That's the type of humour I have when I'm drunk. While sober I'm shy and awkward. At least I know somewhere deep inside me I have a witty side.
@beayn3 жыл бұрын
Same, just can't bring it out when not drunk though.
@7i7ypvnchr.2a3 жыл бұрын
Same dude, but at least U got it in u,
@ashotofmercury3 жыл бұрын
Dude, come to Britain - we can help with both getting drunk and sarcasm! 👌🏻🤣
@7i7ypvnchr.2a3 жыл бұрын
@@ashotofmercury sounds too good to be true…but I’m taking it
@markbeeman30933 жыл бұрын
I love to be around extroverts. They love introverts.
@NickNotas3 жыл бұрын
Physical humor is also really underrated. Being more expressive with your body language, making a goofy face, changing your intonation -- all can make a huge impact on your delivery.
@bigQraz3 жыл бұрын
Something that made will smith, Jim Carrey and robin Williams famous and inspired my way of social behavior
@willarcher23563 жыл бұрын
Robin and Jim were both masters at that
@NickNotas3 жыл бұрын
@@bigQraz Great people to learn from
@doogleticker51833 жыл бұрын
Stephen Hawking perfected this technique...in my opinion.
@bigQraz3 жыл бұрын
@@doogleticker5183 I wouldn’t consider your joke as funny.
@vanhalenps43 жыл бұрын
Anyone else think it's incredible how we can hear a series of words and instantly comprehend it and within less than a second produce an emotion and express it, completely out of our control, with zero thought? A whole book could be written on just what happens when we hear a joke and laugh.
@rayelle65793 жыл бұрын
I like how your brain works cuz I thinkin stuff like this all the time! Like why do we laugh at all?! (It’s partially social but we also do it when we’re alone.) I love it!
@jessepotente19793 жыл бұрын
Look up what behavioralists think is the evolutionary cause of laughter in humans, its a fkn trip and a half
@beemo92 жыл бұрын
Or cause a tantrum on social media.
@hiscondition60072 жыл бұрын
New book idea- thanks haha
@zaydzulqurnain5942 жыл бұрын
Also, I was thinking about this recently: Look at the rest of this message, but don't read it. Just observe the words without comprehending their meaning. You can't do it can you? It's crazy how we were born unable to read but now we can't not read. Theoretically, if you did anything enough times, it would become literal second nature and you would have no control over it.
@biffgee67972 жыл бұрын
During one job interview I was asked if I had ever been convicted of a felony. I replied, 'nothing that ever stood up on appeal.' I started laughing, then she started laughing. I explained how Carla said that about her children on an episode of Cheers. It turned out that she loved the show Cheers. She hired me.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@pamelabratton25012 жыл бұрын
I got hired because I looked like a school marm, but during the interview I guess I made a rude/suggestive comment or joke and revealed my self to be a dirty old lady in disguise! Hired ON THE SPOT! Just be yourself, the others might catch on. Good on 'em if the do!
@srbaruchi22 күн бұрын
This is better than my old standby from "Stripes": "Convicted?" (thoughtful pause) ... "No, never con-vict-ed."
@johannesgrote270Күн бұрын
@@nesferd2435Dude touch grass please
@nataliecampos17323 жыл бұрын
I love how Ryan is so funny, he brings out Jimmy's REAL laugh lol
@donedeal7252 жыл бұрын
Jimmy Fallon is fkn cringe city.
@certifiedbrackernenjoyer.65452 жыл бұрын
@@donedeal725 kind of part of his job.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@LateshaRenee2 жыл бұрын
@@nesferd2435 he meant exactly what his comment says
@josephleonard6695 Жыл бұрын
Jimmy is never real. he's always fake lol
@FriedWater247Ай бұрын
How to be funny: Be Ryan Renolds
@shawnell31619 күн бұрын
So simple duh I been doing this since van wilder
@SoulViv0r11 күн бұрын
Good to know I’m not the only one targeted with this video 😭
@thegpshowtheshow3 жыл бұрын
I love how he makes the professional comedians laugh
@arkadye3 жыл бұрын
Having met a few pro comics I've tended to find that because they enjoy and appreciate humour they tend to understand jokes better than most people, if you kind of fluff the joke they still get where it meant to go and see the funny bit of it where people who don't do jokes for a living miss it.
@pitoblogg3 жыл бұрын
Most “professional comedians” are teeerrible
@knotkool13 жыл бұрын
their actors rita. they haven't had a real emotion in years.
@nothere39823 жыл бұрын
@@pitoblogg yep, that doesn't mean they can't get jokes tho.
@nothere39822 жыл бұрын
@Dracco Princes dude it's the whole point of this comment thread 😂
@picturebreakdown3 жыл бұрын
I’d like to personally give an award to the people who commented “first” to commemorate their stupendous achievement
@LockhartDan3 жыл бұрын
Dude, ur MARVEL and Star Wars Breakdowns are really well done, I’m impressed, keep it up 👍
@SteveFox3693 жыл бұрын
Shut up, just a little bit jelly that u weren't the first! 😎🤗🤫
@adamheskett62453 жыл бұрын
Legend has it they’re still celebrating their accomplishment, worthy of commendation.
@ninjazay72453 жыл бұрын
First 😎
@roguexr93963 жыл бұрын
Impressive
@hectorheath97422 жыл бұрын
Ryan is very likeable and very funny. I'm betting he's as humorous as he is because he goes through every day thinking humorous thoughts to himself. So in front of an audience his mind is already stockpiled with witty comments, they're a reflection of his affable personality.
@Rick-the-Swift2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it! I'm a lead singer in a punk rock group and I often crack my audience up with funny little stories about my wife and kid in between songs. Later though, at home I'm pretty much in the doghouse all the time, getting the cold shoulder from my wife. My daughter also seems untrusting and I find her often looking at me with suspicious eyes when we are together in car rides and she thinks I'm watching the road. Oh well, too bad they don't accept my affable personality the same way my loyal fans do. I'm not gonna change who I am because of a few close family members who don't get me. Ryan and this channel rock! 🤘
@SacredDreamer2 ай бұрын
@@Rick-the-Swift😆😆
@homeyjeromy3 жыл бұрын
Then there's me who can't get halfway through a joke without cracking up while no one else is laughing
@theorganicway2go2 жыл бұрын
and then theyre staring at you like wtf is the matter and that makes you laugh harder and you have to do the nvm wave off...
@kennardwillard52322 жыл бұрын
Man, that's truly just me being awkward
@jesseweaver88992 жыл бұрын
You got the whole way through that one and I laughed at the end;)
@asktheetruscans98572 жыл бұрын
On the bright side... ...you've got the self amusement part down
@junejames23642 жыл бұрын
...except yours is the only comment I literally laughed out loud reading. Some people are good at writing humor...
@woodandwheelz3 жыл бұрын
It's funny how that I do most of these things already. I have Asperger's, which I found out as an adult (oh the joy of realizing why I was a "strange" kid), and having such I was always in an awkward position in communicating with my peers. I quickly learned that humor and sarcasm made people like me and I felt less awkward. Often times I made myself the brunt of the joke, which made people laugh harder. I was asked one time, "You know they're laughing 'at' you and not 'with' you, right?" I replied, "No, they are laughing with me. I introduced the joke, I set it up and delivered it. I know it was about me, but it made everyone laugh which was my main goal. So, you see, they are laughing with me and not at me." Great video, thanks.
@thatboy33 жыл бұрын
I also use self-deprecating humor a lot. They're laughing with you laughing at yourself.
@gary150iq2 жыл бұрын
Excellent reply.
@donedeal7252 жыл бұрын
Square people don't get self deprecating humor: they take everything at face value. Square is square.
@alanfoxman52912 жыл бұрын
If you cant laugh at yourself, life is going to seem a whole lot longer than you'd like. - Natalie Portman
@nateo2002 жыл бұрын
I was sure there wasn't another Aspie in here until I found this....lol I'm a natural communicator from all the years of being thrown headfirst into socializing! I still love watching the explanation of things I do when I have fun with others :D
@Faildude153 жыл бұрын
I'm an instructor and when I teach adults I always find it hard to connect considering I'm very childish. Ironically after watching your videos, I can be childish all the time and they love me more for being childish than being mature. Thank you so much for your help
@lavinianmonk44553 жыл бұрын
R u on the progressive commercials???????
@krisvq3 жыл бұрын
No... childish is incredibly annoying. Ryan is not childish. He's actually skilled at it.
@Faildude153 жыл бұрын
@@krisvq that's fair, I normally come off as childish but ultimately until we meet there's no way to know the extent. Ryan has been extremely helpful in channeling the fun-loving nature j try to exude into a charming presence and I appreciate him for it
@M4HY3MSH4RD3 жыл бұрын
every adult is still a child inside, if your showing childish frivolity and your adult customers feel comfortable and like it, they will start doing it as well. The best type of interactions are sometimes acting like a kid, because the other person will feel at ease, because your being you and your have taken your guard down, they can do the same
@alexejfrohlich58693 жыл бұрын
real-life example a few weeks back: i talk via teams to a group of ppl who are our clients. we are talking about a bill volume of 6 or even 7 digits for the project that THEY will spend with us (we will do the job). I am the guy who is going through all the requirements with them... checking if everything is thought out, make suggestions on how to achieve X and Y etc. now, my headset is somewhat broke, has a loose wire and so sometimes the mic drops... so it happend again, they already knew abou it and were just like "oh alex, your mic again..." -- so i clap the mic a few times until the sound is back and then i am like "ah damn, i really need a new headset... alexa! order me a new headset [i wait deliberatly 2 secs] ... i just realized, i don't have alexa" ... group is having a good time... back to topic of 7 digits volume. it is way not the only joke i brought up, i even made some jokes regarding their CEOs and so (would be too long to elaborate) -- we are really on good terms, i like them, i've been told in other, higher-up meetings, me and a colleague of mine who is working on this aswell are reported there as a pleasure to work with. i must say, of course there is also competence in the field, after all they are not there to be entertained but to get a multi-country online store up and will have to perform at least at the current level... but i'd say that they appreciate being entertained at the same time ;) i don't know if you really need that advice, so i'll write it down just for the general audience: emotions help with learning. that's why frontal teaching is so ineffective (it is pretty boring to listen to somebody and just inhale the knowledge). however, you can make sure that ppl keep the important parts when you make them connect emotionally to what you are saying, so that they have this additional reference. so put something important around a funny story for example that make ppl laugh and later, instead of refering to the topic directly, just refer to something from the joke and voila, ppl also remember the actual topic behind it -- just be sure not to make the whole meeting a laughing stock, in that case you are just entertaining, not teaching :)
@markbeeman30933 жыл бұрын
There was girl at work who completely got my sarcastic humor and we had roucous laughter all day. Too bad those people are few and far between.
@garyfox87013 жыл бұрын
Apparently girls love guys who make them laugh... sadly for me it's only when I take my clothes off
@johngreydanus20333 жыл бұрын
@@garyfox8701 but it's good you got that far
@garyfox87013 жыл бұрын
@@johngreydanus2033 sometimes I just cut to the quick... you gotta know ain't ya?
@johngreydanus20333 жыл бұрын
@@garyfox8701 especially when you're paying by the hour ;-)
@J23_2 жыл бұрын
@@garyfox8701 That was actually a good joke
@samsmlee3 жыл бұрын
5:25 The priming and the delivery, so amazing.
@eljuanhubbard2 жыл бұрын
He is good at trained network television humor. Most of the hosts of those shows are actually laughing in relief because he is playing along and they don't have to work with realistic, unscripted answers. Those are definitely the types of answers they want because he keeps things in the outer bubble of his true opinions, which the TV hosts prefer as well. The TV show hosts actually hate it when the celebs get all realistic and dark. It's usually random and hard to work with, especially if the answer wasn't engaging the audience.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@garyfox87013 жыл бұрын
People ask me "do you like kids?" "I love them" I tell them... "but I couldn't eat a whole one".
@anna-gk7ez3 жыл бұрын
Ok that’s amazing and I’m stealing that joke from you
@Zombie1013 жыл бұрын
@@anna-gk7ez no please don't. This is just so so cringe worthy
@dav0n3 жыл бұрын
U just proved how comedy is SO Subjective 🎉 (congrats) 🎊
@Kali-83 жыл бұрын
@@Zombie101 old people humor
@yasminrygn3 жыл бұрын
@@Zombie101 heyyy be nice
@Rexag2 жыл бұрын
Often witty humor is experienced within your family environment and it develops as you grow up. Some people have this natural ability and never think about it. The best comes from you when you are in the moment. Trying too hard will only get you rolling eyes. I never realized there were courses to learn this.
@highliving-animatedvideos58313 жыл бұрын
*4 Psychological Tricks That Instantly Make You Popular* 0:23 - #1: Exaggerate so much it’s impossible to take you seriously 3:14 - #2: Use "The Mind’s Eye" Method 5:14 - #3: Use "The Fake-out" Method 6:46 - #4: Focus on self amusement and having a good time
@ninjazay72453 жыл бұрын
😎💪🏾💪🏾
@soroushjm10113 жыл бұрын
what a legend
@MortyMortyMorty3 жыл бұрын
Ok we know this you should have explained what are those methods
@ninjazay72453 жыл бұрын
@@MortyMortyMorty bro shut up how about you go to make a comment and explain everything in detail
@ninjazay72453 жыл бұрын
@@MortyMortyMorty talking about we know this I didn't know it until I looked down at the comments so speak for yourself buddy
@i.cbeauty2677 Жыл бұрын
I love how Ryan is a major example here. He's such a funny and charming man 😂
@dripvader693 жыл бұрын
*Me an introvert who berely speaks: Great, now I need to be sarcastic and loud :')*
@Jack115.3 жыл бұрын
it’s all about your self worth. You’re not gonna be able to win people over and the people you do will respect your mind, humor and thoughts. you’re confident enoughto say your thoughts in a clear direct manner, confident enough to understand that not everything you say will get the reaction you want, and strong enough to not take things to heart
@vwr32jeep3 жыл бұрын
Do the loud part, skip the sarcastic attempts at humor.
@matthewharrison32653 жыл бұрын
To be fair, I'm an introvert and often loud. I learned a long time ago that there is vulnerability in being a wallflower. Being loud and dominating the conversation and general mood of a space affords the power to control the actors in that space. So, as an introvert, I can do more to proactively control my (emotional) distance by being dominant rather than quietly hoping only social interactions that I find comfortable occur.
@missy92793 жыл бұрын
@@matthewharrison3265 I tried that. I don't feel good about it though
@rocketassistedgoat10793 жыл бұрын
@@missy9279 Just study other introverts who are very likeable, like Keanu Reeves. That way, you can remain authentic. Also, "if you're not willing to be a fool, you can't be a master". I frequently can make the whole room laugh, but sometimes: I just get crickets. Like rejection, you just kind of have to become comfortable with that. Not everything you do, is going to be a hit.
@asbergan Жыл бұрын
One tip that I find particularly useful is remembering key words, phrases or aspect from the other person's story, and then adding it in at the right time when they are talking creating a funny fake end to their story. This not only creates a funny moment, but also reinforces that you have paid attention to them, making you even more likable!
@samuelmerkel28883 жыл бұрын
You know, I'm not gonna lie, I typically don't give these videos much thought. Just watch them for fun. This one? Hilariously enough, super true. I've tried it out a couple times now with the extravagant sarcasm and the subverting expectations in a joke, and it has never failed to get very good reactions
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@Rick-the-Swift2 жыл бұрын
@@nesferd2435 Don't buy into his nonsense. I go to the same school as Samuel and he's one of those annoying people who is constantly trying to be funny by awkwardly inserting his premeditated/rehearsed stories, acting as if they were off the cusp antic dotes, much like Ryan Reynolds does on his little talk show visits. Of course, Ryan Reynolds' audience has a "Laugh" sign to help make his BS sound funny, but not Samuel Merkel. Sam just pretty much makes others around him cringe non-stop.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
@@Rick-the-Swift how to make people laugh? joke is a paradox? "strange" "unusual"?
@Rick-the-Swift2 жыл бұрын
@@nesferd2435 That's correct.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
@@Rick-the-Swift so Ryan is using the same theory that you just confirmed, what's the problem then?
@HoodNerd12 жыл бұрын
You put Ryan Reynolds on my radar. He is lightning fast with the responses, and tactical in his speech. This video made me subscribe.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@peterharrell73053 жыл бұрын
When I focus on amusing myself, people get scared. Which amuses me even more
@tiffanykim27733 жыл бұрын
That sounds funny
@longschlong8463 жыл бұрын
I was arrested for amusing myself on the bus.
@ShirlBussman2 жыл бұрын
@@longschlong846 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and your YT name. 🤣🤣 You might like my channel.
@asktheetruscans98572 жыл бұрын
Norm Macdonald technique
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@NickGalemore2 жыл бұрын
For those who need to hear it: Not every social interaction is a performance. These are paid entertainers doing their job. Paid to be there, paid to play along. For the rest of us that means reading the room and knowing your audience. If you don't know your audience; its better to be forgotten as the quiet fool than it is to be remembered as the try-hard tool.
@JWAM2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention the whole concept of "how to make people like your made-up character that you found instructions for on KZfaq". It's quite worrying to take such measures for the sake of "making people like you".
@daydaydful2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with both of u .. its almost offensive theres a "charisma university" charging you money to help u be a con artist.. im sure 90% of the customers are predators trying to trick ppl into dating them before they realize there with an abusive sociopath.. Oh and one more thing, there aDvertising budget was all dedicated to 10 clips of Ryan Renolds in televised interviews.. im sure scripts arent allowed in these settings with talk show hosts...
@worldlinx2 жыл бұрын
@@daydaydful this is not true, as matter of fact you could be enjoying your conversations way more if you actually follow the above concepts and be a bit more playful with your conversations.
@daydaydful2 жыл бұрын
@@worldlinx thats something u develop naturally over time i dont think they could be practiced and applied in real world scenarios..
@polishedshoescy2 жыл бұрын
@@daydaydful I’m talking out of personal experience. There’s a lot of material and books written over improving social interactions. I have studied and practiced these. :) check out ‘David de Angelo’
@MegaLuros3 жыл бұрын
My friend (let's call him Bob) often exaggerate a lot about how bad his life is as a joke. I introduced it to my other friend (let's call him Jake) and he did this kind of jokes. Later, Jake complained to me how Bob seem to have the worst life in the world and that it was not pleasant to be with him. I was quite surprised, I didn't think anyone would take Bob's jokes seriously. Personally I like when Bob does this kind of jokes but hey maybe careful with this.
@cringenal27073 жыл бұрын
imo, it’s not fun to be around people who only complains about their life. their negativity can be exhausting and it may seem like their looking for attention/pity. rather than complain about their live a lot, i would rather see someone do something about it. life doesn’t get better by chance, it gets better by change.
@MegaLuros3 жыл бұрын
@Aryan SINHA Possibly yeah. Tbh Jake told me this like 2 years after he met Bob, I don't remember the deets of their interactions. I saw what he was talking about though. Sometimes people are just incompatible that's just how it is.
@Riverdale2703 жыл бұрын
Jake is a doofus
@MegaLuros3 жыл бұрын
@@Riverdale270 I'll tell him.
@bobon1233 жыл бұрын
This could really be due to the specific of two groups mixing. If you are with your group of friends, people knowing your sense of humour, you do not need to put heavy signals while being sarcastic, while if you are with new people it is necessary to signal sarcasm more clearly. At the same time, on the receiving end, if you are new in a group you tend to make less assumption and you will be looking more carefully for potential sarcasm. However, this was a peculiar situation: Bob, You, and Jake. Both Bob and Jake feels they are majority: Bob and You, that's 2 over 3. You and Jake, that's also 2 over 3. Improvising an ASCII Venn's diagram (1[1)1]. Bob is used to the fact you know his sense of humour, and he does not feel he has to put strong signals. Jake knows your sense of humour, and he is not expecting the new guy not to follow what he perceives as the "group routines". It's very easy to have misunderstandings in those (1[1)1] situations.
@solomonasine3 жыл бұрын
A free society is a society where it is safe to be unpopular
@Zimboprenuer3 жыл бұрын
The smartest comment i have read for a while
@AlexanderRJaruk3 жыл бұрын
You-sir, are a legend! Unfortunately, we no longer have a free society in the USA.
@-ANT-693 жыл бұрын
never will happen while were alive
@user-qi7kk7su3l3 жыл бұрын
how is this relevant to the video? Also, it's not something you came up with. I have no idea why that guy called you a legend
@solomonasine3 жыл бұрын
@@user-qi7kk7su3l I am sorry if I hurt your feelings. The bottom line of the videos is about attracting people to yourself and making them like you, which inspired my comment. When a statement or quote becomes your mantra or part of your ideology, you don’t always think about its origin. Credit to Adlai Stevenson II.
@acsmith39372 жыл бұрын
You won a thumbs up from me at self amusement. Ppl would say I’m funny and I became that way as a defense mechanism in 2nd grade when I went to a new school. It started for other ppl, but over time, it turned to something I do to entertain myself. I tell ppl, u think I do this for attention, but I really do it because I find it funny. If you laugh, it’s a bonus! Thanks for the vid. I’m becoming more in more interested in WHY something is funny and why something isn’t.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@nylasorj2 жыл бұрын
I went to a job interview. It was a panel interview with about eight people. I was seated at the head of a conference table. After the last person arrived and the door was closed, before anyone said anything, I said, "The reason I've called you all here today . . ." Everybody cracked up, and then they interviewed me. I'm not saying it was my humorous icebreaker that did it, but at the end of the interview I was offered the job. 😁
@daisybuchanan82052 жыл бұрын
That's awesome, congratulations.
@davidogundipe8083 жыл бұрын
I love this channel as it gives you examples of how you should better yourself and how not to overreact to situations.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@vasharal382 жыл бұрын
Ryan is the only Actor that doesn't break from the same act of being him and still makes every movie feel like his a different character. I always enjoy watching movies by him because his sarcasm and humor is one of the best.
@daviddewitt93652 жыл бұрын
If you go back to the days of the old Studios in Hollywood it was all about personality and not necessarily great acting chops. That is, stars were built out of their own personalities and they developed great acting abilities based on themselves. So the biggest stars became brands, using aspects of their core personalities. You can get great performances from actors with range but most are a familiar brand. We accept different James Bond actors only if they play him as themselves and can make Bond believeable. Movie stars always play to their own brand.
@vasharal382 жыл бұрын
@@daviddewitt9365 I see, thanks for sharing that David. That's really interesting. 🤔
@bellakim94043 жыл бұрын
I don't think Ryan's ability to be liked are from a series of tactics, yet it just his amazing personality. He is the full package 🥰
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@mariankeller58522 жыл бұрын
There is nothing like a great sense of humor to put people at ease and make them remember you
@foodytraveller.2 жыл бұрын
My brother is the only person who gets my sarcasm, sadly we grew apart over time and honestly finding someone who gets your sarcastic jokes is quite hard
@opuimor2 жыл бұрын
This made me sad :(
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@sidharthshibi29 күн бұрын
I think one of the key factors which makes Ryan execute his jokes so well is the fact that he doesn't laugh or even show a slight sign of the joke being hilarious. Tbh i would lose it even before i bring up the punch line
@MrSaemichlaus2 жыл бұрын
The best way of acquiring a pro level of sarcastic humor is to learn it as a life-saving coping mechanism when you get bullied at school.
@kenthepen48572 жыл бұрын
Me to. I got the last laugh, my quick one liners and sarcastic replies are now legendary with my friends and, colleagues at work and I can get a laugh out of almost any subject or situation. I'm now well liked and respected, thank you school bullies!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@JoinTheProgress2 жыл бұрын
Two huge problems with this advice: They're using an already-well-liked celebrity to try to teach a technique that works for him regardless, because of who he is. Using celebrities isn't at all representative of real-world situations. And two, a biggie: a ton of people simply don't expect any kind of sarcasm, or so often will not "get it," in many social situations; they're expecting a certain level of cordiality as the accepted behavior, and to go outside of it will work *only* for those who have a ready sense of humor...which a TON of people simply do not have. Countless people do not simply default to humor in interactions with others. Again, it's just not the common mode of behavior for social situations which a lot of people find stressful on some level or another. Some people _do_ have the humor default setting, the more relaxed easy-going people, but how many of those do we find these days.
@kellybarthel80602 жыл бұрын
That and these interviews, they have much of the questions ahead of time and have an outline already, needles to say some are much better at it than others!
@JoinTheProgress2 жыл бұрын
@@ebat5069 I'm already extremely charming and confident, so I don't need your advice. As you can tell. And this response was already in my mind the second I needed it.
@AndreaDingbatt2 жыл бұрын
Oohyeargh?! Me over here, yep Me Me, Me, Me!! ME!! MEEEE!! And I suffer from Depression, No I don't "Try to hide my feelings, Blah, Blah, Blah!" But, I Do love to Squeeze Every last drop of humour out of life that I can. Yes, it's a coping mechanism, so what?! It works for me, it also works for the poor b*stards, that have to be around me as well... A. Dingbatt. Mrs. XxX.
@Junonino2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jackjones94672 жыл бұрын
I use sarcasm so much, some people can't tell the difference between "sarcastic" me, and "regular" me. I could use that sarcasm sign from the BBT clip.
@ballhawk3873 жыл бұрын
This really works when someone asks you what you do for a living, or better yet, what you do, which opens up a world of possibilities.
@rinky_dinky2 жыл бұрын
Just remember though getting some one to like you isn't near enough as important as to get someone to respect you , there's are fine line between being funny and being seen as a joker
@garyfox87013 жыл бұрын
At a party... "are you drinking" Me: "I'm driving... so I can only have 6." [Pints doofus]
@uttermostvids6312 жыл бұрын
6 pints? Gallons death ☠️
@Luis_Prz2 жыл бұрын
Its crazy that I believe I used to do this quite easily back at home with friends but now I feel like I lost this skill... not sure what happened but I will try to regain it. This is amazing and fun!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@cas343 Жыл бұрын
Covid.
@liam90523 жыл бұрын
how to make people like you: be Ryan Reynolds
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@bluejanis53173 жыл бұрын
Anyone else noticed that Ryan himself barely smiles or laughs here?
@shilohsmischief3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I want a professional to weigh in LOL
@randolphpinkle44823 жыл бұрын
Probably tells us that these lines aren't as 'spontaneous' as they seem.
@brando30093 жыл бұрын
His seriousness while saying these absurd things are part of what makes it funny.
@thatboy33 жыл бұрын
Laughing at your own jokes is a good way to make sure other people don't laugh at them.
@coffeync2 жыл бұрын
Straight-face & punchline pauses are such understated talents; the "sound between musical notes" of humor.
@Nmdixon-cu7vm3 жыл бұрын
I first saw Ryan Reynolds in the sitcom “2 guys, a girl and a pizza place” back in the 90’s. Time flies.
@srbaruchi3 жыл бұрын
Have you seen him in "Just Friends"? Oscar performance.
@CreedP13 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I vaguely remember that but hadn't heard of him back then, thanks for the reminder!
@PaperBagProduction2 жыл бұрын
@@srbaruchi Just friends is hands down in my top 3 all time favorite movies!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@katieell40842 жыл бұрын
Same and I remember liking the show and him in particular. Van Wilder locked him in my mind, but I don't think I thought about him until the Deadpool movies started popping up. Nice to see he's still doing stuff.
@gbrian90902 жыл бұрын
Been using this sense of humor all my life and trust me, IT WORKS!!
@russcooke56712 жыл бұрын
And me women love a funny guy.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@RecoMyst3 ай бұрын
Just say the opposite of what people expect.
@thomazplays93053 күн бұрын
No... I think that has many and many exceptions
@Nickcooperrei2 жыл бұрын
The fact he keeps showing Theo shows he knows natural comedy. Theo is funny even when he’s not trying.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@jessicasilas93463 жыл бұрын
Woooow. Just giving my entire personality to people on a platter. Ty ty ty.
@NorseGraphic3 жыл бұрын
When you put all your points in Intelligence and none in Charisma...
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@CountCocofangАй бұрын
You wish.
@pythonxz3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have the same type of personality. Hyperbolic, animated, sarcasm is my go to.
@melonie_peppers3 жыл бұрын
These videos make me feel like an alien trying to be human
@jacktrainer43872 жыл бұрын
Ryan is a master interviewer and performer.
@christiankomodo2 жыл бұрын
Great tips! I agree that Ryan Reynolds is a great one to study for his sense of humor. I would say that these clips are when he is in front of a crowd, and he would probably not hit with so many zingers if he was at dinner with a new friend for instance. Big funny energy is good for a big gathering.
@archity12423 жыл бұрын
BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE
@taylordavidson31163 жыл бұрын
I love your channel! I know you guys already did a video on Aubrey Plaza but could you guys do an in-depth analysis on her and how she is hilarious but is able to keep her mystery at the same time unlike other funny celebrities like Cardi B or Jennifer Lawrence who are also likeable but they aren't mysterious. The fact that more people know Aubrey Plaza from her interviews than the actual film work she's done is definitely proof her charisma trait is something worth diving into !!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@bizcaya2 жыл бұрын
Shout-out to this awesome channel, teaching us how to act like humans since 2014!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?
@mizskerner20043 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos on this topic that I've seen. Great job, great info, thanks!
@elrico13643 жыл бұрын
"I really want you to like me'... a great line
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@deeplyfeminine8652 жыл бұрын
Went to a party. The ppl there were older and good friends. They were just cracking jokes making fun of each other about evthing and anything. It really got me in the mood, and i joined in. Ended up being 1 of the funniest nights, we laughed so hard. Until we got too drunk and sloppy lol
@dew39683 жыл бұрын
"Or even upset with you..." Proceeds to show Sheldon lmaoo
@patriciamartinez85862 жыл бұрын
I wish more people could turn negativity into something funny. I think we'd all be better for it, and those who are negative a lot would have wayyyyy more friends!
@_Thorondor3 жыл бұрын
I've been watching charisma on command for years, I've learned so much, being an introvert, and then finally when I went to this huge party with a lot of people... I realized I really like gin.
@kaleabwaktola9065 Жыл бұрын
Usings will smith's scene from the pursuit of happiness when you were speaking of building a strong enough connection that the person wants to see you again is SO gosh darn relatable because I also feel like crying with happiness when I finish a conversation without making it awkward
@ObservantPiratePlus2 жыл бұрын
When we were kids, our friend group would do drama class scene builds...for fun. So it became just like riding a bike, for all of us. You never forget.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@michaeldwiggins85782 жыл бұрын
My problem isn't with making jokes or getting people to laugh, it's after that when it's time to get closer and changing an acquaintance to a friend. I really feel comfortable being a joker and performing, but I'm not really sure how to go from that to being personal.
@GHOST58000002 жыл бұрын
damn, feel that homie
@wretchedknave57402 жыл бұрын
This comment makes me realize why I have always saved my humour and my real self for those people close to me...
@HopeUnquenchable2 жыл бұрын
Are you curious about the people you meet❓ Because all it really takes is showing a genuine interest in getting to know someone and being candid about yourself while you’re at it 😉
@5481c3 жыл бұрын
“How to make people like you” Step one: be Ryan Reynolds.
@Wesplaylist14 сағат бұрын
He is just naturally that way. Some people have it some people don’t
@lessthanthreemetal2 жыл бұрын
5:48 Ryan's like "alright Jimmy it really wasn't that funny"
@bujinkanatori3 жыл бұрын
I think charisma on command has taught me most of the skills I used to charm my wife (to be) in one day.
@jenniferdonnelly49493 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you both!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@ConnorRK-pn9yj3 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command video of Neal Caffrey from White Collar
@EveryPeachInReach3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!! love him
@Deanforbes2 ай бұрын
Love the idea of turning small talk on its head. It's all about the unexpected.
@tonypony66582 жыл бұрын
"95% of the people who give boring answers." *Shows Tom Hanks in the background*
@anonymous.youtuber2 жыл бұрын
Always trying to be liked leaves you hollow inside in the end. Just be yourself , some people will like you just the way you are.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@djtdawg873 жыл бұрын
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@cheenewah3 жыл бұрын
AGREED!!!
@denawagner3603 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time separating him from his roles in the John Hughes era. He was protrayed as a spineless slime ball, the original trustafarian who just blindly protected his social status. Know it's fictional, not who he was/is, but it defined him for a long time. Guess I should give him the B.O.D. & really watch Blacklist. That many seasons must mean something.
@sarahmclin24343 жыл бұрын
Would love that!
@thatfunnyguy5782 жыл бұрын
I generally don't care if people like me or not but when I do want someone to like me more i make them laugh by saying the last thing they would expect, works every time
@abrar245111 күн бұрын
I was really hyped when I saw this video, not until I realized that I just had to be Ryan Reynolds.
@paulmattle66832 жыл бұрын
My best line was from the question, "Why don't you have any children?" I was 28 at the time and she was older. My reply was, "because I stopped letting men come inside me." That made her laugh harder than I've ever heard a woman laugh. We had the best 1st date, that either of us have ever had. We were together for 3 great years, and remain good friends to this day.
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@KlutzyBoss Жыл бұрын
Why'd ya break up
@Zero-ye6ur Жыл бұрын
@@KlutzyBoss him being infertile must’ve been a dealbreaker
@multivitamin4253 жыл бұрын
Can you make Hannibal Lecter "Unsettling Presence" analysis video? Both Hopkins and Mikkelsen
@senocki232 Жыл бұрын
Well in the young generation we're growing up with you can literally show them a video of falling toast and it'll leave them chuckling for centuries.
@JeffRAX3 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself and be nice and a good person. That's how you win.
@Lastofhiskind-00Ай бұрын
Yes be a pathetic, only nice person.
@picturebreakdown3 жыл бұрын
Mad respect for the truly loyal fans who got here early enough to see this
@Bible_Theory3 жыл бұрын
Man
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@LateshaRenee2 жыл бұрын
None of us will ever be as funny as him 😂
@Stephanie-lg1cm3 жыл бұрын
Yes I am now totally in love with Ryan Reynolds, it really works!
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@RyanLoetscher2 жыл бұрын
The thing you're forgetting here, he's naturally funny and charismatic. Its a talent he was born with and does for a living at the highest level. If you try to force a type of personality you are not you'll come off fake and trying to hard and people will like you less. The thought that you can be as funny and charming as Ryan Reynolds with "practice" is a flawed one. Instead, how bout you be yourself, find the people that like you as yourself and laugh at the jokes that already come naturally for you and hang out with those people.you'll be much happier than practicing hard to be somebody else in all social situation to find "friends" that you have to act for every time. sounds exhausting.
@hazzbberry2 жыл бұрын
Thats what step 4 is for... Focus on self amusement. If you're not having fun and treating like work it's not going to be a good time
@oliverford53672 жыл бұрын
You can be better tho. I'm sure he practices and thinks of his jokes ahead of time
@Nycolas99292 жыл бұрын
Charisma and charm can be learned. But you don’t need to have the charisma of Ryan Reynolds. Just start practicing social skills. Have more conversations with people and try to correct yourself after each step of the process, remembering always that you will not win everyone, and you should not to. With time, you will found a natural charisma of you, a charisma that will not be necessarily equal of the Ryan Reynolds, but yes a charisma that you are comfortable to, something that is not based on people’s opinions. Do that, and you will be in “charisma ville”.
@amandastethem622 жыл бұрын
He was born with it! Due to the planetary and celestial alignments at play at the time of his birth. Myself and anyone else I've met with a very similar birth chart to ours is naturally this way. However, it is not celebrated by everyone and in my case it is considered a character flaw and a behavioral disorder. So I agree with ya 100%.
@elizabethaso12772 жыл бұрын
@@hazzbberry For me, this is the only step in the video with any value. A step by step guide to make people like you is unhealthy and useless. It's best to work on liking yourself, so when you truly know who you are, that natural calmness will come and you will be relaxed enough to enjoy yourself in conversation with people. And, by extension, people will enjoy themselves in conversation with you. A nervous little person running around trying too hard to be memorable is a turn off.
@joeyfigueroa47483 жыл бұрын
Anyone else wanna see him as Johnny Cage? Yes yes Van Damme would be perfect but we all know that'd be too good to be true.
@N.J2373 жыл бұрын
Van Damme is like 70 years old by nowXD
@Joe-gu8hg3 жыл бұрын
*y e s*
@anhumblemessengerofthelawo38583 жыл бұрын
_the book is better_
@orilevi11232 жыл бұрын
Hello, fellow human. I am also human, and I enjoy these "jokes" things you explain about in this video. Thank you for doing so. (Just a reminder: I am a human.)
@nesferd24352 жыл бұрын
*Do you mean absurdity by exaggeration?*
@m.o.s.h.18362 жыл бұрын
being funny is a talent.
@Germanicus_Daimetor3 жыл бұрын
Ryan Reynolds and Chris Pratt! Legendary!
@BigBass-xf5yi3 жыл бұрын
It would also be cool for people if they were simple confident in using their own “ personalities” instead of somebody else’s.
@kennardwillard52322 жыл бұрын
More like somebody else's personalities for inspiration though
@ThiccNutTimmy4 ай бұрын
do you think comedians just spring personality without honing it?
@ChiTownChei2 жыл бұрын
We love Ryan. My 3 year old loves Ryan. Period. He's just cool.
@chuckfrench6082 жыл бұрын
All jokes are at someone else's expense. However, notice how much of Ryan Reynold's jokes are self-deprecating. No one else is the butt of a lot of his jokes and he comes off as being nice because he is not insulting someone else or a group of people. It is also very humbling.
@TodAG693 жыл бұрын
Tried the priming method by watching a comedian I find funny. Andrew Dice Clay was a bad choice before a job interview. Oh!
@elreyabeja45392 жыл бұрын
"Focus on self-amusement and having a good time" This is the ultimate advice for every aspect of life.
@thomasmartin34712 жыл бұрын
Hes an actor/selling brand ryan reynolds and he's rehearsed these lines to perfection..if u buy into this it's like buying any product
@Triptherapie2 жыл бұрын
This is such a good channel to become what you're not :)
@neetard73602 жыл бұрын
My humor is simple I say what makes me laugh & by some divine miracle I'm not the only one crazy enough to enjoy it
@louis_costa3 жыл бұрын
Imagine a world, or town, where everyone you meet reminds you of Ryan Reynolds.
@hexeeboldchannel32463 жыл бұрын
7:13 alternate universe where Ryan is the English voice actor for dio:
@bobthemonkey991811 күн бұрын
Welcome to another video where we study the natural behavior of the unique species, "Ryan Reynolds".