Struggles of Growing Up with Latino Parents
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@thecurlyvshow 5 жыл бұрын
YOU GUYS!!! thank you so much for hanging with us here in PL!!!
@suraislife5459 5 жыл бұрын
Curly Velasquez hi and I love you❤️
@thecurlyvshow 5 жыл бұрын
@@suraislife5459 hiiii I love you tooooo!!! cool name :)
@thatonekidd4625 5 жыл бұрын
Curly the best!
@arianatorres4399 5 жыл бұрын
Relatable 😔✊
@wolfy_theslimer4671 5 жыл бұрын
Omg hi curly
@vnyanforj 5 жыл бұрын
Raise your hand if you were also denied sleepover anything..
@Msyinett 5 жыл бұрын
I could attend, if it was at my house
@vnyanforj 5 жыл бұрын
And my father would still wanna see a guest list with their Ancestry.com results..
@HITMANPegas 5 жыл бұрын
People could always sleep over my house, but I was not allowed to go to anyone's else's house.
@KaminoTenshiGel 5 жыл бұрын
Man even at college, i TRIED sleeping over at my best friend´s house, man, my dad went to pick me up at 4 am, because gor forbid my mom´s children would "sleep" in a strangers house.
@emilyvillegas9632 5 жыл бұрын
Couldn't even go to pool parties!!
@Xilotl 5 жыл бұрын
Sleepover at friends? Denied. Sleepover at cousins? Fine.
@gabby. 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle Xilotl For me, it also depended if your parents didn’t have beef with your cousin’s parents. 😭
@Xilotl 5 жыл бұрын
@@gabby. Well true as well
@flashallen5272 5 жыл бұрын
G A B R I E L L A exactly
@yuridiahernandez7738 5 жыл бұрын
Fr!!!!!!!
@jannines3996 5 жыл бұрын
G A B R I E L L A lol right
@YaayOrNeigh 4 жыл бұрын
You weren't allowed to sleep at someone's house "Por que uno nunca sabe"
@joycerodriguez9041 4 жыл бұрын
In my whole life I haven't been on a sleepover because "uno nunca sabe"
@electrapoptart 4 жыл бұрын
forreal tho, I don't blame them for that rule because you can't even trust those uncles mmm
@electrapoptart 3 жыл бұрын
@@1ceramika because one never knows
@joannamartinez274 3 жыл бұрын
“ Por Que Uno Nunca Sabe ” Or ¿¡ “ Tu Quierre Piojos ” !? “ You Have Your Own Bed Here ” 🤦🏽♀️😂 But Fr , I Truly Love Them For It ❤️ .
@TheMichellepr 3 жыл бұрын
Same here...and now I'm the same with my kids. You know, Uno nunca sabe, for real 😬
@Mikey95Mendoza28 5 жыл бұрын
Growing up in a Hispanic family the only place u could have a sleep over was at grandmas house .
@lydiapetra1211 4 жыл бұрын
Same in an Eastern European family!
@glitzyfairy702 3 жыл бұрын
@Gael Marin Wdym?
@yutanakamoto7069 3 жыл бұрын
Not even that lol my parents don’t let me stay anywhere
@crash7094 3 жыл бұрын
FOORR REEAALLL
@absinthexiii4376 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but with los primos y primas jajajaja
@DaicyMaria 5 жыл бұрын
“You can’t sleep over, but they can sleep over here” WHAT????????????
@kenny.816 5 жыл бұрын
Daicy Maria SAMEEE!!!😂😂
@DaicyMaria 5 жыл бұрын
babyboy kevin uzumaki yess! I was like what type of logic is that mom???
@leila1537 5 жыл бұрын
Not even my mom is just scared my friends turn.. lgbtq on me😂 (not being mean to y’all)
@leila1537 5 жыл бұрын
Like when my friend comes I can’t share a blanket with them or anything
@DaicyMaria 5 жыл бұрын
Leila.leilany Twins oooo girll😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dyingggg
@reneecarranza9257 5 жыл бұрын
For me its never having sleepovers
@okayk7671 5 жыл бұрын
Renee Carranza same lol
@lissadiaz3741 5 жыл бұрын
Omg yess
@kssafoo 5 жыл бұрын
Renee Carranza or I could only have like very little sleepovers like I’m talkin’ bout 2-4 sleepovers that’s all we get
@reneecarranza9257 5 жыл бұрын
@@kssafoo same for me it was only with my cousins at *my* house
@solluxcaptor7908 4 жыл бұрын
Sameeee!!!
@cesarsandoval4960 4 жыл бұрын
Me:”Yes it’s finally Saturday 🥳” Mom:”Puts Mexican Music” Mom:”JULIAN BEN A AUDAR ME A LIMPIAR LA CASA” Me:”😑”
@staryariarts 4 жыл бұрын
Hun same 😭
@iigg1913 3 жыл бұрын
I get no spring break. It’s called spring cleaning. Then we do it again after New Years.
@issa002 3 жыл бұрын
I FELT THAT
@puglover6113 3 жыл бұрын
Haha 😂 That’s exactly my mom She puts her Mexican music on the speaker And is like “ayudar me a limpiar la casa”
@tashalopes7053 3 жыл бұрын
EVERY SINGLE TIME- even more now cause of online classes, she is like" ben me ayudar limpiar la casa que esta cochino"
@user-ii4ic6ln5q 5 жыл бұрын
" I thought it was clean ?!" " Cochino ! "
@puglover6113 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly lol 😂
@Chicagochild18 5 жыл бұрын
god the unequal treatment between brothers and sisters is so accurate lmao
@jerrybaena6161 5 жыл бұрын
And sadly a big factor for the machismo culture I think
@compulsivecommenter990 5 жыл бұрын
@@jerrybaena6161 Machistas and proud🤣🤣
@yfccssdg 4 жыл бұрын
Misogynistic patterns
@joycerodriguez9041 4 жыл бұрын
They do it because they fear that Girls could have a High range of being kidnapp or something else. That's why I haven't been on a sleepover nor going alone out of my house
@gbd-oq1rz 2 жыл бұрын
That dynamic enables toxic relationships unfortunately
@heelbelangerijk5555 5 жыл бұрын
I already miss Julissa😭😭😭
@thecurlyvshow 5 жыл бұрын
we miss her too!! :'( thank you for sticking around to support other awesome latino creators too!
@andicarusfell8387 5 жыл бұрын
Who is she? Sorry not often on this channel 😝
@tanairioquendo5588 5 жыл бұрын
Greek_Fire she was someone who left pero like I miss her alot😭😭😭😭😭
@LaPotraBellaca 5 жыл бұрын
Heel Belangerijk same
@jeilee3149 5 жыл бұрын
@@thecurlyvshow SORRY CURLY BUT SHE WAS THE BEST NO OFFENSE LIKE WE WANT TO SUPPORT BUT HERE ON THE EASTCOAST WE LOVE HER SO MUCH IS JUST IS NOT THE SAME
@r34lest.rod05 4 жыл бұрын
The greeting everyone at parties is just awkward and my Mom even makes me say bye to everyone when we leave a party who else?
@FirstLast-vj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
Good manners, its probably not so noticible in the states but if you are living for example PR, if you dont say hi with a kiss or bye at the end, we were raised that was bad manners and people may think its personal.
@iigg1913 3 жыл бұрын
I like doing it especially growing up because it was like find the best family members. See who hugs the best. And when we leave we will say bye 4 times before we actually leave the building.
@issa002 3 жыл бұрын
My mom even made me hug and/or kiss people I didn’t even know to greet them
@FirstLast-vj2sr 3 жыл бұрын
@@issa002 ahahha i hated that
@shypandapanda2046 3 жыл бұрын
At every beginning of a family party had to go around saying hi kissing my aunt's,uncle's, cousins cheeks and at every ending go around saying bye kissing all my aunt's, uncle's, cousins cheeks. We mexican so there was at least 100 of them lmaoo
@AnaCastillo-zy7dk 4 жыл бұрын
"No pida na, y te me sienta, y se calla!" I feel like he was possessed by my mom🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mrs.kimbutwhichone898 3 жыл бұрын
I kept nodding because I felt like he was saying it to me xD
@Nada-ux4we 5 жыл бұрын
My parents never let me stay over my friends house and would be like “ why do u wanna sleep at their place? Your not homeless/ you have a home here? We feed u well what else do u want “ 😂😂😂
@legowhite 5 жыл бұрын
My parents were like “you already have a bed why you wanna sleep there?
@Nada-ux4we 5 жыл бұрын
Legowhite rt!!!! 😂
@javieraossandon2713 5 жыл бұрын
I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER
@kimberlyrichardson2941 5 жыл бұрын
For me it was having a sleep over a few times as a kid and then once I turned 13 my mom would say ‘no’. Just no. Ask why and a whole thunderstorm of dissing your friends and how ‘little time’ you spend with the family. Welp, thank lord for FaceTime.
@moonlightmoonlight1198 5 жыл бұрын
Cecy Cruz ARMY
@jocelynortega8243 5 жыл бұрын
My mom would always be like "Y come bien por qué allá no va haber!"
@frizzzx86 5 жыл бұрын
yes!!
@tanyshagonzalez2269 5 жыл бұрын
You army??😲😲
@jocelynortega8243 5 жыл бұрын
@@tanyshagonzalez2269 yes guuurl
@tanyshagonzalez2269 5 жыл бұрын
Is your bias tae
@jocelynortega8243 5 жыл бұрын
@@tanyshagonzalez2269 it's kookie 💓 who's yours?
@anapimentel5905 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how my Hispanic mom would find a mess even when I cleaned everything 🤷♀️🤦♀️
@yutanakamoto7069 3 жыл бұрын
@@gaelmarin1023 this video is literally about the struggles of hispanics🙄🤦🏻♀️
@esmeraldagarcia4570 2 жыл бұрын
Omgggg yesssss, dirt and trash be coming out of no where 😂😂😂😂
@yaretziexists1733 4 жыл бұрын
“Reguero? I thought it was clean!” So true 😂
@AngelArrieta 5 жыл бұрын
i hate how accurate this is lmao
@compulsivecommenter990 5 жыл бұрын
Not my case at all🤣🤣 I was a lucky child
@la4549 5 жыл бұрын
Im not even latino and it describes my childhood perfectly 😂
@efrainsandoval6480 5 жыл бұрын
lol
@strawtifulbonnie9363 4 жыл бұрын
Sooo trueee 😂😂
@adrianagomez6257 4 жыл бұрын
Well its probably cause your American.
@mszpimentel7196 5 жыл бұрын
Waking up every Saturday to clean the house while mom bumping her music 🎶 hahah
@randomuser5914 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Actually I wasn't allowed to go out in high school on Saturdays until that bathroom was clean. I'm such a puss, why can't I make my son's do that now, they're old enough.
@mszpimentel7196 5 жыл бұрын
Maria daRosa right!!! Same here!!! We had to leave the house sparkling clean 🧽 lol if not forget it hahah
@vickyhorvath813 5 жыл бұрын
See you’re a CNCO fan. Are you? Bc Joel Pimentel
@itssskobeebiiiitch 5 жыл бұрын
Did it this morning 😂
@Articuno1 5 жыл бұрын
Yes me
@XxMyStoryLinexX 5 жыл бұрын
Who remembers when your cousins slept over you had to share the bed?! I hated doing that lmao
@jennsluis6125 4 жыл бұрын
share a bed? if you were lucky...we shared the floor cuz the beds were full 🤣🤣 #morecousinsthanicancount lol
@issa002 3 жыл бұрын
I HATED IT all my cousins slept like animals, most of the time I would be pushed to the edge of the bed or completely pushed off
@ValeriaMartinez-pj1eb 3 жыл бұрын
its worse when you have to give them your bed and bedroom because the guests have to be treated better than yourself :,)
@melaniegalay5534 5 жыл бұрын
I love how Curly is so aware of the toxic latino parenting skills.❤
@yetus3628 3 жыл бұрын
He is also the guy that made fun of a whole ass religion.. but he’s funny so it’s okay ig
@melaniegalay5534 3 жыл бұрын
@@yetus3628 I have not idea what you're talking about
@yetus3628 3 жыл бұрын
@@melaniegalay5534 they made a video called “practicing witchcraft with real witches” and the whole video was literally curly disrespecting all wiccans 😭
@melaniegalay5534 3 жыл бұрын
@@yetus3628 Ohh!! I haven't seen it. Let's see if I can find it.
@alyxxpratt678 3 жыл бұрын
@@yetus3628 witchcraft isn't a religion. wicca is tho
@lorenagutierrez6455 5 жыл бұрын
i stay starving at other people’s house and refuse to ask for even water 😂
@vadanarodriguez4623 5 жыл бұрын
Bro same that ish about se me calla y se me sienta i felt that
@samantha3454 4 жыл бұрын
Lorena Gutierrez yes I know
@theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840 4 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile me " you need help cooking? " or " I have to have this recipe "
@7101jy 4 жыл бұрын
I'm African and I can so relate! The double side of the sword for us is that it is also considered offensive (one time my friend's dad reported me to my dad that I refused to eat at their house) when you refuse food at someone's house so you must eat but not like you are starving. Like you could take a drink and say you are full otherwise.
@RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 4 жыл бұрын
Never in my house. Lmao my mom feeds anyone who steps foot in our home. Regardless if they just ate 🤣
@julissaandrew4028 5 жыл бұрын
2002: The belt is DISIPLINE 2019: THE BELT IS CHILD ABUSE 😂😂😂
@Jin_Raiden 5 жыл бұрын
Growing up they named the belt Oscar 😂
@randomuser5914 5 жыл бұрын
I mean I got the belt, I have kids now and I don't want to spank them. It brings no satisfaction and if I force it, I'd be miserable. I'm not relating. I still don't understand how parents do that. Even if the kid deserved it, I don't have that will to do it.
@galaxyqueen3064 5 жыл бұрын
@@randomuser5914 I agree, all corporal punishment does is install fear. Even parenting experts are against it.
@saras.301 5 жыл бұрын
Maria daRosa me too ive spanked my kid and it felt so wrong... he obeyed after that but I think about what my mom must have felt when she did it. They were taught thats what they had to do. I have done it too bc in reality I didnt know any better. I didnt know how to handle him. I have learned other ways now and continue to learn better ways...
@strawtifulbonnie9363 4 жыл бұрын
Growing up naming the belt, the cooking stick and even the hanger monstro.....
@JoiGisele 4 жыл бұрын
African Americans and Latinos share so many da*n cultural similarities I’ve never understood the disconnect!
@nataliedawnshade9958 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Especially the opening the refrigerator thing😂
@peytongomer2305 3 жыл бұрын
Natalie Dawnshade that’s an all over the world thing though
@anafolie471 3 жыл бұрын
That's because latinos were heavily influenced by black culture, after all latam is really mixed. Hell, we're even more mixed than USA in most part (especially Brazilians)
@YE-dr3zk 3 жыл бұрын
@@anafolie471 No no, we aren't strict because of influence of black culture. We're strict because experiences.
@shanitwito6161 3 жыл бұрын
And middle eastern😂😂
@xoxomisspaige 5 жыл бұрын
“You know we have the finest men in the world” -Curly I’m not a Latina but I totally agree👏🏽😍
@frizzzx86 5 жыл бұрын
i once walked into a non-latino (white) adult party with who was my boyfriend at the time and there were about 50 ppl there...and i thought "ok here i go, kissing 50 cheeks" and he just walked past everyone and didn't say hi. i was like WTF SO RUDE! i was stunned. apparently they just go in and say hi when they pass each other in the kitchen or something. i froze. next time im going around and say hi to everyone i don't care. i still feel rude years later.
@recoil53 5 жыл бұрын
Think of how relaxing that is though, no worries that you didn't see somebody and missed them accidentally. You see each other when you see each other.
@miahurtado 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend can do that at family gatherings. They don't say hello. They just kind of see each of in different rooms and skips the formalities. It still blows my mind. And when we're getting ready to leave? HE DOESN'T SAY BYE TO ANYONE.
@lillib.4134 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, haha, my perspective as being white, saying hello to everyone is not as important or it’s not in the right setting. I have been taught that it is polite to say hello and goodbye. I have had some encounters with my boyfriend’s (who is Mexican) family where I either forgot to holler down the hallway to say hello or because they are having more of a one on one conversation, and to me, I feel like I would have been rude to bump in to say hi. My boyfriend would tell me that I need to say hi to EVERYONE. But hey, I’m getting better and learning. I guess you can say we might have more rules with that and not necessarily trying to be rude but trying to be polite in our own ways. Frankly, there are rude people, so who knows. Hopefully that helps your perspective 😊
@pamelarodriguez6803 5 жыл бұрын
M H literally latinos parents be like “ saluda mija/o” and then when you leave “despídete que nos vamos”
@allisona7076 4 жыл бұрын
literally me with coworkers. How can people not saludar their people and/or mates
@TheKoopa4561 5 жыл бұрын
But- But I wanna hear what Julissa has to say too 🥺😭
@vishnulachansin9023 5 жыл бұрын
SHES GONE MOVE ON.
@elreydelmundo1343 5 жыл бұрын
Too soon 😢
@roselinsay930 5 жыл бұрын
Vishnu Lachansin 😭😭
@saintv75 5 жыл бұрын
Vishnu Lachansin that’s rude sis
@jeilee3149 5 жыл бұрын
@@vishnulachansin9023 EW YOURE SO GROSS HOW BOUT U MOVE ON & KEEP SCROLLING INSTEAD OF ANSWERING, TURD ASS LOSER
@RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 4 жыл бұрын
The only rule that I didn’t experience was saying no to food. My parents would nearly beat the shit out of us with their eyes if we denied food or drink offered to us at another person’s house. The way my mom explained it is you never ask, but when offered you say thank you and be grateful because they are giving you a gift basically. But you never ask for food! Also the goth thing is so true! I went through a goth phase but my mom stopped me at black nails because “esas son de mujeres de la calle!” Lol My sister and I weren’t allowed to have boyfriends until after high school but no one batted an eye when my brother had a girlfriend in 7th grade wtf 😭
@TheMichellepr 3 жыл бұрын
Mujeres de la calle 😂
@mikchik00 5 жыл бұрын
I have zero Latin blood 100% black And that slumber party rule and saying hello to everyone is so true for my family too Edit: the slumber party rule was a safety thing.
@FirstLast-vj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
Im puertorrican and i didnt realize it was everyones mom. My mother was so strict with that. It actually get her annoyed and if i wanted to play at a friends house the same question over and over, is there a male present? Than no, and she was also very selective witj cousins, she thought some were bad influences. Now i feel better.
@FirstLast-vj2sr 3 жыл бұрын
@@ilovemusic5177 ajajaja!
@MichelleLuvn25 3 жыл бұрын
Okkkk 100% black 😂😂😂 these are the same roles and rules !!!!
@TheMichellepr 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe we get it from our African ancestors...distrust must have been big for them Bendito.
@jitkasuarez 3 жыл бұрын
Or, everyone who isn't white and isn't from a 1st world-country is brought up this way? My Taiwanese friend wasn't allowed sleepovers, either...
@Paulina89 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone is sad about Julissa(don’t get me wrong her energy was amazing and I miss her too) but what about Norberto? I miss him too, he created great content and if it weren’t for him there wouldn’t have been Pero Like. I wish he had a farewell video too.
@anar2955 5 жыл бұрын
Paulina. Cuando se fue y porque
@kianahill3202 5 жыл бұрын
Paulina. I mean, they probably would have done that video if they had some warning but he got fired, he didn’t quit so it’s different
@dankboimemes4787 5 жыл бұрын
Kiana Hill wait why he get fired
@vegahw 5 жыл бұрын
Dankboi Memes buzzfeed made cuts and he was one of them. He’s working for voto Latino now.
@marisacasco9787 5 жыл бұрын
Ana Lee se fue en enero
@avinavar4818 5 жыл бұрын
I love how during holidays (birthdays, Las Posadas, Easter, etc) your whole life there are older people that you've known as your "tia" "tio", "primo",etc., but then now as an adult you finally ask your mom "hey, who is so-and-so related to?" and it turns out they aren't even related! They're just your mom's or your tia/tio's comadres/compadres that have been coming to family functions since you were born lmaoo!!! They've been adopted in! :)
@ColinYapp 5 жыл бұрын
They are usually the coolest "family" members because they are usually very likable, unlike the asses that are stuck o you biologically.
@lamamidel_bx1505 5 жыл бұрын
Hey family don't mean blood related
@strawtifulbonnie9363 5 жыл бұрын
Soo true XD
@strawtifulbonnie9363 5 жыл бұрын
@@ColinYapp yess and in that group you can find your favourite fam member cuz they always slayed out
@heiitsara997 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr 😂
@Marina-ye3fv 4 жыл бұрын
Me: goes to school with my hair messy My mom: “te miras como una Bruja”
@TheMichellepr 3 жыл бұрын
My mom would say...Parece una bona. A female Bum in Newyorican 😂
@whackafawk 5 жыл бұрын
*"tenemos comida en la casa, no pides comida de la calle"*
@Chuked 2 жыл бұрын
Comida de la caye
@jenm9601 5 жыл бұрын
"You didn't end up like me" were my hurting words.... . And when she sees your cousin and tells you, "she should have been my daughter!" 😅😂
@jenniferHernandez-xm8kg 4 жыл бұрын
“They don’t send u to somebodies house if u haven’t already ate” omfg no truer words have ever been spoken!
@TheMea2012 5 жыл бұрын
YASSS, I was not allowed to accept food at some else house😭. "Van a pensar que no te doy de comer" .....they live on others opinions.
@chelseagarcia4653 5 жыл бұрын
my parents also loved to smack us in the head with the mail..
@eli_2419 5 жыл бұрын
My mom did that and my dad it me with a paper plate
@sleepyhead425 5 жыл бұрын
I remember going to my guelito’s house after school. I would sit down at the table and talk to my guelita. My Guelito just walks by and would hit me hard in the head with mail.
@johnrojas6312 4 жыл бұрын
chelsea garcia it was a hit to the mouth that was my mother’s go to😂
@scp--297 4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@alockedupsituation19 5 жыл бұрын
Caribbean parents do the same thing it's so funny how were all alike just in different ways 🇻🇮🇰🇳
@briancanales312 5 жыл бұрын
The flag on the right......is that St.Kitts and Nevis? (If I'm wrong i really apologize😥😥)
@em4001 5 жыл бұрын
Brian Canales yes it is!
@r34lest.rod05 5 жыл бұрын
Both my parents are from Mexico and they didn’t have a fortunate childhood but now they’re both very successful adults and are raising me and my sister in a completely different manner while they still act like traditional Latino parents we have more money and more things and I have a fortunate future and I want to go to college one day and I hope that I can take advantage what my parents are giving me and pass it on to my kids so be grateful for what you have and if you want more then work for it
@libra8627 5 жыл бұрын
As a Ghanaian, I can tell you that I identify with A LOT of these stories 🤣🤣🤣
@KarlaMartinez-eu1hg 5 жыл бұрын
I'm still a Teenager but Papi is SO big on how we talk. Like "HABLA. LEEEENTOOO." And mami is just like "Karla, parate derecha que te vas a jorobar!"
@White_Tiger2169 4 жыл бұрын
As a kid if i didn't want to seat down any place i went with my parents they used to say, "Sientate que ya tu no vas a crecer mas."
@FirstLast-vj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂 mami too!! Having a thing with my posture.
@AdriCrobel 5 жыл бұрын
About greeting everyone is SO FREAKING true that when you're 30 you get furious at people who does not greet 🤣. ¡Qué maleducados! ¡No hay respeto!
@RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 4 жыл бұрын
True! I once did the mistake of just waving because I thought I didn’t need to do more and my mom apologized for me and said “la bajaron del cerro a tamborazos “ and I still don’t get it 🤣
@nonisplayground 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Caribbean and I relate to every single one of these! 💀😂😂
@yomakech9986 5 жыл бұрын
Dang, latino and African parents are really similar!
@miranda8366 5 жыл бұрын
Sí, very true
@idaliihernandesss924 5 жыл бұрын
If you miss one “ ay el esta muy grande para saludarte” that’s so freaken true!! Lol mis tias todas sentidas 😂
@marianlopez1804 4 жыл бұрын
Or uy que creido que ya no saluda
@christalrosado7629 5 жыл бұрын
I never had a sleepover unless its family... That was so annoying...
@Acord718 4 жыл бұрын
Ik lol
@emmab1294 5 жыл бұрын
This is exactly my life my parents are so strict and I can’t do anything
@vpb7746 4 жыл бұрын
Woah! I can't believe how two geographically separated cultures can be this similar. My Indian mom was the same with all the no sleepovers, no eating in other people's houses, coming home by sunset, no locking doors. Gosh, I'm SHOOKETH! The slipper thing too. We call it the 'chappal' here, haha!
@HITMANPegas 5 жыл бұрын
this video is funny because it's true. As the only Latin family on the street, I thought it was just my crazy parents being crazy. Turns out they are just being Latino.
@compulsivecommenter990 5 жыл бұрын
No, they were being crazy
@raccoon404x7 5 жыл бұрын
The neatness thing is too true. I grew up thinking I was messy then I moved out and started living with a white dude from northern Florida. NOPE. I’m neat, this dude’s the real cochino
@mikaylam2213 5 жыл бұрын
While I understand they may have had good intentions; I feel like Latino parents set us up to be socially awkward and ill-prepared for the world by telling us a lot of this stuff and treating us this way. For example, my boyfriends parents never took him to a restaurant porque "hay comida en la casa", as we all know.. And that made him unable to even be in a restaurant as a young adult without panicking because he didn't know how to order food, or pay, or leave a tip, etc etc..! It was ridiculous! It's things like this..And the whole "Don't ask for things, don't say anything, don't move, don't speak up" thing a lot of people mentioned is pretty toxic. You instill a fear of speaking up into them that they carry into adulthood. Why train your kids to be docile and complacent in a country where people like that get steam-rolled? The world at large doesn't function on that scale and old-school Latino parents just don't understand that.. it's so frustrating. They do what they think is "right" but it can be damaging to their American kids. I got lucky my Latino parents were several generations in and didn't raise me or my siblings this way. I know not everybody has that. At least those of us in the newer generations will (hopefully!!) know better than to treat kids like objects with harsh (gender, racial, class) stereotypes and roles. We can carry the good parts along, but a lot of things need to be 🚫!
@jitkasuarez 3 жыл бұрын
What you wrote about the restaurant is so relatable! Like I was in 9th gr. the first time I had McDonald's and I had to keep it secret from my friends, I was so ashamed. Anyway, the dark side of their parenting mistakes is SO very real and SO difficult to grow out of-- however, this video at least made me laugh and realize my sisters and I weren't the only ones.
@lightdarksol Жыл бұрын
As someone who's Caribbean, i can confirm this is true. I even get nervous to make a phone call to order food. Its tough
@candycane1744 Жыл бұрын
Mexican parents be wanting their kids to be docile and never move out while also be independent so they can have bragging rights to other family members
@helloesthertv3960 5 жыл бұрын
“El que llega saluda” 😂😂 por ley!
@r.i.plegend17 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate to every single one of these😂😂😂😂😂
@compulsivecommenter990 5 жыл бұрын
I can't lol.
@awesomeirlable 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with the whole sleepover thing...people are crazy nowadays
@adrianniespinal4422 4 жыл бұрын
Latinos parents are the best period boooo❤️✨🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴
@hersheyparkfan2772 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but they get fuckin ANNOYING sometimes
@taifoon2942 3 жыл бұрын
🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷
@ExoticAirKing 4 жыл бұрын
I'm Turkish and they are exactly like middle eastern parents.
@FirstLast-vj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
I love the turkish dramas. I see them in spanish. ❤❤❤
@ExoticAirKing 4 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-vj2sr Spanish and Turkish people should urgently make children together.. here's the reason -> Hot languages -> Exotic types -> Cute & Crazy temper -> Interesting Cultures (I like the ethnic combination ) 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@FirstLast-vj2sr 4 жыл бұрын
@@ExoticAirKing LOL this made me smile! I find turkish men very atractive! But i like the dramas because i like the way the parents are always important and i love looking at the tea!! ❤ it always look so inviting!!
@ExoticAirKing 4 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-vj2sr I am a turkish women & non-religious turkish men are really respectful and cute but the rest ist mostly (not all of them) too dramatic & ignorant.. I don't know you but I wish you all the best honey.. we are all human and we should learn to respect each other.. 🤍✌🏽🖤
@abbeyjane5014 3 жыл бұрын
@@ExoticAirKing I'm an northern Irish non religious woman i tend to find less religious people more open minded
@christerman420 5 жыл бұрын
Whenever we have a family gathering, my mama and my titis are talking about EVERYONE.
@sjsjdbsjd369 5 жыл бұрын
im a potato your titties 😭😰
@fairytailgirl123 5 жыл бұрын
And if talk about them, they give you a dirty look ( in my experience)
@Wronginteraction78 5 жыл бұрын
YESS I CALL MY AUNT TITI TOO!
@rosiepena8917 4 жыл бұрын
i'm a muskrat - I literally have to tell my mother "stop telling everybody my business!" Cuz they call me when they hear what happened to me 😡
@kendrajuarez5674 5 жыл бұрын
my mom would also ignore me if I didn’t do what she told me to do. (Some of the things she told me to do was embarrassing) and she would act like if she didn’t know me 🙅🏻♀️🙍🏻♀️
@hazelhernandez3029 5 жыл бұрын
I love this!!!! I nodded yes the whole video!! Born in Canada with Latino parents it was a challenge I love how they raised me because that’s why I’m such A great and loving person and have hilarious stories to share ❤️
@Headpimples 3 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for ending on that note, it’s accurate and honest and gracious. Thank you ! I’m glad you ur self have come to see it that way.
@glmrklls00 5 жыл бұрын
the fridge thing killed me!! i thought that was just my parents lmao
@AverytheCubanAmerican 5 жыл бұрын
My mom had to deal with my abuela's chancla. Luckily I didn't have to deal with that growing up
@faithpersona3668 5 жыл бұрын
Your lucky
@epdlc2889 5 жыл бұрын
Omg thank god I’m not the only one. I thought I was the only Hispanic that didn’t deal with the chancla
@christinabrown232 5 жыл бұрын
I don't think my mom had the chancla very much either bc her mom lived in an abusive household before moving to America
@tamy3265 4 жыл бұрын
3:26 my mom always omg 😂😂
@shirostateira6988 4 жыл бұрын
100% on point. I'm so thankful that my parents are who they are. They taught me to be a strong, independent woman who can fend for herself. I cook, I clean and I'm an extremely hard worker. Love my parents!
@browneyedrockerbabe4155 5 жыл бұрын
*I can definitely relate to this especially the "Don't eat at anyone's house" & "Go say hi to everybody"*
@silence3030 5 жыл бұрын
TOO REAL. TF. i actually live in south america so i thought everyone did this??? how you go to someones house and OPEN THEIR REFRIGERATOR dude uskshsjbs
@kendraa7013 5 жыл бұрын
Dude, I grew up in the South USA, and if you open up someone's fridge, you gonna be murdered once you're back home. Like, that's a hardcore breach in social etiquette lol, that and the food thing, except we always refuse 2 to 3 times and after that we're allowed to accept the offered food.
@jokerg712 3 жыл бұрын
have been watching your channel and enjoy the topics you speak on.... much respect. I’m an Hispanic man who crossed the boarder at the age of 4 with my mother and grandmother. My mother worked 5 years straight as soon as we crossed and arrived to VA to get our green card, which we were granted. I am proud of who I am and my Hispanic culture. I am fluent in Spanish and English. I became a US citizen at the in 2010 and had the privilege to grow up in a very diverse area in the Northern VA area. I was also fully educated here in VA, I have also educated myself in topics that I was not though in school. I have watched many of your videos and would like if possible and honestly for you to watch the links and videos I have attached. I hope you continue to speak up and also further educate yourself on world history and not not only on the American History that the white man has been teaching. 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@gaborigvink2681 3 жыл бұрын
You know your Latino when your mother always says “Primero Muerta antes que sencilla”
@nylahmastros110 5 жыл бұрын
My dad is a immigrant from Greece and my mom is from Puerto Rico 💀but I love them they are so strict but I still love them❤️
@LaPotraBellaca 5 жыл бұрын
Nylah Mastros such a cool mix
@vicklepickle301 5 жыл бұрын
*barges in* FELLOW BORICUA?
@nylahmastros110 5 жыл бұрын
Queer Monarch :3 si❤️
@nylahmastros110 5 жыл бұрын
Britloves Quincy thank you 😂💖
@sava471 5 жыл бұрын
You knew it was real when you heard your full name being yelled at by your mom
@estefimedinaj 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why I changed my name. El gran truco
@caratmia97 5 жыл бұрын
I am from Colombia and my mom moved to Spain when I was little, so years later my mom met her husband and he is a business man so she came for me and we ofc had a better life here, and she always tells me that when I used to invite friends over, the first thing I did was showing them my fridge and all what was inside 😂😂 now I think about it, maybe it's bc comparing it from what we had in Colombia (don't get me wrong, we didn't had a bad life in Colombia but the lifestyle change was really big) was such a huge change and I was so happy to have all those different types of food in my fridge xD
@jimmya1465 3 жыл бұрын
I just love the way that curly always understands the way that I grew up makes me so close to him because he reminds me so much of my younger cousin and his personality
@dianaali5770 5 жыл бұрын
I’m Kurdish but damn it felt like y’all nailed the description of my parents (mostly my mom) 😂
@drewdarocha9075 5 жыл бұрын
My favorite memory growing up Latino was when there a family party and your tio had a non Spanish speaking girlfriend . My mother and titi Maria ( who was the most fun aunt ) would talk polite to her and then talk bad about to the whole family . Like she didn’t eat anything , she didn’t make juniors plate . If you Latino you know your girl has to make you plate at family functions . But in the end it was all love . Then everyone spoke English again once she came to the third family function . Then it was like this must be serious .
@katbrax8622 4 жыл бұрын
I'm Black and my parents raised my sisters and I the same way. Love y'all!!
@Gigi-ki5su 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this sooo much. My mother and grandparents did all that and now I do most of it too! My kids get mad and laugh too but they know that I LOVE them.
@RaayaSalvatore 5 жыл бұрын
It's crazy cuz my mom wont even let me lock my door either and she can lock hers i be wanted to argue but ik ima get my ass beat 🤦🏽♀️🇩🇴
@janellytorres700 5 жыл бұрын
If we went to someone else's house we had to accept all food no matter if we didn't like it or weren't hungry.
@rhaniuxbee2867 5 жыл бұрын
Yeeahhh my mom is like :No los desprecies es de muy mala educación
@chenlenochen 5 жыл бұрын
in my family we had the 3-rule: you say no the first time, if they offer again out of politeness you say no again, and if they ask a third time (estás segura que no quieres un poquito chiquita?) THAT'S when you can say yes hahah
@isisprior1987 4 жыл бұрын
@@chenlenochen LMAOOOO ME TOOOOO (I'm brazilian)
@lisamatinez8976 5 жыл бұрын
This video gives me LIFE!!!! Aaaaaaand that sense of yaaaas "Mi gente") ♡ ¡Muchas gracias! tqm Curly
@Anitamustdie 5 жыл бұрын
My parents never told me to never open someone else fridge but like it’s weird entering someone’s house and start opening shit 😭
@alanisnegron3 5 жыл бұрын
Is Curly growing canas? ‘Cause I’d love his hair like that💙
@thecurlyvshow 5 жыл бұрын
IM A ZADDDDYYY
@alexram9076 5 жыл бұрын
All this soooo True! If one of us didn’t say hi to a tia or a tio, mom would give us the side eye like “más te vale que regreses y saludes a tus tíos”. Hmmmhhmm
@Nickimay 5 жыл бұрын
Whenever we wanted to play hide and seek my mom would scare us and say “se van a encontrar al diablo” and we’d be too scared
@Marisol_stars 5 жыл бұрын
This has to be the best video I've seen so far from this channel 😂 you guys are on point with our latino parents
@julsca3738 5 жыл бұрын
"LATINO'S LEAN ON EVERYONE ELSE's OPINIONS" - that right there! right there! just right there... had me. UGH thank you
@emilyl4233 5 жыл бұрын
And then it’s the “hay que flaca es que no comes?” And if you gain any weight “Hay que gorda te as puesto” 😂😂😂😭😭
@MOthanMost 5 жыл бұрын
Loving Curly’s hair. 😍 That touch of gray and fresh cut is...muah! 😘
@S.el18 4 жыл бұрын
I’m from Moroccan descent and I can relate to anything said in this video 😹😹😹 especially eating before going to guests so u won’t be a fool like u’ve never seen food 🤣
@SkyBorba 5 жыл бұрын
this is so true, but for me, when i went to visit other people's houses...if it was mi abuela's house or mi tia's house, opening the fridge was fine....but it was the only exception
5 жыл бұрын
I'm Haitian and EVERYTHING applies😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💀 I think we're too close and similar to Dominican Republic😂😭😭
@kimallnaturelle 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 🇭🇹🇭🇹. I don't think ppl understand that Haitians are culturally African & Latinx
@KatherineIN 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Curly! You are awesome!
@im_mrs_yg4855 4 жыл бұрын
Love you guys 😭❤️ glad I found this page ! Subscribed 🙌🏽
@ukhtiiiii 5 жыл бұрын
I’m not Latina but I’ve experienced all of this, while my friend who desperately wants to be Latina hasn’t😂😂
@ilovegsp 5 жыл бұрын
As soon as I heard that Elvis Crespo and Carlos Vives blasting with the smell of tostones, deditos, empanadas and arepas I knew I had to get my ass up and clean the whole goddam house :(
@iipufy 3 жыл бұрын
When you said Cocotazo... Memories.
@niveasanchez6120 5 жыл бұрын
I cant relate any more if i wanted to, to the sleepover thing. Omg, haha. Loveee this channel so much!!
@tjsealey5572 5 жыл бұрын
So accurate...so true...from speaking to everyone, to how you look in public and cleaning every Saturday morning while blasting Ana Gabriel....100%Boricua household....😂😂😂
@arianatorres4399 5 жыл бұрын
I literally live this whole video right now 😔 i hate Saturday's. im the bathroom cleaner, and the youngest and only child in the house so im also the everything else cleaner 😭
@XxMyStoryLinexX 5 жыл бұрын
Omg this was so me and my brothers growing up. If We didn’t say hi to everyone We got it when I got home. when it was time to wake up they had blast the music. But looking back I love them for learning how to respect my family
@jojofc88 3 жыл бұрын
I developed a mild interest in Latin American culture 3 years ago. I am now OBSESSED with it! I absolutely love it!
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