💯 agree

Domestic physical abuse is seen as normal in the travelling community unfortunately.

Yes he showed himself for sure. I also have huge issues with putting fake nails on that toddler. Nail places should have an age requirement for anything other than paint on thier nails, no matter parental permission. It should be 14 at the very least in my opinion.

When was it? I missed it

@@kaya7249 @7:30 on the video.

Well the girls aren’t educated

i think they dont go to skl thats why they dont ik

I laughed... and then I died inside. How can people still don't know how a Menstrual CYCLE works

That raised my 👀 too... I was like too long 😮

​@@delledaye2035 you'd be surprised, my husband are Pakistani and I got pregnant with my first baby on the 3rd month of trying so technically 2months trying got married at the very end of September and found out I was pregnant at end of December and for them that was " too long" they were starting to get concerned something was wrong with me and I wouldn't be able to have children and would ask me since the day I got married if I had " any news" Some cultures are like this and it's shocking.

I agree. That was so too much for me.

They have baby safe nail polish--Piggie Paint

The girls are sexualised so young,It's wrong

It’s hardly child abuse calm down

@@MrsMAS like i said painint is fine but extensions are too harsh

Absolutely

Not to mention they didn't have seat belts on in the car 😳

Wtf it's not child abuse the reason why ppl don't wear there seat belts (sometimes) is because of the police evicting us even. If we're in a site that's leagel

Fake nails on a toddler 😢 makes me soo mad

Omg the baby drinking redbull.. those are so bad for your heart

Trust me they know. Just losers.

There not!

Not all of them are like that tho it’s just a few that ruin it to everyone

@@Hoonqueen agree. Sucks for the one's that are just trying to live simply, peacefully, and neat and tidy! Love and light to you and all those that are just trying to get by and have their own human experience for a bit.

And they steal

I don't know if it is true, but a response to a comment above said that they divorced shortly after getting married. Wouldn't be surprised with the immaturity of the husband and then adding twin babies into it. Can't imagine the struggles she probably had.

It scared me when he raised his arm to hit her I actually flinched with her 😢

Right?! He was rude and obnoxious he stole. He did all kinds of funky c***. I would not have let my daughter marry someone that did all that within the first few weeks that's horrible

Not divorced. Married, several children and really really happy. Helen is a strong and fiesty young woman :)

that is true however that's their lifestyle and they wont go against tradition

So glad you were able to leave safely! I hope your life is wonderful now!!!

Thank you for opening up and sharing your story

This is so sad to read. Glad you were able to break the toxic cycle.

I am very proud of you, even though I only know you through this text. You did so well and sacrificed so much. Someone in Germany wants you to feel hugged ❤

So glad you were able to get out.

Thank you! Absolutely inappropriate 😏😏

Agreed.

And the baby drinking a redbull 36:14

It literally burns if the stylist files it too much, it probably burns because her nail beds are too thin 😢

Toxins are absorbed through the nail, realistically no-one should put things on their nails that will end up causing disease...🫠

They divorced not long after they got married. This is from 2013

​@@amandab8433 can you tell us more? Like why and when exactly

@@amandab8433 Where's the proof? Someone else said they're together still & have 5 kids.

​@@amandab8433 wow divorced was she disowned by the community afterwards ?? i also hate how they treat the girls like they are possessions rather thank people and they are made to belive that they are worthless if they are not married at a very young age its disgusting and disturbing behaviour. Also they always say they show their love etc by getting married some of these girls have no idea who they are getting married to as they only met them 6 weeks before the wedding thats not love plus at 15 / 16 what do these teens know about love and adult relationships many are still acting like children yes they are children in many ways plus the girls have no education so if they did want out how can they make it alone,?? she would be rejected by her people and would have to support herself and probably a brood of kids since thats their purpose in life get married young have as many kids as possible and be a slave to her husband, they are not allowed a education as in their culture she doesnt need one as shes isnt allowed to work so she is basically raised to be stuck in a world where she has no rights and has no chance of bettering herself and she has to be totally supported by her husband if she wants out she is rejected by everyone and then left to fend for herself.😳 Personally i think its crazy and just like any abusive relationship they are isolated from every day life and cant do anything for herself. I knew a girl on school from a traveling family when she was 14 her parents wanted her to leave school she didnt want that she told me when she was 16 if my parents had their way id be like my sister with no education married at 15 and stuck at home with a guy who grabbed me at a party therefore because her wanted her she had to marry him, she didnt even know his full name when they got married a week later, she had no choice now she has 3 kids to a man she hates but she cant escape as divorce is bad and she will be rejected by everyone so im staying in school if they like it or not as far as they know im out somewhere with froends they dont know im here, i will finish school and i will get a job so i can support myself and help get my sister out. By then we will be both rejected me because i stayed in school my sister because she wants a divorce. I refuse to go to family get yogethers as im scared to death that some guy will grab me then id be forced to marry him if i have to go i hide the whole time. One guy did try to grab me once i told him i was taken so dont think about it touching me thankfully he belueved me ive learnt how to make myself vomit so when there is a event i start a few days before been sick that way I can stay home my parents have no idea im faking. She got all her gcses and she got high marks the day we got our exam results was the day her parents found out shed been in school as her tteacher called her parents to tell them how proud she was, oh all hell broke out her teacher felt so bad after, thankfully she had already got herself a job, folled in all the forms to get benifits and found a hoyse to stay in so when her parents told her she had to choose between her getting married or been rejected she said and i quote great thanks for giving me a choice in what I want to do in my life , that new I've never had a choice before, well i choose option 2 ive already packed and i already have a new home set up and by the way im taking my sister with me, since you are more worried about your reputation than you are about your daughter who is beaten by the bastard you made her marry, seriously he grabbed her at a wedding sexually assaulted her and you said aww thats so nice look hes showing affection toward you, do you know how fucked up that is , and now he beats her every day have you seen the bruises all up her back ,legs ,arms etc oh of course not because she has to hide them so your reputation stay intact, he been cheating on her since day one, he rapes her and all you said was you can't be raped by your husband he has a right to do that to you, well screw your reputation and screw you, i refuse to stand by and watch my sister who i love more than anything be beaten and raped anymore you made her marry that bastard when she was 15 and he was 19 all because he said i want her, you made it out that sexual assault was as romantic as if hed arranged a candle lit dinner in a fancy restaurant, you are disgusting, you are failures at been parents and most of all you are from now on no longer my parents or her parents, with that she pucked up her bags and walked out she went two doors down knowing her sisters husband was away on some horse show thing she helped her pack up her and the kids belongings shed hired a van and had a trusted friend help her and drive it her parents didnt try stop themas they belived her sister would never leave her husband knowing they would be rejected and disowned lol. Her sister knowing the plan had started packing the day before as soon as he left and he wasn't due back for two days within 3 hours she had packed up all her things and all the kids stuff including toys etc are just left his stuff behind since she didn't own anything all the house stuff was also left behind then they left she left a note saying she wouldn't be back and don't look for them, she left all the credit cards etc saying she hadnt taken any money, she also said she was keeping the rings as her solicitor said that was fine so she was keeping them as compensation for everything he put her through, she locked the door and posted the keys. The first thing she did was pawn them they were expensive rings both platinum and diamond and she got several thousand for them the furst money she had ever had that was her own. Then they drove to their new home they didn't give the address to anyone although their phones soon started blowing up as her parents went to the sisters house to give her something and since there was no answer they let themselves in with their key and say the note and that everything belonging to her and the kids gone they were furious they told the husband and he was sending threatening calls and messages she blocked the numbers then turned her phone off when they got the house sorted they went shopping and the sister got them both new phones so they couldn't be tracked and posted their phones back to him with a joke saying here is your phone back since you paid for it you can have my sisters too now I don't have to listen to or read anything from you again now stop trying to find me or I will get you arrested as for something you don't know everytime you hit me I took photos of the result and gave them to the police telling them keep them on file for after I escape so they have over a years worth of evidence so has my solicitor so you will never see me or the kids again and by 5pm tonight ( she posted next day signed for delivery ) you will receive both a restraing order, divorce papers and papers stating you hand over all parent responsibility to me just signed them and get ut over with the courts have all the evidence so I get the kids you don't get to see them ever and I've told them I don't want a penny from you as I don't want anything to do with you so sign it and get on with your life, and dont bother harassing my parents they disowned us and have no idea where I am so its not worth you trying to find me as i am way way out of your reach and you will never find me. They had moved 4 hours away and we stayed in touch for a while bith had jobs the kids were in school all of them changed their names so they couldn't be found, and all of them were very happy the husband did sign everything so that was good that he didn't cause issue but he probably did it to avoid going to prison again as she did say she would press charges he had a choice sign the papers or face 15-20 years in prison if he didn't nice bit of blackmail 🤣🤣

😢it’s sad.

They are still married. They have 5 babies and are very happy.

@@mrsl8596 where did you see this?

Yes the lad seems very immature. As the lass gets older he will be more of a problem to her as he will remain a child, mentally.

they had one child and divorced

I wish they would show us what happened to them.

They shouldnt have had sex

The way they are still treated is so bad, been kicked out of everywhere. They should be places for them to stay, with rules of course and cleanliness of the places been enforced. Traveller's and gypsies are nice people and like every other human being have qualities and faults. I wish people would give them a chance, I think more exchange have to happen between each sides.

“Dill hole” That’s a new one. 👀 🥒

Staying in school has nothing to do with getting pregnant in the 60s girls were getting pregnant then and to this day they are still getting pregnant while being in school they are even younger

@@Tina-wi5ng my comment flew completely over your head.

Oh yes..because if you stay in schooling you can get a whole different sortt of brainwashed..but at least you will become a good life long minion for the corporations..a wage slave.obedient and unquestioning the status quo.

Its not as easy as it seems. The woman need empowering

Yup

You don't actually believe this bullshit by the time he's 16 he's probably conned robbed more pensioners than you have brain cells🤦

The red bull got me you see all the teenage girls always drinking red bull and I saw the little girl and was like you’ve got to be kidding me for real!?

It was probs empty or filled with water

That’s what I was saying also!! Those are terrible for your heart they cause arrhythmias I do not drink them at all and I would never allow my children to drink them.

That wee boy you speak of stopped mid speech to beat a little girl.

I'm irish and we hate them too, they're the lowest of the low

What's 1 group not all of us

No, but he made it look bad for all of u.

@@susanengel-ix8bl ik

@@Daphne12367 I agree, I've met some lovely, kind travellers. But, the problem is, the ones who do these kinds of things give a bad name to all travellers and it's a real shame. Some people feel so entitled to do whatever they want without considering other peoples feelings :(

Very entitled people

White version of the boat people 😂😂😂

It’s there way of life leave them alone!

​@@surfingnorris7027😂 "leave them alone!" They put it out there, as trashy as it is! You bet they'll get judged. These people are scummy.

Dolls and prams are toys like kids play mams and dads

@@Daphne12367 of course, obviously which is great, Except she wasn’t pushing a “doll” in a pram was she, she was pushing around an empty red bull can in it 😩 that was my point!

@@BananaCherryKiss ok I understand that redbull gives ppl heart attacks it's a sin if anything happens

Oml it’s not neglect

I just felt sad for him. He sounded so smart and passionate for his age.. and sadly he will probably end up miserable moving from place to place doing odd jobs. I hope not.

Having the desire to better oneself is already so important. It's been 10 years. I hope he's happy.

Yeah, yeah, but he also paused midway through his speech to go beat up a little girl

they work@catherinebranson3257

@catherinebranson3257 Not paying taxes and stealing, not paying rent or mortgage, etc. Watch the video - they even state that they have *more* money than the average person because of all these things. And they *still* steal. Absolutely horrendous.

Why does everyone take it the wrong way?!

​@@surfingnorris7027because it's a bad thing??? i thought we all knew this.

I know that was such a red flag for that to be his first impulse even as a joke

This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married.

@@amandab8433 how do you know

That's a cultural thing unfortunately

i know man. this wasnt playful at all. it was an immediate threat, even as a joke i found it veryy serious

U do not fall pregnant u get

The redbull was empty

There's no fire worked get thrown lol learn the Coulter

I didn't even catch the toddler drinking Red Bull. I drank soda as a toddler, but didn't drink an energy drink until I was 7. Even then it was because at the time it was me, my 12 year old brother, and my dad trying to raised the two of us alone while grieving. They were around and I thought it was just soda in a different kinda can. Now when I look back I cringe a bit about how I would drink around 2 energy drinks as a kid because no one was there to stop me and I'd fight my brother about it if he said no, but I know that at least in my family's case my dad was trying his best. He got remarried within a couple years and got his shit together. Now my little sister (half sister, but I don't concern myself with halfs, she's just my sister) isn't allowed to drink any soda. She's 13 and still hasn't had a drop of soda past 7up or ginger ale when trying to settle her stomach. Meanwhile I'm sitting here typing this with a sugar free Mount Dew and a cup of cold brew next to me.

If they pay ground rent then they can stay and help their kids get to school on time. Why should the tax payers have to clean up after them and give them public spaces they pay for…for them to clutter up with their antics. You can tell the kids have had enough. This lifestyle is outdated.

@@jlarkman3477 who the fuck are you to tell somebody to give up their heritage of their lifestyle.

They just don't care. They barely have empathy for their own wives, let alone ethnic strangers.

Some kids here on the states got sentenced to prison for throwing rocks at passing cars and killed someone

Poor Girl , if she tries to leave they will all turn on her , including her own people,

I agree. She radiates beauty and speaks so softly and calmly. I too wish her the best for her future with her husband ❤️

With the boyfriend so quick to raise his hand to her RED FLAG 🚩 run away 😢

This is from 2013, they divorced not long after they got married. They'd only known each other for less than a month before getting engaged.

How long is not long after? They have twins together so they were at least together for that and she didn’t seem to have any intention on leaving him.

@@amandab8433 Where did you find this information?

that was Helens brother in law, her father was never shown.

Seemed to me to be him teasing her.

It was a joke; tasteless yes but a peculiar sense of humor, certainly.

He wasn't joking. This community is uneducated, they don't know you can't always get pregnant on the first night, so for him 21 tries or at least 21 possible tries is a long time and of course they blame the woman only. I wonder what happens if the man is infertile@@emakelley6807

Her brother in law is quite dim

I love him so much!

I suppose the gypsies need a few of their own trained in law so as to stand for them when they're in bother.

I hope the temper he displayed when he paused mid speech to batter a little girl gets under control

I felt so uncomfortable watching them interact....

Yep

He pushed her pretty hard after that. Huge red flag.

This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married.

Total red flag 🚩

She is lovely. ❤

@@amandab8433is it on a video?

@@surfingnorris7027 No it was in one of the online gossip type pages from the UK.

I've lived next door to a camp my whole life and haven't had a issue yeah I've seen fights a lot of fights lol but that's from within their own community, I actually get my hair done in one of the girls caravans she's the best at big bouncy blowouts 🤷 I'm not a traveller they have a camp right at the opening of a estate I'm the first house most of them have a house here now tho the council built bungalows for them

Totally understanding you. In Costa Rica 🇨🇷 we don't need gypsies since we have more than enough with nicaraguans. They litter, rob, steal, break-in, Rword, and don't even care to raise their kids, some even sell them.

well they don't work...so they're either actually stealing or living off of the government which is still, in my eyes, stealing. I don't see a single disability or justifiable reason that they can't work, other than they wanna travel around and live freely. yeah, well so do I. that's not the way it works, unfortunately. I just can't stand people who know the rules and still try to skirt around them. literally in the beginning, they said they just got evicted from their last place and council already clocked them at the new one, and they know they're gonna get evicted again, but they're still going at it. clearly they don't want you doing this and there's just zero regard.

Gives you food for thought about other prejudices... the most bigoted thing a person can do when someone says 'I don't like X people' is dismiss them and not ask WHY! Pattern recognition is the basis of all intelligence!

Snap i was just about to comment saying the same. The rubbish and waste they leave behind is disgusting as well

He was the brother-in-law but I agree. He wasn’t helping himself with drinking so much and binge-eating but there’s usually roots reasons to this. I did feel for him when he explained what his motivation is for losing it.

He actually seems mentally deficient

😂😂😂

Right? That pissed me off. If they got in even a minor accident that baby would be out the windshield.

and her husband thinks it's ok for kids to throw fireworks at passing cars.

That seems to be a common complaint, about the mess they leave behind. Yet they SAY that they "clean up" after themselves. So, which is it?

have been looking for anyone else that noticed the lack of car seats...

That's what a thought and the few seconds prior he raised to backhand her. ☜⁠ ⁠(⁠↼⁠_⁠↼⁠)

She acts like it's a joke but she flinched.... it may be a joke but I have a bad feeling there's more to it 😬

The pushing doesn’t bother me.. me n my bf of 10 years push each other when we are playing but the raising his hand to her and her flinching like that bothered me

@@goldenhourx same! Playful pushing happens between friends and partners so that part wasn't really bad to me... just the flinching is bothersome

They divorced soon after

It is not only the gypsies that leave a mess look at Venice Beach in California look at skid row im California

@@Tina-wi5ng Homelessness isn’t a culture nobody raises their child to become homeless It’s a completely different problem. Also Gypsies aren’t poor a lot of them have lots of money probably cause they don’t pay any rent or tax

I was wondering about that - how they treat the places they stay. Part of me would like to see their culture preserved, perhaps some compromises could be made - like they can only stay a certain amount of time and must adhere to the law but I’m not sure it’s possible.

@@blondesense1708 I don't know if this is the case in the UK, but here in the US, they could go to a trailer park or campsite and rent a lot. Not only that, they could park at a truck stop, a mall parking lot, etc. It wouldn't be so bad if it was a single trailer, but parking 5 or 6 trailers and cars on the grass in a public park is just ridiculous.

​@@memyselfandeye76 yeah, but in trailer and rv parks you have to pay a damage deposit, rent and utilities fees.

Yer it's a lovely thought that it was paid for by some poor pensioner's money conned out of them for some shoddy expensive house repair or drive.🤦

Yeah I heard Jimmy say the council won't give them a house. So I think they don't want to pay rent and stuff

Because they travel, I'm quite sure that other "travelers" would move into it, move on, and it would just become repetitive.

Travellers have been here since the Great Fire of London , they were instrumental in rebuilding. When King William of Orange sent from Holland to be the British King - he sent protestants to invade Eire, many fled Eire (Catholics) to the UK , Meanwhile Roma came to the UK in the 1500s , welcomed and then like travellers persecuted. They "travelled to stop themselves being killed by the establishment. Even catching a rabbit could see them hung or deported to Australia. There is always a back story.

The men are all disgusting lazy and entitled. The women are abused physically, and emotionally. The children are wild, abusive toward each other, and have very unhealthy views on life. Not to mention very unhealthy diets. My heart breaks for the women, and children. The whole traveler lifestyle is horrific. Srsly, who wants to live in that chaos. I don’t get it. 😢

Yea I think if they were willing to pay taxes/rent it would be ok because even here in the states there are R/V parks, you pay a small fee and can stay there as long as you want. But they want to live there for free and that’s just not how things work now.

I don’t think he is he was beating that little girl up

In most places in the world, that is still how it is done, unfortunately.

If you are blessed enough to marry a kind and warm-hearted man, this is not a bad way to live. I have been a housewife for nearly 25 years and went straight from my parent's home to my husband's. My life has been largely wonderful. Yes, I stayed home and cooked and cleaned and raised 3 children... But not a single day did I ever have to worry about bills, food, things that were broken, trash, having to work, and on and on and on... Once my day is over with my small amount of "chores", I've got hours to myself every single day to do whatever I want. My kids are all grown now basically. I've done and learned so many amazing things. I'm into all sorts of hobbies. He has never held me back and done nothing but encourage every interest I've ever had and if I wanted to have a career, he would have supported it, but he was just as happy taking care of me... For some women, this lifestyle is the dream. Giving yourself completely over to another by your own choice is the key to the whole thing. I genuinely 10000% do NOT want to be "my own woman". I want to be "HIS woman". That said, these girls are groomed into this lifestyle from toddlerhood, they are not giving of themselves because it is truly 100% what they want and they came to that conclusion themselves... no, they are brainwashed into thinking this is what they want... that's the difference here...

She is raised that way ! Men are everything, women are not. So sick.

It's sun beds that's why

Yup 🤦‍♀️

Yes you did

I wasn't sure it was red bull. Think it was champagne. Which is worse.

This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married. They'd only known each other for less than a month before getting engaged.

@@amandab8433how do you know this? I thought they were having twins together?

Thank you Amanda, LOVE and blessings 🙏💖

They divorced pretty quickly. This episode is from 2013.

@@amandab8433 I hoped she’d get away from him, he had a bad vibe.

@@amandab8433 Another comment above says that they are still married and have more kids, including another set of twins.

@@rule_brittania2142 I sure hope that’s wrong

Can you get my big fat gypsy christening episode

Or how about painting newborns nails ?

@@Dollgrl1 ooh wouldn't that be lovely 🙄

I also hated that the kids were not belted in the car either

​@@annied1827Same!

Was just going to write this, it was so upsetting seeing her so upset and not wanting them done either. So irresponsible and disgusting. Putting them on is one thing but you have to soak the nails off in chemicals etc it surely can't be good for their little nails and skin like who does that to their babies.

Exactly

Or car seats

@lil_cookie_in nah they’re definitely required in the U.K.

Yes! This was probably what bothered me the most.

Yep Just like other ethnicity do I've seen plenty other ethnicities flaunt seatbelt rules

It’s there way of living they have no where else

@surfingnorris7027 I understand if you're literally homeless, not by choice, and have nowhere else to go but many of these people have other options. People that are willing to help. Although with the current situation I'm not so sure anymore.

@@gachaluna2708 I guess but this has been going on for years they were raised to do this there needs to be more places for them to stay

Because they need to move around to avoid taxes, child/educational neglect investigations, trouble caused by theft and fraud etc. When they come through our area in the US, neighbors have to give a heads up to less savvy neighbors to not hire them for home repairs; they do things like take a deposit on paving driveways and then take the money and run or do half of the job, shoddily and run. They can’t stay here long because word gets around. The kids are often not in school at all or placed and removed repeatedly so truancy is a constant issue; my sister-in-law a teacher in an area with a revolving door of this population and by middle school they are woefully behind in academics and just disappear without notice. Not having to pay for land is not the primary reason to not settle down somewhere.

He’s already raised his hand and pushed her! 🫣

Excellent question. Never thought of that!

Good job 👍

Congrats

The only update Melissa, is that the majority of settled scum are still DISCRIMINATING and HATING US😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Totally! The veil was stunning! ❤

Totally agree,

I hardly doubt it's that simple. People dislike them because they're different. That's it that's all.

it was literly shown in the episode that they steal and put others in harm They are the only ones to blame for their predicament

@@fofosyrie3798 First of all, that one guy stole not the entire community. Get off your high horse and open your eyes. You're biased asf.

@@asunahusama the community is known for having ex cons that were involved with dangerous gangs in the UK You can literally look it up I'm not throwing around baseless claims

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