Jordan Peterson: What to Do If You are Stuck in the Past?

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How can you tell that you are stuck in the past? How do you fix it? This is from Jordan Peterson’s last live appearances before his illness treatment. Taken from the third lecture of our 6 part series. These lectures are taken from Dr. Peterson's 12 Rules for Life Tour.
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@greydogedmdriver3053 2 жыл бұрын

I constantly have regret cringe. I find myself thinking about and reliving the really bad, hurtful things I’ve said or done. Especially past relationships. I keep telling myself that it’s in the past, that they are life lessons and that I can do better.

@marcusappelberg369 2 жыл бұрын

That is the only thing we can do. Been having CPTSD since 2014.

@ynwa9245 2 жыл бұрын

I get this

@givemechoco9753 2 жыл бұрын

The thing that I keep telling myself to overcome this is, "The best way to own the responsibility for our past mistake is to become a better person and to never let that mistake happen again." It works sometimes, but sometimes I still keep ruminating about it because deep down I know I'm still a horrible person for doing those actions.

@daydreamer3898 2 жыл бұрын

@@givemechoco9753 same happens to me also nowadays

@shaunvanslyke6386 2 жыл бұрын

Me too I wish I didn't have to admit it.

@brianmags1999 2 жыл бұрын

Depression comes from living in the past Anxiety comes from living in the future Peace comes from living in the present

@nickm8874 Жыл бұрын

Generic bollocks

@Nutty_By_Nature Жыл бұрын

That's why it's called the present. Because it's a gift.

@dewainness187 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Brian

@jackybogues2495 Жыл бұрын

This doesn’t even tough the sides of the complexity that exists. Stay well clear from soundbite quotes that sound good. And grind and make nuanced observations and distinctions from experience yourself

@apeezy1k Жыл бұрын

Taoism is the shizzle!!

@justamangoddamn Жыл бұрын

I went back to school to finish my degree at 40+yrs old thanks to this man!

@elshem122 Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@r.g6170 Жыл бұрын

That's amazing. congratulations!

@ShawnJonesHellion Жыл бұрын

Still. Failed 1st grade. Math ? Welcome to. 4th world brought to. You by the usa/israel empire

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

Old sick misogynist Nazi bastard J Peterson kissing the Orbanus hard for 50 million HUF: "my message to Hungarians: Do not rebel against your great Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian race"

@DJ-yj1vg Жыл бұрын

That's courageous.

@xfire7 Жыл бұрын

I`m tormented by my past . Every negative experience in my life is rerun like a film over and over .

@valkyrie273 5 ай бұрын

I thought I was alone.

@bellavia5 5 ай бұрын

I think this happens because you don't want to make the same mistakes ans so keep the experiences fresh in your memory. I'm the same way.

@mikeanderson8526 4 ай бұрын

Start writing those experiences down on paper

@easyas314 3 ай бұрын

I can only think that that is what hell is like, and I'm in it.

@phantom__deluxe 3 ай бұрын

@@easyas314 relatable :(

@seanmcclure 3 жыл бұрын

This is me. Someone is actually, finally talking to me. I’m not ashamed that hearing him say exactly what I’m going through made me choke up. My memories go all the way back to high school. I am bipolar and I will catch myself cringing thinking of all the bad things that have happened to me. The good far outweigh the bad but are all that seem to be popping in my head.

@marijamili1249 3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@haley2121 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@ThatDankCheese 2 жыл бұрын

I highly recommend mindfulness meditation. Has helped me very much with my own memories

@rmcd823 2 жыл бұрын

@@ThatDankCheese Mindfulness and some natural pills to regulate the cortisol. Adrenal and thyroid support.

@Spiritryptamine 2 жыл бұрын

I've found that recognozing that the good outweighs the bad is the best medicine. When I feel down, I go to bed telling myself what I did well in the last days, or in the past. I sleep extremely well after that. It helps a LOT.

@patrickbateman9204 2 жыл бұрын

This man has helped me through more in my life then I think he can even imagine.

@danguerriero3094 2 жыл бұрын

Good to hear Patrick

@pringlesmanhadashave1321 2 жыл бұрын

@LAW Friends! What are those? Pull yourself together, man.

@elizabethwilk9615 2 жыл бұрын

It happens all the time now so it might help to know that it just doesn’t happen to you

@thomasmills339 2 жыл бұрын

If anything Jordan Peterson says helps you brother you are so far worse off than you thought

@king-ghost1027 2 жыл бұрын

@LAW if that happened to you,, then those ppl are not your friends

@michellemichelle9143 Жыл бұрын

One thing that helps is to change your regret into gratitude- I have a hard time forgiving myself and relive the “what if” and “if only” scenarios but when I look at my past with more compassion love and understanding it turns into some forgiveness and love and mercy - it helps me to see that even though I can’t go back and change that choice that I can be grateful for the lessons that it’s helped me to learn and the person it’s shaping me into.

@lynetteowens946 Жыл бұрын

"Regret into gratitude" WOW. You, girlfriend have just changed my thoughts. Thank you so much. Practice makes perfect 💪😎

@MrJibby09 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Great advice! And simpler and more concise than Jordan’s. Thanks

@ShawnJonesHellion Жыл бұрын

Let's ask a female God created to create the illusion of creating babies from on small portion of a man what she thinks. Said no one ever

@dreamingaboutpinkskies5384 Жыл бұрын

thanks a lot for this

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@goodshepherd3508 Жыл бұрын

I really love the comments and after reading most of the comments tears came through my eyes. I feel I'm not only the one who has suffered from unpleasant memories of the past but also now learning from the past and healing the past. Thank you so much Jordan Peterson and may God bless you and all those wounded souls. Great respect and love to You from India.

@brucerees9668 Жыл бұрын

❤

@janetrowe186 7 ай бұрын

We all are human..done many things..

@tomd1434 2 жыл бұрын

One thing about growing up in the 90’s was you didn’t have the ability to search your phone and find people who were having similar problems. Here people give advice and maybe get a different perspective. I think that’s good for young people today. And everyone else too.

@Khloe_dancer_model 2 жыл бұрын

Yesss! 👏🏻👏🏻👍

@JorgeTorrespluspage 2 жыл бұрын

It's a double blade sword tho, if you're not careful you can fall into a negativity circle within online communities where people feed each other's negative/unhealthy habits or beliefs. And also the immediate access to other people's "lifestyles" on social media can create a warped conception of reality, where all we can see is the positive but phony appearances people share on their IG and Facebook and whatnot. Just as in real life one needs to be careful where and with who we interact online.

@tomd1434 2 жыл бұрын

@@JorgeTorrespluspage Oh no doubt I completely agree. I’m just referring to one positive aspect as I see it.

@blairsmith3199 2 жыл бұрын

There's a lot to be said for ignorance is bliss

@IsraelCountryCube 2 жыл бұрын

@liam Anderson me too I’m 19 I only allow men like Jordan B Peterson to change my views because he isn’t a bad man.

@lenBrill1971 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 50. I find myself dwelling, thinking hard about things, and reliving the darkest parts of my life. More and more, I find myself thinking of these bad times. It bothers me. I tell myself I'm living in the now and to stop obsessing over things that can't be changed. Half an hour later, I unconsciously find my self in the past again. I go as far back as childhood. Frustrating

@2KLEEN123 2 жыл бұрын

same

@khylton8938 2 жыл бұрын

I'll be 50 next month and already dwelling. Hardest thing since 43, is forgiving myself for a mistake I made which hurt my kids. Indirectly but regardless it really hurt them! I didn't realize it. It was MY mistake, my consequences, my responsibility to make it right...which I did. But since, they never looked at me the same. They don't look at the great moments of their childhood, all the great memories, etc Just that mistake. And yes, it's thrown at me at times of disagreements. Heart wrenching to say the least.

@lenBrill1971 2 жыл бұрын

@K Hylton . . . .I'm not a Christian. But, I've spent many nights staring at the ceiling pondering the word repentance. Christians say confess your sins to god, dust your hands off, and walk away forgiven. All good. That's not repentance. True repentance is being truly sorry. (Which we know you are) And carrying around that unshakable guilt for life. And never repeating the same mistake. True repentance, you can never walk away from because you are a good soul. I suffer the same guilt. ❤

@miapax1962 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@mrchildgrownold3852 2 жыл бұрын

Same here I'm 65, been this way as long as I can remember

@Lunias 6 ай бұрын

I regret not studying, I regret mingling with the wrong people, I regret not appreciating someone who loved me, I regret being stupid, I regret being a loser, I regret living my young teenage years with no sense of self awareness

@brittanyholt940 3 ай бұрын

This is exactly where I'm at in life

@brittanyholt940 3 ай бұрын

And have been for a couple yrs, I'm seeing this as life lesson and thanking Gods word and Jordan P for helping me through even though I'm not there

@StagvanHeuten 2 ай бұрын

My word! Going through teenage years without self awareness is what we go through teenage years for. If you hadn’t had learnt anything you would not have been able to be so self aware now. Pat yourself on the back - you sound very mentally healthy!

@edgarmoran5203 2 ай бұрын

@@brittanyholt940 be humble. Accept help and follow your concience

@user-kw1qr9vd2h 26 күн бұрын

@@brittanyholt940 i only regret not studying and having bad friends

@zenstoryshare 6 ай бұрын

At 40+, I finally fulfilled my dream of finishing my degree! Huge thanks to this man.

@myktrixxx49 6 ай бұрын

@50+ still a lot a work 2 do.Congrats 2 your degree…Sincerely.Peace,Love & Light

@M1dnightRunner 6 ай бұрын

So happy for you mate.

@mongus-cy2yc 5 ай бұрын

wow

@user-vc4yp9um7o 5 ай бұрын

Well done fella. All the best.

@wyz1 4 ай бұрын

Inspiring bruv thank you for never giving up!

@shibbidydoowop 2 жыл бұрын

One thing that I've always found admirable is Peterson's breadth of vocabulary and the way he articulates concepts. It always clicks perfectly

@fastpost5068 2 жыл бұрын

Thats why he is a professor. A good one :-)

@davidzeto2446 2 жыл бұрын

Whoo boy, embarrassing.

@scarred10 2 жыл бұрын

I wouldnt call him a good speaker at all,too nervpus and agitated.

@davidzeto2446 2 жыл бұрын

If you attended college or university you would realize Peterson's rhetoric is mostly smoke and mirrors. He conflates, shifts in and out of focus on topics to blur out holes in logic and consistency. He's quite embarrassing quite frankly. He caters to fools who find him just complicated and understandable enough to flatter their own sense of intelligence. Intellectual snake oil.

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

J Peterson , the old sick misogynist Nazi bastard kissing the Orbanus hard for 50 million HUF: "my message to Hungarians: Do not rebel against your great Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian race"

@holycow8743 Жыл бұрын

“Sometimes it’s better to learn than insist on being right because it’s better for the future.” What an amazing comment.!!!!! I am healed just by listening to this video over something that’s been bothering me for three months, God Bless You JP.

@diesfastest6667 Жыл бұрын

My problem is living in the past with all the good times,ppl that are no longer here etc………as it makes me smile it also makes me cry

@adiibaz8828 2 ай бұрын

Fr..

@Mike-ks6qu 11 ай бұрын

I'm stuck in happy times of the past. It's so potent and I know it's illogical. Everyone has moved on. The entire massive group of friends I had has moved on, and yet I'm stuck longing for us all to be together again.

@chiragmehta8212 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. I miss thee few years I felt ok. I torture myself yearning for past.

@Wildwest696 2 ай бұрын

It's not illogical - it's real. Life used to be fun . everything that mattered back in the 70,S and 80"s is GONE .including our friends and family.

@theunknown4570 3 жыл бұрын

The prison that holds you captive. Has no walls.

@theguythatdoesthings3480 2 жыл бұрын

You built the prison. You are the prisoner and the guard. Thats why its so difficult to leave because you have so much pride in what you built but you dont realize it’s torturing you

@ryanflynn6819 2 жыл бұрын

Very insightful

@bill2953 2 жыл бұрын

A carton of smokes you're wrong... Signed #463762

@SkyPilot54 2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@bill2953 2 жыл бұрын

@Evan Hodge Thanks for you sparking retort. You're excused from further participation. lol.

@rawacoustics 3 жыл бұрын

The Elephant Rope (Belief) A gentleman was walking through an elephant camp, and he spotted that the elephants weren’t being kept in cages or held by the use of chains. All that was holding them back from escaping the camp, was a small piece of rope tied to one of their legs. As the man gazed upon the elephants, he was completely confused as to why the elephants didn’t just use their strength to break the rope and escape the camp. They could easily have done so, but instead, they didn’t try to at all. Curious and wanting to know the answer, he asked a trainer nearby why the elephants were just standing there and never tried to escape. The trainer replied: “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”

@andreprosise41 3 жыл бұрын

Wow....Great story.

@tenfoldband4986 3 жыл бұрын

Sad but TRUE

@squarerootof2 3 жыл бұрын

Yep, very appropriate. "Conditioned" is the key word to that story. For many it is not just believing they can't, it is they just don't want or dare to. Why escape to the unknown forest and have to fend for yourself when you have the certainty and familiarity of the camp/plantation?

@petsyhughes6676 3 жыл бұрын

Wow great story thanks for sharing 😁

@davesproles2708 3 жыл бұрын

Uh?......hmm......perhaps relevant lol? God bless ya for sharing regardless :)........

@MrFredstt Жыл бұрын

Just turned 23 and honestly I've been really struggling with coming to terms with a lot of things, one of those being too attached to memories and regrets of things I didn't do but should have done. This video has helped me some.

@Mehcats69 Жыл бұрын

Same. Sadly 22-24 is some of the mentally most challenging and confusing years. 😭you’re not alone

@kronictonic1089 Жыл бұрын

No regrets

@shaunbarnett2972 Жыл бұрын

23 lol. You have your whole life ahead of you!! Do NOT end up like me with massive regrets at age 48 for screwing your life up completely. I would give ANYTHING to be able to go back to being 23.

@KpxUrz5745 Жыл бұрын

I don't so much have regrets about things I wish I had done differently, as much as the fact that my memory is excellent, and I always remember the various sleights and statements and actions by others that I knew were B-S at the time, and so there are just lots of bad memories. Well, I do wish I had stood up and walked out a few times back in Ivy League grad school, when we were forced to be a captive audience. On the positive side, though, all these things help me now to cement my present outlook and personality, backed by lots of experience and good reasons.

@MrFredstt Жыл бұрын

@@shaunbarnett2972 Thanks for the words of encouragement man! Always helps to get advice from older people

@byronmann4525 Жыл бұрын

I live in the past, which is why I clicked the video, but it’s not the bad memories, it’s the good ones that I’m addicted to. Closest thing to a time machine I have is the music I listened to at that time. So I listen to it close my eyes and imagine myself in that scenario and it works but it fades each time to where I’d do anything to feel it for the first time again. I’m addicted to nostalgia and have been for years.

@mr.mysterious7940 Жыл бұрын

YES YES! This is me, I was hoping this video was about nostalgia and being addicted to the good memories and wanting to go back again. I wish there was a cure....

@byronmann4525 Жыл бұрын

@@mr.mysterious7940 Yeah, there is no cure, just have to deal with it or distract yourself by other means

@drishti8822 2 жыл бұрын

I wish he was my therapist

@jaysonshaulov8449 2 жыл бұрын

He is our therapist for free on youtube, which is the amazing thing really.

@annaceleste2073 2 жыл бұрын

@@jaysonshaulov8449 amen! Love your comment.

@kriptodunyam1902 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson Death's NOT the Problem, It's Complexity ''The DENIAL of DEATH'' kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mZh-YNepua3SaZs.html

@blueoctober555 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson's lectures helped me become a better adult. His advice is something I needed throughout my life. Its a shame I couldn't get this advice from home but having it now helps me become a better person.

@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын

The day i discovered that someone called jordan peterson exists, is the day i actually started getting my act together, ive failed and succeeded and fine tuned the efforts but i was really on a downward spiral. Im so thankful for finding him too!

@blueoctober555 2 жыл бұрын

@@RomyaRana that’s awesome, I know what you mean I was in the same position and it’s tragic that there are people that are trying to discredit him because they don’t agree with him when he’s helped so many people.

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@laceymcelroy8317 3 ай бұрын

I had a very traumatized upbringing with 8 other siblings. We suffered so much together. I have been on a path of healing and freedom from all of that pain and trauma. Rebuilding my thought process and reaction to life around. For most of my life, I always felt like I had to find something/place?? Seeking to fill something in me. Never apart of the people or church family around me. FINALLY understand that was past emotion I was dealing with. To allow myself to be in the right now. Bury all of them that hurt me. And it is safe in this place NOW!!! LOVE THIS SO MUCH. People like me need this kinda chats!!! Thank you.

@nationalskyline Жыл бұрын

I love Dr. Peterson. He just enlightened me more in a 5-minute clip than decades of therapy and psychiatry combined.

@mediocreman2 Жыл бұрын

Psychiatry is just drugs. Of course those aren't going to solve the cause of a problem. And if decades of therapy didn't solve what you needed to solve internally but a short video did, then you weren't putting in the work or your therapist(s) wasn't. Or both.

@bigearl2532 7 ай бұрын

@@mediocreman2you’re right therapy definitely works but It requires cooperation on both ends

@shane5155 2 жыл бұрын

I find myself stuck in multiple points in time. Not just cringey moments from my junior years, but, to the point where I feel like it’s still my first day of high school. Current day, I’m 25, I have a great job, I’m married and I’m about to become a dad in 4 months, so on paper, I’m doing okay, but I still feel stuck at 2 or 3 different ages in my past. I remember everything. I remember everyone. I can’t mature. I can’t self control. I am so sure that people only remember me and look at me in a negative way. Constant cringe.

@tomd1434 2 жыл бұрын

When I think of something negative from the past I try to ask myself “ok but what did I learn?” sooner than later and it seems to stop the snowball in it’s tracks.

@zoeazsss5035 Жыл бұрын

The art of grieving what couldnt be, is keeping me stuck in the past. It is all a matter of accepting not having what i wanted and having it my way. Feeling hurt, anger, frustration,, sadness,, regret.

@ms.rlsteele351 6 ай бұрын

What, if anything, has helped you to step away from being stuck?

@zoeazsss5035 6 ай бұрын

@@ms.rlsteele351 Excellent question, believe it or not, just asking myself this same question this morning, and I have no idea how to get unstuck. I guess it about seeing the truth in something, and not clouded judgment.

@ms.rlsteele351 6 ай бұрын

@zoeazsss5035 There is a comment on here by brianmags1999 that depression is from living in the past, anxiety from living in the future, and peace from living in the present. There are so many parts to what we grieve and why we grieve, and there are no right or wrong ways to deal with events that only we fully understand. I just kept it to myself for too long, I guess. And the anger underlying the depression has nowhere to go. It's not about forgiveness because people have to make decisions. But the anger is from not having any choice except to be stuck with someone's decision that changed the trajectory of my life.

@zoeazsss5035 6 ай бұрын

@@ms.rlsteele351 Thank you for all that. It is very powerful insight. And probably all true. We each grieve differently I guess. Maybe getting stuck is when you have run out of ways to process the grief.

@DavidSoon-fl2ch 5 ай бұрын

@@ms.rlsteele351 I totally understand what you’re feeling and going through! I’m sorry that you’re having to deal with somebody’s choices that impact your life! I’m in a similar situation with accepting an end to a relationship without knowing what I did wrong! This is causing my life to become filled with anxiety, depression and stress.

@rodrigodiaz9472 8 ай бұрын

I did and said alot of stupid crap and It still haunts me today. I wish i could go back and change things. I find that cold plunges sets me to the present moment but then after a few days it creeps up on me again.

@99blackbirds 3 жыл бұрын

I have PTSD and this makes so much sense!! I've been doing this over and over.

@god-la-7wins-verdad-942 3 жыл бұрын

🙌😇man helps lots of people, continues to help me, keep watching keep searching keep learning keep growing keep realizing 💯☦️💪🏽

@kriptodunyam1902 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson Death's NOT the Problem, It's Complexity ''The DENIAL of DEATH'' kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mZh-YNepua3SaZs.html

@marcmarc4776 2 жыл бұрын

Yep! 19 years since I was in Iraq and there has only been a handful of days I didn't talk about it, relate something to it, think about it, or dream about it.

@Darronsanderson 2 жыл бұрын

Prior military?

@Darronsanderson 2 жыл бұрын

@@marcmarc4776 thank you for your service. I was two tours, Gulf War. 🇺🇸

@user-ts6bi4ye2m 2 жыл бұрын

It’s been years and i can never let go of the past. I hate myself for all of my past, it haunts me there isn’t one day where it hasn’t crossed my mind at least once since. How can you move on from events that are awful? Awful things you’ve done ? Hurt people who didn’t deserve it? I care more and more everyday as if that’s humanly possible. Thing is i can’t be sure i’m willing to live with it forever and i haven’t been able to before leading to awful moments. It’s hard.

@m3m437 Жыл бұрын

Regret cringe. I never thought to give it a name, but that's so simple it's brilliant.

@adsylvium5736 Жыл бұрын

hey man, how are you doing now.. im literally struggling with the same problem as you. :((

@jeanetteclark320 Жыл бұрын

Same here.Its been hard living in the past ,it's draining,but thank God for access to others that have experienced the same things.I use to think I was the only one that replayed my screw ups from the past on a daily basis.

@adsylvium5736 Жыл бұрын

@@jeanetteclark320 you're not alone.. stay strong ❤❤❤

@daksenov1985 Ай бұрын

I am right here with you… I’ll never recover from the mistakes I made

@jasooty7183 2 жыл бұрын

I’m definitely stuck in the past and got a lot of anxiety. The worst nightmare I can remember having was: Teachers from my past stole all my stuff and then tried to kill me. When asking others for help they rolled their eyes and saying “they’re teachers they don’t try to kill you”. No one was on my side. I also remember having dreams where I would be crying in the dream and I wake up crying with tears on my face.

@jasooty7183 Жыл бұрын

@SecaKaizen thank you. I am slowly getting better.

@janetrowe186 7 ай бұрын

EmotionalyFreedomTechnque

@janetrowe186 7 ай бұрын

This EFT works...clearance out our past issues.

@reddog7046 3 ай бұрын

I really like him. He's like a father that cares about all of us.

@naseralshamsi9085 2 жыл бұрын

I’m stuck in high school where I used to feel anxious daily since most of my classmates disliked me at that time. I was threatened all the time that I will be attacked at any second and won’t be able to defend myself+ I was already abused as a child so I didn’t feel safe most of the time and didn’t learn methods of how to defend myself. I lived in this situation for months until I graduated. This happened five years ago and I’m still stuck there. However, I know I’m stronger now. I survived this sh*t without anyone knowing about it even. For anyone going through hard time, you are capable of handling it. Trust me!

@stephengillihan7568 2 жыл бұрын

Nurture relationships that can defend. Thats why they make men.

@naseralshamsi9085 2 жыл бұрын

@@stephengillihan7568 I don’t get you Sir.

@Joe-mj3ik 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Emmiedear00 2 жыл бұрын

You are a sweet soul! I love you.

@serene5345 2 жыл бұрын

@@naseralshamsi9085 He means make friends with other men that will either defend you or help teach you to defend your Self. (hope I got it right) Peace to you dear Naser and Stephen.

@Ur2ez4me81 2 жыл бұрын

Back in 2016 I made the decision to choose my family over my destructive alcoholism. I’ve been sober for 5 years now & I still carry the burden of regret from the past when I pushed my family members away. I hate myself for things I have said & done in the past & even though things were good for years my wife came out & said that for the longest time she has struggled to forgive me for what I put her through. I told her countless times that I am sorry & ashamed of myself for all the hurt & pain I put her through. People struggling with any kind of addiction pleas get help, don’t let it get bad like I did. Yes she was far from perfect & hurt me as well but you don’t want to be the one feeling ashamed & full of regret.

@GeriatricMillennial83 6 ай бұрын

What if you desperately miss your past because it was a lot better than the present? I get stuck in the depression of how much fun life was 20 years ago and I can’t get past it.

@adoon8788 6 ай бұрын

I struggle with this too..

@danicrzzz8694 6 ай бұрын

The only think better were your thoughts and your actions. (Something u can change tomorrow)

@benjamindave4821 Жыл бұрын

This man has helped me through life in ways I think is impossible for someone to be able to ever help me.

@madison_drew 2 жыл бұрын

I just want to not feel this way anymore Dr Peterson 😥😞 I’m so tired of it and it’s physically draining I’m grateful for you and all you do thank you 🙏

@leeoliver424 2 жыл бұрын

Many painful life experiences are the direct result of being abused in several ways, bullied, cheated, and so on from OTHER people. People are the problem. Choose your friends and acquaintances carefully. Discard those who would be mean spirited…and remember, don’t be too nice…

@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын

So true 🥲

@sarasayshi 2 жыл бұрын

If you continue to live as a victim “people hurt you” “don’t trust anyone”, then that is the world you will experience. You will continue to create experiences of people hurting you. You are the common denominator. It’s not “other people” it’s how you view people.

@leeoliver424 2 жыл бұрын

@@sarasayshi ……it is not that one should view themselves as a ‘victim’. Not sure where you got that from. ‘Other people’ meaning someone else…..lol It is how we view people. If we blindly go about trusting too much, we get burnt. Experiences are real and important to learn from them…..

@stevo6891 2 жыл бұрын

@@leeoliver424 i wanted to end my life a bunch of times.. After being used, rejected and feeling not wanted I thought of suicide.. I tried being the best version of me to women but they never wanted my time.. Someone told me it’s their loss..

@Bob-fk6kn 2 жыл бұрын

What if there was no choice and the people who scarred you were your own parents and family ?

@alecrochon3531 Жыл бұрын

I can't express enough how this video helps me deal with trauma in a way I never did before. I struggled early as an adolescent with being direspected and taken advantage of (whilst being too kind for my own good). This helps me see that I need to know why my bad experiences happened and how, today (10 years later), I can deal with these much more efficiently and in a tremendously better way than before.

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@hawksnebula1506 Жыл бұрын

As a point of advice, what would be your advice to someone in a similar position of, "an adolescent with being direspected and taken advantage of (whilst being too kind for my own good)"

@castaside Жыл бұрын

@@hawksnebula1506 Help others as long as it's not at the cost of your own mental well being. When helping others comes at the cost of your mental or physical health, that is where you draw the line. Also don't go crossing bridges for people who won't walk across the road for you.

@namirali3234 Жыл бұрын

I just keep reminiscing about my past. I feel bad that things changed and I just wanna go back to that moment.

@tomallen4891 2 жыл бұрын

“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have. Make the NOW the primary focus of your life.” -Eckhart Tolle

@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын

I was an eckhart tolle fan 10 years back, followed his meditation practices and his method of staying in the now, but ive realised i had forgotten how to plan for the future.. which jordan peterson has helped me in.. even though eckhart foes mention that you may plan the future while being rooted in the now, its hard to follow practically. The future has its own power.

@iq82x27 Жыл бұрын

I you don't plan for the future, you're the grasshopper and not the ant.

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@markrcca5329 2 жыл бұрын

Ah. I'm definitely stuck in the past, a past of some truly amazing childhood experiences, and I find myself spending a lot of time and resources trying to recreate them in whatever manner possible.

@undefinedvariable8085 2 жыл бұрын

Like what? Some people may relate.

@markrcca5329 2 жыл бұрын

@@undefinedvariable8085 I spent much of my childhood studying music. Working to rebuild at least some of it again..

@manyfeather2knives423 2 жыл бұрын

Feel the same way. Had a wonderful childhood which continued thru my teens. So sorry to hear so many others who had a bad past. The only bad part is I’m always looking in the rear view mirror instead of thrust the windshield.

@markrcca5329 2 жыл бұрын

@@manyfeather2knives423 I'm still in decision-making mode about the "rear-view mirror". I'm looking at a relatively early retirement from my career, and I have some choices. One of them is go back to my childhood dream of being a Jazz pianist, and continue where I left off. After all, somewhere in the back of my mind, it's what I wanted all my life. On the other hand, the obvious "through the windshield", "forget the past" type of choice would be to stay in my profession in some consulting capacity, and probably make some decent money. That would allow me to live a more comfortable lifestyle, afford more and nicer traveling options, and whatever else that extra money can buy; but all of that wanes in comparison, when I imagine myself playing the piano somewhere at a jazz club. I think I already know what I will choose :)

@Amleth89 2 жыл бұрын

You have to be careful, meaning that some people recreate their childhood again and again because that´s where they were happy and now they don´t

@eleanorjaya4706 Жыл бұрын

I love this man. I suffered so much in the past & Jordan has helped me so much. His bk 12 rules is truly a good read

@digda4128 Жыл бұрын

It's September 2022 and im stuck in 2019-2020. Been like this for months and this thing makes me goes from happy to sad real quick

@gessrinky9129 2 жыл бұрын

I’m stuck in middle school, 2005-9 and 2014. Constant repetition thoughts of these three life periods. Full of regret and embarrassment.

@funkmonster 2 жыл бұрын

I used to be like you. Then I realized people don’t have the same memories you have. I met up with friends from high school 20 years later and my biggest regret was that I ruined the prom limo experience because I broke the bottle of alcohol we were going to get drunk off of. I carried that with me for years about how clumsy and stupid I was. When I asked those people about that event they didn’t even remember. All they remembered was having a good time. My perception was totally off.

@kriptodunyam1902 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson Death's NOT the Problem, It's Complexity ''The DENIAL of DEATH'' kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mZh-YNepua3SaZs.html

@janfg1578 2 жыл бұрын

@@funkmonster Exactly, I am 29 now and still dwelling about things that happened when I was 10-11 years old. The funny thing is most other adults dont even seem to remember the names of people they went to middle school with. So my head may be the last place were these events actually exist.

@ChrisParsonssteelbridgemedia 2 жыл бұрын

This is wonderful. Suffered from PTSD for years. Although I did a lot of work to reconcile my memeories, it was this one saying I heard from my therapist "It doesn't have to be true anymore"... and that thought has really allowed me to stay in control.

@GillianBerry 2 жыл бұрын

👏

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@peacejoy3629 Жыл бұрын

Didn't get it can you please explain

@johnnyjayzeboomboomroom9163 Жыл бұрын

It doesn’t exists it’s non existent now. Helps me

@paigehodges Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this

@BlackSlimShady 14 күн бұрын

Came here for relationship advice, left with amazing programming advice and a much clearer mental image on how my brain is working, he's bang on. As soon as I have a obstacle I'm absolutely anxious worried and all, but if I have a clear path, I am happy and the day just goes on smoothly. If I'm having a good day and I come up against a blocker out of no where, I'm angry and fighting to get out of it, rather then taking it easy and figuring it out. I get stressed and angry, and code hastily spitting out as many things as I can think and get even angrier each time it doesn't work! Only inevitably to get around the problem and feel bad because I got so angry, I don't even get to enjoy the high of solving the puzzle. Thanks JP

@JFalcony Жыл бұрын

JP's advice helped me become a healthier person and get the career I wanted. When the ways I distracted myself from dealing with my past became more destructive and distressing than sorting it out, I began sorting it out and was ready to hear JP and take him seriously.

@samfisher4919 2 жыл бұрын

What I find truly incredible about this man is that he probably has no idea how many people he has helped. He's helped people he has never even met. The world needs more like him.

@samfisher4919 2 жыл бұрын

@Myself with out question. He has helped me so much. His teachings aline are priceless.

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@Ediblequeefs 2 жыл бұрын

I seem to be stuck on the year 2019 where a lot of things happened. Both good and bad. I always blame myself because things aren’t the way they used to be. Whenever I get a ‘nostalgic’ feeling of 2019, they make me sad. I don’t know how to move on from it. I feel like I ruined things throughout the years

@imadeyoureadthis1 2 жыл бұрын

To be fair, most people are stuck in 2019 because of pandemic. Bad times and even worse governments.

@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын

Write it down. It helps. I was stuck on a boy I was obsessed over since high school, the day i was absolutely honest on paper about it, i cried while writing it, also till atleast an hour later but i feel ive let him go finally. You have to be absolutely honest, write abuses, your feelings, the instances, how you'd wanna let that thing go.

@shoutace 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same way I’m stuck in 2019😭

@julianbartley7766 2 жыл бұрын

Nuttin to do wit you tho still so wtf???. It's China 🇨🇳 obvious tho duh 🙄

@mikelpradet6670 2 жыл бұрын

Same for me. the pandemic didn't help ....

@isabelahoward Жыл бұрын

As a person who struggles with ptsd, depression, and high functioning anxiety thank u. U have no idea how much my life has changed. But I’m not unique. That’s why other ppl are listening to this in the same way i am. So, thank you

@NikolaGen 28 күн бұрын

It is wild, to listen to someone you never met, talking about stuff you go through and understand it. It is like he is sorting the mess around you, so you can get rid of the trash

@josephsassone3753 2 жыл бұрын

Someone once said that regret is an appalling waste of energy... they were right.

@sajidansari1190 2 жыл бұрын

What a gentleman !!! I admire him a lot. The way he walks, talks, answers, debate, his gestures, his dressing sense are all sterling.

@joban4963 Жыл бұрын

I was stuck in an abusive family, so depressed I could barely get out of bed, all through my formative years. Finally got away at 28, looking 40.

@stormbrainly Жыл бұрын

This video was truly inspiring! The quotes and messages shared here are so powerful and have given me a lot to think about. Thank you for sharing such a positive message with the world. I'll definitely be coming back to this video for a dose of motivation whenever I need it. Keep up the great work!

@shannonmckenna7139 2 жыл бұрын

This is me. So many traumatic things have happened to me since I was born. I figured that it’s just my life’s path…. I needed to hear this! Thank you Mr Peterson!

@akj3344 Жыл бұрын

I'd say the same. Good luck with your recovery!

@scottduflo7348 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to him talk is therapeutic.

@Giuliana-zx6gd Жыл бұрын

These insights and the potential discussion to follow, is an art-I had a professor like this in undergrad psych. He’s talking about real life issues, one’s that are applicable and interesting to learn about. This is the reason I loved college and pursued a psychology degree.

@aubreysnyder338 2 жыл бұрын

So thankful to have come across Mr Peterson last year. Him and Dr Gabor mate, have really helped me realize things I needed to work on.

@coloradowestaerialarts1316 2 жыл бұрын

I like how Peterson gives explanations and mental exercises to resolve the past.

@jamiewilliams8107 2 жыл бұрын

The past is done and gone,no point in holding grudges for something that has happened,you can't turn the clock back.

@allymayersky4030 Жыл бұрын

I’m constantly stuck in the past but not the traumatic times more like the good times . I have constant dreams back in elementary school &’ up when life was fun and okay. certain friends were still alive, I was only a kid .. everything was brighter and life was worth living . Now it’s very dark depressing place . I miss being a kid and I’m only 20..

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@MrNeversweat Жыл бұрын

40 and feel the same

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@@MrNeversweat Sick Old Misogynic Jordan Peterson kissing the Orbanus for 50 million HUF: "my message to Hungarians: Do not rebel against your Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian culturerace"

@matt8847 Жыл бұрын

Same but with high school friends. Can I please ask you for some advice from a female perspective. I was good friends with a girl in our friend group, for 3 years we would hang out and flirt, kiss a few times, but never had it turn into anything. Senior prom comes, I'm an 18 year old guy and too worried about trying to get in a sexual relationship with her that I never ask her to prom as a friend... or at all. We were still kinda friends after, but I thought eventually the world would give me an opportunity to be with her and tell her how I felt but she kept moving on in life, moved states for college. We had a few moments after in college years, especially at a new years party, she invited me to go hiking but I was going on vacation with family, after that we just stopped talking and it hurts me how I never had closure. 4 Years have gone by now, and I'm thinking of texting her, despite how pathetic and embarrassing it will be, seeing how she's doing, that i miss her friendship, and am sorry for not recognizing how much I valued her. Do you think that's a good idea? Would a 23 year old woman even want to hear from me after years apart not talking? Thanks... sorry I know this is an awkward comment to get on youtube but I just needed to type it out for once instead of just thinking it. I've had her on my mind for years, but, this past week I found a gift she gave me and cried for hours thinking of experiences we shared. I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since. I can't tell her this yet obviously but I honestly feel like she was the woman I was supposed to marry I was just too dumb and immature to think clearly in high school, put aside my lust for her, and developed a relationship that didn't have me focused on being physically romantic with her. I thought she was the cutest girl in the world, sweet and caring, yet fierce, passionate, and strong too. I still do. I just hope she's happy and doing well. Again sorry for the rant random stranger 😅 😊

@furerorban9324 Жыл бұрын

@@matt8847 hi nazi ! Sick Old Misogynic Jordan Peterson kissing the Nazi Terrorbanus hard for 50 million HUF: "my message to Hungarians: Do not rebel against your Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian culturerace"

@johnoddity2871 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson is a gift from God. I'll never get tired of listening to his wisdom.

@brendaprice665 Жыл бұрын

You are right. Completely. And I listen to him when I cannot cope. Afterwards, I cope.

@tulioiumatti9509 2 ай бұрын

Well, you are so right, almost every spech he does I see him bem stack ! Havy.wait to make his pont. Now o can just see ! And be sensitive for him

@antoniomari2730 2 жыл бұрын

I lived for so many years in a negative enviroment, with toxic people, that make my life impossible, doing the worst things.. Now I know that I have just to stay focus in what I like and in what is positive for me.. And not let me influence by the others negative things..

@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын

You dont realise the effect toxic people have on you until you go away from them and find yourself. So true. Been there too my friend. Trying to build up myself now.

@antoniomari2730 2 жыл бұрын

@@RomyaRana yes that's absolutely true,, it's so strange.. But just keep build ourselves 👍

@dr.d747 2 жыл бұрын

I have finally let go of my bad past and made peace with it i have forgiven...and now i am concentrating on my future and mysself working on mysself and being happy🙏🏻

@dianeamaral8151 5 ай бұрын

God bless and good luck from Diane 🙏🙏

@dr.d747 5 ай бұрын

@@dianeamaral8151 thankyou, god bless you as well❤️🙏

@dr.d747 5 ай бұрын

@@dianeamaral8151 thankyou, god bless you as well❤️🙏...from Damend❤️🙏

@tinoestrada6825 Жыл бұрын

Some times is amazing when you see people like a farmer in a small town that can easy see life in a peaceful way and then you get to a big city and see lots of people confused .

@laprepper Жыл бұрын

I am quite past obsessed with my mistakes, it’s hard sometimes… 😕😭

@williamwhite2113 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes events from my past creep up on me and it'll stay in my mind for a while. Things like what someone said to me or being attacked physically when I was in school. What I'm learning is from what other people in recovery talk about is letting go and moving ahead. It's like having to recompute the negative into positive things. Still a challenge to me but I'm trying with God's grace and help.

@planetwalker798 2 жыл бұрын

"recompute the negative to positive". that's the gist of it. But doing it, in the moment it comes up - isn't so easy. HOW to make it stick?

@michelecasalino2569 2 жыл бұрын

a part of me is stuck in 2007... hope to overcome this one day

@2303mitt 2 жыл бұрын

am in the 90s and I know it’s gone and they will never come back am trying to make my best at the present moment

@umangsagar4458 2 ай бұрын

I can't let go of my past, the good memories of my childhood and I want to go back to that time. Also I can't stop thinking about the mistakes I did in my past and I always keep regretting about the things I have done. It feels so traped here. Sometimes I just wanna die and make things right again in another life. I'm 22 and I still haven't achieved anything in my life. I feel so ashamed of myself. People around me are doing very very good. My friends have done way better than me but I am still a failure. I have seen my parents struggling financially and I want to help them out. Their health is not good but they are still feeding me and fulfilling all my wishes but I can't do anything for them because I just feel so helpless and I want to just wanna die sometimes because I can't forgive myself ever for the mistakes I have done.

@user-qv2tn1yw1e 6 ай бұрын

Such a rollercoaster dealing with the past. Forgive them, forgive yourself. Make Smart choices; & the next time Life presents a "test" it's okay to ask questions, whenever you are unsure of the direction your going.❤

@javiersds8081 2 жыл бұрын

At last! A video of a speech without the bloody background music. Thanks.

@memphis03 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love this man and his incredible spirit!

@lisahead6868 6 ай бұрын

My brother’s suicide and the following months in early 2022. Can’t let it go. My sense of my world being safe was shattered.

@Juliejewels67 Жыл бұрын

I live in the past in many many ways. Miss innocence and fun times of childhood, but can’t forget mistakes I made, or bullies from school. Just can’t shake some traumatic times! 😢

@johnnybhood7559 2 жыл бұрын

He speaks the damn truth. Us at the societal bottom are so much more susceptible to negative emotions and anxiety. We have to grow through so much more adversity to survive it. We’re constantly guilt tripped for it- that it’s “your problem, not societies” confidence and power/influence are an effortless formula. Why the rich get richer and the poor become Ill.

@strafer8764 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve got CPTSD among another anxiety disorders and it all stems from childhood. I self sabotage to create space from people. I sometimes blurt out crazy things and people that have known me for years will be shocked. It’s like a belch it out like a normal body reaction. I have a claustrophobia towards physical space as well as relationships. I had a lot of panic attacks after getting engaged and eventually I scared her off so that I would be alone again and then beat myself up for being alone again.

@dennisburns2002 Жыл бұрын

I'm obsessed with the past cuz I miss it. Even though there was messed up stuff, the good outweighed the bad

@maloudelosreyes661 4 ай бұрын

DR. JORDAN PETERSON HAS AN EXTREMELY IN- DEPTH UNDERSTANDING OF THE HUMAN PSYCHE

@Groundwater24 2 жыл бұрын

Living in the past shapes your future. The human mind is so powerful that with lots of practice, ie meditation and affirmations, you can and will reverse trauma and/or a terrible past.

@ronemtae3468 2 жыл бұрын

I am trapped by my past but each day every day I pull my past behind me like a trailer I pull it I will eventually have it even with me and then I will push it forward and I will begin to deal with it this man makes an incredible amount of sense

@fu2201 5 күн бұрын

So refreshing to listen to someone who actually knows what they are talking about

@lailaE6967 2 жыл бұрын

Life comes at everyone with up’s and downs. In my life I have chosen NOT to have problems, but to have challenges instead. It’s a great accomplishment for me, to take on the challenges and win. I don’t want to beat a problem. I’d rather win a challenge. So essentially, it’s all how you look at it.

@jamiewilliams829 2 жыл бұрын

My mum is an angry and bitter person who lives in the past and its affecting her mental health,she doesn't want to mix with others and as I'm a spiritual person I try to reassure that the past is gone and forgotten.

@lyl.y 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Peterson, I hope you know how many lives you have saved. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@gulzaman556 Жыл бұрын

exactly it's been few months since i started listening to his lectures although English is not my native language, but his words are so well sum up and summarized, as if he lives in our brains. I mean explain my situation better than i can. He Truley knows his work. Truley a Gem .

@catherineblue5607 6 ай бұрын

Dr.Peterson is such a gift to society. He has helped so many people, including myself. Thank you for posting ❤

@amandamadge3841 9 ай бұрын

DR. JORDAN PETERSON helped me so much. I came across his lectures on youtube in 2018. Went through hell and back. Now I am over 2 years sober and LIVING. I credit Dr. Peterson for being the first person to have me "look in the mirror". Its been a long bumpy road but I have faith. Thank you DR. JORDAN PETERSON!

@drewhendley 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes your past is all you have left

@LCraighead 2 жыл бұрын

The past is gone. Things will never be the same again. The key is how do you interpret that. Do you long for the past and end up losing your present? Or do you accept it and recognize that leaves an incredible amount of potential for your present and thus your future

@IsraelCountryCube 2 жыл бұрын

@@harmonymillett2970 hm your a woman? I can’t really differentiate the sex of you in the picture but it’s sad your husband left you for a younger lustful female. Harmony I wonder why

@mammadingo9165 2 жыл бұрын

@@harmonymillett2970 iam beyond sorry you experienced this .

@mammadingo9165 2 жыл бұрын

@@IsraelCountryCube who cares ! Because he was narcissistic , you don't say that kinds crap to people . You have a wife that chose you ? Probably not .

@kriptodunyam1902 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson Death's NOT the Problem, It's Complexity ''The DENIAL of DEATH'' kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mZh-YNepua3SaZs.html

@danielmaster8776 2 жыл бұрын

Going into the field of history, this is absolutely true. We can never know exactly how it was; it's gone forever. But we can reconstruct it somewhat by using our available sources. When looking back at history, you must try to specifically view it through the eyes of the people of the time, which is contrary to how many people do it or want you to do it. You're not trying to find yourself in that person from the past; you're trying to understand what it was like for them. They did not think the same way you think because they did not live in the same world you do. From a psychological/philosophical standpoint, this also applies to your present self and your past self. You're a different person than you were as a child. How different? Completely different. Not even the same person, you could argue. Your personality could change dramatically from month to month, or week to week. It's up to you to decide if that's for the better or the worse.

@nathanbatchelor7585 Жыл бұрын

I’m always struggling with my past, I was a terrible person ik im a better person now but as I try to grow I feel like my past is still there haunting me. I’m so sorry to the people I’ve hurt.

@yuh5978 Жыл бұрын

Look into ocd

@szikigeri Жыл бұрын

I have watched a great amount of JBP content in the last years. For some reason it stands out! Thanks a lot for putting up this content!

@MyLife-so1jl 2 жыл бұрын

I'm still stuck in the 80s and 90s and it sucks sometimes because I feel that thing ware better and more interesting in the past than today and that hurts sometimes.

@regularity2556 2 жыл бұрын

I understand

@liabeachy 2 жыл бұрын

Lets face the reality of today's world, bloody covid crazy draconian bs masks lockdowns so why not go to a happier time , we need a reprieve from this insane handling of humanity . Be present for sure but give yourself to be ok with reminiscing of a safer fun period in life . Its only negative if you dont face the daily grind of new rules on how to live without being prose uted for dumb arbitrary rules that dont make sense . Its ok to blue pill occasionally. Love from Australia. ✌✊💙😁

@samrichardson441 2 жыл бұрын

worldly music is designed to keep you stuck in the past too

@Forcednduckshn Жыл бұрын

Things were better in the 80's and 90's. You are remembering correctly. People are different now, and not for the better. Understanding why they are different and not better is key to finding peace. Jordan Peterson can help you understand those why's as well. I wish you peace my friend.

@Gkmc-46vgz Жыл бұрын

@@samrichardson441 real shit

@snozzybosch7503 2 жыл бұрын

This man is a national treasure.

@louquay 2 жыл бұрын

International*

@kriptodunyam1902 2 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson Death's NOT the Problem, It's Complexity ''The DENIAL of DEATH'' kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mZh-YNepua3SaZs.html

@saltymermaid439 2 жыл бұрын

More like the embarrassment since he's a mysgynist

@72Bats 2 жыл бұрын

His voice gets on my nerves!

@zacharylagler242 Жыл бұрын

Canada’s National Treasure. Born and raised in Alberta.

@DJJJ999 6 ай бұрын

A difficult up bringing can affect one so much, sometimes one can never fully move on!

@RKar2009 6 ай бұрын

Where I'm at even at 64, and later many bad times. Really stuck. This helps.

@mojohammad Жыл бұрын

What the fuck did I just watch? What a intelligent human being, the way he is explaining things is so logical and intelligent. He is really near too communicate exactly what he is trying too say. Or at least more near than me and you.

@lorettadestefano6955 4 ай бұрын

He is Canadian and generally follow logical lines of thinking. 😊

@CptWesker07 2 жыл бұрын

It’s 2022 and I’m still stuck in 2007, the 2000s we’re the best years of my life

@muhammadaizat3796 2 жыл бұрын

I always find it a complete duo , reading a book and watching him lecture me

@ALitheroyalcwc7078ALi Жыл бұрын

This speech is relatable to me ! i guess that the past is always memorable ( bad or good ) 😐 but whoever is reading my comment remember to focus on the now and the future more than anything that happened that you should leave behind 🙏

@hajrabatool4730 Жыл бұрын

Hi can you please elaborate his speech I am so upset could not understand a word. If you see my comment kindly tell me what did he say what does it mean?

@neal99 Жыл бұрын

That is so accurate I always go crazy when something disrupts my plan Or an obstacle Appears from nowhere, Thanks for the explanation makes a lot of sense