If she, the daughter, has a problem with how her mother is feeding/raising her child them she should do it herself. You were grown enough to marry and have a baby so it's your responsibility to care for the child.

남매 둘 다 진짜 지적장애가 있는거 같은데 어머님도 모르시진 않은듯.. 그래서 결혼이라도 시키면, 짐이라고 하긴 그렇지만 마음의 짐도 덜고 몸도 더 편할거 같아서 결혼 시켰는데 그게 오히려 독이 됐네요. 14살 많은 남자 소개 시킨것도 정상적인 보통 또래 남자랑은 결혼이 안될거 같으니까 알고 그러신거 같고요. 참... 정서적으로 모두 안정되는게 제일 우선인거 같아요.

친정엄마가 계시다는거 자체가 얼마나 감사한일인지... 저 여자는 언제쯤알게될까요

그냥 세분다 경계선지적지능인듯 모친도 이상하리만큼 착하기만한게.. 살기 힘드시겠다 다들 ㅠ

엄마는 아이들이 할일을 대신 해 주는 것이 아니라 아이들이 무언갈 할수있도록 알려주고 기회를 줘야합니다.. 그리고 현실을 인정하는 자세도 필요합니다...

아드님 따님이 평범한 사람들이 아닌것 같습니다 어머님이 많이 힘드시겠어요..

엄마 말하고있을때도 카메라에잡힌 따님표정은 그냥 심기불편-.-

결혼은 골인이 아니예요. 인간적으로 성숙한 사람이 , 아니 최소한 성숙해지려는 각오를 가지고 있는 사람이 아니면 서로를 불행하게 하고, 주위를 힘들게 하는 것 같아요. 따님은 병원에 도움이 필요한분 같은데 결혼을 시키셨으니...

안타깝지만 따님분 지능지수가 평균이하이신 듯 보여요 ㅠ

진짜 어머니 삶이 안쓰러워요.. 안됐어요.. 그런데 딸이 저런 상태인데 쉽게 생각하고 시집을 보낸건 큰 잘못인것 같아요... 엄마가 저러면 아이는 무슨 죄에요..

I don't know why I always come back here.... I always end up being so angry it's just not good for my health ya know

아들 딸 둘다 지능이 7-8살 정도로 보입니다. 자존감은 진짜 바닥중에 바닥인듯하네요.. 회초리 맞은게 상처라고 몇십년이 지난 지금까지 말하고 다니니 원..

Its easy to see that girls has some problems, she looks so nervous but angry, she has a lot of anger towards her mother but also she craves her love, and also the fact that shes jealous from her OWN daughter says a lot! That's sick! The brother is also another one with problem, a freaking old man with the mentality of a children. This is beyond disgusting....the mother is also guilty for that, she never put them on their place, she was strict but also forgive a lot out of love. And Ive seen a lot of mothers like that and father's like that and that method NEVER WORKS. You have to be firm and even if you love your childs you have to teach them that FIRST they have to respect you!

자녀들이 살짝 지능경계성장애가 아닐까요... 정상인이라고 보기엔 좀 그렇고 장애인이라 하기도 그렇고...

딸이 안됫네요ㅠㅠ 어디 불편한거 같아요 정신적으로......

온전치 않은 자식들을 아니까 어머니가 곁을 떠나지 못하고 있으신거 같아요...

The camera is loving Umji.

Whoever the son's GF is, I hope she watches this show and run away very very far.

애들이지능경계인데? 엄마가14살많은남자한테,딸을시집보낸거부터가..문제다

남매가 모두 경겨선 지능 같은데 그런 딸을 결혼 시켜 대물림을 하다니요?어머님이 그 사실을 인지 못하셨는지요? 어머님이 너무 불쌍합니다 ㅠ

I almost cried at the end, the mother seemed so sad and tired, and the daughter seemed so unhappy. Hope they changed their life a little after the show, besides everything bad and sad that happened, they seemed to care about each other.

딸이 정신이 오락가락하내 정신병원에 입원치료좀 받아야겟다.어머니 죄송합니다. 딸이 좀 모질라내.어머니가 걱정됩니다. 고민175표 박수치는게 왜 가슴아프지?

따님이 정신과 치료가 좀 필요한듯..

보는내내 가슴이 조마조마했어요 ㅜㅜ 아들따님이 아이수준에서 성장이 멈췄고 받아야할 사랑을 제대로 받지 못했는지 애정결핍이 심하고 정서적으로 매우 불안정해 보여요 누구를 탓하겠어요 ㅜㅜ 내가 뿌린 씨앗 내가 거두는 수밖에요 안탑깝네요 어머니 건강 챙기면서 행복을 응원합니다

since the beginning I knew the root of the problem was the husband. I mean they clearly don't have a good marriage if he's sleeping in a dorm that's only 30-40 minutes away from the house and she's taking her issues out on her mom. Not going to comment on the son as he just seems like a brat. Tbh I still don't get Korean society on the whole marriage thing. Is it better to be depressed and miserable in a loveless marriage than being alone but value yourself and be happier?

When i heard yeongja spoke,i felt she was heartwarming and wise person I love to listen to advice from her.

방송할 상태가 아닌 장애를 가진 사람을 나오게 하는 제작진이 문제네... 치료를 받아야 사람들을 방송소재로 쓰네...

얼굴자체가 짜증짜증 사람이 웃고밝게살으려해야 복도들어오지 저얼굴봐요 나라도 10분거리살아도 따로살고싶어지겠다

아들이랑 딸이 지능이 어려 보이네요

딸이 좀어딘가 모자르게보이네요 ㅠ

엄마가 오해하는게 저런애들 결혼시킨다고 짐이덜어지는게 아니다 저런애들이랑 사는사람들은 먼죄냐 딱봐도 지능이 정상 아닌거같은데

아들은 그냥좀 모자란건데 딸은 4가지도 조온나없고 조온나 모자람

this is very complicated, there are so many things wrong

인상이 평소에 얼마나 짜증을 많이 냈으면 계속 찡그리는 상임

비하나 모욕하고싶은맘은.없고요...세상에 저지능인분들 생각보다 많아요..

Childhood problems always show up in adulthood with issues. She also may struggle with depression worse than she realizes. Depression makes everything feel overwhelming. It's also way too easy to take your frustrations out on those who love you, since you know they will love you no matter what. Everyone has done that at some point.they need to go to therapy individually and together. The jealousy of her daughter probably comes from the fear that her daughter won't love her like she assumes her mom and husband don't. I think that's why she wants another kid (even though that would be disastrous. She just craves love, but has massive resentment.

어머니가 예전부터 고생 많으셨네요 어휴... 눈물 나올거 같다...

the daughter and son are so selfish, the daughter is jealous because her mom and husband loves her child which does not makes sense at all and the son is jealous because her mom is taking care of his sister more than him. Another problem is that the couple can't stand to live together and now they are planning to have another child, I have no idea what they were thinking. Lastly, the daughter and son is so spoiled, they should've known that their mom works day and night to support and raise them alone but they don't think about that and are so selfish.

Her mom thought a MARRIAGE would help her w depression? A MARRIAGE?? ...I-

늙은 엄마도 저렇게 널위해 사는데 넌 왜 그렇게 살아?.. 표정존나 띠껍네..진짜.... 치료를받아 아프면....마음이든 몸이든..

11:41 i can relate to that guy sleeping

어머니 인생이 참 기가 찬다.

This is so many problems. First of all she needs to kick her 35 year old son out he just seems incredibly immature. The daughter seems immature and also rude but i can see that she needs her husband to help her to raise the children and to come home. I imagine her husband is also immature because he lives only 30/40 minutes away but wont come home. Also she claims he nags her and is 14 years older so he probably is a bit bossy and rude to her. Their poor mom has to help all these people. What a mess

every week, i wait for this awesome programme :3

I feel so mad at the husband, they should've bought him to make him understand how his absence is shattering his entire family. The baby should be his top priority. The daughter is clearly suffering from some sort of depression. The son should stfu and take care of himself, he is 35 for god's sake.

따님… 걍 얼굴에 짜증이 다닥다닥 붙었어요. 마음 좀 가다듬으세요.

두마리 토끼를 잡을 수는 없는것 같아요 이영자님 말이 참 와 닫네요 어머님이 먼저 바뀌셔야 해결됫듯,,,, 단호하게 끊을것은 끊어야 이문제가 해결될듯 합니다.

자식 둘이 지적 장애인 같은데.. 결혼 하면 안될 것 같은데...

holy heck FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T HAVE ANOTHER CHILD UNDER THESE CIRCUMSTANCESSSSSSSSSSSSSS

I was raised in a saying that never ever make your parents be heartbroken, someday when you become a parent, you may experience the same fate and it will be very painful. I hope the mom will get the much needed rest she needs.

...why would she think marriage would help with her depression??? ESPECIALLY TO SOME RANDOM DUDE WHO IS 14 YEARS OLDERRRRRRRRR?!!!!!!!!! UGHHH, SMH

저런머저리 남매꼴에 결혼도했고 애인도있고 희안한요지경이다

I don't think they highlighted the important points here. I feel the daughter is deeply scared, her mother even mentioned about depression and what did she do? set her daughter up with an older man! Marrying is not the solution to psychological conditions, they didn't even try to talk about that. I could see the sad, angry and deeply hurt face of the daughter it felt like she had lots to say and the fact that she remembers so many events from her childhood with the date and year says that it deeply hurt her and has contributed to her depression and irritable behavior. About the mum, yes fine she's old and everything but I guess my grandmother or anybody wouldn't complain about taking care of me and my mum, she would voluntarily come and do stuff, well emotions and everything vary with people but yes I feel there has been something really important that has been missed. The fact that she mentioned her mother didn't love her the way she loves her granddaughter that's sad, that shows she needs love and care these small things from your childhood matters, parenting matters.

the daughter def has behavioral problems trauma too i hope they received at least some sort of treatment idk man they rlly need a psychologist in this show

어머니 14살이나 많은 남자를 왜 애초에 딸한테 소개해줬어요....

The daughter looks so uncomfortable. She just wants to get out of there. I think fault is on everyone. Not just one person. There is a lot of resentment that has been building up. It’s hard to talk about. Until something tips them over the edge.

여자가 기본적으로 뭔가 부족해 보이는데… 경도 지적장애가 있는듯요… 그리고 정신병인거 같은데……

제작진 ㅡㅡ 딱 봐도 온전치 못한 분들인데 왜 방송 내보냄?

Wow what a mess. That woman was and isn't ready to be a mom. And no marriage dosen't solve depression.

I think everyone forget that the daughter was going through depression. So i can understand the daughter behaviour. But what i can't understand is the son. You're already a grown up man. Stop asking for your mother's attention. And the daughter's husband should come to the show too so he know he also the cause of the problem too. It is not fine to leave your wife that has history of depression like that. Yes, your mother in law live near your house, but she already old. I think, he's coming home only at weekend just to run away from the problem. I hope that next week there's a change in this family.

딸에 대해서 어머니가 제일 잘 아셨을텐데 나이차이가 많은사람에게 결혼을 시키실때 무슨생각이셨는지

자녀들이 둘다 경계성 지능장애가 의심 되네요...

I am crying god what happened This is most touching no one in this family are really happy

this got me really emotional because it reminded of my grandmother(maternal) who was treated really badly by her two daughter-in-laws. She was a major part of my childhood and i was really close to her, when she passed away i was just in my teenage years and didnt know what to do because i knew what really degraded her health. Things have not been so good in my mother's house and now my grandfather is also in a critical state but no one cares. If only my fam had not moved out of the place, we would have taken care of them better. I miss my grandma :( She had so many years left to enjoy her life :(

If I were that lady I'd kick the son out and only offer to watch the granddaughter twice a week and only allow here daughter to spend one weekend a month over.

When there are 3 female guests, and yeongja still wants male guest to act as daughter 😂😂

딱봐도 둘다 정상 지능이아닌데 엄마는 모르시는듯

아니 장애있는사람갖다가 뭐하냐??? 정신적으로 아픈거같은데 ㄹㅇ

Yujus face is so expressive lol. Want to know how Yuju feels? Look at her face.

I really enjoy this😊

본인 이 판 무덤.....

어머님 솔직히 모자른 딸 다컸고 이제 신경쓰기 싫어서 나이가 좀많은분이 감싸주고 참아주며 잘데리고 살까싶어서 소개시켜준거 아닌가요? 남자분도 나이가 있으니 아쉬워서 결혼한것같은데 너무 안맞고 이수준이 감내하고 할수준이 아니라 30분거리인데요 굳이 주말부부로 지내는것같아요 어머님 ~ 솔직히 경계수준으로 태어난건 저분잘못도 어머님잘못도 아니지만 자식을 어느시점에서 품에서 아무대책없이 손을 놓고 보낸건 잘못인듯해요 사회생활도 할수있게 지도와 훈련이 아예 않되어 있으니 시집을 보내도 어머님만 더 힘들죠 이제 독하게 마음잡으시고 혼자 할수있게 여건을 많들어주시고 전문가의 도움을 받으세요

우리나라 무모님들은 자식한들한테 질질 끌려다니는 경우가 많다! 끊어야 할땐 확실히 끊어내야 하는데 그렇지 못하니까 이런 현상이 나타나는 것이다!!!!

30후반나이 먹고뭔.....상처가 있으면 부모님 볼생각하질말지 핑계로 밖에 안들린다 정신에 문제있으신거 같은데 정신과 한번 가보셨으면

따님심각한수준이네.....

남편이란 사람은 도대체 가정을 꾸릴 생각이 있나 궁금합니다 저 딸의 맘의병은 남편인듯 보이네요 여자로서 사랑받지 못하는 맘이 소개시킨 엄마에게로 화를 표출하는 것 같아 안타깝네요

All I can see is that, this woman need to feels love, support and a positive motivation from her mother when she was a child. She might’ve been through lot of trauma experience from her childhood which is alerting her not wanting to raise her own daughter like her mother raising her. (I wonder if her dad is around, they didn’t mention dad.) This woman, her Husband who’s need to be there for her wife and daughter. (Again not showing love and affection) Mum who’s need to say NO and let her old grownup children doing thing on their own independently to overcome their own problems.. All they need is affection and gratitude.

The daughter needs professional help and Mom needs to learn to say NO! To her kids and son in law or they will never change!

산후우울증인데 정신과상담도좋을텐데 부끄러운게아니구.. 부부상담도받으시구..

저 집은 아들 딸이 모자르네.. 지능검사를 먼저 받아봐야 할 듯.

딸을 왜 14살이나 많은 놈한테 시집을 보낸거냐 글구 셋 다 병원 좀 가바유 셋 다 이상함

I teared up anybody else??

Her mom set her with an old man who doesn't know her or care about her at all. He is trying to distance himself from her any way he can.. I don't think the mom did that intentionally to hurt her, but the mom's intentions were not pure. She just wanted to marry off her daughter to anyone for pride reasons.

@24:48 sometimes you just want someone to hold your hand 😭😭😭😭 i melted

My mum is old now but she’s busy looking after my 2 sisters kids and it makes me so angry cos none of them is helping her at all when it comes to cooking ,cleaning or looking after the kids and I can tell she’s so tired and has high blood pressure ...that’s why I’m taking my mum away from all of them so they can be responsible for their kids 🤦‍♀️

omoo yuju and umji are so cute omggg😭😭😭

hoping both of them are happy and at peace, now! Maa, I am rooting for you, please take care of yourself and do the things you want to do !!!

아들딸...지적능력이 좀 모자른듯...

A mothers heart. If they know that their child is having a hard time, they can't help but worry.

부모가 먹고살기 힘들어 열심히 사신건 맞지만 아이들을 먹고살기 힘든다는 말로써 자신의 힘듬만 위로받으려 하시고 아이들에게 무지함을 인정하지 않는다면 서로 갈등만 생기겠죠

I think that girl are emotional unstable when she got depression her mother set up a marriage with an old man that she’s unhappy with it and being so stressed .

이야... 이건 진짜 1년 후에도 답이 뭔지 모르겠군,,, 근데,,, 유주언니랑 무지언니 울면 저도 울게 되자나요 ㅠㅠ

행복함을 느끼는 걸 하라는말 참 좋네 ..

Omg for the first time i'm a little bit early:D

아주머니..너무 좋으신분이세요. 그런데 자녀가 많이 부족하군요. 끝까지 안고가시든 내쳐서 혼자사시든지 선택하세요..자녀는 변할수없는 태생입니다

Guys KBS has removed the segment on sexual abuse by the father, which sparked uproar recently, right?? I could not find that part of the episode.

They seem to have some problem in the past and it keeps on building until they feel frustrated with each other. They should open up to each other and forgive. And the children is old enough to be independent, they should be more thoughtful to the mother

KBC 에게 경고합니다 이런거 올리지마세요. 나라망신입니다. 저게 아들과 따님이 병원을가야할 정도인데 뭐하는겁니까? 수많은 외국인들이 보고있습니다. 이건 나라망신이예요.

I feel pity towards the mother. Her life has been so hard from the start. How could her husband doesnt give her expenses. It's the husband job to fulfill life expenses of his family. And yet her children doesnt give her any appreciation of her mom's hardwork. At that old age, and still have a dozen work to do and her daughter nagged her so much. It should be the daughter to give her mother's life expenses now. Take it for a gratitude to her mother for the one who has raised her until now.

I keep punching the air while I watch this!