere594 7 ай бұрын
This one. This story completely broke me, the kid knows. He's doing his best to be the best kid ever, but there's no way he'll ever be what his parents want. I guarantee, give this kid to the others on the board and they'd be thrilled. Hope that kid goes on to be the best person he can be, despite not being what his parents want.
@Legacy-sw7bv
@Legacy-sw7bv 7 ай бұрын
@youarehere594 Exactly! I understand that people have feelings they can't help. Those feelings are human and recognizing that is very important to mental maturity. What's not okay is not only letting those feelings show but going so far as letting them drive oneself to emotionally neglect one's child, especially during a time of struggle or illness. All that child wants is to be loved, supported, and nutured. Just as he would've been had he "come out right." Those parents need to focus on their son's efforts and achievements, and not what he's physically incapable of doing. No amount of wallowing will solve the problem. It's hard to accept disappointment, to have wanted something so dearly only to feel like it was taken away at the last momen; but they need to take a moment to see things from their child's perspective. He doesn't even get to go do those physical activities on his own, AND now he gets parents who openly resent him for it?
@mycupoverflows7811
@mycupoverflows7811 7 ай бұрын
Seriously. That was absolutely heartbreaking. Hopefully after he typed it out, he realized how terrible he was and made an effort to change. 😢
@MidoriyamaRArekusu
@MidoriyamaRArekusu 7 ай бұрын
Honestly, thinking about that last one now, I feel like the couple would have been better off adopting a freaking dog instead.
@witchy90210
@witchy90210 7 ай бұрын
Yeah, this is a case of the parent (idk how the mom feels in this situation but I hope not like the dad) is just not happy that his son is not what HE wanted. The dad wanted a son that was just like him, like even the fact of saying how he hated school and was a shit kid shows that is the case. I think the dad also, somehow, sees his own "failure" in his son. Like that his son is doing so great even with his disability. Plus I am sure there are many many ways that they could do some of those things with their son.
@antares8476
@antares8476 7 ай бұрын
Father in the last story needs therapy like yesturday. That poor boy just wants his father's attention and aprovement. Meanwhile his father seems to suffer from depression and is a total jerk for trying to stay away from the boy and only do the required minimum. He seriously needs to take his head out of his ass and work on himself and the kid before it's too late.
@oliverstray1040
@oliverstray1040 7 ай бұрын
God, that father pisses me off. He's doing above grade in all the wrong places. When making spaghetti, it doesn't matter if you have noodles hand crafted from the best pasta makers in Italy and boil them in water from the Fountain of Youth, if you're missing sauce you're still missing 1/3 of the dish. Dollar store noodles cooked in tap water with a Great Value spaghetti sauce is better at that point. If the father gave the son a lesser education, acceptable medical care, AND a bond with him, that kid would have been better off than he is in his current situation.
@sinarodl663
@sinarodl663 7 ай бұрын
And so many people are mad that some people don't want kids? Bro, this video right here is the perfect evidence of our worries and fears, lmao.
@igkslife
@igkslife 7 ай бұрын
Now imagine being these kids, 10-15 years down the line hearing how much they're hated by their parents. From a KZfaq video.
@sunnykitten815
@sunnykitten815 7 ай бұрын
I have ODD and have been dealing with it. It hurts me in jobs because if I have someone telling me to do something it makes me want to refuse and makes me angry. I am in therapy and psychiatry
@jarrodjohnson1724
@jarrodjohnson1724 7 ай бұрын
The kid in the second story is 100% a psychopath
@QueenEevee1994
@QueenEevee1994 7 ай бұрын
And when she grows up she will expect EVERYTHING to just be handed to her, without her having to lift a spoiled little finger. She’s gonna find out the hard way when she gets to be an adult that things aren’t just handed to her, just because she throws s tantrum.
@hazelgrunts
@hazelgrunts 7 ай бұрын
As an autistic person, I believe that if you can’t handle raising a disabled child, you shouldn’t choose to have a baby. There is always a chance that your child will come out to be disabled, and oftentimes there are conditions that run in your family that you’re fully aware of. If you know that Down syndrome runs in your family and you don’t want to have a child with Down syndrome, WHY HAVE A CHILD?!?!? You’re setting yourself up for failure and dooming your potential child (if they turn out to be disabled) to a life with parents that resent them.
@QueenEevee1994
@QueenEevee1994 7 ай бұрын
Exactly! Thank you!
@Vampiric-Princess
@Vampiric-Princess 7 ай бұрын
Exactly if they want to have a child, but down syndrome runs in their family and they don't want a child with down syndrome. Why don't they just adopt.🙁
@alfredthecucumber9757
@alfredthecucumber9757 7 ай бұрын
I disagree with this. If everyone thought like you the population would drop severely as no one *wants* to care for (worst case scenario) a severely disabled person for the rest of their lives. I do also think the concept of wanting your own biological children despite this is fair. However anyone not willing to care for a disabled child should 100% abort it if they know it's going to turn out that way because if parents don't care for them, they'll probably end up institutionalized and bringing someone into this world just to suffer is f*cked.
@Vampiric-Princess
@Vampiric-Princess 7 ай бұрын
@@alfredthecucumber9757 Yea honestly if people know their not going to be able to properly take care and manage a serverly disabled child the just don't have them.
@oliverstray1040
@oliverstray1040 7 ай бұрын
I disagree, but every parent should get genetic testing done and make sure they are okay with the chances of their kid being disabled. The parents in that story sound like they did it AFTER they were pregnant, and weren't okay with the 80% chance of disability. Then had the kid anyways. That's backwards.
@SpamTongbutcool
@SpamTongbutcool 7 ай бұрын
the last one was the worst, imagine not wanting to see your kid because they're better than how you were as a kid, what the fuck, "oh no, i can't see my son, he's nice to people, doesn't hurt animals, and learns stuff, i hate him for that"
@pjmacinnes831
@pjmacinnes831 7 ай бұрын
I'm a mental health professional and I assure you. . . ODD is absolutely NOT "a crock." I also have ADHD and have been told many times that my own disorder isn't real. You hurt everyone when you make these kinds of statements. Please reconsider next time.
@TJDious
@TJDious 7 ай бұрын
Let's not be naive enough to pretend some people, some disgusting, disgraceful excuses for human beings, don't feign such things.
@Killatomatohead
@Killatomatohead 7 ай бұрын
I think most people who say that it’s not real is because of how many people nowadays claim that they have it. A lot of these people don’t actually suffer from it and just use it to seem “helpless and cool” in some way. Most people who do have it don’t say that they have it. It’s not a flex that you suffer from it. Im glad that you have a way to deal with it mate.
@damionlee7658
@damionlee7658 7 ай бұрын
​@@TJDiousnobody is pretending that there aren't people feigning illnesses and disorders, so why write a comment that implies that somebody is?
@LeroxYT
@LeroxYT 7 ай бұрын
Well i can say you, these ppl on the Internet saying that they have this or that, these people definetly NOT have this or that mental illness, their just spoiled stupid idiots which should be in jail, most people with mental illness would probably not be so big in the Internet, i have diagnosed autism, only light asperger, but it still affects my school notes, because of the shyness, but atleast im lucky enough i live in Germany where i can be diagnosed and get help with it, i feel like in america, normal healthcare is not the only problem they have over the pond
@hxy_den
@hxy_den 7 ай бұрын
L take, bad kids are bad kids. and if you have a learning disorder, the higher the chances are that you are probably are/were a bad kid 😂 take a seat buddy
@vincentcleaver1925
@vincentcleaver1925 7 ай бұрын
#2 is a sociopath. Not in training, not hyperbole, she is trying to unalive that baby because the baby is getting **her** attention. Get CPS involved, stat
@jasminelav.332
@jasminelav.332 7 ай бұрын
There's a narrative I've noticed in online spaces that kids are just blank slates, and everything they are is what their parents made them. They refuse to accept that even children have personalities, and there's always the chance that a kid could be born to parents completely different from them. That even if you do everything right, you could just get unlucky and wind up with a child who is very, very wrong. Next time I see one of those people, I'll just link them this video.
@TJDious
@TJDious 7 ай бұрын
This is what leads people to blame parents for every bad thing their kids do. It's a crock.
@Allmightyimortal
@Allmightyimortal 7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but I have to disagree. Yeah down syndrome and the like are mental problems can't do much about that until science catches up. First story, all we have is op's opinion that they are a good parent and blaming the kid. No back ground or info. As far as I know they are lying narcissist or could be telling the truth. Medication one for the 5 year old ain't the kids fault and if it's a result from the higher then normal levels of testosterone, they should try to fix that. Single mom, kids acting put from lack of attention from mom. Her resentment grows she acts worse to kid, that keeps building. Suicidal kid story, again mental problems. Second story with the little girl, mother and grandmother let her get away with crap, this is the cause of her behavior. Niece story, she wants attention, even negative attention. Youngest son story, there is more there then they are sharing. No talk about a therapist on why he is doing this. No talking about why this started. No where near enough info about anything. Final story guy is just an ahole because child was born with mobile problems and this makes him unlovable. If you want to say mental problems can happen, yeah no crap. But minus that, blame definitely can be assigned to the parents on every other story. So go ahead and link it but be prepared for a lecture on why you are wrong.
@katieponulak7960
@katieponulak7960 7 ай бұрын
I don't understand why people who knowingly have a high percentage of having a special needs child due to genetics still have kids in the first place. I once worked at a state run facility for people with intellectual disabilities, one lady had 6 of her kids living there, all with different dads and all with profound disabilities. She thought that I was actually interested in her life story and straight up told me that she kept having kids until she had a "normal" one that she could dump responsibility of care of their siblings. She never had that "normal" one and regrets not getting sterilized when she had the chance. Which is partially why I don't have or want kids now. The other part is that I like my freedom too much to be someone's indentured servant.
@CheetixGlitch
@CheetixGlitch 7 ай бұрын
Thank you! I swear some people in these comments don't freakin understand that!
@QueenEevee1994
@QueenEevee1994 7 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m a woman and I’m not having kids because I have too many health issues that are hereditary.
@imaspecofdust3913
@imaspecofdust3913 7 ай бұрын
I'm terrified of the thought of a giant parasite leaching away my health and growing inside my body and then more than likely killing me giving birth. I've heard that it's very painful, and that thought alone makes me say nope! Also not to mention I have way too many health issues and a couple of mental health issues, I have no financial stability or a family of my own to help out, so that's all the more reason why I cannot have children
@cinderblockstudios
@cinderblockstudios 7 ай бұрын
It sounds a lot like most of these parents didn't really want kids in the first place, just the idea of kids for the sake of their own ego.
@witchy90210
@witchy90210 7 ай бұрын
That is true. Its yet another problem in the "Get married and have kids" part of society. Like the last one. He only wanted a kid that would be just like him.
@gokuxsephiroth4505
@gokuxsephiroth4505 4 ай бұрын
I agree with the first part, but the second? I knew I didn't want kids since I was 13 (27 now) and ever since then, I've had friends, family, literal STRANGERS I'm making convo with ("Oh, I just got married!" "When are you having kids?") tell me I secretly DO wanna have kids and that my life will be incomplete w/o them, and that I'll change my mind someday, etc and etc. If I wasn't stubborn as an f'n mule, I could see how everyone you meet bearing down on you like that could whittle you down over years and make you completely cave. But yeah, some people really shouldn't have kids, and other people need to get that into their thick skulls.
@katherinebass530
@katherinebass530 7 ай бұрын
I am an aunt raising my niece 💕 I felt that one.
@TechSupportCantDoAnything
@TechSupportCantDoAnything 7 ай бұрын
Can't believe that some children can act like this! I would love to study the brain behaviour of these children to understand their situation. Note: I am not a doctor in any way, I just have an interest in this stuff!
@balanceboy3089
@balanceboy3089 7 ай бұрын
Most of these stories and ops really are just parents who hate their kids existence and refuse to say it. "I don't hate my kid..." Yes, yes you do.
@CheetixGlitch
@CheetixGlitch 7 ай бұрын
Believe me, I'm pretty sure they don't. Parenting is rough. I'm an older sister (basically acts like a mother with a single father raising me and my sister) and my sister does not listen to stuff we say a lot of the time. She isn't as bad as the people in these stories but I'm pretty sure if you were to have kids like these stories you would have some regrets or resentments as well. They all just sound like frustrated parents trying to make their kids good people to me.
@balanceboy3089
@balanceboy3089 7 ай бұрын
@@CheetixGlitch What you described was kids being kids. The majority of these stories involve kids who most likely won't amount to anything in their lives and just make everyone else's lives harder.
@Allmightyimortal
@Allmightyimortal 7 ай бұрын
​@@balanceboy3089 no a majority of these stories are about mental illness, doctor screw-up and people who should never have been parents. And an aunt who is doing her best with a kid struggling from basically being abandoned by her parents. Second story is closest but a lot of blame can be put on biomom and grandma for not only allowing this behavior but encouraging it.
@balanceboy3089
@balanceboy3089 7 ай бұрын
@@Allmightyimortal Ok, the parents still wish the kids weren't their problem though. Reguarless of circumstance or how it came to be. Call it what it is, hatred/resentment. Sugar coating it doesn't help.
@Allmightyimortal
@Allmightyimortal 7 ай бұрын
@balanceboy3089 that I agree with but how does that make it that the kids won't amount to anything and just make everyone else's life harder?
@whats.up.broskis
@whats.up.broskis 7 ай бұрын
I have a plan for frustrating attention seeking little girl in story #8. If she misbehaves or does bad or naughty things, ignore her. If she's so keen on having attention and she does something stupid, pretend she's not there. That could possibly work 🤔
@CheetixGlitch
@CheetixGlitch 7 ай бұрын
They probably did that before and it may not have worked
@oliverstray1040
@oliverstray1040 7 ай бұрын
The living situation is 9 people living in a 3 bedroom, and the grandma actively goes against any discipline from the OP. It may work if the kid truly cares about her attention and their bond specifically, but more likely kid will go cry to grandma that auntie is being mean.
@CyanicCore
@CyanicCore 4 ай бұрын
What if she starts destroying things?
@jayblescashews
@jayblescashews 7 ай бұрын
That first one was the worst and i would disown that kid. The last one is the parents fault, some jock asshole births a smart, decent, and humble kid who can barely move. None of that is the kids fault and the parent needs to grow up and know there is more to life than the gym and traveling.
@Allmightyimortal
@Allmightyimortal 7 ай бұрын
Problem with first one is we need to take op's word they are not abusing the kid. Narcissists exist unfortunately so they could be believing what they say when it is not reality. They could be telling the truth as well. Honestly unsure. This is reddit not a testimony under oath unfortunately. Heck kid could post a story on reddit a few years later about their Narcissist parent who abused them and it is about the op in story 1.
@Icalasari
@Icalasari 7 ай бұрын
Story #8 - If I was OP, I'd leave that house as soon as I can and report the lot to CPS
@janschild
@janschild 7 ай бұрын
I feel for these parents. My daughter was a challenge from age 18 months to around 15 y/o. There was no way I was going to press my luck and have another, possibly worse child .
@gdtestqueen
@gdtestqueen 7 ай бұрын
Story 3: I’m disabled since birth and have spent my life around many others with varying ranges of disability. Disability is not a “one size fits all” thing. For most conditions you can have a dozen children with the same it all at varying levels. With many, the kids and family can still live very good lives. But it is hard. Hard in a way that people who have no experience with disability can’t imagine. It’s even something that can be hard for other families with disabled members to imagine as it’s so unique to each. For such serious cases like this one, the strain placed on the parents is so immense it is not something one can prepare for. Yes, there are books to read, videos to watch. But they in no way convey the true burden of care. I’ve always wondered if prospective parents were given a chance to spend time at a group home (or similar), if that might help. For these severe instances the future can be so bleak. This is not a kid you can send into the yard to play. A kid who will make their own sandwich for school. This is a child that you will have to dress, feed (either manually or by tube), bathe, wipe poop, bush hair, accompany everywhere…for LIFE! Get a night free because of a sleepover? Only if friends or family are trained and capable enough to do care or if you hire respite. Send the kid to college or work? No, if your lucky there will be a school program until they are 21 and then after that a day program that might give the caregivers a few hours break…because groceries still have to bought, errands run, appointments kept. And it all has to crammed into the brief moments of respite. This is not a situation where the kid becomes independant and self sufficient. This is like having an infant/toddler until the day you go in a nursing home or die…so for 40-60 years!. And even then you have to make sure there is someone to care for your child. When you are crippled over with arthritis at 80 this child will still need you to change them, cut their food, hold their hand across the road. And the scariest thing is how to care for the child when you are gone or unable. And these severely disabled children grow into adults. It’s one thing to carry a 2 year old up stairs, even a 10 year old. It’s something else entirely to do that with a 30 year old. And you know the tantrum a 5 year old throws? Hitting, kicking, biting, spitting, screaming. Now picture a 40 year old full grown 6 foot man having that? I have personally seen extremely violent episodes from adults with Downs or other developmental disabilities. They have no idea of their strength or size and it can be very dangerous. One PSW friend was in the ER with broken bones and a miscarriage after a client’s episode. Also, being a parent to a severely disabled child is not something everyone can do. Although it can happen anytime to anyone. But many are not equipped emotionally, physically or financially to do it. Abuse and neglect sadly happens. An while I feel it is wrong to abort because of a minor issue, when it comes to the larger ones that have huge impacts on quality of life…I feel that the parents are only ones who can make that decision. What one person can handle is very different than what another one can. In the situations where one parent wants to terminate and other wants to go ahead…those are just so hard.
@IsYitzach
@IsYitzach 7 ай бұрын
Story 6: sue the school for an IEP. The kid needs it.
@Vampiric-Princess
@Vampiric-Princess 7 ай бұрын
#2 Is how serial killers are born .
@alyssamorgan747
@alyssamorgan747 7 ай бұрын
Story 6 sounds like the kid suffers from extreme ADHD and Bipolar Assertive Disorder. Until that kid is on the proper meds, and the staff gets off their lazy asses and assign him an IEP, the kid isn't going to change.
@creepywaffles4783
@creepywaffles4783 7 ай бұрын
My brother is one of these. My parents are great as long as you do as you’re told and follow the rules. Like normal parents. The thing is is that he also wet the bed for way too long as well. I remember years ago watching a documentary on (Ted Bundy) I think. And it went into how he was as a child. I remember them talking about bed wetting, animal cruelty, abusive behavior, and other things. I remember my brother checking those boxes. Not on as severe of a scale as my dad is a cop and is big and strong. And I fully believe that the only reason my brother hasn’t beaten us all is because of that. You see all of these stories about school shootings in America and the parents of these monsters are put up as the reason. Which yes a lot of the time it is but society sees it as always how the child was raised. I look up parenting articles on these kids and I have seen parents and siblings with broken arms and ribs and one mother even got thrown though a wall. The TEENAGER was sent to some juvenile detention center or something and just given back. Every article was just in summary spend quality time, set boundaries, enforce those boundaries (as if that’s even physically possible). Why would a psychopath care about whatever little things you do to enforce boundaries as if he isn’t twice your size and stronger than you? It’s honestly disgusting how psychologists are basically saying suck it up because as the parent you don’t matter. As a sibling of these monsters you don’t matter. They are basically saying keep doing normal parenting stuff as if you haven’t do that hundreds of times. It’s as if children are not sentient beings who know what right and wrong is and instead just dogs you train! Children can’t make evil choices. They can’t choose to not care. Because clearly they only act how they are raised! They can’t make choices their children! Just trainable animals dog training fixes aggressive dangerous dogs what difference does it make with a person? Honestly it’s fucking disgusting how parents are expected to have control on a child’s psycho mentality. They don’t listen to logic so stop trying to say bullshit. I have so much more I can say since only the psycho deserves sympathy and compassion. There’s no such thing as someone being born evil. It’s made by the environment even though it had to start somewhere.
@creepywaffles4783
@creepywaffles4783 7 ай бұрын
If all children deserve happiness in their childhood environments what about me and my sister? I’m really sorry about my venting about this but this video makes me feel less alone. I appreciate any one who read this.
@kiatequila424
@kiatequila424 4 ай бұрын
I can see the future kids posting on Reddit “my family hates me and doesn’t know why”
@killuanatsume
@killuanatsume 29 күн бұрын
That first story...I feel bad for that person...I could never imagine as a kid saying something like this that's so messed up.
@vincentstuart9562
@vincentstuart9562 7 ай бұрын
that story with the spoiled 8 year old is why I will never have kids because I would absolutely make that child cry by telling her how much of a brat she's being and have 0 remorse about it the whole time
@chrisrubin6445
@chrisrubin6445 7 ай бұрын
the behavior you describe has a name, "actual parenting"
@imaspecofdust3913
@imaspecofdust3913 7 ай бұрын
I myself don't have kids, but my older sistee does and they're both very loud and very energetic. I'm very introverted and i have a very hard time speaking to anyone regardless of age. Been like this my whole life. Everyone knows I hardly talk. Whenever my sister's kids would talk to me, I would stay silent and look the other way while trying not to have anxiety build up. My family would always get mad that I ignore them being like "THEY'RE KIDS!" I don't hate them I just cannot do it idk what's wrong with me😭😭😭
@matthewspencer5548
@matthewspencer5548 7 ай бұрын
The simple answer for me as to why i'll never have a kid is that I'd simply be unable to feel anything for it except loathing and anger and that would make me a terrible person. I hate children, I find the concept of them completely antitical to what I want out of life and despise every moment I have to deal with them in any capacity. I love my girlfriend as a person I can share my thoughts, emotions and interests with, I love my cat as an empathetic fluff ball that never judges anyone and I love her dog as the mad ball of energy he is that makes every day a new adventure. If I was to have a child it would ruin everyone's life, me, my girlfriend, my cat, her dog and the child itself. All that love I felt for them would be destroyed to be replaced with hate for the child, the freedom it had cost me, the time and effort I had to give it that could have given to those that actually make me happy and the expectations placed on me by everyone else that I'd would take care for a screaming, shitting and pissing slab of meat without question or complaint would turn me into the worst possible version of myself, a person that I never want to become. Any child being born deserves better than that, they deserve a father that actually wants them and one that will actually care if they are suffer or die.
@metalhead_girl06
@metalhead_girl06 6 ай бұрын
I totally feel you dude. If I were to become a mother, I feel like my personality would do a complete 180 and I'd be an absolute monster. To me, having kids isn't financially worth it. I bet most parents never even wanted kids or didn't look into the aspects of what having a kid would be like beforehand, and had them just because "It's what you're supposed to do". I think a few cats to care for is more than enough. Cats will remain loyal, never betray you or give you a hard time about much, and be your best friend for as long as they're alive. If I ever get married or if I even date any guys in the future and he's already got kids from a previous relationship or wants kids that's an automatic deal breaker for me no matter how good of a match he is.
@gokuxsephiroth4505
@gokuxsephiroth4505 4 ай бұрын
I absolutely feel this. The idea of pregnancy makes my skin crawl, and I just despise children in a way that doesn't feel natural. Like, it almost feels like my brain should be studied, because apparently, most people don't feel mildly nauseous at the frog like apphendages of a baby. And yet people keep telling me I'll regret not being a parent, who's gonna take care of me when I'm old, your life isn't complete without them etc and etc. It worries me how many people like us with lower self-esteem might cave in having kids when we should be kept as far away from them as possible.
@gircakes2
@gircakes2 2 ай бұрын
A dog is like a child that never grows up, though.
@jackdelorenzo8498
@jackdelorenzo8498 6 ай бұрын
Why haven't the courts or CPS been involved with the niece? It sounds like THE MOTHER should be punished, and if her daughter sees that happen, it will wake her up. As for the last story, I tend to agree that he is not fit for fatherhood. Condoms are a lot cheaper than private school, especially if you are unprepared and/or unwilling to accept the fact your child may be nothing like you!
@metalhead_girl06
@metalhead_girl06 6 ай бұрын
If I was a parent in some of these situations, I'd have surrendered my child long ago. I would not have the capacity to deal with those kid's behaviors whether or not its their fault they turned out the way they did.
@nordikkai7185
@nordikkai7185 5 ай бұрын
They aren't "bipolar". They're acknowledging that the child has potential but the circumstances that they and the child are in doesn't benefit anyone and makes lives miserable.
@jlw1939
@jlw1939 7 ай бұрын
Story # 3 is absolutely horrible in every way! That so-called father is the one who never should have been born!
@lightdreamer_
@lightdreamer_ 6 ай бұрын
I was fucking diagnosed with ODD and ADHD as a kid. Like, they slapped a diagnosis, some calming pills and there we go. My mom thought I looked sad on the pills... Turns out it's ADD and autism. Got the right diagnosis only at 18
@thepostmancometh
@thepostmancometh 7 ай бұрын
What in the 4chan edgelord was that last one
@jes2276
@jes2276 2 ай бұрын
The father needs therapy. If the kid is 11, he has waited far too long. I have CP, and to be honest, i avoid interacting with most people because a sizable portion of the population acts like this father. I just work and take care of my cat.
@VegetaReal204
@VegetaReal204 7 ай бұрын
That is NOT on you, that's on the school. Story 6
@Icalasari
@Icalasari 7 ай бұрын
I'd honestly try talking with parents of assaulted students and let them know I was trying to get an IEP but the school thought he shouldn't have one, that he doesn't need to have somebody ensuring he doesn't hurt the other kids, be kept in a separate classroom, etc. Basically, try to get those parents going, "Hey, principal, stop blocking this shit or we will sue your school"
@BraveryWing26
@BraveryWing26 7 ай бұрын
I hate that opinion at the end of the story about the niece, OP tried to be nice and get over her hate... and that UNCALLED opinion just insults her for DARING to not hate a kid.
@arizonabug6493
@arizonabug6493 2 ай бұрын
Toddler wailing? Touch their tongue. Scream again? Wiggle their tongue and go "BLALALALALA" Probavly take 2 but it will stop. You will know it worked when you get silence and a stink face.
@MisatoBestWoman
@MisatoBestWoman 7 ай бұрын
I enjoy this narrators voice!
@GamerKru1996
@GamerKru1996 7 ай бұрын
A lot of parents in these stories are just plain abelist, and as someone who's Autistic it makes me want to throw up.
@Vampiric-Princess
@Vampiric-Princess 7 ай бұрын
Yep, the story about down syndrome is just sad. I honestly think the parents should have aborted or just given up the child or adopted. I think it would be better for everyone if they just adopted in the first place. What infuriates me is that THEY KNEW there was a chance of down syndrome but they still went ahead.
@irishuisman1450
@irishuisman1450 7 ай бұрын
fellow autistic person here, the Down Syndrome story pissed me off too. Of course there's always a chance that a kid will turn out disabled in some way no matter how 'perfect' the parents are, but these parents _knew_ their child would have an extremely high chance of ending up with Down Syndrome, _knew_ that a disabled kid would be a lot of work and extra stress to care for, and _still_ decided to have a bio kid of their own. And then they have the absolute audacity to complain about it? I get parents who are completely unprepared for a disabled kid because they weren't expecting to get one, but these people were just willfully ignorant of the facts and are taking it out on their child. If these people wanted a 'normal' kid and not a disabled one, then they should've either adopted or found a surrogate/donor. Not stuck their heads in the sand and then act surprised when their kid came out with a condition they _knew_ it was likely to have.
@Vampiric-Princess
@Vampiric-Princess 7 ай бұрын
@@irishuisman1450 100% agree, the parents knew what was going to happen but they then act surprised and sad when it does happen it, makes no sense.I honestly don't know why people are so desperate to have a biological kid when you can just adopt (this is coming from a adopted person) but the child you adopted is still going to be your child morally and legally. I hope they give up their child with down syndrome so she can be with people who truly love her.🙂. (Also a fellow autistic.😄
@gdtestqueen
@gdtestqueen 7 ай бұрын
⁠@@irishuisman1450I fully agree that if the risk was so high why not adopt? But the point I took was that the father had wanted to terminate but the mother didn’t. He didn’t have a choice but had to go along and now is trapped. Also, many future parents hear “80%” and think…”what if my child is the other 20% and I abort? I can’t deal with that”. Doesn’t make it right, but that how many think. Also, the child ended up with one of the most severe and rare forms only affecting 1% of Downs cases. It was worst case scenario all the way. And no matter how much people read or watch…it is impossible to truly prepare for the impact that severe of a disability will have. They just can’t fully realize how exhausting and draining it is to be a full time caregiver day in and out for the next 40+ years. Or the toll it will take. All the friends and family who say “call us” disappear pretty fast once they realize what is involved. The services they think are out there to help are actually not, or at least not enough.
@butterflybeauty615
@butterflybeauty615 5 ай бұрын
I’m watching this while taking tremendous satisfaction in knowing that I was not stupid enough to get myself pregnant, especially out of wedlock, and that I have the freedom to live out my twenties completely childfree😀
@nicholasnguyen5181
@nicholasnguyen5181 7 ай бұрын
My parents hate me and favor my sister… . They don’t think I know but I know… . It’s not good
@raerose2278
@raerose2278 7 ай бұрын
Early bird club! 😊🦅
@dontworryaboutit993
@dontworryaboutit993 7 ай бұрын
Bird is the word bro
@ezrothkusosroy
@ezrothkusosroy 7 ай бұрын
​@@dontworryaboutit993giggity giggity giggity giggity ooh ee ooh ah ah ting tang Walla Walla Bing bang ooh ee ooh ah ah ting tang Walla Walla Bing bang
@dontworryaboutit993
@dontworryaboutit993 7 ай бұрын
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@charmainesmith5623
@charmainesmith5623 7 ай бұрын
The child in the last 1 is amazing most parents would love a child likr that. The dads just extremely nasty an evil and doesnt deserve him
@angelpandadaylane4924
@angelpandadaylane4924 6 ай бұрын
Story 1 and Story 8 sounds like my mother.
@angelpandadaylane4924
@angelpandadaylane4924 6 ай бұрын
Story 9 sounds like my mother.
@mandjpikids
@mandjpikids 7 ай бұрын
I feel bad about all of the parents
@UncleMikeDrop
@UncleMikeDrop 7 ай бұрын
The bad seed is real.
@samliveshere88
@samliveshere88 6 ай бұрын
7:53 this one is kinda fucked up, my brother used to have a similer issue and was bullied relentlessly for it. its probably not soemthing that kid can control and the more you punish him foir it the worse it will get, probably already self conscious of it and embarrased and you make it worse with punishment
@KanalOhneInhalt
@KanalOhneInhalt 6 ай бұрын
Story08 yeah, this childs behavior sounds like the behavior of every child with chauvinist Alkoholic parents. You do realize that, when you trick, belittle, put her under for your entertainment, she will start doing the exact oppisite of what you say, right? And you do realize she translates this pattern you teach her onto every person of respect, right? Sorry, I get infuriated by parents who ab*se theyr children and than claim victimhood (for allmost no conesequences too).
@dtczyk8976
@dtczyk8976 6 ай бұрын
Never having kids ever holy fuck
@ladyweasellou3367
@ladyweasellou3367 Ай бұрын
It doesn't matter if it's: Bio-children, half, step or adopted... If it's a grandchild, niece, nephew.... Or anything else... When the animals are being hurt, neglected or abused in ANYway then soooooooo many lines have crossed, warning flags raised, etc. You need to find help for the child or give them over to some one who can. And absolutely find the pet a new home ASAP.... ...As the parent/adult responsible for the children, pet and household, any pet that is neglected, injured, abused, etc by that child is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, and makes YOU the same level ABUSER. You may not want to hear that but it's the d@mn truth of the matter.
@ladyweasellou3367
@ladyweasellou3367 Ай бұрын
If I was the step parent of some of these children and the actual parent that you're for and helping does nothing at all other than enable the horrific behavior and things go poorly when I try to step in then I would probably say: I love you dearly but putting up with this and being made into the bad partner for A TRYING to fix and help fix this mess is extremely wrong and unfair to me. I love you but this is so one sided and I just can't be the babysitter that's not allowed to actually babysit without being made in to the bad guy and yet when the kids do won't that's somehow my fault too. And I feel like a hated babysitter and not a spouse. Good luck with.... Whatever TF you're trying to do here.... I hope you all find who and/or what you're looking for in the future. Goodbye.
@cookie6043
@cookie6043 7 ай бұрын
Game?pls
@lizzymarlow5208
@lizzymarlow5208 5 ай бұрын
bloody hell
@charmainesmith5623
@charmainesmith5623 7 ай бұрын
That girl who lives next door to her mom is acting out because shes extremely gurt because her patents living next door refues to pay het any attention. Id move and leave the child with her parents. If the mom demands her daughter is brought up the way she wants then she must look.after her. She is hurting and thats why she is acting like she is
@Wizardof
@Wizardof 7 ай бұрын
Why does everything on Reddit say /deleted...?🤭🤭🤫🤔
@Do-not-ask-who
@Do-not-ask-who 7 ай бұрын
Hi
@BraveryWing26
@BraveryWing26 7 ай бұрын
The down syndrome story was so sad.
@cookie6043
@cookie6043 6 ай бұрын
Pls give me the game nam
@loaf_cat272
@loaf_cat272 7 ай бұрын
Is it just me or does anyone else absolutely hate the dad in story 3. The gull he had to put such an opinon on the internet is disgusting, disturbing and downright awful. I get that careing for a mentally handicaped child must be hard, but the fact that he trys to excuse everything he said basically about how it's the childs fault for their marriage going downhill by saying "I don’t hate her, I just wish she wasn't born" is vile. Oh, and lets not froget about the part where he tried to get his wife to give up on her child just because "It was going to be hard work". Sir, handicapped or not a child is going to be hard work. Now yes while a handicapped child will definitely require more time and effort than raiseing a "normal" child, all children no matter what are going to require sacrifices. Some people just shouldn't be parents.
@GiordanDiodato
@GiordanDiodato 7 ай бұрын
the fact is the child will need a 24 hour caregiver and not everyone is ready for that.
@Illusion517
@Illusion517 7 ай бұрын
As someone who has had a severely handicapped relative, you are a vile, ignorant person. My grandparents entire life for 30 years revolves around caring for a violent person who couldn't see, hear, walk, or have thoughts above the level of a newborn. It was a complete nightmare for them. Of course they loved him, but it also destroyed their life during that period. You seriously need to learn empathy because if you can't understand how that father feels, then you're clearly unable to feel it. You can simultaneously love someone while also heavily resenting them, it's actually very VERY common for people that have to take care of the severely disabled.
@mysurfing3550
@mysurfing3550 7 ай бұрын
Well, Your rant sounds like you're not a caregiver. It's pointless to have a child so disabled they'd never live on thier own.
@jonahulichny9874
@jonahulichny9874 7 ай бұрын
@@mysurfing3550 what do you mean by pointless?
@mysurfing3550
@mysurfing3550 7 ай бұрын
@@jonahulichny9874 Life is hard and painful enough. Knowingly giving birth to someone who will never be independent to do meaningful things for themselves is pointless. I chose to never have kids because I felt annoyed that pets could never live independently and was not willing to chance it with a human. I would not want to waste my time being a caregiver I would rather die.
@commonsensegaming1756
@commonsensegaming1756 6 ай бұрын
have you tried skin to skin contact? open hand
@Aronnantic
@Aronnantic 7 ай бұрын
EARLY!
@gigaswardblade7261
@gigaswardblade7261 7 ай бұрын
my kid didnt accept JAYSUS and CHOSE to be gay!
@killuanatsume
@killuanatsume 29 күн бұрын
You don't CHOSE to be gay. You ARE gay. It's not a freaking choice!
@Wizardof
@Wizardof 7 ай бұрын
I resent them so bad, I haven't even helped conceived them yet. I put a rubb her on!😆😆😆
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